Perfectly Explained
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Summary
In this episode, I talk about the parallels between therapy culture and religion, and how therapy has replaced religion for modern women, and why this is a bad thing. I also talk about why therapy culture has become religion.
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i do think this is kind of a cliche thing to say now but i do think therapy culture has replaced
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religion um and that's not a new thing to say people have been saying that for a long time so
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christopher lash was writing about that in the 70s uh frank ferrudi writes about it really well now
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but in recent years since social media i would say therapy culture has just escalated um to the
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the point where I think young women don't see it as a worldview they just see that as kind of life
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so they interpret everything through this therapeutic lens so their lives their relationships
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their emotions um and I think it has elevated to the level of religion um so you think of you think
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of all the kind of characteristics of religion we just mimic them with therapy culture so instead
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of praying we just repeat our like positive affirmations um instead of like seeking salvation
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you'll go on like a healing journey um instead of like you know resisting temptation from the devil
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you'll reframe your intrusive thoughts um and so i think for young women in particular who are
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becoming less religious this kind of therapeutic worldview has completely replaced that void
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she's a very smart young lady and she's correct therapy has become religion for many modern women
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because it's built on emotionalism and more than that it's it's free of consequences because
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nothing is considered objectively wrong or evil unless it makes you feel bad and so uh everyone
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is religious right it's it's not whether you will worship it's which god you will worship
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and whether that God is legitimate or illegitimate. And so therapy functions kind of like
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pornography. It's an illegitimate outlet for a legitimate need. And so people should seek
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spiritual guidance. They should seek accountability. They should seek out healing.
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But Christianity is the only legitimate outlet for that legitimate spiritual need. Not therapy,
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not new age mysticism, not Hinduism, not self-help spirituality. And so very good thought.
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And her parallels that she does to religion were spot on. I would just add one more,
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that instead of going to a pastor or a priest for confession and absolution,
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these women are going to a therapist for validation and for pills.
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