People that mean well can inadvertently hurt you by their energy because they are not willing to do the work. I used to make up excuses to have people in my life that I knew weren t good for me, but I thought because I knew them in high school or their family members that I was supposed to keep them there. And if I didn t, I was an evil person. That's so silly. Imagine you wake up every day and you're trying everything. You can just have a positive attitude and do the right things and be around the right people. And then you go and you visit your friend and they see what happened to Bank of America and government this and that. And you see the rockets and you think, are you gonna go fight the war? Because if you're not, who cares?