Flaawsome Talk with Kjersti Flaa - July 07, 2026


ULTIMATE Humiliation for Blake Lively !!


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00:00:00.000 Blake Lively is fuming. She has never been more humiliated in her life.
00:00:10.400 Hi and welcome to Blossom Talk. I'm Jashti Floor, journalist, Hollywood truth teller and your voice
00:00:15.740 of reason in a town built on delusion. Okay, so Blake Lively is furious. She is pissed and
00:00:24.540 very humiliated at this point because every outlet out there wrote about how she and Ryan Reynolds
00:00:32.620 were absent from Taylor Swift's wedding this weekend. I think that this is the ultimate
00:00:38.900 vindication for Justin Baldoni because now everyone knows that Blake is not a victim.
00:00:46.300 If she was, her ex-BFF would never treat her this way. Anyways, now I'm actually convinced
00:00:53.700 that Taylor was the one who planted the seed
00:00:57.160 that Blake was invited to her wedding 0.87
00:00:59.780 because then she could come out
00:01:01.380 and make sure there were more headlines
00:01:03.620 saying that Blake was definitely not invited
00:01:07.900 and they never had any conversations.
00:01:10.820 They never had any phone calls.
00:01:12.600 That made the humiliation even worse for Blake.
00:01:17.440 And I think this is proof
00:01:18.640 that Taylor is really holding a grudge against her.
00:01:21.680 Yeah, let's talk about all these sources coming out now commenting on their friendship and why Blake is so pissed off.
00:01:28.560 Also, someone sent me this older video of Travis Kelsey.
00:01:33.000 This is quite funny.
00:01:33.900 It's from 2016 and he's asked about who his celebrity crush is.
00:01:38.900 And guess who the person is?
00:01:40.960 This will make you laugh really hard.
00:01:43.840 Also, some very interesting new findings in that list of expenses that Blake Lively's attorneys filed last week
00:01:50.500 and they were asking for eight million dollars from the wayfair parties they're charging over
00:01:54.820 five thousand dollars here doing research on psychotherapist patient privilege so now we know
00:02:03.860 blake was seeing a psychotherapist let's get into that also i don't know about you guys but i've
00:02:10.120 been obsessed with this world cup mainly because norway has gotten so far and our team is so great
00:02:17.440 and last night we beat Brazil and I've never felt more euphoric in my entire life and it's really
00:02:23.100 ridiculous but now I get it why people get so excited about sports. I just wanted to say that
00:02:29.020 Norway is meeting England in the quarterfinal on Saturday and I am super stoked about it.
00:02:35.900 Anyways let me know if you're following the World Cup and if you've seen that Norwegian guy
00:02:40.420 the Viking Terminator who runs like this. There's so many memes about him online and I
00:02:47.340 love it and i think he's just such a joy to watch and of course he's become a national hero in norway
00:02:52.620 at this point but anyways let's get into the madness in hollywood so as i said a lot of outlets
00:02:59.200 picked up why blake lively was not invited to taylor swift's wedding and why she's so angry
00:03:06.440 about it and page six had a sorcerer saying that taylor's in a different place now and she just
00:03:11.760 wants to be around people she trusts and who bring her peace that's a bit interesting actually
00:03:17.340 because she asked all her guests to sign an NDA so I don't think she really trusts people
00:03:22.500 and especially since it was 1100 people at her wedding but anyways um it's a shame because she
00:03:29.260 and Blake were really close but she doesn't think it's something that's going to be fixed
00:03:33.620 as far as Taylor's concerned their friendship is done and the source also says that there was a
00:03:39.920 point where Taylor thought she and Blake would get past all of this she didn't expect things to
00:03:45.000 end up like this at first she figured once everything settled down they'd be fine they'd be
00:03:50.140 fine but then more stuff kept happening and it just got harder to come back from interesting as
00:03:58.180 they're saying at first she figured once everything settled down they'd be fine but then more stuff
00:04:03.400 kept happening. I'm assuming they're talking about the blackmailing scandal when Blake's attorney
00:04:10.400 called Taylor's attorney and said that she had to support her publicly and if she didn't she would
00:04:15.640 leak all these text messages between them but according to this insider they're saying that
00:04:19.920 it wasn't one big thing it was everything adding up. By the time Taylor was making decisions about
00:04:26.660 the wedding and who she wanted there she realized she just didn't want that kind of energy around
00:04:31.660 something so important and it really was a turning point for her. Yeah I just wish we could
00:04:37.180 have seen more text messages between Blake and Taylor so we could get some more answers here
00:04:43.020 but I think more and more stuff are going to leak out about what actually happened here
00:04:48.040 and there's more sources in other stories that we'll get to now. Rob Schroeder had this story
00:04:54.620 this weekend saying that Blake Lively and Ryan Reynolds will never forgive Taylor Swift for
00:04:59.200 wedding snub like taylor would care if they forgive her i think it should be the other way
00:05:03.620 around her but anyways it says taylor's wedding guest list may have done more than make headlines
00:05:08.260 it may have permanently ended one of hollywood's most famous friendships and he says here that
00:05:14.320 blake and ryle will never forgive taylor for this they feel completely humiliated everyone noticed
00:05:20.320 they weren't there and that's the kind of public embarrassment you will never forget yes when
00:05:28.420 virtually every major celebrity in Hollywood is under one roof and you're not, people immediately
00:05:33.800 start asking questions. The optics couldn't have been worse. The snub is especially shocking,
00:05:41.800 given how close the women once wear. Swift is the godmother to Lively and Reynolds' daughters.
