In this episode of the Fresh Podcast, Jack and Jack are joined by some lovely ladies to discuss the topic of the gender pay gap in the paddleball game, "conservative vs. miami ladies". Also, we introduce a new segment called "Raise the Paddle up" in which we have 9 Miami ladies raise the paddle up and see who raises the paddle the fastest.
00:07:46.000I disagree because I feel like women tend to, unless like I feel like women tend to deal with more sexual harassment in the workplace.
00:07:58.000So if they are getting promoted, it's probably not like because they're actually qualified.
00:08:02.000It's probably just because she looks the best.
00:08:04.000So I don't think that the actually qualify women who like take their time and like take the educational routes are getting the same pay because they're not as desirable by the men in those fields that are appointing the people.
00:08:17.000But I do think it's more like on the equal scale than it used to be back in the day.
00:08:22.000I don't think women are like so far behind from men.
00:08:26.000I would say if men are here, women are probably like right here.
00:08:29.000Like we're not like, it's not as much of the gap as it used to be back in the day.
00:08:33.000So my thing is I think like basically the reason why there is a gap is because well I'll start I'll kind of give you my full position.
00:08:41.000I think there is no gender pay gap and I think women earn less because they deserve less.
00:08:45.000And I think there's a multitude of different reasons why I had that position, why women deserve less when it comes to how much they get paid.
00:08:51.000But to go to what you said when it comes to like sexual harassment or them getting the job, I think that kind of adds more power to my agreement, my argument where women are getting positions even though they're not qualified because they're women.
00:09:05.000Because sexual harassment, but it doesn't change the fact that like they're still getting the positions, even though they're not as qualified.
00:09:11.000And I would argue a lot of the times when women get sexually harassed, that's from them making bad decisions on how they dress and how they behave.
00:09:20.000I think sexual harassment, a lot of it has to do with the woman's behaviors because sexual harassment means you're being objectified.
00:09:27.000I think for you to be objectified, you have to objectify yourself first, which I think women chronically objectify themselves first, then get mad when men objectify them in response.
00:09:48.000Okay, so on we deserve less, are you making that statement in the assumption that you want us at home and that we work less because we have to take more care of the home and men are more outside than women are?
00:11:25.000In certain things, construction, certain different type of carpentry industry, all different types of industries, especially even in the automobile industry, even in tons of industries, they outsurpass women.
00:11:40.000So of course they're supposed to get paid more money and they're supposed to be given more money.
00:11:44.000But at the same time, women do have opportunities where they surpass men as well, where men can't reach their pay scale and women can reach the men pay scale.
00:11:55.000But they're going to have to work harder.
00:11:57.000You have to put forth more work and more energy and a lot of more things to be able to reach at a man.
00:12:03.000But in my opinion, women do deserve if they work hard enough to be able to be paid on a male scale.
00:12:11.000But at the same time, certain things are more qualified.
00:12:17.000Certain more money for men is more qualified for men specifically because of that.
00:12:23.000I see your perspective, but what you're making the argument for is like you're saying you want equality of opportunity, which that's fine.
00:12:29.000But the reality is a lot of times they get equality of outcome, which is basically women want the same pay for doing less work.
00:12:37.000Like across the board, women work less hours, they work less dangerous jobs, they take less risks, they're more likely to take vacation, more likely to take paternity leave, of course.
00:12:47.000You know, women just don't work as hard as men in general, and they don't go into certain professions that pay more.
00:12:54.000And women also don't negotiate for higher rates of pay.
00:12:58.000They're more agreeable, which being more agreeable Also, lends to you earning less money.
00:13:03.000So, in general, there's a multitude of different reasons why women earn less, but I would argue the reason why women earn less most of the time is because they actually deserve less.
00:13:13.000Sometimes women do the same amount of level as other females, I mean, as other males, such as the industry.
00:13:20.000Like, for example, I had a job last week that I was doing 10 times more work than the men.
00:13:25.000We're setting up a basketball tournament for all the different high schools, everything, setting up the whole auditorium, setting up the whole main place at the Fort Lauderdale arena.
00:13:37.000Well, but there's a bunch of different factors that go in, like experience, education, background, all of these things play into a role.
00:13:43.000But I was doing more work than all of the men.
00:13:45.000And of course, the men, because of my appearance, you know, sometimes I don't show up ugly.
00:13:50.000I don't show up looking a hot mess like everybody else.
00:13:53.000So, you know, I don't look like the heavy duty like you're supposed to.
00:13:57.000So they might get a callback, but I don't get a call back.
00:13:59.000Was this like a physical manual labor job or something?
