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Dan Martell
- August 06, 2024
These Rules Made me So Rich I Questioned The Meaning of Life
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I'm going to share with you the 17 rules of success.
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These rules are what make the top 0.01% of people successful.
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Some of these rules are what I used to make my first million before 27 years old,
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and others are from what I've observed rubbing shoulders with some of the richest people in
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history. So without further explaining it, these are the 17 rules of success.
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The first rule is to ignore advice from the bottom 99.9%.
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If you want to be rich, don't listen to broke people.
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The truth is, if your parents, your friends,
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your teachers have achieved the thing
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that you want to achieve, then great advice.
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If they haven't, then don't internalize it.
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Don't respond to it.
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At the end of the day, a lot of people in your life,
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your parents, your friends, your teachers,
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they all want to see you not hurt.
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They don't want you to go through pain.
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So they're gonna give you advice
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that's gonna help you avoid that.
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But the truth is, if you wanna be successful,
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you actually have to go through pain.
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You have to look forward to challenges.
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You have to do things that other people aren't willing to do
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so you can live a life that very few people can.
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There's this concept called crabs in a bucket.
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And oftentimes people don't wanna see you do better than them
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because if you do,
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then essentially you're showing them the truth
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of where they've been living a lie.
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So what do they do?
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They pull on those crabs, pull them down the bucket,
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they stay stuck.
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This is what happens oftentimes in small communities,
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in small towns, in certain countries.
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That is just the default behavior towards people
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that are trying to win and be successful.
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So don't be upset, just don't pander to it.
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Find people that have done it before
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and ask them for the advice.
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get the support from them.
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Asking people that have never done the thing you wanna do,
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what you should do with your life is not a winning strategy.
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Which brings us to number two,
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which is the results you're looking for
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is in the work you're avoiding.
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A long time ago, I decided to do this crazy thing
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called the 12 hour challenge.
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Essentially what you do is you start in the morning
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and you walk for 12 hours in a row.
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Some people might hear that and go like,
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that doesn't sound too crazy.
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Let me tell you what happens around hour eight,
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nine and 10.
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Your body was not designed to walk for that long,
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to stand up straight for that long.
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And your muscles start to fatigue and wear down
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and the pain and the muscles and the tension.
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Honestly, almost like doing a full distance marathon
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or half Ironman.
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I've done both and it hurt.
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But here's what's crazy.
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During that walk, I'd given myself a bunch of prompts.
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And one of them was,
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the cave you fear to enter most
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holds the treasure that you seek.
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It's a Joseph Campbell quote.
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And I was thinking about this the whole walk.
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and I would just meditate around
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what cave do I fear to enter most?
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What conversations do I fear?
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What work do I fear?
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What decisions do I fear?
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What strategies scare me?
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What am I worried I'd have to sacrifice
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on the back end of a decision?
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I just kept meditating and thinking about this question.
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And all of a sudden I started getting all these input,
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these flashes of like,
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you need to talk to this person and close down that thing.
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You need to make a decision around this.
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And I just started writing everything down in my journal.
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That 12 hour walk,
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Even though it was grueling physically, it was some of the most enlightening thoughts and energy and work that I'd done on myself.
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Because it was kind of crazy.
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For the first time in my life, I took a day to myself to just walk and be with my thoughts.
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And that was a beautiful experience.
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So pains and challenges are actually meant to shape you.
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You don't walk away from them.
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You don't fear them.
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You don't pretend like they're not there.
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You actually want to enter that cave.
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Most people avoid the hard work because they're scared at what it's going to require.
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Most people don't wanna do or make those decisions
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because they've made up stories about the sacrifices
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that they would have to make to achieve.
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In the achievement, there's a new level of success
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that they're scared they're gonna have to uphold.
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And they would rather stay small where it's comfortable
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and there's nothing scary about that
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than actually expand and achieve stuff that's bigger
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and be more successful
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because then now you have something to lose.
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That scares people.
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Most people are more afraid of their power
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and their potential than they are of staying the same.
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Which brings us to number three,
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which is simple scales, complex fails.
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It's one of my favorite concepts in business
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because what's easy is adding a ton of complexity
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to a business.