00:05:47.140 Yeah, she's the godmother to her three daughters. Maybe not anymore. I don't know if you can just
00:05:52.820 give that up but it says here on the family's vacation together celebrated holidays and were
00:05:59.560 once considered inseparable I've said this before but I believe that Travis Kelsey was also a driving
00:06:06.800 force for their friendship to end because I think that he came in and he was like what are you doing
00:06:13.400 here this Blake person is just taking advantage of you and I don't really like Ryan Reynolds he
00:06:19.440 seems so fake to me why are you letting them use you like this and of course it's easier to do
00:06:24.700 things like that and to go through things like that when you have your partner's support anyways
00:06:30.040 it says here that after Swift was unexpectedly pulled into Blake's legal battle with Justin
00:06:35.660 Baldoni insiders say their friendship never recovered I don't think it was very unexpectedly
00:06:41.620 I have to say that that's been like an excuse for so long from Taylor's team that it was so
00:06:47.060 unexpected. But as you know, we've seen texts between Blake and Taylor and Taylor knew about
00:06:53.280 the whole strategy, about the plan. She was celebrating Justin's downfall in that New York
00:06:59.000 Times article. And when that New York Times article was published, Blake had already sued
00:07:03.980 Justin Baldoni in California. She had already filed that CRD complaint and Taylor knew about
00:07:11.420 that. So it was weird to me that she was so surprised by the fact that she was dragged into
00:07:16.340 it especially knowing that she was present at some of these meetings with Justin Baldoni but
00:07:23.600 anyways this is quite interesting to me because not only mainstream media picked this up but also
00:07:29.400 some of the women's magazines and as you know the women's magazine have supported Blake throughout
00:07:34.620 this entire legal feud they've been pushing out fluff pieces about her outfits about her care
00:07:41.020 care line and about relationship goals and all this bs and now the tone has changed cosmopolitan
00:07:50.740 has this headline saying blake lively allegedly pissed she wasn't invited to taylor swift's
00:07:57.380 wedding they'll never be friends again and then they're quoting page six and daily mail and
00:08:03.840 everyone else who has some sources on this and in style magazine did the same thing saying blake
00:08:10.680 lively does not attend taylor swift and travis kelsey wedding after rumored feud their friendship
00:08:16.700 is done there just might there just might be some bad blood and then daily mail has also some sources 1.00
00:08:26.520 here saying that now a source has exclusively informed the daily mail of lively's fury over her
00:08:33.720 rejection which has set a match to any chance she and swift might mend fences in the future
00:08:39.820 lively is sad and a little bit pissed no a lot pissed said the insider that friendship was over
00:08:48.500 before but if there was hope it's gone they'll never be friends again and here this is a bit
00:08:54.600 embarrassing saying that the gossip star wanted to go the source noted it feels bad to be excluded
00:09:01.200 like that she had sort of hopes that despite everything their history was enough that they'd
00:09:06.700 be included but that's not the way it went stars galore flocked to the wedding where a fairy tale
00:09:13.460 castle inspired swift's love story music video and it's mentioning a lot of the stars who were
00:09:19.880 actually present and what makes it really worse is that there were 1100 people there and there
00:09:25.780 were so many random big stars that everyone was really surprised about like what are they doing
00:09:31.660 at this wedding how does Taylor Swift know all these people or Travis Kelsey people like Brad
00:09:37.280 Pitts Tom Cruise was there uh Hugh Grant Zoe Kravitz their friends Dakota Johnson their friends
00:09:45.120 Gigi Hadid and Bradley Cooper of course Selena Gomez Ethan Hawke Adam Sandler was the officiator
00:09:51.120 Reese Witherspoon was there, Emma Stone, we know their friends, J.C., Jennifer Lopez, Jessica Alba, Tom Brady, Steven Spielberg, Elizabeth Banks, Fergie, Laura Dern, Lyon Hemsworth, Millie Bobby Brown, Sacha Baron Cohen, Seth Meyers, Stephen Colbert.
