Dan Martell - January 20, 2024


Stop pushing away what you’ve been asking for


Episode Stats


Length

36 seconds

Words per minute

248.08324

Word count

151

Sentence count

12


Summary

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People get given what they ve been asking for, and then, because they re not emotionally ready to receive, they sacrifice it. This episode is about why this happens and why it s so common in the coaching world.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 Two weeks ago, we're on a hike.
00:00:01.020 One of my elite coaching clients comes in.
00:00:03.000 He's like, dude, my new assistant's incredible.
00:00:04.540 But can I ask you a question?
00:00:05.600 When I ask them about their weekend and stuff,
00:00:07.340 they don't want to talk about it.
00:00:08.400 They just want to get the work done.
00:00:09.920 And it just bugs me because like,
00:00:11.000 I'm the kind of person where I want them
00:00:12.300 to be part of the team.
00:00:13.200 I want to know how they're feeling.
00:00:14.360 I just need that.
00:00:15.320 You could see him get frustrated with his assistant
00:00:18.800 for not being that way.
00:00:20.280 And I go, dude, after four hires,
00:00:22.180 you found the person that can solve the problem.
00:00:24.260 And you, because of your emotional awareness,
00:00:27.040 are going to drive the person away.
00:00:28.980 People get given what they've been asking for
00:00:32.020 and then because they're not emotionally ready
00:00:34.640 to receive, they sacrifice it.