Dale Partridge - February 25, 2025


Romans 13_8-10 The Unpayable Debt of Love


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In this episode, Pastor Ken teaches a sermon on the theology of authority and the role of the church in society. God has restored the authority that was lost in the fall through Adam, and through the Great Commission, He has restored it to His own Son, Jesus Christ!

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00:00:00.000 Amen. Well, what a blessing it is to preach this powerful passage of scripture that was
00:00:15.500 more difficult than I expected. For the past several weeks, we have learned about the intersection
00:00:22.820 between the family, the church, and the state.
00:00:28.860 We've called them the spheres of sovereignty.
00:00:32.220 I offered a sermon on the theology of authority,
00:00:36.580 where I talked about how Jesus reclaimed the earthly authority
00:00:41.260 that was lost in the fall through Adam.
00:00:44.820 We also discussed how that authority has been restored in Christ,
00:00:49.980 And it is why, in the Great Commission, Jesus says,
00:00:53.840 All authority has now been given to me.
00:00:56.520 Go, therefore, and disciple the nations.
00:01:00.920 In other words, in the gospel, the authority has been restored and sanctified,
00:01:06.620 and now all authority flows from Christ.
00:01:10.880 Now, we learn that authority and civil government are inherently good.
00:01:15.440 They are intrinsically good in and of themselves.
00:01:18.640 They are part of God's design to punish evil, to reward what is good, and to maintain order in society.
00:01:26.660 Now, we also learned that while God is the source of all authority or power,
00:01:32.700 that we have to learn how to separate power from persons.
00:01:36.500 And that essentially, persons can be corrupted, which is called tyranny.
00:01:41.960 When rulers are not ruling according to God's law, we call that tyrannical.
00:01:47.160 now we have the freedom in god's word to resist tyranny we are called to reject tyranny and to
00:01:59.020 obey god but we are also called to obey just and right authority even if it is in opposition with
00:02:09.820 our own desires. Now, if we refuse, God promises in chapter 13 that he will use civil authorities
00:02:18.340 to bring his wrath and his judgment upon us. If you want to disobey one of the civil magistrate's
00:02:26.980 rightful legislative laws, God can and might punish you for that reality.
00:02:35.720 Now part of our submission was to give these authorities what is owed to them
00:02:43.080 In verse 7 Paul told us, render therefore to all what is owed
00:02:48.920 Taxes to whom taxes are owed, customs to whom customs are owed
00:02:54.140 Fear to whom fear is owed and honor to whom honor is owed
00:02:58.720 Today in verses 8 through 10 we shift from our obligations to authorities
00:03:05.380 and now our obligations to one another.
00:03:08.720 That is the shift that is occurring in this transition.
00:03:12.640 So in verse 7, it was give to the authorities what is owed.
00:03:16.600 But in verse 8, it is saying, follow along.
00:03:21.800 Oh, no one, anything except love to one another.
00:03:27.600 For he who loves another has fulfilled the law.
00:03:31.100 i'll tell you what this is a very difficult passage because there is a lot of camps of
00:03:38.120 interpretation on it there are two primary views on this passage and i'm going to give them both
00:03:45.980 to you the first is that this passage oh no one anything except to love one another is saying
00:03:54.100 there is a complete prohibition on christians borrowing or accumulating debt
00:04:00.740 some of the most profound theologians that you all respect have landed at that position too.
00:04:07.360 So it's not like a strange position. Great Puritan thought leaders, some great, you know,
00:04:14.280 18th, 19th century reformers have landed at that position. That would mean no mortgages,
00:04:21.580 no credit cards, no loans. The second position at which I hold to is that Christians should hold 0.99
00:04:31.380 or should not withhold any man their due. Now it's going to take me a minute to bring out the
00:04:38.520 exposition on this position. So just bear with me for a minute. Calvin says, quote, the apostle does
00:04:44.820 not forbid us to contract debts, but requires us to render to every man his due so that no one
00:04:51.280 should be defrauded, end quote. So the rationale for this position is that borrowing and lending
00:04:58.020 are consistently permitted throughout the Old and New Testament. So when we think about something
00:05:06.960 isolated, it's easy to come to a particular conclusion if you don't take into consideration
00:05:13.720 the whole counsel of the Word of God. Now, when you look at the whole counsel of the Word of God
00:05:18.500 on the matter of lending, of debt, of loans, of borrowing, you quickly realize that this passage
00:05:26.060 interpreted in the first view would come into conflict with the rest of the Bible. And I'm
00:05:30.760 going to give you a handful of verses, but Jesus, for example, in Matthew 542 says, give to the one
00:05:36.320 who begs from you and do not refuse the one who would borrow from you. End quote. Deuteronomy 15,
00:05:42.880 seven through eight speaks on those who are in the covenant. And it says, you shall not harden
00:05:47.540 your heart or shut your hand against your poor brother, but you shall be open or you shall open
00:05:53.040 your hand to him, generosity, and lend to him, loan, a sufficiency for his need, whatever it
00:06:02.860 may be, end quote. Psalm 37, 21 says, the wicked borrows, but does not pay back. Okay, so I think
00:06:13.700 that really is the crux of what Paul is getting to in this particular verse. Do not owe and be
00:06:21.560 unable to pay back. That's the principle I think at hand here. Do not owe and be unable to pay back.
