00:05:58.520It allowed me the passport that when I leaned into those environments, the credibility was in place.
00:06:03.800And then the second book was a book called Magic Words.
00:06:06.880Magic Words is almost the EP to Exactly What to Say.
00:06:11.620I was in a mastermind group maybe 2012 with some other author, coaches, consultants in the UK talking about how challenging it was to create a book.
00:06:27.580And what happened from that was they said it was so hard to write a book, I said I could probably turn one around in a month.
00:06:32.320and that was magic words in fact look this is it look at that this is a book yeah i want to see
00:06:37.500look at this it's like a pamphlet it's a literal pamphlet look at the photo on it it's a beauty
00:06:43.280and what was fun about that though is this is great you are now an author yeah i mean we're
00:06:48.960talking 20 dude it's 23 20 pages it's nothing it was a joke it was me responding to the bet
00:06:56.100and what i did is i plugged it into amazon's kdp download program when amazon's kdp download
00:07:01.400program had just launched we woke up one morning to 120 000 units on a free promo oh that makes
00:07:08.040sense yeah and then what happened was this became a giveaway it became lead capture it became a
00:07:13.680thing that i could customize and change colors for for a client we could do 12 copies 30 copies it
00:07:18.560was just for fun it was the the takeaway we plugged it into cd content and used it when i spoke at
00:07:25.220events for lead capture and it it became a part of my brand from a magic words point of view
00:07:30.620And every time I spoke or delivered a workshop, people would say to me, like weeks, months, years afterwards, still using your magic words, still using your magic words.
00:07:40.340So that was the success leaving clues thing.
00:07:44.340Exactly what to say came about a little later where I was going through my geographic move from UK to US and made a decision.
00:07:52.280I didn't want a global speaking business anymore.
00:07:54.360I wanted a North American speaking business.
00:07:56.000I wanted to really sort of focus effort and energy into building a business in one of the richest markets in the world in the speaking profession.
00:08:20.440Why don't I come back and do that properly?
00:08:22.720And I was going to relaunch it called Magic Words.
00:08:26.000I get two-thirds of the way through the process, and just like you've been on a title story, I'm like, it's actually not that good of a title.
00:08:33.680And worse than that, I just found out a guy called Tim David had just published a book called Magic Words, and he was a real magician.
00:08:41.060So I'm like, I probably shouldn't use that title.
00:17:06.440And you've got to do that without being able to say, I need to go readjust my slides and creating some form of panic around the event organizer.
00:17:12.640And then when you find out when you'd step onto stage and there's 22 minutes on the clock, you've got to bring your best 22 and make no drama about the whole thing and realize that sometimes less of you was more value to them in that given environment.
00:17:58.260You know, the craziest thing we dealt with recently is I showed up to an event and the event production company, like, we've got a cool new idea.
00:18:07.120We're going to run a unique way of us being able to deliver to this.
00:18:11.140And what it was was three speakers on three parts of the same stage delivering to a different audience at the exact same time with everybody in the audience wearing, like, silent disco headphones.
00:18:21.480so you're in a giant auditorium microphone but not amplified where you can hear the other two
00:18:27.760speakers delivering to the side of you and you don't know if the audience you're looking at is
00:18:32.020listening to you or either the other two it wasn't even they get to choose come on choose your own
00:18:38.280adventure right you gotta be able to say i can deal with all that you and you just like bring
00:18:42.880i'm gonna crush these guys yeah yeah and then also sometimes you do your job great and sometimes you
00:18:48.680do a great job and I think both of those things need to show up right you're not you're not always
00:18:54.860a superhero and part of that means you can't believe too much of your own hype if you want
00:19:01.220to run in the speaking business for a long time because we're all pretty replaceable in the grand
00:19:06.360scheme of things I could be booked for a gig and I could have done a great job but if I fell sick
00:19:10.120or something bad happened to me and Dan Martell was tapped in with a completely different message
00:19:14.960then there wouldn't probably have been any issue with the event like we could be subbed out somebody
00:19:21.320else tagged in yeah there's nothing and there are lots and lots of different people that could
00:19:25.540deliver to a good enough standard to be able to get away from that and that's been helpful for me
00:19:30.660to be like you don't get too far ahead of yourself sunshine yeah you're there to do a good job you're
00:19:36.040important but you know this is not life or death yeah this is intelligent entertainment show up
00:19:42.360and do a great job and remember that you're not the main event your job is to be the hot sauce
00:19:46.940on the side of the main event to make the main event more memorable i love that and then the
00:19:51.660idea of like using the book to supplement an event or using an event to create momentum to
00:19:56.680monetize after like the c i love the idea of like cds and like yeah you know to do lead collect right
00:20:01.740like a lot of speakers you know i have a friend that i'm thinking of i mean he does 200 days a
00:20:06.080year and but he doesn't understand the business of it so i'm not sure he's not collecting emails
00:20:10.020but you seem to think about this on a level like what are what are some of the so obviously show
00:20:16.740up be great do great you know to get more speaking stuff right but what about the other things around
00:20:23.300like the email list the potentials to do workshops in that same city you know you said like your
00:20:28.600corporate clients booking you for tours and then while you're doing that trying to fill up times
00:20:32.860like what are other ways authors speakers should be thinking about building a business that's not
00:20:39.280just the keynote um you say what should they be doing i don't know if i can answer what somebody
00:20:45.260should be doing i can certainly answer what people could be doing yeah and the could be is plentiful
00:20:51.040in our work with exactly what to say we talk about the fact the worst time to think about
00:20:54.760the thing you're going to say is in the moment you're saying totally a pre-event planning call
00:20:58.700is the call for you to be able to schedule the actions that might follow the keynote it's not
00:21:03.760the call to prepare for the keynote it's also the call for you to realize what add-ons could be
00:50:57.280Correct. And, you know, I see this being a long term race and my tombstone, if it reads like loving husband, proud father and author of exactly what to say, I'm good with that.
00:51:09.960That's cool. Phil, I love it, man. I really appreciate you. Super inspiring.
00:51:14.820And I know a lot of people that follow me, the speakers, the coaches, the authors, the experts, they're they're going to have some work to do now.
00:51:23.760Where's the best place for people to go? I'm assuming your website.