Flaawsome Talk with Kjersti Flaa - Something Is VERY Wrong Here...

00:00:00.000 And what this actually does is invite people into having opinions about what they look like when

00:00:06.240 they're grieving. Do they look like they're grieving enough? Let's analyze her body language.

00:00:16.980 Hi and welcome to Flossom Talk. I'm Thiashti Floor, journalist, Hollywood truth teller,

00:00:21.560 and your voice of reason in a town built on delusion. Okay, so Cindy Crawford just broke

00:00:27.740 her silence on the death of her son Presley Gerber. And so did Kaya, his sister, and his father

00:00:36.680 Rande. I'll get through some of the things that they're saying on social media and also how the

00:00:42.860 media has bought paparazzi pictures of the grieving family, inviting the public in to comment

00:00:50.740 on their first public outing since the death of their son and brother. And they did the same

00:00:57.660 thing to chad love who tragically lost his 13 year old daughter just a few weeks ago the way

00:01:05.580 the media invited the public to criticize him for attending a wedding with his family is just

00:01:13.140 so beyond disturbing to me okay so presley gerber as you probably know passed away on september 20th

00:01:20.980 just over a month ago and of course the headlines were everywhere. I understand that the media is

00:01:28.460 covering these things. I spoke about it on my channel as well but what I found incredibly

00:01:33.840 disturbing is that they would buy paparazzi photos of a grieving family. We've already seen it twice.

00:01:41.340 On October 11th there was coverage in People magazine that Cindy and Rande were holding hands

00:01:49.600 walking on a beach in Malibu and a couple of days later it was photos of Rande and Cindy

00:01:56.220 visiting their daughter Kaya. They were leaving a car, they were walking up a hill. I'm not going

00:02:01.720 to show those pictures because I think it's just really disrespectful. Yeah there's something

00:02:05.960 incredibly disturbing about hiding behind some bushes to take sneaky photos of people grieving.

00:02:13.220 I mean of course the public is interested in celebrity life, celebrity culture, celebrity

00:02:18.900 scandal but isn't there a line somewhere and I actually don't believe that people actually want

00:02:24.820 to see these photos and what this actually does is invite people into having opinions about what

00:02:31.100 they look like when they're grieving do they look like they're grieving enough let's analyze her

00:02:36.880 body language let's look at her face she's wearing sunglasses he's wearing caps he's looking down

00:02:43.520 They're obviously grieving, but are they grieving enough?

00:02:46.660 Should they be outside now?

00:02:48.240 Can you imagine what that's like when you're going through the most horrific experience in your life

00:02:54.680 and you have to deal with the fact that there might be a paparazzi hiding in the bushes somewhere?

00:03:00.240 What really disturbed me was this headline that People Magazine did saying,

00:03:05.120 Cindy Crawford and Rhonda Gerber hold hands during first public outing since Sun Presley's death.

00:03:11.740 And then the subtitle is, the model and businessman's son died on September 20th at age 27 from a suspected overdose.

00:03:20.660 First of all, this is not a public outing.

00:03:25.040 They are not out in the public.

00:03:27.460 They're on a beach.

00:03:28.940 They're on a beach where they believe there's no other people.

00:03:32.120 And if this is the first time they leave the house, we don't even know that.

00:03:35.720 But people are saying that we know.

00:03:37.400 So they obviously had surveillance outside their house all the time then because they

00:03:41.540 know this is their first public outing.

00:03:43.940 I also thought when you're saying a public outing means that you're actually doing something

00:03:49.620 in public, not that you're just leaving your door.

00:03:53.360 If you walk outside your door, that's a public outing.

00:03:56.060 And it sounds like with their wording, their first public outing means that they're just

00:04:01.020 having some kind of comeback or something, a comeback from after their son died.

00:04:06.640 They obviously didn't want to invite the public into their grief and that's also why they were

00:04:13.620 walking on the beach where they thought there were no people and then People magazine takes

00:04:19.600 sneaky photos of them and make headlines like this. A few days later TMZ did another exclusive

00:04:27.540 with a photo of their parents visiting Kaya saying Cindy Crawford, Randy Gerber, family time with Kaya

00:04:35.540 at their home, weeks after Presley's death. I think the comment section on TMZ says it all,

00:04:42.340 everything that I've been thinking. One person saying, whoever took these pictures is a low-life

00:04:47.820 crumb bump that will rot in hell. To make news about someone leaving their house after they lost 0.67

00:04:55.040 their child? I mean. The reason TMZ bought these pictures was because they knew that these people

00:05:02.040 were suffering. So before they chose to come out and say anything publicly, the media wanted the

00:05:08.580 public to have opinions about how they thought that they were dealing with their grief. And can