00:06:30.840 Now you might be thinking, well, wait a second, Dale, I'm looking at the verse here in verse eight.
00:06:34.860 And if Paul really means do not withhold a man's due, then why does he say, except to love one
00:06:40.700 another. Are we supposed to withhold love too? You're going to get into like a logical,
00:06:45.900 linguistic conundrum. If you just kind of go on that passage of scripture, I was doing this
00:06:52.120 as I was studying. No, this is the crux. This is the key to understanding this passage of
00:06:57.280 scripture. Now, Paul is saying, pay attention here, do not borrow and be unable to pay back.
00:07:04.240 the only time you can be unable to pay back is with the debt of love which can never be paid back
00:07:12.920 okay it takes a bit to get there but that is what this passage is saying the only time you can
00:07:21.100 be unable to pay back is with the debt of love which is unable to ever be fully paid back so
00:07:30.120 there are two lessons, two lessons here. First, it is not inherently sinful to borrow money.
00:07:37.480 I will say that. But it is sinful to have debts that are not paid unless it is the debt of love
00:07:45.060 in which we are all in debt and unable to pay back. Second, love is the currency that should
00:07:52.820 always be in circulation. This is the currency that should be in circulation among one another,
00:07:58.320 A debt that can never be fully repaid, but continually owed to one another.
00:08:05.020 So then in the second half of verse 8, we see the word for.
00:08:08.660 Now we are smart Bible interpreters here.
00:08:10.980 We understand grammar.
00:08:12.420 We know that the word for is a signal that you're about to have an explanation.
00:08:17.260 Whenever you see the word for, it's an explanation clause.
00:08:21.480 And so it tells us, for he who loves another has fulfilled the law.
00:08:28.320 So Jesus tells us that the sum of the law is to what?
00:08:32.980 It's to love God and love neighbor.
00:08:36.120 That's the sum of the law.
00:08:38.420 Now our duty as Christians is to love.
00:08:41.840 Your duty as a Christian is to love.
00:08:43.940 To love like we owe it to people.
00:08:47.240 To love like we are indebted to one another.
00:08:50.840 To love like we are indebted to God because we are.
00:08:53.960 we are indebted to love one another because of the love of God given to us in Christ
00:09:00.260 1 John 4 11 gives us the reason for our indebtedness it says beloved if God so loved us
00:09:07.320 we also ought to love one another right fundamentals basics you start to see that Paul is
00:09:14.280 in alignment with the systematic teaching on this particular matter Jesus in John 13 34 to 35 says
00:09:20.340 quote, a new commandment I give to you, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you,
00:09:27.020 you also are to love one another. But notice that Paul does not tell us that law keeping
00:09:36.360 is what fulfills the law, but love. He's not talking about moralism. It's not law keeping
00:09:46.480 that fulfills the law. It's love that fulfills
00:09:50.540 the law. I appreciate what Calvin
00:09:54.660 said on the verse. He says, quote, Paul's design is to
00:09:58.500 reduce all the precepts of the law down to love
00:10:02.340 so that we may know we are rightly obeying the
00:10:06.440 commandments when we are maintaining love for God and for
00:10:10.520 men. I don't know about you, but it can become difficult
00:10:14.520 constantly interpreting if the way that I'm behaving is actually according to God's will.
00:10:19.140 The greatest way to determine that is to kind of dumb down everything.
00:10:25.000 Am I loving God and loving people?