00:14:51.000They trump when it comes to Even though I'm in this industry, I still, to this day, don't consider this like a real job.
00:15:02.000It's a lot of work, but I still don't, I don't know, put it at the same level.
00:15:06.000Yeah, I mean, I see your argument, but typically wherever there's men and women competing, men just outperform the women because men tend to be better than women at many things.
00:15:17.000And men, a lot of times, have a higher incentive to work harder than women.
00:15:53.000Have you ever known a man to bear a child?
00:15:57.000What does that have to do with the wage gap?
00:16:01.000You said, well, the main point you were making is women deserve less.
00:16:04.000Yes, when it comes to being in the workfield and making money and being in the workforce, women earn less because they deserve less most of the time.
00:16:14.000For the reasons I mentioned, they work less hours, they don't work as dangerous jobs.
00:16:18.000Experience, education, all these factors play in.
00:16:22.000And basically what happened was when we talk about the wage gap, right, they say like the man earns a dollar and the woman earns 80 cents.
00:16:29.000That comes from all working men versus all working women.
00:16:32.000So all working men versus all working women, that doesn't account for education, all the other things that play into, you know, the situation as to why women get paid less.
00:16:41.000But being a mom or motherly duty doesn't really have to do with this.
00:16:57.000Women are literally incentivized now to be single and pursue a career in education over a family.
00:17:09.000So the wage gap is closing due to that reason, right?
00:17:12.000Because we're actually pursuing things in education.
00:17:16.000To a degree, it is closing, but women still choose jobs a lot of the times that don't pay as much.
00:17:21.000Women are more interested in jobs that, you know, social work, jobs that, like, teaching, jobs that have to deal with people, and those typically don't pay as much as like science, technology, engineering, math, or blue-collar jobs, which also pay a lot.
00:18:56.000There's a high gap to get in, and then obviously it's really needed because if you need a brain surgery or whatever, there's only a few people in your state that could do it.
00:19:53.000I think the way you're saying it is coming off kind of condescending versus if you were to be like men men do more because they're physically able to do more.
00:20:11.000So yes, you should be paying them more.
00:21:28.000Well, your statement is said condescendingly, but I don't necessarily think that you're wrong for your thought pattern because in general, I do think that men tend to put in more work than women do.
00:21:40.000You don't think men are superior to women?
00:21:42.000No, I do because like I'm not trying to be out there doing nothing.
00:26:10.000But are the nurses, the ones who help deliver, wash the baby, change the baby, transport you, are they predominantly male or they're predominantly women?
00:26:19.000Well, it's predominantly overseen by a male doctor.
00:27:33.000Yeah, but you need a man to do that too.
00:27:35.000So when I say men are superior to women at everything that matters, I mean as in like anything that like really matters for society and survival like men are better than women.
00:27:46.000What do you think matters to you the most?
00:27:48.000If you say that everything that matters, what matters actually in this day and age?
00:27:53.000Well, if I'm going to be very, very blunt about this, the only thing that really matters is force.
00:27:58.000So yeah, see, you looked at me crazy because women don't even understand this concept because you guys have the privilege of not having to worry about this.
00:28:05.000But the reality is whoever monopolizes force controls things.
00:33:28.000That tells me that she doesn't, she lives in a bizarre world.
00:33:30.000Because like a regular 15-year-old can beat up like 95% of women, grown women too.
00:33:36.000But I don't think like a lot of girls have ever been punched in the face by a man before, so they don't know.
00:33:40.000Only girls that, unfortunately, only women that have been like victims of domestic violence or been fought with a guy before or like maybe an athlete, a boxer or someone that sparred with a guy, they understand that concept.
00:33:49.000Like, oh, no, I can't fight a guy ever.
00:33:51.000But like regular girls, for some odd reason, think they could fight men.
00:35:02.000Like, women don't finesse men more, but ask yourself, I would argue that women finesse men because men are superior, so therefore they must use conniving behaviors and, you know, deception to get male attention because women understand that you need to align yourself with men because they're superior.
00:35:19.000So I would argue them using this tactic actually shows how men are superior because they have to use deception to get around it.
00:35:26.000Because if they were so superior, they wouldn't need the guys, wouldn't they?
00:41:05.000If women didn't have titties, vaginas, or I guess throats in this case, men would not talk to them or spend the amount of time or pursuit that they do.
00:41:56.000I think men would do it because genetically, God created men to fuck as more as possible women because you are responsible for reproducing the human race.
00:42:11.000And women are responsible for the quality.
00:42:14.000So, we need to choose the best man in the area to make the child because the child will have the best genes.
00:42:21.000So, because of this, for women, it's important to have one, but the best male.