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You know, Elon Musk talks about this all the time
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when it comes to engineering.
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He says, you should be removing so many parts
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when you're building the next iteration of your product
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that it doesn't work.
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And you'll have to add 10 to 20% back
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to actually make the solution
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because what's easy over time is to create complexity.
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It's interesting because I see people lie to themselves
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in life all the time.
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You know, I have a friend that is a home builder and, you know, he was like, you know, I'm trying
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to scale my home building business. And I said, well, cool. You just sell more houses. And he's
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like, yeah, but it's not that easy because I got a team and I've got all these different demands
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on my time and I'm trying to find ways to get my time back to scale my business. And I said,
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what do you do? I mean, you sell houses. So you just build houses. He's like, well, we also do
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lease build outs and we do renovations for people. And oh, and we're working on some new multi-unit
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projects. And I laughed. I said, hmm, you think you're being simple by focusing on construction,
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but you actually have four different businesses
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that you're pretending are just one.
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Each one of those businesses
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could be a 10 million plus a year business,
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but because you have all four,
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you don't have time to make any one of them a great business.
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So understand this, it's so easy to make something complex,
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it's hard to keep something simple.
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Every time you add something, it starts with negative value,
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meaning that just having it in your business,
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it has a negative impact.
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The customers are confused because it's another option,
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it's another thing your finance team has to manage,
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Your customer support team needs to know about it.
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You got to deliver it.
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The salesperson's selling it.
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So every time you add something,
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it starts with negative value,
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which means it has to be so important,
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so valuable that it overcomes that negativity.
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So think about what you can remove in your business.
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You'd be surprised how you could probably get rid
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about 60 to 70% of the things you sell,
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the services you offer, the features and benefits,
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and most customers wouldn't even notice,
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but you'll make more money.
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Which brings us to number four,
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which is a spend money to save time,
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not time to save money. See growing up I watched my dad do this all the time. He would drive around
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and mow lawns at different apartment complexes he owned because he'd rather do it himself. He knew
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it got done right and he saved the money by paying somebody else to do it. The challenge was is then
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he didn't have the time to actually go look at more real estate deals. He didn't have the time
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to be there with his kids especially on a weekend when he was doing this kind of work. Looking back
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I understood why he did it but I also saw opportunities for him to have done more. Broke
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people spend time to save money. I mean, I've seen people, you know, drive for 20 minutes to go to
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Costco to save 10 cents on gas, not realizing how valuable their time is. And they could have just
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paid a little bit more, got that 20 minutes back, and then use that to go become more valuable.
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The most successful people I know protect their time. They spend money to buy back their time,
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invest that time to become better, choosing goals to grow them with that new time.
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Business and life is all about trying to find ways to create leverage. If you're too busy doing it,
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doing it, doing it, you're not going to have the time to expand and grow who you are. Which brings
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us to number five, which is 80% done by somebody else is 100% freaking awesome. I talked about this
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so many times in my book, Buy Back Your Time. Here's the big idea. Anybody else that does
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something for you, even if it's 80% as good as you, saves you that time that you can go do things
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that light you up that only you can do. And I hear this all the time. I coach a bunch of entrepreneurs
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and they say, but Dan, my employees can't do it as good as me.
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And I don't disagree.
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They probably can't because they're not you,
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but they can at least do it to a level
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that gets the job done.
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And then you take that time and go spend it
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on things that make you way more money
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than paying that person that hour
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to do the thing you didn't wanna do in the first place.
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Because you will only scale as fast
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as your ability to delegate.
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Most people with small businesses don't know how to delegate.
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They need to do everything.
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They need to have their finger on the pulse.
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They're double checking everybody's work.
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They're hiring people and telling them what to do,
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essentially doing their job.
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What's the whole point?
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So I came up with this thing called the 10-80-10 rule,
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especially for the creatives.
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The philosophy I have is the first 10% of a new project,
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I wanna be involved.
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I wanna provide some input, some strategies, some resources.
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That's the first 10%.
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The next 80%, the person's gonna go do the project.
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They're gonna start creating.
