Fresh & Fit - 5 Ways To Properly Vet Women

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00:04:44.000 What's up guys?

00:04:45.000 Welcome to the Fresh Air Podcast, man.

00:04:47.000 It's Wednesday, aka we're gonna teach you guys how to vet a girl.

00:04:50.000 Let's get into it.

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00:05:42.000 What's up, guys? 0.93

00:05:42.000 Welcome to the Fresh Shit Podcast, man. 0.93

00:05:44.000 Regular edition. 0.87

00:05:45.000 It's Wednesday, guys.

00:05:48.000 Sorry for the delay.

00:05:48.000 There's like a storm down here in Miami with the rain and everything.

00:05:51.000 It's not windy for no reason.

00:05:52.000 Yeah, it is.

00:05:53.000 Another hurricane?

00:05:54.000 Hopefully not.

00:05:55.000 But we're here now.

00:05:57.000 Fresh, what are you supposed to be?

00:06:00.000 Thugnificent.

00:06:01.000 I'm just here for the culture, you know?

00:06:02.000 I'm for the hoes. 1.00

00:06:04.000 That's why we're here.

00:06:05.000 It's Wednesday.

00:06:07.000 All right.

00:06:08.000 What are you supposed to be?

00:06:10.000 Just myself, I guess, at the moment.

00:06:12.000 Great.

00:06:12.000 Maybe you dress up for the next one.

00:06:14.000 Let's do it!

00:06:15.000 Yeah.

00:06:16.000 So, um...

00:06:16.000 Updates?

00:06:17.000 You guys, just so you know.

00:06:18.000 Yeah.

00:06:19.000 So, I'll make some quick updates.

00:06:20.000 Guys, I am back on Instagram.

00:06:22.000 Alright?

00:06:23.000 It's MyronGainesX, and my ex is also MyronGainesX.

00:06:26.000 Both of them are the same exact handle.

00:06:27.000 So, check me out over there, man.

00:06:29.000 I post every single day.

00:06:32.000 A lot of you guys...

00:06:33.000 I guess people don't know this, because I got this question a lot on the Zoom call.

00:06:38.000 Post a lot of my political views and stuff going on like with current events on X and then on Instagram I post like videos alright, so check me out over there guys Myron Gaines X on both Instagram and on Twitter right different types of content on both platforms right versus like I do more videos on Instagram a bunch of reels and then on X I post you know everything but mostly tweets and I also do spaces on there sometimes too I did one on censorship the other day and Yeah,

00:07:13.000 Project Esther, but I also covered what's coming with a bunch of the conservative YouTubers.

00:07:17.000 New York Times basically getting ready to launch a hit piece that's been kind of...

00:07:24.000 It's being propelled by Media Matters.

00:07:41.000 You know, Ben Shapiro, Tucker Carlson, Benny Johnson, a bunch of the big ones.

00:07:47.000 And what they're basically alleging is that these conservative creators pushed a bunch of misinformation and conspiracy theories with the last election, and one of the reporters was asking him, or are you monetized on YouTube, or are you on the YouTube Partner Program, blah, blah, blah, which was all very strange questions to ask.

00:08:03.000 I wonder why.

00:08:04.000 So the New York Times is going to put this hit piece out very soon because Media Matters did a study where they found like 280 videos of conservatives providing misinformation in their eyes.

00:08:16.000 So that's kind of what's going on there.

00:08:19.000 Annette, the question is, who's the orbiter of truth?

00:08:21.000 And I talked about this on X. Because misinformation can be construed in different ways.

00:08:27.000 It's like, bro, how are you going to tell me what's right and what's wrong?

00:08:29.000 But again, it's their platform. 0.99

00:08:30.000 It's ridiculous. 0.91

00:08:31.000 But yeah, but that's what's coming down the line with that.

00:08:33.000 But guys, we're going to have a Zoom call.

00:08:35.000 After this, we're going to go over five ways for you to be able to identify a girl from the vetting process to make your girlfriend. 0.56

00:08:45.000 And then also, or like just to see where we're going to put her in the box. 0.95

00:08:49.000 Also, this Friday, I'm going to be out with Vitaly, catching predators.

00:08:52.000 I think I'm going to bring bills with me.

00:08:54.000 We might live stream some of it for you guys.

00:08:57.000 So that's going to be big.

00:08:58.000 It'll be a little bit different than the usual type of programming.

00:09:01.000 But I think you guys will enjoy that.

00:09:03.000 So we'll be out there catching predators in California.

00:09:05.000 This Friday, I think it's going to start at around 5 or 6 p.m.

00:09:08.000 Eastern Standard Time, if I'm not mistaken.

00:09:11.000 Or it might be 8 p.m.

00:09:13.000 Eastern Standard Time.

00:09:14.000 Maybe give them an update when you're there.

00:09:15.000 You know what?

00:09:15.000 I think it's 8 p.m.

00:09:17.000 Eastern Standard Time because it's 5 p.m.

00:09:19.000 It's going to be California.

00:09:20.000 So that three hours ahead in Miami and New York.

00:09:24.000 Should be fun.

00:09:25.000 Yeah, so that'll be a good time.

00:09:26.000 So you guys probably won't see us on the air conventionally like this doing a podcast on Friday.

00:09:32.000 I'll probably take Bills with me and we'll go to California, catch some Predators.

00:09:35.000 It'll be a good time.

00:09:36.000 Give you guys some behind the scenes, etc.

00:09:38.000 Give you guys a different perspective so it'll be a good time.

00:09:41.000 And then, what else?

00:09:43.000 Zoom call on Thursday.

00:09:44.000 We're going to do a networking call with Castle Club only.

00:09:47.000 Castle Club Premium.

00:09:49.000 And then we also did a Zoom call yesterday with a bunch of you guys, as we promised.

00:09:53.000 And we're going to do another one today because I noticed that a lot of guys had questions on dating and stuff like that.

00:09:57.000 And a lot of you guys are kind of lost when it comes to women.

00:09:59.000 I'm like, holy crap, we need to kind of rehash and go back over the stuff. 0.93

00:10:04.000 It never ends. 0.90

00:10:05.000 Yeah, because, right, we gain new followers, might lose some, blah, blah, blah.

00:10:09.000 So a lot of the guys that come in, they might have come in because they like our political takes, but they're not necessarily, you know, familiar with the ladies, right?

00:10:17.000 So we're here to kind of help you guys out with that as far as like vetting the women.

00:10:23.000 Because guys, look, this is actually a very important skill, right?

00:10:28.000 Because I don't think you guys understand how important this skill set is, vetting a girl, right? 0.94

00:10:34.000 So...

00:10:36.000 If you don't understand how to vet a girl, it's gonna lead to your misery for the rest of your life.

00:10:43.000 Yeah. 0.92

00:10:43.000 Because you only have this window of opportunity to discover and find out who she is, what her intentions are, and if she's gonna come into your life and fuck it up. 0.92

00:10:54.000 And if she does come into your life and fuck it up nine out of ten times, it's your fault because you didn't catch the signs early on and you don't vet.

00:11:01.000 Now, I know some of you guys in the chat might be like, Because let's just deal with the elephant in the room. 0.98

00:11:07.000 Oh! 0.60

00:11:08.000 Why is Frosh talking about vetting a girl? 1.00

00:11:11.000 Didn't he deal with that Chinese woman that was on some bullshit, blah, blah, blah, got some girl pregnant, etc.? 1.00

00:11:17.000 Well, guys...

00:11:19.000 For those of you guys that are aware and know the truth of what happened with that matter, Fresh actually deployed some tactics that we're gonna share with you today to identify her as a girl that's not right for any type of serious commitment.

00:11:33.000 And when he kinda let her go, because he found these things out, that's when she went crazy.

00:11:40.000 She got mad.

00:11:41.000 Because make no mistake about it, that response, right, the way she behaved, Was her being dumped.

00:11:48.000 So that's why she came out so viciously. 0.91

00:11:50.000 Because girls like her typically don't get dumped. 1.00

00:11:54.000 Also, someone that's been through it can tell you what not to do and what to do.

00:11:58.000 And also, having that process of actually going through that, I want to say...

00:12:02.000 Journey itself, you see a lot of things that you wouldn't see normally from watching from the outside looking in.

00:12:07.000 So having that perspective is important because I've been there myself in the past, as you guys saw recently.

00:12:12.000 And you know what?

00:12:13.000 It's a vetting process.

00:12:14.000 It takes time.

00:12:15.000 If you don't see it right away, cool.

00:12:17.000 But it's also fun sometimes when you get into that dangerous spot, but not fun when you get hurt.