00:42:25.000And for men, it's important to fuck many women because it's your job, guys.
00:50:29.000So anyway, my position is women, men are superior.
00:50:33.000Sorry, no, women have very little utility out of sexuality.
00:50:40.000I think, to be honest with you, that these guys converse with you in business and get to know your personality on the pretense that they're hoping that they can have sex with you in the future.
00:50:51.000I want to say, okay, possibly, but maybe only one or two made little hints.
00:51:00.000Well, you got to understand that men are terrified of rejection in 2025.
00:51:06.000And I'm going to assume that these men that you're friends with are probably lower status, maybe not as attractive, don't have as much money, don't have some status.
00:51:13.000So they're not attractive enough, but they're nice conversationalists or something.
00:51:17.000I only converse with people that I feel like is on my level or above me.
00:51:27.000Maybe they have a girlfriend, but they still want you.
00:51:30.000There's a multitude of different reasons why women put guys in a friend zone.
00:51:34.000But the point I'm trying to make is that notice how you can be friends with someone that is at a higher echelon than you that you get value from, but they're not really getting value back from you even though you think you are.
00:51:44.000The real value they want is the sexuality, but they're not getting that.
00:51:46.000So you're extracting all the value from them.
00:51:48.000So that's what I mean when I say being friends with women is useless and women get all the value.
00:51:52.000All right, so what, five, five battles?
00:52:59.000So what I've realized between men and women, right, when they're confiding in each other, women just want to talk to somebody and talk about their problems.
00:53:07.000They don't really care about solutions.
00:53:08.000Men, on the other hand, they typically talk about their problems looking for a solution because for men to open up, it's got to be worth it.
00:53:14.000For women to open up, it's like, oh, yeah, just open up.
00:53:17.000So, and this happens all the time when I talk with women.
00:53:19.000Like, they'll just want to get vent their problems out.
00:53:22.000They don't really care about a solution, but with men, it's like they're looking for a solution.
00:53:25.000So I would argue talking to men is far more beneficial because, number one, they are probably dealing with your problems to some degree and they can actually provide some advice, assuming they've accomplished something, versus a woman who's just going to hear your problems, but not really be able to help you.
00:53:47.000But why do you think you're advising men that they shouldn't confide in women and then like I feel like you're just giving them bad advice?
00:59:39.000Though that does exist, men are far more likely to pay their own tab and not they don't necessarily expect being given money like women are.
00:59:47.000Women have a sense of entitlement when they deal with men that's on a whole other level.
00:59:50.000But I know that a gay who pretends they are women and they make the women position in any gay relationship, so they expect that.
00:59:57.000Okay, remember, the argument is women provide very little utility to men outside of sex.
01:02:34.000I understand that, but I'm just No, basically, I was just saying, I was just saying men genuinely don't go to their other bros for comfort.
01:02:46.000Sometimes they need a woman to be able to reach out to.
01:02:53.000They don't go to their homies and bros because they can't vent to their homies or they can't vent to their guys like they could vent to the female.
01:03:01.000They don't feel like they could be feminine and open up and be soft with their dudes because they might get judged based on what they say or how they say it.
01:03:45.000Number two, you mentioned why are guys going to open up to their friends, their guy friends, instead of women?
01:03:51.000The reason why men should talk to their guy friends is because men are in a better position to dispense advice than women are.
01:03:57.000Remember the example I gave with her in the nails?
01:03:59.000You're not going to go to your boyfriend to get legitimate strategic advice on how to deal with your nail problem and getting overcharged at the shop and finding a better person.
01:04:06.000You're going to go to another woman or someone that can actually advise you in that.
01:04:11.000Going to women and talking about your problems isn't going to be helpful because, quite frankly, women don't live the same life that men do.
01:04:16.000I think women live life on easy mode, if I'm going to be all the way honest.
01:04:19.000So what the hell do I look like asking someone who plays the game on easy mode how to deal with hard mode problems?
01:04:46.000A lot of the dudes that hang around other dudes, it's fun to hang around men all the time.
01:04:52.000It's fun to ball out with your homies.
01:04:54.000But at the end of the day, when it comes to certain situations, can you go to the homies and be like, hey, hey, hey, this that I'm going through this emotions, I'm going through this struggles, I'm going through this pain, I'm going through this hurt.
01:05:06.000You can't go to the homies, so you gotta go to the no, because the homies don't understand.
01:05:12.000Some men, all men are built and they're all raised differently.
01:05:15.000That's where you're that's where you're mistaken.
01:05:17.000They actually do understand because men go through the same men understand.
01:05:20.000Some dudes, they go to their homies, they want to go to their men, they want to go to their bros to be able to reach out and talk to them.
