Fresh & Fit - 5 Ways To Date Financially Responsibly

00:07:36.000 And we are live back from DR back from Arizona.

00:07:40.000 Guys, today we're going to cover five ways to know how to date Financi Smart in the end of this year and next year.

00:07:46.000 Let's go!

00:08:38.000 This is a new camera angle.

00:08:39.000 Bill just found it for me.

00:08:40.000 I think I'll get one more than the other one.

00:08:42.000 It's definitely a better camera.

00:08:45.000 You feel me?

00:08:45.000 Because I feel like it's more personal.

00:08:49.000 Better visuals.

00:08:50.000 Anyhow, we had a great time in Arizona, especially me getting kicked out.

00:08:57.000 And of course, you know, I'm still trying to figure out why I got kicked out of that event, TPUSA.

00:09:03.000 Hello, your boys answered the question because I don't know why I got kicked out.

00:09:08.000 I heard you through the grapevine why happened by someone up there, but I may say that save that for like a zone car, something like that.

00:09:15.000 Saying it publicly may be a bad thing.

00:09:17.000 But nonetheless, and people are going to say, oh, fresh because of the podcast.

00:09:22.000 No, it wasn't.

00:09:23.000 It was not because I know that it was not that reason for sure.

00:09:27.000 But nonetheless, we're back.

00:09:30.000 I was also sent DR as well with Network, the Seal Network.

00:09:32.000 That was pretty dope.

00:09:33.000 We had a lot of fun there.

00:09:34.000 A lot of good activities, good speech and all that.

00:09:37.000 Shenanigans.

00:09:38.000 And of course, you know, to be honest with you guys, man, I don't even mind staying in DR, bro.

00:09:44.000 DR was so peaceful.

00:09:46.000 The girls are beautiful. 1.00

00:09:47.000 Darkest night, though.

00:09:48.000 And, you know, I actually do appreciate, you know, good weather and, you know, good times.

00:09:55.000 But it's not fun over there.

00:09:58.000 It's just chill.

00:09:59.000 You know, like, you're in Miami, you're in New York, you're in Vegas.

00:10:02.000 It's popping.

00:10:03.000 The city's bright.

00:10:03.000 Everything is hopping in.

00:10:04.000 You're like, okay, this is fun.

00:10:05.000 This is lit.

00:10:07.000 It's just chill.

00:10:08.000 I feel like one day in America is two days in the Caribbean.

00:10:13.000 But, you know, you need to experience it, guys.

00:10:15.000 It's almost like if, like, if you don't do it, experience yourself, you don't know what I'm saying, which is fair, but you need to go experience to get a passport, niggas, and travel. 1.00

00:10:23.000 But, fellas, let me say this real quick before we start this show.

00:10:26.000 There were some fights this weekend.

00:10:28.000 There were definitely upsets.

00:10:32.000 And one of our friends, we know, fought Andrew Tate.

00:10:35.000 And I didn't comment on this really online because I was kind of like shook by it.

00:10:40.000 But I'll say this, bro.

00:10:41.000 Win or lose, we still stand by Tate.

00:10:44.000 Obviously, because you guys saw the fight.

00:10:45.000 Most of you saw the fighter clips.

00:10:47.000 And he stepped in the ring.

00:10:48.000 I'll just say that, like, for the most part, that right there is bravery beyond anybody else because he stepped in the ring.

00:10:54.000 Win or lose, he's still our boy.

00:10:55.000 And we'll boss him in January when we go over there.

00:10:58.000 But nonetheless, man, shout out to Tate for doing the fight.

00:11:01.000 Chase won Fair and Square.

00:11:03.000 That's chopps up to him too as well.

00:11:05.000 And we'll see you guys next year for sure.

00:11:07.000 But definitely, it was upset.

00:11:09.000 Who would have thought, bro?

00:11:10.000 Who would have thought?

00:11:14.000 Okay, back to the regular programming.

00:11:16.000 So, fellas, we're covering today five ways you can be smart on dates, man.

00:11:20.000 I've been on 2000 dates myself, bro.

00:11:22.000 That's right.

00:11:22.000 2000 dates up and down.

00:11:25.000 I close about 80% of those dates, which is pretty good for me.

00:11:28.000 You know what I'm saying?

00:11:30.000 I believe them.

00:11:31.000 But nonetheless, we got to figure this out because, guys, next year is going to be tough.

00:11:36.000 Finances are up and down for most of you.

00:11:39.000 Jobs are being lost.

00:11:40.000 You know, car prices are going up.

00:11:43.000 Real estate is going up as well, still.

00:11:44.000 Still pretty high.

00:11:45.000 Taxes are really high as well.

00:11:47.000 So things are not in our favor as Americans.

00:11:50.000 Now, you can say fresh, you're rich.

00:11:52.000 We're talking about, brother, it affects everybody.

00:11:55.000 And I'll say this.

00:11:56.000 In DR, it was super cheap.

00:11:59.000 We had a double date.

00:12:00.000 Me and one of my boys, City Network.

00:12:03.000 Two twin sisters.

00:12:04.000 If you're my close friends, you would have seen what happened.

00:12:06.000 How'd that date go?

00:12:07.000 One of my close friends.

00:12:08.000 Sorry to hear that.

00:12:09.000 But it was a good date, man.

00:12:10.000 Shout out to my boy.

00:12:11.000 He's a firefighter up in New York.

00:12:13.000 You guys know who he is.

00:12:14.000 Shout out to you.

00:12:15.000 And two Dominican girls.

00:12:17.000 It was dope.

00:12:18.000 We had a meal for four people.

00:12:21.000 You had some drinks as well.

00:12:23.000 And that meal was only, I kid you know, only 60 bucks.

00:12:28.000 Damn.

00:12:29.000 Bro, it reminded me out of being 350.

