00:17:41.000The hearing is going to be at 1 p.m., but we'll be out there at 11 doing a rally right outside the courthouse, man, right here in downtown Miami.
00:17:46.000So, if you live in the area or you want to come out, Let me know.
00:31:23.000Like, the Golden State killer, they just found him after, like, he's like 81 when they found him.
00:31:27.000So, with this new, like, DNA, genealogy, whatever new technology they have, they're finding, like, a lot of serial killers from, like, 30 years ago.
00:31:35.000Brought Dexter Morgan out there, finally.
00:38:46.000When I hear Americans talk, I want to hear about what state you're from, not, you know, we came off the boat last summer and we've been here for a minute.
00:41:30.000Anytime people say Napa Valley, whatever, I was like, Yeah, when I was a couple and jumped his ass together, that would have been a good one.
00:41:36.000It was operating all around California doing that stuff, but um, yeah, I mean, it's a self-man, but back then, I mean, I don't know, it was like, I don't know, people go in secluded areas by themselves.
00:41:45.000White people, bro, yeah, let me take an L's on that.
00:41:49.000He's a sociology major, yeah, I don't give a fuck about that.
00:41:53.000Like, no, no, but sociology major, what he told was he said that he broke out of prison and he was gonna take their car and go to Mexico.
00:41:59.000Okay, that's what he went up there with the ruse of robbing, but that wasn't.
00:42:04.000What it was about, yeah, but yeah, anyway, yeah, him and Jack the Ripper, the two I would argue probably the most prolific serial killers of all time, yeah.
00:43:44.000I mean, I don't have to answer the question, but I'm curious as to why you guys ask it.
00:43:48.000Because it's one of those things where women don't like to disclose their body counts because they know that a high body count is not purity.
00:43:55.000But if, for example, if someone were to say that they have a body count that they could Output transcript Out on her fingers, for example, you had a comment about that too.
00:44:03.000So, because of her lifestyle, like you know, she's in Miami with her tits out, and then you know, she's out here, you know, having a good time.
00:44:10.000And then we assume that she has a high body count, but if she doesn't have a high body count, then that's cool.
00:44:14.000And she's 19 with you know, the boyfriend, but apparently for four years.
00:44:19.000And then you know, when I was a virgin until 21, I won't lie to you.
00:49:12.000You guys have been together for a couple years now at this point.
00:49:14.000And then he goes off to the gym and you go through, you know, his phone rings and you open it up to see who called him.
00:49:19.000And you see that, you know, he used to do porn 10 years ago and he did, like, a fucking, you know, a gangbang with, like, five girls, right?
00:49:27.000But you've been with this man for a while.
00:49:29.000This is before y'all were together, right?
00:50:32.000Yeah, that's why, you know, because we find it interesting because, like, girls will sit there and be like, oh, You know, body count doesn't matter.
00:50:37.000My past doesn't judge me, but then if you ask them, they won't tell you.
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00:56:11.000I don't think there's anything I'm pro interracial dating, but I've actually found, which was strange to me, I've been with a lot of black men that did not like white women.
00:57:02.000I don't think your ex husband is he, uh, was he Hispanic too or white or black or uh, he was white, white, okay, yeah, um, but I don't know.
00:57:11.000I think that it shouldn't matter like one way or another, okay, uh, and obviously, yeah, I've said you date a white guy, you were married to one for a while.
00:57:19.000How long were y'all married, by the way?
01:07:20.000Yeah, the church is kind of like, yeah, the church is like, you know, I don't believe that you have to go to church to be a good Christian.
01:07:27.000I think reading the Bible is important, but I think you going out and actually applying what's in the faith and being, you know, an actual good Christian, your person, your action, your deeds is more important than anything.
01:08:13.000But do you think they're all connected to each other?
01:08:15.000Like the crime causes the lack of education, the lack of family causes all of that?
01:08:19.000Yeah, if you got a bunch of dumb people having kids and then they're going out and doing dumb shit, I mean, it's going to be a cycle of more retarded shit.
01:08:25.000So, yeah, that's the problem we have today.
01:08:28.000If we don't aggressively call it out, then we're not going to have an existence.
01:08:31.000So, and we're not going to be in this country, honestly.
01:08:33.000I think white people are getting tired.
01:08:35.000Like, you niggas need to get together.
01:09:33.000You can talk that in any profession business, military, police, anything you're doing everyone needs to be on the same standard.
01:09:40.000Either you meet the standard or you exceed the standard.
01:09:42.000If you don't, then, hey, fall the fuck out.
01:09:44.000What's that got to do with being an ER?
