Dan Martell - You have 2 families, the one you’re born with and the one you chose

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00:00:00.000 If the people in your family have never achieved the thing you want to go do,

00:00:03.820 then asking their opinion on what you should do for your life is flawed

00:00:08.120 because they're going to give you the exact same advice that they would do,

00:00:11.160 which get them the exact same results they got, which you don't want.

00:00:14.440 So why you ask it?

00:00:15.560 I'm not saying cut them off, never talk to them.

00:00:18.140 I'm just saying create a little bit more space.

00:00:20.440 You don't have to go spend two weeks with them.

00:00:22.080 You can spend two hours and that's fine.

00:00:23.940 And then with the new time, go find those people that are your chosen family.

00:00:27.880 It could be somebody at the gym that you keep talking to,

00:00:29.880 but you've never had the courage to ask them to,

00:00:31.860 hey, do you want to go for a run on the weekend?

00:00:33.620 There are so many people available to you,

00:00:36.780 but because you're so busy with the toxic conversations,

00:00:39.680 you never have the space to invite new people into it.

00:00:42.960 And those relationships will absolutely transform your life.

Dan Martell - December 20, 2023