00:12:31.000 Easy piece, bro.

00:12:33.000 Hold on.

00:12:34.000 Hold on, hold on.

00:12:35.000 You're telling me I can come over here.

00:12:36.000 There's some baddies pulling up.

00:12:39.000 And I can have a meal and drinks for 60 bucks, America. 0.88

00:12:44.000 Like, what have I been doing?

00:12:47.000 Bro, I've been wasting time over here in America, bro.

00:12:50.000 And I just realized, bro, it is cheaper to keep her over there. 0.90

00:12:53.000 So we're going to break this down list by list, step by step.

00:12:57.000 We got five steps here.

00:12:58.000 Number one, and this is a list of importance from the lowest to the highest in priority because the last one here, guys, is going to be key for y'all watching because this is the cheat code you guys need to skip the matrix.

00:13:10.000 Because unfortunately, fellas, Danny is cooked.

00:13:13.000 And I want to tell you this right now.

00:13:15.000 You're fighting for some trash in the streets, bro.

00:13:18.000 Not much is out there.

00:13:19.000 And the girls that you're going to see, especially nowadays, bro, are so full of nonsense, feminist propaganda. 1.00

00:13:26.000 And they don't have any future outside of the present moment that they live in.

00:13:31.000 Nope.

00:13:31.000 So you're their last hope, my friend.

00:13:33.000 You're the last hope.

00:13:34.000 And hopefully, don't say that to you because I'm telling you, I know for the fellas who got some money, they got caught up, bro, and they're cooked.

00:13:41.000 Like, they are.

00:13:43.000 They married to a hoe, and they don't know. 1.00

00:13:47.000 But we niggas know.

00:13:48.000 Look, I'm all for having fun, fellas.

00:13:50.000 You know, I've been having fun my entire career here.

00:13:53.000 Survived it with no serious injuries.

00:13:55.000 You know what I'm saying?

00:13:56.000 Some thorns on the side, you feel me?

00:13:58.000 But like, we still here thriving.

00:14:00.000 And we still working, you know?

00:14:03.000 Anyhow, fellas, number one on the list, right?

00:14:05.000 You know, before we even get the list, Bills.

00:14:09.000 First video?

00:14:10.000 Play the first video.

00:14:11.000 Yes, sir.

00:14:11.000 Fellas, you are fighting for women like this.

00:14:13.000 And look, I love women, fellas. 1.00

00:14:16.000 People say we hate women. 1.00

00:14:17.000 I should love women, bro, because I get to see in real time how they really are. 1.00

00:14:21.000 And you know what?

00:14:22.000 They don't lie to you if you're aware of what's happening.

00:14:25.000 They tell you to your face how they are, how they operate, and I can tell you in plain sight what they're about.

00:14:32.000 So this first video here, we got a streamer that is doing an IRL stream in the streets.

00:14:40.000 Play the clip.

00:14:41.000 Speak for yourself.

00:14:42.000 Play the clip.

00:14:44.000 Did y'all get married today?

00:14:45.000 Yeah, low-key.

00:14:49.000 Stop.

00:14:52.000 Stop.

00:14:53.000 You want me?

00:14:54.000 I want you.

00:14:56.000 For real?

00:14:58.000 You have a whole man though.

00:14:59.000 Yo, dead eyes.

00:15:00.000 What is this supposed to do?

00:15:02.000 What?

00:15:02.000 You like me better?

00:15:05.000 Let's keep going.

00:15:07.000 No, Oh, my God, brother.

00:15:10.000 She's cooked.

00:15:11.000 I'm not.

00:15:12.000 What the fuck?

00:15:16.000 Fellas, that is a married woman. 1.00

00:15:18.000 Bro, say he knows.

00:15:20.000 With her husband on the street walking.

00:15:23.000 My you, she's lit, by the way.

00:15:25.000 When somebody's drunk, fellas, that is them.

00:15:27.000 I promise you.

00:15:28.000 If someone says to you, yo, bro, is drunk.

00:15:30.000 I didn't mean to do that.

00:15:32.000 That is them in 4K being themselves under the guise of being drunk.

00:15:38.000 Fellas, this is what you're fighting for. 0.92

00:15:40.000 Women like this that will marry in a heartbeat and say, well, you know what? 1.00

00:15:44.000 I don't do what I feel like because I'm a woman.

00:15:47.000 You just need to take it as a man and just be cool with it.

00:15:49.000 And if you marry them, fellas, gotcha, bitch. 1.00

00:15:52.000 They got you.

00:15:53.000 So listen, I'm just going to say this, bro.

00:15:55.000 We're fighting for pennies over here when there's dollars in different islands.

00:15:59.000 There's dollars over the seas.

00:16:01.000 And I'll tell you this, fellas.

00:16:02.000 If you focus on actually having value, America has nothing to offer you, bro.

00:16:07.000 Unless you're in the Midwest, a small town with some possible virgins that may not be virgins, you're cooked.

00:16:14.000 But again, this is what you're fighting for, fellas.

00:16:16.000 We'll continue, though.

00:16:17.000 But number one.

00:16:18.000 All right, now, number one, only go on dates that you are comfortable with.

00:16:24.000 For example, places you go anyway, and she's a plus one. 0.89

00:16:27.000 So, fellas, I've been doing this for a long time, right?

00:16:30.000 A very long time.

00:16:32.000 I've been in every possible situation you can think of.

00:16:35.000 Good, bad, ugly, on purpose.

00:16:36.000 Because I want to learn every aspect of dating, what it really means.

00:16:40.000 But you understand, what is dating?

00:16:42.000 Dating is nothing more than you and a woman conversating to see where you end up mentally, physically, and spiritually to either come together or stay apart. 0.83

00:16:52.000 Now, dating in the old days meant you're dating for marriage, which was definitely the goal here.