01:05:28.000But the problem is they can't talk to them.
01:05:31.000Because they don't feel like they can open up and be honest and be truthful with a lot of the things.
01:05:36.000So that's why they always feel like they have to put on a show or put on a facade, put on some type of something for another man to be able to feed into.
01:05:45.000And they don't have to pursue nobody beautiful.
01:05:47.000They don't have to pursue somebody sexy.
01:05:50.000Look at all the niggas who need money.
01:09:04.000Going to a woman to try to get your problem fixed is futile because women don't really give a shit about helping men that can't help themselves.
01:11:17.000I don't necessarily disagree, but I'm not going to lie to you.
01:11:20.000Men definitely like to be little spoons sometimes.
01:11:22.000So men like to express, you know, their feelings towards a woman just a little bit.
01:11:27.000Like, they want to be comforted sometimes because then you wouldn't be having the fucking 6-2 guy with like the 6'5-3 girl over here hugging up on him.
01:11:40.000Trying to, like, you know, giving him comfort.
01:11:42.000You'd be surprised how many men want to be Little Spoon.
01:11:47.000I'm not saying your argument is wrong.
01:11:50.000What I am saying is that there are still men out there who are like, they have that sensitivity in them where maybe they didn't get it from their moms, which I think she was trying to touch on, like how they were raised.
01:12:03.000But like, men sometimes they in most situations, he's probably going to go to his bros because he's going to be like, all right.
01:12:11.000But then there could be that one time where like men like to be baby too.
01:12:14.000Like, not all men want to be strong all goddamn day long.
01:12:17.000Like, sometimes they want to be like your girlfriend's little baby.
01:12:20.000And you can't be your homeboy's little baby because he's going to make you be a baby.
01:12:24.000The argument is, if women didn't have titties and ass, men wouldn't really talk to them.
01:12:29.000In other words, women provide very little value outside of their sexuality.
01:13:45.000Yeah, women want decisive men that kind of have it figured out.
01:13:47.000Yeah, I don't necessarily disagree with you, but I do say that men, I mean, even if women didn't have the boobs and butt and stuff, I mean, you're not trying to little spoon your bro.
01:13:57.000So you need women to that proves my point even more.
01:15:20.000Going back to yesterday's discussion about the Ala Akbar boy, being a Jeep myself, the rebuttal would be that the girls in their culture are not like the Miami girls.
01:15:28.000Little do they know that most of these bitches are huge libs and feminists.
01:17:54.000I think his argument isn't necessarily that it's good.
01:17:58.000He's saying that men are capable Of cheating and the relationship won't be destroyed, versus if women cheat, the relationship is destroyed.
01:19:45.000In my country, the man always, when he started before started dating you, he always asked the other guys and the society who is this girl with who's she fuck?
01:19:54.000The reputation is very important because if a reputation is bad, so sorry, you cannot, in my country, you will not be able to get like high status men.
01:20:58.000Believe it or not, I know it sounds cliche.
01:21:01.000I know it sounds fucked up, but some men depend on a woman for, I don't know what, specifically, but they depend on that woman to keep that relationship going.
01:21:13.000Believe it or not, it's very much true.
01:22:20.000They still have partners continuously every single day.
01:22:23.000They can never make it's every porn star that I've ever met.
01:22:26.000So you're telling me a woman cannot cheat in a relationship, but a man can cheat in a relationship and he can still be able to move forward.
01:22:33.000But a woman can cheat in a relationship, but the relationship still can't be intact.
01:23:05.000Basically, what I was saying about that, but women can cheat in a relationship.
01:23:09.000If men really, really love the woman enough, if they really have a structure and they really have a good relationship, she could cheat and she could leave in the relationship or she could go sleep around with whoever she wants to and come back.
01:23:21.000It might be a little bit more of a more of a pushover type dude, but at the end of the day, if he's a pushover, he's going to take that woman back regardless.
01:23:35.000If he really, really loves her and really cares for her, doesn't matter who he's, who she sleeps with, she's going to always take her back.
01:23:44.000Same thing, you know, and that denotes to the point that you said men, men are willing to cheat and women will take them back.
01:23:52.000But what if a woman takes them back in the situation?
01:23:56.000What if he really loves her and really cares for her?
01:23:59.000And he says, oh, I don't care how much men you slept with.
01:24:02.000I don't care how much dudes you fucked around with.
01:24:05.000I don't care how much people you pursue.
01:24:06.000All right, how many men have you had sex with?
01:24:19.000No, I'm saying you don't feel yeah, you don't feel comfortable answering that question.
01:24:21.000I don't feel comfortable answering that question.
