Dan Martell - I DON’T care about my kids grades

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00:00:00.000 I don't give a shit about their school grades.

00:00:01.680 Zero.

00:00:02.120 My kid comes to me and says,

00:00:03.340 look, I got my report card.

00:00:04.540 I go, do you care about what's on there?

00:00:06.120 Because I didn't create that test.

00:00:07.720 I don't care about that.

00:00:09.200 What I care about is how you show up in the world.

00:00:10.740 When I spend time with them,

00:00:11.880 I'm always thinking through that list of stuff

00:00:13.580 I want to teach them.

00:00:14.600 One thing, if you met my kids,

00:00:15.940 you would notice real quick

00:00:16.720 is they will introduce themselves to you.

00:00:18.280 They've been doing it since they were two.

00:00:19.440 Why?

00:00:19.800 Because anytime they go play at the park

00:00:21.240 and they come back and they say,

00:00:22.180 I made a new friend,

00:00:23.060 I go, cool, what's his name?

00:00:24.220 What's her name?

00:00:24.760 Well, I don't know.

00:00:25.280 And it didn't take them long to figure it out.

00:00:27.040 So now they'll run back.

00:00:28.720 I made new friends.

00:00:29.780 I made John and Matt.

00:00:31.360 I just don't want them to ever try to be somebody for me

00:00:34.780 because I don't need to be anybody for me to love them deeply.

Dan Martell - November 18, 2023