01:09:46.000Everything because the ERs kill and steal and poison and drug and do all this shit in our community that harm black people from going forward and advancing.
01:09:55.000So, would you not say, like, you think they actually hate other black people?
01:11:52.000What one meaning like the bottom of the barrel?
01:11:54.000Yeah, five is completely average, six is cute, seven is attractive, eight is very attractive, and then once you get to nine, ten, this is like damn near perfection.
01:12:02.000Yeah, it's like, so what would you rate yourself?
01:12:04.000Five is average, six above average, seven is very attractive, etc.
01:16:09.000And there's a biological reason for it.
01:16:11.000I'm not saying that to be like an asshole, but I think women are naturally narcissistic and sophisticated, which obviously very vain into themselves.
01:16:17.000And sophism is basically the concept where you believe the world revolves around you.
01:16:21.000I think women inherently have this mindset.
01:16:29.000Because since they carry the next generation of human beings, they have to be ferociously selfish.
01:16:36.000And there's this thing called Briffel's Law, which is like women dictate the terms of every single relationship.
01:16:41.000Once the guy has no value, they just have no problem.
01:16:43.000I think that's why girls get off relationships, or sorry, they end relationships more and are more likely to break up and then they get over relationships way faster.
01:17:37.000So, like, if you want me to just go off looks, I'd be happy to do that.
01:17:40.000If you want me to go over a full package, you could go over that.
01:17:42.000But, like, I think with women, we don't.
01:17:44.000Give a shit about your because you guys mentioned some things about smart and educated, whatever.
01:17:48.000Men don't really care too much about that.
01:17:51.000Versus, like, with men, though, like, you know, our status or income, that's very important.
01:17:56.000Like, for example, you'll see ugly dudes with bad chicks, yeah, right, all the time.
01:18:01.000I've seen this because they have money and status, but you're not going to see that the other way around a lot of the time.
01:18:06.000Like, if a dude has money, you know, and status, he's not going to date some chick that's ugly and has money and status, yeah, he could be old as you would prefer the younger, more attractive girl that no one knows because we don't care about status, you guys do, right?
01:21:32.000Yeah, so the reason why I'm using the billionaire excuse, ladies, is because, like, if I walked around and I introduced myself as a billionaire when I'm not, like, people would laugh me out of the room.
01:21:40.000Like, Men, we don't have the privilege of being like delusional.
01:21:44.000Like, you know, walk around saying I'm a thousand out of ten, no offense, or I'm a ten out of ten when you're objectively not, just like clown world.
01:21:52.000And I think, and there's a reason why, like, I'm kind of critical of this is because it sets you guys up for failure.
01:21:57.000Because what ends up happening is you think you're at a certain level, and then when you think you're at that level, you think you deserve men of a certain level, then reality doesn't jive with that, and you're like, what the fuck is going on?
01:22:07.000Because at least with men, one of the good things about being a guy is like, you kind of know where you are.
01:22:22.000I'm going to get made fun of all the time, et cetera.
01:22:24.000Like, my reality reflects being a loser.
01:22:28.000But with women, if you're a loser or you're not that hot, you can still feel like you're hot because of social media and people lying to you to try to get laid.
01:22:37.000Because, like, men lie to women all the time and whisper sweet nothings in their ear.
01:22:41.000And I'd argue social media has exacerbated this problem.
01:22:43.000So women are already naturally narcissistic and self-systematic.
01:22:47.000Then you add in the validation from the internet from thousands of strangers.
01:22:51.000What incentive do you have to improve your behavior?
01:24:03.000And she's smashing all these tens, and at some point, she may be talking to them as you know, women, they smash, they're gonna feel us, let's be together.
01:24:10.000And he may not be nice about letting her down.
01:24:13.000If he's an actual 10, and that's hard, the scale of attraction for men and women is different.
01:24:17.000Because a girl can still be faces busted, big titties, big butt, somebody will still find her attractive.
01:24:21.000A guy is very, like, he has to be tall, good facial, like, you know, symmetry.
01:24:26.000Here's a problem with women that I've realized once women are with a certain caliber of guy, it's very difficult for them to go backwards.
01:24:34.000So, what ends up happening is, and I've seen this so many times, A girl will have dated an NBA player or an athlete or someone who's famous or someone who is very successful, a lawyer, doctor, whatever.
01:24:44.000And then they don't realize that, like, you know, you're able to attain the guy, but you don't have the skill set to retain the guy.
01:24:51.000And they just think, okay, I've dated this caliber of guy before.
