Dan Martell - I don't care if my kids listen to me or not

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00:00:00.000 When your kids turn 13, 14,

00:00:01.960 they will go outside of the home

00:00:03.640 to test and discover who their own identity is,

00:00:06.980 who they are.

00:00:07.720 And in those moments, if you fight them,

00:00:09.840 they will never come back to the family union.

00:00:11.980 Parents wrestle with this all the time,

00:00:13.820 where their kid is like dying their hair

00:00:15.840 and hanging out with the wrong people,

00:00:17.380 doing all this stuff,

00:00:18.400 and they're like worried

00:00:19.260 that they're gonna do something wrong

00:00:20.540 and ruin the rest of their life.

00:00:21.660 In those moments,

00:00:22.860 be sure you've introduced them to people

00:00:25.000 that you trust to be their guides.

00:00:27.160 And I just think about that for my kids.

00:00:28.640 I'm designing the people that are in their life that I trust that can guide them when they stop

00:00:34.440 coming to me because they will and that's normal.

Dan Martell - August 01, 2025