Dan Martell - The secret to getting your kids to listen to you

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00:00:00.000 Sometimes we tell our kids to do something.

00:00:01.560 If they don't do it, something's gonna happen.

00:00:03.180 And you go, do you understand?

00:00:03.940 They go, yeah, that wasn't an agreement.

00:00:05.480 A friend of mine, he's a leadership coach

00:00:06.860 and he shares with me how to do an agreement.

00:00:08.680 And I was like, oh, I don't do it that way.

00:00:10.960 And he goes, yeah, it's the most important thing

00:00:12.580 you could probably learn.

00:00:13.360 It's the most important with your kids.

00:00:14.800 An agreement is something that was negotiated

00:00:16.960 and mutually agreed upon.

00:00:18.820 Even the concept of, do we have an agreement?

00:00:21.480 In most companies, their definition

00:00:23.420 of what truly that means is flawed at best.

00:00:26.840 Then we get upset because the person didn't deliver

00:00:28.840 the thing that we agreed on, but we didn't agree. We told them what to do.

Dan Martell - September 04, 2023