01:24:57.000So what ends up happening is they get used to this certain, you know, standard and they just don't want to go backwards because they don't think they deserve better.
01:25:04.000If anything, I would argue is women make more money and get older, they become more delusional because their standards go up.
01:25:11.000So, your standards go up as you, like, your standards and wants go up as your value simultaneously goes down.
01:25:18.000But going back to reality as a female, at least.
01:25:20.000But even, okay, if you're older, you have all this money again, you're still going after these men that you want.
01:25:33.000So, you think most of these threes that are getting smashed and they're getting smashed in the dark, they don't realize it like, hey, he never takes care of you?
01:26:27.000And that's another thing also about women.
01:26:29.000You guys tend to like kind of, you know, exclude what men want and women.
01:26:33.000You guys think what I want matters, but it's like, okay.
01:26:36.000Well, and I'll give you guys an example of what I mean by this so it makes sense.
01:26:39.000What if I told you guys, I want to play video games all day, eat Cheetos, not go to the gym, live in my mom's house, do what I want to do, drink Mountain Dew all day?
01:28:23.000I'm sure some guys told you lies, and then you believed it, and then before you know it, you're like, ah, I'm not saying women won't change cars.
01:28:33.000What I'm saying is women have far less incentive to improve themselves in the pursuit of getting a guy than men do because you guys don't deal with the same reality that we do.
01:29:45.000Now I do want to say that it would be delivered more better or it would download better for us if you were to say like certain women in that sense because we do have certain women on the other hand who do go out their way to improve themselves.
01:30:00.000Whether it's for a man or whether it's within themselves.
01:30:04.000Say, for example, you were in a relationship.
01:30:07.000And you made a mistake, you know, and after a while it kind of backfired, and you had to take that time to reflect on yourself, look back on certain things that, you know, you want to work on.
01:30:17.000And in the near future, if you do end up getting in a relationship, like, how can I approve this to prevent that from happening?
01:30:23.000Like, we do have women who go out their way to do that inner work.
01:30:27.000So, I do want to make that very clear because I noticed that you're speaking and you're just saying women this and women that.
01:30:34.000That's okay because what you're saying is not wrong.
01:30:37.000I'm not disagreeing with anything that you're saying, but we do have that other side where there are women going out their way to do the work and to improve themselves, you know?
01:30:45.000I would say the exceptions don't make the rule at the end of the day.
01:30:48.000And you can sit back and say, well, we need to change the language.
01:30:50.000No, we need to talk about the problem here.
01:30:51.000If everyone's doing this, like I said, it goes back to that standard we're talking about.
01:30:55.000If you got a company of people, if you got a group of people, And everyone's performing like shit.
01:30:59.000It doesn't matter how many high speeds you've got in the company.
01:31:01.000It doesn't matter how many people are working and doing great.
01:31:03.000Everyone's going to have to meet this standard or we're going to have a fucking serious problem.
01:39:40.000Black men, especially black men that are doing things, that have something going on, we want natural women who are black, who care about their look and care about their image, and who love themselves.
01:39:48.000When you have this hair that isn't yours, it is a sign that you don't love yourself at the end of the day.
01:40:04.000When y'all did care and they said, go back and look.
01:40:07.000I hate just going back in time because this is like the typical black, Republican, conservative thing because they do this dumb shit and it's so boring.
01:40:13.000But you don't even have to go back there front.
01:40:14.000Go back to the 2000s and the 90s and look how black women were when they wore their natural hair.
01:43:19.000That's what confuses us because I'll wear my hair out, and like your auntie or your mom or somebody that you know, like you look up to, they'll be like, Oh, you need your hair.
01:43:41.000And because mainly their parents were on drugs and abused the fuck out of them and treated them like shit, they feel like we got to do the same thing to the kids.
01:43:47.000You know, yeah, baby, get your hair done.
01:46:09.000If you have this self-hatred, and like I said, the biggest thing, go back to this: black single mothers abuse these shit out of their kids, and especially their daughters.
01:46:37.000And they argue, and mama's probably, she got this bell tire in the front, you know, ugly as hell.
01:46:42.000Daughter is skinny or looks good, better body, and she treats the daughter like shit and let the little niggas run around here and do whatever.
01:46:49.000That's why every time these little niggas get shot, my son was the greatest nigga in the world.
01:47:06.000Literally in like photo shoots, I'm like, well, is this a photo shoot with you and your man or you and your son kissing the son on the lips?
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01:55:31.000You know, I always tell guys, they'll play this game, like, take, like, a fucking football and say, you know, if you got, like, a sister or mom or somebody else, hey, think fast.
