Fresh & Fit - 5 Tips To Deal w- Flakey Modern Women in 2023!

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00:00:01.000 Today, we're gonna talk about ways to mitigate flaking, man.

00:00:04.000 We got a lot to talk about.

00:00:05.000 Let's get into it.

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00:04:17.000 So...

00:04:17.000 Today's topic.

00:04:18.000 Today's topic, man.

00:04:19.000 So you want to tell them real quick what the topic is and I'll give them an overview of what's going on and why this is so important.

00:04:24.000 So we have five steps to deal with flicking, right?

00:04:26.000 And of course, as men, we do flicking no matter what we do.

00:04:29.000 You can be successful, broke, in between.

00:04:32.000 Well, we all get flicked on.

00:04:33.000 However, how do you combat that?

00:04:35.000 How do you deal with that?

00:04:36.000 Because off-rip, you're going to be emotional about it, you might get mad at it, and it can be stressful.

00:04:40.000 So we got you guys today with how to break it down, how to avoid being flicked on if possible, and how to mitigate the risk.

00:04:45.000 So the first thing you guys got to understand is how did we get here, okay?

00:04:49.000 How did we get here?

00:04:51.000 And if you go back in time...

00:04:56.000 The cold hard reality, guys, is that women used to depend on men. 0.91

00:05:00.000 Women used to respect men. 0.98

00:05:02.000 And most importantly, women used to like men to a certain degree. 0.98

00:05:06.000 But thanks to your girl, Beyonce, saying dumb stuff like all the single ladies, Destiny's Child, independent woman. 1.00

00:05:12.000 City girls. 0.99

00:05:14.000 Independent, you know, Missing Summer.

00:05:15.000 Yeah.

00:05:16.000 What's happened is we have a culture where it's cool to disrespect, ostracize, and not take men seriously.

00:05:26.000 And in reality, guys, I think...

00:05:28.000 And this is tough because...

00:05:31.000 Most men fall in this category.

00:05:32.000 A lot of you guys watching right now fall in this category.

00:05:35.000 Most women don't respect most men. 0.99

00:05:38.000 If you take an average man and an average woman, that average woman still thinks or she assumes she has higher value and higher status than you, even if she doesn't.

00:05:49.000 And that's the key.

00:05:51.000 Even if she doesn't have more value than you, doesn't bring more value than you to society, she doesn't contribute more, etc., she still is going to think that she's better than you.

00:06:02.000 And the reason why this is so important, guys, is because that's going to influence how she behaves. 1.00

00:06:08.000 And how a lot of girls behave is they think their time is more important than yours. 0.99

00:06:12.000 And what's resulted from feminism, from women thinking that they're better than men, is that We've had a flake epidemic. 1.00

00:06:21.000 I have an entire chapter in my book about this, guys.

00:06:24.000 And just to give you guys some numbers...

00:06:26.000 Women account for about 56% of flakes, right? 1.00

00:06:30.000 Whereas if you look at lay reports and field reports from this side of the internet, the RP community, it's closer to about 70%.

00:06:37.000 And then Tinder insights show that only 8.6% of people talk on Tinder.

00:06:43.000 However, dates rarely come out of that.

00:06:47.000 So we got pretty much a 91.4 flake rate digitally effectively from Tinder.

00:06:54.000 Women in general, guys, and I go into way more detail as to why women don't like men in general.

00:07:00.000 In the book.

00:07:01.000 In the book.

00:07:02.000 But the main thing is, is that I need you guys to understand, women don't like you that much.

00:07:08.000 Period.

00:07:10.000 Women don't like men that much in general. 1.00

00:07:11.000 That's why we have a society nowadays where women can openly run around and say, men are trash, I hate men, kill all men, etc. 1.00

00:07:18.000 Now, I want to make that one thing extremely clear. 0.99

00:07:21.000 That does not mean that they hate all men or that they don't like all men.

00:07:25.000 The problem is that they like a small percentage of men. 1.00

00:07:28.000 Most guys don't measure up.

00:07:29.000 And actually, just to be fair here, to be honest with you guys, most guys are not working on themselves to become better.

00:07:35.000 And that means, for example, the women are becoming better and we're becoming less. 1.00

00:07:38.000 So, to bear with you, it's our fault as well.

00:07:42.000 Yeah, it's on both ends.

00:07:43.000 Like, the guys need to become better, but at the same time, the women don't like men. 0.99

00:07:47.000 Women respect men less now than ever before. 1.00

00:07:50.000 So, we're burning the candle at two ends of the stick here, right?

00:07:50.000 Way less.

00:07:53.000 You got guys that aren't doing what the fuck they're supposed to do, right? 0.97

00:07:56.000 That's burning one end. 1.00

00:07:57.000 And then you got women, on the other hand, who are constantly being told and indoctrinated that men are trash, you're independent, you don't need no man, blah, blah, blah. 0.98

00:08:04.000 So, it's burning the candle at the other end. 0.99

00:08:05.000 What ends up happening?

00:08:07.000 The flick rates are going up.

00:08:08.000 Girls don't When I actually meet guys up and I actually put a tender chart in the book to where a girl had like six hundred thousand Swipes she only swiped right like sixty four percent of the time sixty percent of the time some excuse me like sixty like six thousand times something wild like that so Once you guys understand that girls don't like you that much it's gonna be a lot easier to swallow this We're about to tell y'all okay now with that said Now that we know where we're at,

00:08:35.000 right, with feminism, with girls in general not liking men, now we understand that is the root cause as to why the flake rate is so high, okay?

00:08:43.000 Because a lot of you guys, you're like, yo, why do girls act like this?

00:08:46.000 Why is this so tough?

00:08:47.000 What the hell is going on, etc.?

00:08:49.000 And some of you guys go crazy just trying to find answers.

00:08:51.000 And let's be honest here, some guys have wanted to hurt themselves and or self-delete because they don't have answers.

00:08:56.000 Their girl leaves them, their wife divorces them, it cheats on them, and they're like, man, I gotta end it.

00:09:00.000 This is too much pain.

00:09:01.000 Sometimes, knowing why the pain is there, Is the solution.

00:09:06.000 And someone in the chat asks, what is flaking?

00:09:08.000 Flaking just means you set up a date with a chick and she doesn't show up. 1.00

00:09:12.000 That's pretty much it.

00:09:12.000 Yeah.

00:09:13.000 Making some type of plans and the girl saying, oh yeah, I'm down, blah, blah, blah, and the next thing you know she don't show up, or it's a no call, no show, or whatever it is.

00:09:23.000 And imagine some guy set reservations, set up their whole day, takes the time off of work for a date, and then you don't show up, he's going to be mad.

00:09:29.000 Yeah.

00:09:29.000 I get it.

00:09:30.000 Yep.

00:09:31.000 Big fact.

00:09:31.000 So...

00:09:33.000 But hopefully that makes sense to you guys.

00:09:35.000 So just to sum it up, right?

00:09:37.000 For some of you guys, I see we got 3,500 in here pretty much now.

00:09:42.000 Summary is this, guys.

00:09:44.000 Feminism came, right? 1.00

00:09:45.000 And feminism told women that they don't need men. 1.00

00:09:48.000 They're independent, they can make their own money, etc.

00:09:50.000 So now, women don't deal with men from a need perspective, they deal with men from a want perspective.

00:09:55.000 And since women deal with men from a want perspective, they only want a small percentage of the top-tier guys, okay? 0.88

00:10:02.000 So this has effectively made the flake rate go up, women not respect men, and a lot of guys are sexually frustrated and or annoyed with women in general.

00:10:12.000 We're good to go.

00:10:16.000 We're good to go.

00:10:29.000 Because her title might sound better.

00:10:32.000 But she doesn't know that that guy adds way more value to society.

00:10:34.000 But women are indoctrinated to think that their careers matter. 1.00

00:10:36.000 They're indoctrinated to think their degrees matter. 1.00

00:10:38.000 They're indoctrinated to think their office job matters and that they're more important to society than someone who's literally taking care of the plumbing so that you can live the first world life that you live, you dumb hoe. 1.00

00:10:49.000 But... 0.99

00:10:50.000 They think that they're better than you.

00:10:51.000 And that's the cold hard reality. 0.99

00:10:52.000 And if y'all don't believe me, I guarantee all 3,000 of you guys watching this fucking show right now, right? 0.98

00:10:58.000 All of y'all watching right now, you guys have dealt with some female fuckery, which led you to this type of content in the first place. 0.98

00:11:04.000 And trust me, nobody's safe. 0.97

00:11:06.000 Me and French deal with this BS too.

00:11:07.000 Yeah, nobody's safe.

00:11:08.000 Actually, accountability, that word is funny because you hear by text or phone call, oh, I fell asleep.

00:11:13.000 Oh, this came up.

00:11:14.000 My dog died.

00:11:15.000 It's like, bro, really?

00:11:16.000 So we all have been through this ourselves as well, guys.

00:11:18.000 We're going to break down for you today how to combat this.

00:11:21.000 We got some chats here as well.

00:11:22.000 Yeah, so read the chats and then we'll go into the steps.

00:11:25.000 But I just wanted you all to understand why we're here.

00:11:28.000 Yeah.

00:11:29.000 So we got thoughts on women who are in serious relationships with still like or have crushes on male celebs.

00:11:33.000 I personally think it's haram.

00:11:35.000 And that's from Silent Chaos.

00:11:36.000 Yeah, it's unacceptable.

00:11:37.000 It's just weird.

00:11:39.000 Yeah.

00:11:41.000 Freshman, Wpod, Apple Ace. 0.95

00:11:44.000 Even the ugly ones are hypergamous. 1.00

00:11:46.000 Bezos' wife divorced again. 0.91

00:11:47.000 They're never happy.

00:11:48.000 Also, my thanks for buying me and my bro a drink at Vendome, the two Alaskans.

00:11:52.000 There you go.

00:11:53.000 Fresh Jones.

00:11:54.000 Just seen Batman on Sage.

00:11:56.000 Yeah, the Albanians? 0.75

00:11:56.000 The Albanians. 0.75

00:11:57.000 Yeah, the Albanians. 1.00

00:11:58.000 Oh, shoot.

00:11:59.000 Fresh Jones says, Just seen Batman Kevo on Sage Cheese.

00:12:02.000 What's your thoughts on tricking?

00:12:03.000 I don't mean a girl you're trying to take seriously. 1.00

00:12:05.000 Yeah, bro.

00:12:06.000 I just showed Mariana earlier.

00:12:07.000 That's just hilarious.

00:12:08.000 I mean, we know what Kevo does, bro.

00:12:09.000 It is what it is, man.

00:12:10.000 Y'all are about a year late.

00:12:12.000 Once again, Kevo's already established.

00:12:14.000 You can do whatever he wants to.

00:12:15.000 Most of you can't.

00:12:16.000 So here's the thing with tricking.

00:12:18.000 We're not fans of it, guys.

00:12:20.000 We don't do it.

00:12:22.000 Especially here in Miami because I just...

00:12:25.000 Nah.

00:12:26.000 Just internally, bro.

00:12:27.000 Yeah, I can't do it, bro.

00:12:27.000 We can't do it, bro.

00:12:29.000 But...

00:12:29.000 I can't do it.

00:12:30.000 Kevo has his reasons.

00:12:31.000 He's still our friend.

00:12:33.000 He's still RP aware.

00:12:35.000 Like I told you all before, some guys with RP awareness, they take it and they're going to say, I'm going to go ahead and smash these chicks for free. 1.00

00:12:41.000 Other guys are like, okay, I'm aware of what's going on here. 0.50

00:12:43.000 I don't want to deal with female fuckery and waste my time, which I think is why Kevo does it. 1.00

00:12:47.000 It's time. 0.97

00:12:48.000 But I think if you know what it is and you can choose to do either or and you choose one path, that's up to you.

00:12:53.000 You're a man.

00:12:54.000 We just want y'all to know.

00:12:56.000 Yeah.

00:12:56.000 Like, I don't care what you guys do with the information.

00:12:58.000 Yeah.

00:12:58.000 I just want you guys to get the information and not hurt yourself.

00:13:01.000 That's the key.

00:13:02.000 All right?

00:13:02.000 Because a lot of you guys, you know, put yourselves in very dangerous situations or hurt yourself because you don't know why women behave the way they do.

00:13:12.000 And ultimately, the benefit should be in your favor.

00:13:14.000 Yeah.

00:13:15.000 That's the whole goal here, guys.

00:13:16.000 Christopher Harris says, Yo, Myron, it's 34 block me because I wouldn't let her be our group leader in Call of Duty.

00:13:16.000 Yeah.

00:13:21.000 I'm done with these hoes. 1.00

00:13:23.000 Bruh.

00:13:23.000 What's okay?

00:13:25.000 It's Jordan.

00:13:26.000 Fresh be real with me. 0.99

00:13:27.000 What the fuck was that show with DDG? Bro, he has a girl, bro. 1.00

00:13:30.000 I mean, man, some of y'all, right?

00:13:34.000 Want a guy to do a whole long explanation about why he should bang a horse or whatever.

00:13:38.000 Bro, he has a girlfriend.

00:13:39.000 He's doing his thing.

00:13:39.000 I get it.

00:13:40.000 And he said before the show, look, I have a girl.

00:13:42.000 I gotta be conservative.

00:13:43.000 I get it.

00:13:44.000 So...

00:13:45.000 It's what it is, man.

00:13:46.000 She about to do a Disney movie, too, isn't she?

00:13:47.000 Yeah.

00:13:48.000 I mean, he's happy, man.

00:13:49.000 It's a little bit different, bro.

00:13:51.000 You guys got to understand that you got to move different when you're dealing with those kinds of people.

00:13:56.000 I have guests on the show.

00:13:57.000 You can't say nothing crazy.

00:13:58.000 You just can't.

00:14:00.000 They want to come on the show, but because I have a girl, they don't want to come.

00:14:03.000 So I'm like, you know, at least she showed up.

00:14:04.000 I came.

00:14:04.000 So I appreciate it, you know?

00:14:06.000 Yeah.

00:14:06.000 So, it's what it is.

00:14:07.000 You guys gotta understand that, like, not everybody's RP-aware, and even if someone is RP-aware, they're not gonna talk about it openly with 30,000 people watching, bro.

