In this episode, we talk about how to be smart on dates, how to go on a date, and how to have a good night out with your significant other. We also talk about some upsets in the world of sports and other things.
00:10:08.000I feel like one day in America is two days in the Caribbean.
00:10:13.000But, you know, you need to experience it, guys.
00:10:15.000It's almost like if, like, if you don't do it, experience yourself, you don't know what I'm saying, which is fair, but you need to go experience to get a passport, niggas, and travel.
00:10:23.000But, fellas, let me say this real quick before we start this show.
00:12:58.000Number one, and this is a list of importance from the lowest to the highest in priority because the last one here, guys, is going to be key for y'all watching because this is the cheat code you guys need to skip the matrix.
00:13:10.000Because unfortunately, fellas, Danny is cooked.
00:13:13.000And I want to tell you this right now.
00:13:15.000You're fighting for some trash in the streets, bro.
00:13:34.000And hopefully, don't say that to you because I'm telling you, I know for the fellas who got some money, they got caught up, bro, and they're cooked.
00:16:42.000Dating is nothing more than you and a woman conversating to see where you end up mentally, physically, and spiritually to either come together or stay apart.
00:16:52.000Now, dating in the old days meant you're dating for marriage, which was definitely the goal here.
00:16:57.000But getting married nowadays, fellas, is not a good thing.
00:17:00.000I would argue that's kind of like stupid, as most men in America would say, because what are you marrying?
00:17:07.000What you saw before in the end of the video?
00:17:08.000And she might just diss you and say, hey, he's hotter.
00:19:01.000If you let her control your frame, who's leading who?
00:19:04.000So, fellas, if you're going to date with somebody, one of your choice, make sure you're going to where you want to go.
00:19:11.000And that's going to give you a lot of power because now you can control the spending, the environment, what you listen to, and daytime and nighttime.
00:19:20.000Because each setting has a different cost price tag on it.
00:19:25.000And I would argue daytime is way better.
00:19:26.000Which is number two, fellas on the list for this is going to be doing activities during the daytime are cheaper than nighttime activities.
00:19:34.000Now, people arguing and said to me, Fresh, you know what, brother?
00:19:37.000Uh, I think doing night day activity activities is too much of a girlfriend experience.
00:19:44.000Now, I could argue and say, Yes, you're correct, but think about this: if you focus on having fun for yourself, right?
00:20:16.000Well, fellas, I'm escalating during that date slowly but surely.
00:20:20.000I'm actually going to escalate this physically during that process.
00:20:24.000Now, if you're just playing games and not doing any interaction with physical attention, then yeah, it may lead to a friendship poll.
00:20:30.000But here's my point: I'm choosing the frame where I want to go, what I want to do, and in the daytime, it is cheaper for me to see if she's about me versus nighttime where she's drunk and it's just like an experience.
00:20:43.000You don't know the actual facts, and she may say, Well, I have work in the morning, buddy, uh, deuces.
00:20:48.000So, daytime, I can see more, and it's cheaper for my wallet, and as well, it's what I want to do.
00:20:55.000So, I would argue if you want to go on dates, fellas, I'm sure you've been told go to the bar, get some drinks, which is it works as well.
00:21:01.000But if you want to save money in this tough economy, you can focus on getting a simple lunch, a simple fun day at Devin Busters.
00:21:10.000Or, you know, what's funny about dating fellas that I realize as well: if a girl's on a date with you, for the most part, you got her because she could be anywhere in the world, she could be any guy, any celebrity, any athlete, any paying person.
00:21:26.000Because, you know, guys, nowadays people pay for dates.
00:21:30.000Surprise, they're paying for girls to go on dinner dates, they're paying for them to go on yachts, they're paying for them to go on experiences because, quite frankly, they're fucking losers.
00:21:40.000But that means if you chose them over you, you got a chance.
00:21:44.000But again, this is her entering your frame, your environment.
00:21:49.000If you give her the FaceTime text, please all the time before you're on a date, FaceTime call, 10-15 minutes, feel her out, see where she's at, and then you know, obviously, you plan the day, of course, before that, invite her out.
00:22:00.000She's probably gonna be in your favor for the most part.
00:22:03.000Now, this is very important because you gotta escalate this date in a certain way.
00:22:06.000You can't sit there and be friends and be like, oh, good to see you.
00:22:18.000And it's funny, I was in the DR recently, and on the double date, the girl spoke about how she chooses her man that she goes out with, right?
00:22:33.000She knows that they like her, but they don't show it in real time.
00:22:36.000So they're like on a date with the girl and they're buying her dinner, they're taking her out, but there's no real actual physical play happening until the very end.
00:22:46.000And it's too late because at that point, she's like, Does he really like me?
00:26:25.000But I guarantee you, fellas, if you do a step-by-step process, you focus on, like I said before, FaceTime call, seeing interest, playing it cool, you can win this very easily because again, she's going to show you step by step where she's at.
00:26:37.000So fellas, I would argue, again, the daytime activities are better because you can feel her out for sure.
00:26:44.000And of course, it's cheaper and less stress on you as that date goes on.
00:28:16.000You can plan that date, go to the first spot first, let's say hookah spa or chill spot, lone spot, and then go to the grocery store, buy some groceries that she needs to cook.
00:30:46.000Number four: keep the date in your frame at all times.
00:30:50.000Fellas, this happens a lot where I've seen people, especially in our group, Council Club, they'll go on date with girls and they can't close.
00:30:58.000And it's because they started the date on their frame, doing well.
00:35:53.000Number one is going to be only going dates that you are comfortable with.
00:35:57.000For example, places you're going to go anyway.
00:36:00.000Number two, activities during the day, cheaper than nighttime activities, for sure.
00:36:05.000Number three, have your date cook at home.
00:36:07.000If you can, that's definitely going to be the better date for you.
00:36:09.000Number four, keep the dates in your frame because if you don't, that might be you.
00:36:13.000Number five, which is the most important one, I think, that I've got to experience is travel abroad to places that you've never been to before, like DR, Columbia.
00:36:21.000Now, do I mean to stay there and live there?
00:36:24.000But what I'm saying is that you need to experience women on a different playing field because in America, fellas, they are definitely cooked.
00:36:31.000Now, Colombia is very, I want to saturate as well, especially Maddie Yang.
00:36:35.000So not the best option, but there's Bogota, there's Cartagena, there's Byron Kia.
00:36:40.000There's a bunch of small islands you can go to that are more, I want to say, untapped.
00:37:47.000They're 10,000 times better than women in the West that are actually tainted because, again, this is where you got to focus on cost-effectiveness.
00:37:55.000That actual date is worth way more because it's genuine.
00:38:14.000You can say what you want about going abroad and passport bros and whatever.
00:38:18.000They are going to have less bills, less stress, and more fun.
00:38:23.000If it goes to get married, especially, if guys, sorry to say this to you, but like America is not a place because the laws are not in your favor.
00:38:33.000And if you do get married to a woman in America, she may love you at the very beginning, but a grandma once said, the woman you marry is not the same woman that you divorce because fellas, this is going to be your life right here.
00:38:44.000And who choose to marry is going to determine if you live if you live or die because that's going to be your wife and financial advisor.
00:38:51.000Because, fellas, if she says to you, we're done, nigga, what you gonna do about that?