00:10:28.560 I know it's difficult when you're in a particular complex situation to determine,
00:10:33.380 am I doing God's will?
00:10:35.740 The question may be unable to be answered clearly with the kind of surrounding realities.
00:10:44.520 But what you could ask yourself is, am I loving God and man in this particular decision?
00:10:52.420 And I think that's a really simple and very helpful way to examine motive.
00:10:58.200 Is what you're doing loving?
00:11:03.860 Calvin's observation, I believe, is confirmed in the next verse when Paul sums up and says in verse 9,
00:11:09.660 for the commandments quote you shall not commit adultery or you shall not murder you shall not
00:11:16.140 steal you should not bear false witness which is lying you should not covet and if there is
00:11:23.080 any other commandment all are summed up in this saying namely you shall love your neighbor as
00:11:30.320 yourself. In verse 10, he says, love does no harm to a neighbor. Therefore, love is the fulfillment
00:11:40.640 of the law. There's some rich theological depth here. You're welcome to continue to study this
00:11:47.120 on your own. I'm going to try to pull out a little bit of it for you. Again, we see that
00:11:51.940 this passage begins with the word for again. This is important. Again, we are smart Bible
00:11:57.880 interpreters we don't want to be 10 20 30 years in and not understand how grammar works so that
00:12:03.700 we can make right and faithful interpretations of the scripture and so when we see the word for
00:12:08.660 it's a term of explanation you can almost sometimes put the word because in place of for
00:12:13.760 but we start off with chapter 9 or verse 9 with for the commandments well you go oh what is he
00:12:19.420 talking about so if you go up to verse 8 oh no one anything except to love one another for he who
00:12:25.960 loves one another has fulfilled the law term of explanation for the commandments you shall not
00:12:33.120 commit adultery shall not murder you shall not steal you should not bear false witness
00:12:36.880 you shall not covet he's going on bringing explanation to what he said
00:12:40.960 that is this is an explanation or the rationale for the phrase for he who loves another has
00:12:52.260 fulfilled the law. What does that mean? Okay, the Ten Commandments, just a little bit of theology
00:13:01.460 here, is broken up into what's called two tables of the law. The first table is the first four
00:13:06.760 commandments and our relationship with God. The second table is the last six commandments and
00:13:12.520 it's our relationship to one another. And so you might hear a theologian talk about the first table
00:13:16.740 or the second table of the law. And that's what they mean by those realities. Now, Paul cites
00:13:22.820 commandments six through 10, which is, he leaves out honor your father and mother, which is kind
00:13:29.040 of a unique law because it has to do really with the family. But he's dealing with commandments
00:13:36.260 six through 10, which make up basically the entire second table of the law, speaking to how
00:13:42.260 we should deal with one another outside of a family unit. And the point that Paul is trying
00:13:47.100 to make is that to love is to law keep and to law keep is to love. Okay. To love is to law keep
00:13:56.360 and to law keep is to love. Now, if you have a perverted view of love or law keeping,
00:14:03.300 then you mess this up. But if you have a biblical view of love and of law keeping,
00:14:07.540 then this gets really clear quickly.
00:14:11.360 He's not calling for moralism.
00:14:13.940 He's not also calling for legalism.
00:14:17.320 Christ has fulfilled the law on our behalf.
00:14:20.240 All righteousness has been fulfilled in Christ keeping the law perfectly
00:14:25.180 in which we receive that righteous record given to us by faith.
00:14:29.720 So we are justified.
00:14:31.500 We are perfect law keepers not by our own works
00:14:34.320 but by the perfect work of Christ.
00:14:37.540 Which is wonderful, right?
00:14:39.080 So we don't have to work for salvation.
00:14:41.860 We work from salvation, which is a big distinction in the way and the reason that we obey.
00:14:48.660 And so Paul is calling for love that is displayed in obedience toward your neighbor.
00:14:56.220 A form of love, a form of obedience that is displayed in your relationship to your neighbor by law keeping.
00:15:07.000 By loving, they're the same thing.
00:15:09.900 To love is to law keep.
00:15:11.180 To law keep is to love.
00:15:13.160 Again, if you have it in the right Christian framework.
00:15:16.280 It's not moralism.
00:15:18.380 It's I'm loving God.
00:15:19.820 I'm loving others because God loved me.
00:15:23.840 It's allowing the works and the love for others to overflow from the love of God given to you.