00:14:15.000 Yeah.

00:14:16.000 You know what I mean?

00:14:16.000 Like, he's...

00:14:17.000 His girl's getting a Disney role, whatever. 0.99

00:14:20.000 He's gotta do what he's gotta do.

00:14:20.000 He's cool.

00:14:20.000 Yeah, bro.

00:14:21.000 So, it is what it is.

00:14:22.000 RetroNinjaFlow says, Sawgirl on BLK, repping the FNF merch, The Reach.

00:14:27.000 Okay.

00:14:27.000 What's up, BLK? Black.

00:14:30.000 Or the black app.

00:14:31.000 Okay, go. 1.00

00:14:31.000 What the fuck? 1.00

00:14:33.000 That's funny. 1.00

00:14:35.000 That'd be hilarious. 0.96

00:14:36.000 What the hell?

00:14:36.000 KG Hall Capture says, Have you guys heard of Matthew Cox?

00:14:39.000 He might be great for Monday, Monday or Fed episode.

00:14:42.000 Two mil on the way.

00:14:42.000 Thank you, bro.

00:14:43.000 We have not.

00:14:44.000 Have you?

00:14:45.000 I don't know what it is.

00:14:47.000 Christopher Harris says, Do you try to be like, I'm done playing if I'm not good later?

00:14:50.000 I was like, bye.

00:14:51.000 Thank God for FNF. Alright.

00:14:53.000 Bro, why are y'all playing video games with girls anyway? 0.99

00:14:55.000 Facts, bro. 1.00

00:14:55.000 They suck. 1.00

00:14:56.000 Yeah, like, yo. 1.00

00:14:57.000 Call me a jerk or whatever, an asshole. 1.00

00:14:59.000 But, like, when I used to play video games, I used to play Overwatch. 1.00

00:15:02.000 When a girl joined my lobby, I would kick her out. 1.00

00:15:03.000 Dude, you know what's funny? 1.00

00:15:04.000 Like, I'd be like, yo, like, get the fuck out of here. 0.95

00:15:06.000 For Call of Duty in our lobby, bro, if a girl joined, we'd just find another room. 1.00

00:15:10.000 Like, girls are not good at video games, guys. 0.98

00:15:14.000 Yeah, we're going to lose, bro.

00:15:16.000 The only way I'll play with a girl, Overwatch or something like that, is like, yo, you better play Mercy and just heal me the whole time and boost up my shooting power when I use McCree. 1.00

00:15:24.000 Other than that, if you're not going to pocket, you call it Pocket Mercy, which is like she's there just healing you the whole time and powering you up so you can just mess somebody up with McCree.

00:15:34.000 But in general, yeah, nah, bro.

00:15:36.000 That's awesome.

00:15:37.000 That's my main character.

00:15:38.000 Who you? 1.00

00:15:39.000 Put your fat ass hands, nigga. 1.00

00:15:39.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:15:40.000 How you moving the mouse around?

00:15:41.000 You feel me?

00:15:43.000 How you got that next day?

00:15:44.000 We got McQueen in the house, by the way, guys, too.

00:15:46.000 Shout out to him, man.

00:15:50.000 So, have you guys checked with Skippy since you had him on?

00:15:53.000 I looked at his channel, and out of curiosity, dude seems like a lost cause.

00:15:55.000 I tried, bro.

00:15:56.000 We were going to shout out to him.

00:15:57.000 But, yeah, bro, that guy's on his own path, man.

00:15:57.000 I tried.

00:16:00.000 Wish him the best, though.

00:16:01.000 Yeah.

00:16:01.000 I mean, some guys just don't want the help, guys.

00:16:03.000 We offered to fly him here, teach him everything, make him a better guy, but some men seriously want to sit there and just be sad and not become a better version of themselves and just, yeah.

00:16:13.000 You can only help who wants to be helped, man.

00:16:14.000 That's pretty much it.

00:16:16.000 RepoDad says, I repossessed a female's car the other day.

00:16:20.000 Got her number.

00:16:21.000 Checked her Instagram.

00:16:22.000 Turns out she was at the one more party. 0.98

00:16:24.000 What the hell? 0.97

00:16:25.000 Who's that? 0.99

00:16:26.000 What?

00:16:27.000 Don't sit on the stream, though.

00:16:28.000 Just send me a DM. What the fuck? 1.00

00:16:30.000 Damn. 1.00

00:16:30.000 Let me know who it is. 1.00

00:16:32.000 LetageOfficial says, if me and a girl are texting back and forth and starts responding for seemingly no reason, is it okay to text her again a few days later?

00:16:41.000 Um, you can, but it shouldn't be, like, the next day.

00:16:44.000 It should be, like, a week or two after, if anything.

00:16:46.000 There should be some, like, changes, bro.

00:16:47.000 And you know what's funny?

00:16:48.000 Don't make a statement.

00:16:49.000 Do it, like, a question mark.

00:16:50.000 Yeah.

00:16:50.000 Like, you don't want it to be too, like, you feel me?

00:16:53.000 As, like, a double text.

00:16:54.000 Question mark most.

00:16:56.000 Frankie Baltimore says, the sauce you guys serve for is remarkable.

00:17:00.000 How to approach a dating MP for a place of advantage? 0.85

00:17:03.000 I saw a gruesome video of a Florida man stabbing his wife on Facebook Live when he caught her cheating.

00:17:07.000 Yeah, bro.

00:17:08.000 Some niggas don't play. 1.00

00:17:09.000 Yeah, bro.

00:17:10.000 And we want you guys to never be that dude on Facebook Live stabbing your girl, bro.

00:17:14.000 That's terrible.

00:17:14.000 That's too much.

00:17:15.000 Yeah, bro.

00:17:16.000 We want you guys to have an abundance mindset and get the help.

00:17:19.000 There's so many girls out here, bro. 1.00

00:17:20.000 When a girl does some BS. You know, I saw someone run a truck into a house because his girl's cheating. 1.00

00:17:24.000 Yeah, yeah. 0.98

00:17:25.000 What the hell? 0.74

00:17:26.000 That's wild. 0.54

00:17:28.000 Monarchist1 says, hey, what's up, guys?

00:17:29.000 Just got back from China.

00:17:30.000 Left 27th of December.

00:17:32.000 Came out yesterday.

00:17:33.000 Missed a lot of my man Top G and stuff at the party, at least.

00:17:36.000 They jailed Greta.

00:17:38.000 They jailed?

00:17:39.000 Yeah, she got arrested. 0.81

00:17:40.000 I think she was protesting at some, I think, coal.

00:17:44.000 They carried her, though.

00:17:46.000 Yeah, because she was protesting.

00:17:48.000 It's crazy.

00:17:48.000 She wanted to leave.

00:17:49.000 Yeah.

00:17:50.000 Man.

00:17:51.000 That down syndrome, bitch. 1.00

00:17:53.000 Anyway, how do I maximize my options on Tinder? 1.00

00:17:56.000 Any tips or advice? 0.99

00:17:57.000 Well, number one, understand that Tinder is trash.

00:17:59.000 And then number two, you got to have really good pictures. 0.79

00:18:01.000 And you got to get the girl off the app immediately. 0.77

00:18:04.000 And about 70 to 80% of Tinder users are men, guys.

00:18:08.000 So, Tinder is actually one of the worst places to try to meet girls.

00:18:11.000 We told you guys a year ago, actually two years ago, the best app to use for your best advantage.

00:18:16.000 And some people are like, oh, that's weird, bro. 0.84

00:18:18.000 Sugar's like, nigga. 1.00

00:18:20.000 In that environment, you're a tall G. So, like, bro, use it to your advantage, bro. 0.97

00:18:24.000 Yeah, Instagram, too.

00:18:25.000 Yeah, Instagram, too.

00:18:26.000 Yeah, but, like, Tinder is, like, definitely lopsided, bro.

00:18:28.000 Definitely lopsided. 1.00

00:18:29.000 If you're not with abs or, like, successful as fuck, bro, she doesn't want to fuck you, bro. 1.00

00:18:33.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:18:35.000 Corey, man of God.

00:18:36.000 The One Mill was dope.

00:18:37.000 Glad to meet all of y'all.

00:18:39.000 All the Discord people and my team.

00:18:40.000 Shout out to Fresh Wingman.

00:18:41.000 Chris still a bum.

00:18:44.000 Shout out to Corey, man.

00:18:45.000 Taylor by nature says, the de-evolution of Western women has risen to such a level that they oppose their very nature that's designed for their preservation, longevity, and protection. 0.99

00:18:54.000 Yeah, bro.

00:18:55.000 It's like doomsday.

00:18:56.000 WP says, I'm 21 and a plumbing apprentice.

00:18:58.000 Been watching you guys since November 2020.

00:19:00.000 You guys help motivate immensely.

00:19:02.000 Thank you.

00:19:03.000 Shout out to you.

00:19:03.000 Good stuff, man.

00:19:04.000 And your job matters.

00:19:04.000 Your career matters.

00:19:05.000 Don't let these dumb bimbos try to, like, oh, you're a plumber. 1.00

00:19:08.000 Because, unfortunately, girls look down on guys that have blue-collar jobs, which is wild to me. 0.99

00:19:12.000 Yeah, I would avoid just saying I'm a plumber in general.

00:19:14.000 Yeah, I hate to say it like that, bro.

00:19:16.000 That really bothers me that we have to tell guys that, like, you know...

00:19:23.000 Because here's the other thing, too, you guys got to understand. 1.00

00:19:25.000 A lot of girls are stupid. 1.00

00:19:26.000 They don't have a good concept of money, and they don't understand what certain careers make. 1.00

00:19:31.000 They think if you don't have a big title, you're not going to make six figures, which is going to be further from the truth.

00:19:35.000 There's plenty of plumbers that make $100,000 plus a year. 0.99

00:19:37.000 But their association is that you're under a sink somewhere with your fucking ass crack out, fixing a pipe that's leaking, making $10 an hour. 0.99

00:19:47.000 And the reality is that's not how it goes. 1.00

00:19:48.000 But women don't know that trades make a lot of money. 1.00

00:19:52.000 Because a lot of girls think, oh, if you don't have a career and a degree and a title, you don't make money. 1.00

00:19:57.000 If you're not a CEO. Yeah, so I'm not saying totally hide the fact that you're a plumber, but you definitely don't want to lead with that because she might go ahead and think, oh, he's broke, even though you might not be because they're stupid. 1.00

00:20:10.000 They think they're better than you sometimes. 0.99

00:20:11.000 Yeah, exactly.

00:20:13.000 Which is crazy.

00:20:14.000 They'll think that they have a higher perceived...

00:20:16.000 Status than you.

00:20:19.000 Monarchs1 says, Will you guys promote passport bros more overseas?

00:20:23.000 Where is that for girls from other countries? 1.00

00:20:25.000 And they're very different from US girls when you're getting Jordan Peterson.

00:20:31.000 Jordan Peterson.

00:20:32.000 I don't think Peterson promotes passport bros.

00:20:35.000 I don't think so either.

00:20:36.000 I've never heard him once mention anything about passport bros.

00:20:38.000 Listen guys, for all you passport bros out there, man, we love y'all.

00:20:42.000 We all use the same tool.

00:20:43.000 We have RP awareness, etc.

00:20:44.000 But I want you guys to get this through your heads. 1.00

00:20:47.000 Women don't give a fuck that y'all niggas are going to Brazil, that you guys are going to fucking, well, used to be Ukraine, Colombia, Philippines, Thailand, whatever. 1.00

00:20:58.000 Women don't give a fuck that you guys are going to other countries to find women, alright? 1.00

00:21:02.000 They keep asking, yo, ask the girls what they think about passport bros, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

00:21:07.000 Women don't give a fuck, bro. 1.00

00:21:09.000 They really don't. 1.00

00:21:09.000 Hell, we can go to Colombia and say, we're going to be passport bros too. 1.00

00:21:12.000 They won't give a fuck if we left either. 0.99

00:21:14.000 Alright, guys? 0.99

00:21:15.000 So understand that women don't give a shit because they were never interested in the first place. 1.00

00:21:20.000 That's why I want you guys to get this through your heads. 0.99

00:21:23.000 Not enough Red Pill content creators say this uncomfortable truth.

00:21:27.000 Women in general don't like men. 1.00

00:21:31.000 Get this through your fucking heads. 1.00

00:21:35.000 Okay? 1.00

00:21:36.000 Women in general don't like men. 1.00

00:21:41.000 Accept it, understand it, and change your tactics because of it.

00:21:45.000 That's the cold, hard reality.

00:21:48.000 The reason you can go to Colombia, you go to Thailand, you go to these poor countries and get the best out of women is because you have higher perceived status in these countries and feminism hasn't leaked in And indoctrinated the women to think that they're better than you and they don't need you. 1.00

00:21:48.000 Alright? 1.00

00:22:05.000 Women still have some semblance of needing a man. 1.00

00:22:08.000 Versus in the United States, women want men. 1.00

00:22:10.000 There's a big difference between wanting a man and needing a man.

00:22:13.000 Poor countries, women need a man because it's difficult to have certain economic opportunities. 1.00

00:22:18.000 In the United States, women want a man. 1.00

00:22:19.000 So since they want a man, they only want the best men. 0.97

00:22:22.000 Okay?

00:22:23.000 That's the cold heart reality not enough guys in the red pill talk about.

00:22:26.000 Women just don't like y'all that much. 1.00

00:22:28.000 Okay?

00:22:28.000 That goes for us too.

00:22:29.000 We're not safe either.

00:22:30.000 There's a lot of girls that don't like us. 1.00

00:22:32.000 All we've been able to do really is elevate our status to a certain level, keep ourselves attractive to a degree where we have a better chance of less girls not liking us.

00:22:40.000 But it doesn't change the fact that most women don't even like us either.

00:22:44.000 Yeah, especially Amari.

00:22:45.000 Alright, yeah, me too.

00:22:46.000 Right?

00:22:46.000 Yeah, especially me.

00:22:47.000 So, once you guys understand this, it's gonna make that bitter pill a little bit better, easier to swallow.