01:24:24.000Now, instead of answering that question, let's go into peel it.
01:24:27.000Why did you feel uncomfortable answering that question?
01:24:29.000Because it's just a random question that I'm just not answering.
01:24:32.000You know, because a lot of people just don't want to put their body count out there.
01:24:36.000They don't want to just put their sexual history and people that they've slept with and how many people that they slept with.
01:24:41.000they don't want to have to get involved in that.
01:24:43.000But in my opinion, if it's the right female with the right attitude and he really fucks with her and he really likes who she is as a person, he'll accept her for who she is.
01:24:51.000Okay, let's kind of just regardless of her cheating.
01:24:54.000So, look, I asked you that question on purpose.
01:25:00.000The reason why you hesitated is because women understand intrinsically that their body count is tied to their worth, and that worth is tied to their ability to find a man in the future.
01:25:10.000She kind of described it earlier, Miss Ukraine.
01:25:13.000And this is something that's been all across the world, whether it's Hispanic culture, Islamic, Muslim culture, Arab culture, Christian culture, Jewish culture.
01:25:22.000Chinese culture, all across the world, female promiscuity has always been admonished, right?
01:25:26.000And you hesitated to give the answer because you know deep down, if you give that answer, well, that could disqualify you from certain opportunities from certain men.
01:25:34.000And I'm not saying that to attack you, but if I asked any of the women here, they would be uncomfortable answering that.
01:25:38.000Rightfully so, because women understand that their body count is tied to their virtue.
01:25:43.000Their virtue is what makes them attractive to men and so forth.
01:25:46.000Now, if I had a high body count, would you feel like my virtue would go down?
01:26:13.000My point is that he's doing something right, whether he has status, he has money, he's charming, he's good looking, he's doing something right.
01:26:20.000Versus if a woman having sex with a lot of dudes, she's doing something very wrong.
01:26:25.000What's hard to attain is always respected.
01:26:27.000What's easy to attain is never respected.
01:26:29.000This is why the brain surgeon gets far more respect than the high school graduate, because that person had to put in the work to get to that level.
01:26:38.000So now that we've established why sex for men is different than it is for women, now we can kind of go into this topic about promiscuity and then why a man can cheat and a woman can't.
01:26:50.000For a man to get sex from another girl, for us is just physical.
01:26:54.000It's not deeply, you know, it's not deep like it is for you guys.
01:26:57.000You guys need to have an emotional tie.
01:26:59.000This is why it's so bad when you have high body count because what's effectively shown is that your soul is gone because you're just fucking anybody.
01:27:08.000Men, on the other hand, we don't need those same emotional ties.
01:27:11.000So we can fuck another girl and come back to our wife and be fine.
01:27:13.000So when I make the argument that a man could cheat on his girlfriend and the relationship will stay intact, yeah, there's a high likelihood.
01:27:19.000Now, is there a chance that he could fall in love with a girl?
01:28:31.000Men can cheat and the relationship will stay intact or can stay intact or capable of staying intact versus for a woman, um, it's cooked if she cheats.
01:31:17.000You got to understand that men and women are different.
01:31:19.000So a big violation on you is not going to be the same as a big violation on me.
01:31:25.000Like, we have completely, since men and women are different and we're opposing each other, we're adversarial, there's different violations from the opposite genders.
01:31:32.000Our biggest chief concern is you cheating.
01:31:35.000Your biggest chief concern is he could, can he provide or protect?
01:31:39.000So, if I don't do my job and I don't protect you and I just let the dude sock you and take your shit, you're gonna leave me.
01:32:51.000Because if the woman is the main breadwinner and she's holding all the masculine energy, I feel as though that at that point, then it doesn't matter.
01:33:02.000Like, if he cheats, then yeah, you got to go.
01:33:04.000Because like, I'm the one paying all the bills.
01:33:05.000Well, that's where the guy failed is by even allowing the woman to be in a position of power.
01:33:10.000And like in this day and age, a lot of the times women are like holding on.
01:33:15.000I would agree with you that allowing a woman to control the frame like that and be the breadwinner, which naturally puts her in a leadership role.
01:33:22.000Yeah, if she cheats on you, you did that to yourself by being an idiot.
01:33:25.000But this is why I say men need to cheat.
01:33:26.000Yeah, but then what I was saying in that same token, like if he cheats, then he would be like in that role of like, that's not okay because like you're not even like contributing to the home as much as, you know what I'm saying?
01:33:39.000No, I mean like what I'm saying, okay, number one, when women have levers, they're terrible people.
01:33:44.000So what you described before with when women have money, yeah, you're right, they're terrible people.