00:10:10.540 the list goes on and on with all of these big celebrities a lot of them apparently also according
00:10:18.040 to a rubshooter report says that the wedding guests who were there were like why are you here
00:10:24.400 do you know them but i remember taylor actually saying on graham norton that she was just gonna
00:10:31.320 invite everyone that she's ever met basically because she didn't want to exclude people and
00:10:37.400 that's why she just invited all these people and I think some of them some of these stars have been
00:10:42.920 on Travis Kelsey's podcast and that's why they were included but I just guessed that they wanted
00:10:48.140 to have a huge party and also apparently Paul McCartney was performing there and so was Taylor
00:10:54.460 Swift herself it was a huge event basically a huge party and some people are really criticizing it
00:11:01.520 for not being very personal because most people didn't even get to congratulate the newlywed
00:11:07.760 couple because there's so many people there anyways also someone pointed out that Carly
00:11:13.740 Kloss was there as you know her and Taylor had an alleged feud going on for many many years
00:11:21.360 because Carly Kloss who's married to Joshua Kushner allegedly had shared private information 0.95
00:11:27.880 to Scooter Braun which you know is also one of Taylor's big nemesis and also allegedly the fact
00:11:35.780 that she's married to Joshua Kushner whose family is Jared Kushner who is married to Ivanka Trump 0.99
00:11:42.440 Donald Trump's daughter and so there's been some political tension there but anyways now she was
00:11:49.340 also invited here and an insider saying Taylor could invite practically everyone she's ever
00:11:54.960 known. That's why Blake not getting an invite would speak volumes. This isn't about logistics
00:12:00.680 or capacity. If Blake is left off the list, it's personal. The bigger the wedding gets, the worse
00:12:07.060 this looks for Blake. Very true. There will be movie stars, athletes, politicians and music
00:12:14.200 royalties in that arena. When Blake isn't amongst them, that becomes one of the biggest stories of
00:12:19.580 the night and taylor knows it as you know tmz reported that blake and ryan were seen upstate
00:12:26.440 where they supported their daughter betty in this horse riding competition and it says here that a
00:12:33.200 dress down lively was a far cry from the glamour of swiss functions cutting a casual figure in a
00:12:39.540 navy tank top and denim shorts at her at her daughter's event also buzzfeed did a story on
00:12:47.120 how Blake Lively was snubbed here saying that it's interesting that Karlie Kloss was invited
00:12:52.300 and not Blake Lively. Apparently someone tweeted here there's no way Karlie Kloss is at the wedding
00:12:57.740 and Blake isn't. And another one said that I'm legitimately shook laughing my ass off Blake
00:13:03.420 Lively not there but Karlie Kloss invited after almost a decade of friendship breakup. I wonder
00:13:08.860 if she actually invited Karlie just to piss off Blake even more. I don't know what do you guys
00:13:15.420 think. Would that be something Taylor would do just to like put a final nail in the coffin for 1.00
00:13:20.580 Blake? Yeah, let me know what you think about that. Anyways, let's look at this clip of Travis Kelsey
00:13:25.100 talking about his celebrity crush and also the fact that Blake's attorney's researched
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00:15:19.880 let's get back into it. So Leanne Newton found this big kudos to her. I mean this list of expenses 1.00
00:15:26.180 is so long it's 162 pages so to go through every single post here takes a long time but of course
00:15:34.200 if there's anything interesting there someone's going to find it and leanne found this so blake's
00:15:40.960 attorneys are claiming they invoiced five thousand dollars for this research by the way one interesting
00:15:45.960 thing that magnus mentioned to me the other day by the way is that they're charging all these hours
00:15:50.740 for all this research while now when you have ai this should take like two minutes to do this
00:15:55.980 research okay it shouldn't take five hours and eight hours of research again another example of 0.98
00:16:02.780 how blake's attorneys have totally overcharged her if she has already paid all of these eight
00:16:09.280 million dollars that they're claiming here but anyways let's look at this post five thousand
00:16:15.120 for this research it says here on the one post conduct research re psychotherapist patient
00:16:21.980 privilege and another post says draft correspondence to m connelly re psychotherapist
00:16:30.840 patient and physician patient privilege waiver research so obviously blake and maybe ryan as
00:16:39.340 well, he was also in this lawsuit at this point, were seeing a psychotherapist. And as you might
00:16:45.520 remember, Blake didn't want anyone to know this. And that's also why she decided to drop two claims
00:16:53.480 of emotional distress in her lawsuit. She did that voluntarily. And the reasoning for that was 0.96
00:17:00.360 because she said she didn't want her medical information to come out there. But now we know
00:17:04.960 at least that she was seeing a psychotherapist and this reddit post pointed out that lively
00:17:10.820 withdrew her emotional distress claims at the end of may 2025 and it turns out that in march the
00:17:18.080 lawyers were researching the consequences for providing documentation for psychotherapists
00:17:24.280 and physicians it's so interesting that you think that you can sue someone for emotional distress
00:17:29.700 and you don't want to share any information
00:17:32.500 that proves that you had emotional distress.