00:22:53.000 Swallow, yeah. 0.99

00:22:53.000 That when you get flaked on or when you get fuckery for women, you understand, okay, well, most girls just don't like niggas. 0.99

00:22:58.000 That's just how it is. 0.99

00:23:00.000 The thing is, is that girls can't openly say this, right?

00:23:03.000 They do it through other means. 1.00

00:23:04.000 Fuck niggas, I don't need no man, blah, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

00:23:06.000 They do it through other means. 1.00

00:23:08.000 But in general, right, by their actions, women don't like men that much. 0.54

00:23:12.000 They just don't. 0.98

00:23:13.000 I literally have an entire chapter dedicated to just this talking about how women don't like men that much because they don't fucking need you anymore. 0.98

00:23:20.000 Yeah. 0.98

00:23:21.000 Thanks to feminism. 1.00

00:23:21.000 That's the root cause of all this. 1.00

00:23:23.000 And actually, they throw you guys in the group chats all the time.

00:23:25.000 It's crazy to see what they say, bro.

00:23:27.000 Like, bro, like, I love y'all passport bros.

00:23:29.000 And here, you guys keep doing it.

00:23:30.000 Keep giving guys the game.

00:23:31.000 Keep telling them where to go.

00:23:32.000 Keep telling them where they can go meet beautiful women, et cetera. 1.00

00:23:35.000 Women that are better. 0.99

00:23:37.000 But understand that modern day women in general Don't give a fuck that you guys are leaving the United States. 1.00

00:23:42.000 And the girls that are bad, the most attractive women, don't even realize you guys are gone. 1.00

00:23:46.000 The only girls that might know about it a little bit are the weird chicks on this side of the internet that look at RP content that aren't hot in the fucking first place. 1.00

00:23:53.000 Bad bitches don't give a fuck that y'all niggas are leaving. 1.00

00:23:55.000 That's the cold hard truth. 1.00

00:23:56.000 Yeah, bro.

00:23:57.000 We did a poll here the other day.

00:23:59.000 How many of y'all know about Password Bros?

00:24:02.000 What is that?

00:24:05.000 They have passports from their brothers?

00:24:07.000 Yeah, like what?

00:24:07.000 What is that?

00:24:08.000 Yeah! 1.00

00:24:09.000 These bitches can't even name three countries! 1.00

00:24:11.000 You think they give a fuck? 1.00

00:24:12.000 You think they give a fuck that y'all niggas are leaving? 1.00

00:24:16.000 Oh, man. 1.00

00:24:17.000 That's big facts, though. 1.00

00:24:19.000 What the fuck, man? 0.99

00:24:20.000 All right, Chris, let's do 20 it up, and let's get into the first point. 0.99

00:24:22.000 Chicks flick on me Saturday. 1.00

00:24:24.000 Didn't react, found a replacement two hours later.

00:24:26.000 Before you guys, I did get upset.

00:24:28.000 Now we have an abundance mindset.

00:24:30.000 Show the fresh and fit from Francisco.

00:24:31.000 Cool.

00:24:32.000 And Mamet says, would you be up to moderating a debate between Destiny and the Saint of Sinner?

00:24:36.000 Would be fire.

00:24:38.000 Yeah, we can.

00:24:39.000 I mean, I don't mind it.

00:24:40.000 We're friends with both of them.

00:24:42.000 Shout out to the Saint of Sinner.

00:24:44.000 Yo, he was roasting that chick yesterday, bro.

00:24:45.000 He was?

00:24:46.000 He was cooking her.

00:24:47.000 Hey, man.

00:24:48.000 Shout out to him as well.

00:24:49.000 Shout out to Marquette, man.

00:24:51.000 Yeah, next time he's in town, we can set it up.

00:24:53.000 We're all in the same space, man.

00:24:54.000 Yeah, we're all in the same space, bro.

00:24:55.000 Like I said, I get along with Destiny.

00:24:57.000 I get along one more quick.

00:24:58.000 Shout out to both of those guys.

00:25:00.000 They're both very sharp individuals.

00:25:03.000 My name is Be Nice.

00:25:04.000 Y'all considering getting T. Kirkland on the podcast, this is pretty RP aware.

00:25:08.000 I consider doing a collab with Kevin Samuels.

00:25:11.000 All right.

00:25:12.000 Alex the Best says, I just canceled a date to go hit the gym.

00:25:15.000 Instead, she blocked me. 0.68

00:25:16.000 LOL. See, girls don't do well with that rejection, though. 1.00

00:25:18.000 Amen.

00:25:20.000 They'll get mad at you, but if they do it to you, they won't get mad at all.

00:25:22.000 Yeah, thanks.

00:25:23.000 Mouth's forehead vein.

00:25:24.000 Ayo, Myron, talking about all this womanizing got me thinking. 0.98

00:25:27.000 We should invite the legends from Simple Pickup.

00:25:29.000 Having the old school with new school can help a lot of the audience.

00:25:32.000 Shout out to the merch gang.

00:25:33.000 I don't know where they're at right now.

00:25:34.000 I think Kong is doing his own thing and then the other indie guy has his own program.

00:25:40.000 I forgot what it's called again.

00:25:41.000 Yeah, I don't...

00:25:42.000 I don't know where they're at, bro, honestly.

00:25:44.000 Yeah.

00:25:45.000 I'm gonna try to get mystery for y'all, though.

00:25:47.000 I'm gonna keep working on getting mystery for y'all.

00:25:48.000 Yeah, he is a mystery.

00:25:49.000 Yeah.

00:25:51.000 Literally, he's a mystery.

00:25:52.000 This guy's only new.

00:25:53.000 Yeah, I'm going to work on getting him for y'all because I think that would be really cool because, I mean, people can say whatever they want to say about Mystery, but he definitely was a legend in this space and he definitely gave a lot of concepts and ideas as to becoming an attractive guy and the whole seduction thing.

00:26:12.000 Originally a lot of concepts.

00:26:13.000 Yeah.

00:26:14.000 RepoDaddy says, send you the info on your DMs, Chris.

00:26:16.000 Need that whole fax?

00:26:17.000 Thanks, man.

00:26:18.000 Vanessa says, yes, it takes time to develop yourself.

00:26:20.000 In the meantime, whiten your teeth, have spearmint gum breath, chapstick, and wear cologne.

00:26:25.000 We'll definitely help you get the real women in. 1.00

00:26:27.000 We'll be drawn to you.

00:26:28.000 Big facts.

00:26:29.000 And last one here, Ethan says, guys, I told this girl I live alone.

00:26:32.000 Now she wants to link Friday.

00:26:33.000 I live with my mom. 0.96

00:26:34.000 Am I screwed? 0.98

00:26:37.000 Hey, man. 0.95

00:26:38.000 Call her when she's not home.

00:26:39.000 There you go.

00:26:40.000 Now, we got points to cover here.

00:26:42.000 That's the topic, right?

00:26:43.000 Yeah, we got 5,000 plus of you guys in here.

00:26:45.000 So, number one, thank you for joining the show.

00:26:47.000 Like the video.

00:26:48.000 Subscribe to the channel.

00:26:49.000 Rumble.com slash Fresher Fit Guys.

00:26:49.000 We're live on Rumble.

00:26:51.000 Subscribe to that.

00:26:52.000 And also subscribe to Fresher Fit Clips.

00:26:53.000 So, we're going to get into...

00:26:54.000 We have five or six different points here.

00:26:56.000 I'm just going to go ahead and read them in no particular order because they're all very, very important.

00:27:02.000 Round one.

00:27:03.000 Fight!

00:27:04.000 So number one, guys.

00:27:06.000 FaceTime and or phone call over text messages.

00:27:11.000 With girls.

00:27:11.000 Okay?

00:27:11.000 Very important.

00:27:13.000 And I'll kind of give a...

00:27:15.000 Marks, you want to hit this first?

00:27:16.000 Yeah, I got it.

00:27:17.000 You do this a lot.

00:27:18.000 Yeah, this thing could put me on the spot.

00:27:20.000 But basically, right, guys?

00:27:21.000 Understand, girls are getting hit up 24-7 by you, a guy she met at work, a guy she met at the coffee shop, she's been hit up on Instagram, all over, right?

00:27:29.000 So the main point is, how is she going to remember you out of all these guys?

00:27:32.000 And what it is?

00:27:33.000 Feeling a connection.

00:27:34.000 So off-rip, right?

00:27:35.000 You text a girl back and forth, it's texting.

00:27:37.000 It's not anything intimate.

00:27:39.000 It's just like, back and forth texting, cool.

00:27:41.000 But you do a FaceTime call, they sing you one-on-one, they sing your emotions, how you move, how your energy is, And once again, guys, the vibe that I talk about is how you make them feel.

00:27:51.000 So if you're on a FaceTime call with a chick and you connect with her on a level, she's going to say, you know what? 0.98

00:27:55.000 Damn, he's pretty cool. 0.98

00:27:56.000 I'm going on a date. 0.98

00:27:57.000 However, if you just text all day back and forth, hey, how's your day?

00:28:01.000 How's work?

00:28:02.000 It's like, bro, you're just a pen pal.

00:28:04.000 But FaceTime call has a more intimate presence.

00:28:06.000 And at the same time, if you're not scared at all, if you're not nervous, you can put yourself in a better light.

00:28:10.000 So I would say, guys, if you want to make a connection with a girl up front for a date, FaceTime between 20 to...

00:28:16.000 How long?

00:28:17.000 Yeah, I say somewhere between 10 to 20 minutes.

00:28:20.000 10 on the lower end, 30 at the absolute highest.

00:28:22.000 Yeah, highest.

00:28:23.000 At the absolute highest.

00:28:24.000 I think 15 to 20 is the sweet spot that you want to be in.

00:28:27.000 And the other reason too why you guys want to FaceTime is it lets you build a stronger connection over a shorter duration of time.

00:28:33.000 So therefore you don't have to spend as much time.

00:28:35.000 So I would say if you spend 10 to 15 minutes on a FaceTime call, that's the equivalent of like two to three days of texting a girl.

00:28:41.000 Right?

00:28:42.000 Like that same building, that same level of connection.

00:28:44.000 Because you've got to get her invested in you to some degree.

00:28:46.000 The other reason why FaceTime calling is good is because it allows her to see her face.

00:28:50.000 She allows her to see how you speak.

00:28:52.000 It allows you to see her too.

00:28:55.000 Make sure she look like her pictures. 0.99

00:28:56.000 Because we all know most of these bitches don't anyway. 1.00

00:28:57.000 So, if you guys... 0.98

00:28:59.000 My rule of thumb is, if you see a girl on Instagram, always assume she's going to be one to two points below her pictures, guys.

00:29:04.000 Every single time.

00:29:05.000 Like, y'all have seen it where... 0.97

00:29:07.000 Hell, nigga, we've been on the show. 0.90

00:29:08.000 Pull up a girl's Instagram on the thing. 0.99

00:29:09.000 Is that you?

00:29:10.000 Is that you? 1.00

00:29:11.000 What the fuck? 1.00

00:29:11.000 Right? 1.00

00:29:12.000 You'll be like, what the hell's going on here?

00:29:13.000 So always assume a girl's one to two points below what she looks like in person anyway. 0.80

00:29:18.000 And the FaceTime call is going to...

00:29:19.000 It kind of gives you a little bit of an advantage as well.

00:29:21.000 Because when you FaceTime call her, she doesn't have the benefit of filters and weird angles to use to make herself look better. 1.00

00:29:29.000 So it kind of takes her off her pedestal a little bit, puts her on her back foot, and gives you, for once, an advantage to talk to her.

00:29:35.000 And then also, it's very important for her to see your tonality and how you speak.

00:29:38.000 Because a lot of the times when you just text a girl...

00:29:41.000 Context is missing and she doesn't know how you speak, right?

00:29:43.000 So if you're like a sarcastic guy like me, that joke might not be taken well over text versus if you get that same joke on FaceTime, it'll make sense.

00:29:51.000 And this, guys, this is very important.

00:29:53.000 How you start the call and end the call.

00:29:55.000 So off-rip, right?

00:29:56.000 Let's say you text it back and forth.

00:29:57.000 Hey, I'm pretty busy, but when are you free for a FaceTime call?

00:30:01.000 That simple.

00:30:02.000 She'll say, okay, you know, I'm free at 7 p.m.

00:30:04.000 after work or even right now. 1.00

00:30:05.000 Or you can just call her ass. 0.99

00:30:06.000 You could, but she might be at work. 1.00

00:30:08.000 So I just ask first just to make sure.

00:30:09.000 Once that's done, and she's on the phone, make sure you bring up all the time the date...

00:30:15.000 And time and place for the day.

00:30:17.000 So, for example, let's say you're going to text, yo, I'm going to text you at 7 p.m.

00:30:21.000 on Wednesday.

00:30:22.000 Hey, I'm looking forward to seeing you on Wednesday at 7 p.m.

00:30:25.000 Make sure you dress nice, make sure you're looking good, because obviously we're in a nice spot, and I want to have a cool vibe.

00:30:32.000 Then, when you end the call, make sure you're leaving first.

00:30:34.000 So, for example, you may talk to her for 10 minutes, 20 minutes, and you may be like, yo, okay, now that we're talking, you seem pretty cool, I like your vibe.

00:30:41.000 I gotta run because I head back to work, but we'll talk and chop it up on the actual date.

00:30:46.000 So you're gonna end the call smoothly and say you're gonna talk again on the date.

00:30:49.000 Yeah.

00:30:50.000 Another thing, too. 1.00

00:30:51.000 You lover boy, motherfuckers. 1.00

00:30:52.000 Yo, do not get on that FaceTime call and have a full-time conversation. 1.00

00:30:56.000 For four hours. 1.00

00:30:57.000 Ask her about her sign and all this other fucking pussy shit. 1.00

00:30:59.000 You're on that call to establish some basic rapport, build a basic connection, and most importantly, okay, set up the date. 1.00

00:31:08.000 One more time for you, motherfuckers. 1.00

00:31:10.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:31:10.000 Alright? 1.00

00:31:10.000 We gotta spook you this, right? 1.00

00:31:12.000 To make sure that they don't fucking waste time. 0.98

00:31:14.000 Because what'll happen is, that girl, if you're, let's say you're a good talker, you're a good looking guy, whatever it may be, she'll sit there and suck your time and your attention away if she can. 1.00

00:31:23.000 Your job is to give her just a little bit, right? 0.99

00:31:26.000 Build attraction, a little bit of investment, and then set the date, get the fuck out of there. 0.99

00:31:31.000 Okay? 0.98

00:31:32.000 Because girls will sit there and waste your time if they can. 1.00

00:31:35.000 And you don't want to overdo this because some of y'all will be on the phone for an hour, two hours, three hours.

