On this episode of the Freshewood Podcast, we are joined by a special guest in the house, Aiden. We talk about his experience at the brand wrist event, and how he got kicked out of the event. We also talk about the controversy that happened at the BrandWrist event and how Aiden handled it.
00:11:21.000Like always, you know, he allowed me to stream and I said, yo, I got to go show love to, you know, my favorite, you know, dating podcast in the world.
00:14:02.000Yeah, I was like, no, I didn't take it personal because I was like, I think if Aiden knew, he would have got us in because we're both really cool with him.
00:20:56.000You see, and this is a difference, and I hate to do me early, but the difference between men and women is that when I went to, like, so I was born in Jamaica.
00:21:08.000I went to college at the, that I wanted to make $100,000 a year.
00:21:16.000I know y'all going to keep saying this bullshit, but you don't graduate with a bachelor's degree with sociology as your major or psychology and make $100,000.
00:21:25.000If you go math, if you go STEM, all right.
00:21:28.000I'm not really here to argue with you.
00:21:30.000Like, Myron could jump in, but like, you're not going to be in a social science, like a social worker doesn't leave college for your college and make $100,000.
00:21:41.000My thing when I came in, I'm from Jamaica.
00:22:01.000And if you go look at the average statistics of a social worker, I'm sorry, but social work is completely different than what she's referring to.
00:22:16.000It's lumped in with the same type of things.
00:22:18.000What I'm saying is the only real majors in colleges to me is STEM, bro.
00:22:23.000If you're not doing science, if you're not doing math, if you're not doing something like, if you're not doing that, I just look at what you're doing as you're just wasting your time.
00:23:16.000So, you're telling me that the average earning rate for a guy or a woman who graduates with a biology and a math degree combined, it would be even comparable or in the same tax bracket to someone that graduates with psychology.
00:23:34.000Well, my main goal of studying psychology is to go for a PhD.
00:23:39.000So, my goal in life is to open up a women's shelter so I can help a woman in need.
00:23:49.000Okay, so after your four-year college, you're talking about grad school.
00:23:52.000What I'm saying is that if, unless you're planning to go for eight years post-secondary school, which usually people call that high school, so remember, I didn't want to go to grad school, so I took the hardest course.
00:28:10.000The instrumental is T. You can't rap, so you just kept you trying to joke.
00:28:13.000Let me say, right quick, it's heaven sent.
00:28:15.000You cannot poke like this with the T. What's real?
00:28:17.000Like, let me say, real quick, it's walking heaven sent.
00:28:19.000What you say, be for real, right quick.
00:28:22.000He doesn't actually go Hefty I want to hear that Hefty Hefty haven't said Walk in That's pretty hard bro Alright Her name is still Hefty Set, man.
00:45:09.000Before I respond to that, I know my lawyer not there, and I know my business managers probably burned up my phone, but I'm gonna just go refer to a federal, former federal agent, Myra.
00:45:18.000Myra, what she said, should I even respond to some shit like that?
00:55:41.000I don't know if y'all know the whole story.
00:55:43.000Basically, at a point in the relationship, Kai gets confronted with the fact that she has a male friend that she's confiding in that he never knew.
00:55:56.000And then she's trying to, and then, of course, as any man, he's like, well, let me look into this.
00:56:01.000Let me look if the communications is up to par.
01:02:52.000I'm saying, like, platonically, because here's the thing: if I'm friends with a woman, she's going to expect me to give her boyfriend energy, be polite to her, be a shoulder to cry on.
01:03:00.000I'm going to be looked at to protect her in times of peril.
01:03:02.000Like, I'm going to still be held to a certain standard as a male friend versus why would I, and I'm not even getting sex.
01:03:08.000So, I'm giving up all the things that she wants, right?
01:03:11.000That camaraderie, um, and the companionship without getting sex back in return.
01:03:15.000Any guy that would be willing to be friends with a woman is an idiot.
01:03:18.000It's like the equivalent of a girl just having sex with a guy without getting any type of relationship energy.
01:03:22.000Would you be okay with constantly just getting called at two o'clock in the morning only for sex and he kicks you out after?
01:03:26.000No, women would have a problem with that for a period of time.