00:12:21.000 So keep that in mind.

00:12:22.000 So that's really super important that you play some of these strategies.

00:12:27.000 Now, with that said, right, some girls might get mad and be like, oh, I'm going to get mad and do all this other stuff, which we told you guys we debunked a bunch of lies about how she's saying that she got the abortion because of him, blah, blah, blah, when in reality she had the abortion the whole time and she just used it as kind of like a scapegoat to get herself on certain podcasts and talk when in reality she had the abortion the whole time and But the reality is that she did the abortion the whole time. 0.53

00:12:50.000 She didn't care about Fresh's opinion.

00:12:53.000 She just called him to get him on tape saying, oh, well, I don't want a kid. 0.92

00:12:57.000 And then she used that to try to rationalize and justify, oh, look, I got an abortion because of him.

00:13:02.000 But the reality is she got the abortion the whole time. 0.99

00:13:03.000 And one of her own co-conspirators admitted this, that, you know, loser-ass hater chick that just makes videos on us all the time. 1.00

00:13:10.000 I don't even want to give her, say her name because she's a dork. 1.00

00:13:13.000 But yeah. 1.00

00:13:15.000 Pathetic, bro. 1.00

00:13:16.000 Pathetic. 1.00

00:13:17.000 There's literally YouTube channels that do nothing but exist to gossip on us. 1.00

00:13:21.000 It's absolutely wild.

00:13:22.000 And then also, just so you guys know, nobody's safe.

00:13:26.000 You saw Tom Brady recently, what came out with his ex.

00:13:30.000 Yeah, I tweeted about that. 1.00

00:13:31.000 She's a moron. 1.00

00:13:32.000 Yo, bro. 1.00

00:13:33.000 Stupid. 1.00

00:13:34.000 If Tom Brady is not safe, nigga, you're not safe, we're not safe, nobody's safe. 1.00

00:13:39.000 So learn from my mistakes, his mistakes, and move better if you can.

00:13:42.000 But I'll tell you this, man.

00:13:43.000 Nobody is without being checked.

00:13:47.000 Nobody's safe, brother.

00:13:48.000 Cold world out here.

00:13:48.000 Yeah.

00:13:49.000 Very cold world.

00:13:50.000 Yeah, so it comes with the territory, bro.

00:13:53.000 And it just happens, you know what I mean?

00:13:58.000 We've got five top topics to cover today.

00:14:00.000 Five ways to vet a girl. 1.00

00:14:02.000 So we're going to go over them with you guys.

00:14:03.000 Then after this, guys, we're going to go right into a Zoom call and answer some of your guys' questions.

00:14:08.000 Do we have any chats that we need to hit?

00:14:12.000 We'll do it after?

00:14:13.000 Okay.

00:14:13.000 Okay, cool.

00:14:14.000 Alright, so the first one, one of the most important foundational ones you can have, is time.

00:14:20.000 Listen, at the end of the day, you might have an idea, an assumption, you may even say this is wifey right away, off rip.

00:14:27.000 But we all know, people change, seasons change, women lie. 1.00

00:14:32.000 Sorry to put that in there.

00:14:34.000 No, but it's because, listen, at the very beginning, people play a part.

00:14:37.000 They pretend to be who they're not to make you feel better, to make you feel good about them.

00:14:41.000 Maybe even trap you in a situation because they think it's ideal for them and not for you.

00:14:45.000 Which is why it's important to figure out someone's motive at the very beginning. 0.99

00:14:48.000 Because networking, dating, same shit. 0.99

00:14:50.000 What's their motive? 0.99

00:14:52.000 Now, obviously with time, as time goes by, you see actions, you see people's intentions, and how they speak to you and to others.

00:14:59.000 And again, with time itself, most of us are happy because she's hot.

00:15:04.000 You know, we're into her, and we ignore the signs because, hey, she's hot. 1.00

00:15:08.000 But then again, we've seen many hot girls destroy men's lives because, again, they ignore the red flags and they went right into it. 1.00

00:15:14.000 But how much time should she actually take to vet somebody?

00:15:17.000 We believe a year minimum is what you should take.

00:15:19.000 It could even be more because, again, people can pretend to be who they're not.

00:15:23.000 And you guys have seen, a lot of girls come on the show and they say, oh yeah, listen, I don't go out, I'm home, I'm a stay-at-home girl type of girl.

00:15:30.000 Brother, I've seen them in the club right after the show, twerking again, going crazy.

00:15:34.000 And it's like, wait, but you told us something completely different on camera.

00:15:38.000 It's because, again, women sell purity at all times. 1.00

00:15:41.000 And if you believe every word that she says...

00:15:44.000 Understandably, you may not know what's happening behind the scenes, but you will see over time her actions, how she moves.

00:15:49.000 And funny enough, you can even employ some tests to see how she really is going to be in person and when you're not there.

00:15:56.000 But in reality speaking, guys, everyone needs time, no matter who you are.

00:15:59.000 So to sit up front as XYZ, you may not know all the details, but with time, you can tell a lot of things over that period of time.

00:16:08.000 So, the reason why we're making this step one, which is vetting for a period of time, which I always suggest to you guys, somewhere between 6 to 12 months minimum, right?

00:16:20.000 Is because...

00:16:23.000 The female strategy when trying to get into a relationship with you is to sell purity. 1.00

00:16:29.000 I'm a good girl.

00:16:31.000 I'm not like the others.

00:16:32.000 You know, I don't party.

00:16:34.000 I don't do XYZ, etc.

00:16:36.000 And your job as the man, right, is to see if she's telling the truth or not.

00:16:42.000 And the only way that you could properly assess this is by seeing her for a significant amount of time.

00:16:49.000 Because The only way you'll be able to figure out what's really going on and see how she really moves is through the vetting process and over a period of time.

00:16:59.000 One of the biggest mistakes that guys make is wifing up girls too early on in the relationship when you know her.

00:17:05.000 And the problem for that is, you know, let's just deal with what it is.

00:17:09.000 Guys will meet a girl.

00:17:11.000 She'll be attractive or she'll have a look that he likes. 1.00

00:17:13.000 And what he'll do is he'll start giving her a pass on certain things.

00:17:17.000 Certain red flags...

00:17:19.000 Or certain behaviors don't necessarily strike the same chord that they would have had the girl not fulfilled this look metric that you like, right?

00:17:28.000 It might be the hottest girl you've ever talked to. 0.96

00:17:30.000 It might be a girl that aligns with your religious beliefs.

00:17:33.000 It might be a girl that comes from your town. 1.00

00:17:35.000 It might be a girl that went to the same school as you.

00:17:36.000 Maybe you guys are the same alma mater.

00:17:39.000 Guys are fantastic at finding ways to give girls a pass that might not necessarily deserve a pass because they want to almost qualify her, and they rationalize it in their head to do so, right?

00:17:49.000 Because deep down, we all have that ick or that little tick in our mind whenever a girl is probably not going to be a good candidate for a long-term relationship.

00:17:58.000 But a lot of guys will overlook that because she does other things. 0.65

00:18:01.000 Oh, dude, she plays video games. 0.99

00:18:03.000 Oh, we're so alike, right?

00:18:06.000 And Your eagerness and happiness that she has some similarities with you or maybe that she's the hottest girl it could be a multitude of different reasons why you might qualify her but the point is that you qualify her without doing your due diligence and what's up happening is Right?

00:18:19.000 Is you don't check your work.

00:18:20.000 When you don't check your work, you get the wrong answer.

00:18:22.000 Remember in math class, you'd be in there, you know, 1 plus 1 is 2, or 10 plus 10 is 20, right?

00:18:28.000 And you could, like, go back.

00:18:30.000 The teacher would always say, go back and check your work or show how you came to your answer.

00:18:33.000 A lot of you guys don't check your work.

00:18:34.000 You just kind of come to the answer, but if I ask you, hey, reverse engineer that and tell me how you arrived at this number.

00:18:40.000 Did you carry the 1?

00:18:41.000 Did you divide this?

00:18:42.000 Blah, blah, blah.

00:18:43.000 A lot of you guys can't actually do that, right?

00:18:45.000 You guys can't reverse engineer how you came to your conclusion.

00:18:48.000 So, I want you guys, because a lot of you guys are analytical, some of you guys are engineers, some of you guys are involved in certain professions that are very, you know, how do I say this?

00:18:58.000 I'm going to put you on the spectrum a bit, I'll just say it that way, right?

00:19:02.000 I want you guys to look at dealing with women almost like a mathematical equation, where you need to arrive at an answer, and then I need you to be able to reverse engineer how you came to that answer, right? 1.00

00:19:13.000 And know that you did it right.

