Why Being LAZY Makes You More Successful (just copy me)
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What separates successful people from those who try for years and never get anywhere? Most people think it s IQ, their talent, or some mix of strategy and luck. But the thing that actually makes the biggest difference is being lazy. Now that doesn t mean do nothing, but there are situations where doing less makes you way more successful. It s how all the millionaires and billionaires I personally know got rich. And it s how I made my first million by 27 and got to over $100 million in revenue in my 40s.
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What separates successful people from those who try for years and never get anywhere?
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Most people think it's IQ, their talent, or some mix of strategy and luck.
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But the thing that actually makes the biggest difference is being lazy.
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Now, that doesn't mean do nothing, but there are situations where doing less
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It's how all the millionaires and billionaires I personally know got rich.
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And it's how I made my first million by 27 and got to over $100 million in revenue in my 40s.
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So if you want to get to that same level of success,
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these are the seven things you need to stop doing.
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Being always available is hurting your success.
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You have to focus on what you decided you wanted to do.
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first. Essentially on your phone, you can create a VIP list so that all the messages and the calls,
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et cetera, only go through if those people are on that list, which is kind of where I leave my
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phone. The only person is my executive assistant and my wife that's on my VIP list. Second, once
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you've got that, set two communication blocks per day. Essentially two times where you're going to
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plug in, review things and reply. And other than that, you ignore it. For me, 1130 and 430 every
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day is perfect. All these inboxes are nothing more than a public to-do list that strangers
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can put requests on. And if somebody messages you, just read their message and move on. You
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don't have to explain yourself. You don't have to reply to people just because they ask you for
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something. Now that you've protected your headspace, if you really want to be successful
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while being lazy, you need to quit doing the things that other people can do for you.
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Which takes us to number two, stop running errands. See, think about a chef. A chef that's
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in a kitchen, stays in one place, and he gets everything prepped around him. And as he needs
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thing, it comes to him and he creates the plate. It's called mise en place, one place, a French
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word. And when I look at people that think they're productive, they're just busy. If I was a
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multimillionaire and I was still doing my groceries and I hated it, I need to sit down and review what
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I'm doing with my time. You know, people don't put together 15 minutes there, back's 30 minutes.
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You do that three or four times a day, that's a couple hours. Errands are just a small example of
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I'm talking about. So here's what you need to do. First, audit your time. Look at your calendar
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over a two-week period. Where are you wasting it? Figure out in your calendar what are those
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little tiny tasks that add up that take big pieces of your time. Then outsource those. Use the app
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for groceries. Find a meal prep service. Maybe even get a robot vacuum as a very simple example.
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But once you know where you're spending your time, outsource it. You can renegotiate your
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relationship with time at any point. And finally, reinvest that free time into money-making
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activities. I'm not here to tell you to buy back your time to then go hang out on the beach.
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I want you to up-level your life, up-level your skills, be selectively lazy so you can be rich.
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You just have to stop trading dollars for pennies, okay? That two cents of gas you saved by driving
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20 minutes out of the way, your time is worth more than you think. Now that your errands are taken
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care of. If you really want to be successful and lazy, you need to stop doing more. Which takes us
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to number three, stop managing logistics in your life. Booking travel, scheduling meetings, doing
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laundry. It all feels productive. It feels like motion, but it's kind of like riding a rocking
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horse. Like you're moving, but you're not moving anywhere. If you want to be successful, you need
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to learn to let go. So here are three steps to make it easy for you to stop managing your own
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logistics. The first one is we have to build a preference doc. In programming, my world software,
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there's this concept called dry. Don't repeat yourself. So I've always looked at every decision
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I have to make through the lens of, can I create a rule that I can empower somebody else to follow
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that would get them to make the exact same decision I would make? If I invited you to an
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event and there was an intake form, how much of that intake form could somebody else answer on
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your behalf? That actually could be your to-do list to create a preference file. And if you're
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still stuck, go ask AI. Trying to create a preference file for everything that somebody
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else can make decisions for me. So I don't have to make decision again. What are those questions?
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It'll ask you, poof, preference file created. Once you have that, then we have to go number
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two, which is delegate. In today's world with AI tools, Fixer.ai or other inbox management tools
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are really great to actually help you take that. But guess what? It needs to be trained
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on the preference file. Make sure you do that work first so the tools or the people can do
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the work the way you want it. But if you're a business owner, hire an assistant to buy back
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your time. I mean, this is a no brainer. Learning to work through somebody else is a meta skill
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that if you learn now will apply in all areas of your life going forward. And once you've delegated
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now you have to fill again. Being lazy isn't about doing nothing. It's about doing less of
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the stuff that doesn't make you money and more of the stuff that does. Learning, getting around
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people that inspire you. Working on activities are going to generate more income. Those are the
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things that make you money. So not doing them because you're busy, that's the problem. So if
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you have an assistant and you want my internal playbook for how I work with my assistant,
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just message me on Instagram, YouTube, EA, or click the link below and I'll send you a copy.
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So now that you've let go of the logistics, there's still more things in your business
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holding you back from being successful. Number four, stop taking every freaking meeting.
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Most meetings exist because someone won't make a decision.
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But the 80 people in the room were software programmers.
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When I started to do the math of the amount of money
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can make sure that we don't have to be in every meeting.