00:17:35.360 But now we know that she was seeing a psychotherapist,
00:17:38.780 but maybe they found out that, you know,
00:17:41.360 you actually have to prove emotional distress.
00:17:44.340 And the way to prove that is to share your records,
00:17:47.140 your doctor records saying that,
00:17:48.840 hey, I went to this doctor and I told this person
00:17:52.060 all these things about my emotional distress here.
00:17:55.300 And here is the receipt for that.
00:17:57.620 And Blake didn't want to do that.
00:17:58.940 So who knows what she was talking to this psychotherapist about.
00:18:02.400 Definitely something she doesn't want out there. 1.00
00:18:04.720 Maybe she had been diagnosed with narcissistic personality disorder and she didn't want that 0.99
00:18:10.300 to come out.
00:18:11.260 Just like a wild guess there.
00:18:12.820 Also, I found this post a little bit interesting.
00:18:15.700 I don't know if there's any attorneys out there that could answer this, but on January
00:18:19.620 17th, they did research whether client may bring New York anti-slap claim for attorney's
00:18:26.560 fees in state court while bringing separate motion to dismiss in federal court. Yeah,
00:18:34.500 when you look at the date here, January 17th, that is the day after Justin Baldoni and the
00:18:42.100 Wayfair parties sued Blake, Ryan Reynolds and Leslie Sloan. One day after they started
00:18:47.760 redoing research on how to get the attorney's fees back. Again, it's so interesting how Blake's
00:18:54.400 team has been accusing Justin Baldoni and the Wayfair parties for just using PR as a weapon.
00:18:59.800 Well, I think this is exactly proof of that. Instead of focusing on defending themselves
00:19:04.180 against that lawsuit, they were thinking of how they could spin that in the media.
00:19:08.960 Anyways, the Wayfair parties have until July 13th to respond to this list of expenses and to tell
00:19:16.440 the judge that you should not give Blake Lively and her team $8 million in legal fees, make it
00:19:22.400 about $80,000. So that response is due next Monday. Anyways, let's get into this really funny clip
00:19:30.220 that Cecilia, thank you so much, sent to me. This is Travis Kelsey being interviewed back in 2016
00:19:37.020 and he's asked about his celebrity crush. Look at this. Celebrity crushes, I would have to go with
00:19:43.840 Margaret Roby, Jessica Alba. I'm going to go with a childhood favorite, Christina Aguilera. That
00:19:50.560 everyone's gonna get me in trouble and one more Blake Lively all right next yes how incredibly
00:19:58.620 cringe and funny is that Blake Lively was one of Travis Kelsey's celebrity crushes this really
00:20:06.220 made me laugh and then there's another interview as well that I found where Travis is asked who 0.98
00:20:11.760 he would marry who he would kill and who he would kiss this really stupid game and he's asked and 1.00
00:20:19.140 He's given three choices here. 1.00
00:20:20.780 He's given Ariana Grande, Taylor Swift, and Katy Perry.
00:20:25.140 And this is how he responded.
00:20:26.700 What is it, kill? 1.00
00:20:27.660 Kill, marry, kiss. 1.00
00:20:28.820 Ariana is kill, unfortunately. 1.00
00:20:31.620 Love you, but you're gone. 0.99
00:20:34.180 And then Taylor Swift would be the kiss.
00:20:38.440 And then Katy Perry, what's the last one? 1.00
00:20:40.080 Katy Perry. 1.00
00:20:40.760 Katy Perry would be the... 1.00
00:20:42.040 Yeah, Katy Perry would be the mayor.
00:20:43.080 He's like, yeah. 1.00
00:20:43.820 Yes!
00:20:45.360 Travis Kelce would only kiss Taylor Swift.
00:20:48.180 and he would marry Katy Perry isn't that funny especially thinking that Taylor Swift and Katy
00:20:55.080 Perry are no longer friends anyways let's see how long this marriage will last I have a feeling now
00:21:01.220 that Taylor Swift's popularity has reached a peak and it's been a little bit too much
00:21:06.100 overexposure there and it's going to be interesting to see and follow the Swifties and if they're
00:21:11.140 going to be as committed to Taylor as they were before she got married. Anyways, that's it for me
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