Dan Martell - When someone shows you who they are believe them

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00:00:00.000 you know when you like grow up with somebody

00:00:01.360 and you're like, oh, that's my best friend?

00:00:02.840 The challenge is at a certain point,

00:00:04.780 if you keep evolving and growing

00:00:06.300 and you objectively look at the relationship,

00:00:09.880 it occurred to me one day, I'm in my 30s,

00:00:11.820 that that person isn't even a good friend.

00:00:13.840 If you said like, let's make a list of what is a good friend.

00:00:16.580 Somebody checks in on you,

00:00:18.180 somebody that's your biggest fan,

00:00:19.860 somebody that's pushing you to grow,

00:00:21.440 they have high expectations for your life,

00:00:23.120 they're always contributing.

00:00:24.280 And I was like, wow, they do none of that.

00:00:26.140 Just because I met them years ago

00:00:28.500 and somehow we kind of deemed ourselves as good friends i just kept this person in my life and

00:00:33.620 then one day i was just like i'm gonna let them know see if anything changes i shared that with

00:00:37.560 them it's like hey i feel like it's fascinating you never call me never text me you're more

00:00:41.100 critical than supportive and i just decided that hey man when people show you who they are believe

Dan Martell - January 20, 2024