Flaawsome Talk with Kjersti Flaa - June 30, 2026


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Today is the deadline for Blake Lively and her team to file all the proof to support their application for attorney's fees for Justin Baldoni and the Wayfair Party's counterclaim. Also, I spoke to crew members on a shoot with Ryan Reynolds and they have some interesting inside stories about what happened on the set of The Hitman's Wife's Bodyguard.

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00:00:00.000 the personal assistant who was responsible for Ryan Reynolds on the set had to go to therapy for
00:00:05.920 years after. Hi and welcome to Flossom Talk, I'm Sashdi Flohr, journalist, Hollywood truth teller
00:00:16.020 and your voice of reason in a town built on delusion. Okay so today is the day, the deadline
00:00:23.100 for Blake Lively and her team to file all the proof to support her application for attorney's
00:00:28.960 fees. As you know, they can only ask to get attorney's fees covered for what she spent on 0.97
00:00:34.860 defending herself against Justin Baldoni and the Wayfair Party's counterclaim, which is basically
00:00:41.780 two motions to dismiss. And I'm sure her attorneys are going to take this opportunity to create some
00:00:49.200 new headlines for her. And that is why they're going to ask for a ridiculous astronomic amount, 0.99
00:00:56.000 which the judge is never going to allow so be prepared on how Blake is going to twist and turn
00:01:03.620 the law again trying to make it look like she was still defending herself against Justin Baldoni
00:01:10.920 even after his case was dismissed yes I'll keep you posted as soon as I hear or see anything about
00:01:18.020 these attorneys fees the deadline I'm sure is midnight tonight so definitely an update on this
00:01:24.420 tomorrow so stay tuned. Also I got some real interesting inside information today. I spoke to
00:01:33.260 several people who were involved in a shoot with Ryan Reynolds. The movie was The Hipman's Wife's
00:01:41.920 Bodyguard and this was shot in 2021 and you won't believe what the people who worked with Ryan
00:01:50.100 told me about him. So I've been sitting on this story for a little bit because I wanted to make
00:01:57.440 sure that everything was correct here and that I told this story as detailed as possible. I've
00:02:05.140 been speaking to people, several people, who does not want to be identified because they are risking
00:02:11.960 their jobs by coming out with this story. So this happened in 2021 when Ryan Reynolds was shooting
00:02:19.380 the movie The Hitman's Wife's Bodyguard with Salma Hayek and Samuel L. Jackson. The shoot was
00:02:26.580 done in Europe so most of the crew were Europeans. So all this information is coming from people in
00:02:35.120 the crew, discussions between them and several different sources that worked on this set. So I'm
00:02:42.400 just gonna refer to these people as they as they want to stay anonymous. So part of this movie was
00:02:48.360 shot in London and the crew was from Croatia and Hungary mainly and as soon as they started
00:02:55.140 shooting the crew was like something's off here something is really weird. They also noticed
00:02:59.640 instantly that there was some kind of distance between the main actors and the director. The
00:03:06.320 director of the movie was Patrick Hughes. So before the shoot even started the crew was told never to
00:03:14.200 look the actors in the eye and one of the people I spoke to said that this has never happened before
00:03:20.440 no one has ever told them not to look actors in the eyes and it was such an awkward thing to ask
00:03:27.100 because especially people doing makeup and here not being able to look the person that they're
00:03:33.580 actually working with in the eyes would definitely make things really weird and it did and at one
00:03:40.500 point Samuel L. Jackson confronted one of the crew members yelling at them saying hey what is going
00:03:47.980 on here it's something is so off why are people acting so weird why is no one looking at me why
00:03:54.020 is no one speaking to me this is the weirdest set that I've ever been on what's happening here
00:03:58.560 and then the person said we were just told that we can't speak to you and that we're not allowed
00:04:04.000 to look you in the eyes and he was shocked by this he was like who said that this is the craziest
00:04:11.120 thing I've ever heard what the hell please start talking to me please start looking at me and as
00:04:16.980 the same person told me Salma Hayek would never request people not to look at her they said that
00:04:24.100 Salma Hayek is the sweetest most amazing loving person she is so fun to work with she's so nice
00:04:31.880 to everyone. I'll get more into that later on here. But everyone concluded that the only person
00:04:37.660 who would suggest something like this, allegedly, would be Ryan Reynolds. The person I spoke to
00:04:44.240 about this also said that when they started shooting in Croatia, the tension on the set
00:04:49.500 became even worse. And they said that the crew was split into two units, main and second unit,
00:04:56.800 and we only worked together twice the main unit was with the actors while the second unit worked
00:05:03.600 with extras and stand-ins stunts and actors doubles they were having an okay time so the
00:05:11.520 people who didn't work directly with the actors were like okay this is a nice set we enjoy
00:05:16.640 working here the people who work with the actors said something very different the only different
00:05:22.900 was the main cast meaning the main unit was burning in hell while the second unit was having
00:05:29.700 a blast that was until the second unit had to make a commercial for ryan's gin so in the middle of
00:05:38.480 this the crew was asked to do a commercial for aviation gin no one had signed up for that and
00:05:44.360 they were told that it was such an honor to do something like that and this was their day off
00:05:49.440 by the way and it's so intense working on these movie sets so when you finally have a day off
00:05:55.220 then you really want to take advantage of that day to relax a little bit. When you shoot a movie
00:06:00.660 you start really early in the morning and sometimes the shoot goes on until two o'clock in the morning
00:06:05.680 and you have to be back at 7am. It's really intense. So as they're saying here some colleagues
00:06:11.580 from the second unit were called to work on the commercial for Ryan and the person said that
00:06:16.580 Apparently, they were picked up on the turnaround day, on the one day of work, on the commercial.
