Dan Martell - Should you go back home for the holidays？

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00:00:00.000 Get to a place where you grow so much

00:00:02.420 that their reality doesn't impact you.

00:00:05.600 Do you need to go back for a week?

00:00:07.200 No.

00:00:07.620 Do you need to go back for Christmas day?

00:00:09.500 Yeah, go for a day.

00:00:10.540 And then you do interact with those people

00:00:12.420 and they say things like, ooh, you've changed.

00:00:14.500 Ooh, you're different.

00:00:15.380 Must be nice.

00:00:16.140 Most people are not on a growth journey.

00:00:18.340 Nobody has to change for me to win.

00:00:19.960 I don't need my mom, my dad, my brothers

00:00:21.760 to change for me to win.

00:00:23.200 I'm gonna win and I can create space

00:00:25.300 if I'm interacting with them.

00:00:26.460 But I'm also the guy that when I'm on vacation

00:00:28.280 with these people and they wanna go out late

00:00:29.680 and party. I don't go. And when I get up early and I'm reading my book and then they start chirping

00:00:33.360 me about reading my book and what are you reading again? I can hold that space without being upset.

Dan Martell - December 11, 2023