Dan Martell - January 20, 2024


When someone shows you who they are believe them


Episode Stats


Length

45 seconds

Words per minute

246.5035

Word count

188

Sentence count

5


Summary

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In this episode, I talk about what it means to be a good friend and how important it is to have a good one in your life. I also talk about why it s so important to have good friends.

Transcript

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00:00:00.000 you know when you like grow up with somebody
00:00:01.360 and you're like, oh, that's my best friend?
00:00:02.840 The challenge is at a certain point,
00:00:04.780 if you keep evolving and growing
00:00:06.300 and you objectively look at the relationship,
00:00:09.880 it occurred to me one day, I'm in my 30s,
00:00:11.820 that that person isn't even a good friend.
00:00:13.840 If you said like, let's make a list of what is a good friend.
00:00:16.580 Somebody checks in on you,
00:00:18.180 somebody that's your biggest fan,
00:00:19.860 somebody that's pushing you to grow,
00:00:21.440 they have high expectations for your life,
00:00:23.120 they're always contributing.
00:00:24.280 And I was like, wow, they do none of that.
00:00:26.140 Just because I met them years ago
00:00:28.500 and somehow we kind of deemed ourselves as good friends i just kept this person in my life and
00:00:33.620 then one day i was just like i'm gonna let them know see if anything changes i shared that with
00:00:37.560 them it's like hey i feel like it's fascinating you never call me never text me you're more
00:00:41.100 critical than supportive and i just decided that hey man when people show you who they are believe