00:19:16.000 So, Going back to what I was saying, this is why time is so important because you're going to be able to figure this stuff out.

00:19:23.000 And the thing is, there's this famous saying, there's three things that always show themselves.

00:19:28.000 The sun, the moon, and the truth, right?

00:19:30.000 But the truth can't necessarily be shown if you don't allow enough time for the truth to come out.

00:19:36.000 Because girls will put on a facade in the first few weeks or months that you meet them to kind of... 1.00

00:19:41.000 Because here's the thing, they're not stupid. 0.89

00:19:44.000 You guys will sit there and talk, and you'll tell her your interests and hobbies.

00:19:47.000 What she'll do is, if she really likes you, is she'll contort Her likes and hobbies to align with yours or she'll start doing certain things that you said that you're interested in to kind of create this aura of like, look, I'm the perfect match for you.

00:20:01.000 Girls are very good at doing this, right? 1.00

00:20:03.000 Especially when they're looking for a relationship.

00:20:05.000 So this is why you need to have her for a period of time where you're vetting this out to see if she's actually genuine and authentic when it comes to that stuff.

00:20:12.000 Because they will sell purity.

00:20:14.000 They will sell the girlfriend appeal.

00:20:16.000 They will sell certain characteristics or traits about themselves or characteristics.

00:20:20.000 To kind of get you on the hook, line, and sinker.

00:20:24.000 Because no matter what girls tell you guys, right?

00:20:28.000 Women typically want a long-term relationship. 1.00

00:20:30.000 They don't want to be, you know, having to be doing a hot girl summer all year, right? 0.61

00:20:35.000 There's a reason why it's called hot girl summer, not hot girl year or hot girl life.

00:20:38.000 They don't want to be single all the time.

00:20:41.000 Whenever girls say, I'm single by choice, that's cope. 1.00

00:20:44.000 No, you're single because the guy that you want doesn't necessarily want you back or you don't qualify for the man that you want.

00:20:50.000 So therefore you rationalize it and say that you're single.

00:20:54.000 Girls will go ahead and make fun of men and say that they're incels. 1.00

00:20:56.000 Well, a lot of these girls are relationship cells. 1.00

00:20:58.000 They can't get in a fucking relationship. 0.99

00:21:00.000 But what they'll do is, a lot of them will to combat that, is sell you purity. 0.99

00:21:04.000 And if you don't do your due diligence and vet them for a good amount of time, she'll get you.

00:21:10.000 I'll use an example that's in pop culture right now.

00:21:17.000 A lot of you guys might be familiar with some of these streamers.

00:21:21.000 Whether it's Lacey, or maybe Aiden Ross a couple of years ago, or...

00:21:21.000 Right?

00:21:27.000 Or Jinxie, etc.

00:21:27.000 Jinxie.

00:21:29.000 These guys get with a girl, right?

00:21:31.000 Jinxie in this case got with this girl, I forget her name, Bricky something? 0.97

00:21:34.000 Bricky Hill?

00:21:35.000 Right?

00:21:35.000 Yeah.

00:21:36.000 Clearly, right?

00:21:37.000 Out of his league from a sexual market standpoint, right? 0.99

00:21:40.000 He's a regular ass dude, and she's an attractive girl. 0.99

00:21:44.000 But he has a lot of status and fame, so she aligned herself with him. 0.95

00:21:48.000 But...

00:21:49.000 Did he vet her properly?

00:21:51.000 No.

00:21:51.000 Because this is a girl that does OF, she's a content creator, so he should know to some degree, well, okay, this girl's with me because I'm famous and that I can go ahead and help her with her career.

00:22:03.000 Same thing with Neon and Frank.

00:22:05.000 He's getting with a girl where there's a significant disparity in sexual market value, so a lot of guys aren't, you know, maybe they can't or they don't want to reverse engineer why she's there.

00:22:16.000 I'm a 3.

00:22:18.000 This girl's a 5 or a 6 or a 7. 1.00

00:22:20.000 Why is she with me? 0.66

00:22:22.000 And then you're able to quickly figure out, oh, this dude's famous and that aligns with her goals.

00:22:27.000 These girls are OnlyFans chicks. 1.00

00:22:29.000 So they understand the game where...

00:22:32.000 They will sell purity to a degree, get with said individuals, propel their career, and then bam.

00:22:37.000 Now you end up in the situation that we've seen, where this neon chick, this girl is disrespecting neon all the time. 1.00

00:22:44.000 Jinxie breaks up with his girl. 0.94

00:22:45.000 She has the audacity to say, oh yeah, he watches corn when she's a corn star herself, which is fucking comical to me. 0.99

00:22:54.000 Insane. 0.96

00:22:54.000 Or Lacey, he wiped up this chick, taking her to Laker games, putting her on camera, and then he finds out later on that she's cheating on him at a party. 0.96

00:23:04.000 This all came from what?

00:23:06.000 Men not doing their due diligence and vetting these women.

00:23:08.000 And guys, the more you have to lose, the more famous you are, the more status you have, the harder you have to vet these girls out.

00:23:14.000 You have to employ more rigorous and invasive tests to see where the women really stand. 1.00

00:23:19.000 Especially...

00:23:22.000 Especially if they're girls that are involved in social media and want to be creators. 1.00

00:23:27.000 Matter of fact, I tell you guys all the time, don't even wipe these girls up.

00:23:29.000 I wouldn't even give them a chance.

00:23:31.000 To be honest with y'all.

00:23:33.000 You know?

00:23:34.000 Because I already know they're there for ulterior motives. 1.00

00:23:36.000 So the whole relationship is built on a fucked up foundation. 1.00

00:23:39.000 Yeah. 0.99

00:23:39.000 Very good point. 0.99

00:23:41.000 So time, guys, is your best friend.

00:23:43.000 100%.

00:23:43.000 And with time comes experience and wisdom.

00:23:47.000 So guys, I've been through a lot.

00:23:48.000 You guys have seen the past couple years.

00:23:50.000 Myron as well.

00:23:51.000 But more importantly, I've learned to maneuver in certain instances.

00:23:56.000 I'll give you one.

00:23:57.000 So with time, right, she's going to act a certain way in front of you.

00:24:01.000 Only you.

00:24:02.000 Because obviously she wants to make you feel happy, good, in the moment.

00:24:06.000 However, something you can employ with time, it's very elusive, very ninja-like, very sneaky, is you can have a friend that's a girl, chill with her alone to garner or show her intentions.

00:24:21.000 Let me explain.

00:24:22.000 So what I did was, I had this girl, that's cool with me, she happens to help me with a service, I wanna say what that is, not sexual, and she went out with Exhibit A, Chinese girl, And then, like, a little talk.

00:24:39.000 They went to go get some drinks real quick, talk a little bit.

00:24:42.000 And it's funny.

00:24:43.000 She spoke about her intentions to the girl.

00:24:47.000 And, beknownst to her, I knew from the very beginning what her plan was.

00:24:52.000 Now, granted, though, it's funny because girls talk differently. 1.00

00:24:56.000 Was this another chick? 1.00

00:24:57.000 Yeah, a different chick. 1.00

00:24:58.000 Not Angie.

00:24:59.000 You know her.

00:25:00.000 Oh. 1.00

00:25:01.000 Because she also said some dumb shit to Angie, too. 1.00

00:25:03.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:25:03.000 Does the... 1.00

00:25:05.000 You know?

00:25:06.000 Back stuff?

00:25:07.000 Okay.

00:25:08.000 Yeah.

00:25:08.000 Alright.

00:25:09.000 Okay.

00:25:10.000 So, it was like...

00:25:11.000 Oh, I didn't know that.

00:25:12.000 Yeah, yeah.

00:25:13.000 So, it was like, okay.

00:25:15.000 She acts one way in front of me, but let me see what she acts with a different person that's not me at all. 0.69

00:25:19.000 That's completely away from me.

00:25:20.000 That's a girl herself.

00:25:21.000 And you'd be surprised.

00:25:22.000 Girls talk to sound impressive and to say like, oh yeah, I got this guy and this is how I move. 1.00

00:25:28.000 And that right there will tell you how she is without you being in the room.

00:25:32.000 I'll tell you this right now, guys.

00:25:33.000 They act a certain way when you're there.

00:25:34.000 When you're not there, let's see what they really act.

00:25:36.000 And you'd be surprised.

00:25:37.000 One tactic you can do, which really is behind the scenes.

00:25:41.000 When we do the test, right?