00:31:39.000 You try to set up the date.

00:31:40.000 What's going to happen?

00:31:41.000 Oh, sorry, I got busy.

00:31:43.000 Because why the hell does she actually need to go and meet up with you when she can get what she really wants, your attention, right? 1.00

00:31:50.000 For free.

00:31:50.000 Okay?

00:31:52.000 Why the fuck are you going to buy the car? 0.99

00:31:54.000 When you can drive it around whenever you want it without necessarily having to pay for it. 1.00

00:31:58.000 That's how girls operate. 1.00

00:31:59.000 If they can get your attention for free, talk to you for free, etc., they're not going to meet up with you. 0.97

00:32:04.000 So you've got to put some goddamn value on your attention by making it more scarce. 0.91

00:32:08.000 You set up the call to... 0.99

00:32:10.000 Obviously build rapport, mitigate some flaking, show some attraction, show some tonality, show some dominance, show a little bit of your personality, and then most importantly, set up the goddamn date. 0.99

00:32:21.000 Day, time, location. 0.99

00:32:23.000 Okay?

00:32:24.000 Also as well, just to add to that point, the tone is very important.

00:32:27.000 So guys, obviously speaking, I don't stutter that much on the phone call.

00:32:30.000 I'm more chill, more relaxed, and I keep it cool.

00:32:32.000 This nigga don't talk at all. 1.00

00:32:33.000 You just let the bitch talk. 1.00

00:32:34.000 Ask questions. 1.00

00:32:35.000 So that right there...

00:32:37.000 Makes me interested because she's like, for example, I know about her, but she doesn't know about me.

00:32:41.000 And secondly, the tone is very important.

00:32:42.000 So I got friends, right?

00:32:43.000 They'll go on a phone call, a FaceTime call.

00:32:45.000 They'll be like, yo, the other voice is like, yeah, babe.

00:32:48.000 So when I see you on that date, it's going to be lit, right?

00:32:51.000 You know what time it is.

00:32:52.000 So their voice changes completely.

00:32:53.000 That right there is seductive.

00:32:55.000 It's a lower tone, but still strong.

00:32:58.000 And it's more like manly.

00:32:59.000 So I would just say tone is very important throughout our whole phone call.

00:33:03.000 So that segues perfectly into number two.

00:33:03.000 All right.

00:33:10.000 We told you guys to set up the date, right?

00:33:13.000 When you do set up the date, this is very important.

00:33:16.000 She has to come to you.

00:33:20.000 Alright? 1.00

00:33:21.000 One more time for you motherfuckers. 1.00

00:33:26.000 Alright? 1.00

00:33:26.000 Because I really want to hammer all these points home because if you miss one thing, it's going to lead you to disarray and turmoil down the road. 1.00

00:33:35.000 Always have her come to you.

00:33:38.000 All right?

00:33:38.000 And what I mean, why I say this is because we know women are flaky.

00:33:42.000 We know women are fickle. 1.00

00:33:44.000 And when you go to her, what ends up happening is you start to invest. 1.00

00:33:49.000 And when you have to invest, a lot of times girls don't respect that shit. 1.00

00:33:52.000 Okay? 1.00

00:33:53.000 And they're going to go ahead.

00:33:54.000 They can flake on you.

00:33:55.000 You drive an hour to go meet her.

00:33:56.000 Next thing you know, oh, sorry, I got a stomachache.

00:33:58.000 Or, oh, sorry, I had another appointment.

00:34:00.000 Or all my friends in town or whatever it may be.

00:34:02.000 Never!

00:34:03.000 Never!

00:34:03.000 Don't ever go to a girl.

00:34:05.000 Okay, guys?

00:34:06.000 I don't care.

00:34:07.000 She could be the baddest chick ever. 0.90

00:34:08.000 Don't go to a girl. 1.00

00:34:11.000 She has to come to you.

00:34:13.000 Okay?

00:34:14.000 And the reason why she has to come to you is because we know, as a guy, you're the one planning the date.

00:34:19.000 You're the one setting the date up.

00:34:20.000 You're not going to flake on her 99% of the situations.

00:34:23.000 But she will definitely flake on you in most of the situations. 1.00

00:34:26.000 So don't put yourself in a vulnerable position where you're driving out to some chick.

00:34:30.000 Okay?

00:34:31.000 And then she can flake on you last second, and then you get all mad and pissed off and all this other stuff, which is going to segue to our other points. 0.80

00:34:36.000 But the point is, you have to get the girl to invest in you.

00:34:39.000 Your job as the man, okay, since women are entitled on our pedestals nowadays, a lot of you guys give women more, which is why the book is coming out, Why Women Deserve Less, okay? 0.63

00:34:47.000 Your job is to be that guy that gives the woman less so that she respects you more. 0.89

00:34:52.000 One more time! 1.00

00:34:53.000 You give the woman less, she'll see respects you more, you fucking imbeciles. 1.00

00:34:59.000 Too many of you guys give these girls the star treatment, offer it, she don't fucking respect you, she flakes on dates, she talks to you any fucking way that she wants, and you wonder why you ain't getting no goddamn cheeks. 1.00

00:35:09.000 You ain't getting no goddamn cheeks because she doesn't fucking respect you. 1.00

00:35:12.000 No guy who's worth his fucking marriage assault is gonna drive to a random bitch that he just met off Tinder. 1.00

00:35:17.000 It doesn't work that way. 1.00

00:35:18.000 She's gotta come to you, alright?

00:35:20.000 Don't invest in girls. 1.00

00:35:22.000 They must invest in you first.

00:35:23.000 Then you can reciprocate.

00:35:25.000 You don't invest first.

00:35:26.000 She invests, because remember, you're the one that initiated the conversation. 0.99

00:35:29.000 You've already fucking invested. 0.99

00:35:30.000 So now it's on her to reciprocate that investment and come to you on the first date every single fucking time. 1.00

00:35:38.000 Whether, you know, it's not sipping if you get her Uber. 0.98

00:35:40.000 There's no wrong with that. 0.99

00:35:41.000 She could drive, whatever the fuck it may be. 0.97

00:35:44.000 But she's got to come to you guys. 0.99

00:35:45.000 You don't go to her.

00:35:47.000 Also guys, don't forget, you are paying for the date.

00:35:50.000 So off rip, right?

00:35:51.000 You're the leader.

00:35:52.000 Depending on where you're at, your ear is going to be set up for either a bar, a restaurant, club.

00:35:57.000 The point is, guys, in that dynamic there, you're the leader.

00:35:59.000 So on the date, you set up where she goes.

00:36:01.000 So if she's telling you where to go over by her spot, that's a bad environment, bro.

00:36:05.000 You set up the date, you take it to a nice spot, multiple locations, that you know personally, that we can have a better outcome.

00:36:12.000 Because if it's her spot, bro, you don't know the variables, you don't know what's out there.

00:36:15.000 And, bro, it might be an L. So you drove over there for nothing.

00:36:18.000 So off rip, you're the leader, bro.

00:36:20.000 Set up the date in your environment and make it work, okay?

00:36:23.000 Yeah, you have to do it that way, guys.

00:36:25.000 Because if you do it the other way around, number one, it comes off as a little bit needier because not only did you initiate, but now you're driving to her.

00:36:33.000 So she's going to be like, hmm, is this guy?

00:36:35.000 Because you guys got to understand that so many things are going through girls' heads, right?

00:36:38.000 Especially when they're meeting a guy that they haven't met before.

00:36:40.000 So they'll start to get nervous.

00:36:41.000 They'll second-guess themselves.

00:36:43.000 They'll second-guess you.

00:36:44.000 Wait, if this guy's so cool, why the hell is he driving to me?

00:36:45.000 I'm just some random limbo. 0.99

00:36:47.000 Like, and girls know they ain't shit. 0.99

00:36:49.000 A lot of them, yo, the cold hard truth. 1.00

00:36:52.000 Welcome to Fresh and Fit, motherfuckers, misogyny headquarters. 1.00

00:36:54.000 Yo, most of us know they aren't shit. 1.00

00:36:57.000 So when your dumbass drives over to them, they're like, man, this guy ain't the shit because I ain't shit. 1.00

00:37:01.000 What the fuck is he doing driving to me? 1.00

00:37:02.000 What the fuck? 1.00

00:37:03.000 And on top of that, a lot of girls have weird living situations where the house is fucked up, it's dirty, they have multiple roommates. 1.00

00:37:08.000 They can't bring you back anyway. 0.95

00:37:10.000 All right?

00:37:11.000 So it's got to be on you to have her come to you.

00:37:11.000 Big fact.

00:37:13.000 All right?

00:37:14.000 So that she can invest. 0.95

00:37:16.000 You need girls to invest in you. 1.00

00:37:17.000 Girls start to like you, love you, and invest once they start to invest in you. 1.00

00:37:22.000 All right, guys?

00:37:23.000 Because most girls rarely invest in men. 1.00

00:37:24.000 That's how you get the most out of a girl is when she starts to invest in you. 1.00

00:37:28.000 That's the cold heart reality when it comes to intersexual dynamics with men and women.

00:37:31.000 All right?

00:37:32.000 Most girls are not used to investing in men, so you got to be the differentiator guy. 1.00

00:37:35.000 You know what I hate to hear?

00:37:36.000 When a guy is like, oh, bro, my iron fresh.

00:37:39.000 Like, she wants to bring me alcohol or food to my spot. 1.00

00:37:42.000 Should I tell her to bring me something?

00:37:44.000 I'm like, bro, yes.

00:37:44.000 Why not?

00:37:45.000 She's investing time and energy to bring you an item or gift.

00:37:48.000 Take it.

00:37:49.000 Let her work for you. 0.97

00:37:50.000 Yeah.

00:37:51.000 At least a little bit.

00:37:52.000 Women fall in love with you through servitude. 1.00

00:37:52.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:37:55.000 That's what they're here to do.

00:37:57.000 Like, I know that's, oh my god, Byron, that's so misogynistic.

00:37:59.000 The truth is, a woman would prefer to be with a strong, dominant man that she serves versus working, making her own money, and serving herself in her own life. 0.97

00:38:10.000 Now, most girls do that out of necessity because most guys don't measure up to them. 0.99

00:38:15.000 So they're like, fuck it, I'll go make their own money. 0.98

00:38:16.000 But if she could be with a successful guy that checks all her boxes, etc., she would prefer to serve that man. 1.00

00:38:21.000 Yeah.

00:38:22.000 The problem is that most women don't want to serve most men because they think that they're better than them because of their careers, they make their own money, etc. 1.00

00:38:28.000 I want y'all to be that better guy so she feels comfortable serving you.

00:38:31.000 Or your value isn't high enough.

00:38:32.000 Yeah.

00:38:33.000 That's why women are... 1.00

00:38:34.000 Bro, women want to serve their man and most importantly, their children. 1.00

00:38:38.000 Okay?

00:38:39.000 Remember, women want some semblance of a family. 1.00

00:38:42.000 Alright?

00:38:42.000 And to have an effective family, the woman must be in a serving position to her man and her children.

00:38:47.000 Yeah.

00:38:47.000 Alright.

00:38:49.000 So, okay.

00:38:50.000 Next one here, right?

00:38:51.000 Now we're going to go into round three.

00:38:55.000 Double book.

00:38:56.000 Yes.

00:38:57.000 You want to talk about this?

00:38:58.000 This is what you want to do.

00:38:59.000 Guys, expert at this.

00:39:00.000 This technique is an ancient lost art known to mankind only by the Chinese.

00:39:04.000 And I'm just kidding.

00:39:06.000 No, but, um, so guys, real talk, man.

00:39:07.000 Double booking.

00:39:08.000 What does that mean?

00:39:09.000 That means you book two dates or three dates or four dates the same night.

00:39:14.000 That was easy.

00:39:15.000 Are you wondering, hold on a second here.

00:39:17.000 Why am I going to book multiple dates in one night?

00:39:19.000 That makes no sense.

00:39:20.000 Like, I can't move four places at one time.

00:39:22.000 However, the art is in secrecy.

00:39:25.000 So now...

00:39:26.000 I mentioned earlier, girls flake all the time. 1.00

00:39:29.000 So bro, I guarantee you, out of four, at least two to three might flake.

00:39:33.000 So one might actually show up.

00:39:35.000 So I like to say...

00:39:36.000 Now the ball's in your court.

00:39:38.000 When you double book on a date, right?

00:39:39.000 What happens is, if you have four, let's say you got three dates lined up, right?

00:39:43.000 And let's say two are available, one flakes.

00:39:47.000 Understand that now you're in the power position because you have to make a choice here.

00:39:51.000 Who do you want to go on a date with?

00:39:52.000 So now beforehand, she had the power.

00:39:54.000 But now you do with double booking.

00:39:57.000 In this scenario here, you choose the best-looking one to you, and you go on that date.

00:40:01.000 Now, however, let's say, for example, you do the double booking, and one doesn't show up, and only one is left.

00:40:07.000 Then you have a date, no matter what.

00:40:08.000 I'm just saying, to cover yourself and kind of have like a buffer, double book.

00:40:12.000 Now, worst case scenario is, you double book, and nobody shows up.

00:40:16.000 But I'm just saying, if you want to mitigate the risk, double book.

00:40:19.000 That way, if one flakes, the other one is there to stay.

00:40:22.000 Yeah.

00:40:23.000 Double booking, guys.

00:40:24.000 I'm not going to lie to y'all.

00:40:25.000 I don't like doing it, but it is something that you need to do in today's day and age, bro.

00:40:28.000 Like I told y'all before, you know, the root cause of all this is feminism. 1.00

00:40:31.000 Women don't like men that much. 0.99

00:40:32.000 So you got to go ahead and find a girl that likes you.