01:55:38.000Yo, I should go ahead and write in the Facebook.
01:58:05.000What I heard, I mean, nah, I would argue they probably will be less likely to hit you, uh, because they understand like how dangerous they are a lot of the times.
01:58:14.000Um, I mean, if if they hate you, you're dead, yeah, yeah, literally, like you're literally dead, like a black guy.
01:58:20.000There's always going to be exceptions, though.
01:58:21.000I'm sure there's MMA fighters that get caught all the time, or boxers that get caught all the time, you know, slapping their wife up or some, but I wouldn't like trigger them, I wouldn't say anything.
02:00:32.000Uh, 20 people, Spicks, those guys don't get mad, they don't, they don't, like, only get mad, yeah, they only get mad.
02:00:39.000If you call a gook a gook, they're not gonna get pissed, they're like, yo, get out of my store, and that's it, get my store, that's it, you buy later.
02:00:45.000Now, I used to talk about Jews, I mean, come on, but, girls, like, you, like, you know, like.
02:00:49.000There's blacks, there's niggers and niggas, okay?
02:02:59.000They are not relatable at all to the average black person.
02:03:04.000Now, Democrats, The Jasmine Crockett's.
02:03:07.000They'll sit in the Ben Crump's, like we were seeing right now with the, we saw with the Carmelo Anthony stuff, the Nolan Wells bullshit, these lies.
02:03:37.000Not really deciding the direction of the country when it comes to elections.
02:03:41.000Business, finance, people within power who are deeply entrenched, who have a lot of money and influence, they decide what goes on in this country.
02:07:56.000They know that niggas are dumb, and niggas are dumb, and they're going to come out and vote in droves and in large majority, in every way, for nigga shit.
02:08:04.000Oh, they're going to increase my food stamps.
02:08:06.000They're going to give me these more benefits.
02:08:17.000If you live in predominantly black cities, you know that you vote these people in, they do nothing for you, and things get worse off every time we put them in.
02:08:24.000But you got to think that's why we start switching, though.
02:08:51.000I respect Larry Elder because he's the old school.
02:08:55.000But Larry Elder's old school, and we need something new for today.
02:08:59.000We have too many grifters, especially among people on the right.
02:09:02.000We have so many grifters, and it's performative now.
02:09:05.000There's so many people, it's been oversaturated.
02:09:07.000Like, even when we talk about the Jewish question, like, there's so many people who are very performative, but there's so many people, it's oversaturated.
02:09:33.000When I got off, like, I felt like, okay, some of the black voices were some of the ones that, like, you guys are saying what we kind of was always thinking.
02:09:40.000Like, yo, like, I'm on Black Lives Matter.
02:11:38.000It's black people who are going out and producing and recruiting and promoting and aggressively getting people to put out this disgusting music that mainly right now puts down black women.
02:11:47.000They don't really put down niggas anymore.
02:12:04.000Because this goes back to the civil rights movement, which I think was the worst thing that ever happened to black people, honestly.
02:12:09.000It's the worst thing that ever happened to black people.
02:12:11.000The many Jewish elite that was in power, working with people like, not Malcolm X, but Martin Luther King and so on, convinced black people that, you know, you've got to have a word.
02:13:24.000Because it's like, even when you're singing, like, lyrics and you're, you know, you're worshiping, I kind of call it in a sense, the music starts to take over you indirectly and inherently, you are receiving that message.
02:13:35.000That's why black people's like, you don't even know.
02:16:33.000You know, even as a white man, I'm sick and tired of seeing blacks shoot and kill each other and all these single moms.
02:16:44.000I just want to see that all these niggers stop killing each other because it gives America a bad rep and gives these liberals this argument oh, we got to take away guns because we're the highest gun crime.
02:16:53.000I'm sick and tired of seeing niggers committing mass shootings and shooting each other and stuff, you know?
02:17:12.000Send in the National Guard, recruit more black police officers.
02:17:15.000I think that's something we need to really start encouraging black men to go into the police force because we know the community inside and out.
02:17:20.000It's like, you know, you know the area, you know the land, you're going to do very well on it.
02:17:25.000That's why you're invading a country that people are going to perform or people, you know, when you're in your home territory, you're going to do better.
02:17:31.000So you have to really start pushing for more black men to go into the police force and really clean up.
02:17:38.000And I've said this on the last show like, it's going to be the drug dealers, the killers, the murderers, all those people have to go.
02:17:44.000But there has to be a brutal hand that really goes down on it.
02:17:47.000And this is why it's important for black men and women to go back into the community, stop running away from it, live in your communities and stand and keep your foot down.