00:25:43.000 Yeah.

00:25:44.000 But I really wanted to harp.

00:25:45.000 There's a reason why we made...

00:25:47.000 The first step one, guys, time.

00:25:50.000 Too many of you guys don't give it enough time.

00:25:52.000 You guys are in a rush to give this girl a title.

00:25:55.000 You're in a rush to get her girlfriend.

00:25:56.000 And I'm here to tell you guys, six months to a year, no exceptions.

00:26:01.000 Six months is bare minimum.

00:26:02.000 And to be honest with y'all, even six months is going to be very difficult.

00:26:06.000 And you might not get everything that you need to get.

00:26:08.000 Because the less work you do, right, up front, the more work you're going to have to deal with on the back end. 0.72

00:26:13.000 Because you didn't do your due diligence, now she's over here fucking up your house. 1.00

00:26:18.000 Now she's embarrassing you. 1.00

00:26:19.000 Now she's doing whatever, you know, it is.

00:26:23.000 And then worse yet, it's going to be a lot harder for you to get rid of her.

00:26:28.000 Right?

00:26:29.000 Because you didn't see a lot of this stuff coming.

00:26:30.000 9 out of 10 times it comes out of left field and you don't see it coming if it messes you up.

00:26:34.000 Also, with time, you should do a background check.

00:26:37.000 Hey Hero, chill out.

00:26:38.000 Just to make sure.

00:26:39.000 This involves a credit check, a life check, and a friend's who she's around check.

00:26:46.000 Which means, if you can, I mean, you can't always do this because you might not know her friends or her family or who she's around, but if you can, get a vibe check.

00:26:54.000 Wink wink.

00:26:54.000 Figure out her credit score.

00:26:56.000 Figure out mentally where she's at.

00:26:59.000 She's on antidepressants.

00:27:00.000 If she's taking any medication.

00:27:02.000 And thirdly, see who her friends are.

00:27:03.000 That says a lot about her in detail.

00:27:06.000 We're friends.

00:27:07.000 Any chats that we need to hit?

00:27:08.000 Yes, we do.

00:27:09.000 All right, let's hit some chats.

00:27:10.000 And guys, we're going to try to read more chats and be more interactive with you ninjas.

00:27:14.000 FNFSuperChat.com, guys.

00:27:15.000 Let's go.

00:27:16.000 Or RumbleRantedIn.

00:27:19.000 So, please get your questions in now, guys.

00:27:21.000 We're going to be reading chats a lot more with you ninjas, which I enjoy.

00:27:27.000 Chris thoughts?

00:27:28.000 Chris thoughts?

00:27:29.000 I can't see.

00:27:30.000 Okay.

00:27:30.000 Hey, mine, I recently went to the hospital and I got diagnosed with fatty liver.

00:27:34.000 And it turns out my liver doesn't produce fat as normal now.

00:27:37.000 I've been eating healthy only grains of chicken.

00:27:39.000 Every time I hear you go off about being fat, it really makes me think I'm a fat POS. I want to say thanks for reminding me.

00:27:44.000 What I am so I can become better.

00:27:46.000 Take care of WFNFA, man.

00:27:47.000 I'm glad that you're doing better and you're not fat.

00:27:49.000 Chris thoughts.

00:27:51.000 Fresh, can you explain Nigalations 15.3?

00:27:53.000 I can!

00:27:55.000 Listen up, niggas. 1.00

00:27:57.000 No, I thought normal. 0.99

00:27:59.000 So for a nigga, right, bro? 0.98

00:28:01.000 We have to feast on the booty. 1.00

00:28:03.000 That is paramount to our success.

00:28:05.000 Fried chicken, watermelon, and booty.

00:28:08.000 Now, when it comes to these women, we devour them because we're hungry. 1.00

00:28:15.000 And, if you're a nigga like me, you understand that it's ask first, ask questions later. 0.99

00:28:20.000 That's it. 0.98

00:28:26.000 Fresh, them knees, get some lotion. 0.87

00:28:28.000 Guys, if you didn't know, I'm the ashy-ass pimp that's still on the block.

00:28:33.000 Your uncle, John Pierre. 0.97

00:28:35.000 That's me.

00:28:38.000 Just saying. 0.99

00:28:39.000 Ashy-ass pimp named Blackback. 0.99

00:28:43.000 Alright. 0.98

00:28:43.000 Yeah, let's go. 0.98

00:28:45.000 What else do we got?

00:28:48.000 Marner Fresh, can you take a minute to explain how you guys vet beginning at the number slash dating app?

00:28:54.000 Do you move them to IG, then set up a FaceTime call, then to date?

00:28:57.000 What kind of questions are you asking on the FaceTime?

00:29:00.000 Because it should be only about five to ten minutes.

00:29:02.000 Yes.

00:29:02.000 Basic general stuff, bro.

00:29:04.000 Like getting to know who she is, where she's from.

00:29:06.000 A lot of times it's going to be biographical information.

00:29:09.000 You know, interest hobby.

00:29:11.000 Yeah, but you want her out the app so it's possible. 0.99

00:29:13.000 Yeah.

00:29:13.000 And Instagram, you can tell a lot by her page, what she's about.

00:29:16.000 And then FaceTime calls just to set up a date.

00:29:18.000 That's actually about it.

00:29:19.000 That's really what it is.

00:29:20.000 100%.

00:29:20.000 Know a little bit about her and then set up the date and put a face and a voice to the name.

00:29:26.000 And honestly, guys, just so you understand, when I go on dates, it's not to really take it serious.

00:29:32.000 It's more like just have fun for the experience.

00:29:35.000 So it's a little bit different than most people.

00:29:36.000 It's more like for the experience.

00:29:37.000 So just keep that in mind.

00:29:40.000 Yeah, guys, the FaceTime call is really to make sure that you're not a weirdo.

00:29:42.000 Yeah.

00:29:43.000 I'm gonna be honest with y'all.

00:29:44.000 True.

00:29:45.000 Lighten up the mood, comfort her a little bit.

00:29:47.000 You guys gotta understand, bro, that, like, by the time a girl's in her early 20s, she's dealt with a lot of strange men, right?

00:29:55.000 Like, a lot of y'all niggas are weird, I'm gonna be honest. 1.00

00:29:57.000 I don't even, like, blame them for doing this shit. 1.00

00:30:02.000 Because a lot of you guys are fucking weird. 1.00

00:30:04.000 No spatial awareness. 1.00

00:30:05.000 You breathe funny. 1.00

00:30:07.000 You say weird shit. 1.00

00:30:09.000 A lot of y'all are on some pervy time. 1.00

00:30:11.000 So, you know, a lot of dudes are whack jobs.

00:30:13.000 So, a lot of times when they do the FaceTime calls or whatever, it's just to ensure that you're like...

00:30:18.000 You know, cognitively functioning in a proper manner. 1.00

00:30:20.000 Because a lot of you guys are stupid. 1.00

00:30:21.000 And weird. 1.00

00:30:22.000 And strange.

00:30:23.000 For girls, guys are not really coherent on what they want or how to move with girls.

00:30:28.000 Yeah, bro.

00:30:29.000 Oh, he was weird the whole date.

00:30:31.000 I didn't like the date.

00:30:32.000 So common, bro.

00:30:33.000 Yeah.

00:30:34.000 Yeah.

00:30:34.000 - So, alright, what's next?

00:30:36.000 I'm Iron and Fresh, I start my new job next Monday, prepped it using old FNF videos.

00:30:43.000 - Let's go! - See the interview tips, Big W, any tips on how do I handle bullies?

00:30:47.000 I had some problems with that in my last job, could never figure a way out, shout out to the crew.

00:30:51.000 Well, make yourself unbullyable, bro.

00:30:53.000 Yeah, it seems like you're the common denominator here, where you're seen as the lesser than, so they bully you. 0.98

00:30:58.000 But honestly, bro, if you're at your workplace, you can just go complain, nigga. 1.00

00:31:03.000 Nigga, go to HR. He's bullying me. 1.00

00:31:05.000 They'll help you.

00:31:06.000 Yeah.

00:31:06.000 Keeping it real.

00:31:08.000 Dude, you're there to work, bro.

00:31:09.000 Not there to have issues with bullying.

00:31:11.000 I mean, you're our workplace, bro. 0.99

00:31:12.000 Just complain, nigga. 1.00

00:31:14.000 Yeah. 0.99

00:31:14.000 Go be a snitch. 0.99

00:31:16.000 How's it going, Fresh and Myron?

00:31:17.000 I had a Tinder while back, and I matched with a girl who got her Instagram.