00:40:35.000 And sometimes that's going to be accomplished through setting up multiple dates with multiple girls. 1.00

00:40:39.000 What you could do is you could do it where you're supposed to meet at the same time, which is a little bit riskier, but you could do it anyway.

00:40:45.000 Right?

00:40:45.000 Where you got two girls set for a certain time or you can stack it where you got one girl at six or seven, then you got another girl at eight or nine, etc.

00:40:52.000 And the reason why this is so important, guys, is because that naturally gives you an abundance mindset.

00:40:56.000 So when a girl does flake, you don't act emotional, which actually segues to another point that we got. 0.99

00:41:03.000 If and when she does flake, guys, don't get emotional about that shit. 0.98

00:41:06.000 Can I give an example of how to double book? 0.99

00:41:07.000 Yeah, go ahead.

00:41:08.000 So just...

00:41:08.000 Because we're attacking two different points here that work in tandem.

00:41:11.000 Some contacts here, guys.

00:41:12.000 So...

00:41:13.000 This is me back in the day.

00:41:14.000 As a man of God, I don't do this anymore.

00:41:16.000 You know, I'm more veered now, but back in the day, what I would do, right?

00:41:20.000 I would set the day up for the 7 p.m.

00:41:22.000 So I finish work at 5, get home, shower, whatever.

00:41:24.000 Day at 7, right?

00:41:25.000 If she shows up, great.

00:41:27.000 And she probably will show up.

00:41:28.000 But if she doesn't show up, cool.

00:41:29.000 I've done a date set for like 8.30 p.m. 0.98

00:41:31.000 So if she sucks or she's not cool at all, the vibe isn't there, all right, bet. 0.93

00:41:35.000 by 7.30, I already know what time it is. 0.99

00:41:35.000 7 p.m. 0.99

00:41:37.000 All right, you know what?

00:41:38.000 I got work in the morning.

00:41:39.000 Boom.

00:41:39.000 I got to go.

00:41:40.000 So remember, one's at 7.

00:41:42.000 Next set is at 8.30.

00:41:44.000 So wait a little bit.

00:41:45.000 The second date shows up.

00:41:46.000 Cool, I'll go on that date.

00:41:47.000 But let's say, for example, the first date was awesome.

00:41:49.000 The connection was there.

00:41:50.000 The vibe was there.

00:41:51.000 Second date, hey, something came up.

00:41:53.000 I can't make it.

00:41:54.000 Because I guarantee you, bro, she'll do it to you without even a thing in a heartbeat.

00:41:58.000 It sounds harsh, but bro, they don't care about how you feel when they flake.

00:42:02.000 So why don't you care about how you feel?

00:42:04.000 I mean, how they feel when you flake.

00:42:05.000 It's like, for example, you're in a position where you're in power rather than you're in a losing position.

00:42:10.000 And I just say, for example...

00:42:12.000 Spread it out, like 7pm, 8.30, 10.30.

00:42:16.000 That way you've got time to rethink or see where they're at.

00:42:19.000 And if you like one, just stay there.

00:42:21.000 Don't move.

00:42:22.000 But I'm just saying, off rip, if they're going to flake, make sure that you're in a good position to win.

00:42:26.000 That's all. 0.97

00:42:27.000 I mean, another thing you could do if you're a little bit riskier is you could just meet them both at the same fucking place, which is hilarious. 0.98

00:42:32.000 I've seen that happen as well. 0.98

00:42:33.000 Justin Tate! 1.00

00:42:34.000 Yeah, you could do that type of shit. 1.00

00:42:35.000 The wrangle! 1.00

00:42:35.000 Yeah, you know what I mean? 1.00

00:42:36.000 So you could do that as well, and you'd be amazed at how girls will respond to that shit. 1.00

00:42:40.000 It'll automatically put them into competition anxiety. 1.00

00:42:42.000 You gotta be a G though.

00:42:43.000 Yeah, you gotta have your young together to do that.

00:42:45.000 You've got to have a high-status game. 0.91

00:42:47.000 You've got to have everything all together because some girls might take it as an insult and not even want to fucking stay. 1.00

00:42:53.000 So, rest the piece of Tom Terrell. 0.94

00:42:55.000 He told a story about this.

00:42:56.000 We just had two girls show up at the same time, which is hilarious. 0.66

00:42:58.000 But regardless, guys, the point is that you end up multiple dates stacked so that you have an abundance mindset because that leads into one of our other points, which is...

00:43:10.000 It allows you to not be emotional when a girl does inevitably, if it does flake.

00:43:14.000 Because it is going to happen. 1.00

00:43:15.000 She's going to say some bullshit. 1.00

00:43:16.000 Oh, sorry, I don't feel so good. 1.00

00:43:18.000 Or, oh, something came up.

00:43:19.000 Or, can we rain check? 0.99

00:43:20.000 You know, one of these fuckery responses that girls give last minute. 1.00

00:43:23.000 So, you don't want to go, you stupid bitch! 1.00

00:43:26.000 Fuck you! 1.00

00:43:27.000 Blah, blah, blah. 1.00

00:43:27.000 Because you know what's going to happen in her head? 1.00

00:43:29.000 She's going to go...

00:43:31.000 I'm glad I didn't go out with him. 1.00

00:43:32.000 You're crazy anyway. 1.00

00:43:33.000 And they'll use that to rationalize in their head their fuckery, right? 1.00

00:43:36.000 Again, guys, get this through your brains. 1.00

00:43:41.000 Women have no fucking honor, okay? 1.00

00:43:45.000 Integrity, being a man of your word, all these things, these are masculine traits. 1.00

00:43:50.000 Men are taught, do what's right.

00:43:51.000 Women are taught, do what's right for you, girl. 1.00

00:43:54.000 Now, will girls show some honor maybe with another female? 1.00

00:43:57.000 Yeah, maybe. 0.98

00:43:58.000 But they don't give a fuck about showing honor to you. 0.97

00:44:00.000 Because women are not put in a position typically where... 1.00

00:44:03.000 You have to serve a man or show some type of honor.

00:44:06.000 So she'll flake on you and not think twice about it. 1.00

00:44:08.000 Or if you go, you stupid bitch, fuck you, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

00:44:12.000 She's in her head that to rationalize her poor treatment of you as a human being, she'll go ahead and say, oh, I'm glad I didn't go out and date with you because you're crazy. 1.00

00:44:22.000 And they'll use that to go ahead and hamster their excuse and mechanism to not feel at, to not, um, Take accountability for their actions.

00:44:30.000 This is what girls do. 1.00

00:44:31.000 They manufacture bullshit in their head for why they do fuck shit. 1.00

00:44:34.000 That's the reality. 1.00

00:44:36.000 That's the hard reality. 1.00

00:44:37.000 You guys call me an asshole, call me a jerk, whatever it may be, but this is how women think. 1.00

00:44:41.000 They'll flake on a date with you to get a reaction out of you, and then once they get that reaction out of you, they'll go ahead and say, oh, I'm glad I didn't go. 1.00

00:44:48.000 This motherfucker's crazy. 1.00

00:44:49.000 And that will let them hamster no accountability in their head as usual. 1.00

00:44:53.000 Y'all know that modern-day women don't have accountability in general. 1.00

00:44:55.000 When you do that shit, you give them a nice excuse to go ahead and say, oh, look at this girl. 1.00

00:44:59.000 He crazy. 1.00

00:45:00.000 Or they just want to get a reaction out of you.

00:45:03.000 Man, very important, guys.

00:45:05.000 You need frame.

00:45:06.000 Perfect.

00:45:06.000 And if you get out of character, you get upset for a flaking, she already won the battle.

00:45:10.000 So here's how you do it, right?

00:45:13.000 Let's say you set up a date, you leave for early, you get a reservation, you dress nice, you buy a new outfit, you're excited for this date, right?

00:45:21.000 And she says to you, sorry love, my mom's sick, I need to go to the hospital, and my cat died of leukemia.

00:45:30.000 And you're like, bro, this is cap.

00:45:32.000 This is total cap.

00:45:33.000 And you're mad as hell because you spent a lot of time preparing for this date, setting it up, and now she's not going to show up.

00:45:38.000 However, like I said before, if you follow the steps we did earlier, right?

00:45:43.000 Double book.

00:45:44.000 You know, your frame is on point.

00:45:46.000 And, as well, if you want to add to another layer, just add another point here, you show you can still go on that date with somebody else.

00:45:52.000 So, for example, what I used to do back in the day, Cool.

00:45:57.000 Remember, I double booked.

00:45:58.000 So I would bring the other girl to that same spot, and I'd post it on my Instagram story.

00:46:02.000 So mind you, all girls that I talked to back in the day were on my Instagram.

00:46:05.000 So I'd always follow them, they'd always follow me, so they would see me still on that date with somebody else. 0.99

00:46:10.000 I'm like, damn! 0.98

00:46:11.000 I missed out. 1.00

00:46:12.000 Now imagine if I got mad or angry, like, yo, you dumb hoe, blah, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

00:46:16.000 Like, I don't want to see you. 0.99

00:46:18.000 Then she would be like, you know what?

00:46:19.000 However, me being chill, calm, no problem.

00:46:19.000 I'm turned off.

00:46:22.000 Cool.

00:46:22.000 Have a good night.

00:46:23.000 I go to somebody else to that same location.

00:46:25.000 We have a great time. 1.00

00:46:26.000 She's like, damn, that shit a little lit. 0.99

00:46:28.000 Hey, sorry, love about flicking the other day, but like, are you free tomorrow? 1.00

00:46:31.000 So me being calm and collected and cool, she's like, damn, he's not bothered. 0.90

00:46:35.000 He's different. 0.95

00:46:35.000 What do most guys do? 0.95

00:46:37.000 You dumb hoe! 1.00

00:46:38.000 Or like, fuck you! 1.00

00:46:39.000 And off rip! 1.00

00:46:40.000 Emotional state is gone.

00:46:41.000 The frame is gone.

00:46:42.000 So she's like, oh yeah.

00:46:43.000 Like you said earlier, justified.

00:46:44.000 You can call girls out, but you don't want to do it in a butthurt manner.

00:46:48.000 Yeah, yeah.

00:46:49.000 You can say, oh, okay.

00:46:50.000 Well, that's fine.

00:46:51.000 Not really.

00:46:52.000 You know what I mean?

00:46:54.000 Two ways you could do it.

00:46:55.000 Yeah, go ahead.

00:46:55.000 Either be nonchalant, chill about it, like, no problem, cool, or call them out in a smooth way.

00:47:00.000 Yeah, yeah. 1.00

00:47:00.000 You don't say, you stupid bitch, you don't swear at them, it's not aggressive. 1.00

00:47:03.000 You'd be like, oh, all right, well, I guess flaking is a new thing to do nowadays. 1.00

00:47:07.000 Ha ha ha, make a joke about it, right?

00:47:08.000 But call her out at the same time. 0.79

00:47:09.000 You could do that.

00:47:09.000 Yeah.

00:47:10.000 But the point is, is that you don't want to show that you're a butthurt or mad. 0.90

00:47:13.000 Yeah.

00:47:14.000 Because once you do that, again, it allows her to take zero accountability. 0.99

00:47:19.000 And justify her fuckery. 1.00

00:47:19.000 Justify flaking. 1.00

00:47:21.000 When you get mad, it lets them justify their fuckery, guys. 0.99

00:47:21.000 And then she wins. 0.99

00:47:26.000 I'm telling y'all, bro.

00:47:27.000 Like, women really don't have accountability. 1.00

00:47:29.000 If you guys don't fucking believe me, watch Fresh and Fit After Hours, goddammit, where y'all see that the girls take zero fucking accountability, bro. 1.00

00:47:35.000 Zero accountability. 0.99

00:47:36.000 Because society doesn't hold them accountable. 0.99

00:47:38.000 So why the fuck are they going to be held accountable? 0.99

00:47:40.000 Excuse me. 0.99

00:47:40.000 Facts. 0.99

00:47:41.000 Society doesn't hold them accountable, so why the fuck are they going to take accountability? 0.97

00:47:44.000 Facts. 0.98

00:47:45.000 That's just the reality.

00:47:46.000 They don't have to.

00:47:46.000 Women don't deal with the consequences of their actions most of the time.

00:47:49.000 And if she's really attractive, she might have never dealt with consequences in her fucking life. 1.00

00:47:53.000 I know you're saying, freshman, this sounds harsh, bro. 0.99

00:47:56.000 I just want to choose one girl and have one date, bro.

00:47:58.000 If it was the other hand, they don't care about how you feel, bro.

00:48:00.000 So why do you care?

00:48:01.000 Yeah, bro.

00:48:02.000 Seriously.

00:48:03.000 Alright, cool.

00:48:04.000 Let's go ahead and we got a quick little ad break and then we're going to continue on with the show, guys.

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00:49:33.000 So, guys, real quick, we're going to kill Twitter, Twitch, and Facebook, because what we're going to get into now is not politically correct at all.

00:49:39.000 It's not politically correct at all.

00:49:41.000 Hey, man, we're the older brothers that you guys need, okay?

00:49:45.000 Come on over to YouTube right now.

00:49:46.000 We're going to give y'all some sauce.

00:49:47.000 Yeah, YouTube and Rumble only.

00:49:51.000 So we got two other points.

00:49:52.000 Actually, you know what?

00:49:53.000 This is important.

00:49:54.000 Guys, another thing, right, to mitigate flakes.

00:49:56.000 I want you guys to start collecting more than one contact point, okay?

00:49:59.000 What do I mean by this?

00:50:01.000 I need you guys to collect a phone number and an Instagram bare minimum, okay?

00:50:06.000 And if you don't, let's say your Instagram sucks or whatever, pick up a WhatsApp or a Telegram.

00:50:09.000 Why do I say this? 0.77

00:50:10.000 Or Snapchat.

00:50:11.000 Or Snapchat.

00:50:12.000 Snapchat too. 1.00

00:50:12.000 Yeah, damn. 1.00

00:50:13.000 Whatever works. 1.00

00:50:14.000 Yeah, depending on the girl. 0.87

00:50:15.000 And the reason why I say this, guys, is because...