01:33:48.000And they will go ahead and dog you out and be 304s and talk to you crazy.
01:33:53.000The reason why I say men need to be the one, because here's the thing.
01:33:56.000If I bust my girl around and I'm the moneymaker and I tell her, hey, go to the fucking kitchen or hey, make me a sandwich or hey, I'm going to go out fuck some bitches and come back.
01:34:03.000That's okay because that's actually a dynamic that women are attracted to.
01:34:06.000Like women, whether they want to admit it or not, like that dominant, assertive lifestyle, right?
01:34:11.000And I can still provide for her and I'm in my masculine.
01:34:14.000She's in her feminine by following me.
01:34:15.000But when it's the other way around and she's the one making the money, bossing me around and cheating on me, cooked.
01:34:27.000Because women don't want to run around and fuck other guys.
01:34:30.000Most of the time with women, it's kind of out of mistakes.
01:34:32.000Women go out, have fun, and get drunk, and the mistakes happen with women too.
01:34:36.000Well, this is why, I mean, you're like a woman in a relationship?
01:34:40.000Yeah, like men, like a lot of times, a lot of times where, like, the woman forgives the man, it's because, all right, the man, he messed up, like, he went out, had bought with his friends, and then, like, you know, he may have slipped up and slept with this random girl.
01:34:53.000But, like, women have those experiences too.
01:41:37.000So she's sacrificing her child's development for her happiness, which ends up happening most of the time.
01:41:41.000My argument is you should bear it out, not be happy, at least get your kid to college, bare minimum.
01:41:46.000I feel that they should not dug it out because you're going to waste your youth on that marriage, on that man that is not deserving when you could just go out there and reach your goals of what you want to be.
01:41:58.000What's the definition of true happiness than being with an image that is in a delusion world?
01:42:04.000Well, thank you for proving once again that women provide less little value outside of their sexuality because you literally cited your youth as one of the main reasons why you need to get out of there, which proves my point that a woman's sexual market value is perishable.
01:42:15.000But yeah, I think preserving your youth shouldn't override the development of your children.
01:42:45.000Why be in a miserable relationship of 40 years long just to keep the children happy together and be raised with an image that is not affected?
01:42:54.000I'm saying at least let the kids get to college.
01:43:09.000I mean, she's still married to this day, but she believes in marriage.
01:43:12.000And I feel that happiness should come first.
01:43:14.000Sometimes, you know, people, you know, that aren't married for a long term with long, with a certain amount of children, they tell their children they're not happy.
01:43:23.000I should have left your father or X, Y reasons.
01:43:26.000And I feel that for those factors, it's unhealthy to stay in a relationship just to raise your children.
01:43:33.000I feel that happiness should go first.
01:45:16.000But at the end of the day, in my opinion, in order to be able for both parties, not all the time men are the ones that are dissatisfied in a relationship.
01:45:31.000Sometimes men are the ones that are dissatisfied in a relationship.
01:45:35.000And they're the ones who initiate that.
01:46:27.000Abusive relationships, certain females have to leave.
01:46:30.000Have you ever seen, have you ever helped, have you ever seen so many movies where the woman has to leave the fucking relationship?
01:46:39.000If she doesn't leave the relationship, the man is going to beat her to death.
01:46:42.000Yeah, the reality is, when women say, I'm in an abusive relationship, a lot of the times we've basically taken this term abusive and used it for anything.
01:46:52.000No, but are you supposed to endure abuse?
01:46:54.000It's not about whether it's verbally, physically, emotionally.
01:47:37.000She could have all the outside physical appearance of showing that she's been beat up and been manipulated.
01:47:43.000So number one, when it comes to domestic violence, if there's one aggressor that beats on the other, most of the time, interesting fact, it's the woman beating on the man.
01:47:51.000It's not the man beating on the other.
01:47:52.000It's the woman beating on the man when there's one aggression.
01:47:54.000It's not the man beating on the woman.
01:50:11.000It's her maybe not adhering to what she's supposed to do.
01:50:14.000And women all the time use abuse for valid criticism.
01:50:18.000I've seen women call it emotional abuse for her husband critiquing her or telling her, hey, do this instead.
01:50:24.000So women use it as a fail-safe because they know that they're always going to get the benefit of the doubt and they're always going to get the benefit.
01:50:30.000And this has kind of created this environment where we believe all women.
01:51:04.000Is that how you talk to women to be able to do that?
01:51:07.000Let's go ahead and go over your scenario.
01:51:10.000You got to understand that abuse can be interpreted as it's subjective.
01:51:15.000If I tell one woman you're stupid, she might say, I need to go read a book.
01:51:18.000I am stupid and take it as constructive criticism.
