Multi-Millionaire Explains: 3 Rules to Manage Your Time
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In this episode, I talk about how to go from being broke to becoming a multi-millionaire. I break down the 3 D's: Do it now, get it done now, delegate it, let someone else do it, and stop wasting time.
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I followed to go from broke to multi-millionaire.
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Starting with rule number one, the 4D framework.
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is one of the best books ever written on doing more.
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he taught me a completely different way to work
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The rule is, if it takes less than two minutes,
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So if that means sending a text message, calling someone,
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This is really important for things that are not now.
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even if you want to do it, you'd like to do it,
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Here's the deal. A yes is a no to your goals. A no is a yes to your potential dreams. You have
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to learn to say no so you create the space so it's available to you when you have the
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opportunity to execute to make the thing happen. Ben Newman!
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eight nine years ago i was still like i'd be on coaching calls 10 coaching calls in the day
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just i mean just hammering a mutual friend like dude you're gonna burn out and he's like you need
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to learn to honor the brand and get paid to say no and i never forgot it get paid to say no
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I said, tell me more. He's like, dude, you need to develop other coaches. You need to develop
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other speakers. So that day I got on the plane. I said, okay, BNC Speakers is born. BNC Coaching
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is born. There's no other coaches. There's no other speakers. So my biggest focus is only doing
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the things I love. Yeah, dude, I love that. It changed my life. You get paid to say no. It changed my life.
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Here's what I like to tell people. If you don't have a framework for managing time,
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time will manage you. But time isn't the only thing you need to manage, which brings us a rule
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number two, you don't manage time, you manage energy. When I first started getting going,
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I was so worried of missing opportunities that I said yes to everything that my calendar was like
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a tapestry of meetings that made no sense. I mean, I used to say yes to meetings at 9am in the
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morning, breaking up my most creative time for some meeting that I could have done in the afternoon.
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Understanding how you naturally want to flow through your day so that you're available for
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the work that you need to get done is a game changer in business that's what the best leaders
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do they don't create a scenario where they burn out and then have to reset a lot of ceos do that
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man it's actually a self-sabotaging behavior because then it's not their fault that their
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whole business went back 30 40 50 percent yeah it is well no it's not i was hustling and no you did
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it in a way that was not sustainable first form is an example of 22 years of non-stop
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trouble with carry water most people don't understand that the results are exponential
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but they're not exponential if you don't stay in the game.
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He's like, compound growth only works if you don't reset.
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You can't do more if you don't have energy for more.
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There are certain things that I wanna do in the morning
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that is completely different than my afternoons
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because I like to collaborate in the afternoon.
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I would have lost my whole day of productivity.
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to do certain types of work and put it together?
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When I think of like doing media tours, for example,
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then I'm gonna do any speaking or book meetups.
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because I wanna be in that energy of that work.
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This is like when I'm flying down to Nashville on the jet,
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I'm doing a mastermind with other business people.
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When I'm doing my one-on-ones, I do them on scooters
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and I was like, dude, calm down, what's going on?
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He had all these commitments, he didn't know what to do
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and what I suggested that he do that I want you to consider
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is to make a list of things that you wouldn't have said yes to
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if they were today and renegotiate those commitments.
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somebody asked a question about like being overwhelmed
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The truth is, is that you're allowed to adjust.
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Do you think you'd miss out on getting these big opportunities
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Yes, it's called death by a thousand paper cuts.
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will eventually say yes to too many people and let people down. Some lady says no, tells you they
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know what they're after. And when they say yes, it's a yes. I've never not shown up. I'll be there
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for a keynote. I'll be there for a webinar. I'll be there for your team. I'll be there for dinner.
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I can't remember a time I didn't show up, but if I'm not feeling it, it's also a no. You got to
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be with me and people are like, you did, you know, I got this idea and I really like to have you
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involved and I go appreciate the interest, but probably not going to fit. Sorry, heads down,
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locked in. What I like to tell people is if you don't take your time seriously, nobody else will.
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So here are three strategies that I use to get the most out of my calendar. The first point is
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to review. I look through my calendar on Sunday for the week and I ask myself, is this something
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I should still be doing? I know maybe I said yes six months ago, but I'm allowed to review and
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decide, does this align with my goals? Things that used to give me energy, you know, might have
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turned into things that are mediocre or worse. They take my energy. You're allowed to change
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your mind. The second part is to adjust, actually renegotiate those commitments, have those tough
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conversations. One quick strategy that changed the game for my wife and I is that if the thing
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somebody's asking me was tonight and I would say no, then it's a no, even if it's three months into
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the future. So just say no today if you wouldn't go tonight. Number three is expand. Once you've
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got that new time think about the goals you want the relationships you want to build the skills
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you got to acquire and add the new and my favorite thing is to figure out what would make me the most
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uncomfortable starting or creating whatever gives me anxiety is usually the right path most people
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stay away from that i use it as feedback to say go forward the question i ask myself is what will
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grow me even more i choose goals to grow me which is what i put in my account wear that one
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do you know what that is i would guess it's a 30 000 watch this is a teso it's nice
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guess what it is though for real 30k now i'm thinking for 60 70 100 120 150
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i'm very self-aware that that looks like a swatch and it could be a 25 watch i don't take it off
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I worked out with it. I wear it all the time. That's like a GQTRS on my wrist.
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That's the McLaren mindset. Don't let your possessions hold you crazy. Wear it because
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you want to wear it. I want you to wear it. I still had that mindset where it was like
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what if one of my truck team drivers that I paid, I can't pay them $90 an hour, but if they see it
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and it's like, I guess the answer is who gives a shit.
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If you have the mindset that anything is possible
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like give me a raise, like I'd love to give you a raise.
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Tell me what you're gonna do to create more value.
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that's 2,000 amount of hours in a year most people work.
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If it's not, I cannot continue to entertain this.
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You literally just saw that personified in person.
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you saw the culture, you saw what I'm talking about.
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real life that that is going to represent yeah that was worth the trip oh yeah when i think about
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people taking their time more seriously i always go back to if you don't value your own time nobody
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else will value yours and most people don't realize decisions around partnerships that cause issues
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or even saying yes to commitments that you know really should be a no the people you love the
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the most are on the receiving end. So I always go back to reminding myself, if I say yes to this,
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I'm saying no to time with my kids. I'm saying no to time with my wife. I'm saying no to calling
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my brother. I'm saying no to hanging out with my dad. And when I put that into context, it allows
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me to feel okay in deciding to do something different. If you want to learn how CEOs manage
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their inbox, click the video and I'll see you on the other side.