Dan Martell - September 19, 2025


Connection vs Correction


Episode Stats


Length

41 seconds

Words per minute

206.05188

Word count

143

Sentence count

1

Harmful content

Misogyny

1

sentences flagged

Hate speech

1

sentences flagged


Summary

Summaries generated with gmurro/bart-large-finetuned-filtered-spotify-podcast-summ .

The other person wants to feel seen, heard, and appreciated. All the other person really wants is to be corrected and corrected. So how do we correct them? How do we make sure they feel heard and appreciated?

Transcript

Transcript generated with Whisper (turbo).
Misogyny classifications generated with MilaNLProc/bert-base-uncased-ear-misogyny .
Hate speech classifications generated with facebook/roberta-hate-speech-dynabench-r4-target .
00:00:00.080 one time renee's mad at me she's in the bathroom she's upset i went in the bathroom pleading with 0.97
00:00:05.920 you i don't understand how to have this conversation i want to say sorry i feel like that's not enough
00:00:11.520 help me the lesson i took from that that was a while ago is all the other person wants is to
00:00:16.720 feel seen heard and appreciated so this is what i do now whenever renee is upset at me i always
00:00:22.800 slow down what upset you and i shut up and i listen and you tell me and then i go so what i'm hearing 0.65
00:00:28.800 you say is and I repeat it back to you and then I go did I get that right and I go I'm sorry
00:00:35.840 here was my intention so the first part is connection and then there's correction