02:17:57.000The more we keep running, the more the problem just continues to go to the next generation.
02:23:04.000I mean, look, man, I think men overwhelmingly prefer, you know, a woman with natural hair.
02:23:09.000I think this is why, you know, black women don't do as well when it comes to dating outside their race because other races of men find that extremely foreign and strange if a girl's hair isn't natural.
02:23:18.000It's only like black men that are used to that.
02:27:52.000In terms of sex, but yeah, I bet my like, but if he wants to pull her hair, he's got to pull like a plunge on the back of her head, yeah, yeah.
02:28:02.000But like, I feel like you know, in bed, you're good and everything, but like, after the sex, you're annoying as fuck.
02:28:08.000Oh my god, I mean, she is, isn't that every man with postpartum?
02:28:13.000Come on, man, like, after sex is annoying as fuck.
02:28:17.000I mean, isn't that every nigga with post not clarity?
02:28:22.000Every bitch is annoying to you after you're done.
02:31:24.000Please ask these ladies: pose of your OG thought on every wedding USA they should play Insta and TikTok reels of bride pass on projectors as she walks down the aisle scenario?
02:31:39.000So what I said was: yesterday, I was explaining that women kind of fuck themselves up with their social media.
02:31:46.000And what I was saying was, You know, if you're walking down the aisle with your dad and there's some like, you know, tall Chad or Jamal or fucking Abdul waiting for you at the end of the, you know, line, you know, waiting to marry you, like,
02:32:00.000would you be comfortable if someone was like playing or showing your Instagram and your TikTok reels and Instagram reels on the projector as you were doing it?
02:32:09.000And what I was arguing was most women would not be comfortable with that.
02:32:14.000So if it's not comfortable with that where, you know, your future husband would see it, why would you put it on the internet in the first place?
02:35:06.000I genuinely believe, and I think we can cite biology to this, that a woman's, you know, goal, or not goal, like her mission in life is to find.
02:35:18.000The best mate that she can and have a family with that guy and sell down with that guy.
02:36:07.000Your job is to be with a man that has a legacy and have a family with him.
02:36:11.000So I think the barometer of success for a female is do you have a man?
02:36:16.000Now, we kind of live in a weird world now where it's like we don't really have a definition of female success, we kind of move the goalposts.
02:36:24.000For some women, it's, oh, I want a career.
02:36:44.000So that's what I think a woman's success is.
02:36:47.000And here's the thing you guys only have a finite amount of time to get this thing done.
02:36:52.000Because if you don't get a guy, if you don't consolidate a guy when you're at your peak in your 20s, It just gets harder and harder as you.
02:38:28.000That's why I kind of wanted to let this rock for a little bit because I noticed that she immediately stepped in and said, oh, no, you're a baby, blah, blah, blah.
02:38:34.000I would argue, and here's a lot of older women would agree with you, actually.
02:38:38.000A lot of older women would actually agree.
02:38:39.000And a lot of women here would probably argue, hey, she's 22, let her live her life, whatever.
02:39:50.000But understand that you're not going to be able to have the same negotiating power for a higher status, more attractive partner as you age as a woman.
02:39:59.000And then your own success and climbing up the social totem pole actually alienates you from these very men.
02:40:06.000I always say, as a man, the more money and success you make and the older you get, the more doors open.
02:40:11.000But for a woman, it's the inverse the more you shackle yourself.
02:40:15.000Because as you make more money and age, your pool of candidates shrinks down, and the worst part is.
02:40:20.000This pool of candidates doesn't want you in return.
02:44:34.000Just because men want to date you doesn't mean that they're necessarily going to get down on one knee and take you seriously and give you commitment.
02:44:39.000Commitment versus dating are two different things.
02:44:41.000And I would argue that, you know, when a guy sees a woman that's 40 years old with four kids, he's going to adjust his game based on.
02:44:50.000You know, the woman, he's going to say what you want to hear.
02:44:52.000No, that's, I mean, and honestly, at the end of the day, probably true.
02:51:56.000Because you're over here advising someone who's young, who's still in their peak, to, hey, just wait it out, blah, blah, blah.
02:52:02.000But the reality is, is that if she follows your advice, she's going to be just like you, chasing a man in the one percentile that she, quite frankly, doesn't qualify for.
02:52:24.000If you're pursuing a guy into one percentile and you have high standards, by definition, you're chasing them to a degree because there's less of them than you.
02:54:41.000Ladies, if you want a guy that's very attractive, you know, if you're selective, you have to consolidate on the guy when you're at your peak.
