Dan Martell - I don't care if my kids are bored

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00:00:00.000 I don't give a shit if my kids are bored.

00:00:02.140 When they come to me and they're like, I'm bored,

00:00:04.180 I go, your boredom is not my problem.

00:00:06.320 I'm not responsible for their play.

00:00:08.400 I'm not responsible to keep them entertained.

00:00:10.680 I am not their entertainment director.

00:00:12.300 The other day, I sat down with them.

00:00:13.700 I need you to create a plan.

00:00:15.060 So every Sunday now, they sit down

00:00:16.660 and they map out their whole week plan.

00:00:18.460 High level, easy stuff.

00:00:19.820 Do you wanna spend time with a friend on Saturday?

00:00:21.660 What do you wanna do with your week?

00:00:23.120 They are young men.

00:00:23.920 I treat them like young men.

00:00:24.980 Now they feel like they have agency around their life.

00:00:27.580 They're allowed to be responsible for themselves.

Dan Martell - October 31, 2025