20250730_Wed_v6upp0e.mp4
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Summary
On this episode of the Fresh & Fit Podcast, the guys talk about Chris Brown, the Chris Brown concert, and much more! Also, we introduce a new segment called the Henny & Fit Panel. This is a panel where we introduce ourselves and talk about random stuff.
Transcript
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Welcome to the Fresh and Podcast, aka the Fresh and Henny Podcast.
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*music* *music* *music* *music* *music* *music* *music*
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Welcome to the Project Podcast, man, aka the Henny Info Podcast.
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I don't know if we got that feed up right now, Bills.
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We just have one of the girls in the back turn on or something.
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So anyway, Fresh right now, guys, he's in Spain.
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So that's where he is if you guys are wondering where he's at.
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That's why we didn't have Fresh at Fit on Monday.
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He was out of town, so I was like, you know what, man, I'll just do the debrief a bit longer.
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I'm sure you guys have seen us all across the headlines as of recently.
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I'm the Monk O. Monk O. Monk O. Monk O. Thank you, Bills.
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Yeah, I mean, I had a cough last week, so I couldn't come, so I said, fuck this shit.
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But, other than that, Chris, I bet you won't do it.
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Follow me on my Twitch, and yeah, let's make a...
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And tonight, what's the Chris Brown concert tonight?
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A lot of girls are there for the Chris Brown concert, so that's kind of what it is.
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Ladies, give me your name, age, where you're from.
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No, it's just out of respect for him, like, I wouldn't want to be in an action.
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She got more than one body and just been together for six years.
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Yeah, but if you had one, you would say I have one body.
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I just got for tour with Young L.A. And I'm going viral right now in Baby Chief Do It.
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You know, Young L.A. He had a second leg in his career.
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You got to know he grapping, pockets, extra stopping.
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Myrton, do you remember the T.I. Young drill era?
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I was in love, and then love just kind of just rubbed off real quick.
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And, you know, it was good for me because it was a distraction.
00:17:04.000
Chris, she told him that she was home, but she was on the podcast.
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No, he had to trip out on me when I come up here to the podcast.
00:17:41.000
Did you guys get married in Vegas or something?
00:18:08.000
So 60 days, like, how long did you guys know each other prior to getting married?
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So y'all knew each other for six months, then he, then you guys got married and lasted two months.
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Like, he thought I was his fucking prisoner after that.
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Was he like making enough to take care of both you?
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Yeah, if he wasn't sending it off to fucking Haiti.
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If you'd have to work, would have you, you think the relationship would have lasted longer?
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No, he wasn't, he wasn't a, he wasn't a man to listen to.
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Like, he hasn't showed me shit for, you know, I had to really think about it.
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And even when my, he asked my dad to marry me, my dad was just, I get to know each other more.
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You know, we wasn't living together or anything.
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If you was providing, would have you obeyed him or no?
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And like, I've always had my thing going before him when I was with him.
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Black or black, Dominican, German, American, Indian.
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I'm growing this fuck 35 minutes fucking since I was 15.
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I'm a very strict person when they come to my business.
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But I mean, if it's fucking put on the list now, if it's somebody, you know, I'm going to let you know next time.
00:20:31.000
You're looking all over the place like Stephen Wander right now.
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You're like, "Oh, man, put my bucket on here." You're a bad guy, bro.
00:20:44.000
Anybody, niggas say they fuck me in the studio, I give them $1,000.
00:20:49.000
I will never give a fuck with a nigga in the middle of the moment.
00:21:08.000
I'm from Fort Lauderdale, but I go to school in Chicago.
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I'm nanny, but I'm in nursing school, so I got that.
00:21:50.000
And you're pursuing your bachelor's degree, right?
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People don't know that, but there's a lot of them, bro.
00:22:31.000
One time I got an Uber and a Chinese guy picked me up.
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And then I found out that there's a lot of Chinese in the Caribbean, bro.
00:23:03.000
I mean, you love them, but you're still fucked.
00:23:36.000
So you said you still love him, but you're the one that ended the relationship?
00:23:41.000
I needed to focus on my career and I needed to grow.
00:23:58.000
I was going to say probably gonna play international.
00:24:09.000
Because once you go professional, you can't come back and play NCAA unless they change the rules.
00:24:31.000
I needed to focus on my school for real, I'm not going to lie.
00:24:34.000
So you can focus on that when he's on his thing?
00:24:41.000
No, just say you want to see other people, have a good time.
00:24:54.000
You just want to get away from him for a little bit.
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And then when you get run through, you want to come back to him afterwards.
00:25:09.000
There's no reason why a girl would actually break up with another guy.
00:25:11.000
Yeah, I mean, because she said, I'm still in love with him.
00:25:17.000
Yeah, she wants to cheat and do her thing and then come back to him afterwards.
00:25:21.000
Like, she wants to keep him, you know, to a little string, like a little kite.
00:25:48.000
I was just too focused on him and wanted to be myself.
00:26:13.000
Yeah, I meant like weight-wise and just mentally.
00:26:16.000
Because I tore my, I was going to say my ankle.
00:26:18.000
So I had surgery and like I just was in a bad mental state, I guess.
00:26:34.000
And then, like, did he say, okay, baby, do you?
00:26:53.000
You know, afterwards, all right, you come back, suck this dick for a little bit, and then he's gonna leave you hanging.
00:27:03.000
Like, he just, like, just said, you said, I'm sorry, I gotta break up with you.
00:27:09.000
But then, like, four months later, came back, and he just yeah.
00:28:18.000
She came in Monday with Juxta, you know, her father.
00:28:28.000
I thought I was like the like everybody hates me, bro.
00:28:36.000
But yeah, like Monday, Bills was feeling sick, but Fresh wasn't here.
00:28:47.000
I mean, I really take the times off myself, too.
00:28:52.000
I mean, from after hours, man, that's what I'm talking about, man.
00:29:23.000
I had like a foursome a threesome and then what is a foursome?
00:29:31.000
Okay, so actually my first collab was the four song.
00:29:34.000
So I just went in like two months in like my career.
00:29:43.000
So it was like exchange, like as if we're a couple and we're exchanging.
00:30:02.000
Was that like for a professional porn company or was it like just OF?
00:30:07.000
I guess they wanted to do like a swingers type.
00:30:11.000
It's because I was just getting started, but the couple, like, they're together and then it was another guy.
00:30:18.000
The couple, they were already big in Puerto Rico.
00:30:21.000
So we collab in Miami and then another time in Puerto Rico we went over there.
00:30:38.000
I'm assuming your name is not Teflon Dawn government, but that's fine.
00:30:46.000
I kind of remember from the name because it reminds me of Johnny Gaudi.
00:31:10.000
Middle and high school, day school, night school.
00:31:15.000
So literally, everything from, what, fifth grade onwards?
00:31:24.000
And then my students can be aged from at least 13 up to 22.
00:31:33.000
They can go to happy hour with me on Fridays, but they don't.
00:31:36.000
Well, I'm assuming actually that's probably GD students, right?
00:31:40.000
They're still getting their squander high school diploma.
00:31:44.000
They just went on a break and decided, you know, I'm going to go back to regular high school?
00:31:50.000
If you made it to senior year and you're above 18 years old, you're getting made fun of.
00:31:59.000
You know, yeah, like, what the hell is like 20, bro?
00:32:02.000
Imagine you're 22 years old and still high school.
00:32:04.000
And you guys, some of them have kids and everything?
00:32:10.000
Well, that's why a lot of them do the GED instead of, you know, like, that's to wake up at 6 o'clock and get on school.
00:32:20.000
I have students that come from different countries.
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I have students that come from different countries.
00:32:24.000
If I'm a day over 18 and I'm still high school, bro, I'm going to night school, bro.
00:32:28.000
I'd better wake up at five to get on the bus win and bus stop.
00:32:40.000
You know what I don't know, Mr. Can I go to the bathroom?
00:32:45.000
Crack open a beer In the classroom legally No you can't That's illegal On campus That's illegal Legally I mean That's about like age You know what I mean Right I said on Friday They could go to happy hour with me, but they don't.
00:33:09.000
Environmental science, earth science, physical science, biology.
00:33:43.000
Yeah, but niggas don't have jobs doing that shit nowadays.
00:33:48.000
So I'm going to assume you have probably at least a bachelor's or a master's degree?
00:34:02.000
My bachelor's is in sociology with a concentration in biology.
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And I got my bachelor's from Florida Agriculture and Mechanical University.
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It's going to be in educational leadership from FAU.
00:34:35.000
So, question, because teaching science isn't easy.
00:34:39.000
You probably have to be pretty good at math, right?
00:34:50.000
I was trying to figure out like if you're like doing physics and stuff like that.
00:35:01.000
You guys are looking at rocks and shit like that.
00:35:11.000
No, my father passed away, but my parents were married until my father died.
00:35:27.000
Is spam you a historically black population university?
00:35:38.000
Shout out to the Bison, but it's Spam You all day.
00:35:45.000
I mean, I remember when I was growing up, I mean, we're around the same age.
00:35:49.000
People were saying that Howard was the best back in like 08, 09, but maybe things changed.
00:35:58.000
Well, I wouldn't evaluate a school's merit on the homecoming.
00:36:03.000
That's why FAMU is the number one HP in the nation.
00:36:26.000
No, I mean, like, you know, like H2O, it's oxygen.
00:38:12.000
So is that like something in common with girls with nose piercings?
00:38:16.000
If you think it is, I don't think it is, but I don't know.
00:38:33.000
He was younger than me, but not, like, super young.
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So it's like different over there or something.
00:39:17.000
This is why he was immature because he was doing his own thing.
00:40:05.000
You know when you like bring someone up and it's just like you just like a like I don't want to hear that person's name.
00:40:29.000
Bro, they were in a relationship when niggas were still wearing masks.
00:40:41.000
We were both playing sports, so it was also kind of hard.
00:40:52.000
Female athletes, you guys are cooked because the only guys that you guys can really deal with on college campuses are other athletes a lot of the times.
00:40:59.000
So what ends up happening is they have a lot more.
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It's a very strange dynamic on college campuses.
00:41:04.000
Male athletes have a lot of leverage because all the regular girls want them and then also female athletes want them.
00:41:09.000
But the problem with female athletes is they think they're better than everybody.
00:41:13.000
So they get stuck with the male athletes who are womanizing.
00:41:16.000
It's actually one of the few times where men actually have a little bit of power in a dating dynamic and it's a college thing.
00:41:34.000
Like female athletes are, they don't have a choice, really.
00:42:02.000
Like, did you lose your scholarship or why'd you leave?
00:42:18.000
They'd rather party and have fun than, like, you know, actually train and shit.
00:42:42.000
High school boys would absolutely demolish them.
00:42:44.000
That's not true because we played against high school.
00:42:47.000
What's the last time you've been to a female sport game?
00:42:57.000
Like, high school boys that like beat professional female athletes, right?
00:43:02.000
Like, literally, high school boys beat professional female athletes.
00:43:10.000
The women, like, someone could pull up an article right now.
00:43:12.000
Like, high school boys beat like the women's national soccer team.
00:43:20.000
High school boys can destroy a WNBA team in basketball.
00:43:28.000
I can't just hear it because it's just a lot of fun.
00:43:34.000
You see how tall those kids are on the business.
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If I can see it with my eyes, then I'll tell you.
00:43:40.000
That shows high school boys absolutely smashing professional female athletes.
00:43:51.000
What sport do you think women can keep it equal?
00:44:00.000
Like, the 200-ranked guy was drunk and hungover and beat Serena Williams.
00:44:08.000
Yeah, and the reason why Lady is because he just serves way harder.
00:44:11.000
Okay, well, yeah, that's why I'm going to get it.
00:44:13.000
I hit the ball way faster, way harder, which means it goes faster and the women can't keep up.
00:44:19.000
Serena Williams is like top of the pinnacle and lost to a dude that was hungover.
00:44:34.000
Yeah, ladies, like, I don't sound like an asshole, but women lose in literally everything compared to men.
00:44:38.000
Even chess, which has nothing to do with physicality, men still beat them.
00:44:42.000
I don't think that's like in Formula One driving.
00:44:51.000
But that's to prove my point that even when physicality isn't involved, men are just better.
00:44:56.000
If you add physicality, like with volleyball or tennis or basketball, it's even worse.
00:45:05.000
What I mean by is like in basketball, for example, right?
00:45:12.000
Obviously, you could box them out, dunking, being faster, you know, getting to the hoop more aggressively.
00:45:20.000
So men that are significantly younger than the professional females destroy them.
00:45:24.000
I mean, it's obvious because of the genetics of the man, but you can still play and have fun.
00:45:34.000
Okay, but it's impossible for a woman to be stronger faster than a man, so why even compare?
00:45:42.000
Okay, my position is that men are better than women at almost everything, is my position.
00:45:48.000
In almost every physical endeavor, men are better than women.
00:45:52.000
I think men would not be able to survive in a world without women.
00:46:07.000
So, first, the sports, then we'll move on to the surviving thing.
00:46:10.000
So, with the sports, again, there's been many documented stories of high school boys beating professional female athletes.
00:46:18.000
Bill, can you pull it up for me real quick, man?
00:46:22.000
Give me the thing where the boys smash the professional female.
00:46:34.000
This one is U.S. soccer women, the U.S. Olympic soccer women getting beat by teens.
00:46:48.000
So we're talking about all the best women in the nation.
00:46:49.000
So all the best women in the country lost to teenagers.
00:47:38.000
When he kicked the ball, he kicked it so hard when she tried to block it with her head and knocked her out.
00:47:42.000
But wait, isn't that the whole point that we have different things we're better at so we can be together and help each other?
00:48:07.000
What he's saying is men versus women, not men together.
00:48:14.000
That's why men and women don't play sports in the same tier.
00:48:18.000
That's why we have women's sports and men's sports.
00:48:22.000
So you think there shouldn't be women's sports?
00:48:25.000
But that's what it sounds like you're supposed to be.
00:49:04.000
So do you see now why men are better than women physically?
00:49:07.000
You got teenage boys beating literally Olympic athletes here, females?
00:49:19.000
It's because we're making the point that female sports, I was, okay, how do we start this?
00:49:23.000
Because I said women quit sports a lot more than men do in college level.
00:49:28.000
I just heard the point was, oh, men are better than women.
00:49:38.000
I first made the claim that women tend to quit collegiate sports a lot.