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Asynchronous means not connected at the same time.
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So I'm a big fan of, hey, don't have time for a call.
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I don't want to have to schedule time in my calendar.
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Then we have to use a simple decision framework.
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He calls them type one versus type two decisions.
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Type two is ones that you can go into and out of.
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Make the best decision with the information you have
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And if you end up finding out that wasn't a great decision,
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Next, we have to institute a no meeting morning
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I think everybody should fight for their mornings.
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if we have the meeting at four o'clock instead of 9 a.m.?
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And the other thing I have is it has to have an agenda.
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that hour before, I'm going through all the stuff to prep
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so that I show up ready to go to make a decision.
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So if you don't give me the material to do that,
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then how am I supposed to show up the best way?
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And then finally, if a meeting is actually required,
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I will encourage you to make it as short as possible.
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If I can go 10 minutes and get the decision made, cool.
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If I gotta go long, five minutes longer, great,
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Meetings are the biggest waste of time in every company.
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The worst part, it's the people who don't value their time
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He said, thinking about doing the thing isn't doing the thing.
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Talking about doing the thing isn't doing the thing.
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Meeting about doing the thing isn't doing the thing.
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The only thing that's doing the thing is doing the thing.
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there's more things that you need to be lazy about.
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can accomplish things without you having to be involved in it.
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that's just defining what I call your complexity ceilings.
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that orchestra is gonna play shitty music.
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You need to choose the one that you're great at
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to come up with ideas for this video or others,
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we're sitting down for that 10% looking at ideas
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I give all the production, the responsibility to the team.
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which is you and I sitting here doing this video.
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Then I want you to consider the camcorder method.
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for somebody else to do, they get a video of you doing the work, talking out loud why you did
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certain things the way you did it, and then they can use that to do the work for you. See, most
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people don't hire folks because they think to themselves, it'll take me more time for them to
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get trained up than me just doing the work myself. I just use camcorder method to record myself doing
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the work the first time and then give it to somebody else so they can get trained themselves.
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And if you want a tip, take that video, drop it into AI and ask it to create an SOP, a standard
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operating procedure and watch it blow your mind. And last, we have to understand the replacement
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ladder. In your life, there's types of tasks that cost very little, that have low stakes to have
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somebody else help you on, that should be done first before you go to more complicated. So first,
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you replace yourself in admin, then delivery, then marketing, sales, and eventually leadership
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layers. There's a whole lot I can teach, but it's a complete chapter in my book, Buy Back Your Time,
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So now that you've stopped doing everything yourself,
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You know, my dad always asks me in my businesses,
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And he gets mad at me because I don't know the answer.
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so I can answer some random question from my dad,
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then I wouldn't have the time to shoot this video.
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You need to not focus on all the little things.
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and actually doing the stuff that makes you the most money.
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First off, you have to set up a financial dashboard
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that shows you the week of cash, your expenses,
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Next, we wanna schedule a monthly 60-minute money meeting
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So I do this across a portfolio of companies every month
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My buddy Dane actually said it to me this morning.
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He was like, last year I had a really tough year
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and a buddy of mine said I had to cut all my expenses
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I could do all that work or I could get on the phone.
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And if you find like this even sounds like a lot,
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you can use tools like hellofrank.ai to manage all this stuff, to produce a report, to give you
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the CFO conversation. So you don't even have to hire somebody. You can use AI to do it for you.
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And I always think of this philosophy. You don't win by spending less. You win by building something
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so valuable that people beg to pay you for it. And if you're focused on the pennies,
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that's just never going to happen. Number seven, stop working when you're not working.
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Checking slack at midnight feels like you're dedicated.
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In my first company, I used to work 100-hour work weeks.
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It cost me my relationship, me some friendships, my health.
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No, it's a demonstration of where you lack capability.
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The muscle actually only grows when it's recovering,
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Most people just don't work hard enough when they work
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to have the time off actually be helpful for them
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because they're always busy thinking about work
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where you can stop working without losing your life.
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First thing is you have to set hard stops and starts.
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Then you have to build a system that earns while you sleep.
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Most people are still stuck in selling their time.
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You need to get to a place where you're selling outcomes
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so I can get you that result on the lowest cost to me.
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but I would encourage you to schedule your life stuff.
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I have a life plan first, then a business plan.
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If you can't unplug, you haven't built a business.
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And the truth is, great leaders rush as fast as they can
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and I was talking to a female entrepreneur
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I can't take time off because it makes me feel guilty.
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This is a person doing 12 million a year in revenue.
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What level of business success would you have to get to
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of my life came from just deciding to not decide
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Because it's in the nothingness that I get the inspiration.
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It's in the wandering that I get exposed to new ideas
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that I get inspired for some big new adventure.
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And if you can't even find the time to do that because you feel anxiety and guilt, that's a
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problem. And if you have to convince yourself that you need to be more lazy to be more successful,
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I hope that message is what you heard. Now, if you want access to my complete
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executive assistant playbook, just message me on Instagram, Dan Martell, two L's Martell,
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the word YouTube EA, or click the link below and I'll send it over to you.
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That's how being lazy can make you more successful. But if you want to learn how being
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fast can also make you more successful, click the video and I'll see you on the other side.