02:55:11.000As we age and make more money, doors open.
02:55:13.000As you age and make money, doors fucking close.
02:55:16.000And you don't under, like the guy that you want, this man you described, why is he going to date you when he can go get a 22 year old with less of the baggage that is going to follow him and not have all this experience with other men?
02:55:28.000Like, men want a woman that they can experience things with and it's her first time.
02:55:32.000We don't want to be with a woman that's experienced things.
02:55:34.000Like, you guys want experience, we don't.
02:55:40.000So then, if you agree with me, why would you tell a woman who's at her peak to continue focusing on her and pursue something that's not going to put her in an advantageous position to get a partner?
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02:57:02.000The fact that I'm saying this, and this is like so foreign and so strange and so weird, is like the reason why I genuinely think we're fucking doomed.
03:01:18.000But I'm just telling you this is how men are.
03:01:20.000We want a younger, more attractive girl.
03:01:22.000And the more money we have and more status we have, the less we care about your money.
03:01:27.000You want to go ahead and get with a guy that you can, you know, do dreadlocks on and build them up and shit like that or fix them like your niggas were saying earlier?
03:03:01.000Like, I wouldn't, my businesses wouldn't be booming and growing and doing all these things had everything not happened the way that it did.
03:05:34.000Like, when you guys say things a certain way or whatever, like, saying I'm dating is a big difference between saying I'm in a relationship.
03:11:05.000She has, you know, like, you know, like.
03:11:07.000Well, like, I talk about this in my book.
03:11:08.000Like, when you ask women, if you poll them, like, what are, like, the most important things in their life, like, men are, like, sixth, seventh place.
03:11:51.000Now, say in the process where I'm, you know, on my own journey and I come across somebody that's within the line, like in alignment to what I'm doing, I'm not closed off to that.
03:12:02.000That's not something that I'm closed off to.
03:12:04.000To make that clear, I'm not even with what I'm with.
03:12:07.000Why can't you work on yourself with a man and support him and grow with him?
03:12:28.000We got a lot of weak ass men because you're saying this and it's like your pool of men you've been around needs to either change or you need to really face reality that.
03:15:03.000She decided to have a child, which you came out, and now the effects of them getting together now have affected you, both negatively and positively.
03:15:13.000So you have to have these conversations and examine that.
03:15:15.000So don't say fuck your father because you haven't had a conversation with him.
03:15:17.000Are you cool with your biological dad too or no?
03:16:27.000Yeah, no, I just, I guess my question also to men, especially you as a black man, but do you not feel like, you know, a lot of women now have this mentality?
03:16:48.000And you know what that's all I'm saying?
03:16:49.000Some of us, even if we want to set like 22, those prime ages, where like I do agree, those are usually the prime ages going to college, you have more, you know, social circles you'll be in, you're meeting more men.
03:17:01.000But even the men around that age, when you're at your peak, they're not like, they're not high quality.
03:17:07.000One thing you should do is listen to what Myron's saying.
03:17:09.000I mean, that's He's giving great advice.
03:17:35.000Even when a woman is at her prime right now and actually following all this advice, trying to find our mate, we don't have a lot of good options.
03:17:42.000Like I said, the best thing that you can do, if you want to be able to find better mates, you have to go back home and figure out what are the best qualities in men in my life that I have in my family.
03:18:12.000Go to the oldest person in your household and have a conversation with them.
03:18:16.000I'm just saying, like, you know, again, just say from her point, if she was to even look out, like, even the places where, you know, again, a 22 year old could find a mate.
03:18:24.000Like, I remember when I was in college, they were saying the best time to find a mate was in college.
03:22:08.000You know, regular girls get DMs from celebrities.
03:22:11.000And I think that does a lot to like kind of tarnish where you stand.
03:22:16.000Like, you know, if you're a regular girl and you're getting DMs from NBA players or whatever, you're going to think, damn, like I just want to be a celebrity.
03:22:48.000Just in my personal experience, I've always pushed, like, hey, I'm going to say something, you know, and I think that takes a level of confidence.
03:22:54.000Just knowing yourself as a man and going for it.
03:24:05.000Putting down other men, saying slick, like you'll notice it with their friends.
03:24:09.000Like they'll, let's say a guy you're dating and he meets you, he brings you around his friend, he's trying to start, he starts trying to talk to you.
03:24:15.000He's low key competing with his friend.
03:24:17.000I would say overly jealous, like when they're just overly jealous, like they don't care how the girl, because I've seen some men that they're jealous, their girl looking like an adjustable too, and they overhear who she's talking to.