00:49:43.000
And the reason why I said is because, number one, women suck at sports.
00:49:51.000
You're over here training all the time, two, three times a day for a sport where no one shows up and no one cares.
00:49:58.000
They'd rather be able to just party and live their life and have fun in college versus being an athlete.
00:50:02.000
Being an athlete is very hard in college, especially at D1 level.
00:50:06.000
And then that's when I made the claim that females are not as good at sports as guys are because realistically speaking, professional athletes lose to high school boys all the time, as demonstrated here.
00:50:18.000
So we're talking about the pinnacle of female soccer getting beat by teenagers.
00:50:24.000
And that goes to my point, which again, you guys don't like to hear it, but women suck at everything when compared to men, physically speaking, even when the physicality isn't even a component, like chess or Formula One.
00:50:34.000
So they're better than you guys at tennis, football, basketball, everything.
00:50:43.000
Now, you said something about men need women to survive.
00:50:59.000
She made the claim that they need them to survive, which implies they're already alive.
00:51:02.000
So the whole concept of them needing the man, they're already alive.
00:51:05.000
So I'm asking you, what evidence do you have that men need women to survive?
00:51:13.000
Again, it's about surviving, which implies you're already alive.
00:51:18.000
So imagine a plane and the crashes on the island.
00:51:29.000
Let me just prove how ridiculous that is because a lot of women say stupid shit like that.
00:51:37.000
If the power went out right now, you would need to rely on a guy to protect you from the elements.
00:51:56.000
You're saying women can't defend themselves if the lights are going to go off.
00:52:02.000
Are you aware of the fact that the reason why human beings have been able to last as long as we've had is because women depend on men for protection and provisioning?
00:52:10.000
And then the man goes out, hunts, kills the animal, brings it back for the woman and her children.
00:52:16.000
This is why men are supposed to be protectors and providers.
00:52:18.000
It's how we've survived for thousands of years as human beings.
00:52:23.000
But since we live in a civilized world with electricity and technology, women tend to forget that the only reason why you live in a safe, comfortable first world experience is because men allow that to happen.
00:52:36.000
But if we're to turn off the power and the water, you would need a man immediately to protect you from the elements.
00:52:48.000
And just to give you guys more proof as to how much women need men to survive, because it's funny that you said that when it's actually the other way around, they did bear grills, right?
00:52:57.000
Survivor show, where they had men on an island and women on an island.
00:53:00.000
The women had to get saved by the crew because they were going to die.
00:53:08.000
They were arguing with each other about killing.
00:53:18.000
They were fighting with each other about killing an animal for food.
00:53:22.000
However, with the men, they were able to build shelter quickly.
00:53:25.000
They were able to establish a hierarchy of who's going to be the boss and make things happen.
00:53:31.000
Basically, they were able to spread their resources.
00:53:32.000
Some guys built, the guys that were carpenters or had that background were building a house.
00:53:39.000
They were able to divide and conquer and basically create a civilization.
00:53:44.000
And the cast, the crew, had to come in and rescue them from dying.
00:53:49.000
I feel like it depends on the group of girls you said.
00:53:51.000
No, but these girls were actually professionals in terms of hunting, mountain climbing.
00:53:55.000
So they knew those professionals in terms of the girls.
00:54:00.000
The professional girls actually was in their career, but they couldn't do it because it's like, okay, this girl was bitching about killing the pig because it was so cute.
00:54:09.000
So the point I'm trying to make is that women actually can't survive without men, but men can absolutely survive without women.
00:54:15.000
Isn't it the same point you made that is about strength?
00:54:19.000
Like, yeah, if a man is stronger, then he's going to survive more.
00:54:22.000
But are you saying that women are like not needed for anything?
00:54:28.000
I agree with everything you're saying, but I do believe that men and women have different roles.
00:54:33.000
And yes, what you're saying is true because biologically speaking, men were created to lead.
00:54:38.000
They were created to protect and provide, like you said, and women were created for different aspects, right?
00:54:44.000
Like nurturing, taking care of a home, making a meal, whatever the man provides, the woman multiplies, right?
00:54:52.000
So I believe that, yes, what you're saying is absolutely true, but you can't compare one with the other because we both have different roles.
00:55:00.000
Yeah, but she made the specification saying that men need women to survive.
00:55:08.000
We gotta category with because, ladies, are you aware of the fact that like all of human infrastructure, lights, energy, everything else, it's run by men.
00:55:16.000
90% of the infrastructure of the first world is run by men.
00:55:19.000
Women don't go into these jobs of sanitation, electricity.
00:55:30.000
What happens when a man or a boy is raised without a mother?
00:55:38.000
So you do need a woman to raise a kid, a child.
00:55:41.000
Well, if we're going to be honest here, single fathers actually do better than single mothers.
00:55:49.000
Comes from the book, The Rational Male Religion, where he basically breaks this down.
00:55:54.000
Single fathers end up producing more, what's the word, productive children that don't become criminals, drug addicts, and all the other degenerate stuff.
00:56:02.000
Most single fathers are right now, they were raised without a father.
00:56:05.000
They might not get the same love, but they absolutely end up becoming better members of society.
00:56:09.000
Well, yes, I mean, having a father is absolutely important because a father is what gives a child identity.
00:56:16.000
So if a child grows up without a father, then they lack identity and that's why they get lost.
00:56:20.000
And that's why they go into things that they shouldn't go into.
00:56:25.000
Okay, let me just say what everyone is thinking that everyone is scared to tell women.
00:56:28.000
You guys are only really useful for reproduction, nothing else.
00:56:33.000
If it weren't for reproduction, no one would give a fuck about women, being honest.
00:56:37.000
Because everything you guys can do, we can do better.
00:56:40.000
It's really only reproduction that makes you guys valuable.
00:56:44.000
You're vulnerable for the nine months that you carry a baby.
00:56:49.000
This is why women look for men that are stronger, more capable, smarter, earn more income.
00:56:53.000
Your entire attraction strategy and your mating strategy is predicated on finding someone superior to you to protect you.
00:57:02.000
Now, if women don't want to accept this, that's fine.
00:57:04.000
But the reality is we break it down to biological needs.
00:57:08.000
Women really only serve one purpose, to repropagate society through children.
00:57:12.000
If you guys weren't able to produce children, you guys would be fucking useless.
00:57:20.000
Because men have to actually provide, men have to provide value to society in other ways besides, because this is the thing with women.
00:57:27.000
When you guys look for a man, you don't look for just him being attractive.
00:57:30.000
You want to be a certain height, certain amount of income, certain competence, status, all of this stuff matters.
00:57:34.000
So in other words, if we're failing in one thing, let's say the guy's ugly, he could make up for it.
00:57:41.000
But if you don't have a vagina and you can't have kids, you're fucking useless.
00:57:48.000
How many of you guys are able to keep a guy around without sex?
00:57:54.000
Everybody looks for a different in relationships, though.
00:57:58.000
And the thing is, it's like, No one wants to tell women the truth that, honestly speaking, outside of sex, you guys are fairly useless.
00:58:12.000
Do you not make a living off of what I'm talking about?
00:58:18.000
You do understand that your entire industry is predicated off what I just said.
00:58:28.000
But it's just like speaking like that, like everybody just wants to impregnate you and nothing else.
00:58:40.000
What's all the way outside of having babies then?
00:58:43.000
Well, the nurturing part, if you only care about babies.
00:58:48.000
If you only care about building and like getting money and stuff like that, all right.
00:58:54.000
Well, if you care about a hug after a long day of work or a meal.
00:59:08.000
Because we actually have to make money off of this, off these things.
00:59:12.000
We can't just be pretty and say, you know what?
00:59:14.000
I'm just going to go and find a husband and have a good life.
00:59:18.000
Because most of the girls that you probably teach right now, they into degrees.
00:59:22.000
They stop what they're doing and they fucking get into families.
00:59:28.000
Because if we're broke, you guys won't date us.
00:59:33.000
I know, but they don't use it after they finish.
00:59:35.000
Like, if they get bored or if they think times is tough, they just fucking quit and just get into a family.
00:59:47.000
But you can't use me as an example because I quit for a good reason.
00:59:59.000
I'm not working because I'm trying to get into PA school.
01:00:05.000
Like, I couldn't be out broke and on a podcast.
01:00:17.000
But how the girls on their panels don't even fucking work.
01:00:29.000
So number one, I think we established that men are better than women at sports and physically, we're better than you guys in every regard.
01:00:34.000
Then we talked about do men need women to survive.
01:00:36.000
I think I established and proved my point that we don't.
01:00:38.000
Men are able to build homes and fend for themselves against the elements, etc.
01:00:42.000
Then my third point was that really the only value women provide to society is reproduction and bringing in kids.
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Now, some of you guys don't like this, but it's true.
01:01:00.000
You'll still have sexual opportunities with the opposite gender.
01:01:02.000
But if a man quits his sport and loses that status, it affects his ability to get sexual access.
01:01:07.000
So what I'm trying to say here is that a woman's status or income or a title means nothing, but a man's income and status means everything.
01:01:15.000
So that comes back to my argument that women's only commodity and main commodity is her sexuality, which is tied to reproduction.
01:01:24.000
And then the fact that she's an OnlyFans and is able to build a career on it, and I'm not saying that to shit on her.
01:01:31.000
The fact that she's in that industry proves my point that a woman's primary agency is her sexuality and they're even able to monetize on it.
01:01:49.000
Realistically speaking, realistically speaking, I would never be able to monetize my sexuality to the same degree as an average-looking girl.
01:01:56.000
Men are not able to monetize their sexuality to the same level.
01:02:03.000
They assume you're paid less than females are going to do that.
01:02:11.000
That's the fans because they're paying for a man.
01:02:17.000
But the point I'm trying to make is that from a female perspective, your main agency is sexuality because that's what men are interested in.
01:02:22.000
Of course, a gay guy who cares about sex is going to be looking at dudes.
01:02:27.000
But it doesn't change the fact that a woman's main agency is her sexuality.
01:02:33.000
Like a gay guy is not going to pay for another guy.
01:02:39.000
Let's assume, worst case, you have $0 in your bank account and you guys were all homeless.
01:02:43.000
You guys can all find a date and have no problem with finding a man.
01:02:48.000
But if we were homeless, we'd have some serious fucking problems attracting the oxygender.
01:03:13.000
I was born in Bolivia, but I've been here since I was three.
01:03:44.000
I own a event rental company, and that's pretty much it.
01:03:54.000
I have heard that the wedding industry has taken a big hit.
01:04:00.000
Marriages have been like hitting historic lows.
01:04:05.000
I specialize in weddings, but I do events as well.
01:04:09.000
Can you tell us about the wedding industry, how that's going?
01:04:15.000
I think economically, I think it's the economy.
01:04:18.000
So people that would normally throw a big wedding are now going for smaller weddings.
01:04:22.000
They're going for different options, traveling instead, saving for a house.
01:04:25.000
So they're not really throwing the big shebangs anymore.
01:04:30.000
Do you think it's because of the economy or is it because men no longer see value in marriage?
01:04:35.000
I think it's the economy because I still have weddings.
01:04:40.000
So even though they're less, I'm still booking.
01:04:42.000
They're just like cutting it back as far as the spending on the wedding.
01:04:46.000
What's the average spend on a wedding nowadays?
01:05:04.000
No, no, it is the average, but I'm saying it's like it's middle.
01:05:08.000
Yeah, but Miami is significantly more expensive than other cities.
01:05:21.000
So you get people married and then you're separated?
01:05:39.000
I was married to someone that I was basically a married single mom.
01:05:43.000
Selfish man, very independent, and it was just rough.
01:05:46.000
A lot of mistreatment, verbal abuse, emotional abuse.
01:05:53.000
I dealt with it for five years without a problem.
01:05:56.000
Sucked it up, went to therapy, thought it was a problem, thought I could fix it.
01:06:01.000
And when this started happening in front of her, I said, I can't do this because I don't want my daughter to be raised in a home where she sees her father screaming at her mom.
01:06:11.000
So you got into a relationship with a kid from another relationship.
01:06:19.000
It means I was married with the father of my child, but it felt like I was single because he wouldn't contribute.
01:06:31.000
Yeah, so it was just all he would do is go to work and go to the gym and then come home and everything needed to be done, which it was done.
01:06:44.000
Did he make enough to take care of both of you or?
01:06:49.000
I electively chose to work because if I needed money for X, Y, and Z, it was tight.
01:06:57.000
If I wanted to buy myself a $100 pair of shoes, he would say no, but then he would go and buy himself a $1,200 mountain bike.
01:07:12.000
Hey, but you're working from home or you're still doing like the wedding planning?
01:07:22.000
My stepfather who raised me and my mom are still together.
01:07:45.000
No, it's slow, but I don't want that business out there.
01:07:50.000
When you say you're in politics, what are you, like, what?
01:07:56.000
So I'm a former campaign manager for a state representative.
01:07:59.000
I do consulting for politicians and candidates.
01:08:02.000
I'm on the board of directors for a couple of organizations.
01:08:10.000
Or do you just work for whichever campaign needs you?
01:08:15.000
I'm a committee woman for the Republican Executive Committee of Miami-Dade County.
01:08:53.000
I mean, I'm not too happy with some of the stuff he's got going on.
01:08:59.000
I guess we're going to shift over to the debrief, I guess.
01:09:03.000
I don't like what he's doing with Israel and bombing Iran.
01:09:14.000
And then as far as his immigration policy, I think that's good.
01:09:18.000
This is probably the most aggressive intra-state immigration enforcement we've ever seen.
01:09:25.000
He closed the border down, so I do like what he's doing with immigration, deporting people.
01:09:29.000
But yeah, I mean, when it comes to foreign policy, I'm not happy with what he's doing with Russia-Ukraine, and I'm not happy with Israel.
01:09:41.000
Well, that's a part of the deportation process.
01:10:10.000
So I used to go to Everglades and get them out.
01:10:14.000
And then also the Epstein File thing is a big L. His administration totally fumbled Epstein Files.
01:10:22.000
I mean, look, I don't want to sound like an asshole.
01:10:25.000
But this is what happens when you put women in positions of power.
01:10:28.000
She used to be the Attorney General for Florida.
01:10:31.000
I know she used to be like kind of your, not your boss, but whatever.
01:10:36.000
She was the attorney general for Florida for a long time.
01:10:40.000
Doesn't know anything about what she's doing with DHS.