00:50:18.000 Sometimes girls aren't as responsive on one medium as another one. 1.00

00:50:22.000 I'll give you guys an example.

00:50:24.000 Let's say it's an attractive girl, right? 0.97

00:50:26.000 And she gets a bunch of text messages.

00:50:29.000 I'll be honest with y'all. 1.00

00:50:31.000 There's girls out there that will fuck you twice and still not have you saved in her contacts on her fucking phone. 1.00

00:50:35.000 That's called our reality. 1.00

00:50:37.000 You'll call her ass and it'll still be the number and she don't know who the fuck it is, right? 1.00

00:50:41.000 And then if you text her, she might not remember who you are either. 1.00

00:50:44.000 Alright?

00:50:45.000 So, another point of contact, let's say on Instagram, where there's a face of the name, if you've been displaying higher value on Instagram, DHVing, she'll remember who you are even more so.

00:50:54.000 So, having that second contact point will allow you, right, to be able to continue contact and or...

00:51:01.000 Maintain contact with a girl that is typically maybe a little bit harder to reach because a lot of girls, guys have filters on their phones where they don't get messages from certain phones or they might not have you saved.

00:51:11.000 They get a bunch of text messages every single day.

00:51:13.000 So she might not catch you on iMessage, but she'll catch you on Instagram.

00:51:18.000 Or let's say her Instagram is blowing up too, but she uses WhatsApp a lot because you're abroad or something like that.

00:51:24.000 Well, she might see you on WhatsApp.

00:51:26.000 So having multiple contact points a lot of the times will allow her Allow you to stay in her mind as far as being able to maintain conversations and set up the date.

00:51:35.000 You're only texting, DMing, or doing FaceTime to set up dates, guys.

00:51:40.000 And you need to maintain that contact in the period leading up to the date.

00:51:44.000 And having more than one medium allows you to do that.

00:51:47.000 Again, you want multiple points of failure.

00:51:49.000 If you only have one point of failure, you're done.

00:51:51.000 If you've got two points of failure, you have another route to go.

00:51:54.000 Bro, we know girls that literally don't respond to texts. 1.00

00:51:58.000 Only FaceTime calls from people that actually know and DMs on Instagram.

00:52:01.000 Because to them, texting is no point.

00:52:04.000 Either FaceTime me or I want to see who you are on Instagram.

00:52:07.000 Some girls only talk on Snapchat. 1.00

00:52:09.000 Yeah.

00:52:10.000 I hate to say it, guys, but you've got to have multiple points of contact because Every girl's different as to where she's most responsive. 0.92

00:52:15.000 And here's the benefit of using Instagram or Snapchat.

00:52:17.000 You can show lifestyle.

00:52:18.000 So often, they're not right.

00:52:20.000 Girls get phone numbers from guys. 0.83

00:52:21.000 They don't know who they are.

00:52:22.000 They might not remember.

00:52:23.000 However, a lifestyle post, seeing your Instagram page, if it's getting lit, it's like, oh, this guy's pretty interesting.

00:52:29.000 And you'd be surprised how many girls will say, you know what? 0.95

00:52:32.000 This guy's cool and all, but I don't know him like that.

00:52:35.000 I'll go back to my ex because I know my ex.

00:52:37.000 However, you have a social media page.

00:52:39.000 Oh, he's cool.

00:52:41.000 He's in, like, a fun time.

00:52:42.000 I'm gonna go check him out and see what's up.

00:52:44.000 So that one point of connection, Instagram, Snapchat, who knows what Twitter they want to use to say, you know what? 0.76

00:52:51.000 Damn, this guy's interesting. 0.75

00:52:52.000 I want to see more. 0.98

00:52:53.000 It helps.

00:52:54.000 Yeah, it does.

00:52:55.000 It does, man.

00:52:56.000 Because if you only have one point of failure, guys...

00:52:58.000 Well, if that one point of failure fails, you're done.

00:53:02.000 It's tough, bro.

00:53:03.000 Yeah, especially with the new iPhone update.

00:53:05.000 It allows them to filter out their messages in certain ways, different inboxes.

00:53:09.000 So she might not even see your joint, guys.

00:53:11.000 That's the reality.

00:53:12.000 Look at any girl that's halfway attracted to this phone. 1.00

00:53:14.000 Hundreds, if not thousands of messages, bro.

00:53:16.000 A bunch of emails.

00:53:18.000 Any average looking girl's phone, dude, you look at her joint, it's lit up with notifications. 0.98

00:53:18.000 It's wild. 0.98

00:53:23.000 And we've had students in the Damage On Demand course that said, yo, bro, me posting my lifestyle posts on Instagram, girls that were flicking on me, hit me up after the fact.

00:53:32.000 Respond to my stories.

00:53:33.000 So it happens, bro.

00:53:34.000 That's just how it goes, man.

00:53:35.000 Having multiple points of contact is very, very important, guys.

00:53:38.000 It's actually an underrated tactic. 0.97

00:53:40.000 And again, guys, y'all ain't gonna get sauce like this anywhere else because there's no one else in the RP sphere that's still young, in the game, in the United States, doing this shit. 0.98

00:53:50.000 Every single day. 0.99

00:53:51.000 Every day doing this shit. 1.00

00:53:52.000 Niggas out here really doing this shit, bro. 1.00

00:53:53.000 You know what I mean? 1.00

00:53:54.000 Most of these guys, they're old. 0.99

00:53:57.000 They don't know what the fuck is going on. 1.00

00:53:58.000 They're unaware. 1.00

00:53:59.000 Or...

00:54:00.000 Let's be honest. 0.98

00:54:01.000 You're just dealing with ugly hoes. 1.00

00:54:02.000 We're here in Miami who deal with the most attractive, most hypergamous chicks. 1.00

00:54:06.000 So we're giving you a real-time game on how the fuck this shit works. 1.00

00:54:09.000 In the West! 1.00

00:54:10.000 A lot of dudes be out here getting a third-world pussy trying to flex. 1.00

00:54:12.000 Bro! 1.00

00:54:13.000 We're here in Miami.

00:54:14.000 First-world hoes. 1.00

00:54:15.000 First-world problems.

00:54:16.000 Still making it happen.

00:54:18.000 Evening!

00:54:19.000 The meet and greet.

00:54:21.000 Y'all party one mil.

00:54:22.000 Y'all saw us in action, man.

00:54:23.000 Y'all did see us in action. 1.00

00:54:25.000 For all those fucking losers. 1.00

00:54:27.000 These guys don't even get girls. 1.00

00:54:31.000 You fucking hating faggots. 1.00

00:54:35.000 We do what we gotta do out here. 1.00

00:54:35.000 We get girls. 1.00

00:54:37.000 We teach you now the sauce.

00:54:38.000 We're only able to give you guys this level of detail.

00:54:40.000 Why? 1.00

00:54:41.000 Because we fucking do and live this shit. 1.00

00:54:44.000 A lot of these guys, they're out here talking about Niggas are in third world countries talking about I got game. 1.00

00:54:50.000 Fuck out of here, nigga. 1.00

00:54:51.000 I can get a passport. 1.00

00:54:52.000 Go there, too.

00:54:53.000 Live with no script, bro.

00:54:53.000 Yo, fresh.

00:54:55.000 Yeah, we're doing this shit live. 0.99

00:54:56.000 I just took some notes. 1.00

00:54:56.000 Live. 1.00

00:54:56.000 From the dome, nigga. 1.00

00:54:57.000 I got one page of notes here. 0.66

00:54:59.000 Not even have a page. 0.97

00:55:00.000 Dude, this is in my head, nigga. 1.00

00:55:01.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:55:01.000 Live this shit. 1.00

00:55:02.000 We live this. 1.00

00:55:03.000 Mine was carried out by three girls.

00:55:03.000 Yo.

00:55:05.000 Yeah.

00:55:06.000 Yeah.

00:55:06.000 Three girls.

00:55:06.000 Yeah.

00:55:07.000 Yeah.

00:55:07.000 It's about three girls.

00:55:08.000 Literally.

00:55:09.000 Literally.

00:55:10.000 Yes, sir.

00:55:10.000 I should have let...

00:55:12.000 I mean, allegedly.

00:55:14.000 Allegedly.

00:55:15.000 Two girls a day keeps the flakes away. 0.98

00:55:17.000 Allegedly.

00:55:18.000 All right, man.

00:55:19.000 And then one more point, and then the last point for Rumble.

00:55:22.000 Yeah, yeah.

00:55:22.000 Yeah.

00:55:24.000 So, shit, where are we at here? 0.99

00:55:26.000 Oh, we should read the chats. 1.00

00:55:27.000 Okay, chats.

00:55:28.000 Last one.

00:55:28.000 Oh, yeah, guys, do me a favor.

00:55:30.000 Like the video, subscribe to the channel, by the way.

00:55:33.000 Follow up.

00:55:33.000 We don't got to go to Rumble for the last one.

00:55:35.000 We polish it.

00:55:36.000 Alright, it's fine.

00:55:38.000 It's fine. 1.00

00:55:38.000 Well, it is kind of crazy, but fuck it. 1.00

00:55:41.000 We'll stay on YouTube for you ninjas, but as you guys know for after hours, we're going over because it's going to get crazy tonight. 0.99

00:55:47.000 Alright, where we at here?

00:55:48.000 John Doe says, how do you make the mindset shift away from being a Fed?

00:55:51.000 Current Fed here, preparing for transition to civilian life.

00:55:54.000 John Doe.

00:55:55.000 I mean, just use your skill set to do whatever you got to do.

00:55:59.000 What did you do, though, in particular?

00:56:01.000 I don't know.

00:56:02.000 You got to tell me what you did.

00:56:03.000 Were you military?

00:56:04.000 Were you law enforcement?

00:56:05.000 I mean, different worlds.

00:56:07.000 Luxurious life.

00:56:08.000 Started watching six months ago.

00:56:10.000 Just hit a new bench.

00:56:12.000 405 pounds.

00:56:13.000 Passive residual income.

00:56:15.000 12k.

00:56:16.000 Biggest trip next month.

00:56:17.000 Financially free.

00:56:19.000 And it's not bad. 0.51

00:56:20.000 Stop being a simp.

00:56:21.000 Get to work.

00:56:22.000 Everyone fresh and fit.

00:56:23.000 Shout out to you, bro.

00:56:23.000 Keep it up.

00:56:24.000 We have here, Monikers1 says, oh yeah, what if she wants to bring a friend and shit with that typical excuse? 1.00

00:56:31.000 Bro. 0.98

00:56:31.000 Yeah, girls will do that too. 0.98

00:56:33.000 There's two reasons typically a girl want to bring her friend. 0.80

00:56:35.000 I'm actually doing this BS right now.

00:56:37.000 She's nervous?

00:56:38.000 Yeah.

00:56:38.000 And she wants to have a friend to kind of like mediate and see how you are as a person.

00:56:42.000 And she may even tell them to leave after a while.

00:56:44.000 But still, what's the main point of them doing it?

00:56:47.000 They might not like you that much.

00:56:48.000 Exactly.

00:56:49.000 And then the other one also is that if you live in a vacation destination, they don't want to leave their friend.

00:56:54.000 So that happens a lot with me and Fresh, where a girl will come, she'll like you, but she'll have a friend and she can't leave her friend because girls are very catty like that because if she leaves her friend for even an hour, he left me! 0.99

00:57:04.000 And she doesn't want to deal with her bitching at her for an hour or during the entire trip. 1.00

00:57:08.000 So they don't want to leave each other's side.

00:57:10.000 So if you live in Vegas, in New York City, in Miami, in LA, whatever, and a girl comes with her friend, She might not want to leave her side. 0.91

00:57:17.000 And she'll be like, oh, can you bring a friend, blah, blah, blah?

00:57:19.000 So that your friend can go ahead and game the other chick so you can talk to her. 1.00

00:57:22.000 So that's also something that happens if you live in a vacation destination.

00:57:27.000 Which is why you need a wingman.

00:57:28.000 At most times.

00:57:29.000 Very important to have one.

00:57:30.000 Very important to have one.

00:57:31.000 But yeah, like, yeah, bro.

00:57:32.000 And that happens actually a lot with me and Fresh, where girls will come to Miami, and they'll have a friend with them.

00:57:36.000 And they're like, oh, I can't leave her.

00:57:38.000 Can we do something?

00:57:39.000 Blah, blah, blah.

00:57:39.000 So, it's common.

00:57:41.000 Just bring a friend.

00:57:42.000 Yeah, just bring a buddy with you. 0.99

00:57:43.000 Like, someone that's not an idiot. 1.00

00:57:44.000 Yeah, bro, dude. 1.00

00:57:45.000 You're better off not bringing anybody.

00:57:48.000 That's an L for both y'all. 0.59

00:57:50.000 Because even if you're smooth, but your friend is weird, or some shit like that, it'll mess both y'all up.

00:57:55.000 Yeah.

00:57:56.000 It's so sad.

00:57:57.000 Proverbs 11, 22-23 says, Bro,

00:58:13.000 this is not a church sermon, bro.

00:58:14.000 But, uh, we'll talk after this then. 0.96

00:58:16.000 Yeah, I can, nigga. 0.66

00:58:18.000 Saint God Army says, just became a one-sided open relationship with my girl of nine years.

00:58:22.000 Thanks to FNF. We live together.

00:58:24.000 When closing at the end of the date, do I go back to her spot or get a hotel? 0.99

00:58:29.000 This is why you shouldn't be living with your girl, nigga. 1.00

00:58:30.000 Yeah, bro. 0.99

00:58:31.000 Nigga, what are you doing? 1.00

00:58:32.000 You did a good job.

00:58:33.000 You've been with her for nine years and you're able to make it a one-sided relationship, which means you did something to increase your value.

00:58:38.000 Now the next step is getting her out of your house and living by yourself. 0.98

00:58:41.000 I'll be honest with you, bro.

00:58:42.000 Don't live with women. 1.00

00:58:43.000 Don't do it.

00:58:44.000 Yeah, bro. 1.00

00:58:44.000 I know you've been with her for nine years and shit. 1.00

00:58:46.000 If y'all got a kid, then maybe that's one thing. 0.98

00:58:48.000 But if you don't got a kid, there's no reason for you to be living with her at all.

