Dan Martell - October 11, 2025


Parenting advice


Episode Stats


Length

54 seconds

Words per minute

233.55263

Word count

213

Sentence count

12

Harmful content

Toxicity

3

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Summary

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When your kids turn 13 or 14, they will go outside of the home to test and discover who their own identity is. In those moments, if you fight them, they ll never come back to the family union. Parents wrestle with this all the time, where their kid is like dying their hair and hanging out with the wrong people, and they re worried that they re gonna do something wrong and ruin the rest of their life.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 I actually don't give a shit if my kids listen to me or not. 0.99
00:00:02.320 I actually expect them to stop listening to me. 0.99
00:00:04.640 When your kids turn 13, 14,
00:00:06.460 they will go outside of the home
00:00:08.180 to test and discover who their own identity is.
00:00:11.600 In those moments, if you fight them,
00:00:13.700 they will never come back to the family union.
00:00:15.900 Parents wrestle with this all the time,
00:00:17.720 where their kid is like dying their hair
00:00:19.760 and hanging out with the wrong people,
00:00:21.280 and they're like worried that they're gonna do something wrong
00:00:23.480 and ruin the rest of their life.
00:00:24.800 In those moments, be sure you've introduced them
00:00:27.560 to people that you trust to be their guide.
00:00:30.000 And I just think about that for my kids.
00:00:31.920 I'm designing the people that are in their life
00:00:34.980 that I trust, that can guide them
00:00:37.180 when they stop coming to me, because they will.
00:00:39.380 And that's normal. 0.79
00:00:40.520 I dyed my hair every freaking color.
00:00:42.560 I was skateboarding, hanging out with people,
00:00:44.160 wearing clothes that was 10 times bigger
00:00:45.620 than I should have been wearing.
00:00:46.860 What would have saved me from hanging out
00:00:48.940 with the wrong people was if my parents
00:00:50.800 had put me in a situation where those people
00:00:52.940 I was admiring were good people.