00:31:20.000 She sent me a DM, but I don't pay attention to these hoes. 1.00

00:31:23.000 I saw her a few times at the club. 0.70

00:31:24.000 I showed my friend.

00:31:25.000 And I just found out that's his girl I know.

00:31:28.000 I don't care much about the chick. 0.99

00:31:30.000 What bothers me is a lack of loyalty. 0.93

00:31:31.000 Don't be friends with guys who lack women. 1.00

00:31:33.000 Because they'll turn on you for pussy. 1.00

00:31:35.000 Morals, I wouldn't do this to a friend. 1.00

00:31:38.000 What's your take on this?

00:31:39.000 Is this a bad friend?

00:31:43.000 I'm very confused.

00:31:44.000 Is it his girl?

00:31:45.000 Yeah.

00:31:48.000 No.

00:31:48.000 He got a DM from a girl.

00:31:50.000 And it's his boy's girl?

00:31:53.000 That's his girl now Yeah, but he didn't want all right Yeah, he didn't pay attention, so I don't get that.

00:32:06.000 Bro, if you dubbed her and then somebody else scooped her up, like...

00:32:10.000 Why do you care?

00:32:12.000 Yeah.

00:32:14.000 Yeah, I don't get your question here, Chris.

00:32:16.000 Me either.

00:32:16.000 Doesn't make sense.

00:32:18.000 Okay.

00:32:19.000 Yeah.

00:32:20.000 Cause, yeah.

00:32:21.000 I'll just say this though.

00:32:22.000 If you're out and about and you're dating and your boy's talking to a girl, there's so many girls out there, bro.

00:32:28.000 Don't talk to the same girl, bro.

00:32:29.000 Yeah.

00:32:29.000 I mean, you don't want to be buddies with people that can't get chicks because obviously we understand that.

00:32:34.000 But I don't know if that qualifies under this story that you're saying.

00:32:37.000 It sounds to me like you snoozed on the situation and then she went with your friend.

00:32:42.000 So...

00:32:43.000 Could be that, yeah.

00:32:44.000 That's how it reads.

00:32:45.000 But did he smash at all?

00:32:47.000 No, because he said that he just ignored her.

00:32:49.000 So yeah, I don't know where that...

00:32:51.000 Dude, send up a follow-up chat because that doesn't make sense.

00:32:54.000 Yeah, we don't understand that.

00:32:56.000 Sure.

00:32:57.000 WFNFL304, celebrating my 26th birthday today.

00:32:59.000 What's your guys' opinions on girls who take combinations of antidepressants, ADH, birth control, anxiety meds?

00:33:04.000 A lot of girls in their low 20s are on them. 1.00

00:33:05.000 Yeah, that's a big L. Bro. 0.60

00:33:09.000 It's not a W at all.

00:33:10.000 Yeah, not at all.

00:33:12.000 You know what's crazy, though?

00:33:13.000 If it's not antidepressants, it's drugs.

00:33:16.000 And either or is bad, bro, because imagine marrying her, having kids with her.

00:33:19.000 Tough. 0.98

00:33:21.000 You'd be cucked. 0.63

00:33:22.000 Yeah, not a good move, bro. 0.95

00:33:24.000 Pump and dump.

00:33:25.000 A man must have goals, money, and a house to have me.

00:33:28.000 What do you offer? 0.99

00:33:29.000 A black man's baby. 0.99

00:33:33.000 Oh, man. 0.98

00:33:34.000 That's actually funny. 1.00

00:33:35.000 Goddamn. 0.99

00:33:36.000 Oh, man. 1.00

00:33:37.000 What else do we got?

00:33:41.000 Go on up.

00:33:41.000 All right.

00:33:42.000 Yeah, send that chat, fix it up, bro, because we don't know what you're talking about.

00:33:45.000 Yeah, Chris, that was kind of vague.

00:33:47.000 Yeah.

00:33:47.000 All right, number two, usefulness and utility towards your goals and your vision.

00:33:52.000 So normally, you meet a chick, and to be fair, we're sitting on a podcast, doesn't have much to offer.

00:33:58.000 But, every now and then you find a girl that's actually useful, helps you with your business, maybe your chores after work, maybe even makes you dinner after you come home from work or whatever you do.

00:34:09.000 That really is being useful because now she's adding to your life rather than taking away and subtracting. 0.97

00:34:13.000 However though, This girl that you find that's useful to you, more often than not, may not be hot.

00:34:18.000 She may be subpar of a 5, 6, maybe a 4, but you look at it as, alright, she's useful in a sense, and she's not hot, I'll keep her around. 0.63

00:34:31.000 Here's the best part about this, right?

00:34:33.000 You find a girl that's hot and useful, how do you keep her and vet her properly? 1.00

00:34:36.000 Because more often than not, you fall into this trap where she's hot and you're like, damn, she's this hot and I'm like, falling for her, missing all the red flags.

00:34:45.000 So you need to put her in the same category as the four or five that you have.

00:34:49.000 If she's a seven or eight and she's useful, Keep in mind, the looks alone will kind of put you off track and make you forget about red flags.

00:34:56.000 But again, keep it at the same level as a 4 or 5.

00:34:59.000 I know it's hard to do because she's hot. 1.00

00:35:00.000 She may be the best you've ever had in your life.

00:35:02.000 But the best part is keep her the same level as a 5 or 4 so you don't lose track of red flags. 0.99

00:35:06.000 And again, it's useful to keep her around because I'll tell you this.

00:35:09.000 Most girls are not useful at all and they're just going to subtract from your life at all times. 1.00

00:35:12.000 So keep it that way. 0.98

00:35:16.000 Yeah, most girls are useless because they never had to be useful, right? 1.00

00:35:20.000 That's just what it comes down to, especially attractive ones, right? 0.94

00:35:24.000 Mid-girls, maybe they'll provide a bit more value, but if we're talking about women that are objectively pretty damn attractive, a lot of the times they're pretty useless because they've never had to be useful because guys don't really put them through the test, right? 0.91

00:35:35.000 They don't put them through their paces, so...

00:35:38.000 So, once you have this thing established where you have time, right?

00:35:41.000 Six months to a year.

00:35:43.000 Guys, during that period of time, you need to see her utility, man.

00:35:46.000 Like, how does she help you out?

00:35:48.000 Now, the thing is, is that every man is different.

00:35:50.000 So, this is really based on what your needs are, right?

00:35:53.000 Maybe you're a guy where you like coffee and you like to have coffee every single morning and she spends a couple of nights with you a week. 1.00

00:36:00.000 She needs to make sure that she has that coffee ready for you, right? 1.00

00:36:02.000 It could be something as small as that.

00:36:04.000 Or it could be all the way up to...

00:36:07.000 You don't like checking your emails or you don't like looking at mail and picking up your mail, right?

00:36:12.000 You could delegate that to her.

00:36:13.000 So it really comes down to how resourceful you want her to be and how helpful you want her to be and put it through her page and see what she can actually help you with.

00:36:23.000 Now, the other thing too, guys, is that this also, why this is so important is because it gives you the ability to kind of take a leadership role where you're delegating certain tasks to her.

00:36:33.000 When it comes to women, guys, women fall in love with you through acts of service, right? 0.91

00:36:39.000 Now, most feminists won't dare admit this, but girls fall in love by doing things for you because most men never have them do anything for them. 1.00

00:36:47.000 Most guys are just happy that she shows up and she's not able to build a bond with that individual because he's just happy because she's the most attractive girl he's never had, so he automatically pedestalizes her, right?

00:36:58.000 Oh my God, this is the hottest girl I've ever got.

00:37:00.000 I'm going to pedestalize her and take her everywhere. 0.99

00:37:01.000 That's why you see these male streamers, they get these girls. 0.99

00:37:04.000 A lot of times it's the most attractive girl they've ever had because they have low sexual market value relative to their fame, right? 0.99

00:37:10.000 And then the girl just uses and abuses them and then bam, next thing you know she's on to the next, right? 1.00

00:37:14.000 So what ends up happening is if you're able to get this girl, vet her, and then you have her do tasks for you, what you naturally end up doing is you create The attractive and the proper hierarchy.

00:37:29.000 Does that make sense?

00:37:30.000 Because by you giving her tasks, you automatically put yourself in a dominant leadership role.

00:37:35.000 Yeah.

00:37:36.000 Okay?

00:37:36.000 So everything else works its way out naturally.

00:37:40.000 Because if you're having her do things for you and seeing how much utility she provides, the natural order of you being the dominant leader falls into place.

00:37:51.000 And then she starts going ahead and providing these services to you, right?