00:58:52.000 That's tough, bro.

00:58:53.000 Yeah.

00:58:53.000 That's tough.

00:58:54.000 Put her ass in another apartment or you move out. 1.00

00:58:56.000 But don't live with women, bro. 1.00

00:58:57.000 I'm telling y'all, man. 0.60

00:58:58.000 It's not worth it, bro.

00:59:00.000 CallMeCon says, would you guys ever consider a special episode where you have a panel of average guys on and ask questions about their dating experiences?

00:59:07.000 Would that make for good content? 0.99

00:59:10.000 Bro, we get a shit all the time. 0.99

00:59:11.000 Listen, man. 0.99

00:59:12.000 If you want, bro, you know what you can do, bro?

00:59:14.000 Make your own podcast.

00:59:16.000 Invite guys on it.

00:59:17.000 Talk about dating.

00:59:18.000 How about you do it?

00:59:19.000 Cool.

00:59:20.000 Here, let me answer this. 0.99

00:59:23.000 The reason why we haven't done it, guys, is because, quite frankly, women don't give a fuck what your niggas think, bro. 1.00

00:59:30.000 That's the truth. 0.99

00:59:31.000 I mean, we could bring regular guys on and do a show, etc., right?

00:59:31.000 Yeah.

00:59:31.000 That's the truth.

00:59:35.000 And, you know, we can all sit here and complain about, yo, modern women this, modern women that, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

00:59:40.000 It's bullshit. 1.00

00:59:41.000 Flaking. 1.00

00:59:41.000 This is annoying. 1.00

00:59:42.000 They really want to hear us, if at all.

00:59:42.000 Oh, my God.

00:59:44.000 Yeah, but, bro, the reality is...

00:59:47.000 All that's going to do is that's going to allow you guys to sit there in misery.

00:59:53.000 Misery loves company. 1.00

00:59:55.000 And if we have a bunch of guys here that are dealing with the same bullshit, because trust me, we're dealing with the same bullshit, right? 1.00

00:59:59.000 That you guys are. 1.00

01:00:00.000 Trust me, we are.

01:00:01.000 All right?

01:00:02.000 We haven't been famous that long, niggas.

01:00:03.000 All right?

01:00:04.000 Yeah.

01:00:04.000 So, in anything, our fame, if anything, hurts us.

01:00:07.000 100%.

01:00:08.000 Yeah, it definitely hurts us, yeah.

01:00:10.000 Guys, understand...

01:00:12.000 You have to do extra to even get the same result, bro.

01:00:15.000 We have to literally go through a phase of like, so you did multiple girls, right?

01:00:19.000 What's that like?

01:00:20.000 I feel like you might just cheat on...

01:00:22.000 I see clips of you.

01:00:22.000 Dude.

01:00:23.000 The shit we have to do with, bro, is so much you not even understand. 1.00

01:00:27.000 We got the wrong clout. 1.00

01:00:28.000 We got the wrong clout.

01:00:29.000 Y'all niggas lucky, man. 0.99

01:00:30.000 We gotta do a lot of shit, bro. 0.99

01:00:31.000 I'm telling you. 0.99

01:00:32.000 But the point I'm trying to make here, guys, is that Bring in regular guys on.

01:00:32.000 Yeah.

01:00:37.000 Maybe we'll do it for an episode for y'all just so that, you know, make you guys happy. 0.98

01:00:40.000 But the reality is nobody gives a fuck, bro. 0.99

01:00:43.000 That's the cold art. 0.99

01:00:43.000 No one gives a fuck. 0.99

01:00:45.000 Yeah. 0.99

01:00:45.000 They really don't. 0.99

01:00:46.000 They might say, good boy.

01:00:47.000 Yeah.

01:00:48.000 I agree.

01:00:49.000 Yeah.

01:00:50.000 Yeah.

01:00:50.000 Bring y'all on with a bunch of girls.

01:00:51.000 When they leave, back to the dude that's treating them like shit. 1.00

01:00:55.000 Yeah, bro. 1.00

01:00:56.000 Like, they don't give a fuck, bro. 1.00

01:00:57.000 They really don't. 1.00

01:00:58.000 All right.

01:00:59.000 The Godfather.

01:01:01.000 Okay, cool.

01:01:02.000 Last point here.

01:01:02.000 All right.

01:01:03.000 Wait, more chats?

01:01:05.000 No, we're good.

01:01:05.000 No.

01:01:06.000 Okay.

01:01:06.000 We're caught up?

01:01:07.000 All right.

01:01:07.000 So, guys.

01:01:09.000 All right.

01:01:11.000 So, we got a recap real quick, right?

01:01:15.000 Number one, FaceTime.

01:01:16.000 Before I recap, do me a favor and then just like the video, subscribe to the channel, Fresh and Fit, subscribe on Rumble.

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01:01:24.000 Okay, guys, so we're going to recap this thing.

01:01:26.000 First, we talked about how feminism has come in, indoctrinated women to not necessarily need men.

01:01:31.000 Since women don't need men anymore, especially in Western countries, they no longer feel the need to deal with most of you guys, which has led to the anti-male society that we have now.

01:01:39.000 Definitely. 1.00

01:01:39.000 Men ain't shit. 1.00

01:01:40.000 We're independent. 1.00

01:01:41.000 Fuck all men. 1.00

01:01:41.000 Blah, blah, blah. 1.00

01:01:42.000 They don't need you.

01:01:43.000 And most importantly, they don't like you guys that much, okay?

01:01:46.000 That's the reality, right?

01:01:47.000 Women don't like men that much. 0.99

01:01:49.000 Now that you understand this foundation, now we're into the problem, which is what? 0.99

01:01:53.000 We have a flake epidemic going on, where girls in general will set up dates or hang out, say that they'll hang out with you and they don't fucking show up. 1.00

01:01:59.000 I know a lot of y'all deal with this bullshit because we definitely deal with it. 0.99

01:02:02.000 And they got options, man. 0.99

01:02:03.000 And they got options, right?

01:02:04.000 So you went over some ways to deal with the current flake rate, right?

01:02:08.000 Sending up FaceTime calls, between 10 minutes on the lower end, all the way up to 30 minutes, building more rapport, and setting up a date.

01:02:16.000 Then, when you do set up that date, she comes to you so you don't overinvest and put yourself in a vulnerable position.

01:02:22.000 Also, always double book.

01:02:23.000 So if she does flake, you have something set up.

01:02:25.000 Also, double booking does what?

01:02:27.000 Gives you an abundance mindset.

01:02:28.000 When you have that abundance mindset, if she does, or if, or when, she does flake.

01:02:32.000 You don't take it personal.

01:02:33.000 You're able to say, hey, that's just cool.

01:02:34.000 It is what it is. 1.00

01:02:35.000 And if you got her on Instagram, you can go ahead and post a story of your date with the other chick and make her dumbass feel very stupid for not showing up. 0.99

01:02:42.000 Then you also want to make sure that you can... 1.00

01:02:48.000 Hold on.

01:02:49.000 Sorry, guys.

01:02:50.000 I'm going back through my notes.

01:02:52.000 Make her come to you.

01:02:52.000 Oh, collect two to three different ways to contact her.

01:02:55.000 So that if you miss her in one way, you can go ahead and contact another way, whether it's Instagram, text message, etc.

01:03:02.000 I suggest that you guys get at least...

01:03:04.000 Her phone number and an Instagram.

01:03:06.000 And you can show lifestyle to better your chances of her showing up on a date.

01:03:10.000 Exactly.

01:03:11.000 Especially your stories.

01:03:14.000 Now, we're on to the last point now.

01:03:16.000 I think I covered everything, right?

01:03:17.000 Yeah, pretty much.

01:03:19.000 And I also cited some stats where women flake on approximately 56% of dates, and then field reports put it closer to 70%, and then Tinder Insights show that only about 8.6% of people actually message each other on Tinder.

01:03:30.000 So we got a 91.4% flake rate digitally online, which is wild to let you guys kind of know how wild this stuff is.

01:03:36.000 And I go into more detail on this in my book, Why Women Deserve Less, which is going to come out later on, but I have an entire chapter that specifies and outlines why and how women don't like men that much, thanks to feminism. 0.54

01:03:49.000 Alright?

01:03:49.000 But, now that we've went over that, we got the last point here.

01:03:56.000 Guys...

01:03:56.000 After a couple weeks, a couple months, you can reinitiate contact.

01:04:04.000 Okay, guys?

01:04:05.000 And see what happens.

01:04:06.000 And the reason why I say this, guys, is because...

01:04:09.000 I'm just gonna say it. 0.98

01:04:11.000 A lot of girls go through what I call a whore cleanse. 1.00

01:04:14.000 Okay? 0.99

01:04:15.000 And what a whore cleanse is, guys... 1.00

01:04:18.000 What did you say? 1.00

01:04:19.000 A whore cleanse. 1.00

01:04:20.000 A whore cleanse. 1.00

01:04:25.000 Sorry, I was just funny. 0.99

01:04:27.000 And what I mean by that is a girl will say some shit about, oh, you know, I was just finding myself. 0.99

01:04:27.000 Right? 0.99

01:04:33.000 I was on a personal journey.

01:04:35.000 I was, you know, being spiritual.

01:04:38.000 I had to, you know, come to terms with certain things.

01:04:41.000 I had to fight some demons, blah, blah, blah. 0.99

01:04:42.000 You know what that means in fucking English? 0.99

01:04:45.000 Translate that womanese. 1.00

01:04:45.000 Ah! 1.00

01:04:46.000 That means I was being a fucking hoe and I'm going ahead and I'm taking a break from cock for a little bit. 1.00

01:04:52.000 Okay? 0.99

01:04:52.000 Anytime a girl says, I'm taking a break from guys or I'm not doing this or I'm not doing that, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. 0.99

01:04:57.000 That's all translation for I was a hoe. 0.97

01:05:00.000 I need to think about my wholeness because being a hoe goes against my nature as a woman and I need some goddamn time to think about this. 1.00

01:05:06.000 So what might have happened, guys, or she went through a breakup or some shit like that. 0.97

01:05:10.000 What happens, guys, is girls will typically go through these, you know, what I call whore cleansing phases, maybe once or twice a year. 0.99

01:05:16.000 And it might just be where you caught that girl during her whore cleanse. 1.00

01:05:19.000 And she's like, eh, you know what? 0.98

01:05:20.000 I'm not really interested in meeting any guys right now, blah, blah, blah. 0.95

01:05:23.000 And some of you guys might be like, well, why the fuck does she go through the time of talking to me, whatever? 0.90

01:05:28.000 Well, we told you guys already. 1.00

01:05:29.000 A lot of girls are attention whores, and they still want to feel desired, even though they're going through their whore cleanse, right? 1.00

01:05:34.000 Because women love attention. 1.00

01:05:35.000 So they still need that dopamine hit.

01:05:37.000 So, you gotta understand that sometimes you might catch a girl at a bad time.

01:05:41.000 Timing is everything a lot of times, guys.

01:05:43.000 If you look at, like, a guy, like, and I'll give you guys an example of this.

01:05:46.000 Look at, like, your typical club promoter. 0.98

01:05:49.000 Sleazy, skinny, probably a cokehead. 1.00

01:05:51.000 Not the most attractive guy, not the highest status. 0.94

01:05:53.000 But, those guys pull a lot of tail. 0.93

01:05:55.000 Why?

01:05:56.000 Well, they're at the right place at the right time.

01:05:59.000 They're there with a bunch of drunk girls at a club. 1.00

01:06:02.000 Got them into the club for free.

01:06:03.000 Show some kind of status, right, in that window.

01:06:07.000 Of opportunity. 0.99

01:06:08.000 And then a lot of them take that and they're able to close and fuck the girls, even though they aren't necessarily that great of a guy on paper. 0.99

01:06:14.000 And the reason why is because timing. 0.99

01:06:16.000 Timing is very important with women, guys. 1.00

01:06:18.000 And we don't talk about this enough in the red pill space about catching a girl at the right time.

01:06:22.000 A lot of times we'll get you late, right?

01:06:24.000 So understand that there's times where it's not the right time and a chick might be going through something.

01:06:28.000 And that is why she can't necessarily meet on a date or whatever it may be.

01:06:32.000 I want to add one more layer here as well.

01:06:34.000 So a lot of females as well are not ever really single, which means she might talk to you, give you her phone number, her Instagram, back and forth chat, but she might have a boyfriend or a man she's talking to. 0.99

01:06:45.000 And until that's over or until she feels like, you know what, this guy has no more value for me, I'm not going to take you serious.

01:06:51.000 So what happens is most of the time, you talk to a chick and she's kind of like giving you like signs or whatever, but she's not really pushing forward because she's like, oh, you know what? 0.73

01:06:58.000 I'm going to keep this hair under wraps.

01:07:00.000 And when her man does something like weird or dumb or like something that she doesn't like, you know what? 0.75

01:07:05.000 Jimmy was talking to on the side here. 0.90

01:07:06.000 I'm going to give Jimmy a chance.

01:07:07.000 Hey, Jimmy, you want to meet up?

01:07:09.000 And then finally you get that chance to go on a date with her because she's free from this guy's, I want to say, you know, reign of terror, so to speak.

01:07:16.000 So that point in time is the right time because now she's open to you because her boyfriend or her man she's talking to is not giving her what she wants.

01:07:23.000 And that right there, guys, is opportunity.

01:07:25.000 Now it's your turn.

01:07:26.000 Wink, wink.

01:07:27.000 So just, and I, like, another thing too, just to give you guys kind of a perspective on this, I've talked about this before.

01:07:27.000 Yeah.

01:07:34.000 I want to give you guys this feeling so you guys understand.

01:07:35.000 I want you guys to go into an imaginary world.

01:07:41.000 Right? 1.00

01:07:41.000 Let's say you're in bed with two bad bitches, right? 1.00

01:07:41.000 Imagination. 1.00

01:07:45.000 And you just ended up, you know, busting a nut, and you just, you're in the bed with them, and, you know, they're like, ah, yeah, this is awesome, right?

01:07:50.000 Timmer! 0.83

01:07:51.000 Yeah.