01:10:47.000
Put women in positions of power in his cabinet, DOJ, DHS, powerful agencies.
01:10:51.000
Because, you know, they were calling him a womanized.
01:10:52.000
Remember, he was getting accused of being her grapest and shit and a misogynist.
01:10:57.000
Let me go ahead and put women in positions of power.
01:10:59.000
His chief of staff, Susie Wiles, also a female.
01:11:15.000
A topic at hand is we're going to talk about Shannon Sharp a little bit.
01:11:24.000
do we have the video queued up uh he's only working by himself so he's on give me All right.
01:11:36.000
If you need a target, I'd go after the cheating horn next to the bum Henny Chris or the stupid what?
01:12:04.000
Mommy Chula next to Myron needs a translation book for what Chris is going to say to her.
01:12:09.000
Mad love to ice and the ladies in the back, keeping everything moving flawlessly.
01:12:14.000
Thank you, Mo, for letting me borrow the Lambo last night.
01:12:18.000
Men's gymnastics is so advanced that women have to do less difficult events.
01:12:27.000
Hey, Ashley, you're supposed to be repping Springs.
01:12:47.000
Coral Springs, Maryland, Pompano, Fort Lauderdale, Sunrise Plantation, all of that's Fort Lauderdale.
01:12:53.000
If you put your address with Fort Lauderdale in your zip code, your mail is coming to your house.
01:13:05.000
Cairo 03, why all the comments say I'm a comedian, just a white boy, sells some jewelry?
01:13:26.000
Oh, Martin lied about Fresh, that dark-ass shadow watching from the corner behind the wheel.
01:13:30.000
I see his eyes and his chain trying to hide and seek.
01:13:37.000
I would like to thank FNF for awakening the entrepreneurial spirit in me.
01:13:40.000
And in light of recent years, I decided to create a new clothing brand called Superior Jeans.
01:13:44.000
Ladies on the panel, if I created some jeans that were form-fitting, comfortable, and sexy, would you buy my Superior jeans?
01:13:59.000
Now, if y'all would put all the hair hats in a pile, could y'all guess how much that pile would be worth?
01:15:01.000
Why does it make y'all mad when your man likes other women's posts on social media?
01:15:08.000
I bet if you was only liking men's posts, y'all would think he's gay.
01:15:14.000
I just feel like if you're a girl, I might like it too.
01:15:17.000
Yeah, but I feel like if you're like, I don't know.
01:15:20.000
Maybe because what the other girl can think, she's going to think, oh, he wants me or something.
01:15:28.000
You just want to have eyes for the only person you're talking to.
01:15:32.000
Now it's different because if it's a post, okay, but if it's like the story and then you heart in the story or you reacting to the story, that goes so deeply.
01:15:43.000
How many of you would have a problem with your significant other liking girl girls posts on Instagram?
01:16:00.000
And then you can explain under what context you would be.
01:16:11.000
Okay, what would the content need to be for you to be offended?
01:16:13.000
If it's a woman in a bathing suit and something provocative, then yes, it's disrespectful.
01:16:21.000
If it's just her sitting there, like, smiling, okay.
01:16:23.000
But like, if we're together, you should only have eyes meet for me and not for like.
01:16:36.000
Yeah, if it's like a girl I don't like or something.
01:16:42.000
I have my friends and they follow if I'm dating somebody and then the next thing you know, we fell out and you was still liking pictures.
01:16:49.000
My friend was trying to fuck my fiancé that passed away.
01:16:52.000
Yeah, and I found like she was asking to fly her to Jamaica for her birthday and everything.
01:16:57.000
Sent her a picture of a gun and told that bitch, fall back.
01:17:13.000
No, because I don't like to be in a relationship if I don't trust him, like, completely.
01:17:21.000
Would you be okay with your guy having other women?
01:17:30.000
Okay, so he could do three stims with you, another girl, but not by himself.
01:17:49.000
I don't think women are bisexual 99% of the time.
01:17:56.000
When's the last time you had an actual girlfriend?
01:18:00.000
But it's because, actually, because it's easier to flirt with a guy.
01:18:04.000
But a girl is like, oh my God, what is she thinking?
01:18:09.000
Translation: it's easier to manipulate and get what you want out of guys versus other women.
01:18:14.000
Because what I've realized with girls that say they're bisexual, most of the time they say that because they know it makes them more attractive to men.
01:18:20.000
But realistically speaking, if it weren't for a man, you wouldn't pursue a woman on your own.
01:18:26.000
But I like, I don't know if I can say, I like what they got right there.
01:18:31.000
Yeah, but you don't, but by your own admission, you've never pursued one to date.
01:18:35.000
So that tells me that you don't really like them like that.
01:18:37.000
Sexually, yeah, just not actually in a relationship.
01:18:40.000
So that means you don't like guys girls like that.
01:18:45.000
If any girls want to start right now, I'm down.
01:19:02.000
What if your guy that you had right now was like a girl's pictures?
01:19:04.000
If it was like a provocative picture, then I wouldn't like that.
01:19:32.000
Let's say you found out that he smashed another girl.
01:19:42.000
So, what do you think the chances are that you'll find another guy that you're actually attracted to that would take care of you and let you stay unemployed?
01:20:00.000
So if he's rarer, why would you put yourself in a bad predicament like that and go look for another guy when he's rarer?
01:20:15.000
So you would lose a six-year relationship where he supports you and takes care of you.
01:20:25.000
Yo, that hubris is why women are fucking retarded.
01:20:35.000
Wait, wait, but what are you bringing to table, though?
01:20:45.000
This is going to be your future husband, right?
01:20:49.000
Like, when he gets on on one knee, what are you bringing that he sees in you?
01:21:05.000
What are you bringing that's tangible to the table?
01:21:07.000
Like, if he was like, yo, my girl got this going on right now.
01:21:17.000
Yeah, like, what are you bringing to the table?
01:21:20.000
Like, if you or her was kind of standing next to each other, right?
01:21:29.000
My different personality that we people don't connect with everybody.
01:21:39.000
Man, like he's he's definitely cheating right now.
01:21:47.000
But what I what I am saying is that I think this conversation kind of highlights a bigger problem.
01:21:54.000
Obviously, we're kind of picking on her a little bit, but this highlights a bigger problem, which I've been saying for years, that women are just too damn arrogant.
01:22:03.000
She's cute, but she's not, you know, like there's girls better than her in Miami.
01:22:08.000
Let me be very blunt about this with all the ladies here at the table.
01:22:12.000
Ladies, if you find a guy that's a six-figure earner, that's attractive, there's a high likelihood at some point in your relationship, he will entertain another female.
01:22:23.000
So I tell girls, giving them good advice, if you leave him, you're a dumb bitch.
01:22:30.000
And the reason why you're a dumb bitch is because you are letting your ego take control of you leaving a good situation for something that isn't as serious.
01:22:42.000
Because again, ladies, you have high standards, right?
01:22:49.000
You do understand that if you have high standards, that means you have to understand that you are not the prize anymore.
01:22:59.000
Basically, if you have a standard, then you aren't the prize because you're reaching for something.
01:23:05.000
Yeah, this is a very interesting conversation to have with women because they never get it.
01:23:09.000
And you either can get a higher status guy that's attractive and checks off all, if not most, of your boxes, right?
01:23:18.000
Or you can have a guy that isn't as desirable that'll be monogamous to you because he can't cheat on you.
01:23:23.000
But share it like I said or share it by himself.
01:23:35.000
And look, I'm not saying, listen, he's out here going crazy on girls.
01:23:40.000
I'm just saying, listen, if he does one thing or want one girl, don't just, I'm going to leave you, nigga, from zero to 60.
01:23:49.000
Like, give him a leeway to do his thing, you know, talk to him.
01:24:01.000
Don't just leave him if he cheats one time or twice or three times.
01:24:07.000
So you're saying you rather her talk to him, like, have him, like, conversation about it.
01:24:12.000
How to talk with him, you know, like, like, have him be open with it.
01:24:14.000
Because, you know, you know what's going to happen?
01:24:25.000
They're going to have no free niggas on the side.
01:24:29.000
You don't want to cheat on your man that you like your life.
01:24:40.000
Um, his dad passed away, he had like broken heart syndrome.
01:24:45.000
Okay, yeah, but um, nonetheless, he um, he cheated on me, it was really bad, and then and then it didn't stop, and it was, it was like this, and the girl was in my house, so oh no, yeah, so no, I feel like once she would allow it, but then when I, when I got me a little friend, me and him ain't even do nothing, you know, he was, oh Lord, he was hurt, girl.
01:25:09.000
That's too different things all like this, you know what I'm saying?
01:25:11.000
Like, you know, you don't want to cheat on your guy that you actually love and respect, right?
01:25:15.000
But we just want to, hey, listen, we just want to dick suck, you know what I'm saying?
01:25:17.000
And sometimes, you know, you sucking a dick the same thing over and over again.
01:25:23.000
From her hair game, you know, her pussy is it from her pussy.
01:25:28.000
And that's where cheating comes into when you intertwine it.
01:25:30.000
I mean, no day guys will actually abuse that shit.
01:25:32.000
But in the day, you're going to be a little bit more damn good.
01:25:33.000
But that's where most of it comes like, oh, I was drunk, you know, and that's the excuse, you know, most of the time.
01:25:42.000
If it happens, you know, that's what the story is always going to be.
01:25:47.000
All I'm saying, listen, it's like, don't throw away a six-year relationship with this guy.
01:25:53.000
Don't throw away a six-year relationship with this guy that you actually love and respect, all right?
01:26:35.000
I don't know about her, but you don't know nothing about me.
01:26:38.000
I would have stayed married forever had I not been under abuse.
01:26:49.000
Well, how is it abuse that he wanted the house clean and stuff?
01:26:53.000
That I understand and I respect and I did my duties.
01:27:03.000
It was the shoving and, you know, things like that that are not acceptable, especially in front of his daughter.
01:27:16.000
Because women like to throw this term abuse around.
01:27:19.000
And it's a very nebulous term that no one can actually define.
01:27:23.000
My thing is, like, what did you do for him to behave that way?
01:27:28.000
Because that just guys don't normally blow up on women like that out of nowhere.
01:27:34.000
When women like, say, I'm being abused or some shit, they never tell you what happened.
01:27:43.000
I know that it takes two to make a marriage work.
01:27:49.000
Because she was saying that when she had a daughter, then it became even worse in front of her.
01:27:58.000
I got married on my seventh year of dating him or being his girlfriend.
01:28:05.000
So what did I do to, I mean, this is someone that was emotionally immature, did not know how to control his emotions, didn't know how to control his anger, and would just have rage fits.
01:28:17.000
If he didn't hear the right thing that he wanted to hear, he would just blow up.
01:28:22.000
And with another person that was maybe emotionally mature or knew how to handle their emotions, the situation would have been handled in a different way.
01:28:45.000
I guarantee you, if we called him and asked him his side, he would say she was being rude, she's being insufferable, she's disrespectful.
01:28:52.000
Men don't just yell at their girl for no reason.
01:28:55.000
So were there moments that I got disrespectful?
01:28:57.000
There were moments that I would lose it and I would blow up, but I wouldn't initiate it.
01:29:02.000
If he wouldn't have lost his temper, we would have kept it cool and we would have been fine.
01:29:08.000
Yeah, I'll give you his number and he'll tell you because I'm the one that initiated the divorce and he didn't want it.
01:29:13.000
And he knew that he was wrong and he begged me to stay because he was like, I'm going to change.
01:29:21.000
My thing is I'm always skeptical when women give their side because they always admit facts that led to them getting into altercation.
01:29:30.000
They'll say he wasn't emotionally mature or some bullshit like that and he was abusive.
01:29:35.000
But then they won't tell you that they would talk shit to him or they would parade him or they would nag him or they would do or they would like you know be at him.
01:29:45.000
They just tell how they were they always react to they always tell you how they what they got hit with never what they did.
01:29:52.000
Let me give you the prime example the reason why I ended up leaving the house.
01:29:57.000
We got home on a Sunday night from an activity.
01:30:04.000
So I said, hey, listen, let's tag team on this.
01:30:42.000
I mean, if it says no, then just, I mean, just talk to the child.
01:30:48.000
But like, you're trying to convince him when he's not in a good mood about it.
01:31:02.000
But if the baby doesn't want me to bathe her, why can't he just turn it off?
01:31:07.000
As a mother, you should say, keep going to catch him.
01:31:13.000
You left someone that can't even wipe their fucking ass drive a wedge between you and your fucking mother.
01:31:21.000
That was the last drop and the reason why I left.
01:31:24.000
Because he ran up to me and wanted to slap me in front of me.
01:31:48.000
There is no reason for him to escalate that way.
01:32:08.000
Already someone low IQ is saying obey, like, is it's a problem.
01:32:19.000
I look at it like, as soon as he told you, no, you're bathing her.
01:32:27.000
And then afterwards, telling him, baby, look, next time, this will happen.
01:32:31.000
Don't in the moment, you don't say it to him and try to have what I go.
01:32:37.000
Like, yo, yo, yo, yo, yo, like, this is the problem.
01:32:40.000
Women don't respect or obey their husbands anymore.
01:32:46.000
If I tell you to do something, you fucking do it.
01:32:50.000
This is like, oh, well, his daughter wanted him to pay, then he didn't want to do it.
01:32:55.000
Like, basically, that was a straw that broke the camel's back.
01:33:06.000
It was the raising of his hand at my face in front of my daughter.
01:33:10.000
But what we're saying is Well, but that wasn't the first time.
01:33:14.000
That was like the last time that I was like, I can't do this anymore in front of a kid.
01:33:18.000
We're saying that he's wrong for doing that for sure.
01:33:19.000
But what we're saying is, hey, listen, one time, all right?
01:33:21.000
If it's, hey, I don't want to do it one time, that's one thing, right?
01:33:25.000
If you had just obeyed him, it would have never been a problem.
01:33:28.000
You probably disobeyed him a bunch of times and you just got tired of your ass.
01:33:33.000
You don't know what it is to have a three-year-old screaming, throwing a tantrum.
01:33:48.000
Because when a kid is in their infant years, that is your fucking job as the woman.
01:33:53.000
If the man says, I don't want to change diapers, you fucking change the diapers.
01:33:56.000
If he says, you go pick them up, you go fucking pick them up.