00:06:21.960 And I asked one of them, if the money is good, maybe it compensates for losing a day off.
00:06:27.340 And they said that he was already messing up everything with his Pokemon schedule and constant changes.
00:06:32.920 And that doing it was considered a favor that would look good on their CV eventually.
00:06:39.080 So, allegedly, these people did not get paid.
00:06:42.140 Sounds familiar.
00:06:43.540 All the people who have worked for Ryan Reynolds.
00:06:45.920 Remember that photographer? There was a long story on Medium by Eumonia Dyke who looked into how Ryan was taking advantage of a photographer and using all of her work without paying her.
00:06:58.700 This seems like a pattern of Ryan Reynolds. He believes that to work for him is such an honor that you shouldn't even get paid to do it.
00:07:06.400 They also said that there were several reoccurring frustrations regarding Ryan's behavior on sets.
00:07:11.540 most notably his tendency to distance himself from the regular crew. This is highly unusual
00:07:18.020 in our industry. Ryan was also known for frequently complaining about the script and changing his
00:07:25.360 lines. Sound familiar? And they say here that it became to a point where he was heavily relying on
00:07:32.140 his body double for just basic scenes, including shots where only his shoulder was visible during
00:07:37.960 dialogue so Ryan was too good to be there in person himself and he sent his body double to do
00:07:43.800 every single scene where his face wasn't showing basically and the other actors Samuel L. Jackson
00:07:49.780 Morgan Freeman was also in this movie Salma Hayek none of them did that and they say here
00:07:54.620 there was a tension building on sets Samuel L. Jackson got frustrated too because it was delaying
00:08:01.260 the shoot I met Samuel L. Jackson a few times I really really like him by the way and one
00:08:07.860 thing that really stands out with him is that he is super professional when he's on a movie set
00:08:13.220 he's there to work he's there to do the job and when people keep changing things up delaying
00:08:19.020 things i can just imagine how frustrated that made him they also said here that the crew members
00:08:25.780 were talking amongst them and they also learned that a lot of other people working in europe did
00:08:32.080 not like ryan reynolds he's widely disliked in the industry they said it is a it is frustrating
00:08:39.740 for the crew who are making insane shift for modest pay to watch someone collect a massive salary
00:08:45.440 while avoiding the actual work that producers are paying them to perform for example it is cheaper
00:08:51.680 to have a double than the actor on set but they get paid per movie not per day so i can imagine
00:08:57.960 it's frustrating for the other actors as well when they have to perform an act in front of Ryan's
00:09:03.920 body double all the time because he has better things to do than actually be there in the movie
00:09:09.120 that he's starring in. They also said that the high pressure environment caused several of our
00:09:14.760 runners to quit entirely. For those in entry-level position that kind of atmosphere can either make
00:09:22.000 or break you. And they say there is a scene in the movie where Salma Hayek slaps Ryan's character
00:09:27.800 repeatedly and they say regarding the slapping game incidents which has been discussed online
00:09:34.480 it was indeed written in the script but they didn't have to perform it in such a physical
00:09:39.680 way so there's a scene where sama keeps slapping ryan and he's wearing these glasses and she's
00:09:47.520 like it's not it's not even slapping she's using it like her fist and she kept doing it repeatedly
00:09:53.900 and they're saying here they weren't actually trying to hurt him but they were playing quite
00:09:58.100 rough while he was the one being targeted like due to irritation or desire to revenge
00:10:04.040 from Samuel L. Jackson. I guess Samuel L. Jackson also had some physical scenes with him
00:10:09.300 and Salma Hayek was just having what she perceived as harmless fun. She didn't seem to grasp the
00:10:14.940 intensity of it or perhaps she simply didn't care or she did. Regardless she's slapping. Again none
00:10:22.040 of us are actors so we don't recognize intensity but it seemed weird sam jackson he's not only
00:10:27.600 you know a legend but he's just an incredibly generous actor and i haven't i have a you know
00:10:31.740 a really unique chemistry with him and chemistry is something that i don't think that you can
00:10:34.540 manufacture it's either there it's not it's then they said the rest of the crew was such a dream
00:10:39.660 to work with antonio banderas was there he's a gorgeous example of a true gentleman he's a
00:10:45.300 classically talented beautiful and as authentic spanish as one could hope for tom hopper was also
00:10:51.820 an absolute pleasure a man who is truly beautiful inside and out I've interviewed Antonio Banderas
00:10:58.240 and I have to say that I completely agree with this description of him he seemed like so down
00:11:03.640 to earth so funny so warm so curious like really one of my favorite people to interview I have to
00:11:11.040 say so just adding that in there and they say here finally Salma Hayek is everything you imagine she 0.84
00:11:17.520 is. It is incredible how she manages to maintain such a normalcy despite her stature. She was
00:11:24.660 always polite, accessible and full of laughter, offering advice with a heart as big as a house.