00:05:15.320 you imagine the parents in this situation? Not only are they grieving their own son, but they're

00:05:21.100 also watching their daughter grieving her brother. And then you feel the pressure to come out in

00:05:28.180 public and say something about it i mean like this situation isn't heartbreaking to begin with

00:05:34.140 this is presley walker gerber and he was born on july 2nd and he was born at home in my bed

00:05:39.880 it took 10 years of looking back at my life being like well what changed what changed a lot of the

00:05:46.660 time people would always ask like you were such a happy kid what happened to you what happened was

00:05:51.000 life happened i spoke about this in another video as well how my heart breaks for this family and

00:05:56.340 How it can seem on the outside that you have everything.

00:05:59.380 Your mom is a supermodel.

00:06:00.980 Your dad is a billionaire.

00:06:02.820 Your sister loves you so much.

00:06:04.900 And still, you're sad.

00:06:06.600 You're broken.

00:06:07.760 You're trying to find your own place in the world.

00:06:10.360 You're trying to find your own identity.

00:06:12.860 And then people on the outside are like, hey, you got everything.

00:06:16.960 So what are you complaining about?

00:06:18.740 You don't have the right to be sad.

00:06:21.120 You don't have the right to feel miserable because you have everything.

00:06:24.900 if you missed that video i'll leave a link below for that as i said in the beginning of this video

00:06:29.660 now cindy crawford and kaya gerber and ronda gerber has come out and said something on their

00:06:37.400 own social media about the loss of their brother and their son cindy posted a beautiful photo

00:06:44.340 yesterday saying that we are beyond heartbroken to lose our beloved son and brother we feel so

00:06:50.260 blessed to have had presley in our lives for 27 years his sweet beautiful soul who loved and is

00:06:56.740 loved now and forever we're so proud of how he showed up in the world with kindness and

00:07:02.040 vulnerability we are grateful for the outpouring of love and support from so many who know and

00:07:07.720 love our family and even strangers who feel our pain till we meet again our sweet boy we love you

00:07:13.940 forever mom dad and kaya i noticed that cindy did not allow comments on this post and i think that

00:07:22.540 says something about how she's not inviting the public in to her grief even though i'm sure that

00:07:29.240 this post will get a lot of support and love she doesn't necessarily want or need that right now

00:07:35.740 and randa gerber her husband chose to share the exact same post on his social media and he is

00:07:42.640 allowing people to comment and you can see there's a lot of support there but i think this small

00:07:47.080 detail just tells you that people deal with grief a bit differently cindy hasn't closed off comments

00:07:53.960 on any of the other posts that she has on instagram and also this weekend kaya presley's

00:07:58.960 sister posted something so beautiful and touching on her instagram i don't know if i can read the

00:08:06.540 whole thing but i was crying when i was reading this i don't know i don't know this family

00:08:10.440 i just feel like the way that she was explaining her love for her brother is just really hit me

00:08:16.740 hard uh she said in the post i love you the blues to the moon and back and back again forever big

00:08:23.320 brother and she has this really long tribute to him how much she hurts and how much she loved him

00:08:31.840 and she mentions how he was the one who did things first he always went first he was her older brother

00:08:39.000 and she said something here that was so touching to me she said and I keep thinking about how

00:08:43.740 when we were little I got scared before getting my ears pierced so you went first you always went

00:08:49.800 first but when I held the earring that they took from your body all I could think was that belongs

00:08:56.040 to you and I really effing wish you hadn't gone first this time she continued to say I'm learning

00:09:02.780 how to love you when I cannot see you how to tell you something without picking up my phone to call

00:09:07.760 you how to be your sister in a world that I can't reach for you in I don't know how to do that yet

00:09:13.600 you missed our date I forgive you keep a place for me in the meantime because Presley even I

00:09:20.340 even knowing where it ends I would choose it all over again every second I would walk knowingly

00:09:26.980 toward this grief if it meant that on the other side of it I got to be your sister Richard Feynman

00:09:33.440 once wrote to his wife after she died you dead are so much better than anyone else alive my

00:09:40.940 darling wife I do adore you I love you my wife my wife is dead give me the whole impossible bargain

00:09:48.200 give me every year with you and then give me this all right I'll take it my darling brother I do 0.99

00:09:55.120 adore you I love my brother my brother is dead and this party sucks so bad without you press

00:10:02.160 my best buddy my great protector my hardest i've ever laughed and the one true love of my life

00:10:09.360 you lit all my candles and took all of my monsters away and i love you and i love you

00:10:15.340 and i love you only you know how much thank you for being there come on we're going

00:10:21.780 you don't trust me yeah well you don't trust me i'm coming in hot all right i will catch you

00:10:30.080 I will catch you.