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They're gonna go do some research.
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They're gonna learn.
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And then once they actually get everything kind of done,
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then they bring it back to me for the last 10%.
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That 10% is where we really refine it
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to make sure that it really delivers
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on the promise we're making to our customers
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or to whoever asks us to do this thing in the first place.
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And then that way I get to buy back 80% of the time
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from doing the work that somebody else can do.
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And I see people mess this up all the time.
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They clean their house before the cleaner shows up
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or they're mowing their lawn
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when they should be working with a client
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making five times more money than they could
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than mowing their own lawn
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or they're running around spending 30, 40% of their week
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just running errands when they could have used an app to buy stuff or they could have hired
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somebody to do meal prep. So not spending an hour for every meal or washing their own laundry. I
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mean, even simple stuff like that with wash and fold will save you so much time. So this is
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something you can do at work for sure, but even more importantly in your home, which brings us
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to number six, which is worrying is a wasted use of your imagination. I got this from my coach,
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and my let, and I love this saying, if you just think about it, that anytime you worry,
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you're worshiping the problem.
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You're literally looking at the thing that could go wrong
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and you're making it the most important thing
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of a future that is as likely as happening,
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the bad, as the opposite, which is something awesome.
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You know, one of my clients, when I talk to them,
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they always think about the worst case scenario.
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It's a normal default behavior.
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The problem is, is in that situation,
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they're playing defense, they're not playing offense.
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Here's the big idea, is the negative outcome
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is as likely as a positive one,
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meaning that your ability to imagine a future
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that is negative is as probable
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as imagining a future that is positive.
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What you focus on expands.
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So if you wanna play a game
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where you're playing defense all the time
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and worried all the time,
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you're just gonna be in a negative space.
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That is not gonna let you hit your goals
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or achieve your dreams.
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Whereas if you focus on offense,
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where you're pushing, you're expanding,
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worrying about what could go awesome,
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you're planning for success.
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So use your imagination for positivity, not worry.
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One concept I like to focus on is API.
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Assume positive intention.
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Assume that no matter what happens,
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that there was a positive intention behind it.
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You're not worried about it.
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Somebody cut you off in traffic.
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Assume they gotta get to the hospital.
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Somebody didn't reply to your email.
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Assume something important's going on in their life
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and they'll get back to you eventually.
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It is as likely the reason as the opposite
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and you're making it all up.
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It's in your head.
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It's not even true.
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It's as likely to be true as the opposite.
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Do you understand how crazy this is?
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So don't let worrying take over your imagination.
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Which brings us to number seven, which is patient with results, but impatient with action.
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I get business owners coming to me all the time saying, Dan, I'm trying, I'm doing the stuff.
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I watch your videos, I listen to your coaching, and I'm doing it, I'm doing it, and nothing's
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happening for six months. If everything magically happened in six months, then I would be way
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further along. The truth is, is most people aren't patient enough to dedicate a decade or effort to
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what they want to create. They said, if I'm not a millionaire within six months, there must be
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something wrong. And the truth is, is you can't make a baby in one month with nine women. Some
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things take time. Some things require consistency over long periods of time. And most people are
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just not willing to be dedicated for that long. That doesn't mean you should slow down. I want
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you to take action consistently, be impatient with your action, but be willing to go long periods of
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time without seeing any results. It's the people that can do that that win the biggest in life.
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Which brings us to number eight, which is begin with the end in mind. I first read this in an
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incredible book called Good to Great by Jim Collins. It's like if you're climbing the ladder
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of success and you actually got to that destination, if you didn't plan for what it
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looked like, you might find out that the ladder is leaning against the wrong wall. And I see this
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happen all the time where people give up their relationships, their health, their mental
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stability all for this achievement of success, not realizing that once they get there, it doesn't
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feel good. They were climbing a ladder leaning against the wrong wall. And then what do you got
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to do? You literally have to climb all the way down that ladder, grab it across the room and
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lean against a new wall so you can start that process all over again. The most successful
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people I know start with the end goal. They literally say, what's the outcome we want to
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achieve? And then how do we work backwards to achieve that goal? They break it down into very
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clear projects that will allow them to hit that outcome. Which brings us to number nine, which is
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to be blissfully dissatisfied. I also got this from my coach Ed, because it's one of his favorite
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things to teach his clients. The idea that you can't be incredibly grateful for what you have,
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and in the same breath, know that you are here to create more, to do more, to become more. That's
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just silly. Some people say to me, they go, I want to do this, but I feel selfish if I go after this
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goal. And I go, interesting. Are there people in the world that have more money than you? Yes.
