00:08:50.340He just sold Braintree for $600 million.
00:08:52.060And there was this Canadian kid that I got invited because some guy that I invited to a dinner liked what I was building at the time and said, do you want to join?
00:09:00.840And I was just like, Dan, just don't say anything stupid.
00:17:12.340just real talk, right? I grew up in the east coast of Canada, so that world was foreign to me.
00:17:17.780Even though I was in software and I built a big company, that world was fascinating as an outsider.
00:17:22.820And I get there, and in the first few days, I get invited to a party, and I meet a guy named Naval Ravikant.
00:17:30.620This is 2008. Naval today has been on Joe Rogan. He's an incredible, like, just philosopher, honestly.
00:17:37.960But I met him earlier on, and he kind of became a mentor of mine.
00:17:41.660I call him one he would never say that but I share that because I remember I
00:17:46.160was talking to him once about leverage so you gotta understand in business the
00:17:50.900best entrepreneurs have the biggest output for unit of time so if you think
00:17:58.340of the quick question okay write this down okay time multiplied by leverage
00:18:06.080equals output. And output could be money, resources, etc. But time multiplied by
00:18:13.160leverage equals output. So I want to ask you guys all a question. What are ways
00:18:18.200that we can create leverage? Write it down. If I say, what are the tools to
00:18:21.980creating leverage? Write it down. I want you guys to answer that. Just one idea.
00:18:25.640The number one tool for creating leverage is... write down the answer. I want to hear
00:18:30.740from everybody all right let's hear from over here what do you guys got
00:18:40.940raising money 80 20 I like that anybody else social media AI delegation yeah
00:18:50.740leverage people I like that anybody else automation what else what I can't hear
00:18:59.580Yeah. Systems. Ooh. I love systems. Do you know what system stands for? Save yourself time, energy,
00:19:06.940and money. Write that down. Systems equals save yourself time, energy, and money.
00:19:14.000Here's a fun fact. Everybody's answer was relatively correct. And this is what I learned.
00:19:21.000Deval taught me this. There's only four, I call them master skills, to creating leverage. Okay?
00:19:27.960Write these down. The four system, the four master skills are, number one, capital. If I have money, I have incredible leverage. Okay? Takes money to make money. It really doesn't, but it takes resourcefulness. All of you guys in this room have to be more resourceful. Okay? What do you guys need to be? More resourceful. Doesn't take money, but money creates opportunity. Okay? So capital is one. Number two is code. Some of you guys said automation and AI. That fits in that budget.
00:19:57.960code, software. Three is content. Somebody's talked about, I think, podcasts and social media,
00:20:04.800content. I can create a system, an SOP, and it takes me an hour to create, and if I have 100
00:20:11.820employees, that one system can train 100 people without extra effort from me. Does that make
00:20:16.740sense? Yes or yes? The fourth is collaboration. It's people. Okay, so the four C's, write them
00:20:24.680down once I understood this I understood I only had four things to go become
00:20:29.480world-class at and I could have anything I want in my life code capital content
00:20:36.060collaboration so specifically I want to talk to you about how to lead people the
00:20:42.540collaboration side most entrepreneurs go on the left side transactional
00:20:48.080leadership they tell people what to do they check that they got it done and
00:20:52.160and then they they tell them what to do next that sounds pretty straightforward yes or yes
00:20:57.280yeah everybody that's i did that for 15 years 15 years of starting companies at 17
00:21:04.000until i finally made some money at 28 i mean not 15 but a lot a lot of time
00:21:09.920i just thought that's how you did it the problem with that is around 10 to 12 direct reports you
00:21:15.600wake up in the morning with all the piss and vinegar in the world i'm gonna dominate the day
00:21:20.720I've got my list of projects and we're going to have a productive day. Anybody ever wake up that
00:21:25.200way? You're like, I'm going to kill it today. Yes. Okay. Then the first thing you do is you check your
00:21:29.300email and there's fire, fire, fire, fire, crap. Then you think, Oh, I wonder if Bob, Jane, Mary
00:21:34.300is working on that right thing. So you start calling people on your team. You tell, Hey,
00:21:38.020are you doing this? Are you doing that? Did you think of this? And then there's like fires and
00:21:42.200issues and all that stuff. And it's not until seven o'clock at night that you finally sit down
00:21:47.800to start doing the work. Anybody relate with that? Yeah, that's how it works. If you have a half dozen
00:21:56.860people work for you, anybody, and you tell them what to do, you check what they got done, you tell
00:21:59.940them what to do next, this will become your reality. That's why I call it the pain line.