01:03:29.000They'll do it for a bit, but then they'll eventually be like, I don't want to be used anymore.
01:03:32.000The problem is that we totally tell men to just let women use them.
01:04:34.000And you got to remember: just because you don't want to do anything on your end does not mean that they're not wanting to do something on their end.
01:04:42.000The reason why men and women can't be platonic friends is because women don't offer much value from a companionship standpoint from a platonic angle.
01:07:30.000Even my stay-at-home mom says, don't get married until you get your education, until you get a job, until you get a car, until you get, you know, all these things.
01:07:41.000Like, you have to be independent and be the best type of woman in order to get the best type of man because you get with someone on the same intellectual level as you.
01:07:50.000So that's why I'm thinking, wait, what kind of woman are you hanging out with?
01:07:54.000Because if you think all women are shit, that's because you're not going to be a huge man.
01:08:31.000Other than that, because you're saying that's a simple mindset.
01:08:35.000Why the fuck would any guy that has anything going on want to give a fuck about you?
01:08:42.000Just explain it because everybody wants to hear that.
01:08:43.000Okay, it's basically what do you bring to the table question.
01:08:46.000And I love this question so much because I feel like men and women bring what they bring to the table is so like it's different for people to people.
01:08:56.000It's different from even men and women because I, this is my personal belief.
01:09:00.000I do believe that men and women have different tasks in life.
01:09:04.000We are different biologically, psychologically.
01:09:41.000Like, you're kind of going down the path that I think logically we're all going down, but like, we're still asking the same operative question, which is, okay, we all acknowledge that men kind of require or expect certain things from women, and maybe women expect something.
01:09:58.000But what separates you in terms of how we're like even evaluating this possible, you know, exchange of how important you are.
01:13:36.000A woman's main commodity is her sexuality.
01:13:38.000That is the main thing that you guys bring to the table with a man.
01:13:41.000There's a reason why the makeup industry is a billion-dollar industry.
01:13:43.000There's why you guys spend so much money on looking good and pulling back the clock and trying to look as young as possible and preserve your beauty.
01:14:03.000So in other words, women can extract value from men outside of the sexual.
01:14:06.000There's not much value we can extract from you guys outside of the sexual because you guys really provide only one main commodity.
01:14:12.000It's a big commodity, but it's really the only main commodity that you guys have.
01:14:15.000So what I'm saying is, as a man, it is absolutely stupid for you to hang out with a woman and give her your commodities while she's simultaneously siphoning off your commodities without you getting what you want back in return, which is sexual access.
01:14:28.000Now, most guys don't have the balls to admit this, but this is the reality of why men deal with women in the first place.
01:15:54.000And he was also pointing out, like, it's actually also good when you have a woman that, besides raising your children, could also help with editing YouTube videos or, you know, besides the standards.
01:16:05.000Just because times have changed doesn't mean that women have changed.
01:16:07.000So explain to me that they don't have value anymore than that you say.
01:16:11.000No, what I'm trying to say is like, just okay, so explain to me why women still want a guy that's over six foot tall.
01:16:15.000Why does a woman still want a guy that makes about 50% of the world?
01:16:18.000Why does she still want a guy that regardless of us living in modern society?
01:16:23.000Women still have hardwired wants and traits that they're looking for in a man, despite the fact that we live in a modernized world where it's safe.
01:17:57.000The thing I always tell people, like, you know, this is an amazing dating show.
01:18:00.000And trust me, I guarantee Myron knows.
01:18:03.000When he talked to people on the call-in shows and stuff like that, if they listened to him and never hit their head on the ceiling or the wall or whatever, he wouldn't have to say, okay, now that you know, but you got to let people go through it.
01:18:17.000So, you know, shout out to my boy Flacco.
01:19:32.000I think men should be the providers and protectors.
01:19:34.000But I think that with that, you know, responsibility, we should also have the authority to tell our woman what it is.
01:19:40.000I don't believe in this whole 50-50 partnership and her opinion matters.
01:19:43.000If I don't agree with it, the man is a final decision maker is my take on it.
01:19:47.000Yeah, and that's how I grew up with my family, too.