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Do you think they're evil? Absolutely. You can get mad at them, but if they're not doing good
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with their money and you think there's better ways for them to use that money, go make money,
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go be rich. You know, wanting more isn't bad. And I think that's what holds people back.
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Most people are scared to want more because they think in wanting more that they don't
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appreciate what they have. Separate those things. Those are completely different. I can be
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ridiculously grateful for everything right now. I can say I get to, I don't have to. I can have
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that mentality. And in the same moment, understand that I'm here to do great with my life. Which
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brings us to number 10, which is to invest in your skillset, not your lifestyle. When I was in
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my early 20s, I realized after two failed companies that I needed help. I was reading books, but they
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were computer programming books, which is the skill that I had developed, but I hadn't learned
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the skill of building a business. So I found this business coach, this guy named Bob, and I wasn't
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even paying myself. I had saved just a few thousand bucks to be able to even hire him. Even though I
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made a commitment for the year, I only had two months. So I figured if I could pay him for two
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months and he taught me how to grow my business, then that would allow me to make more money to
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be able to pay him for the rest of the year. And luckily the bet paid off within the first 12
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months. I made almost a million dollars working with my coach. And that's when I really solidified
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the philosophy that I have to invest in myself, in my skillset to learn the things that are the
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gaps. Because if I already knew what I needed to know to be successful, then that success would be
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in my life. The fact that it is not is the reason why I have to continue to acquire the next level
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of skills to allow me to grow. See, I choose goals that grow me. And I often say to my team,
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if the only people that can help us are within these four walls, we're all in trouble. Spend
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more times investing in you more than you invest in your job, because I actually know that that
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investment those skills and yourself will actually make you a better person to be on our team so
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don't try to keep up with the joneses by buying the bmw and the the nice furniture and the new
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condo instead take all that money invest it in yourself so that you can create more value you
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can make more income and live a life that very few people will ever be able to dream about which
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brings us to number 11 which is to never rush decision you know back in the day i was looking
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at an investment opportunity. Essentially, I could buy these homes in Detroit. And a guy approached
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me at an event and said, hey, the minimum purchase is 10 homes. It's $100,000. Called my brother. He
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was into real estate. I was like, hey, man, you want to buy these homes? He's like, sounds crazy,
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but sometimes things that look too good to be true aren't. So I decided to say yes. And it
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happened within a matter of hours. We wired the money. We became owners. They managed the property.
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We didn't think too much about it. A year later, we hadn't gotten any checks from these homes
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Well, essentially they ended up being condemned homes.
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We move way too quick to make a decision.
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Here's what I've learned about that since then.
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Anytime you have a big decision to make, slow it down,
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make a list of things that need to be true
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for you to decide to move forward,
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sleep on it at minimum and work through that process.
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I'm not saying don't make any quick actions.
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You wanna take action to verify an idea,
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an investment, making a decision,
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but you don't wanna sit there and analysis paralysis.
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You want to look at it and say, what's the risk return?
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Use the end in mind to make your decisions.
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The top entrepreneurs in the world, Elon, Steve Jobs, Bezos,
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were meticulous with their decision,
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but you don't want to make it without the information
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and you don't want to make it too quick.
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You want to take action quickly and decision slowly.
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Which brings us to number 12, which is invert your questions.
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And I first got this from Charlie Munger.
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He has this great quote that says, invert, always invert.
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The idea is this, most people can't tell you what they want in life,
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But if I ask them, what do they not want?
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They can make a list of all the things they don't want.
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So the cool part is, is your brain has an easier time
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trying to find the negative.
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So what you do is you ask the negative
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and then do the opposite.