03:24:28.000I'm like, bro, like, I don't think she's getting as much attention as you think, but that's just me.
03:25:20.000And if you're not willing to, like, you know, put your foot down on certain boundaries, that I would argue that actually makes you more insecure because you know if you were to have boundaries, she would be like, all right, well, fuck this.
03:25:32.000Most guys get girls by the skin of their teeth.
03:25:34.000So, like, your guy, for example, the issue with her is that the reason why she wanted a girls trip is because her guy wasn't that attractive.
03:25:41.000Women only want to go on girls trips and have, you know, go out and do things like this when they don't respect andor find their partner that attractive.
03:26:31.000So you'll have losers that will be glad to date you, or you'll have attractive men that will only have sex with you and they'll never take anything seriously.
03:27:31.000So, by my own admission, if we know that women are more sneaky about it, et cetera, why would I allow you to have a platform where you could be more sneaky with it, aka a girl's trip?
03:28:07.000You can tell me what you don't expect on a girl's trip, but for you to tell me not to go on a girl's trip and I'm disrespectful or I don't respect you because of that is crazy.
03:31:59.000So, the reason why a woman going on a girl's trip is not the same as a guy going on a guy's trip is because my value to you as a man is not my purity and my fidelity.
03:32:08.000My value to you is protecting you from getting your ass whooped.
03:32:11.000My value to you is providing for you, protecting for you, leading for you.
03:32:14.000But the difference is men always go hunt.
03:32:16.000When you guys go outside, you're always hunting for men.
03:34:33.000That's like a masculine because she's like, she thinks she can take it like that.
03:34:36.000She thinks like, she's like, since she doesn't have a dad in her life, she's like become extremely masculinized and like she looks at it like, oh, a nigga that cheats on me is like, I'm a dude and a girl cheats on me.
03:34:55.000She's a very masculine That's what it is.
03:34:57.000Since you were raised by a single mom and you don't understand what a man's job is, you were raised by a mom and you basically become the man that you want.
03:35:05.000You now look at it like this nigga cheating on me is the same as me cheating on him, not understanding that men and women aren't the same.
03:35:10.000So you conflate sexual fidelity with protection.
03:35:15.000Is part of a man's job is to cheat on me?
03:36:12.000The whole point of being in a relationship and having this is to have children to procreate, to have a family, to move on, to build a legacy.
03:41:35.000I'm very, very, Had to say things and everything, and how I got into my relationship when I became more feminine and soft, and actually started listening to my man and actually kind of lowered myself just a little bit in a sense to make him feel like a hierarchy.
03:43:27.000And this is what women don't understand.
03:43:29.000In order to become successful, like the way you want, you have to become something that men aren't attracted to that are successful that you want.
03:45:03.000So, don't you guys think, you know, if you all want to be a provider, sorry, if you all guys want a provider and you want a guy that's going to take care of you, whatever, you should shut the fuck up and listen to what a provider tells you?
03:45:25.000You're talking to a guy who's older, been around a bit, you know, is in that provider role, and I'm telling you what providers want in return from a woman, and you're saying you're not going to listen?
03:45:34.000I said, I'm not going to listen to every single thing.
03:47:15.000And here's the thing: we're on a fucking podcast with thousands of people watching, and if she's talking to me like this, imagine a regular guy.
03:49:49.000Like, with a thousand people watching, successful men telling them, this is what we want if we're going to retire a girl and make her a stay at home mom.
03:50:59.000If somebody knows more than you, you should listen always.
03:51:02.000I'm not going to go to the hospital and argue with the doctor tomorrow.
03:51:04.000I know more about medicine because I read this on Facebook.
03:51:06.000No, if the doctor knows more than me about what I've got going through, I'm going to listen to what he has to say.
03:51:09.000Now, if I disagree, I can disagree, and I can go get a second opinion.
03:51:13.000But if someone's telling me right here, like, this is how you should do, this is how you should go about it, I'm going to listen to that information and I'll go back and authenticate it after.
03:51:21.000But to sit back and argue back and forth makes no sense.
03:51:24.000Why are you going to sit there and argue?
03:52:00.000I mean, she's like, I would tolerate that shit, bro.
03:52:02.000My homeboy wouldn't tolerate this shit.
03:52:03.000Yo, this is why, yo, for all the guys watching, bro, this is why y'all niggas gotta make money, be like super successful, so that you can, like, you just, you know, you dictate terms.
03:52:12.000Otherwise, you're gonna get stuck with a girl that don't, no offense to you, but like, A lot of girls have a mindset like you, very dismissive.
03:52:17.000I'm gonna do what I want, nigga better accept me.
