Dan Martell - You have to be the example

Length

43 seconds

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236.33879

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173

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Misogyny

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Toxicity

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Hate speech

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Summary

Your kids don t listen to you. They watch you. You can t teach them the way you want them to learn by the actions you are showing them. You have to teach them by the behavior you are teaching them.

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00:00:00.000 Kids don't listen to you. 0.98

00:00:01.860 They watch you.

00:00:02.580 I had a dad come up to me at an event.

00:00:04.100 He goes, my kids don't listen to me.

00:00:05.440 I looked at him.

00:00:06.180 Bro, you don't listen to you.

00:00:07.620 What are you asking them to be?

00:00:08.660 More disciplined?

00:00:09.380 Look at you.

00:00:10.040 Go for their dreams.

00:00:10.860 What are your dreams?

00:00:11.860 You want your kids to behave, but you're not behaving.

00:00:14.760 Here's what you need to understand.

00:00:15.900 Even though you think your kid can't see you, 1.00

00:00:18.460 they fucking see you. 0.99

00:00:19.800 They see you say, I'm not gonna have dessert 1.00

00:00:21.840 for the next month, and then eat dessert that night.

00:00:24.640 They watch you say these things.

00:00:26.320 Hey, get off your devices, yet you lay on the couch

00:00:28.840 and you're on your device.

00:00:29.660 all night don't scream at them on the sidelines of a game telling them to play harder when you

00:00:35.460 know in your heart you've been playing on easy mode you will teach your kids more

00:00:40.280 by your behavior than you ever will with your words

Dan Martell - December 01, 2025

You have to be the example

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