01:34:09.000
My job is to protect you and the kid if some shit goes off.
01:34:16.000
You guys don't want to do your fucking jobs anymore.
01:34:18.000
You guys want to sit here and behave like guys.
01:34:21.000
You want to get educated, all this other bullshit.
01:34:23.000
But then you expect us to still be the men of the house.
01:34:27.000
That's why, actually, this is why marriage rates are plumbing.
01:34:35.000
And then when we come home, we still supposed to cook, clean, fuck, suck, produce the kids.
01:34:39.000
And then y'all just supposed to tell you in the middle of the night.
01:34:46.000
Number one, there's a reason why I asked that question earlier.
01:34:50.000
She wanted certain luxuries that he wasn't willing to pay for.
01:34:56.000
My daughter was born, and from the moment my daughter was born, that man did not buy a single thing for that child.
01:35:02.000
Not a diaper, not a bottle of milk, not a toy, not a necessity.
01:35:06.000
Why did you give him a kid if you know he couldn't take care of him?
01:35:09.000
I didn't know he was going to be like that with a kid.
01:35:15.000
Hey, man, I kind of want to hear this nigga's side of the story, bro.
01:35:22.000
Like, yo, women will tell you what happens to them, but they'll never tell you what they did to Africa to them.
01:35:34.000
But they'll never tell you what they did to get that result.
01:35:55.000
Like, why are you scared of his girlfriend over to him?
01:36:06.000
You guys are trying to judge off of five minutes of talking to me.
01:36:11.000
When she wanted her to get a bath by her father.
01:36:16.000
Oh, we were all upstairs getting ready for bed.
01:36:32.000
Honestly, this is a big reason why marriage rates are plummeting.
01:36:38.000
You were saying that off of five minutes of talking to me.
01:36:46.000
I did all the cooking, all the cleaning, all the laundry, all the dry cleaning, everything.
01:36:51.000
I paid for the cleaning lady that would come once a month and who would do the upkeep.
01:36:56.000
Again, generally speaking, this is why a lot of guys aren't getting married.
01:37:03.000
You didn't fuck with him like that because you had to do 50-50 shit.
01:37:20.000
Well, yeah, but you're saying he covered all the bills.
01:37:23.000
Your husband, not supposed to take care of your car.
01:37:26.000
So it's like, why would he say what, why would she stay with a guy like that, though, For like that long.
01:37:33.000
And I said, and I said, had he never been like that, I would have stayed married forever.
01:37:40.000
I don't believe in divorce, but I could take the abuse.
01:37:46.000
How was I going to stay in an abusive relationship?
01:38:05.000
And once again, we're not saying it's right that he's doing all that.
01:38:09.000
He's like, oh, this is precisely why women should never work.
01:38:11.000
But it's like, you know, I've been with a girl and she was like, I told her one thing.
01:38:18.000
You're like tiny as fuck talking about like it's a negotiation.
01:38:24.000
This is why, yo, yo, chat, this is what I tell y'all, bro.
01:38:26.000
You got to make all the money and tell your girl to shut the fuck up, bro.
01:38:29.000
Because you need to make the money so you don't deal with bullshit like this.
01:38:34.000
Like, if your woman works and like contributes to bills or whatever, now she has to say in things.
01:38:42.000
It's like, it's better to just pay for everything and like just have her deal with the kid and all that other bullshit, man.
01:38:46.000
I don't think men should be changing diapers or doing any of that fuck shit.
01:38:50.000
And once again, he has two days off from work, right?
01:38:54.000
And then one day he's like trying to relax and trying to chill in his own house.
01:39:06.000
Do you know how stressful it is to take care of a family as a guy?
01:39:10.000
I mean, I was taking care of a family too because I was taking care of my husband in ways that he wasn't taking care of himself.
01:39:16.000
The cooking, the cleaning, the washing, the laundry.
01:39:19.000
Every day he had a pair of clean underwear, a pair of clean socks.
01:39:29.000
That's fine, but I wasn't talking back for cooking or for doing the laundry.
01:39:53.000
You said that was a strawberry that brought the camels back.
01:40:01.000
Right now, like, we're talking right now, and I can tell you're a nagger because you're pointing your finger like this.
01:40:11.000
You know, like, you know, you were pretty back in the days.
01:40:13.000
And now, you know, it's one of those things where about that.
01:40:23.000
Y'all agree that shit's prettier back in the days?
01:40:30.000
You should have been more lenient with your man.
01:40:34.000
So you can't say I could have been more lenient.
01:40:39.000
You left and you feel as though he wasn't doing his part.
01:40:43.000
My criticism of it would be, you got to pay all the bills, bro.
01:40:46.000
And yeah, I don't think women should work because then you're not going to be able to do that.
01:40:52.000
But my question is, do you think you're going to find a better guy, though, now at this point?
01:40:56.000
Realistically speaking, at 37, do you think you're going to be as able to have the same leverage on a dating market now as you would have 17 years ago at 20?
01:41:05.000
I mean, as long as they're not verbally and emotionally abusive.
01:41:27.000
Well, I mean, the one that was really good potential ended up moving to another country.
01:41:47.000
Don't you think you would have tried, if he thought that you were like maybe the woman of his dreams, you would have made it work somehow, though?
01:41:51.000
Well, yeah, I mean, he asked me to go with him, but I have a five-year-old daughter that I'm not going to leave behind.
01:41:57.000
Because we share custody, and I'm not going to take her from her father.
01:42:03.000
Well, it's going to be a lot harder, man, at 37 than when you were 20 with a kid now.
01:42:07.000
If you say so, I tend to pull younger men, actually.
01:42:15.000
All right, realistically speaking, are you going to really get with a guy that's significantly younger than you like that?
01:42:25.000
There are young men that are 30, 32, 33 that have their stuff together.
01:42:39.000
It's like women always fulfill the stereotypes.
01:42:41.000
I've realized that women have this really bad habit of thinking that having options is really viable candidates.
01:42:47.000
And the reality is that having options is not the same as having viable candidates.
01:42:51.000
Realistically speaking, as a businesswoman entrepreneur, right?
01:42:57.000
I know you're not going to get with a guy that's younger than you, realistically speaking.
01:43:00.000
Like this demographic background, you're just not going to get with a guy that's younger than you.
01:43:04.000
He's going to have to be, if he's going to be younger than you, he's going to have to be worth quite a bit of money, be extremely mature, etc.
01:43:10.000
And that guy's probably going to want a younger woman.
01:43:12.000
So like just realistically speaking, like a young guy that you're going to find attractive that you want to settle down with, realistically speaking, come on.
01:43:29.000
Yeah, but I think it's important to differentiate, because this is an important distinction, options, aka men, that are saying, let's go on a date, versus viable, actual candidates that can be real potential suitors.
01:43:44.000
What I've noticed with women is you guys conflate the two as if they're both the same and they're not.
01:43:48.000
Guys that want to have sex with you or court you for a little bit are not the same as guys that want to get down on a knee and propose to you and take you seriously.
01:43:56.000
But for some odd reason, women like to, well, I know why you guys do it.
01:43:58.000
You do it to make it yourself feel better, That you have more options, but realistically speaking, you know, you have high standards, right?
01:44:06.000
So if you have high standards, that means by definition, you don't have many options.
01:44:14.000
It can't be I have a lot of options, but then you're also picky.
01:44:18.000
I wouldn't, I don't consider having high standards.
01:44:24.000
Because if 10 guys was in the room, you'd be like, okay, I have high standards.
01:44:32.000
Yeah, so if you have low standards, I need all niggas inside me like her, more or less, in the room.
01:44:43.000
Ladies, if you have high standards, by definition, that means you're picky.
01:44:53.000
It's like, you're either, if you're picky, which means you're selective, which means you have high standards, then you're no longer the prize if you find your man.
01:45:04.000
Okay, explain to me how you're still the prize.
01:45:18.000
In his eyes, you're the prize, but it's like, end of the day, bro.
01:45:20.000
It's like, if you leave him, yeah, but you got to be real, though, also.
01:45:23.000
Like, he has more value on a dating marketplace than you do.
01:45:40.000
Men that are providers and provisioners are rare nowadays, thanks to feminism.
01:45:46.000
Even worse in Canada, matter of fact, because Canada is super fucking egalitarian and socialist.
01:45:50.000
So you have even less men that want to be providers in Canada.
01:46:00.000
That's why it's fucked up because they want to be with each other.
01:46:04.000
Okay, let's assume, I don't know where you brought that, where that came from, but let's assume that's correct.
01:46:09.000
You do realize that proves my point more, right?
01:46:16.000
It's that women need to look in the mirror and realize that they're not as special as they think they are.
01:46:24.000
That's the one overriding thing that I've realized after doing five years of this show is that women have been a gross, gross, whether educated, not educated, porn star, not porn star.
01:46:36.000
We've been doing this show now, going on five years.
01:46:39.000
And the one thing that I will say without a shadow of a doubt, regardless of background, culture, whatever it is, the majority of women, like 90% of you guys, have an over-inflated sense of self-worth.
01:46:58.000
Six foot, $100,000 per year, good shape, charming, charismatic.
01:47:06.000
What do you bring to the table to qualify for that?
01:47:12.000
Okay, what would he get in return for being with you?
01:47:18.000
Okay, but there's other women that can do that.
01:47:27.000
No, they might have the same shit as me on the outside.
01:47:30.000
You didn't realize that she said the same exact thing like 20 minutes ago.
01:48:17.000
Like, all my guy friends, they want to mess up.
01:48:19.000
So it's like, there's no point of being friends if I don't like you.
01:48:23.000
Yeah, I just find it interesting that, like, you said I got a good soul.
01:48:31.000
But, like, there's plenty of girls that got good souls out there.
01:48:38.000
But what I'm asking you is, like, what does he get in return?
01:48:52.000
I mean, she's just saying that now because we've kind of established that women don't have as much power as they think they do.
01:48:58.000
At the end of the day, I think every man's going to cheat.
01:49:04.000
So if that's the case, why'd you leave your boyfriend?
01:49:07.000
Because she literally admitted he was cheating or some shit, right?
01:49:11.000
You said you need to focus on yourself, but also he was cheating?
01:49:27.000
Like, I didn't have time to deal with like immature.
01:49:32.000
So, like, I don't want to be a provider anyway.
01:49:40.000
No, I don't even pay my own bills, to be honest.
01:49:49.000
Women want a pinnacle man while being average themselves is what I've realized.
01:50:18.000
You know, like, you know, surfs the internet and shit like that.
01:50:24.000
Just so you guys understand, like, I don't blame you guys for being boring because most guys don't give a shit.
01:50:29.000
Like, if you're hot, Right, if you're hot, you don't really have to develop much character.
01:50:33.000
Guys will take you out on dates, guys will hang out with you, guys will give you money.
01:50:36.000
Oh, yeah, you don't have to really develop character.
01:50:38.000
There's no feet to the fire to make you better women.
01:51:06.000
I just find it funny that average women will not settle for average men.
01:51:10.000
Average women want pinnacle men, but they're not willing to do above-average things to maintain the pinnacle man.
01:51:25.000
Like, I have no problem with women that have high standards, but they don't want to deal with high-standard problems.
01:51:32.000
It's like going to a very good, like, being honest, right?
01:51:46.000
Like, this is a good analogy because you understand when I say this.
01:51:50.000
So it's literally, you go to like a top steakhouse with $50 in your pocket.
01:51:54.000
You order everything on the menu, the top of the line shit.
01:51:57.000
They're bringing out fucking fire dancers and all this other shit.
01:52:05.000
Because women got to document everything they do.
01:52:13.000
And you put $50 on the fucking thing when it's really supposed to be, when it's $10,000.
01:52:17.000
And then you expect the restaurant to allow you to stay.
01:52:27.000
You got $50 in your pocket eating at the top-tier fucking steakhouse.
01:52:31.000
And then when they say, all right, here's the bill, you don't want to pay the bills.
01:52:37.000
Average women don't deserve the, but you got that $20, right?
01:52:50.000
You have more than enough money to buy whatever you want on the fucking McDonald's menu, but y'all go to the top steakhouse with $50 in your pocket.
01:53:03.000
Like, there's a video of Benadon dealing with a girl who didn't have $150 in her cash app.
01:53:17.000
All right, let's go to the Shannon Sharp thing, segue here.
01:53:20.000
Did anyone else have anything before we go to the Shannon Sharp thing?
01:53:33.000
Okay, ESPN fire Shannon Sharp after sexual assault lawsuit with OnlyFans model.
01:53:37.000
Okay, so he just got Shannon Sharp, for those of you that don't know, is a commentator, sports commentator.
01:53:56.000
He's known as one of the best tight ends in American football history.
01:54:00.000
And he's one of the most respected names in sports commentating and analysts.
01:54:08.000
Let's play the video and then I'll and then we can go back to IG.
01:54:11.000
This is going to summarize everything because I know some of you guys might not be familiar, so I'll play this video and then let you guys, we'll get your guys' comments.
01:54:19.000
No more unk vibes at the worldwide leader in sports.
01:54:22.000
ESPN has cut ties with former NFL tight intern media personality Shannon Sharp after the Hall of Famer settled a $50 million lawsuit accusing him of sexual assault.
01:54:33.000
Settlement was announced by the accuser's attorney, Tony Busby, earlier in July.
01:54:38.000
Sharp strongly denied the allegations and stepped away from his role at ESPN, where he was featured on the daytime sports talk show First Take.
01:54:47.000
He hasn't been seen on the network since April.
01:54:50.000
This is a breaking news story, and we'll have more updates when more details are made available.
01:54:58.000
Okay, so basically, let's pull up the Instagram again, and I'll give you guys some other facts.
01:55:18.000
Okay, so let me give you guys a quick little timeline.
01:55:21.000
He was in a relationship with this girl, right?
01:55:27.000
And basically what she did was she recorded some of the phone calls saying, you know, very suspect phone calls about him being too forceful when they had sex, right?
01:55:37.000
So she ends up suing him in this lawsuit for $50 million.
01:55:42.000
He had given her and offered her $10 million to shut the fuck up and not go to the press.
01:55:46.000
She decided to hire one of the biggest cloud chasing attorneys, a guy named Tony Busby or whatever his name is, who's represented a bunch of cloud chasing females and diddy, Jay-Z, et cetera.
01:55:55.000
And she hired him and there was a big press release on this, et cetera.