00:22:05.080The opposite of that is transformational leadership, okay? So I'm going to explain it to you, but I want
00:22:10.040you to think of an example in your life that's tough for you right now, and apply this principle
00:22:14.900to that situation, that person. So the first thing, when I hire somebody, let's say my assistant,
00:22:20.460okay? The first day, I talk to her about a few principles, but the first one is,
00:22:24.860you are the CEO of my inbox and calendar. Who is the CEO of my inbox and calendar?
00:22:30.980You are. My assistant, exactly. And I don't mean to be a ding-dong, but I will actually ask her
00:22:36.400to repeat it back. Who's the CEO? I'm the CEO. Who's the CEO? I'm the CEO. You're the CEO. Yay,
00:22:42.500yay, what does that mean? And I asked them to describe to me what does it mean to be the CEO
00:22:47.380of my inbox and calendar. Is it my responsibility to put stuff in my calendar or yours? Mine. Yay,
00:22:52.820we're winning. You know, like it sounds foolish, but I'm trying to make it a little entertaining
00:22:57.360for all of you guys, keep you awake and focused. But I'm not, it's not that far off. When I hire
00:23:03.700people, I look them in the eyes and I said, I hired you to create this outcome. I don't tell
00:23:09.400them what to do. I hired you to create this outcome. And then I describe the outcome. So I got to tell
00:23:16.720them, what does a 10 out of 10 look like? My calendar has everything in there. It's structured
00:23:21.200and the description is this. Everybody's confirmed. Like this is what a 10 out of 10, like my travel
00:23:27.180schedule is figured out. All my flights are booked, international six week, domestic two weeks, whatever
00:23:31.780it is, right? And I get really clear at describing the mountaintop. That's the way I think about it.
00:23:39.020some of us hire people and we don't think about telling them what it's going to look like at the
00:23:43.240mountain top right we just say hey can you start climbing this mountain they're like okay where's
00:23:48.420where's the path you're like i don't know it's over there it's in the corner and they go over
00:23:51.940this way they call you the next morning i couldn't find that path yesterday i'm like what are you
00:23:55.620doing no you say that's the mountaintop see right there that's the mountaintop you figure out how
00:23:59.940to get there what resources would you need so then we measure okay so then i explained to the
00:24:06.480person I hired, I gave them the outcome. I said, here's how we're going to measure your progress.
00:24:10.520Every person in all my companies have a number. My social media person has a number. My CFO has a
00:24:16.220number. My COOs have a number. My CEOs have a number. They have one number. How many numbers?
00:24:20.600One number. Now, do they use other numbers to understand if they're making good decisions?
00:24:24.520Yes, but there's one number that we've all agreed on. If you're in the automotive space,
00:24:30.640the number is called the absorption rate. I'm a software guy and I know this stuff because I love
00:24:35.860I love nerding out on business. Absorption rate, it's the number that tells you the
00:24:39.880ratio of the service department and parts covering the overhead of the car
00:24:45.880dealership. And that number tells you how efficient it is. Okay? So there's
00:24:50.440different aspects into it. If I'm in the hotel space, it's the average night of
00:24:56.560room, you know, booking, right? That tells me how efficient the hotel is. So once I
00:25:02.740tell my assistant the way I'm going to measure them, okay, which is response time.
