Dan Martell - Treat your relationship like business

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00:00:00.000 Me and my wife have a weekly meeting.

00:00:01.360 Every Wednesday, we have lunch.

00:00:02.660 We do quarterly reset retreats where we disconnect,

00:00:04.920 we plan, we review our goals, we update our vision boards,

00:00:07.160 we talk about our challenges, who do we need to become.

00:00:09.420 It's how we've been able to evolve as a couple.

00:00:11.420 I took the fundamentals of success in business,

00:00:14.040 the rhythms, the routines, the values, the conversations,

00:00:16.900 all that, and applied it to my home life.

00:00:19.300 People that get divorced, it's because they have a fracture

00:00:21.580 and it gets too wide.

00:00:23.620 So because I sit down with my wife every week

00:00:25.580 and one of the questions we ask each other is,

00:00:27.140 how have I shown up as a husband for you?

00:00:28.640 I have the feedback. So I have a shot to make it better. If you call that clinical or too

00:00:34.040 structured, where else are you getting feedback? Well, I just know she's happy. Ask her.

Dan Martell - April 02, 2025