Dan Martell - April 19, 2023


My mom was always going to be my mom…


Episode Stats


Length

29 seconds

Words per minute

267.1233

Word count

130

Sentence count

9

Harmful content

Toxicity

1

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Summary

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The goal in life is to not try to change anybody else, but change yourself to a point where nobody else is the issue. The most beautiful relationship I've ever had is with my own mom and it's because she was always going to be my mom. And if I wanted a relationship with her, I had to accept that she was not going to go on a personal development program, or go to therapy, or get a life coach, or anything like that. She was going to always be her. And what I needed to change is when she said or acted in a way that triggered me to emotionally respond to her.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 fuck her. Why does she say that? I don't want to talk to her. That was like my early 20s. Now we 1.00
00:00:04.500 have the most beautiful relationship is because my mom was always going to be my mom. And if I
00:00:08.960 wanted a relationship with her, I had to accept that she was not going to go on a personal
00:00:12.760 development program. She wasn't going to go do therapy. So she was always going to be her. And
00:00:16.780 what I needed to change is when she said or acted certain ways that it triggered me that caused me
00:00:20.980 to emotionally respond to her. The goal I think in life is to not try to change anybody else,
00:00:25.720 but change yourself to a point where nobody else is the issue.