00:25:07.780That's the number. How quick do you respond to people? Okay, and it's a simple
00:25:12.100tool. You put in your email and they respond. Then when I have issues, somebody
00:25:15.760asked me this today, what do you do when you have issues with people on your team?
00:25:18.160Anybody else run into that issues with people on your team? They're humans!
00:25:22.240They're supposed to have issues. Some of you guys expect people to be robots, like
00:25:25.420I just, can we, okay, some entrepreneurs, our expectations for their people are up
00:25:30.340here, can we just pull it down a little bit? Can we all realize that they have
00:25:35.560lives that don't revolve around us? And that's okay and awesome. Can we show up
00:25:42.520with a little bit more empathy? 100%. So what happens is anytime I see something
00:25:48.680that isn't great, I write it down, okay? On my phone, all my direct reports,
00:25:53.780I have a Google Doc, okay? And it says at agenda, it's got all their names, and I
00:25:58.480just write down a bullet. Once a week for most of my direct reports, every two
00:26:03.460weeks at minimum, I sit down with them. Guess what's the first agenda item in
00:26:07.780that meeting? Guess. Review my list. Literally, the other person's meeting, or
00:26:16.700one-on-ones, is review Dan's list. So I pull up my phone because I forget what I
00:26:21.140wrote in there, and I pull it out. Literally every meeting, I have a daily
00:26:25.000meeting with my assistant, Ann. Guess what? She's like, hey Dan, what's on your list?
00:26:28.220and I open it up because I forget I like to just write stuff down let me pull it
00:26:33.680up here discuss podcast when traveling to optimize flights example Charleston
00:26:39.280podcast that's the first item on the thing I just wrote it down now here's
00:26:43.580the kicker though coach the way you coach somebody isn't to tell them what
00:26:51.080they did wrong and tell them how to do it right which is what most of us do the
00:26:56.620The way I coach is, number one, I ask myself, what is the principle that was violated?
00:27:02.280What expectation do I have and what is that principle?
00:27:05.820Most often times with leaders, I want to teach you to become a transformational leader
00:27:10.180is I want to teach you the process of creating other leaders.
00:27:17.740And the way we create other leaders is by coaching them up.
00:27:21.540But most of us have never trained other people or known what a coach does.
00:27:25.200I'm going to give you the three steps. First step, write this down, we go to
00:27:28.960principle. What is the principle they violate? Okay, so in that situation for
00:27:34.080Ann, one of the, one of the, there's five core SO, my SOPs are these things called
00:27:40.980North Stars. Actually, you guys just want the Google Doc that I work with for my
00:27:46.560assistant, would that be helpful? All right, here's the deal, just because you
00:27:49.860guys are friends of Carlos, follow me on Instagram, Dan Martell, two L's of Martell,
00:27:54.480write it down, at Dan Martell, or you can pull out your phone, do it now, and then message me
00:27:59.140Freedom EA, and that'll tell me to give you that document, okay, because I'm not giving it to
00:28:04.340anybody else, and if you're watching the recording, it's not for you, just for you guys in this room.
00:28:08.360Cool? Yes or yes? Awesome. In there, you'll see I have North Star Principles. Dan Martell is my
00:28:14.120name, in case you guys were. The North Star Principle, one of them is that the calendar is a
00:28:19.840work of art and complete and always optimizing for revenue. That's my calendar, okay? And that
00:28:26.580is one of the things that was kind of violated. She may not have known, I got to coach her up. So
00:28:30.600the first thing I say, the thing I want to talk about is the fact that my calendar wasn't at 100%.
00:28:34.780The second part to that is a story. That's why I always write down examples, okay? Give them a
00:28:41.760story of when you learn that principle, okay? So if you, let's take something simple. People have
00:28:49.100to show up on time. Does that bug anybody else when people show up late for meetings? Perfect.
00:28:54.480Okay. Principle. If you're on time, you're late. Does that make sense? That's my principle. You may
00:29:00.000not even know you have these unexpressed expectations, so we got to document them. We got to codify them.