00:37:55.000 Helping you out.

00:37:56.000 And that puts you naturally up here and her here as your subordinate. 0.68

00:37:59.000 And that's how relationships work. 0.99

00:38:01.000 This bullshit, guys, that they try to tell you on the internet. 0.99

00:38:03.000 Oh, it's equal partnership, 50-50, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

00:38:07.000 I need you guys to get rid of that shit right fucking now. 1.00

00:38:10.000 It's done. 1.00

00:38:11.000 Like, that shit... 1.00

00:38:14.000 I hate that I have to even say this shit again on this podcast, but it's so goddamn ingrained in Western society that men and women are equal, she's your partner, she's your better half, happy wife, happy life. 1.00

00:38:25.000 All these stupid ass fucking idioms that are created to kind of destroy The natural order of men being over women and being the leaders, protectors and providers and most importantly fucking decision makers, right? 1.00

00:38:39.000 So I don't need you guys to subscribe. 1.00

00:38:41.000 Everything that you've been taught from like these TV shows, relationships, etc.

00:38:46.000 It's all propaganda. 1.00

00:38:47.000 It's all fucking propaganda. 1.00

00:38:49.000 Ever since the nineteen, I'd say nineties, right? 1.00

00:38:53.000 They've made men look like bumbling idiots. 1.00

00:38:56.000 Where the girl's the smarter one, she's the leader, she's the boss, blah, blah, blah. 1.00

00:39:00.000 It's all a bunch of propaganda to push forward this agenda that men and women are equal.

00:39:07.000 But the reality is they're not.

00:39:09.000 At all.

00:39:10.000 And as a matter of fact, if you treat her like an equal, she's going to lose respect for you.

00:39:14.000 She's going to lose attraction for you. 0.94

00:39:16.000 Okay?

00:39:18.000 The natural female attraction triggers don't align with conventional societal norms of what they say relationships should be. 1.00

00:39:25.000 Of this whole bullshit equality. 0.98

00:39:27.000 So, you guys need to... 1.00

00:39:30.000 Destroy that whole mantra in your head of equality, happy wife, happy life, she's the boss, whatever she says goes. 1.00

00:39:38.000 Remove that right fucking now. 0.99

00:39:40.000 Remove that. 0.99

00:39:40.000 Because I promise you, if you guys subscribe to that way of thinking and running a relationship in that manner, it's a matter of fucking time until you're done. 0.99

00:39:48.000 Because when you do that, right, where she's the boss, you're giving her the frame. 0.95

00:39:54.000 When she has the frame...

00:39:56.000 It's a matter of time until you're out the game.

00:39:58.000 Simple as that.

00:39:59.000 She has a frame, matter of time until you're out the game. 0.66

00:40:02.000 Because when she has a frame, right, now she's in a leadership role, that's a very uncomfortable position for women. 1.00

00:40:09.000 Very uncomfortable position.

00:40:09.000 Right?

00:40:11.000 So, the more attractive you are, the more status you have, right, the longer she'll stay in that uncomfortable position, but at some point it's going to end. 1.00

00:40:22.000 We use Tom Brady a lot as an example here.

00:40:28.000 Gisele made it work with him for a significant amount of time, right?

00:40:31.000 But I guarantee you guys that if he was a regular guy and he wasn't Tom Brady, he probably would have left a lot sooner.

00:40:38.000 But his celebrity, his status, his money, their children, all these factors kept her around a little bit longer.

00:40:46.000 And sometimes you can buy yourself some time.

00:40:46.000 Right?

00:40:49.000 Right?

00:40:49.000 The more attractive of an individual you are, the more mistakes you can make.

00:40:52.000 And the longer you have where she'll kind of tolerate you until she leaves. 0.95

00:40:58.000 But I don't want you guys to be in that position where you're burning your sexual market value.

00:41:04.000 To buy time for her to find somebody better than you.

00:41:04.000 Right?

00:41:07.000 That's what basically ends up happening a lot of times where girls stick in these relationships with guys that they don't like. 0.99

00:41:11.000 I'll give you guys another example.

00:41:13.000 Sam and Neon have been together now for what?

00:41:14.000 Over a year?

00:41:15.000 Something like that.

00:41:16.000 You guys think she's there because she actually likes him and she wants to make it work?

00:41:19.000 She understands that he's a means to an end.

00:41:19.000 No!

00:41:22.000 He's not sexually...

00:41:24.000 Arousing.

00:41:25.000 Arousing to her.

00:41:26.000 But she understands that for her to continue her streaming career, she needs to tolerate him to some degree.

00:41:30.000 So what winds up happening is, she's there on camera, but she's cheating on him in the back end.

00:41:36.000 Cold world.

00:41:36.000 Right?

00:41:37.000 Because he didn't naturally put her where she needs to be in the hierarchy.

00:41:41.000 She's the boss, she's the decision maker, he's following her, etc.

00:41:44.000 So she's accelerating her because of ulterior motives. 0.99

00:41:47.000 I don't want you guys to ever be in this position where a girl is simply tolerating you and then doing some shit on the side. 0.70

00:41:53.000 Because if a girl's cheating on you, but she's still with you, there's something that you offer that the other guy doesn't offer yet. 0.99

00:42:01.000 But once he offers it, she's fucking gone. 0.95

00:42:03.000 This is the whole monkey branch concept, right? 0.98

00:42:05.000 She's holding on to one branch like this while moving to another one, and she's not going to let go of this one until she has this one firmly in her grip, which, translation, this other individual fulfills all of her needs so that she no longer has a use for you. 0.87

00:42:18.000 And if this guy can't fulfill it, let's say it's like this situation with Tom Brady where he's just a fucking martial artist that doesn't make as much money, right?

00:42:29.000 She doesn't fully leave until she has a kid like we can see now. 0.96

00:42:33.000 It hit the news that she's going to have a child with this guy, but I guarantee you guys that they've been banging raw for years. 0.98

00:42:39.000 And we're just now finding out that they're about to have kids.

00:42:41.000 She probably was cheating on Tom while they were still together. 1.00

00:42:45.000 Because women don't just leave a guy randomly, man. 1.00

00:42:48.000 They leave and they do it nice and slowly.

00:42:51.000 It's like a whole exit strategy where they're leaving and In a manner that's most conducive to their overall success in the future.

00:43:01.000 This is how girls move with relationships. 1.00

00:43:03.000 They're not stupid like us, where we don't have a game plan if we decide to leave. 0.99

00:43:07.000 They always have a game plan. 0.99

00:43:09.000 They have a couple of backups.

00:43:10.000 Every single time.

00:43:14.000 I saw that to say this because I don't want to be ranting here and yapping.

00:43:17.000 The usefulness needs to be established because it puts the natural order of things the way they need to be.

00:43:24.000 That's why you need to make sure that she's useful because it naturally puts you in a leadership role. 0.96

00:43:28.000 This whole equality thing, get rid of it immediately, guys. 1.00

00:43:31.000 Cut that shit from your brain. 1.00

00:43:32.000 It doesn't exist. 1.00

00:43:33.000 It's not real.

00:43:38.000 What's the next one?

00:43:41.000 Just after your point real quick, the word boredom itself kind of encapsulates what you're saying right now because if you're not making her useful for your life and she's bored, you know what she's going to do?

00:43:51.000 Go somewhere else and be unbored.

00:43:53.000 Or, for example, find another guy that gets her excitement when you don't and use that time with that guy because she's bored.

00:44:00.000 And again, Tom Brady was away At camps, working his ass off for the family.

00:44:05.000 You know what she was?

00:44:06.000 She was always bored.

00:44:07.000 This guy gave her some excitement, some tussle on the mats, if you know what I'm saying.

00:44:11.000 And the whole time, she's saying, Tom, come back.

00:44:14.000 If you don't come back, Tom, I'm going to leave.

00:44:17.000 But the whole thing, you know what she was doing?

00:44:19.000 Tussling with homeboy on the mats.

00:44:21.000 So listen, guys, when they're bored and they're not being useful to you, they're going to find ways to be useful to other men.

00:44:28.000 Very true.

00:44:29.000 Alright, number three.

00:44:31.000 Let's hit chats.

00:44:32.000 I see Azawallis, or no, was it Dennis?

00:44:35.000 Okay, Azawallis says, someone told my girl they saw me talking to a co-worker that she told me not to talk to, but I was helping her with work.

00:44:42.000 Now my girl's even mad calling me a cheater. 1.00

00:44:44.000 Now I want to talk to her.

00:44:45.000 I haven't replied to her last night text.