01:51:21.000Another woman will say, that's abuse, even though I am a fucking retard.
01:51:24.000So the problem with abuse, this nebulous term that women like to throw around when they're in a relationship with a guy, is they can weaponize it, right, off of valid critiques or valid conversation because women, unfortunately, don't like to take accountability because the state does it for them.
01:51:48.000They get all this financial situation where they can go ahead and get half the money, alimony, child support.
01:51:52.000So there's an incentive for women to say, I'm abused.
01:51:56.000So, and the problem with abuse is it's a subjective term and it's nebulous.
01:51:59.000No one really knows the definition of abuse nowadays.
01:52:01.000So though there are situations where it's valid, I would argue a lot of the times it's used as a placeholder term to justify divorcing, ending relationships, and it's because of their happiness.
01:52:12.000But the reality is they have a bunch of incentives to leave.
01:52:15.000But truthfully, if anything, what about think about celebrities?
01:52:21.000Think about celebrities who are based off, you know, celebrities who make money, music artists, who get with lesser men who don't make as much money as them.
01:52:31.000But at the end of the day, is she the one who initiates the divorce?
01:52:35.000Or is it the man who initiates the divorce?
01:53:11.000I even gave you, but anytime I'm actually trying to present and trying to give an example or actually trying to bring a real life situation, you always try to subject it to make it lean over lesser to more of a man standpoint or men need this or men need that.
01:55:37.000Okay, so why does the mom control her emotions for her kids?
01:55:42.000Because they're in the same proximity and they live a daily life together.
01:55:47.000If women have such high emotional intelligence and they're a mom, wouldn't it behoove her to like, you know, control that, use that emotional intelligence, control her emotions, you know, put on a happy face for a kid for a couple of years, allow them to grow and prosper in a two-parent household?
01:56:02.000Sure, but what if she's built up so much resentment that she can no longer do that and it's affecting everybody?
01:56:07.000And like, mental health is a real struggle.
01:59:56.000Yeah, no, because I feel like when it comes to raising kids, if you can't show a healthy dynamic between mother and father in the home, it's better if you get a dynamic where you see a healthy dynamic with dad and then you see a single healthy dynamic with mom.
02:00:11.000And then I feel like kids are kind of then smart enough to see, like, okay, who the problem parent was, even if it happened to be mom in that situation because she chose to do the divorce thing.
02:00:21.000But like, I don't feel like it's responsible for a woman to stay in a relationship with a man that she doesn't feel like there's a good connection with her children because it crumbles down to like, you know, like when women cook, we put our love into our food.
02:00:55.000For the kids to prosper, if she is not happy, I think that she should leave because if she stays in a toxic situation to where, like, maybe if her unhappiness is valid, like if her unhappiness has to deal with like how he talks or how he presents himself out or if he's always cheating on her or whatever the case scenario is.
02:01:14.000That's not what it typically is, though.
02:01:17.000But that a lot of the times, like, I mean, are you saying, like, are you saying in the sense like, oh, women just aren't happy with like little stupid stuff?
02:01:27.000Because then, yeah, like, sit down, like, suck it up.
02:01:29.000Like, you guys will, the kids are going to be 18 soon.
02:01:31.000But if she's, like, genuinely unhappy because of, like, maybe, like, how his parent, how his parents treat her or how the dynamic is in the home, for the best interest of the children to go, to grow up in a better home, I do believe that the parents separating would be better than like them growing up in the toxicity because all the children are going to do is reciprocate that toxicity to the next partner.
02:01:52.000And then you're going to have, that's why we have generation after generation after generation of like all of us being traumatized because our parents didn't.
02:02:00.000No, it's actually being traumatized because you don't have both your parents.
02:02:02.000Most kids grow up in single-parent households now.
02:02:05.000Very few actually have both their parents.
02:02:06.000Children raised by men tend to be more successful than children.
02:04:47.000Since feminism rose in the 1960s, we've seen a constant degradation of society.
02:04:52.000And we've seen basically more degeneracy, more single mother households, more fucked up kids, more antidepressant medication prescriptions.
02:05:36.000And I'll be honest with you, the reason why it doesn't work is because women are communitarian by nature.
02:05:40.000You guys don't understand or respect a meritocracy, which means, you know, the best people rise to the top and then, you know, the people at the bottom just stay at the bottom.
02:05:48.000Like, this is kind of what capitalism is built on.
02:05:52.000Like, oh, you get a dollar, you get a dollar, you get a dollar.
02:05:54.000Men is like, hey, you did the best job, you get $10.
02:05:56.000You did the second best job, you get $7, and then so on.