00:29:04.700If you're on time, you're late. So if you're late, you're super late. That's the principle. I learned
00:29:09.260this the hard way. I had a client. I was supposed to meet them. I didn't show up on time, and as soon
00:29:13.660as I showed up, they said, you missed the deal. I'm going with your vendor. Nobody's late for meetings
00:29:17.720ever again, and I embarrass myself. You tell your personal story, okay? You can do a two-minute story,
00:29:25.000you can do a ten-minute story. So depending on the executive, I might tell a ten-minute story to
00:29:28.960really make it land. And at the end, this is the third part. So first part is principle, second part
00:29:33.940is story, third part is takeaway. I'll ask them, what did you take away from that story? What did
00:29:41.260you learn? And they'll say to me in that example, if I'm not three minutes early, I'm late. That's
00:29:47.480awesome. Then, commitment. Will you make a commitment that in the future you'll
00:29:51.260always be on time? Yes. If I did that with somebody, what's the probability that
00:29:55.400you think they're gonna be late in the future? Low. Because they understand it
00:29:59.720comes from my heart and that I learned this the hard way and I don't want to
00:30:02.420have you learn this. Right now it's low stakes. We just start working together. I
00:30:05.300need you to know. Most people don't follow this process for coaching, okay? So this
00:30:10.580is the transformational leadership. We start with the outcome. Where are we
00:30:14.540going? Then we go to measure. What is the one number? And then we coach them whenever we see
00:30:18.860them violate anything. And we teach them our thoughts and our stories, our experience.
00:30:24.280Anybody's had a great leader in their life, a great boss? Anybody have a great boss? I have
00:30:28.680this guy Darcy who's just awesome. Exactly. They probably did this to you and you didn't even
00:30:32.740realize they were doing this. That's what made them great. Here's my big belief. Delegate the
00:30:38.120outcome, not the task. Write it down. Delegate the outcome, not the task. Stop telling people what to
00:30:45.200do. Start telling people where we're going and let them figure out how to get there and coach them
00:30:50.420along the process. And that's how we build people. That's how we coach up. The third and final
00:30:56.260hot principle is the 131 rule. This will absolutely transform your life. Anybody that has a team of
00:31:03.340people and you're frustrated that your phone is always blowing up and they're always calling you
00:31:06.220and they're always emailing you, and they don't seem to know how to figure anything out.
00:31:08.860I'm going to solve this for the rest of your life.
00:32:00.380He goes, well, I don't know how to do that. Wow. Well, what do you think I should do? Oh, I don't
00:32:11.140know. Well, I've never done it. I said, Adam, I mean, I hired you as the director of HR. I hired
00:32:18.860you to do that job. I don't know how to do that job. Out of both of us, who do you think should
00:32:24.400learn how to do that job? And he's like, well, I mean, do you have any ideas? I said, what's your
00:32:28.440131. And he goes, oh man, I don't know. I don't have time for this. And I said, I don't, I don't
00:32:34.580know how to help you. Okay. Write this down. If you want to be rich, be lazy. If you want to be
00:32:41.300wealthy, be incompetent. Okay. If you want to be rich, be lazy. If you want to be wealthy, be
00:32:49.200incompetent. I said, Adam, I didn't hire you to tell you how to do your job. I hired you to tell
00:32:56.940me what to do. Does that make sense? Steve Jobs said this. He said it's easy to hire other people
00:33:02.800tell them what to do. It's hard to hire people and have them tell you what to do. So I said what's
00:33:08.860your 131? He said I don't know. I said how long will it take to figure out? He goes give me give
00:33:13.560me a day. So how about the same time tomorrow we meet up when we review? He goes that sounds great.
00:33:18.580It was like 4 o'clock that day. Next morning, 10 a.m., he texts me. I'm good. Duh. Like, I'll share with you why. Here's how the framework works. One specific challenge. When somebody comes to you with problems, okay, and I love you women, but you're the worst. You guys, I love, okay, I love you. Most of my team are executive or women, but you guys come to me with a hurricane of stuff.