00:15:31.320 You may have heard me say, a great way to love your neighbor is to make sure it's illegal for
00:15:36.020 them to kill their baby. A great way to love your neighbor is to make sure that it's illegal to
00:15:42.520 commit adultery. A great way to love your neighbor is to make sure that they are not ruled by pagan
00:15:49.800 God-hating politicians. It's a great way to love your neighbor is to actually
00:15:56.820 produce a society which is in alignment with God's law.
00:16:06.200 That is to say, true love seeks God's standard of good.
00:16:12.560 True love seeks God's standard of good, his law, and he seeks it for others.
00:16:19.700 I seek God's standards of love and good for others who are not even saved.
00:16:27.300 I want this city to be ruled by Christian laws and principles.
00:16:32.220 I want this nation to be ruled by Christian laws and principles.
00:16:35.660 I think it is the best thing for the Muslim. 0.51
00:16:37.820 I think it is the best thing for the Hindu and the best thing for the atheist that this nation is ran by people who are Christian.
00:16:45.560 It is a loving thing, a good thing.
00:16:49.080 And that is in alignment with God's law, which is loving.
00:16:54.780 This is why I believe Christians ought to be theonomists,
00:16:58.640 what we call general equity theonomists.
00:17:01.180 It's not a theocracy, it's a theonomy.
00:17:03.900 A theonomy is that we take the general principles and extract them from God's law
00:17:07.520 and apply them to the modern legislative realities.
00:17:11.340 We want to be theonomists.
00:17:13.200 Because if we don't base man's laws off of God's law,
00:17:18.620 what are we basing on? Ourselves. We become a law unto ourselves. No, we should have every law
00:17:25.340 that we have should be based in scripture. We should have arbitrary laws that we create. No,
00:17:31.940 we need to be fighting as Christians to make sure that the laws, the government is in submission
00:17:37.120 and alignment with God's will. Now, loving people through law is an important argument for a culture
00:17:47.260 who first hates God's law and thinks that it's evil, and a church who calls obedience legalism.
00:17:55.940 Okay, we got two enemies, two foes. You got one side where you got the world that says
00:18:00.320 God's law is wicked because it doesn't allow me to do what I want to do. And then in the church,
00:18:07.100 you get a whole group of people that says your calling for law-keeping and obedience is legalism.
00:18:11.920 okay i forgot the phrase but it's like for most people legalism is when someone tells me to do
00:18:18.600 anything i don't want to do um that that's pretty common in the church you tell someone to obey
00:18:23.380 and they go legalism no you would never survive in the pearson era under that perspective
00:18:30.820 paying back the debt of love paying back the debt of love which we can never be
00:18:39.140 fully paid back
00:18:40.820 because it's the amount of debt
00:18:42.880 we are in through Christ
00:18:44.000 requires Christians to uphold
00:18:46.620 and promote God's standard of righteousness
00:18:48.520 toward God and toward others.
00:18:50.840 Now honestly, I would argue that
00:18:52.560 law keeping is a great way
00:18:54.580 of modeling Christ's love.
00:18:57.460 Again, we
00:18:58.120 you know, what would Jesus do?
00:19:02.720 We want to follow Christ.
00:19:04.120 We want to model Christ.
00:19:05.480 You want to know a great way to model Christ?
00:19:07.360 is keep the law.
00:19:10.360 Now, you're not keeping the law to earn justification.
00:19:12.660 That's a key point.
00:19:14.040 You're not keeping the law to be a moralist, to be a legalist.
00:19:17.300 You're keeping the law to love the Lord.
00:19:20.860 It's a great way to model Christ.
00:19:22.880 Who kept the law perfectly?
00:19:24.820 Jesus.
00:19:25.520 So if you want to be like Jesus, then try to keep the law.
00:19:28.440 Now, again, you'll never be able to keep the law.
00:19:30.460 We know that we all fail.
00:19:32.520 He who fails at one point has become guilty of all of it,
00:19:35.000 is what James says.
00:19:36.700 We need the righteousness of Christ.
00:19:38.420 It doesn't mean that we just kind of give up on the law.
00:19:41.920 No.
00:19:45.180 Christ secured our salvation through keeping the law.
00:19:51.240 Again, our law keeping does not secure, it does not maintain, it does not sustain our salvation.
00:19:58.560 None of it.