00:16:57.000 But getting married nowadays, fellas, is not a good thing.

00:17:00.000 I would argue that's kind of like stupid, as most men in America would say, because what are you marrying?

00:17:07.000 What you saw before in the end of the video?

00:17:08.000 And she might just diss you and say, hey, he's hotter. 0.63

00:17:11.000 He's more fun.

00:17:12.000 I'm going to go over there.

00:17:13.000 You lose half your money for what?

00:17:15.000 A skank? 1.00

00:17:15.000 Bro, nigga. 1.00

00:17:17.000 Forget that shit, bro.

00:17:18.000 That shit is terrible.

00:17:20.000 But this is where I say, fellas.

00:17:22.000 Go where you want to go.

00:17:23.000 Now, this is what I do all the time, right?

00:17:26.000 I'll set up a date.

00:17:27.000 And let's say I get invited to go to a basketball game.

00:17:30.000 I say, hey, it's me and a girl.

00:17:32.000 Can we pull up?

00:17:33.000 Boom.

00:17:33.000 We're invited.

00:17:34.000 Boom, boom, boom.

00:17:35.000 And she's coming as a plus one.

00:17:37.000 Now, she may say to me, well, you know what?

00:17:40.000 I want to go to Ruth Crystal or Benny Honda's or Nobu.

00:17:43.000 I'm like, well, I'm going here.

00:17:45.000 So have fun.

00:17:46.000 And that right there just sets the frame.

00:17:48.000 I'm controlling my situation, what I want to do.

00:17:51.000 And I'm going where I want to go regardless.

00:17:53.000 So let's say the date just flops.

00:17:55.000 You know what I'm saying?

00:17:55.000 Like, she doesn't pass the face-to-face time test.

00:17:57.000 She doesn't do well on the date. 0.95

00:17:59.000 She's not really feeling me.

00:18:00.000 Well, guess what?

00:18:01.000 I just did.

00:18:02.000 I went to where I wanted to go anyway.

00:18:03.000 So if it doesn't work out, cool.

00:18:05.000 And guess what?

00:18:06.000 It is a free event that I got invited to for the most part.

00:18:09.000 And here's the best part.

00:18:11.000 It's my interaction, my frame.

00:18:14.000 So now I'm in control because if it doesn't work out, fellas, I'm good to go.

00:18:18.000 I still have fun.

00:18:19.000 And she can go home, whatever.

00:18:21.000 Call it back up.

00:18:22.000 And fellas, this is where you have to have options because if you focus on one girl at one time, I get it.

00:18:26.000 That's what you want to do.

00:18:27.000 That's the honorable thing to do.

00:18:28.000 But nowadays, fellas, they got five guys in the chamber.

00:18:32.000 You just got lucky that night and she said yes to you for the most part.

00:18:36.000 Now, if you're a top-level guy, you get more options, of course.

00:18:38.000 But for the average American, that's dating these horrible man.

00:18:42.000 Dude is cooked.

00:18:43.000 So I would just say this, bro.

00:18:45.000 Go to where you want to go.

00:18:46.000 That's the goal.

00:18:48.000 And if they come to your environment, to your world, good for them.

00:18:53.000 If not, they can stay over there.

00:18:55.000 Like I always say on the show, and get lost.

00:18:58.000 But again, this is the control here, fellas.

00:19:00.000 You're in control.

00:19:01.000 If you let her control your frame, who's leading who? 0.90

00:19:04.000 So, fellas, if you're going to date with somebody, one of your choice, make sure you're going to where you want to go.

00:19:11.000 And that's going to give you a lot of power because now you can control the spending, the environment, what you listen to, and daytime and nighttime.

00:19:20.000 Because each setting has a different cost price tag on it.

00:19:25.000 And I would argue daytime is way better.

00:19:26.000 Which is number two, fellas on the list for this is going to be doing activities during the daytime are cheaper than nighttime activities.

00:19:34.000 Now, people arguing and said to me, Fresh, you know what, brother?

00:19:37.000 Uh, I think doing night day activity activities is too much of a girlfriend experience.

00:19:44.000 Now, I could argue and say, Yes, you're correct, but think about this: if you focus on having fun for yourself, right?

00:19:52.000 What do you do during the day?

00:19:54.000 I like to have fun during the day because one, I'm more awake, two, I don't buy drinks.

00:19:59.000 So, guess what?

00:20:00.000 Now I'm not spending money on alcohol, it's a fun activity.

00:20:02.000 I guess I know her better on a personal level, and I'm the one I want to do anyway.

00:20:07.000 So, for example, I like Devin Busters, that's my shit to go to.

00:20:10.000 And look, you may say, Fresh, this is not like a friend's meeting.

00:20:15.000 What are you doing?

00:20:16.000 Well, fellas, I'm escalating during that date slowly but surely.

00:20:20.000 I'm actually going to escalate this physically during that process.

00:20:24.000 Now, if you're just playing games and not doing any interaction with physical attention, then yeah, it may lead to a friendship poll.

00:20:30.000 But here's my point: I'm choosing the frame where I want to go, what I want to do, and in the daytime, it is cheaper for me to see if she's about me versus nighttime where she's drunk and it's just like an experience.

00:20:42.000 Because, guess what?

00:20:43.000 You don't know the actual facts, and she may say, Well, I have work in the morning, buddy, uh, deuces.

00:20:48.000 So, daytime, I can see more, and it's cheaper for my wallet, and as well, it's what I want to do.

00:20:55.000 So, I would argue if you want to go on dates, fellas, I'm sure you've been told go to the bar, get some drinks, which is it works as well.

00:21:01.000 But if you want to save money in this tough economy, you can focus on getting a simple lunch, a simple fun day at Devin Busters.

