How to Build a High Performing Team
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To the degree that you develop yourself, you will be able to lead and build more people. When I was 21, I learned this from an incredible mentor of mine, who was essentially the technical lead at this oil company called Syncrude Oil up in Fort McMurray.
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that report to them and those people are developing
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that they're becoming better for having worked with you.
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and that you don't lose them and all these different fears.
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that they look up to, that they look as somebody
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that they admire, that you put them in a position
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but give them the support, not leave them hanging.
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there was only one option is to shave my whole head.
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because Darcy had put the training that day offsite.
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tucked into khaki pants that were way too big for me,
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wearing dress shoes, because I used to be a skater,
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but I was trying to put my best foot forward.
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And literally, I looked like the most ridiculous person ever.
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and just kind of gave this like, oh man, kind of scenario.
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And the whole point of me being hired by Syncrude
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as a consultant back then was to help them build
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And eventually I became a pretty good project manager
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of working with Darcy that I didn't even take notes of
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there was so much opportunity for me to learn even more,
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And I just want you to know, maybe you work on a team
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or you are leading somebody and you're not even aware
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of the impact that you could be having on this person.
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When I think back at Darcy, I've messaged him every year
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for the last 20 some years and said, thank you.
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He showed me what it meant to lead with compassion,
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to manage expectations, to ask world-class questions,
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that I seen a true leader do and influence a 21-year-old
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that's become the person who's created multiple companies
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of leading 100 people across all my organizations
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close to 1,000 people at this point in my career.
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The first thing is that he made problems my solution, right?
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oh, that little fricker, this is what he was doing.
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He'd be like, Dan, what do you think we should do here?
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And I was like, oh, he wants my opinion, I would tell him.
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And then I'd be like, no, you shouldn't do it like that.
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And then he would turn and he would give me the marker.
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I'd draw some names and he'd go, okay, I like that.
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And I'm like, yeah, I think that's what we should do.
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In hindsight, the dozen plus times he's made me do this,
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I realized that what he was doing was getting me
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was such a big thing when I think of like how I lead today
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I said, this is the problem we're trying to solve.
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So leading through questions, super important idea.
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The other one, the second thing is to have fun.
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You know, like as I shoot these videos with Sam, okay?
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We, you know, get caught up on each other's lives.
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because what Darcy knew that I didn't appreciate
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And it's not just about, yes, I have to feel like
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and I said, the person with the longest hair goes first.
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Which is just a funny thing because he's got a big beard.
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I like my buddy, Ryan, who's always cracking jokes.
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and the first thing he's doing is he's blasting ACDC.
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like image of them working out over the weekend
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with their face all sweaty that they posted on Facebook.
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And then everybody's like staring at it, laughing,
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It's like, I really think when I was starting off in business,
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I was so serious and I was so focused on outcomes.
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and you could argue today that I'm still like this,
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you gotta tell some jokes, you gotta keep it light,
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on the other end and if they don't enjoy coming to work
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and working with the people that they interact with,
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When I work with my lawyers and my finance team
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or other vendors and contractors, I always remind myself,
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and I want them to have the most fun on our meetings
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because I'm the top of their like ideas of like,
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trying to deconstruct the challenge they were facing
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and learning and development inside of his teams.
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and gauges and switches, and they had this like
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very methodal, you know, like process-driven training
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because when you're dealing with oil and reactors
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like you kinda gotta figure out some really like
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And so he had access, and he would send us on this training
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as a 21, 22 year old was the idea of how to solve problems,
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that can teach their team how to solve problems,
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not just solve the problem, but teach them the process,
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Dan, what's the thing I should be teaching my team?
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about solving problems that you just take for granted.
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obviously selfishly so that we could all be better for him,
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But the truth is that he also knew for the rest of life,
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not just teaching the thing that you need them to do.
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So those are the big ideas that I give a lot of gratitude,
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There's still literally things that I teach today
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of leaders build people, and then there's this philosophy
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that you develop yourself, you'll be able to lead
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and a bigger business, and I'll see you next Monday.