01:55:59.000
The first day of court, from what I understand, her lawyer didn't show up and they ended up settling quickly after that.
01:56:06.000
They're alleging that he settled for about $23 million with her to just basically get rid of the lawsuit.
01:56:14.000
Now, mind you, when she dropped this lawsuit, he was in the middle of a big deal, a big deal with Which one?
01:56:24.000
He had a deal with some kind of broadcasting company.
01:56:26.000
He was in the middle of renegotiating something.
01:56:42.000
He was in the middle of negotiating it, and then she dropped this lawsuit right in the middle of that, which obviously is strategic.
01:56:54.000
And mind you, these guys have been seeing each other for over like several months, if not years.
01:57:06.000
She just filed this lawsuit, dropped it out of nowhere.
01:57:14.000
So, obviously, I think she dropped it at that time to garner the most pain to get him to comply.
01:57:18.000
Obviously, $50 million is quite a bit of money to sue somebody for.
01:57:26.000
To put things in perspective, his entire NFL career, he only made $22 million.
01:57:31.000
His entire NFL career, he only made $22 million.
01:57:36.000
She basically just fucked him up his whole career.
01:57:41.000
Because he made a bunch of the money, probably the majority of his money, after leaving football, with being on the SPN, doing the podcast.
01:57:51.000
Bro, that's like 40 years plus work, hard work for one bitch, bro.
01:57:56.000
This bitch has the audacity to go on Instagram and say, I'm quitting OnlyFans.
01:58:05.000
She posted this on her Instagram and goes, today I've decided to retire from Moad.
01:58:08.000
Thank you for the incredible support you've shown me over the past few years.
01:58:11.000
This community has given me a life I could have never imagined.
01:58:13.000
I'll still be active on social media and have several new projects in the works that I can't wait to share.
01:58:27.000
So she basically settled for more money than he made during his entire NFL career, being a professional athlete.
01:58:34.000
And to add insult to injury, she makes that post on Instagram.
01:58:37.000
And not only that, now he's got to deal with the consequences of getting fired from ESPN because I guess by settling in court, that might imply that he might have done it.
01:58:49.000
And I do think it's important to note that she never went to the police, at least to my knowledge.
01:59:21.000
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01:59:36.000
Before we get started, obviously, I'm sure everybody's heard the news by now that I will not be returning to ESPN.
01:59:43.000
I found out this information a little earlier in the week.
01:59:46.000
And really, the only thing that I really ask is like, guys, could we wait until Monday?
01:59:52.000
My brother's going into the Pro Football Hall of Fame.
01:59:55.000
I really want it to be about him and I want it to be about my family.
01:59:58.000
I know this would, I said, this coming out will overshadow everything that he's worked his entire life for.
02:00:04.000
And unfortunately, you know, it didn't happen that way.
02:00:07.000
And so as I told him, as I profusely apologized to him earlier today, he said, bro, stop apologizing.
02:00:32.000
It gave me an opportunity to bring my audience that saw me really just grow.
02:00:37.000
They saw me, you know, Lakers in five and they saw me say all these funny, these analogies that my grandparents gave me.
02:00:46.000
But I just wished of all things, like I said, they did what they felt they needed to do.
02:00:52.000
But I just wish, guys, I just wish this thing could have waited until Monday because I hate the fact that I'm overshadowing my brother, the first two brothers in the Pro Football Hall of Fame.
02:01:02.000
And this is what the headline is going to be for the next couple of days.
02:01:06.000
So, bro, again, I know you told me I don't have to apologize, but I'm going to do it one final time tonight, and I won't apologize again.
02:01:23.000
You've been my role model from as long as I can remember.
02:01:26.000
And I apologize, and I thank all my fans for supporting me when I was at ESPN and every place that I've been, be it Club Shea Shea, Nightcap, Undisputed, ESPN.
02:01:46.000
He just basically got on to apologize for his brother.
02:01:53.000
Do you think this is going to lead to other things?
02:01:55.000
I mean, whoever wants to, do you want to start here and then work our way?
02:02:08.000
Yeah, well, yeah, let's let the girls that have, yeah, go ahead.
02:02:14.000
I think that some other things should be set in place when women are targeting certain men with money.
02:02:34.000
So I just feel like when you're getting lawyers and people involved and money's involved, I feel like there should be certain things because I'm a victim of rape.
02:02:46.000
And I feel like that is insensitive to people that are victims of that and actually go through it.
02:02:56.000
So I just feel like, you know, women are talking to certain women that you should have some type of protection in order for yourself.
02:03:03.000
But also just know that everybody not out here for the same reason.
02:03:09.000
He was tricking off on her and she planned this.
02:03:12.000
So I think shit, he needed to sue her ass back.
02:03:23.000
Yeah, he doesn't want it to be a lengthy thing.
02:03:25.000
Like, look at people locked up for stuff that may be true, may not be true, but also in the same breath.
02:03:34.000
But yeah, he just probably wanted to get rid of it.
02:03:37.000
Yeah, because it was going to be her word against his anyway.
02:03:39.000
So he already knew, like, that he probably, he knew he fucked up for fucking with that hoe.
02:03:48.000
And that should be a statute of limitation for you.
02:03:57.000
Yeah, I went and I did a rape kit and everything.
02:04:01.000
So, and I don't mean to pry and ask you this, but as someone who's actually a real victim that went to the police where they were able to find, not just a probable cause, but find him guilty beyond a reasonable doubt, or he pled guilty.
02:04:13.000
How does that, like, does that piss you off to see girls abusing the system like that?
02:04:16.000
It do, because I have death threats with my situation.
02:04:23.000
So it's like, yeah, I feel some type of way about women that abuse that power.
02:04:30.000
Because there are women who go to the police and they don't believe them.
02:04:35.000
I got help, but I didn't get the help they told me they were going to give me.
02:04:38.000
When I cooperated with them, they didn't give me the help they told me.
02:04:41.000
So it put me in a vulnerable space where I'm an artist.
02:04:44.000
I'm always posting where I'm going to be at all the time.
02:04:48.000
Now I have to have security and things like that because I don't know if someone's going to come to my show and try to kill me.
02:05:03.000
He just recently got moved to a, he probably getting.
02:05:14.000
Yeah, he did it in front of like 30 people at a store in my car.
02:05:24.000
So the prosecutor just gave him a deal, I guess?
02:05:27.000
I mean, he was on the wiretap admitting that he had the devil in him.
02:05:32.000
Like at detectives, they told me to make a phone call.
02:05:43.000
He was on the run for like two months, I believe, before they actually caught him.
02:05:54.000
I mean, you know, a lot of women lie about this shit.
02:05:57.000
And we have someone here that actually like endured it.
02:06:14.000
And I think it's very important that the audience understand that this Me Too shit takes away from real victims like we have one here.
02:06:28.000
No, but no, no, this is, I mean, I know that's very raw, but it's the truth.
02:06:44.000
You know, because now I know she went to the cops.
02:06:48.000
Legit, you know, found guilty, you know, whether he played guilty or went to trial.
02:06:55.000
And, you know, I don't mean to say this like, oh, yeah, like, look, see what I'm talking about, but this is serious.
02:07:02.000
I've been saying this for years, that it's a fucking problem.
02:07:05.000
So anybody else have anything that they want to add or anything like that?
02:07:09.000
I know some of you guys are familiar with this case.
02:07:11.000
I just wanted to say I agree because it's really hard to be a girl's girl when like people lie about it and men too.
02:07:17.000
Like it's not just women, it's men that go through the same stuff.
02:07:27.000
Once the cops and everything, you know, did it the right way.
02:07:32.000
And guys, this is an example of what we're talking about.
02:07:34.000
When I say Me Too is a problem, that is literally the exact person I'm talking about.
02:07:47.000
But there's also people that don't go to the cops and actually do go through the same exact stuff because they're scared or they think it's pointless because they're only going to get the five years, the two years, barely nothing, or just get off and then maybe come and kill them right after.
02:08:05.000
Do you have anything you want to, anyone else want to add?
02:08:08.000
I understand how she feels, like, just from being an outside perspective, because we've been in a situation of a friend group where that's happened, and it was hard to believe that person because we found out she was lying.
02:08:32.000
Like women lie about this for a multitude of different reasons.
02:08:35.000
She lied because she, I guess she was ashamed of the person that, like, which was very stupid because, like, we laugh about like shit like that.
02:08:42.000
Like, oh, like, we hook up with this person, but, like, it's for jokes, but just, like, reaching it that far.
02:08:52.000
Did she, like, make a police report, or what did she do?
02:08:54.000
No, she just, like, sat, cried, and told us, like, did she, like, go out public with the allegations right now, right?
02:09:02.000
She was trying to get everyone on her side, and then we found out she lied.
02:09:14.000
It was two people, actually, in our friend group.
02:09:24.000
No, it was like three girls and like five girls.
02:09:31.000
So I do have something to say about like the age difference between them as well.
02:09:35.000
Because obviously he's older and then how old is she?
02:09:53.000
So, sorry, we'll double check her age, but go ahead.
02:09:57.000
Right, but just the age different, that should have told him everything that he needed to know.
02:10:01.000
So I feel like it's, dang, I hate to see it be him, but that's what you get.
02:10:12.000
Okay, so you think his fuck-up was getting with a girl that significantly younger than him?
02:10:18.000
Now, what I will say is, like, men are naturally attracted to younger women, and he takes care of himself, obviously.
02:10:26.000
You wouldn't even think that he's 60 based on the way that he looks.
02:10:57.000
You get all this money and you're not giving it to her.
02:11:07.000
So do you think it was, let me ask you this then.
02:11:10.000
Do you think the main problem is attributed to her age or maybe her decision-making skills?
02:11:16.000
Because I would make the argument that there's maybe some 19 or 20-year-olds that would have been able to be in that relationship and not have a problem.
02:11:28.000
So would you say it's more about what she did versus no offense?
02:11:30.000
But would you say that's more about what she would you made?
02:11:34.000
What do you think is a bigger contributing factor?
02:11:38.000
And then on top of her age, because she doesn't have experience.
02:11:42.000
You need she means that she ain't got experience.
02:11:52.000
What do you think was a bigger contributing factor?
02:11:59.000
So I guess, so is your position basically that if you're an older guy with some money, don't get with a girl that's in her 20s that does OF?
02:12:24.000
So you just can't, okay, I'm finna fuck with you because I like the way you look.
02:12:28.000
Or I'm just going to fuck on you and do whatever I want to do to you.
02:12:33.000
Sorry, I'm trying to figure out how long they were together.
02:12:42.000
So it doesn't matter the age, but to me, that was a factor because she ain't had nothing.
02:13:01.000
Definitely afforded her the life that she wanted to live.
02:13:10.000
And honestly, I think, like, I'd be shocked if his legal team didn't try to pursue something after that because clearly she did that to antagonize the situation.
02:13:21.000
Which tells me in itself, the fact that she did that shows that it's not genuine.
02:13:25.000
If you're a real victim, and I hate to ask you, but like, realistically, would you do a post taunting someone like that?
02:13:37.000
People don't just, when things happen to them, you're not forthcoming neither.
02:13:44.000
She obviously was an entire, she had a, she had something going on.
02:13:49.000
And he also probably was pillow talking with her and letting him know all the things he had coming up and good things happening.
02:13:55.000
Yeah, yeah, because how now Hall of Fame is happening and now that's overshadowed by her and her accusations.
02:14:02.000
I think the other thing too, also, I think he probably made a promise to her, like he sold her a dream.
02:14:08.000
Because just from like the timing, the way she did it, find the lost suit with this Cloud Chaser lawyer.
02:14:14.000
Like there was a lot of strategy implemented here, which tells me infers a lot of diabolical intention.
02:14:21.000
And normally what I've realized with women is when they do diabolical shit like that, it's because they feel betrayed.
02:14:26.000
And what I think is, is that he probably promised her some kind of future.
02:14:35.000
Okay, so they were in a somewhat long-term relationship then.
02:14:38.000
So I just feel like I feel like OnlyFans is just like the new back page.
02:14:44.000
You know, that's where they're going to get the women.
02:14:47.000
They're getting up, flying them out, tricking on them.
02:14:57.000
How many followers does she have on talking to her?
02:15:05.000
I think what probably happened was he sold her a dream.
02:15:11.000
I think there was something, Moe, you could double check for me.
02:15:13.000
I think there was some infidelity involved, too, that she didn't like.
02:15:17.000
And I think, because, dude, this is diabolical.
02:15:20.000
Like, she could have got, just so you guys know, she could have got 10M, not had her face all over the place, not been all over the internet.
02:15:27.000
Because it's not like she's an actress or anything.
02:15:32.000
As someone who's a real victim, I really, you know, you don't have to answer this if you don't want to, but I think it's a very rare situation.
02:15:37.000
We have a real victim here to weigh in on this.
02:15:42.000
If you were assaulted and you decided to pursue a criminal case as well as a litigation case civilly, and you had the opportunity to get a sizable amount of money, like 10 million, without your name being out there, without being on the internet, what if someone who actually was assaulted, wouldn't they not want to be all over the internet?
02:16:00.000
Yeah, but like I had in my situation, they were trying to pay me to not to drop the charges.
02:16:06.000
And I told them I didn't want to take any money from them.
02:16:10.000
Because at the end of the day, it was no longer me pressing.
02:16:14.000
That would have been nothing that I could do for it.
02:16:16.000
I could have took the money and disappeared, but what's that going to do for me?
02:16:23.000
By being a real victim, it made you even less inclined to do that.
02:16:29.000
It wasn't for so that was a traumatic experience that happened to me.
02:16:34.000
And well, I'm going to have money in the account, I'm going to always be just thinking, like, or I basically sold my soul for 10 million because I got raped.
02:16:43.000
But how could I be truly happy knowing that that came from a hurt place in my life?
02:16:49.000
So, would you say, obviously, it's not going to be every single time.
02:16:53.000
But if someone is taking money instead of pursuing legal recourse and getting that person put in jail, is it safe to say that more than likely there's a high probability they're lying?
02:17:07.000
I'm pretty sure, you know, he's dominant in the bedroom, you know?
02:17:11.000
So if he wasn't rough with you then, why is he why all of a sudden it's a thing?
02:17:22.000
Well, she had to record a phone call that was very awkward.
02:17:27.000
I don't know if you guys play it for you ladies so you guys can.
02:17:29.000
They partly promised her a baby and she didn't get that baby.