01:07:52.000 Wait, what? 1.00

01:07:53.000 The fuck? 1.00

01:07:55.000 What? 1.00

01:07:57.000 What the fuck? 1.00

01:07:59.000 Anyway, I don't know where the hell that came from. 1.00

01:08:02.000 What the fuck, Fresh? 0.99

01:08:05.000 Yo, put it on a chapel brush, man. 1.00

01:08:07.000 Elfresh, man.

01:08:08.000 Elfresh.

01:08:08.000 Elfresh, man.

01:08:09.000 Oh, shit. 0.99

01:08:11.000 His name is Timmy. 1.00

01:08:13.000 Timmy's in bed with two bitches, bro. 1.00

01:08:16.000 Timmy! 1.00

01:08:17.000 Anyway, so let's say you're in bed with the two girls and you just finished busting a nut, right?

01:08:25.000 And you got that moment of post-nut clarity.

01:08:28.000 I want you guys to freeze frame that real quick. 0.99

01:08:31.000 Freeze frame that feeling where you got that moment of clarity after busting a nut with two bad bitches in bed. 1.00

01:08:37.000 That right there, guys, that moment of clarity that you're experiencing, that's how women feel all the time. 0.99

01:08:41.000 Now, I want you to multiply that KO Ken times like fucking five or ten. 0.99

01:08:45.000 That's how girls that are going through their whore cleanse feel, okay? 1.00

01:08:49.000 They don't need to be around... 0.97

01:08:51.000 They want the attention from men, but they don't want to actually be around men or hang out with men.

01:08:55.000 And a lot of times, that comes after maybe...

01:08:58.000 They went through some trauma.

01:08:59.000 Maybe they're recovering from some type of alcohol or drug dependence. 0.99

01:09:03.000 Maybe they're recovering from too much cock. 0.99

01:09:05.000 Bad relationship. 1.00

01:09:06.000 Finding themselves. 1.00

01:09:07.000 Anytime a girl gives any type of I went through a spiritual journey or this other fucking weird shit. 1.00

01:09:11.000 Nine out of ten times they were traumatized by something and they were doing some ho shit and they need to do what I call the whore cleanse. 1.00

01:09:18.000 And you might have just caught her during the whore cleanse. 1.00

01:09:19.000 And hey, it happens. 0.96

01:09:20.000 So there's nothing wrong with following up maybe weeks, months later.

01:09:25.000 Hey, what's going on?

01:09:27.000 Trouble.

01:09:27.000 And then you put a nice picture of yourself so she remembers who the hell it is.

01:09:30.000 Right?

01:09:31.000 A lot of times when I send a text to a girl, I send a photo of myself and I'll say like some funny one-liner.

01:09:36.000 All right? 0.83

01:09:37.000 Like, hey, did you get kidnapped or some shit like that? 0.97

01:09:40.000 Ha ha ha. 0.98

01:09:40.000 Do I got to send a search party? 0.98

01:09:41.000 And then I'll send a photo to myself.

01:09:42.000 She's like, oh, this is the guy.

01:09:43.000 I remember him. 0.94

01:09:44.000 So that's something that you could do as well to follow up with a lead that might be cold with a girl who was going through a whore cleanse. 0.99

01:09:44.000 Blah, blah, blah. 0.99

01:09:51.000 And we don't talk about this enough where girls just might not be in the right mind state to want to meet up or hang out with a guy because they're being a 304 and they're trying to cleanse. 1.00

01:09:59.000 Emotional damage!

01:10:01.000 What I'll do as well, instead of texting the girl, I'll just DM them or respond to their story.

01:10:06.000 Because what are you going to do?

01:10:07.000 That works as well.

01:10:08.000 Who's this?

01:10:09.000 We'll go to your page.

01:10:10.000 If it's lit. 0.99

01:10:11.000 Damn. 1.00

01:10:11.000 Who's this nigga? 1.00

01:10:12.000 Oh, I remember him from that day we met. 0.95

01:10:14.000 Whatever.

01:10:14.000 Before you know it.

01:10:15.000 Hey, stranger.

01:10:16.000 Or hey, what's up?

01:10:18.000 So, yeah.

01:10:19.000 So, just understand that as well, guys. 0.79

01:10:21.000 A lot of the times when you get rejected by a girl, sometimes you didn't do shit wrong. 0.89

01:10:24.000 Yeah. 0.96

01:10:24.000 You know, she just had a wrong point in her life because she decided to be a hoe. 0.96

01:10:28.000 So, that's the reality.

01:10:29.000 That's just how it is, man.

01:10:31.000 This is why it's so important to double book.

01:10:33.000 Have multiple dates set up.

01:10:34.000 Have multiple girls that you're talking to.

01:10:36.000 Get two to three different points of contact.

01:10:38.000 Get that Instagram.

01:10:39.000 Show your lifestyle.

01:10:40.000 Face time for 10 to 15 minutes.

01:10:42.000 This is not, and I want to make this very clear.

01:10:44.000 These steps that we gave y'all, it's not going to stop the flaking. 0.96

01:10:46.000 It's never going to fucking end. 0.90

01:10:47.000 Disclaimer. 0.92

01:10:48.000 We cannot ever mitigate all of flaking.

01:10:51.000 But we can reduce them on flaking.

01:10:53.000 But taking these actions, we listed out here for you today.

01:10:55.000 Taking these steps will give you guys maybe a 50-60% chance of getting the date through.

01:11:00.000 You know what I mean?

01:11:01.000 But you're never going to be able to completely destroy or mitigate flaking.

01:11:05.000 You ain't.

01:11:05.000 In today's day and age in society, bro, sorry, but the atmosphere is too anti-male.

01:11:12.000 It's too, I could replace this guy. 0.99

01:11:14.000 Girls have too many fucking options. 1.00

01:11:15.000 It is what it is. 0.99

01:11:16.000 So the only thing you could do, instead of crying about it, is take these strategies that we're giving you guys, adapt, overcome, play the numbers game, and use these strategies to try to mitigate your risk.

01:11:27.000 And most importantly, don't over-invest in these girls.

01:11:31.000 Alright?

01:11:31.000 Don't over-invest.

01:11:32.000 Because when you do, that's when the emotion comes in and you send these angry-ass Bible messages. 1.00

01:11:36.000 You stupid bitch! 1.00

01:11:37.000 Fuck you! 1.00

01:11:39.000 Yeah, also, yeah, keep the frame, guys. 1.00

01:11:41.000 Stay solid.

01:11:42.000 Don't get emotional, like you said earlier, because if you get emotional, bro, you really lost the battle. 0.99

01:11:45.000 You could call her out respectfully, but don't fucking sit here and cry and call her names. 0.98

01:11:50.000 Whatever you do, don't swear at her. 1.00

01:11:52.000 You fucking bitch, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

01:11:53.000 No, bro, don't do that, because that's going to make her feel better that she flaked on you, and you don't want her to get that satisfaction. 1.00

01:12:00.000 You want that bitch to feel like shit. 1.00

01:12:02.000 A lot of times, I'll make them feel guilty. 1.00

01:12:04.000 I'm like, you know, if a girl flakes sometimes, I'll be like, wow, I didn't expect that from you.

01:12:08.000 Like, I really didn't think you were that type of girl.

01:12:10.000 Wow.

01:12:11.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah. 1.00

01:12:16.000 And the reason why I do it like that is because instead of calling her out and saying, you stupid bitch, fuck you, blah, blah, blah, so she'd go back home or show that message to her friend and get the satisfaction of, like, I'm glad I didn't go out with him. 1.00

01:12:25.000 Instead, I'm going to attack her character in a respectful way. 1.00

01:12:28.000 Like, damn, I didn't think you were like these other girls, man. 0.99

01:12:30.000 I really didn't. 0.99

01:12:31.000 Wow.

01:12:31.000 I'm disappointed.

01:12:32.000 But hey, it's cool.

01:12:33.000 You're not special?

01:12:33.000 No worries.

01:12:34.000 I thought you were special. 1.00

01:12:35.000 Damn. 0.99

01:12:36.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:12:36.000 I guess you're not. 1.00

01:12:36.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:12:37.000 Yeah, and sometimes attacking a girl from that angle, right, where you're attacking her integrity or her character to a degree, right, even though we know most girls don't have any character, but attacking her from that degree, it's going to pummel the little bit of character or integrity that she did have,

01:12:53.000 because what you're doing is you're humanizing yourself on the other end.

01:12:56.000 Does that make sense, guys?

01:12:57.000 Yeah.

01:12:58.000 Okay?

01:12:59.000 Because if you attack her, she's like, oh yeah, I made the right decision. 0.99

01:13:01.000 But if you say, damn, I didn't think that you were that type of chick. 1.00

01:13:04.000 Or, wow, I thought I didn't think that you would stoop to this level or some shit like that. 1.00

01:13:09.000 And then that will go ahead and make her feel like shit. 1.00

01:13:11.000 And that's what you want to do. 1.00

01:13:12.000 You want to make her feel guilty.

01:13:13.000 I just be like, no problem.

01:13:14.000 It's cool.

01:13:15.000 I just act nonchalant, go on a different date.

01:13:18.000 It is what it is.

01:13:19.000 You can see my story.

01:13:19.000 You can see me being lit.

01:13:20.000 Alright, cool.

01:13:21.000 Or I had you in high esteem.

01:13:21.000 Yeah.

01:13:23.000 Damn. 0.99

01:13:23.000 I didn't think you were like these other girls. 0.99

01:13:25.000 You know what I mean?

01:13:26.000 Clever.

01:13:27.000 And then you'd be like, hey, but no worries.

01:13:28.000 We can schedule something else.

01:13:29.000 It is what it is.

01:13:30.000 But the point is that you got to hit her with the guilt.

01:13:33.000 Okay?

01:13:34.000 Don't get her mad. 1.00

01:13:35.000 Don't be emotional, little bitch. 1.00

01:13:36.000 Make her feel guilty. 1.00

01:13:38.000 That's the key.

01:13:38.000 All right?

01:13:39.000 Guilt.

01:13:40.000 And there's different ways to go about this.

01:13:42.000 Yeah, you know what timing is fresh.

01:13:43.000 I mean, Chris.

01:13:45.000 Alright, so yo, I need y'all ninjas.

01:13:45.000 Alright, cool.

01:13:47.000 Like the video.

01:13:48.000 I hope you guys like that.

01:13:50.000 Oh, Darryl Blake goes, what's your take on the female officer who got a train ran on her by six other cops in her own unit?

01:13:55.000 She belongs to the street.

01:13:56.000 She belongs to the street.

01:13:57.000 She belongs to the department in that case.

01:13:58.000 You're the right timing, bro. 0.99

01:13:59.000 Yeah, she ended up getting fired too, but yeah, bro, that was a fucking L. Once again, bro, a woman is never... 1.00

01:14:07.000 And her husband is like supporting her through the shit, which is like wild. 1.00

01:14:10.000 He allowed it. 1.00

01:14:11.000 Yeah, she cheated on him because he has simp. 1.00

01:14:14.000 I'm telling you guys, women will punish you if your masculinity isn't on point, if you're a simp, if you're a sucker, whatever. 1.00

01:14:21.000 They will make your life a living fucking hell. 1.00

01:14:23.000 I will say though, she is equal opportunities because she don't discriminate. 1.00

01:14:27.000 Black, white, Hispanic, she didn't give a fuck. 0.99

01:14:30.000 She wasn't even hot. 1.00

01:14:32.000 It'd be those threes and fours that'd be really getting down. 0.73

01:14:34.000 Facts, bro.

01:14:35.000 All right, guys.

01:14:36.000 We're going to show up some girls coming up to you shortly. 1.00

01:14:39.000 What time?

01:14:39.000 Chris, call it.

01:14:40.000 10.

01:14:41.000 10 p.m.

01:14:41.000 Cool.

01:14:42.000 All right.

01:14:42.000 We'll catch you guys back here.

01:14:43.000 It's only 8.30.

01:14:44.000 Nigga, 9.30. 0.97

01:14:45.000 A little sooner. 0.97

01:14:48.000 Nigga, it's early, nigga. 1.00

01:14:49.000 Yeah, you know how it is. 0.58

01:14:51.000 Yeah.

01:15:02.000 We ain't safe either, man. 1.00

01:15:04.000 Everyone's dealing with the same fuck shit. 1.00

01:15:05.000 Trust me. 1.00

01:15:05.000 It doesn't change when you get some more money and status. 1.00

01:15:08.000 The girls still be on the same fucking fuckery regardless. 1.00

01:15:11.000 We've seen Trey Songz get rejected. 0.99

01:15:11.000 Alright, guys? 0.99

01:15:13.000 Alright, if that niggas get rejected, you ain't got a fucking chance. 1.00

01:15:16.000 You have no chance. 1.00

01:15:17.000 I saw 11 Club over there, bro.

01:15:18.000 This is hilarious. 1.00

01:15:20.000 We live in a basement, man, fucking dating society. 1.00

01:15:22.000 No chance! 1.00

01:15:23.000 You know what I mean? 1.00

01:15:24.000 Like, fuck, that's what you got. 1.00

01:15:25.000 Yeah, man. 1.00

01:15:26.000 So, guys, the only chance you do got is to take the steps that we taught you guys.

01:15:30.000 Get your value up.

01:15:31.000 Don't get mad at the situation. 0.98

01:15:32.000 Understand that most girls don't like you in the fucking first place. 0.98

01:15:34.000 That's a cold, hard fact that most of you men need to understand and just accept reality and adapt. 0.98

01:15:39.000 And they got options, too, man.

01:15:40.000 So, it's the way it is.

01:15:40.000 The best man will win, so...

01:15:42.000 We don't cry over here at Fresh and Fit.

01:15:43.000 We give y'all niggas solutions. 1.00

01:15:44.000 Alright, man?

01:15:45.000 Love you guys.

01:15:46.000 We'll be back here with some lovely ladies. 1.00

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01:15:56.000 And I'll catch you guys back here in a little bit with some girls. 1.00

01:15:58.000 Peace.

01:15:58.000 I ran.

01:16:00.000 I ran so far away.

01:16:03.000 I just ran.

01:16:05.000 I ran all night and day.

Fresh & Fit - January 19, 2023

5 Tips To Deal w- Flakey Modern Women in 2023!

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