01:19:50.000And I kind of like that it was, you know, my mom was kind of like a little bit more on the other side with she was, you know, the decision maker.
01:20:26.000But I mean, my point is, is like, you know, as long as a man is a final decision maker, like where he's making all the most important decisions and everything goes to him, that's my thing.
01:20:35.000I don't think anything works under a matriarchy.
01:21:47.000Like you say, we let them in to make the woman happy, but it's the like people that let them in.
01:21:51.000At the cost of weakening the police force.
01:21:54.000So we want to make women feel happy and equality, but we've effectively weakened the police force and made it more dangerous for all the men that are there because now they have to do twice the work.
01:23:00.000I'm not disagreeing on women and men can be equal.
01:23:03.000Like I'm totally agree with that, but it's more like you say it only benefits women to let them, for example, in the military, but it also benefits the military because they have more hands to make the job done.
01:23:12.000But it's harder because men have to do more just to protect them to be safe as well.
01:23:15.000But if a woman goes in the military, it's not the man's job to protect her in their right.
01:26:45.000I think, I don't know, but I think you're wrong about that it's only been like the core problem of the whole society of women having man's job is to make women happy.
01:26:55.000But I actually think that the economy also benefits from it.
01:35:52.000Okay, so you don't know what the selective service is.
01:35:54.000The selective service is a program that men must enroll in the United States at 18 years old.
01:35:58.000And if they don't, they'll go to jail, they could be fined, etc.
01:36:01.000Where they have to put themselves into a lottery.
01:36:03.000So if there's ever a draft, they can be drafted.
01:36:06.000So men have skin in the game as soon as they become adults.
01:36:09.000So I don't think women should have the right to vote for the commander in chief who can send them to war when they have no skin in the game like men do.
01:36:16.000So that is my problem with women voting.
01:36:18.000And not only that, but women tend to vote in politicians that have more communitarian slash socialist type ideologies.
01:36:25.000And what ends up happening is these politicians use women's need for security and safety and they market that saying, oh, I'll let you get abortions.
01:36:33.000I'll go ahead and give you more welcome.
01:38:23.000Okay, and I came in here because I was really excited for a mature conversation for learning about men's perspective.
01:38:32.000Because You can't speak for all men, but I'm genuinely curious about how you think because I come from a very respectful place because I don't think.
01:38:42.000Okay, you need to stop with that shit.
01:40:12.000About just there's a reason why we have been evolving as a country, as a democracy, as a community, because it's just like saying, oh, black people shouldn't vote.
01:44:05.000When you go to these college campuses and you're debating with people, you usually realize that even though you're at a college, so we're not dealing with people who are like very low IQ, they're still unwilling to debate because they're indoctrinated with a certain type of ideology that is so emotionally driven that they don't want to just sit there and just debate actual, hey, you think this, I think this.
01:44:28.000Let's get to where the most logical, you know, center could be.
01:44:33.000They're usually like, hey, you're a bigot.
01:46:36.000The only bad part was the cadence, the voice, the delivery, the flow, the lyrics, the punchline, the rhythm, the energy, the emotion, the mic presence, the bars, the finish, the start, the middle, the end.
01:47:24.000He said, Dumbo says, Oh, Filthy Nessa, black brute in a woman's wig so vile, Adam's apple thrust, raspy growl defile, no laughs at all, but ugly baboon in false array.
01:47:37.000Die Brutish dark forms mocks the light of day.
01:48:45.000But I'll say this: like, even when I show up today, and I showed up, like, obviously late, then when I probably had when I show up, I could easily already tell them, like, oh, she's about to not make it.
01:49:04.000I'm not that much of a veteran like you guys.
01:49:07.000When you show up, like, a day like today, do you look around and be like, all right, so this is probably going to be the franc or this one's leaving.
01:49:18.000Yo, I honestly, I'll be like, okay, so this girl's going to be a headache, but I'm going to try to keep her on as long as possible because I don't want to get like just kick girls off the show and be a retard.
01:49:27.000But I think with her, that girl that was in a corner, that picture really pissed her off.
01:49:31.000The Michael Jackson shit really got her mad, bro.
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01:59:34.000Like, everything I know, I owe that to him.
01:59:36.000You got to put some respect on his name.