00:44:47.000 What should I do?

00:44:49.000 You already lost, bro.

00:44:50.000 And I'll tell you why you already lost.

00:44:51.000 She's questioning you.

00:44:52.000 So we literally had this question come up yesterday where one guy, he was married with kids and his wife was, or not his wife, excuse me, his long-term girlfriend who he has children with, she was annoying him, making similar allegations like this. 0.99

00:45:10.000 Guys, if you're in a position where a woman is nagging you, You're already fucking lost. 0.99

00:45:16.000 Let me be explicitly clear about this shit. 0.99

00:45:19.000 If you're in a relationship and your woman is nagging you, that means that she feels as though you guys are on the same footing if not she is better than you. 0.99

00:45:30.000 Alright?

00:45:31.000 One more time.

00:45:33.000 If your girl is nagging you or questioning you, she feels as though she's at the same level as you if not better than you.

00:45:41.000 Okay? 0.98

00:45:43.000 Once you get to this point, you're already fucking lost, guys. 0.98

00:45:48.000 Okay? 1.00

00:45:49.000 Because your relationship isn't a fucking democracy. 1.00

00:45:52.000 It's a dictatorship. 1.00

00:45:54.000 And I have to use extreme language like this for you guys to fucking get this through your heads. 0.99

00:45:54.000 Okay? 0.99

00:45:58.000 This isn't a relationship by committee or whatever.

00:46:03.000 This is a relationship by your authority and then she follows.

00:46:06.000 Does she have some say so?

00:46:08.000 Sure!

00:46:08.000 But at the end of the day, you make the final decision and she doesn't question you.

00:46:13.000 Alright? 0.99

00:46:14.000 If your woman is questioning you, you're already in fucking hot water, my friend. 1.00

00:46:18.000 You've already fucked up and lost half the game. 1.00

00:46:21.000 We don't answer to women over here. 1.00

00:46:23.000 Okay?

00:46:24.000 We don't.

00:46:25.000 You make your decision, it is what it is.

00:46:28.000 Comply or goodbye.

00:46:30.000 That's just how it goes.

00:46:31.000 We don't negotiate with terrorists.

00:46:34.000 Alright? 1.00

00:46:35.000 So, the fact that she's over here and feels that she can go ahead and nag you on this bullshit... 1.00

00:46:41.000 Tells me that you've already lost. 0.99

00:46:42.000 And you're trying to find a way to keep her. 0.99

00:46:44.000 Even though she's over-challenging your fucking authority. 1.00

00:46:47.000 Also, she took their word over your word. 1.00

00:46:49.000 That's scary.

00:46:50.000 So imagine, your girl thinking their word over your word.

00:46:53.000 What does that mean?

00:46:54.000 No trust.

00:46:55.000 No respect.

00:46:56.000 Because your word should be paramount.

00:46:57.000 Hey babe, this will happen.

00:46:59.000 Here's what it is.

00:47:00.000 Okay, I believe you babe.

00:47:01.000 Versus, well, they said this and that about you at work. 1.00

00:47:04.000 Bitch, who's that? 1.00

00:47:05.000 Does she pay the bills? 1.00

00:47:06.000 Does she help you out?

00:47:07.000 No.

00:47:08.000 So offer it, bro.

00:47:09.000 Like, she doesn't trust you at all or respect you.

00:47:11.000 Because she's taking their word over your word. 1.00

00:47:13.000 Crazy world.

00:47:14.000 Yeah, bro. 0.99

00:47:15.000 What's the hell, bro? 0.99

00:47:16.000 If you have to explain yourself to a female, you're already lost, bro. 1.00

00:47:20.000 Yeah.

00:47:20.000 You're already lost.

00:47:22.000 So, stop being a bitch. 1.00

00:47:24.000 Give her the back hand, bro. 1.00

00:47:25.000 Yeah, man.

00:47:26.000 Give her the back hand. 1.00

00:47:26.000 What the fuck is wrong with y'all niggas, man? 1.00

00:47:27.000 The back hand. 1.00

00:47:28.000 You guys... 0.99

00:47:29.000 Man, we gotta do this dating shit some more because... 1.00

00:47:31.000 We have to. 1.00

00:47:32.000 You guys literally are all losing frame with these girls, bro. 0.99

00:47:34.000 It's absolutely fucking crazy. 0.96

00:47:35.000 And the scary part is you guys think that you're RP aware you got your girl under control. 0.99

00:47:40.000 A lot of y'all don't, bro. 1.00

00:47:41.000 A lot of you guys got a girl by the skin of your fucking teeth. 1.00

00:47:44.000 Right? 0.99

00:47:45.000 And you're doing anything you can to fucking keep her happy, keep her around, etc. 1.00

00:47:49.000 That's how you end up in a situation like this where she's calling you to complain and call you a fucking cheater. 1.00

00:47:56.000 Like what? 1.00

00:47:57.000 Bro.

00:47:58.000 See, this is the issue with gossiping too as well, with girls. 0.97

00:48:02.000 It's like, she could be so into you, her friends get in her ear, and then they're like, wait, well, what about XYZ? He does her, this and that.

00:48:10.000 Bro, this is why, bro, you have to frame your girl because if you don't, other influencers will get in her ear and say, oh yeah, XYZ about your boyfriend.

00:48:16.000 And then it's a whole issue at home, bro.

00:48:19.000 It sucks, bro, but it's the world we live in. 0.59

00:48:21.000 You need a friend with your girl, 100%. 0.98

00:48:22.000 Faze Carter says, met a girl on a dating app over the span of two months.

00:48:25.000 We went on several dates.

00:48:26.000 We smashed a couple times.

00:48:27.000 Thought it was a genuine connection.

00:48:29.000 Then out of nowhere, responses are getting slower and slower.

00:48:31.000 Am I cooked?

00:48:32.000 Yeah, it's over.

00:48:32.000 And you care too much.

00:48:34.000 Yeah.

00:48:34.000 Two things happened there.

00:48:35.000 Could be an ex-boyfriend, or you were, again, boring to her, and she said, you know what?

00:48:39.000 I'm out.

00:48:40.000 Without saying anything to you.

00:48:41.000 So.

00:48:42.000 Yeah, bro.

00:48:42.000 Like, uh...

00:48:44.000 Yeah, well...

00:48:45.000 See, the problem that I've realized with guys nowadays, the girls always say they're boring.

00:48:50.000 It's like, I was with a guy, it was a cool date, but he was boring.

00:48:54.000 No fun, no excitement.

00:48:55.000 He didn't want to talk to me properly.

00:48:56.000 And no conversation skills at all.

00:48:59.000 So of course they're going to be like, this thing is boring.

00:49:01.000 Yeah, 100% she met another guy, bro.

00:49:04.000 And maybe she was looking for something more serious, you didn't give it to her or whatever, and she moved on.

00:49:09.000 That happens too.

00:49:11.000 You know what's crazy about this whole cheating thing?

00:49:13.000 Girls would be like, I think you're cheating. 1.00

00:49:16.000 I think you might as well just cheat then. 1.00

00:49:17.000 The fuck? 1.00

00:49:18.000 They're going to accuse you anyway. 1.00

00:49:19.000 Just go cheat.

00:49:20.000 Sorry, my bad.

00:49:21.000 I'm just saying.

00:49:22.000 But yeah.

00:49:22.000 Yeah.

00:49:24.000 Dennis Rose says, I've been watching you guys since February this year.

00:49:27.000 You guys helped me get from 4K to 20K a month.

00:49:30.000 Nice.

00:49:30.000 Made 120K in profit in the last six months.

00:49:32.000 I'm 26.

00:49:32.000 I live in Romania.

00:49:33.000 My problem is now I got a little bit more comfortable.

00:49:36.000 Any tips to keep pushing?

00:49:38.000 Go to the gym or take up a new hobby that will keep challenging you.

00:49:42.000 Also, if you spend money in certain ways, you should do a SMART, of course, where you get investments, like what Myron does.

00:49:48.000 You're going to be broke on paper, but not with your assets.

00:49:53.000 That makes sense. 0.95

00:49:53.000 So your company may be low because you're buying assets, but if you have the money in assets and it's not in your account, you're going to be like, damn, I'm still broke. 0.95

00:50:00.000 I need to work harder.

00:50:01.000 It's kind of like a trick you could do mentally with yourself.

00:50:03.000 Yeah. 0.99

00:50:04.000 But yeah, the dude that's over here talking about, like, someone said something about his girlfriend and co-worker, all this other bullshit, bro. 0.97

00:50:09.000 Like, bro, you... 0.99

00:50:11.000 Bro, get a grip, man.