02:17:35.000
They like to have the babies, or they like to sue you.
02:17:40.000
What Kodak Black's baby mama said, if he's a day late, he going to jail.
02:17:46.000
If he's a day late for child support, like that's insane.
02:17:48.000
You don't even, your kid is not even, like, you don't have a kid to love your kid.
02:17:59.000
Yeah, because to me, I was like looking in my head, like, let's assume that she did get raped, right?
02:18:06.000
You had a chance to get 10 million and not be all over the internet and be able to take that, I guess, trauma and deal with it privately, right?
02:18:13.000
But she chose to go to the internet anyway and go 50 million.
02:18:17.000
Knowing, let's be honest, you come out saying you're going to sue somebody for 50 million, there's going to be a lot of people that say this bitch is lying.
02:18:23.000
So she had to tolerate probably quite a bit of abuse on her end to get that money too.
02:18:27.000
And if she's a real victim, I think that would be unbearable.
02:18:36.000
Well, that's why I'm saying this adds more evidence that it's fake.
02:18:39.000
And then now that I have a real victim here that's saying, I don't want the fucking money.
02:18:47.000
And once again, like, she was saying that it was out in public.
02:18:53.000
So it's like, all right, so in public or in person, like, it's one of the things where it's still wrong, but it's like, it's kind of weird, though.
02:19:00.000
Like, no, no, like how she, like, the, the, the, oh, yeah, like, making it go public.
02:19:05.000
She could have had 10 million and it's not going to go anywhere.
02:19:08.000
So that's what makes me say, like, well, that's weird because most people don't want to open up about that type of shit, right?
02:19:15.000
And because you're going to get a lot of ridicule.
02:19:16.000
Or you're going to get a lot of questions about it.
02:19:22.000
And this will be the second time I kind of touched on my story.
02:19:25.000
So you haven't talked about this since you spoke to the detectives.
02:19:30.000
Just like, I have a lake on the back of my house.
02:19:32.000
Just go out there and meditate and just try to release it as much.
02:19:35.000
I did drink really heavy for a while too, trying to suppress it.
02:19:44.000
And I'm like, then it was like, oh, we can give you $10,000.
02:19:54.000
I mean, if she going to take it out and put it out, then yeah, obviously she had an idea in me.
02:20:07.000
But, no, I mean, you know, thank you for sharing your story, obviously.
02:20:12.000
I really appreciate that you are vulnerable in telling us that.
02:20:15.000
And I think this is an important lesson that, you know, it does happen out there.
02:20:20.000
And women like this, this Zuniga bitch, takes away credence for women that are real victims, right?
02:20:32.000
All right, so let's go ahead and play this thing real quick here.
02:20:43.000
All right, guys, we got about how many shows we have on Rumble right now?
02:20:58.000
We're going to react to this audio, and then we'll close out the show over there.
02:21:06.000
So, this clip here is the phone call I think that she had with him.
02:21:09.000
This is what she released to the press, I think.
02:21:12.000
Why would you release a phone call of your abuser to the press?
02:21:34.000
Anything I say, you're just going to get mad at, and you're just going to hang up on me.
02:21:56.000
If you said that one more time, I'm going to fucking choke the shit out of you when I see you.
02:22:06.000
Now, here's the thing that I think is very important.
02:22:09.000
That's the part that they highlighted when him said, I'm going to choke the shit out of you.
02:22:12.000
But you're not going to tell someone that on a phone call had it not been accepted behavior prior.
02:22:21.000
Like, that's a very awkward thing to say to someone that you're not already intimately involved with.
02:22:25.000
And I want you guys to kind of listen to reactions to this.
02:22:29.000
Because she doesn't really properly oppose it either.
02:22:40.000
Yeah, rewind that a little bit just so we can hear her full reaction to it.
02:22:54.000
If you said that one more time, I'm going to fucking choke the shit out of you when I see you.
02:23:06.000
She said that she ran her friends laughing in silence.
02:23:39.000
Let's get the call that he released because he released the call.
02:23:46.000
Because obviously, listening to that without context or knowing their relationship might come off as weird, right?
02:23:52.000
But I do think that he released a call as well, if we can pull it up.
02:24:03.000
She would have reacted to that and been like, why would you say that?
02:24:15.000
Because I don't even, if you did something to me, I don't even want to talk to you.
02:24:28.000
The other thing, too, is that you only call them at the direction of the police.
02:24:34.000
So I think that's also important to understand, too.
02:24:39.000
His family even came to my house and put their hands on my son.
02:24:42.000
And I had to send my son away because that was like a threat to me.
02:24:44.000
And then that's when I started getting death threats.
02:24:47.000
Like, they're letting me know that they know where I live.
02:25:01.000
Did anyone else have anything as far as their take on this?
02:25:04.000
I don't think everyone got a chance to speak or give their opinion on this.
02:25:15.000
So I thought he was married and like got he has a very weird gait when he walks, but that's from injuries.
02:25:44.000
I think he's just not an attractive man anyways to be like, he has money.
02:26:35.000
I was 23 when I watched you guys in the old studio and I was amazed.
02:26:39.000
I wanted to thank you guys for your advice that made me money and a better man.
02:26:43.000
I finally have 10K in crypto and still going up.
02:26:45.000
I really, really appreciate Myron Refresh to make me work harder and better and alcoholic from Chris.
02:27:16.000
Enjoy it being used for sex only by younger men while your ex enjoys his new younger women.
02:27:28.000
I'm actually the opposite of that, but whatever.
02:27:34.000
She does have like a little stand-up-ish attitude, but it's what it is.
02:27:37.000
Oh, it was only with you because, you know, you were coming at me.
02:28:01.000
And if you're lucky, maybe you can get married.
02:28:06.000
I mean, hey, listen, like, and you girls right now are married.
02:28:10.000
So you should probably listen to what he's trying to say.
02:28:19.000
You know, so if we married, you know, at least, you know, listen to what he's saying.
02:28:26.000
I agree with him in like 90% of what he's saying.
02:28:40.000
Yeah, I mean, there are things that I don't think he's understanding because he's not a father.
02:28:46.000
I understand, like, as a man of the householder, right?
02:28:48.000
It's your job to sit in the house and watch kids.
02:28:52.000
Like, you choose to work because you wanted, you know, other things like shoes and fancy shit, all right?
02:28:58.000
But his choice, like, once again, he's actually had to work, you know, for a reason.
02:29:02.000
Well, we, I understand that, and that's totally understandable.
02:29:06.000
It's your choice to stay with him for from a male's perspective.
02:29:15.000
I didn't think it was going to get to that point.
02:29:18.000
I didn't think it was going to escalate that much.
02:29:30.000
So what if he left her, though, and she didn't work?
02:29:34.000
That's why she probably, that's why I'm assuming you did work.
02:29:38.000
Like if he left her then it's like she's left with nothing and she has to take care of the kid.
02:29:41.000
I think that's another reason why women do work.
02:29:43.000
Don't give a guy a kid that does not does have rest flex.
02:29:48.000
I wouldn't date a three or four like for like for the me her was dating right and she was the only fence.
02:30:10.000
But what if she tells you and what if she wants you to do with her?
02:30:15.000
Like, you know, like, I know she's not loyal, right?
02:30:27.000
Like, red flags to know that, hey, listen, if your man don't want to give you money for a pair of shoes, then why would the fuck you give a fucking child?
02:30:40.000
No, sometimes you're going to be able to do that.
02:30:50.000
Because right now, tonight is not the night for me to roast you, okay?
02:30:53.000
Because if not, then say, well, Chris, why don't you beat me, sir?
02:31:00.000
I was just saying, like, if he were to leave you and you didn't work, you would have nothing to support your child.
02:31:06.000
That's why I'm assuming you women do work sometimes because, like, if you're left with nothing with your child, like, what are you supposed to do?
02:31:12.000
Yeah, I mean, so there are stay-at-home wives, stay-at-home moms, and the men do provide absolutely everything.
02:31:30.000
When she was three years old, she was like, I'm staying with this nigga for 17 fucking years.
02:31:48.000
I thought I was looking at the potential, you know, between tridotherapy.
02:31:55.000
She's out for a coffee break and comes home with something like semen on her breath.
02:32:02.000
She said her male was like being abusive before the baby, right?
02:32:23.000
I'm going to do everything possible to fix the problem and see if we can get better.
02:32:31.000
But morals, like, it's like this guy is verbally abusing you.
02:32:49.000
People tend to change once you get married and you live together.
02:32:52.000
Before you had a child, he had red flags, right?
02:32:55.000
I was already married and I was already living with her.
02:32:57.000
All right, so divorce him before you put your child through.
02:33:25.000
What I've noticed is that men really don't change that much.
02:33:31.000
I don't know, but that's because I've kind of realized that women, they get married to a guy hoping that he'll change, and then men get married to a woman hoping they'll never change.
02:33:42.000
So I don't know, but I mean, 17 years, I don't know.
02:34:29.000
that's why she's single You're like, just say it to her.
02:35:51.000
Curious George was cute, so I'll take the compliment.
02:36:21.000
I mean, Martin, I got something for you that will trigger these brainless boss baits.
02:36:36.000
She thinks she's better off as he's sitting at home with his new girlfriend and their daughter as she's sitting here on a podcast single at 1 a.m.
02:36:44.000
Oh, they're spinning up because he has a girlfriend.
02:36:50.000
Okay, so they're trying to say that he's winning and you're losing.
02:36:57.000
They're talking about let's get it straight along with the grandparents.
02:37:00.000
I have yet to meet her, but that's not my doing.
02:37:13.000
If I didn't have a kid, and she lives with her part-time, you know, we split custody.
02:37:24.000
Did you go to the court to get that one or like, yeah, so I'm not legally divorced yet?
02:37:30.000
So but I will say this to that person that made me.
02:37:51.000
Do you get five years of alimony or does are we talking about strictly what and though you got to tell us no no I'm not going to give you numbers, but I get five years of alimony and child support, but the numbers are different.
02:38:04.000
So while I'm getting alimony, the child support is less.
02:38:06.000
And then once the alimony is done, the child support is more.
02:38:15.000
Didn't it used to be lifetime if you were 10 years?
02:38:43.000
So that means he made like probably significantly more than you did then if you're getting out of here.
02:38:48.000
You know, they just passed that new law where you've been together for five years.
02:38:54.000
You technically married now and you can like sue like sue them.
02:39:02.000
So is he like being pretty compliant with the divorce proceedings?
02:39:05.000
Is he agreeing to the things or is he being combative?
02:39:10.000
He wanted to leave me with nothing and he wanted to take my child 100% of the time, which you know.
02:39:22.000
He would have to prove that I was an unfit mother and I was very fit to be a mother.
02:39:29.000
Yeah, we have to be like a drug addict that lives in the street.
02:39:38.000
Does that tell you something about the type of person that he wants?
02:39:47.000
If a man tries to take your kid from you and you're a good mother, that says a lot about you.
02:40:26.000
Because I knew that I needed time to talk to you.
02:40:33.000
Were you being fairly difficult to him towards the end of your relationship though?
02:40:35.000
No, we were living two completely different lives.
02:40:42.000
Oh yeah, yeah, so you guys, so things were on the, yeah.
02:40:44.000
And in the last couple of months, it was not that good.
02:40:48.000
If you were sleeping in a different room, we were separated.
02:40:53.000
So why were you surprised that he had a girl then?
02:40:57.000
The point that I'm making is that if you leave a relation, a marriage of 10 years, a relationship of 17 years, and you can jump into another relationship right away, that kind of speaks on the person's character.
02:41:09.000
I did not do that because I needed to process what was happening.
02:41:28.000
Like, I went to High Lee High for five years in high school.
02:41:52.000
Okay, tell those bitches to shut the fuck up while you...
02:42:07.000
I don't know what he's talking about, but probably believe you are her.
02:42:23.000
Ladies, you want to talk like men, walk like men, work like men, but when a man talks back to you like a man, you claim verbal slash emotional abuse.
02:43:04.000
What would you do if you were dating a girl and down the line found out she's a trick?
02:43:13.000
Every time I'm like this, I'll just have to be like that.
02:43:17.000
Like, you know, I will say that, you know, there's surgeries now that are fucking crazy.
02:43:24.000
But you would know if you try to smash, I guess.
02:43:39.000
And then after the third date, it's like, yeah, I have a dick nigga.
02:43:52.000
Yeah, they like cut it and then they like make chromosomes.
02:43:57.000
I mean, guys, like, like, like, have to see, like, nowadays, all right, you know what?
02:44:03.000
There's someone out there that looks just like a girl, you wouldn't know that that was a man before.
02:44:12.000
Well, unfortunately, man, like, I've started tests that, you know, I should put up.
02:44:22.000
Like, the first thing I'll ask, you know, like period test, whatever.
02:44:25.000
And, like, no, you can tell, like, the hands, it has all veiny shit.
02:44:52.000
And then, like, no, nigga, see my pussy, nigga.
02:45:01.000
Like, what if they're like fake, but they look real and you can't tell?
02:45:06.000
But then, I'm pretty sure she's a girl because she would lose the volleyball to a man, so it's fine.
02:45:13.000
That's why she's not this girl actually hurt you.
02:45:18.000
They play all the sports on the side or something.
02:45:25.000
If you arm wrestle and I win, the fact that they're two women are athletes actually proves that they're women.
02:45:32.000
I arm wrestled a bodybuilder, and I was drinking, and I beat her.
02:45:38.000
One hand, I was like, she's like, ah, bodybuilder.
02:45:50.000
Let me give you a scenario because I think instead of me like just saying why, let's go through an analogy.
02:46:06.000
So let's say you were with your dream guy, right?
02:46:10.000
Six foot five, over six figures a year, good looking, maybe an athlete as well.
02:46:20.000
You strike me as a girl that dates black guys, right?
02:46:38.000
Maybe a light-skinned black dude that's half white, half black, whatever.
02:46:42.000
So now, let's assume he's, you know, gonna play for the NBA or he's playing for the NBA, your dream guy, right?
02:46:49.000
Now, one day you go to a fortune teller, right?
02:46:54.000
And she tells you, hey, look, in my crystal ball, in 10 years, he's gonna be broke, lose his NBA contract, be abusive, and be fat.
02:47:10.000
So in other words, he would basically become a drug addict and alcoholic and just be a loser.
02:47:15.000
Knowing this is in the future, would you stay with him?