00:10:31.520 Yeah, it's kind of weird to be involved in someone else's grief.

00:10:37.100 When you read something like this, it humanizes the people involved.

00:10:42.020 Kaya is not just the child of a celebrity or a famous model herself.

00:10:47.360 She's a human.

00:10:48.500 She's grieving.

00:10:49.360 She lost her brother.

00:10:50.640 And when she chooses to go on social media and say something about it,

00:10:54.500 she's inviting us to grieve with her when the paparazzi sneaking around in the bushes to take

00:11:01.700 a photo of the family grieving that is not something that this family asked for ronda her

00:11:07.460 father and presley's father reposted this on his story saying my beautiful girl to my beautiful boy

00:11:14.820 and a broken heart yeah i can't even imagine the pain this family is going through right now

00:11:20.920 And when this happened, just like a week after, I don't know if you saw the news of Chad Love

00:11:27.040 losing his daughter.

00:11:29.120 She was 13 years old and she chose not to live anymore, which in itself is so tragic

00:11:38.180 and so disturbing and so heartbreaking that I have no words.

00:11:43.800 And that's why when I saw this article in page six, I was like, what's happening to

00:11:49.800 humanity?

00:11:50.920 So Chad Love and his wife and their two other children decided to go to the wedding of their

00:11:58.300 nephew and page six made this headline. Chad Love, wife and kids make first public outing

00:12:06.920 since Fiona's death at nephew Matthew's star-studded wedding. Just the headline here

00:12:14.600 invites people to attack chad love and his family for going to a star-studded wedding and saying

00:12:23.300 that again this is his first public outing this wasn't a public event it was a private event that

00:12:29.740 he went with his family to celebrate his nephew and of course there were paparazzis there taking

00:12:36.560 photos of him and his family maybe there were drones as well there were some photos that were

00:12:42.820 obviously taken from really far away. So there were no photographers at the event who actually

00:12:48.660 leaked this. These were pictures that were taken to show a family in grief attending a wedding.

00:12:56.940 And by putting it this way, Page Six is inviting people to attack them. That's how I feel.

00:13:03.780 Even with this caption, they said, the life goes on, Alem, sported a blue suit while his wife and

00:13:11.540 daughters wore dresses so they had to add in their life goes on like a little dig at him like life

00:13:20.180 goes on after two weeks you know shouldn't you be grieving shouldn't you be a home alone not having

00:13:26.660 any public outings yet because we as the media should decide how long you should stay hidden

00:13:33.980 and in the meantime we could always speculate if you're bad parents but now when you're out and

00:13:39.260 about, amongst family and friends, we can attack you. It says here on page six, the wedding came

00:13:47.360 nearly two weeks after Chad's middle daughter, Fiona, died by blah, blah, blah, I can't say that

00:13:53.180 word, on September 29. She was 13. In a statement to page six, Fiona's family says they were deeply

00:14:00.160 heartbroken by the loss. When you look at the comment section on this article, page six got

00:14:07.500 exactly what they asked for people are all over this family attacking them I'm wondering what

00:14:15.680 kind of person are you when you sit down and you make a comment on someone else's grief when they

00:14:22.840 just lost their 13 year old daughter and say that you shouldn't do this you shouldn't do that you

00:14:28.860 should not leave your house you should not be around your friends at a happy event because

00:14:34.280 I wouldn't do that so then I'm entitled to judge you for doing that. It's like people are collecting

00:14:42.160 evidence against them saying like you can't be grieving you probably didn't love your daughter

00:14:47.600 because now you're out amongst family and friends and celebrating something that is a joyful event

00:14:55.640 while you should only be grieving. Some cultures celebrate the death some cultures grieve for a

00:15:02.640 really, really long time. And every individual deals with grief differently. If Chad and his

00:15:09.400 family wanted to go to this wedding and maybe being at a joyful event surrounded by people

00:15:15.900 they love could give them some sort of comfort. Who are people to judge that? Yeah, I don't know.

00:15:22.480 What do you think about these things? Should we really be invited in to have opinions about how

00:15:27.900 people are grieving their loved ones I think that's really taking it way too far and I think

00:15:33.680 sometimes we have to remind ourselves that these are actually human beings they're real people

00:15:38.280 with real feelings I mean I talk about celebrities all the time here on my channel and I call them

00:15:44.680 out when I don't agree with them and I'm very opinionated if I believe that they're entitled

00:15:49.960 or rude or bullies but we have to just remind ourselves that we are better than this yes

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Flaawsome Talk with Kjersti Flaa - October 19, 2026

Something Is VERY Wrong Here...

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