00:21:10.000 Or, you know, what's funny about dating fellas that I realize as well: if a girl's on a date with you, for the most part, you got her because she could be anywhere in the world, she could be any guy, any celebrity, any athlete, any paying person.

00:21:26.000 Because, you know, guys, nowadays people pay for dates.

00:21:30.000 Surprise, they're paying for girls to go on dinner dates, they're paying for them to go on yachts, they're paying for them to go on experiences because, quite frankly, they're fucking losers.

00:21:40.000 But that means if you chose them over you, you got a chance.

00:21:44.000 But again, this is her entering your frame, your environment.

00:21:48.000 And look at it in the bright side.

00:21:49.000 If you give her the FaceTime text, please all the time before you're on a date, FaceTime call, 10-15 minutes, feel her out, see where she's at, and then you know, obviously, you plan the day, of course, before that, invite her out.

00:22:00.000 She's probably gonna be in your favor for the most part.

00:22:03.000 Now, this is very important because you gotta escalate this date in a certain way.

00:22:06.000 You can't sit there and be friends and be like, oh, good to see you.

00:22:09.000 Hi.

00:22:09.000 You got to be like engaging where she feels special, Winkwink, special enough to say, Okay, this guy likes me.

00:22:17.000 He's into me.

00:22:18.000 And it's funny, I was in the DR recently, and on the double date, the girl spoke about how she chooses her man that she goes out with, right?

00:22:25.000 One of the girls.

00:22:26.000 And she mentioned that guys will go on dates with her from America, but they're too nice.

00:22:31.000 They don't escalate physically.

00:22:33.000 She knows that they like her, but they don't show it in real time.

00:22:36.000 So they're like on a date with the girl and they're buying her dinner, they're taking her out, but there's no real actual physical play happening until the very end.

00:22:46.000 And it's too late because at that point, she's like, Does he really like me?

00:22:50.000 I can't really tell.

00:22:51.000 Is he really gay?

00:22:53.000 You just never know what she's thinking in her head.

00:22:55.000 But for the most part, if you don't escape physically, she won't know either.

00:22:58.000 So to be safe, you want to escalate slowly but surely every time you can.

00:23:04.000 Now, this is what I like to call the fresh effects.

00:23:06.000 It's slow, effective, and pug-like.

00:23:09.000 Okay.

00:23:10.000 Here's how it goes.

00:23:11.000 You start the date, slow and easy.

00:23:14.000 Now you walk her hand across the street.

00:23:17.000 So by this, I mean, let's say you're walking across the street, right, to a restaurant or to like a bar.

00:23:21.000 You want to hold her hand and see her reaction.

00:23:24.000 Now, she moves her hand and says, oh, I'm good.

00:23:27.000 That's one count.

00:23:29.000 And we're going to do three counts in your route.

00:23:31.000 So you know three strikes and you're out.

00:23:32.000 You play that game with the girls on dates, right? 0.57

00:23:34.000 So that's one strike because she said, ah, lift up your hand, nigga. 0.99

00:23:38.000 Okay.

00:23:39.000 Nope.

00:23:39.000 She said, nope.

00:23:40.000 Cool.

00:23:40.000 That's fine.

00:23:41.000 But for the most part, she came on a date with you.

00:23:43.000 FaceTime call.

00:23:44.000 Talked a little bit.

00:23:45.000 She'll hold your hand.

00:23:46.000 There should be some interest there for the most part.

00:23:48.000 Now, moving forward, you're in the restaurant, right?

00:23:54.000 I know you've been told, fellas, sit across from her, interview style, and talk to her.

00:23:59.000 Now, I don't do that because, quite frankly, I think it's kind of dumb.

00:24:03.000 So what I do is I'll sit on the same side as her.

00:24:07.000 I focus on talking to her while I'm touching her appropriately, by the way.

00:24:11.000 So this is going to be me being very transparent.

00:24:13.000 I'll actually go ahead and obviously talk to her side by side.

00:24:16.000 So I'm sitting here.

00:24:17.000 She's sitting here.

00:24:19.000 We're talking.

00:24:20.000 How's her day?

00:24:21.000 How's her life?

00:24:21.000 What's going on with her?

00:24:22.000 And I'm like this.

00:24:23.000 My hands right like this on her thigh. 0.93

00:24:26.000 A couple seconds.

00:24:27.000 Take it off.

00:24:29.000 Talk some more.

00:24:30.000 Flirt some more, of course.

00:24:31.000 Let's play some more game.

00:24:33.000 Back on the thigh.

00:24:35.000 And I'm slowly escalating because I want to see how far we can go, how much she likes this in real time.

00:24:40.000 And you'd be surprised, fellas.

00:24:42.000 You can save yourself dinner dates, you know, full night out and see where she's really at.

00:24:48.000 Because, guys, you got to understand this, fellas.

00:24:51.000 She may like you, but she doesn't know really where to gauge you yet.

00:24:56.000 She's going to set you up. 1.00

00:24:57.000 And girls know from the very jump that fucker you're not, bro.

00:25:00.000 They know, bro.

00:25:00.000 It's like, oh, this guy's kind of weird.

00:25:02.000 Fuck no.

00:25:03.000 Hug us some dinner on the side or some drinks.

00:25:05.000 Yeah.

00:25:05.000 And then go home.

00:25:06.000 I fuck who I want to fuck.

00:25:07.000 Or damn, he's cool.

00:25:09.000 He's not too thirsty.

00:25:11.000 He's chill.

00:25:12.000 He's slowly escalating this in a cool, suave way.

00:25:16.000 I like this guy.

00:25:17.000 And that's where you want to be.

00:25:18.000 You don't want to be the guy that's just, oh my God, crap.

00:25:20.000 Like, you want to be chill.

00:25:21.000 No.

00:25:22.000 Relax.

00:25:22.000 And remember, if it's your frame, your environment, you're comfortable.

