Dan Martell - Become the Best Version of Yourself

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00:00:00.000 Go be the best version of yourself.

00:00:02.100 I call it the lighthouse versus the tugboat.

00:00:04.020 I think a lot of people run around the world trying to be a tugboat.

00:00:06.520 Because you might have learned something tonight.

00:00:07.820 And you're like, oh, Dan said this thing.

00:00:09.160 And then you run back and you start tugboating into all your friends.

00:00:11.740 Have you ever done that maybe?

00:00:12.940 Yeah, I've done it.

00:00:13.560 It's what we do.

00:00:14.100 We learn something new.

00:00:15.240 Start going to the gym.

00:00:16.520 We tell everybody about it.

00:00:18.100 That's the tugboat.

00:00:19.540 Instead, be the lighthouse.

00:00:21.180 Be the person that shines their light as bright as possible.

00:00:23.560 So that's the way I think about if I'm committed to a relationship,

00:00:26.920 I need to accept them for who they are at the stage you're at.

00:00:29.800 and that's beautiful, and I gotta go work on me

00:00:32.840 if there's conflict there, because I can control that.

00:00:35.860 I'm not here to control somebody else.

Dan Martell - May 18, 2023