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How can I guarantee to make money?
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Blast yourself, how can I guarantee staying broke?
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Be lazy and don't improve myself and eat like crap.
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Then those things would probably cause me to stay broke.
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Perfect, do the opposite.
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See, as humans, we're a lot more inclined
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to find the negative.
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Inverting it, it'll give us the path
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to find the positive things we should do
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to get those results.
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Which brings us to number 13, which is play to win,
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don't play not to lose.
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So I have these people that are always saying to me,
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you know, I've got this strategy to save on taxes
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or I've got this really sneaky way to not pay vendors.
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I get that.
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But my whole philosophy is instead of trying
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to focus on contraction, I wanna focus on expansion.
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I wanna focus on how do I make more money.
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I literally have friends that have uprooted
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their whole family, their whole living situation,
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their relationships to move to a country
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to save a million dollars or half a million dollars.
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Instead, they should have had the conversation
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with somebody to say, hey, how do we create enough wealth
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where it doesn't impact our lifestyle?
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How do we expand in a way
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where that tax isn't a big issue?
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I'm not saying pay one penny more than you should.
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What I am saying is instead of focusing on how not to lose,
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why don't you spend that time
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on finding ways to win even bigger?
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What you focus on will expand
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And the problem with that is one is a scarcity mindset
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and the other one is an abundance mindset.
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And any person you admire in this world
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has an abundance mindset.
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They believe in the potential of the future.
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It's a better energetic place to live in
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and it'll create bigger results for you.
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Which brings us to number 14,
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which is to start with the what, not the how.
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I know a lot of people,
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they struggle with their ability to dream.
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They don't give themselves permission to really think big.
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They don't understand that there's a lot of magic
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in the ability to project a future
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that is just honestly,
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there's no way you know how to create,
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but you allow yourself to see it and to believe it.
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Because if you're always focused on the how,
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then you'll actually miss the opportunity
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to create something huge.
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So focus on the outcome.
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Don't worry about the how yet.
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Hold the belief true in your mind that it's possible
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because what you focus on will expand.
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The truth is, is a big enough what and a why
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will take care of any how.
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See, some of you guys, you go to the how,
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which keeps the idea small
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because if you don't know how to do the how,
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you just kind of reduce the size of your goal
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until the how meets it.
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Instead of saying, who would I need to become
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to achieve this bigger dream?
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Then from there, you'll go find the how.
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The how will literally magically be presented to you.
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You'll be having a conversation with somebody
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or you'll read something or you're in a book
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and you're like, oh my gosh, this is the thing
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that I need to learn how to do
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that I didn't know how to do
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to actually get this result I want in my life.
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So just know, holding the what and the why true
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is gonna be more powerful than focusing on the how,
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Which brings us to number 15,
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which is to look for the problems in everything.
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Most people tend to avoid conflict,
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but if you wanna be in the top 0.01% of earners,
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you need to look for the problems in the world.
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Most entrepreneurs I know, all my friends,
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they can't turn it off.
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They walk around and they see opportunity,
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AKA problems all around them, inefficiencies,
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things that frustrate them,
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things that aren't properly built.
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And they see these potential solutions,
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businesses, revenue, income all over the place.
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They see it in other people's businesses.
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They go to a restaurant,
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they're like, they're doing this wrong.
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They see it in how a product's made.
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And that is a skillset that you have to develop.
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You have to look around the world and run the numbers
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and understand how could you find a solution to a problem.
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Here's a hack, go around your house
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and just make a list of anything that frustrates you.
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It could be as simple as the charging station
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where you plug in all your phones.
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Doesn't seem very intuitive.
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I can never find the connector.
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I don't like the fact that every time I park my car,
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I don't know how much distance I have
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to the end of the garage.
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I don't understand why I have to put my clothes
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from the washer to the dryer.
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But that's an example of focusing on problems.
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They're all around you.
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I remember one time when I was younger,
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I went to Australia and I went to a store
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and they were selling rum and Coke in a can.
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And I thought, that's so obvious.
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Like, why are we not doing this back in Canada?
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If you travel the world,
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you will see people solve problems in creative ways
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that are probably not well-known
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in other parts of the world,
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and that alone could be a massive business.
