This Rule Made Me So Rich I Questioned The Meaning of Life
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People that win in life, the 5% spend the time trying to figure out where the freaking hole is and try to plug it. The 95-5 rule is like the 80-20 rule, but on steroids. It essentially eliminates the illusion of productivity by saying, "What's the one thing that if you knock out of the park, like a massive domino, will knock all the things down and get things moving?" If you're truly growing, 95% of your calendar is gonna look completely different in a year. That's how you know you're making progress.
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20 years ago, I came across a rule, a rule that completely changed my life and work forever.
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It's called the 95-5 rule. I first learned this rule rubbing shoulders with some of the
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most successful billionaires that you probably know. And I've personally used this rule to go
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from burning out, working 100 hours a week and ruining all my relationships, to building my
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dream life, a beautiful family, having access to resources like the plane and the cars,
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and mentoring hundreds of kids in my local community. So with that being said,
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this is the 95-5 rule. The 95-5 rule means 95% of your results come from only 5% of your efforts.
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Think of it like your life is like a boat on the ocean and you're going along and you accidentally
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hit a rock and now all of a sudden you got water that's filling up the boat. Most people would run
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to the bucket and just start trying to bail it out. People that win in life, the 5% spend the
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time trying to figure out where the freaking hole is and try to plug it. Years ago, I hired a marketer
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to come into a business that was doing about 3 million a year and they were super talented and
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had all the right things to say. And everybody was super excited about them hitting the ground
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running. And then six months later, we had to fire them. Why? Because instead of to stop and
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doing the deep analysis and figuring out what was actually wrong, they just started getting busy
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doing things. They didn't have the discipline to do the audit, to figure out where the problems were
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and then the discipline to focus on what to say no to so that they could actually move the needle.
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It essentially eliminates the illusion of productivity
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like a massive domino will just knock all the things down
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Which brings us to the question, how do you find your 5%?
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How can I focus on the right 5% if I don't know where I'm going?
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Like if I don't know what the target looks like, how am I supposed to hit the target?
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And people ask me, well, how do you prioritize?
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Well, if I know where I'm going, then I can ask myself, does this decision get me closer
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Without clarity of vision, it can feel overwhelming.
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A lot of people get depressed because they don't have clarity.
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If I don't know what I'm trying to do, how am I supposed to make the right decision?
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Zuckerberg, he literally said from the beginning, I want to build a metaverse.
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Elon Musk, the whole world, if you follow him for like five seconds,
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knows his number one priority in life is colonizing Mars.
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And that's why he started every one of his companies.
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Most people don't realize Starlink, Boring Company,
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the AI, Optimus, the robots, Tesla, self-driving cars,
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all the businesses I've created within that economy
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I'll go spend 90 days helping solve that problem
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so then I can go and get back to building electric cars.
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The clarity of your vision, what you see, determines the quality of your decisions.
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People ask me all the time, if you can go back and talk to that 20-year-old version
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See, most people don't give themselves permission to dream, so then their target is so nearsighted,
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it doesn't feel like it's big enough to make big decisions to move your life forward.
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You actually have to go way out there, dream bigger, and then aim for it.
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Then what you do, once you have that, sit down and write 12 goals for the year.
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Write down 12 projects, outcomes, things you want to do with your life that if you accomplish,
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even if you accomplish seven or eight of them, you know you're making progress.
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The next step is actually to circle the one that if you got done,
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every other goal would feel obsolete or not needed or be a lot easier to attack.
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Then I want you to write a list of projects that you got to get done to make that one goal accomplish and aggressively ignore the rest
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That is how you execute the 95-5 rule, which brings us to the question
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How do you make sure you're doing the five percent?
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So today I woke up and my calendar is full of only the things that I not only love doing
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But they give me the most leverage on my time, which i'll share with you in a second
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My dad had this like really original quote used to say which was if you love the work you do
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So that's why I designed the drip matrix for myself
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So the way it works is you evaluate all the things
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On one side, it's the things that light you up,
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It might be creating with friends, it might be research,
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Here's what's cool, is your 5% is in the very top
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right corner of the drip matrix in the production quadrant.
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It's in the quadrant of the quadrant that you focus on.
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Before I had kids, my life looked completely different.
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There was times when certain meetings were green
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And then I realized I don't wanna do this anymore.
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when I stay in those things that used to be green.
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So I have to learn to let go and really self-evaluate
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As an example, one of my friends owns a dental clinic
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because he was like, hey, man, I need to restructure my life.
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And he explained to me the biggest challenge, his bottleneck,
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Building a system for attracting, hiring, training, retaining top staff
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is going to produce the biggest outcomes in your life.
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Everything else is just things that have to get done,
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And the way I keep the main thing, the main thing,
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is I put that in my calendar first in the morning.
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not getting bored with it, not getting distracted,
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I moved on from them too quick and they were never solved.
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In a kitchen, the chef should only be doing the thing
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He literally sits there, the top chef, in a kitchen,
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he sits there and he does the work and the plates go out the kitchen perfect you want to figure out
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how to get your life to the same place where you stay in that flow you stay in that zone and have
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people support you around you even part-time even friends so you can keep creating and pushing your
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life forward so that's what you do the other 95 think of the three d's number one is defer some
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stuff that you want to do is just not a now thing understanding the right time for the right action
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is just as important as understanding what to do.
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Because if you do something too soon, it's not valuable.
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You're allowed to defer things to next quarter, next year.
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where I just like look at stuff that I'm currently doing
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if I actually just woke up and started to work.
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No, because they hadn't built the discipline of execution.
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So if you don't have a process to get ready for work
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But deleting things, pruning things is a powerful strategy.
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Most people, when they ask somebody else to do something,
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it ends up not getting done the way they want it and the person ends up getting involved and it
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doesn't save them any more time because they don't know how to learn to let go the way we do this is
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we got a handoff with clarity define what the definition of done looks like and practice
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delegating because it is an art one of my core philosophies to really get more time back to
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focus on my five percent is to train don't tell see if i'm telling everybody what to do then i get
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stuck in this tell check next doom loop of always having people relying on me to get work done
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instead I train them on how to think this way that's why I create this content is because it's
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for you and it's all the people on all my teams when you learn to let go you got to be sure to
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train them on how you did it a checklist is not enough some people are like I have an SOP not
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enough role play with them teach them the mental models think about the first principles how do
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you think about this? What are the frameworks you use? If you're mad that people are in a meeting
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and they're not contributing to the meeting, have you ever taught them how to? And if you don't know
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how to train people, the good news is there's this really powerful, expensive tool that you might
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have heard of called ChatGPT. It's free. Use it. Now I know choosing one thing is scary. What if
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you're wrong? Here's my promise. Picking something and doing as much effort and focus on it and
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learning and getting feedback is always the winning move versus doing too many things and
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playing a game of whack-a-mole in the dark. It's like fighting an invisible monster. At least this
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way, you can eliminate things knowing they didn't work versus not knowing what's broken. Now, if you
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want to go deeper on delegating, click this video and I'll see you on the other side.