00:25:25.000 You meet with the bartender.

00:25:26.000 You know, you meet with the server, the owner.

00:25:28.000 Hey, hey, Phil, can we get a check over here?

00:25:32.000 Can you get the menu over here?

00:25:33.000 Whatever it is, you've got people coming to you like, oh, good to see you again.

00:25:36.000 Welcome back.

00:25:37.000 That shows DHV off-rip.

00:25:39.000 Just you being cool, being cool with the owner, being cool with the staff.

00:25:42.000 That's what's a lot of DHV.

00:25:43.000 So that cool environment, you're comfortable.

00:25:46.000 You're touching slowly but surely.

00:25:48.000 And escalating slowly but surely, you win that engagement 100%.

00:25:51.000 Now, let's say she says to you, why are you so touchy?

00:25:56.000 This is very simple, fellas.

00:25:57.000 It's organic science.

00:25:58.000 You could be like, listen, I'm not going to lie.

00:26:01.000 You're really hot.

00:26:02.000 No, you can say this.

00:26:03.000 This is very simple.

00:26:04.000 You could be like, listen, I can't help it.

00:26:07.000 You're beautiful.

00:26:07.000 I just want to touch you.

00:26:09.000 Boom.

00:26:09.000 Simple and to the point.

00:26:10.000 And she can say to you, okay, cool.

00:26:13.000 I respect that.

00:26:13.000 Or she'd be like, okay.

00:26:15.000 And again, fellas, this is three strikes on your route.

00:26:18.000 If that happens three times, you know what time it is, bro.

00:26:20.000 Just chill, back off.

00:26:22.000 And okay, this is not for me.

00:26:24.000 I got to move on.

00:26:25.000 But I guarantee you, fellas, if you do a step-by-step process, you focus on, like I said before, FaceTime call, seeing interest, playing it cool, you can win this very easily because again, she's going to show you step by step where she's at.

00:26:37.000 So fellas, I would argue, again, the daytime activities are better because you can feel her out for sure.

00:26:44.000 And of course, it's cheaper and less stress on you as that date goes on.

00:26:49.000 All right, guys, number three.

00:26:51.000 This one's very good.

00:26:53.000 Have your date cooked for you at the house.

00:26:55.000 So, um, most people forget that this is a very simple and effective strategy because again, dinner is always an option.

00:27:02.000 You focus on going out on dates and you spend a lot of money on dinner.

00:27:06.000 Of course, I did that for a while as well.

00:27:08.000 And it was, it worked, of course.

00:27:10.000 But as I started getting more health, health habits and getting healthier, eating out all the time is not good.

00:27:17.000 Actually, I would argue it's bad for you and a waste of money.

00:27:20.000 So, what you could do is plan a home date that's still fun.

00:27:26.000 And this is what I'll do.

00:27:27.000 She's running into you and you went through the steps, like I said before, FaceTime call, checking her interest, obviously showing DHV.

00:27:35.000 She's down to come to your house and cook. 1.00

00:27:36.000 Now, is it always gonna be that way?

00:27:38.000 No, of course.

00:27:39.000 That doesn't happen every single time because she doesn't know you. 0.86

00:27:41.000 You might be a weirdo, you might be a stranger.

00:27:43.000 She doesn't know.

00:27:44.000 And of course, that has to be broken down in a better setting.

00:27:49.000 Sometimes you need to go out in public and then come out to the crib later if you can.

00:27:53.000 But nonetheless, you can start this very simple.

00:27:56.000 You're gonna plan a date either close by, by maybe like a park, go for a walk, or maybe like by, I don't know, a lounge, just super chill.

00:28:04.000 You may get a drink or two or some hookah if you do hookah, and then say, you know what?

00:28:08.000 Listen, um, ask her, ask her this in a real-time experience.

00:28:13.000 Like, before you even go on a date, can you cook?

00:28:15.000 Right?

00:28:16.000 You can plan that date, go to the first spot first, let's say hookah spa or chill spot, lone spot, and then go to the grocery store, buy some groceries that she needs to cook. 0.61

00:28:24.000 She cooks at home. 0.94

00:28:26.000 I know it sounds kind of crazy, but this happens all guys.

00:28:28.000 Because again, if she's into you, this is not a problem because, again, she's gonna follow your frame and what you want to do. 0.92

00:28:34.000 Versus, she says to you, Oh, I don't want to cook on the first date, nigga. 1.00

00:28:37.000 What the fuck?

00:28:38.000 Nope.

00:28:39.000 All right, you know where she's at?

00:28:40.000 She don't like it that much, nigga. 1.00

00:28:40.000 It's simple, but again, um, I think this is good because it shows interest one and two. 1.00

00:28:46.000 She can cook 10 points because most women can't cut no days, they don't give a fuck. 1.00

00:28:50.000 So, there you go.

00:28:51.000 All right, uh, oh god, let's do one more video as well.

00:28:54.000 Uh, and took over because, fellas, again, this is what you're fighting for.

00:28:58.000 You're fighting for women like this in every society.

00:29:00.000 And you know, the worst part, man.

00:29:01.000 Um, let's say you win one of them by skinning your teeth.

00:29:05.000 This is what you're getting, fellas.

00:29:07.000 Here we go.

00:29:07.000 Part two.

00:29:16.000 No, I'll give you a better date.

00:29:17.000 No, no.

00:29:21.000 Go back a little bit.

00:29:24.000 Hear what he said.

00:29:26.000 I'm actually a boyfriend.

00:29:28.000 No, I'll give you a better date.

00:29:32.000 He just said, He just said, huh?

00:29:36.000 He just said, Is that your boyfriend?

00:29:38.000 Yeah.

00:29:39.000 You said, you know, I'll give you a better date than him, right?

00:29:42.000 And she nodded.

