Dan Martell - May 18, 2023


Become the Best Version of Yourself


Episode Stats


Length

38 seconds

Words per minute

249.21135

Word count

158

Sentence count

17


Summary

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In this episode, Dan and I talk about the difference between being a lighthouse and a tugboat and how to balance the two. I think a lot of people run around the world trying to be the tugboat because you might have learned something tonight and then you run back and start tugboating into all your friends. Have you ever done that?

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Go be the best version of yourself.
00:00:02.100 I call it the lighthouse versus the tugboat.
00:00:04.020 I think a lot of people run around the world trying to be a tugboat.
00:00:06.520 Because you might have learned something tonight.
00:00:07.820 And you're like, oh, Dan said this thing.
00:00:09.160 And then you run back and you start tugboating into all your friends.
00:00:11.740 Have you ever done that maybe?
00:00:12.940 Yeah, I've done it.
00:00:13.560 It's what we do.
00:00:14.100 We learn something new.
00:00:15.240 Start going to the gym.
00:00:16.520 We tell everybody about it.
00:00:18.100 That's the tugboat.
00:00:19.540 Instead, be the lighthouse.
00:00:21.180 Be the person that shines their light as bright as possible.
00:00:23.560 So that's the way I think about if I'm committed to a relationship,
00:00:26.920 I need to accept them for who they are at the stage you're at.
00:00:29.800 and that's beautiful, and I gotta go work on me
00:00:32.840 if there's conflict there, because I can control that.
00:00:35.860 I'm not here to control somebody else.