02:47:22.000
Would it be fair to say because you know that the future is a problem?
02:47:28.000
That's exactly how men feel about women with high body counts.
02:47:40.000
So just like you wouldn't want to take that risk and be with that guy knowing that he's going to be a loser, we don't want to be with a girl that was a loser.
02:47:48.000
Because a girl with a high body count would be considered a loser for us.
02:47:56.000
I have to give you that feeling like, oh, no, I wouldn't bet on that guy.
02:47:59.000
That's how we feel about girls with a high body count.
02:48:03.000
Do you think a high-value male, oh, God, I hate that fucking word, is entitled to cheat on their women?
02:48:10.000
What if that woman was around before the money and fame?
02:48:21.000
All right, so let me tell you something, ladies.
02:48:23.000
Men are surprisingly loyal, despite the fact that women think that they're not.
02:48:27.000
And what I mean by loyal is, he'll fuck the other bitches, but he'll take the bullet for you.
02:48:31.000
So I think, well, not even I think, I know this because anytime I've seen a girl like be with a guy from the beginning, let's look at some guys.
02:48:38.000
Fat Joe, still with his high school sweetheart.
02:48:41.000
Connor McGregor, still with the girl that was with him when he was broke.
02:48:45.000
Despite all the fucking bullshit of him fucking all these other bitches in the scandals, she stuck by him.
02:49:05.000
I'm not going to say a higher status guy is entitled to cheat on girls.
02:49:09.000
Me personally, I think yes, but that's an opinion.
02:49:15.000
But what I will say is, I do think he should be honest about it, though.
02:49:20.000
I think if he's going to slide out and have other women, I think they should be honest about it.
02:49:23.000
I don't think it's fair to the girl to sell her a dream and then be polygamous.
02:49:28.000
And then if the girl is around before the fame and money, more than likely you're going to be the number one girl.
02:49:37.000
So, like, a side chick isn't the same as a main chick.
02:50:08.000
Would it be fair to say that if you had more money, would you buy more bags?
02:50:17.000
You'd have one bag that's a go-to, though, like for any outfit that matches.
02:50:43.000
And the reason why I said that is what I've realized with women is I have to kind of give you guys the feeling for you guys to really know what I'm saying.
02:50:49.000
Because if I just say, yeah, men want variety, you'll be like, that's not good enough.
02:50:53.000
So I need to get you guys to feel it because women need to feel things to understand.
02:51:08.000
Yeah, so to answer your question, like, you have 20 bags right now.
02:51:12.000
And it'd be fair to say that if you made more money, you'd probably buy even more bags.
02:51:24.000
Like, let's say you were making $100,000 a month.
02:51:26.000
Obviously, you'd probably buy more bags and better bags, right?
02:51:38.000
The concept here is that the more money you make, the more bags you would have, right?
02:51:52.000
So you have the variety, but you always have your go-to.
02:51:55.000
Just like how women want variety in the way that they dress, with their bags, etc., this is how men feel about women.
02:52:03.000
Your ability and your earning capacity typically exacerbates your need for a variety.
02:52:15.000
Basically, your income allows you to have more ability to have variety.
02:52:22.000
That's why guys that have money trick off so much because they can.
02:52:31.000
Being honest with you guys, in most cases, it's better for women to be quiet, especially when a guy's with his guy friends.
02:52:38.000
I think, actually, if I'm going to be very honest, the louder and more obnoxious a female is, especially when she's around her guy, the more I know he's a bitch.
02:52:50.000
Like, a woman is a direct representation of her man.
02:52:52.000
So if a girl's nice and quiet and doesn't say much when she's around the guys, unless and she doesn't speak unless she's spoken to, I know that guy's doing things right.
02:52:59.000
But if she's loud and obnoxious or she talks too much, I'm like, bro, what the fuck?
02:53:04.000
Like, that's a direct representation on the man.
02:53:07.000
Do you know how to build a house you want a woman to clean?
02:53:21.000
Okay, so I'm trying to make sure I have the question.
02:53:28.000
Okay, how do you know how to build a house for a woman to clean?
02:53:33.000
One of the benefits of being a guy is you can, if you make enough money, you can afford that to somebody else.
02:53:41.000
I'm not a carpenter, so no, I don't know how to build a house.
02:53:49.000
She's trying to make it where a man building a house is analogous to a woman cleaning the house.
02:53:55.000
But the reality is, my duty isn't to necessarily build the house.
02:53:59.000
My ability is to, my duty is to get the house, to provide it so that you can clean it.
02:54:10.000
Myron, there's actually a common quote they say.
02:54:26.000
When a man says he's emotionally unavailable, what does he actually mean by that?
02:54:32.000
He knows that you want to get with him, like, long term.
02:54:39.000
Maybe one day, but, like, he's trying to string you along.
02:54:44.000
Like, like, he wants to fuck you, but not hurt your feelings because he knows if he tells you the truth that you will leave him.
02:54:51.000
Oh, like, I'm telling her that, hey, listen, I don't want to get with you.
02:54:58.000
So, like, we sell a dream to let's say, fuck you.
02:55:03.000
If he tells you I'm emotionally unavailable, like, that's him even admitting that is crazy.
02:55:08.000
Yeah, because the whole time you're pressing him, the whole time, like, girl, relax.
02:55:11.000
Like, right now, I'm not ready for a relationship, but I still like you.
02:55:15.000
In a world where everybody wants to be independent, who's left to build a real partnership?
02:55:19.000
Can I ask who asked this one just so I can properly address it?
02:55:21.000
um what a smiley face on it You want to say something or are you waiting for me?
02:55:31.000
so I disagree with the premise that everybody wants to be independent.
02:55:35.000
The only people I see walking around saying I'm independent are women.
02:55:39.000
Well, if the man is the provider, he's independent as well.
02:55:42.000
Yeah, but see, here's the difference: we don't, we don't so I find it interesting, right?
02:55:47.000
So, like, when men make money, right, we don't run around and say we're independent.
02:55:52.000
We make the money so someone can be dependent on us.
02:55:55.000
But when women make money, you guys love to say that you're independent.
02:56:04.000
When women say I'm strong and independent, ask yourself, independent of who?
02:56:14.000
I want to be somebody boss, but I want to depend on my man.
02:56:19.000
But like, I do want to depend on the boss, but not really.
02:56:31.000
Because you're saying in a world where everybody wants to be independent, I don't agree with this premise because it's women that want to be independent.
02:56:40.000
In a world where women want to be independent, who's left to build a real partnership?
02:56:44.000
Well, by virtue of being independent, there's no partnership.
02:56:48.000
So I'm actually agreeing with the point that I do want the partnership, you know what I mean?
02:56:52.000
So the woman can be in her feminine energy and, you know, be doing what she's supposed to do and stuff and not feel bad.
02:57:02.000
I'm going against the point that all women need to be independent.
02:57:06.000
Not that they need to be submissive or dependent, but I'm saying that it is nice to have a man that can allow you to be submissive.
02:57:16.000
Yeah, she wants the best of both worlds, Then tell me if I'm correct, I think I'm going to be.
02:57:23.000
You want a man that can make enough money to take care of both of you.
02:57:27.000
So if you decide to quit your job, you could do it without a problem.
02:57:30.000
And basically, you want to be in a position where you work what I call electively.
02:57:35.000
And that's what you would call a partnership, right?
02:57:39.000
Me also giving him what a wife needs to give a guy.
02:57:51.000
So the top three things you will give a guy to be a wife.
02:58:02.000
Like in the home, he's going to want to be home after work and like relax with me.
02:58:12.000
I'm definitely going to keep him satisfied with all his fantasy that he wants to try out and stuff.
02:58:44.000
We have this calculator here, ladies, that is probably the most accurate assessment of men in the United States.
02:58:51.000
We're going to go ahead and put your guy in, okay?
02:58:53.000
So what is the minimum age, the maximum age that you would want your dream guy to be?
02:59:24.000
Like, yeah, like, so he needs to be fine, you know what I mean?
03:00:05.000
Wait, so wait, $5,000 a month is what a holiday.
03:00:13.000
No, no, no, but it's like to like your dream man.
03:01:11.000
Yeah, she doesn't know it's bad, but if she loves me, that's what I'm saying.
03:01:32.000
And just so you know, this comes from the U.S. Census National Health and Nutrition Examination Survey.
03:01:53.000
So you scored a perfect five out of five CapEx.
03:02:05.000
We don't even know if he's going to be mean ugly.
03:03:41.000
They gotta have a college degree in the rocket.
03:04:18.000
Yeah, because she was okay with married men and 6'5.
03:04:22.000
You want a bachelor's degree and you want to be over 6'1, making $100,000 per year.
03:04:29.000
But yeah, that's literally less than 1% of the male population.
03:04:35.000
This doesn't assume that he's not a weirdo or awkward or whatever it may be.
03:05:09.000
What if he says, I need you to go find me women?
03:05:24.000
Because we actually know the numbers and how rare these men are, and you guys, like, sit here and fantasize or say, I want this guy.
03:05:29.000
Yeah, I mean, like, we don't force you guys to say what you got to say.
03:05:35.000
And, like, the scene your actions, like, you're all single, minus her.
03:05:38.000
And, you know, well, she's not married, but it's like, it's one of those things where it's like, you're all single.
03:05:45.000
Almost there, but, like, well, six years hasn't got down on her knee.
03:05:48.000
That should also raise some suspicion on her end.
03:06:04.000
Six years, he should have already been proposed to you.
03:06:08.000
See, the fact that she's even just making that face tells me son's off.
03:06:22.000
Well, like, I think there's, if you guys have been together for six years and you guys are high school sweethearts or whatever, I do think that is a viable concern that he hasn't proposed to you yet.
03:06:36.000
Now, I know women don't like hearing this because you guys think you're fine just the way you come.
03:06:41.000
But I find it interesting how men are supposed to self-improve and provide, but women is like, just take me as I am.
03:06:48.000
I mean, like, did you ask him why I'm not married yet?
03:07:06.000
So have you and him like had a talk like play family?
03:07:10.000
All right, so then you want to marry him, right?
03:07:13.000
Okay, so then you're what so what have you done in order to make those steps for him to actually bend bend in one knee?
03:07:23.000
Yeah, like so if he's like, hey, baby, you know what?
03:07:32.000
My password's my if he asks for it, I give it to him.
03:07:37.000
Well, if I just, I could just give it to him, but he hasn't asked.
03:07:42.000
Like, give it to him, like, like, just put it out there for him.
03:07:46.000
And once again, like, he has to, like, why does he want to marry you?
03:08:10.000
Okay, so then if you and him want to leave break up.
03:08:15.000
If you and him want to break up tonight, it would be cool.
03:08:27.000
Well, for one, you should give him your phone and let Him have full access to your phone.
03:08:33.000
Yeah, but you should be doing this without me even having to tell you.
03:08:35.000
You need to give him a complete access to your phone.
03:08:42.000
What do you need every fucking hour asking him what he needs?
03:08:46.000
You basically need to be like, see, the fact that she's so uncomfortable as I tell her this shit tells me the problem with modern women.
03:08:52.000
No, no, no, no, because you're very uncomfortable as I tell you this, which is fine.
03:09:04.000
Women want to get married, but they don't want to be wives, right?
03:09:06.000
And, you know, it's very rare that someone tells them what it is, but you should literally, especially the fact that you don't work and he supports you 100%, you should literally be at his beck and fucking call.
03:09:16.000
Every hour, you should be asking him what he needs.
03:09:23.000
It should be if you find out that he has a certain food that he likes, you're ordering it as soon as he's coming back from the gym.
03:09:30.000
And I see a lot of you guys are over here, like, and this is precisely why men don't want to marry women anymore.
03:09:37.000
You guys just want to be able to get everything that you want.
03:09:42.000
This is why I tell guys not to get married anymore because modern women don't want to do what they're supposed to do.
03:09:54.000
They literally wait on their man hand and fucking foot.
03:09:57.000
Wait, so I know why she's not married with a guy because she watches the show, right?
03:10:04.000
So at the end of the day, she doesn't want to actually share her man with another girl.
03:10:12.000
If you were to share your man with some other girl, he would marry you.
03:10:21.000
Hey, listen, if you man with threesome, I'm just guaranteeing you like, you know what?
03:10:30.000
Because then it's like, oh, this student girls.
03:10:39.000
turn a black eye go to the malls Let's just keep it simple.
03:10:54.000
But the thing is, is that girls, because women don't want to feel like they're beneath their man, or they don't want to feel like, oh, I'm just being a slave.
03:11:02.000
But I think a girl that really wants to be, like, get married and be taken, like, literally be the priority, you basically have to become like your man's right-hand assistant.
03:11:11.000
Like, you got, you got to be, like, any weakling, any weak points in his life, like, you come in and you fix those problems.
03:11:19.000
Like, a good girlfriend really is like a good parent.
03:11:22.000
She kind of comes in and just like, whatever he doesn't have, like, for example, let's say, let's assume you know that he can't go to work without having a coffee.
03:11:29.000
When he wakes up, there's a coffee right there on the fucking kitchen table.
03:11:36.000
Let's assume that he likes Chipotle every day for lunch.
03:11:43.000
Like, a good girlfriend is actually like a good problem solver.
03:11:50.000
So he says, oh, damn, I need to promote this chick.
03:11:56.000
You need to become basically at a point where he can't operate at 100%.
03:12:00.000
Well, he could operate 100% by himself, but you help him operate at 105.
03:12:07.000
But the problem with most girls is like they don't contribute, they just take.
03:12:12.000
That's the problem with most women, if I'm going to be honest with y'all.
03:12:14.000
A lot of you guys are a liability and you guys don't add the same amount of value back.
03:12:17.000
And I would say like as a girl, if you don't work, bro, you need to be up under your fucking guy's armpit all the time asking him what he needs.
03:12:25.000
I don't mean literally in his armpit, but like you should be constantly asking him, what do you need?
03:12:32.000
You already know what he needs and you're doing it.
03:12:45.000
Because when I literally said you need to be a slave while you looked at me like, no, slave is a strong word.
03:12:54.000
Honestly, you guys ask me, I'm telling y'all what it is.
03:13:01.000
I'm not going to sit here and have to tell a bitch what to do.
03:13:08.000
Men that have money, men that have status, you need to fucking be at his beck and call.
03:13:16.000
I'm telling you guys how men that have money think.
