The one thing I know for sure is that every person should discover a skill that they love to do and become excellent at it, masterful at it. Like really put in the time and energy to develop it. Most people don t have a thing that they've ever been great at. They've tried things, they've started stuff, they stop stuff, and they try their stuff, but they've never gone deep into mastery. If you want to build self-worth and self-confidence, then you have to have a reference example of something you've mastered so that you can point at it and say, "No, I've done this before. If I do that work, then I can apply that skill to other things."