Dan Martell - November 01, 2025


How to be present with you kids

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Dan Martell
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Episode Stats


Length

43 seconds

Words per minute

251.15

Word count

182

Sentence count

10

Harmful content

Toxicity

9

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Summary

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If my kid was sitting there and absolutely in a rage and angry and beside themselves, this is what I would do. I would not ask my kid to be any different than they are. If my kid wants to sit there in rage for 18 hours, I would be here and I would hold that space. I m not trying to fix you, I m just going to be with you.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 I would not ask my kid to be any different than they are.
00:00:02.380 If my kid was sitting there and absolutely in f***ing rage and angry and beside themselves,
00:00:08.060 this is literally what I would do. 0.91
00:00:09.500 First off, I'm sitting below them. 0.95
00:00:11.340 I will f***ing sit on the ground if I have to. 0.88
00:00:13.740 I'm not doing anything other than I'm here with you. 0.97
00:00:16.080 The problem is most adults are never taught to hold space for anybody.
00:00:19.160 They can't even hold space for themselves. 0.97
00:00:20.440 That's a f***ing problem. 0.94
00:00:21.300 If my kid wants to sit there in rage for 18 hours, 0.98
00:00:24.440 I will be here and I will f***ing hold that space. 0.51
00:00:26.620 As a man, as a father, 0.72
00:00:28.300 because guess what the adults and the therapists won't do and what you end up teaching them is
00:00:32.700 that there's nothing wrong with them i'm not trying to fix you there's nothing wrong with you
00:00:36.480 you're growing into a young person and you've got these big movements of emotions i'm just
00:00:41.000 going to be with them i wish somebody would have did that with me