00:29:43.000 Yes.

00:29:43.000 She nodded, bro.

00:29:44.000 She nodded.

00:29:45.000 She nodded.

00:29:47.000 That might seem like a rare occasion to you guys.

00:29:49.000 Like, oh, how does it happen often?

00:29:51.000 That was like, because it's at Matthews, bro, that happens every day.

00:29:54.000 There's killers in the street, fellas.

00:29:56.000 It's killers in the street.

00:29:57.000 That's the game, doing this for a long time.

00:29:59.000 I have experience.

00:30:00.000 I need this shit every single day.

00:30:02.000 Now, personally, fellas, if she has a boyfriend, I'm good because, first of all, that expansion too.

00:30:09.000 And of course, like, you never know if she's blueprinting, you know, blue pillar or not.

00:30:13.000 He might be angry, I'll be upset.

00:30:14.000 I kill your ass. 1.00

00:30:15.000 So I'm always of the asswishing for switching that.

00:30:18.000 You know what?

00:30:18.000 It's just a boyfriend.

00:30:19.000 I'm good.

00:30:20.000 Stay over there.

00:30:21.000 Now, some niggas don't care. 1.00

00:30:23.000 The fuck, anything moving?

00:30:24.000 He wants a boyfriend.

00:30:25.000 They don't give a fuck.

00:30:26.000 So, huram!

00:30:28.000 You know, she's up for grabs.

00:30:30.000 Now, we'll just stop it there because it's way more than that.

00:30:33.000 But as an example, this is what you're fighting for.

00:30:36.000 Hey, I have a boyfriend.

00:30:37.000 What are you?

00:30:38.000 A placeholder boyfriend for the moment.

00:30:40.000 So keep in mind, fellas.

00:30:41.000 That's what you're fighting for.

00:30:43.000 So save money.

00:30:44.000 Fuck these holes.

00:30:45.000 All right.

00:30:46.000 Number four: keep the date in your frame at all times.

00:30:50.000 Fellas, this happens a lot where I've seen people, especially in our group, Council Club, they'll go on date with girls and they can't close.

00:30:58.000 And it's because they started the date on their frame, doing well.

00:31:02.000 Then she may dance on them.

00:31:05.000 She may touch them.

00:31:07.000 She may even play the part and make them fall in love in that instance, right? 0.99

00:31:13.000 And she'll be like, hey, let's go over here.

00:31:15.000 Or like, well, you know, this is fun, but what about this?

00:31:18.000 And it's okay to take this into consideration for another date, but nigga, on the first date, this is your time to shine as the guy. 0.99

00:31:26.000 Because if you guys didn't know this, every girl you meet, fellas, is dating somebody in the current moment.

00:31:31.000 Whether it's an ex-boyfriend, a current boyfriend, which you don't know about, or the guy is just fucking her because it's good.

00:31:38.000 And you have to actually out-compete everyone in that category to smash, which sounds weird, but fellas is fucked, bro.

00:31:46.000 Like, this is like dating 101.

00:31:48.000 You are not alone, bro.

00:31:50.000 This is not like, oh, she just met you and you're the only one.

00:31:52.000 No, fellas.

00:31:53.000 This is like, gotcha, bitch. 1.00

00:31:55.000 You're number four or five on the list.

00:31:57.000 The rest of them niggas don't want to step up to the plate. 1.00

00:32:00.000 And you know what I'm saying?

00:32:02.000 No puny tennis here.

00:32:03.000 And the worst part is that, like, you'll never know until after the fact.

00:32:07.000 So keep in mind, fellas, this is competition at its finest.

00:32:10.000 And yeah, man, you got to show out to get this.

00:32:14.000 But be cost effective.

00:32:16.000 Don't be crazy because remember, investing in these holes, bro, or girls like that we just saw in the last video is a waste of time. 1.00

00:32:22.000 So a dinner date for 500 bucks to smash that. 0.89

00:32:25.000 It's going to cheat on you. 0.92

00:32:26.000 Bro, what are we doing, bro?

00:32:27.000 Like, nigga, what are we doing?

00:32:29.000 That is terrible.

00:32:30.000 Like, imagine that's your girlfriend that just said to Matthews, oh, yeah.

00:32:36.000 Like, what are we doing here?

00:32:38.000 Like, that's great.

00:32:39.000 That's somebody's girlfriend. 1.00

00:32:41.000 Like, dead ass.

00:32:42.000 So that's like, yeah, exactly.

00:32:45.000 So, fellas, that should never be you.

00:32:47.000 Now, third video.

00:32:49.000 If you don't mind, Bills, let's play that video real quick.

00:32:51.000 That was crazy.

00:32:51.000 Fellas, this is what you're fighting for.

00:32:54.000 There's women in the Western world. 1.00

00:32:55.000 They're like this.

00:32:56.000 And I'm around them every single day.

00:32:58.000 Cite the podcast with celebrity friends.

00:33:00.000 And the fellas, even billionaires are not safe, fellas.

00:33:04.000 Billionaires are not safe either.

00:33:06.000 You think I'm safe or Myron's?

00:33:08.000 Nigga, nobody's safe. 1.00

00:33:09.000 Nope.

00:33:09.000 Like, dude, it doesn't matter if you got money.

00:33:11.000 No.

00:33:12.000 In shape, nobody's safe, bro.

00:33:14.000 So keep that in mind.

00:33:15.000 Play the clip if you don't mind, Bills.

00:33:18.000 Oh, there you respected it.

00:33:19.000 Yeah, for sure.

00:33:20.000 You know, I was like, what up?

00:33:27.000 No.

00:33:29.000 What's your name?

00:33:30.000 What's your name?

00:33:31.000 Emma, what's your name?

00:33:32.000 King.

00:33:34.000 Shout out to King, man.

