Dan Martell - October 05, 2025


Be okay with being disliked


Episode Stats


Length

47 seconds

Words per minute

243.24324

Word count

192

Sentence count

8

Harmful content

Toxicity

3

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Summary

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If you want to be successful in life, you have to develop the skill of being disliked. If you don t, you will be a prisoner to other people s opinions. You can t control other people's opinions, you can only control your own.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 If you want to be successful in life, you have to develop the skill of being disliked.
00:00:05.300 You have to be super okay with people not liking who you are, but you need to understand
00:00:09.800 that other people have a completely different reality of the world you live in and you can't
00:00:13.900 control that.
00:00:14.540 There's a difference between a good man and a nice man.
00:00:17.660 A good man is not always a nice man because sometimes the situation calls for him to step
00:00:21.740 up and that requires you to build the muscle of being disliked.
00:00:25.860 If you don't, you will be a prisoner to other people's opinions.
00:00:29.060 It gets wild watching people live a life for other people. 0.99
00:00:32.840 If your shit goes sideways, the people that you care about their opinion, 1.00
00:00:35.800 are they going to step in and pay the bills? 1.00
00:00:37.340 Are they going to step in and get you a new job?
00:00:38.920 No.
00:00:39.320 Why would you live your life for their opinion when they're not going to show up when you need them most?
00:00:43.740 You got to bet on you, which means you got to make life decisions for you.