00:20:00.360 Six times in the book of John, Jesus speaks of the relationship of law and obedience.
00:20:05.700 John 14 through 15, it says, if you love me, you'll keep my commandments.
00:20:11.840 If you love me, you'll keep my commandments.
00:20:15.500 Now, I don't think that this is necessarily a contingency phrase.
00:20:18.500 I think this is more of an observation.
00:20:20.280 Those people who love me, they'll keep my commandments.
00:20:22.720 I think that's really what it should be read.
00:20:26.100 John 14, 21, whoever has my commandments and keeps them, he it is who loves me.
00:20:32.640 There's another way of kind of seeing the observation nature of it.
00:20:34.900 See those law keepers over there who do it from love, from gospel motivation, resting in Christ?
00:20:42.480 Those are mine.
00:20:45.760 It's not a contingency like, hey, if you stop keeping the law, you're out, man.
00:20:49.660 You failed.
00:20:51.040 It's not a contingency.
00:20:52.420 If you don't keep the law, you've lost your salvation.
00:20:54.540 That's not what's being said here.
00:20:58.960 John 14, 23.
00:21:00.200 If anyone loves me, he will keep my word, and my Father will love him.
00:21:07.060 And we will come to him and make our home with him.
00:21:09.820 John 14, 24
00:21:10.820 Whoever does not love me does not keep my words.
00:21:19.880 John 15, 10
00:21:21.120 If you keep my commandments, you will abide in my love, just as I have kept my Father's commandments and abide in his love.
00:21:28.300 Huh!
00:21:28.580 Sounds like I want to be like Christ
00:21:31.300 So if you're going to be like Christ
00:21:33.620 What do you get to do? 0.50
00:21:34.360 Well it says it right here
00:21:35.160 If you keep my commandments
00:21:36.200 You will abide in my love
00:21:37.720 Just as I have kept my father's commandments
00:21:40.700 And abide in his love
00:21:42.240 Now the greatest way to abide in the commandments
00:21:47.360 Is to abide in Christ
00:21:48.520 Okay
00:21:49.820 You have to divide these things
00:21:51.680 Quickly you become a legalist if you don't
00:21:54.860 And then if you don't
00:21:57.240 if you fall in the other ditch,
00:21:59.360 you're going to become antinomian, 0.93
00:22:01.040 which is anti-law Christianity. 0.91
00:22:03.500 So you've got to run down the narrow, 0.85
00:22:06.380 knowing that we want to keep the law,
00:22:08.580 but it doesn't justify us.
00:22:11.020 Knowing that we love the law,
00:22:14.080 but it is not our salvation.
00:22:19.600 Knowing that if we hate the law,
00:22:23.300 we will fail in our obedience and loving others.
00:22:25.440 and all of these dimensions are vital to interpret clearly
00:22:31.020 John 15 14 you are my friends
00:22:35.140 if you do what I command you so again too often
00:22:39.220 we abuse we abuse grace this was certainly
00:22:43.300 a problem in the early church Paul speaks to it pretty often Romans chapter
00:22:47.200 6 verse 14 should we keep on sinning that grace may abound
00:22:51.180 certainly not but the point is
00:22:55.220 in that verse, grace does abound.
00:23:00.280 And the reality is, you do keep sinning.
00:23:04.360 But Paul's talking about, should you intentionally?
00:23:07.740 There was a group, the antinomians, that were actually saying, let's be as bad as we can
00:23:11.620 be, because if the worse we are, it will actually
00:23:15.320 magnify God's grace. How amazingly stupid that is. 1.00
00:23:19.780 god's god's law is so good or sorry god's grace is so good i'm gonna actually be so bad to show 1.00
00:23:29.080 how good it is because look grace will cover it all and and truly i it will but that's not
00:23:37.300 what jesus taught or what paul is teaching
00:23:39.860 should we keep on sinning that grace may abound no no keep the commandments
00:23:47.940 not for justification i'm not calling for people to go and keep keep all the festivals and all the
00:23:54.960 things that have been fulfilled in christ i'm not i'm talking about the moral law the decalogue
00:23:59.740 The Ten Commandments.
00:24:06.480 We also need to be reminded of the words of Jesus in Matthew 5, 17.
00:24:11.920 Do not think that I have come to abolish the law or the prophets.
00:24:14.840 I have not come to abolish them, but to fulfill them.