03:13:17.000
You can either go ahead and listen to what I got to say or listen to your dumbass friends that sit there and say, no, girl, yeah, you got to take that and fucking keep dating fucking black guys that make 30K a year.
03:13:29.000
I'm just the only one being honest with y'all about what men that have money want.
03:13:34.000
We don't want to fucking sit here and negotiate with you.
03:13:36.000
We don't want to sit here and have a conversation with you or get your opinion.
03:13:56.000
Now, no one has the boss to tell women this shit anymore.
03:14:00.000
This is why most guys just don't tell the truth.
03:14:02.000
Because if we told y'all what we really want, you guys, I'm not a slave.
03:14:13.000
Like, this is how you guys need to behave if you guys really want a guy to take you seriously.
03:14:25.000
You know why my parents are still together to this fucking day?
03:14:30.000
My dad didn't figure out how to iron clothes until he was in his fucking 30s.
03:14:41.000
He grills some steak every now and then a chicken.
03:14:43.000
And I'm probably embarrassing right now by saying this.
03:14:45.000
But the reason why he doesn't know any of this shit is because my mom did what she was supposed to fucking do.
03:14:52.000
My mom used to get anxiety if my dad didn't have lunch ready to go before he went to work.
03:14:57.000
My mom would feel guilty if he Bought food from outside.
03:15:01.000
If there wasn't dinner on the fucking table when he showed up, she would be freaking out, right?
03:15:07.000
There's been times where my mom was sick, bedridden.
03:15:09.000
She still found a way to get up and go cook food and prepare for him.
03:15:13.000
And by the way, she had a job too for all you bitches that want to sit there and say, I did work too.
03:15:21.000
The problem is that women don't give a fuck about taking care of their guy and they don't care about retaining their guy.
03:15:29.000
They want to be able to say, I'm strong and independent, blah, blah, blah.
03:15:31.000
But I'm telling y'all, my dad, to this day, that nigga still can't cook.
03:15:48.000
And he had to learn this shit when my mom went away for a week to go visit her family in Sudan because her sister was sick.
03:15:55.000
So I don't say that to brag, but what I am saying is that that's how it should be.
03:16:02.000
Like, that's how you should be on your fucking guy.
03:16:05.000
And my mom worked a job too on the side to help him.
03:16:08.000
So I don't want to hear no fucking excuses, bro.
03:16:10.000
It's just that what she was supposed to do, man.
03:16:19.000
Anyway, married for like, what, like, since 85 or some shit?
03:16:33.000
Like, my mom would literally get anxiety from a lot.
03:16:35.000
She would get anxiety if he went to work without his lunchbox, she would have fucking anxiety, bro.
03:16:46.000
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03:17:37.000
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03:17:51.000
I'm just saying that, like, women are come from a different cloth there.
03:18:01.000
He just, yeah, he was driving a taxi and shit like that.
03:18:03.000
Like, he didn't start making money until I was already had a career and shit.
03:18:08.000
So, you know, I find it interesting how a guy from Mexico can come here with a woman, right?
03:18:17.000
And he works a job and she's still submissive and dutiful to him.
03:18:23.000
So I don't think it's like a money problem as much as it is.
03:18:38.000
Everything that you just mentioned, I did, and I was mistreated.
03:18:43.000
I mean, that's like, but I tell you this, my mom would have talked back to my dad if he said, wash the baby.
03:18:54.000
Like, all right, so, like, on your end, I understand.
03:18:57.000
Hey, listen, like, I mean, my mom wouldn't even, like, she would, like, if, if, hypothetically, let's say me, I was the one that needed a bath, right?
03:19:12.000
She wouldn't even bring that problem to my father.
03:19:27.000
Me saying I want my dad to give me a bath is incredible.
03:20:08.000
All right, let's get last thoughts of what it is.
03:20:17.000
Well, I told Chris when you walked away, I agree with like 90% of what you're saying.
03:20:26.000
I do think that there is an epidemic in the world right now, especially here in the States, especially in Miami.
03:20:37.000
Let me ask you this question since you're political and you're not a feminist.
03:20:40.000
Do you think women should have the right to vote?
03:20:49.000
You subscribe to feminist ideology if you think women should vote.
03:20:54.000
Well, feminists, but that has nothing to do with feminism.
03:20:58.000
Well, feminism is equality between the two genders.
03:21:02.000
We're not going to get into that because that's a whole other topic.
03:21:10.000
I think we should repeal the 19th Amendment personally.
03:21:12.000
But that's because I don't think men and women are equal at all.
03:21:16.000
If you really believe in traditionalism, you would have that worldview.
03:21:35.000
I said everything I need to say, but I can understand both sides.
03:21:44.000
Not too much, but yeah, that's all I have to say.
03:21:51.000
She's like, no, I said I've said everything I need to say, and I just heard everything that you said, and I understand it.
03:22:03.000
Probably give her like three months, like, for it, like, to say, fuck you, niggas.
03:22:08.000
Well, I'm hoping the bag analogy I gave her makes can she continue to do that.
03:22:14.000
So now, if a guy has sex with another girl, are you going to be mad?
03:22:24.000
Well, I would just like to say shout out to detox.
03:22:42.000
You're going to be educated, more educated than literally 99% of the population.
03:22:48.000
Obviously, that's going to make dating and finding a male counterpart significantly harder.
03:22:54.000
Or at this point, it's like, whatever, I'm just going to do my career.
03:23:07.000
Are there any like, I mean, because obviously these guys are probably not going to be educated to the same level.
03:23:17.000
Has it made, has your education level and your background made it more difficult to find a viable candidate?
03:23:25.000
I mean, like, she has a nice body, more or less.
03:23:56.000
I'm sure plenty of men approach you and talk to you.
03:23:58.000
What I'm saying is that most men don't qualify for you is my point.
03:24:21.000
Did you have an ex that was like a criminal or did some fuck shit before?
03:24:29.000
I remember there was a girl that said the same exact thing.
03:24:35.000
And I, and she's, I think it was something along the lines of like, she got with a guy that, you know, she was doing pretty well financially and had a good career, but they didn't have nothing to lose and it put her in a weird spot.
03:24:46.000
So she said, from this point forward, I need to date a guy that has something to lose.
03:24:49.000
Yeah, because you got to know for real, especially with me, because even with this part.
03:25:37.000
What are your final thoughts while we pull that up?
03:25:46.000
And I'm down to be submissive for the right man.
03:25:49.000
But until then, you can subscribe to the $75,000.
03:25:54.000
$275,000 is what you guys got to for her to be submissive.
03:26:11.000
So, like, will you be like the third or fourth girl in his am I allowed to be in it?
03:27:16.000
Because most black women don't date outside their race.
03:27:20.000
Whenever black girls say, oh, I'll date a white guy, it's cat most of the time.
03:27:25.000
Most black women overwhelmingly prefer to date within their race.
03:27:28.000
Okay, education for you, bare minimum education.
03:27:32.000
It depends because you don't have to have a degree.
03:28:30.000
The obese butter that's over one is a bad though.
03:28:39.000
Okay, knowing that even with these standards, their bare minimums, it's this rare, would you lower your standards?
03:29:37.000
Thank you guys for enlightening me into the way men think.
03:29:48.000
The only difference is, like, typically the more money they make, the more they can be honest.
03:30:05.000
Time to date around, to like fuck around, to actually have a guy on your string.
03:30:10.000
Oh, you're saying she needs to pursue a serious relationship right now?
03:30:15.000
Yeah, but you brought up with him because you said, hey, because I needed to find myself.
03:30:20.000
Yeah, so you think you had more time to fuck around.
03:30:24.000
Yeah, but you're 22, so there should be a time for you to lock down on a guy.
03:30:30.000
I think girls should be married when they're...
03:30:35.000
I think girls should be married before they're 25.
03:30:47.000
Yeah, like our biological time clock is, I would say, on the inverse.
03:30:56.000
When we're young, when we're 18, we're useless.
03:31:06.000
Like, I have to be a billionaire team to get invited.
03:31:09.000
Yeah, well, like, I can't even walk in the same circles.
03:31:16.000
And then guys will still have the girls with him taking photos.
03:31:21.000
So I think I always laugh when girls say, well, you're not married either.
03:31:40.000
You know, I've done a couple of podcasts talking about the myth of rape culture.
03:31:46.000
And I've been very critical on women that do false accusations and stuff like that.
03:31:50.000
And to actually have a rape survivor here, I commend you.
03:31:53.000
And I really appreciate you telling me that story because I do think it's important for people to hear from a real victim versus all the bullshit that's going on.
03:32:00.000
And I really do hope that this Me Too era kind of ends because it takes away credence from real victims here like yourself.
03:32:16.000
See, I'll never beat it to the end of the show whenever I'm here.
03:32:38.000
For me, what I learned today from the show was, excuse me.
03:32:50.000
I learned, I had a specific something I wanted to talk about.
03:32:55.000
I think for me, like just not being married, whatever, it's just not a lot of quality people here.
03:33:01.000
I've been engaged twice, married once, and I get the submissive thing.
03:33:06.000
And the right man that's a leader, you know, will submit.
03:33:10.000
But I feel like a lot of men in this generation, your viewpoint is not realistic for people.
03:33:17.000
I like the analogy that you have made about a guy can come from Mexico and his woman will follow him.
03:33:21.000
Yeah, but like, we're talking about dating guys in the United States.
03:33:25.000
They don't have the same, like, come from the same background.
03:33:30.000
I mean, this is a nighttime show, so you guys don't see when I do my daytime show and I talk to men.
03:33:34.000
Yes, I agree that a lot of guys don't have a provider mindset.
03:33:36.000
A lot of men want an egalitarian relationship where they're both going 50-50 on bills.
03:33:41.000
You know, I don't think you could demand a girl to, you know, wait on you hand to foot and not be a provider.
03:33:50.000
Even her, like, I didn't really cook her, like, really, because I'm like, damn, like, you still have to work.
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Like, a lot of girls would kill to have a guy that could take them on vacations.
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So I think you have, I don't think you understand how to position her.
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Canada, for those that don't know, is a socialist communist country.
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And liberal men don't believe in traditional values, aka being a provider and a protector.
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They think that, you know, it should be more equal, 50-50.
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So the fact that you find a guy that's a provider in Canada is even rarer.
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And from Toronto, which is one of the most liberal cities in America.
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But North America, Toronto is one of the most liberal cities, one of the most woke cities.
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So, no, well, I'll tell you, I learned something from you, and I appreciate you telling us your story.
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I found it very interesting how for real victims, the financial aspect is like completely almost like oblivious.
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I had a theory about people getting big money for it.
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What if it's like maybe people are having like legal issues in the back, and then they like spot like these issues, these like say, hey, this happened to me or something?
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And then they're getting the money from them on the back end.
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So that way it's not in their accounts or, you know, maybe offshore or something.
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I just have a theory about that because it's happening too often.
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And then some people aren't necessarily doing as well as we do.
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Did you go to like therapy after and like talk with other victims?
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And you don't have to answer if you don't want to.
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Would it be fair to say that if a woman comes forward and she's looking for monetary compensation and didn't go to the police, there's like a 90% chance that it's a lie?
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Yeah, because I feel like in that situation, something was taken from me.
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Like he stuck four or five fingers in my ass during the middle of beating my ass.
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So when I was looking for something to beat, knock this nigga out, he took it as an opportunity to pull my pants down and bam his fingers.
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So my son was one at the time and I was freaking out shaking trying to, because I'm like, bro, if somebody did this to my son, I would fucking kill them.
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So for me, I feel like, yeah, if you, if you don't go and pursue it, then, and then what you want money, like, what the fuck?
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I don't even like when niggas be talking about, I'm going to eat your ass.
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Don't, don't, don't, that's not a good time for me, okay?
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Um, I just feel like, no, that's, that's cap because you're not, like, but shit happens to people that sometimes it can damage you.
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And then it affects the way I deal with men too.
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It's still, um, I can't, like, I, like, like, you know, the sometimes it might feel like, you know, uncomfortable.
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Feeling like something was taken from you, monetary compensation can't get that bad.
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You're more you're gonna you're gonna pursue getting justice over getting monetary compensation.
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I could be fucking poor as long as I know that I, this person got held accountable for what they actually did to me.
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That's what makes me sleep good at night because I was getting threats through the process.
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It wasn't like he got locked up and his child was like fucking and it was like over.
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I didn't go to court because I didn't want to be, I didn't want it on the news.
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They basically told me I can come if I wanted to.
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If not, they told me they were going to move me and everything.
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They just wanted to lock him up, you know, whatever.
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You know, I feel like I got the short end of the deal.
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No, I didn't have to just because he snitched on himself.
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They had more than enough evidence at the time.
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Okay, and then obviously the physical evidence, he did a rape kit.
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And then they had the footage at the store of him beating me for 20 minutes.
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And he even tried to pay somebody $100 to beat my ass.
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So they had more than enough physical evidence where they didn't.
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Because here's the thing when it comes to those types of cases, if you could avoid putting someone on the stand, you will.
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So they had obviously an enormous amount of physical evidence.
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And again, thank you so much for sharing your story.
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But like when things, you know, you just can't put a price on that shit.
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That's just, there's some, you got to just cross.
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You got to draw the line in this end somewhere.
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Like, it's like, is it, is it, is it going to make my soul happy to know?
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That's going to always be in the back of my mind.
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Like, this is money from somebody paying me to forget a traumatic experience that not only just traumatized me and traumatized like my family.
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Because no one could help me, you know, being from Virginia.
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You know, I'm pretty sure other people wanted to kill him.
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So it's like I was going to have death threats whether I went to the police or not, basically, because I put it out there.
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And I apologize for any convenience telling that story might have told, but I do think that that is a huge and powerful teaching factor for a lot of people to kind of, and maybe there's a woman here that's watching that is a victim that, you know.
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Are you going to become a slave for your guy or what?
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Just if you get, if you catch them cheating, don't break it up.
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Were you breaking up if it was fucking the smoother girl?
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I just, I didn't want to repeat myself, but so I was just trying to.
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Like, the only girl we hope for is no hope for.
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If you're watching the stream, don't get caught, bro.
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I'll be back tomorrow at five with the debrief.
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We're going to have a good show for you guys playing.
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I'll probably cover politics and shit as usual.
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Marjorie trying to save the 21-year-old while the women are trying to, like, hell to sabotage me.
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Right, try, bro, but women never listen to me, man.