You have 2 families, the one you’re born with and the one you chose
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Summary
In this episode, I talk about how important it is to have the courage to invite new people into your life. There are so many people available to you, but because you are so busy with the toxic conversations, you never have the space to invite them into it. And those relationships will absolutely transform your life!
Transcript
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If the people in your family have never achieved the thing you want to go do,
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then asking their opinion on what you should do for your life is flawed
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because they're going to give you the exact same advice that they would do,
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which get them the exact same results they got, which you don't want.
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I'm not saying cut them off, never talk to them.
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I'm just saying create a little bit more space.
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You don't have to go spend two weeks with them.
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And then with the new time, go find those people that are your chosen family.
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It could be somebody at the gym that you keep talking to,
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but you've never had the courage to ask them to,
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hey, do you want to go for a run on the weekend?
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but because you're so busy with the toxic conversations,
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you never have the space to invite new people into it.
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And those relationships will absolutely transform your life.