00:24:19.060 Okay.
00:24:20.400 This is a very important verse.
00:24:23.160 That is, the righteous requirement of the law has been fulfilled in Christ.
00:24:28.180 Jesus didn't just come to die for you.
00:24:29.900 He also came to live for you.
00:24:31.920 He didn't just come to die for your sins.
00:24:33.940 He came to live to make you righteous,
00:24:36.240 to meet the righteous requirement of the law that you can't keep.
00:24:42.820 But the standard of the law is still here.
00:24:48.960 What is the law doing?
00:24:49.940 If Christ didn't abolish the law but fulfilled it,
00:24:55.320 what does that mean?
00:24:57.580 Well, it means the law is still here, and it's doing something.
00:25:01.420 Well, what is it doing?
00:25:02.900 Well, it's condemning sinners, that's for sure.
00:25:05.480 It's reminding us of the state of grace that we are in.
00:25:10.780 I'll tell you what, because the law is still out there condemning sinners,
00:25:14.200 it reminds me, such were some of you.
00:25:18.500 I used to be wicked.
00:25:21.880 I used to not think soberly about the standard of righteousness.
00:25:27.580 that God has. God didn't come through Christ to abolish the law, but to fulfill it. Now,
00:25:36.420 the law is still good. It's so good that Christ kept it. It's good for society.
00:25:43.020 It's not how we're justified, but it's good for society. It's good for us to uphold.
00:25:51.280 Now, since we're talking about love, I want to just shift for a second
00:25:54.000 to a little bit more practical and I think pastoral
00:25:56.600 on what I believe is the test of true love.
00:26:01.720 In my experience, a person's love for their neighbor
00:26:04.020 is often more reliable of a measure
00:26:06.240 than a person's love for God.
00:26:10.620 And I'll explain why and what I mean by that.
00:26:13.200 I believe that looking at someone's love for their neighbor
00:26:16.500 is more revealing and more telling
00:26:19.480 than looking at someone and trying to determine their love for God.
00:26:25.560 Let me explain.
00:26:27.600 Anyone can display love for God through religious acts.
00:26:31.020 It's very difficult to determine the motive, the intention of the heart.
00:26:35.840 Man cannot look at the heart, but we only see the outside.
00:26:39.520 But when it comes to a person's relationship with other people,
00:26:43.580 those actions are more easily tested because they are felt.
00:26:48.300 They are experienced.
00:26:49.820 They are seen.
00:26:51.720 They are observed.
00:26:54.000 We can see it in our kids.
00:26:56.080 We can see it in one another.
00:26:58.540 The vast majority of gossip in the church is around this particular matter.
00:27:04.320 The point is, is that if you actually love God, you'll actually love people.
00:27:10.520 If you actually love God, you'll actually be patient with people.
00:27:14.920 If you actually love God, you'll actually be kind to people.
00:27:17.840 If you actually love God, you'll actually be joyful toward others.
00:27:23.200 If you actually love God, you'll actually seek peace with other people.
00:27:28.780 If you actually love God, it'll show in how you treat other people.
00:27:33.840 It is the revelation, the mirror, the response, the reflection.
00:27:39.420 It's easier to see.
00:27:42.540 1 John 4.20 says, 0.94
00:27:44.060 If anyone says, I love God and hates his brother, he's a liar.
00:27:50.580 For he who does not love his brother, whom he has seen, cannot love God, who he has not seen.
00:27:59.040 There's a person in my life, not a member of this church, who calls themselves a Christian,
00:28:04.420 but the pattern of their behavior toward others gives me serious doubts.
00:28:07.300 again the only reason and the only way that we can examine somebody else's state
00:28:13.520 is by their fruit we've given no other metric by god to determine if someone is a believer
00:28:21.140 other than profession of faith and fruit i don't know where your heart is there are probably lots
00:28:27.140 of people who i don't think are saved or saved and there are probably lots of people who i i think
00:28:31.320 are saved and aren't saved. That's why Jesus says, don't separate, uh, the, the wheat from the
00:28:39.440 tares. You're going to, you can mess it up. Wait until I return and I will separate them because
00:28:46.100 I can see clearly. So we don't know we're bad judges, uh, bad judges of this type of reality.
00:28:55.000 But that being said, this person in my life does not operate toward others in a way
00:28:59.700 that seeks to pay back a debt of love.