03:52:47.000Um, I think, uh Yeah, I think it's run its course.
03:52:51.000I think for the guys out there, this is just very educational to let men understand that, like, there's a lot of women that just, you know, girls want to be stay at home moms, but a lot of them are not willing to do what's required.
03:54:06.000Think I want to fucking go to work nine security jobs Well, I mean you did that to yourself, bro.
03:54:12.000I'm sure you had opportunities when you're in your 20s and you pass those guys up.
03:54:15.000So yeah, maybe I did you right Maybe I know by definition you did okay, I did you fucked up because I'm sure there's a guy that came along that would have probably been a good guy But I feel like in this but in this economy even a guy making 100k a year can't but that goes back to all feminism in general the economy is bad right now man can't He doesn't gotta make much,
03:54:47.000I said, right now, even in this economy, a man that's making 100K right now probably can't even afford to take care of him and him with his woman.
03:55:48.000Y'all complain about the men who only want to fuck you, but you won't listen to the men with zero interest in fucking you who only want the best for you.
03:56:15.000When a woman hits the wall, it's baffling that she still wants men to worship her like the Quran, but her coochie probably has collected more bodies than.
03:56:24.000Question, ladies Do y'all want to pursue what you see in this picture?
03:56:28.000Well, yeah, they said they want to be a stay at home mom.
03:56:30.000Maybe not that many kids, but they all said they want to be a stay at home mom, bro.
03:56:34.000Which is kind of crazy to me because it's like they argued for Girls Nights Out and doing what they want to do and being free and being entrepreneurs.
03:56:42.000And it's like, but what's your end goal?
03:59:10.000What was misogynistic in your opinion?
03:59:12.000Everything was just women this, women that.
03:59:13.000You guys never took accountability on what men do, on how everything was, oh, we're cooked this generation because of women this, women that.
03:59:21.000But you guys didn't take any accountability.
03:59:23.000A lot of men didn't take accountability.
04:03:16.000And right now, literally, you are not taking accountability because you didn't know the definition of a word that you used as the root term in your criticism.
04:03:24.000So let me ask you did I use it wrongly?
04:05:09.000By defending myself, it's not about defending yourself by being combative and being so masculine, especially when a conversation is happening.
04:09:34.000Ladies, having a difficult conversation and being critical of things that are, you know, unflattering to female nature doesn't mean you hate them.
04:09:59.000I think the fact that we're having a difficult conversation, being critical, but being honest, I would argue that's the opposite of misogyny because we're telling you what you need to hear, not what you want to hear.
04:10:07.000Now, for you, you don't like it because it doesn't line up with what you want to hear.
04:10:10.000But I'm telling you, being an ambitious woman is not going to make you more attractive.
04:10:14.000So you could pursue that hair salon, but I'm being candid with you and telling you that in the pursuit of that hair salon, you're going to make yourself very unattractive to the very man that you want.
04:13:04.000The number one takeaway I would say would be to be more, be more, I want to say open minded to what, like just to a certain caliber of men, right?
04:13:16.000Because I do recall there was a part in which they were saying, like, you know, we're not, you guys were pretty much saying that.
04:13:24.000You guys are not telling us to listen to just any type of man, especially men who are not trying to, you know, guide us in the right way, et cetera.
04:13:32.000So, you guys were pretty much highlighting, like, you know, there's a level or caliber of men in which they're pretty much guiding you to be better and that sort, like to pay attention to that.
04:13:45.000I feel like this podcast also allowed me to kind of like reflect on certain things within myself.
04:13:50.000And that goes back to what I was saying earlier as far as working on myself.
04:13:54.000I feel like this is one of those where.
04:13:56.000When I go home, like, I'm going to reflect on this overall and certain things that stood out to me.
04:17:41.000Look, man, and I'm not saying that to be an asshole or whatever, but like you have a fantastic ability to say things and purport a certain type of message without necessarily feeling it or agreeing with it.
04:18:02.000I really am like such a genuine, hardworking person.
04:18:05.000So for you to like say that about me and like that's your, like, what you got out of this whole thing, like you feeling my energy and like me coming into your space, and that's like what you take away from it, like.
04:21:52.000Like, see, everything about women is a facade.
04:21:55.000They wake up in the morning, can't even face themselves, got to put makeup on, put on a dress, you know, put on waist trainers, put on fake hair, fake lap.
04:22:02.000Like, yo, everything about y'all is a fucking lie, bro.
04:23:08.000And I'm telling you right now, if you don't change your attitude, you're going to have a very difficult time getting men to take you seriously.