02:05:58.000Like, women don't understand or respect meritocracy, and this creates a lot of problems.
02:06:02.000Because you can't get anything done by a committee.
02:06:05.000That's fine, but on the topic of if a woman should leave a man if she's unhappy in a marriage...
02:06:16.000Like, like I'm saying, the reason why I need to take women's rights away a lot of the times is because you guys kind of by default are fucked up.
02:06:23.000Men aren't doing anything to provoke women as well, because in that same situation, if they're married, there's clearly something where he's either provoking her or putting her in a situation to where she can't, she doesn't have the capacity to feel happy in the relationship, which will bring down the value of like how she treats the children, how she treats you.
02:06:47.000No one is responsible for your happiness except for you.
02:06:49.000And the problem with women is that women, right, you guys have this kind of like fairy tale in your head of what marriage is going to be and the white picket fence in the house.
02:06:58.000And the issue is that a woman's imagination is kind of like your guys' worst enemy because you guys always want better.
02:07:03.000You guys always want to strive for better.
02:07:09.000Like, it's very difficult to make a woman happy.
02:07:11.000So like this whole thing, like this chasing of happiness is like a very fleeting thing because you're never going to get it, realistically speaking.
02:07:17.000It's very difficult to make a woman happy.
02:07:18.000This is why I always say, happy wife, happy life is a big lie.
02:07:21.000It's got to be happy king, happy kingdom.
02:07:23.000Because if the guy's happy, we're simple to please.
02:07:27.000Everything else kind of sets itself correctly.
02:07:28.000But with women, if we're chasing making you happy, it's not going to work.
02:07:31.000This is why I think like the guy's got to be completely superior to his woman because the only way a woman is happy is if she's chasing her guy's validation.
02:07:37.000It feels like she has the best guy that she can get.
02:07:39.000So you think that women should chase men instead of men chasing women?
02:07:43.000It's the only way it works, unfortunately.
02:07:44.000I wish it wasn't that way, but that's a very big black pill that women have to chase men for the relationship to work.
02:09:44.000Or because women try this shit, they'll talk back to you or say something stupid.
02:09:47.000You could look her dead in the eye and say, shut the fuck up.
02:09:49.000Women need that correction because you guys are very bratty, rude.
02:09:54.000And then we live in a society where we tell women to be raging bitches and as if it's attractive.
02:09:58.000So men have to kind of put you guys in your place a lot of times, which is an unfortunate reality.
02:10:02.000I wish it wasn't like this, but you guys unfortunately respond very favorably to bad treatment because it's a reminder in your hindbrain that this guy is better to me, better than me.
02:22:11.000So what is that for, let's say, okay, your 3K for your gifts, and then what do you need for your living expenses as well to pay your bills?
02:23:42.000Okay, but see, like, that would be unattractive to me.
02:23:44.000Like, if you're spending too much money on me and, like, you can barely afford yourself at that point, then, like, I'm kind of like, okay, so no, no, no, no.
02:23:52.000If we're taking it to that level, unless I'm just using you, then fuck it.
02:26:08.000Like, I'll be honest with you, guys that make that kind of money that are still young and attractive and single, they're going to have women.
02:26:15.000Like, they're not going to just have sex with you.
02:26:19.000And this is like, this is a big red black pill I got to give women.
02:26:22.000You either can get a guy that's high status and attractive and has it all like you want, like you clearly want here, and he's going to fuck other women, or you can get an average guy, 50K per year, nice, funny, maybe a little bit of a gut, but he's going to, and he'll adore just you.
02:26:38.000But you're not going to find a guy that's attractive, tall.
02:27:48.000If you're still going to protect and provide for me, then go ahead and do your thing, and I don't have to have any emotional feelings for you.
02:29:39.000You know, sorry to say, but in America, there are big propaganda about what you're saying.
02:29:44.000Like, all the movies is about the girls and everybody fucking around.
02:29:49.000A lot of bad stuff is, you know, it's popular, what is not right.
02:29:52.000And nobody teaching the young, especially girls, how to be the real mothers, how to have the normal relationship, how to struggle for your children, that your child is number one, and etc.
02:30:03.000And I'm very much surprised that we're talking about that and they don't understand it.
02:30:07.000But they are not guilty, they don't understand it because actually nobody teaching them how to build the right family, how to be the right woman, how to be the right mother, how to raise your child healthy and good, and what to do when you are not happy, what to do, you know, in every movies, what's the show in the showing, fuck with one woman, go to another one, go third one.
02:30:27.000I mean, they're learning this from the movies, from Instagram, from etc.
02:30:30.000And they don't know what is the right.
02:30:33.000So you see, you're educating the people, and thank you very much.