00:11:32.760 She is deeply devoted to her husband, her daughter and her dogs. She was constantly rescuing dogs
00:11:38.420 and no one could quite figure out how she managed to do it every single day while remaining on time
00:11:44.540 and professional. She consistently showed gratitude towards the crew and her character is such that
00:11:50.840 some members of her team actually came out of retirement just to work with her again.
00:11:56.280 She possesses a rare, ageless beauty and it seems the universe has provided her with a perfect
00:12:02.240 balance. Yes, I've also interviewed Sama Hayek and I have to say that I also got the same
00:12:10.180 impression of her. She comes off as this very carefree person, very warm, very sweet. She
00:12:16.140 doesn't take herself very seriously and I really like that and I've never really heard anyone say
00:12:20.620 anything bad about Salma Hayek but as you know she had dinner with Blake and Ryan in the middle
00:12:26.800 of this legal mess and I'm not sure how close of friends they are but Ryan was also at that dinner
00:12:33.900 But, you know, she was also in a movie with Blake Savages a while ago.
00:12:39.120 She also had a speech for Blake to honor her.
00:12:42.280 She has been an inspiration to me.
00:12:44.920 I saw her take on one of the biggest bullies in this industry that everybody feared.
00:12:52.020 She was like, bring it on, baby.
00:12:54.120 What's your problem?
00:12:55.100 And I think for her, as for many other of Blake and Ryan's friends,
00:13:00.540 they're never seeing their true colors.
00:13:02.520 because of course they put on their charm when they want people to be their friends and they
00:13:08.560 want people in powerful positions obviously to be their friends so I believe Salma Hayek never saw
00:13:14.160 Ryan or Blake's true colors but who knows where their friendship stands now. I'm a little conflicted
00:13:20.460 though that if everyone else noticed on this set that it was weird and it seems like here that the
00:13:25.820 whole scene between Salma and Ryan when she kept hitting him was a little too rough and it almost
00:13:33.680 felt like she was getting out some anger on him or frustration on him then it doesn't make much
00:13:39.840 sense that they went out for that dinner I don't know let me know what you think about their
00:13:44.500 friendship is it real or does Ryan have something on Salma that he's using against her nothing
00:13:51.040 surprises me anymore by the way anyways let's get back into this they said here one time I
00:13:55.580 realized that Blake would be coming to visit the set her name was listed under a under a funny
00:14:01.420 side name it was so ridiculous because nobody has that that kind of last name I was curious to find
00:14:08.700 out who the driver was so apparently no one wanted to pick her up from the airport because people
00:14:16.480 already knew about her reputation so no one wanted to volunteer for that job so they just got this
00:14:23.860 really older man an old man from the village a local driver to pick her up he did not speak
00:14:31.300 any English either and he had no idea who she was and they're saying here just out of curiosity
00:14:37.200 they asked the man who were you driving that day and he said he had no clue what she was saying
00:14:43.020 or who she was but that she was a vile woman with no class you need to understand that these are
00:14:51.060 people from small coastal villages in Europe uh they're saying here yeah anyways and then they
00:14:56.980 talk about they had a shoot on the beach while Blake was there and the whole crew was told that
00:15:03.400 they couldn't keep their phones with them because they were so afraid that someone was going to take
00:15:08.720 a photo of Blake while she was there and they were like we're working with big movie stars every
00:15:13.680 single day why would we take a photo of Blake at the beach and of course the beach is a public
00:15:19.320 place so other people could take photos there who were there you know locals or just people walking
00:15:24.820 by so just the fact that they were told that we can't really trust you so we need to take your
00:15:29.280 phone away that doesn't sit well with people who consider themselves as being professional
00:15:34.240 then they said a couple of weeks ago they had met a European actor who was also in this movie who
00:15:40.620 had a few scenes with Ryan in London and the person had the same experience with Ryan saying
00:15:46.620 I realized that right away on the first day of shooting in the UK I was lucky since I only had
00:15:51.760 a few scenes on that project and they said and he said that you know amongst us actors you can
00:15:58.060 always recognize a sun god complex it usually burns talent some of these people that were on
00:16:05.920 this set had another project recently that they reunited on and then they kept talking about what
00:16:11.660 had happened on this set and one of them had said that if we hadn't stuck together we wouldn't have