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So here's the deal.
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You wanna be really rich though?
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You wanna solve rich people problems.
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The richer the person is or the problem you solve,
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it will be a lot easier to make money.
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Most people, when they start,
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they solve broke people problems
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and they wonder why the idea never takes off.
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Which brings us to number 16,
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which is to be a river, not a reservoir.
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When people have good ideas,
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they think, I gotta keep them to myself.
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I can't tell anybody.
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You need to sign an NDA
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or I'll never tell you about my idea.
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The truth is, is great people, folks that change the world,
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they have this abundance mentality
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to not only their financials and their resources,
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but to their ideas.
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See, even like business coaches
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or people that teach their expertise online,
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a lot of them are holding back.
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They're not giving away their best stuff.
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And then they're wondering why people aren't leaning in.
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It's like, if everything you share
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just sounds very simple and basic
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because all the great stuff
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is stuff that people have to pay for,
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then nobody's gonna know
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that you're actually the best at what you do.
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My belief is that information should be free
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and implementation should be paid.
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If you wanna demonstrate your expertise,
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help people get a result in advance
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of ever working with you.
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If I wanna recruit incredible talent,
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I need to teach people out in the world
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how to get the best job in the world
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and hopefully they take that advice
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and eventually apply for my job.
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Create from a place of abundance.
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Teach, give it away.
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Let the information flow through you.
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Don't be a reservoir, be a river.
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If you do it right, here's the big idea.
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Your marketing will help more people
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than your product ever will.
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If you give everything away for free,
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high tides rise all boats.
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The more you get reach and reputation,
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the more opportunities will come back to you.
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My philosophy is very simple in life.
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I wanna create more value for everybody in my world
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than anybody else in their world.
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If I focus on that desire to help other people
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achieve their outcomes, I know it's gonna come back.
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Which brings us to 17, which is to monetize your passion.
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There's this great quote by Warren Buffett
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that says you can't teach passion.
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And for me, that was coding.
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Learning how to create software and write code,
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that was the thing that I became supremely obsessed about.
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I focused on it, I woke up and I started coding,
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I would think about it all day long if I couldn't code
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and I'd stay up till late in the night to write code.
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Here's what I learned at a young age.
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If I could find a way to have my profession
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be the thing that I love to do that I would have done for free,
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then it's gonna allow me to go further
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where most people won't.
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See, the best people in the world,
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the folks that you see on social media or in the press or whatever, building these massive
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businesses, it's because they're passionate about the problem. They're passionate around
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building the solution. They play around to find out what they're burning passion for.
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So here's how you find out what you're passionate about. What do you do when you procrastinate?
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That's my favorite one. It's what do you do? Some people, they organize their closet. What
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if you could get paid a lot of money to do that? And be like, oh, you can't get a lot of money.
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Closet organizers don't make a lot of money. No, but people on YouTube do. Can't make money
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digging dirt? Yeah, you can. It's called an excavation company. You can buy an excavation
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company, make a million dollars a year, and your job could be sitting there on these massive machines
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moving dirt around. So don't tell me that you can't monetize your passion. You haven't figured
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out how to because you haven't leaned into it. If it feels like fun, is it really work? When I
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travel the world with people I admire, doing cool stuff, creating content, having fun conversations,
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building this empire. If that's work, sign me up all day long. I mean, I don't want to brag,
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but most of the time I'm doing meetings on the back of my boat, wake surfing. I'm having chats
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with people and responding to text messages in between runs on my mountain bike. I'm shooting
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content with my buddy driving around in supercars. If that is work, then awesome sauce. And the cool
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part is it's available to every one of you. And just because you don't have the belief today
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doesn't mean it isn't true.
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So here's the big idea.
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Only do things that light you up.
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Find ways that you can get paid to do those things
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over and over and over again and become obsessed with it.
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Because at the end of the day, success is self-defined.
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So if you love everything you do in a day,
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you've already achieved success.
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Those are the 17 rules of success.
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If you wanna learn how I brainwash myself to success,
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click the link and I'll see you on the other side.
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