00:29:03.160 Rather, they operate in a way that seeks to extract
00:29:06.120 what they believe is owed to them.
00:29:10.800 Think about that for a minute.
00:29:14.320 That is two radically different ways of operating.
00:29:22.800 Do you seek to pay back a debt of love?
00:29:25.360 or do you seek to extract what you believe is owed to you?
00:29:34.100 Is that principle in your life in any way?
00:29:40.180 We see this in entitlement and bitterness,
00:29:44.920 complaining, frustration, anger.
00:29:53.140 These people are ungrateful.
00:29:55.360 they operate from a place of scarcity which reveals they do not have the riches of Christ.
00:30:02.680 Key point.
00:30:04.320 They operate from a place of scarcity
00:30:07.120 which reveals that they don't have the riches of Christ.
00:30:16.660 You know when you meet someone who knows Christ
00:30:19.520 because they operate from a reservoir of riches.
00:30:25.360 they're not constantly pulling from you.
00:30:32.080 They're actually trying to give.
00:30:34.880 They're trying to overflow into your life.
00:30:40.200 The born-again believer does not operate in a pattern of bitterness or grumbling or ungratefulness
00:30:46.240 because they see themselves as unworthy heirs of the kingdom of God.
00:30:50.160 Now, I'm going to read a passage of Scripture.
00:30:57.160 Let me pull it up real quick here.
00:31:02.280 It's long.
00:31:03.720 Not that long.
00:31:06.360 Ephesians chapter 1, if you want to follow along with me, it's verse 3 through probably 14.
00:31:14.160 It says,
00:31:14.940 Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ
00:31:18.300 who has blessed us in Christ
00:31:20.760 with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places
00:31:22.880 even as he chose us
00:31:25.100 there's a blessing
00:31:26.460 in him before the foundation of the world
00:31:28.840 should put you in awe
00:31:29.800 that we should be holy and blameless before him
00:31:32.740 praise the Lord
00:31:33.400 in love he predestined us for adoption to himself
00:31:37.080 amazing
00:31:38.000 as sons through Jesus Christ
00:31:40.180 according to the purpose of his will
00:31:41.920 to the praise of his grace
00:31:43.480 with which he has blessed us in the beloved too much.
00:31:49.020 In him, we have redemption through his blood.
00:31:51.460 There's a blessing.
00:31:52.440 The forgiveness of our trespasses, another blessing.
00:31:55.140 According to the riches of his grace,
00:31:56.700 which he lavished upon us in all wisdom and insight,
00:32:00.460 making known to us the mystery of his will
00:32:02.380 according to his purpose,
00:32:03.520 which he set forth in Christ
00:32:04.920 as a plan for the fullness of time
00:32:07.140 to unite all things in him,
00:32:09.480 things in heaven and things on earth.
00:32:11.120 okay this is already starting to get overwhelming overwhelming in him we have obtained an inheritance
00:32:20.480 more blessing having been predestined according to the purpose of him who works all things
00:32:26.920 according to the counsel of his will so that purpose clause so that we who were first to
00:32:35.060 hope in Christ might be to the praise of his glory.
00:32:39.600 In him you also, when you heard the word of truth, the gospel
00:32:43.120 of your salvation, more blessing, and believed in him
00:32:46.980 were sealed with the promise of the Holy Spirit, more blessing, who is the guarantee
00:32:51.260 of our inheritance, more blessing, until we acquire possession of it to the praise
00:32:55.220 of his glory.
00:33:00.220 What do you do with that?
00:33:01.300 the well-fed man
00:33:06.320 does not beg for scraps
00:33:08.920 the well-fed man does not beg for scraps
00:33:12.920 they offer the bread freely
00:33:14.780 and likewise the man or woman who has Christ
00:33:16.840 does not demand and take from others
00:33:19.480 instead they delight in giving
00:33:22.580 knowing that they lack nothing
00:33:24.800 and that they owe everything in love
00:33:27.080 that's a shift
00:33:30.040 is that your life and yes you know what there are times where we do need from the body but we do it
00:33:41.280 because it's real not because we're entitled for it not because we we we're asking for it when we
00:33:47.940 don't really need it no every one of us has needs there's no weakness in asking for help in time of
00:33:56.980 need. That's not what I'm talking about. Believers do not have conditional generosity or conditional
00:34:07.360 kindness or conditional joy or conditional love. We have unconditional joy and unconditional love
00:34:15.180 and unconditional kindness. There is no circumstances or conditions by which will
00:34:20.760 change our joy and our hope and our generosity and our love to one another because we are
00:34:26.420 resting upon Christ who is
00:34:28.560 in an immovable condition.