00:16:17.900 made it through this movie we would all have quit a lot of people never worked again after this
00:16:26.060 project then it's pretty bad one PA a personal assistant was in therapy for years afterwards
00:16:35.140 he was in charge of Ryan giving him food and water and prepare for his trailer all of that stuff
00:16:42.900 running around Ryan he had to go to therapy after finishing this movie and they're saying here that
00:16:50.000 Samuel L. Jackson and Ryan Reynolds at one point they weren't speaking to each other and they
00:16:53.860 apparently weren't speaking to the director either and that was because Ryan kept changing the lines
00:16:59.280 and constantly complaining about things and was being really difficult to work with and Samuel
00:17:04.520 Jackson wanted the director to take a stand and actually direct the movie so he was upset with
00:17:11.200 Ryan Reynolds for changing things up and then he was also upset with the director for not
00:17:15.380 shutting it down and for taking charge because he let Ryan take control and authorship sound
00:17:22.940 familiar and the people on this movie set said that we kept quiet like everyone else scared not
00:17:28.400 just to lose our jobs in the movie business you're only as good as your last project it is not good
00:17:34.140 to get fired. So everyone just did their jobs and said nothing. They also said that it was so clear
00:17:40.660 how Ryan was treating people with power and money on a completely different level of how he was
00:17:46.820 treating people on the floor. Then they said typically when a cast member films their final
00:17:52.340 scene the entire crew applauds to honor their work and bid them farewell. This is like a tradition
00:17:59.660 on movie sets I'm sure you've seen it from some behind the scenes stuff there everyone's applauding
00:18:05.120 great job and now we're moving on to the next thing and farewell and people are hugging and
00:18:11.080 you know it's a moment and they said that for example when Salma Hayek finished her final scene
00:18:17.680 we all clapped she gifted the crew cases of wine champagne and craft beer personally signing every
00:18:25.600 bottle it was a touching gesture that made the crew feel truly appreciated in contrast ryan just
00:18:33.840 left he didn't wait for the applause which was set which set an offensive tone for the rest of
00:18:40.500 the team many of our colleagues were vocal about their disappointment so his last scene he was just
00:18:46.040 like walking off the set it was just such a ball i know a lot of actors say that they miss their
00:18:50.760 cast or miss their crew when they're leaving a set i don't know if it's always genuine but with
00:18:54.980 this this film it really was like leaving that set and leaving those guys and us all you know
00:18:59.360 heading back to our normal lives it was uh it was it took some adjustment because it was just such
00:19:02.880 a beautiful experience to shoot with them so yeah a lot of interesting information coming from this
00:19:07.440 movie set and i have to say the way that they were describing the other actors here salma hayek
00:19:13.460 antonio banderas samuel l jackson i had the exact same experience interviewing them samuel l jackson
00:19:21.360 was actually my first ever interview and I was terrified I remember I took the subway up to an
00:19:28.640 Upper East Side hotel and he was sitting there waiting for me it was not on camera it was a
00:19:34.100 print interview and I was supposed to record the interview and I realized I'd forgotten my recorder
00:19:39.060 at home at that time I didn't have a recorder because we had those old phones and he was so
00:19:43.840 sweet about it and I had to borrow like a pen from the hotel and I was writing things down
00:19:49.360 on these little notes that I found in the hotel it was a disaster but he was so sweet about it
00:19:56.360 and he treated me so nicely and when I left I asked if I could take a photo with him
00:20:01.420 and the publicist in the room was like no no no photos and Samuel was like she's getting a photo
00:20:06.960 with me come here and then he was like let's pose like this and let's pose like this and then that
00:20:12.860 publicist had to take the photos it was such a nice moment and it was such a great start for my
00:20:18.340 career and then i interviewed him again 10 years later and we had the most amazing funny conversation
00:20:24.020 ever you were my first ever interview ever 10 years ago yes yes now you're all polished and i
00:20:32.040 was so scared it was one of my favorite interviews ever anyways that's it for me today you guys i
00:20:37.900 hope you enjoyed this episode and thanks to my executive producer back there oscar he is taking
00:20:44.460 a nap he had a play date with his favorite dog here in Mallorca yesterday he was running around
00:20:51.180 on the beach with his friend Dino they're so cute together so he's exhausted today and of course if
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00:21:05.860 Bye.