00:33:35.000 King is one of the fellas, man.

00:33:39.000 Okay, if you want to test your girl, bro, call King and say, yo, King, pull up on me, nigga, right now. 0.97

00:33:44.000 Hold on, my shorty.

00:33:44.000 Because, yo, he's destroying every relationship he can in real time.

00:33:48.000 He's saving y'all niggas, bro. 1.00

00:33:49.000 He's saving y'all niggas from pure destruction because he's telling y'all niggas real time, you're inadequate. 1.00

00:33:54.000 She don't like you. 0.85

00:33:55.000 And listen, King's that nigga, bro. 1.00

00:33:56.000 He's six foot, seven or whatever, doing his shit, making moves.

00:34:00.000 And you know what?

00:34:01.000 Props to him.

00:34:03.000 Look, that nigga's on a different level. 1.00

00:34:05.000 I can be with that nigga at all. 1.00

00:34:06.000 I see that nigga going down. 1.00

00:34:07.000 I'm going that way.

00:34:10.000 I'm going that way.

00:34:11.000 All right.

00:34:12.000 I don't want no beef.

00:34:13.000 Yo, King.

00:34:13.000 Shout out to you, my nigga.

00:34:14.000 Seen you around the town, around town, bro.

00:34:16.000 I'm going that way, nigga. 1.00

00:34:17.000 You stay over there, bro.

00:34:18.000 Okay?

00:34:19.000 I'm good.

00:34:20.000 I'm good, bro.

00:34:21.000 I'm good off that shit, bro.

00:34:22.000 Fuck it.

00:34:24.000 Listen to you.

00:34:25.000 I'm serious, but I think it's just...

00:34:27.000 Oh, my God.

00:34:28.000 Come on, let me...

00:34:29.000 You're about to make you a hella man.

00:34:31.000 Let me put that in there.

00:34:33.000 Very fucking man.

00:34:34.000 Who gonna make you mad?

00:34:37.000 I don't know.

00:34:42.000 You better make you feel mad at.

00:34:45.000 I got you.

00:34:46.000 I got you.

00:34:47.000 Yeah.

00:34:48.000 Have a good night, bro.

00:34:51.000 All right, bro.

00:34:56.000 So you're telling me, you're on a date with a girl.

00:35:00.000 Someone hollers at her, says, yo, come over here. 0.93

00:35:03.000 She says to him, oh, you better be worth it because you're going to make him mad.

00:35:13.000 Stupid.

00:35:15.000 Bro, what frame is that?

00:35:18.000 That is terrible.

00:35:18.000 Dude, walk away.

00:35:20.000 Just walk away.

00:35:20.000 Like I said on the tweet, walk away because that's shameful, bro.

00:35:23.000 That's despicable.

00:35:25.000 But again, you know, this is normal because that's all he can get.

00:35:29.000 You know what I'm saying?

00:35:30.000 That's his man girl. 0.63

00:35:31.000 What he can get, he don't want to lose her.

00:35:35.000 So fellas, what are you fighting for?

00:35:37.000 Dinner date, 500 bucks?

00:35:39.000 Trips to Cancun for this?

00:35:42.000 Spare me.

00:35:43.000 Please spare me.

00:35:44.000 All right.

00:35:45.000 Last but not least, guys.

00:35:46.000 Number five on the list, man.

00:35:47.000 This is the most important list on the list, man.

00:35:51.000 One to five.

00:35:53.000 Number one is going to be only going dates that you are comfortable with.

00:35:57.000 For example, places you're going to go anyway.

00:36:00.000 Number two, activities during the day, cheaper than nighttime activities, for sure.

00:36:05.000 Number three, have your date cook at home.

00:36:07.000 If you can, that's definitely going to be the better date for you.

00:36:09.000 Number four, keep the dates in your frame because if you don't, that might be you.

00:36:13.000 Number five, which is the most important one, I think, that I've got to experience is travel abroad to places that you've never been to before, like DR, Columbia.

00:36:21.000 Now, do I mean to stay there and live there?

00:36:24.000 No.

00:36:24.000 But what I'm saying is that you need to experience women on a different playing field because in America, fellas, they are definitely cooked.

00:36:31.000 Now, Colombia is very, I want to saturate as well, especially Maddie Yang.

00:36:35.000 So not the best option, but there's Bogota, there's Cartagena, there's Byron Kia.

00:36:40.000 There's a bunch of small islands you can go to that are more, I want to say, untapped.

00:36:45.000 But here's the issue.

00:36:47.000 If you focus on only America, it causes you to be very tainted and very like stuck in a box.

00:36:53.000 And listen, I was in DR, man.

00:36:55.000 That was an amazing experience.

00:36:57.000 I was shocked because I could not believe how cheap it was.

00:37:02.000 How much fun it was.

00:37:04.000 And someone said, oh, Fresh, pay for a box.

00:37:06.000 No, nigga, I pay for food for all of us.

00:37:09.000 And that was it.

00:37:10.000 It wasn't like, oh, my God, like we're going to go to this lounge and then this dinner spot and then the club.

00:37:17.000 It's like, nah, we just had a good vibe.

00:37:20.000 Went to a lounge that was free.

00:37:24.000 Got some food.

00:37:25.000 We got some drinks.

00:37:26.000 And that was it.

00:37:27.000 And the bill is 60 bucks.

00:37:28.000 Yo, nigga, what? 1.00

00:37:30.000 Bro, that was it.

00:37:31.000 60 bucks.

00:37:32.000 And the funny part is that, like, yes, there are zombies over there.

00:37:37.000 What are zombies?

00:37:40.000 But get yourself to zombies.

00:37:42.000 You will pass the zombies and find diamonds in a rough.

00:37:45.000 But I tell you this, Bill.