01:59:38.000But at the end of the day, so you're saying that like you think that whatever you're doing, you're like, maybe you don't need your man because you could get somebody else.
01:59:51.000Like I won't say I run everything, but when I make a decision, whether it's business or being in Miami or being on this podcast, I'm communicating that with him.
02:02:51.000That means that you think that maybe what you're doing as a job and what you're doing to earn something is equal to maybe or comparable to what he's doing.
02:03:28.000You're an average-looking girl, but like, maybe slightly average, maybe just because of like certain little things that niggas might fuck with.
02:03:35.000Whatever your nigga is doing, you're going to have a nigga who's going to do 10 times more in Miami.
02:06:25.000Like, you don't have to keep asking questions.
02:06:27.000But if you're on this, like, delusional shit that you, if you're asking questions too long, you're fucking delusional, and the nigga don't like you.
02:06:39.000And then it says here, how do you handle rejection?
02:06:58.000It seems like it's the men's, but if you want to answer, I'm going to answer it how women look at it because this is how women look at it, right?
02:08:22.000I think women grossly misunderstand how hard it is for guys to talk to women.
02:08:28.000Even the most attractive guys are going to get rejected.
02:08:30.000Put it this way: the men that are the best at dealing with girls that are like dating coaches and make millions of dollars doing this shit, they close 10%.
02:12:01.000If I hit up a girl of the comparable level, okay, you're 6.7, whatever, like you're you.
02:12:09.000If I look through your DMs, you got soccer players, you got football players, basketball players, you got niggas who hit the crypto lick, and you're looking at it like this is my reality.
02:12:25.000The novelty of a celebrity DMing you is gone.
02:12:46.000But I guarantee if you opened up your Instagram, if they give you a phone, you open your Instagram, you'd be like, there's always going to be better bitches than me.
02:13:53.000But raise your hand if you don't have somebody who's famous or with a blue check or popping that's trying to get up with you, even if it's not for a relationship.
02:17:49.000You know, I think that could let the woman decide.
02:17:51.000What I realized is that most women will prefer a guy that could take care of multiple families over a guy that can't even take care of one.
02:18:22.000Misunderstand kind of believing the most.
02:18:24.000I would say just like intentions from the very beginning.
02:18:27.000Because guys want to have sex, obviously, first, and then see from there what they want to do.
02:18:32.000So I'll just say, like, where do they want to take it?
02:18:33.000They'll tell the girl sweet life, get her to smash, and then for go after.
02:18:38.000How do you recommend men develop confidence without turning it into arrogance?
02:18:42.000Just remember where you came from, what you're about, and what your goals are.
02:18:46.000Because I feel like men can be arrogant when they get money and status, but like, if you know who you really are, it shouldn't matter that much.
02:18:52.000And then, where do you, where do men and women talk about each other the most relationships?
02:18:59.000I would say on what they actually want because women say they want a certain type of man, and then they don't really get that because they don't know their actual value.
02:19:09.000And vice versa, guys, they want a bad bitch, but they're like, you know what?
02:19:12.000If I cheetahs all day and drink sprite at home and play big video games, I'll get my girl.
02:21:12.000Do you believe men who have sex with thousands of women are truly stable?
02:21:15.000Look, obviously, if you've had sex with thousands of girls, you're going to be at a different level.
02:21:20.000But I do think that men have the capability of being stable mentally while having sex with a bunch of women because sex doesn't have the same mental drain on us as it does women.
02:21:28.000Versus a girl that has had sex with thousands of dudes, she's definitely not going to be emotionally or mentally stable.
02:23:24.000But no, I'm like, but not like that, that's the but like I was saying, though, he, the person that I'm dealing with, or just in general, men, they trust me enough to fuck me raw.
02:23:33.000So therefore, my thing is, they don't be there, though.
02:28:32.000And with all due respect, I will never do fake shit.
02:28:36.000And this is why, like, you know, I even, yo, Aiden's my nigga, and you know, I fuck with everybody that got to do with brand risk and whatever.
02:28:43.000Man, y'all got to tell the truth, man.
02:28:44.000Like, yo, Aiden, yo, Aiden's my nigga, but like, Myron, my nigga, too, bro.