00:34:32.540 Unconditional.
00:34:34.420 You can operate the same in all circumstances
00:34:36.620 because Christ is fixed.
00:34:39.320 Your salvation
00:34:40.480 is fixed. You can
00:34:42.620 love one another and oh
00:34:44.380 man and God
00:34:46.580 love with an
00:34:48.440 unending supply
00:34:49.760 because you are drawing from this
00:34:52.280 reservoir of Christ that has been
00:34:54.340 given to you that will never end.
00:35:04.320 The crux of what
00:35:06.320 Paul is saying is that if you love God, you will love others. If you love others,
00:35:10.200 it's because God loved you. That's
00:35:13.800 what's being taught. 1 John 4, 7-8 says,
00:35:17.960 Beloved, let us love one another, for love is from God.
00:35:21.740 And whoever loves has been born of God and knows God.
00:35:27.180 Observation.
00:35:29.280 Anyone who does not love does not know God because God is love.
00:35:39.220 If you want to know why that person in your life who calls themselves a Christian but isn't loving, doesn't love,
00:35:45.240 it's because they don't know God.
00:35:46.920 people who know god love people there are varying degrees of maturity and
00:35:57.020 manifestation of that reality there's sanctification in this process i don't expect
00:36:03.360 the maturity from a nine-year-old that i do from a 28 year old i don't expect the maturity from
00:36:08.120 a new believer that i do from someone who's been in the faith for 40 years
00:36:11.580 the reality is
00:36:14.440 if you want to know why people in your life
00:36:17.380 who call themselves Christians don't love
00:36:19.340 and are bitter and are ungrateful 1.00
00:36:21.220 and are frustrating and are
00:36:23.320 anger it's either because
00:36:25.180 they are completely unaware of what
00:36:27.200 scripture teaches about the gospel or
00:36:29.160 they are not actually saved
00:36:31.280 which is
00:36:35.260 not to shock anyone in America
00:36:36.880 who has spent the last 40 years doing 0.82
00:36:38.980 inactive spectator Christianity
00:36:41.140 with everybody's heads bowed and eyes closed except Jesus
00:36:44.400 with no repentance and no understanding of the biblical gospel.
00:36:51.820 As I conclude here, Robert Haldane summarized this passage of scripture in an interesting way.
00:36:56.540 He said, love prevents everything the law forbids.
00:37:06.780 I had to sit on that one for a minute.
00:37:09.760 Love prevents everything the law forbids.
00:37:15.820 In other words, true love, where that love reigns, there's no room for hatred.
00:37:22.580 There's no room for dishonesty.
00:37:25.980 There's no room for theft.
00:37:28.140 There's no room for adultery.
00:37:30.280 There's no room for any transgression.
00:37:32.260 Because true love prevents everything the law forbids.
00:37:41.380 When we truly love, it makes obedience to God's command a joyful response to grace rather than some burdensome duty.
00:37:54.140 It allows us to love from the gospel.
00:37:59.140 it allows the love
00:38:02.860 for us to appreciate the law
00:38:06.120 not because it's the way that we are saved
00:38:10.560 but because Christ kept it for us
00:38:14.060 we operate from that
00:38:16.680 it really makes the gospel shine
00:38:19.280 amen let's pray
00:38:21.220 oh father we thank you lord
00:38:24.620 that the debt of love is so big
00:38:30.500 that it can never be fulfilled or paid back.
00:38:35.000 That we are to owe man nothing except for love.
00:38:44.740 And Lord, we ask that you would give us wisdom
00:38:46.660 on these passages of scripture,
00:38:48.720 that they would permeate our hearts and souls,
00:38:52.820 that they would actually manifest
00:38:53.780 and the way that we live.
00:38:56.880 There would be some sort of change
00:38:58.200 that happens in our own families,
00:38:59.440 in our own lives,
00:39:00.160 in our own church,
00:39:01.220 in our own city.
00:39:03.540 Lord, we pray that you would do a work
00:39:05.080 in this congregation and in this town
00:39:07.680 by the power of your son, Jesus Christ.
00:39:11.440 Amen.
00:39:12.240 Amen.