00:37:47.000 They're 10,000 times better than women in the West that are actually tainted because, again, this is where you got to focus on cost-effectiveness. 1.00

00:37:55.000 That actual date is worth way more because it's genuine.

00:37:59.000 One.

00:38:00.000 And two, guess what, fellas?

00:38:01.000 It's super cheap.

00:38:03.000 And you're going to pay top dollar for this.

00:38:05.000 We saw in the last video.

00:38:06.000 That's terrible, bro.

00:38:07.000 Like, dude, imagine that is your wife. 0.98

00:38:09.000 You're cooked, bro.

00:38:10.000 You're cooked.

00:38:11.000 Versus abroad.

00:38:13.000 Hey, listen.

00:38:14.000 You can say what you want about going abroad and passport bros and whatever.

00:38:18.000 They are going to have less bills, less stress, and more fun.

00:38:23.000 If it goes to get married, especially, if guys, sorry to say this to you, but like America is not a place because the laws are not in your favor.

00:38:31.000 Women are not in your favor. 1.00

00:38:33.000 And if you do get married to a woman in America, she may love you at the very beginning, but a grandma once said, the woman you marry is not the same woman that you divorce because fellas, this is going to be your life right here.

00:38:44.000 And who choose to marry is going to determine if you live if you live or die because that's going to be your wife and financial advisor.

00:38:51.000 Because, fellas, if she says to you, we're done, nigga, what you gonna do about that?

00:38:57.000 She's gonna say, Gotcha, bitch. 1.00

00:38:59.000 She's gonna find herself some money. 1.00

00:39:01.000 The next guy will move on.

00:39:02.000 So, listen, fellas, that's been the five things you can do to save money.

00:39:06.000 I'm smart on dates.

00:39:07.000 I'll tell you this, fellas.

00:39:08.000 I'm gonna go to DR Way more.

00:39:10.000 I'm gonna hug and be there this week again because again, fellas, I am actually impressed with DR. We going to DRs.

00:39:17.000 This nigga doubles. 1.00

00:39:19.000 We going to DR. I'm at my house in DR. I'm serious, bro.

00:39:22.000 Like, this shit is like life-changing, bro.

00:39:25.000 We serious.

00:39:26.000 You know, I've been around the world, bro.

00:39:27.000 I've been around Miami for a while.

00:39:31.000 Been in New York, been in LA, been in Vegas.

00:39:35.000 Yo, DR is a shit, bro.

00:39:36.000 Nigga, DR is the shit, bro. 1.00

00:39:39.000 It was so much fun, bro.

00:39:40.000 I didn't want to leave.

00:39:41.000 That's a Myron stand over here, bro.

00:39:42.000 Sorry.

00:39:43.000 Same.

00:39:43.000 No, no, no.

00:39:44.000 I love you guys, man.

00:39:45.000 I'm back here for a show.

00:39:46.000 Sensational.

00:39:46.000 But this week, no more shows this week, bro.

00:39:49.000 So we're good.

00:39:50.000 We're cooking right now, bro.

00:39:51.000 We gonna be in DR. We're gonna be in DR. Triple Date.

00:39:54.000 Bills.

00:39:55.000 Yo, we should do the Aero Stream with DR, bro.

00:39:56.000 We're on stream with DR. Oh, it is by.

00:40:01.000 Oh, my God.

00:40:02.000 We can do a video.

00:40:02.000 Castle Club.

00:40:03.000 There we go.

00:40:04.000 Because we can't show everything on YouTube.

00:40:06.000 You know what I'm saying?

00:40:07.000 So we could do it on Castle Club for niggas behind the scenes. 1.00

00:40:10.000 What do y'all think?

00:40:11.000 Put in the chat.

00:40:12.000 Hell yeah.

00:40:12.000 All right.

00:40:14.000 Yeah, fellas. 0.98

00:40:15.000 We're going to do Afterwards with some girls coming up right now. 1.00

00:40:18.000 And this was a good show, man.

00:40:20.000 I think we got a super chat, though.

00:40:21.000 All right, cool.

00:40:22.000 Let's do it.

00:40:25.000 Yo, that's crazy, bro.

00:40:26.000 King is just like a beast, bro.

00:40:28.000 That shit's insane.

00:40:28.000 Bro, you can have her.

00:40:30.000 Senior Granado says, remember, fellas, it's just your turn.

00:40:33.000 Remote about to steal your girl. 0.52

00:40:36.000 Oh, shit.

00:40:37.000 Is that real?

00:40:39.000 This is allegedly.

00:40:41.000 This is allegedly.

00:40:42.000 This is AI.

00:40:43.000 We don't have all of the information.

00:40:44.000 This might be AI.

00:40:46.000 We don't know.

00:40:46.000 Whatever it is, bro.

00:40:47.000 It's working.

00:40:48.000 So shout out to the old man.

00:40:49.000 Shout out to Bills.

00:40:50.000 But yeah, fellas, that's it for the stream.

00:40:52.000 We're going to head over to in like 30 minutes.

00:40:55.000 And then last thoughts, bro.

00:40:57.000 Listen, bro.

00:40:59.000 Your life is short.

00:41:00.000 You got to enjoy it.

00:41:02.000 Live it to the fullest.

00:41:03.000 And remember this, fellas.

00:41:04.000 At least at some point in your life, you need to be the boss.

00:41:07.000 Whether it's your household, you know, at your business, your income, but your girl, that's totally up to you, bro.

00:41:17.000 That's going to decide whether you live or die, happy or upset.

00:41:21.000 And you can get married, fellas, in America, but remember, you got your bait of balls.

00:41:26.000 All right, man, we're out of here.

00:41:26.000 Peace, love, blessings.

00:41:28.000 We're out.

00:41:29.000 And I ran, I run so far away.

Fresh & Fit - December 22, 2025

5 Ways To Date Financially Responsibly

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