00:50:12.000 Get a grip.

00:50:13.000 Yo. 1.00

00:50:14.000 The fuck are you doing? 1.00

00:50:15.000 Yo, like, lie on it, man. 1.00

00:50:15.000 No respect, bro. 1.00

00:50:17.000 Could you imagine if someone said something to Angie and she's like, Myron, what is this?

00:50:23.000 And you're like, here's what it is.

00:50:24.000 And she's like, well, I don't believe that.

00:50:26.000 Makes no sense, because she respects you and loves you, so your word is final.

00:50:30.000 Yeah, bro. 0.99

00:50:31.000 She wouldn't even bring that shit up. 1.00

00:50:32.000 There you go. 1.00

00:50:33.000 Like, guys... 0.99

00:50:34.000 And again, this comes back to the whole thing where a lot of you guys think that our relationship is a fucking partnership. 0.97

00:50:44.000 It's not. 0.98

00:50:44.000 Two-way street. 0.98

00:50:45.000 It's not a two-way street, guys.

00:50:45.000 At all.

00:50:46.000 It's a one-way street.

00:50:48.000 Your way or the highway.

00:50:49.000 Okay?

00:50:50.000 Okay.

00:50:52.000 When you guys are driving, right, in New York City or Miami or one of these big cities, there's one-way streets, right, where you can't make a right turn because they're coming from that way?

00:51:00.000 That's how it needs to be with you guys. 0.97

00:51:01.000 There's no fucking... 0.96

00:51:02.000 There's no two-way street here where it's like, oh, yeah, we could both... 1.00

00:51:06.000 No. 1.00

00:51:07.000 Like, fuck no. 1.00

00:51:09.000 I'm here to tell you guys. 1.00

00:51:10.000 We don't have two-way streets with women. 1.00

00:51:12.000 This isn't a fucking partnership. 0.99

00:51:15.000 This isn't like an equal representation party. 0.98

00:51:18.000 Okay? 1.00

00:51:19.000 It's a fucking dictatorship. 1.00

00:51:20.000 All you niggas need to dress up like Fidel Castro for Halloween and remind yourselves. 1.00

00:51:24.000 This is a fucking dictatorship. 1.00

00:51:26.000 Okay? 1.00

00:51:27.000 One leader, one ruler, one decision maker.

00:51:30.000 That's it!

00:51:31.000 I'll tell you this.

00:51:32.000 If you don't lead, she gonna lead.

00:51:35.000 And her plan is going to be good for her.

00:51:37.000 Incredible. 0.99

00:51:38.000 You're getting bitched up by your girl about some shit that you're doing at work. 1.00

00:51:41.000 Are you fucking serious? 1.00

00:51:42.000 Hopefully you're not paying the bills. 1.00

00:51:45.000 50-50.

00:51:46.000 What's the guy's name again? 1.00

00:51:50.000 That said this shit with... 1.00

00:51:51.000 Is it Faze Carter? 1.00

00:51:53.000 Or is it Dennis Rose?

00:51:54.000 I think it's Dennis.

00:51:55.000 Wait, scroll down.

00:51:56.000 Is this a guy from Romania?

00:51:58.000 Yeah, this is a guy from Romania.

00:51:59.000 No, no, no.

00:52:00.000 That's not him.

00:52:00.000 I'm talking about the dude that got caught at work.

00:52:05.000 Azza Wallace. 0.65

00:52:06.000 Yeah, Azza Wallace. 1.00

00:52:07.000 Yeah, Azza Wallace, you're a pussy. 1.00

00:52:09.000 Alright? 1.00

00:52:10.000 You're literally a bitch. 1.00

00:52:11.000 And if you keep going down this road, because I'm saving you right now from yourself, if you keep going down this road where your girl's able to question you and put you in a hot seat and then call you a cheater and you're over there like, oh no, it's not me! 1.00

00:52:23.000 You lost, nigga. 1.00

00:52:24.000 Because you're putting yourself on the same level as her. 0.99

00:52:27.000 Yeah.

00:52:27.000 What you need to do instead and be like, look, I don't answer to you.

00:52:32.000 Alright? 0.99

00:52:35.000 Don't fucking nag me. 0.99

00:52:37.000 Just like that! 1.00

00:52:38.000 Don't nag me.

00:52:39.000 And you might lose her.

00:52:40.000 And you might lose her.

00:52:40.000 You might very well lose her.

00:52:42.000 But you know what? 1.00

00:52:43.000 I'd rather you lose a girl that you don't have frame with Than to maintain a chick that thinks that she could boss you around and question your fucking authority. 1.00

00:52:51.000 Because that's a cancer that's waiting to ripen. 1.00

00:52:55.000 Or marry her too.

00:52:56.000 Yep.

00:52:57.000 And then you know what she's going to say? 0.90

00:52:59.000 No sex for you this week. 0.99

00:53:00.000 No sex for you. 0.99

00:53:01.000 And then you're stuck with a girl that you marry with no sex. 0.99

00:53:05.000 Ta-da! 1.00

00:53:05.000 She didn't like you that much. 1.00

00:53:07.000 No respect. 1.00

00:53:08.000 So all that awaits you is fucking pain, doom and gloom if you keep going with this chick. 1.00

00:53:11.000 So you need to set shit straight right fucking now. 1.00

00:53:14.000 And you might lose her in the process because you're clearly a bitch. 1.00

00:53:17.000 So you need to let her know that you're not a bitch and tell her, look, you don't fucking nag me. 1.00

00:53:21.000 This is not how this goes. 0.99

00:53:22.000 And you might lose her.

00:53:23.000 Oh well.

00:53:24.000 I'd rather you lose her than continue to maintain this relationship where she's bossing you around and questioning you. 0.97

00:53:29.000 Because here's the thing.

00:53:30.000 You're just telling us about this incident, but I'm telling you, I don't know for a fact, she probably does way more than just that when it comes to nagging. 1.00

00:53:38.000 It's true.

00:53:39.000 Alright.

00:53:41.000 Next one.

00:53:41.000 Albo Ace?

00:53:42.000 Albo Ace? 1.00

00:53:43.000 Nigga, screw you, bro. 1.00

00:53:44.000 First look like a booty warrior? 1.00

00:53:45.000 Okay.

00:53:46.000 Please, Johnson, straight out of the prison with that hat. 1.00

00:53:48.000 Screw you, nigga. 1.00

00:53:49.000 Alright, so, because we got to still do Zoom. 1.00

00:53:51.000 Guys, we're going to be doing a Zoom call, alright?

00:53:53.000 After this, a lot of you niggas need help. 1.00

00:53:55.000 Join Castle Club.

00:53:55.000 CastleClub.tv.

00:53:56.000 We're going to be having a Zoom call, right?

00:53:58.000 We're going to be answering relationship questions like this, etc.

00:54:00.000 So join in, guys.

00:54:02.000 CastleClub.tv.

00:54:03.000 We want to hear your personal issues with your life and girls.

00:54:07.000 We got you guys 100%.

00:54:08.000 Alright, number three.

00:54:09.000 Reputation.

00:54:10.000 Reputation, man.

00:54:11.000 This goes a long way with access and knowing your girl and trust and respect.

00:54:16.000 So reputation is very important for men and women, but especially with your girlfriend you're going to marry or take serious, it's going to have to be a clean card.

00:54:24.000 The whole fact has to be clean.

00:54:25.000 So you know when we buy a car, right?

00:54:26.000 You get the car facts.

00:54:27.000 You need the whole facts for your girl.

00:54:28.000 Because if you don't have that intact or have an understanding of what that may be, You end up buying a faulty car with multiple issues, and like a McLaren, it's sexy, it's hot, it's a nice car, it's fast, but it got hella issues.

00:54:44.000 You don't want to get a car with issues, because I'll tell you this, bro, you can spend more time fixing issues than driving a car.

00:54:51.000 Am I calling women cars? 1.00

00:54:52.000 No.

00:54:53.000 But what I'm saying is, they're very similar.

00:54:55.000 Now, granted though, it costs reputation, right?

00:54:57.000 How do you find the whole facts on a girl? 0.74

00:55:00.000 This is going to work for you abroad and as well in America.

00:55:06.000 Number one, you want to have A line of defense.

00:55:10.000 What is that?

00:55:11.000 You need to know your environment.

00:55:13.000 For example, you may want to meet some bartenders that work at a certain bar in your area.

00:55:17.000 You might want to meet some people that are good friends with you that go out often or work either in her workplace or her church or even in your surrounding area.

00:55:25.000 Know people in your community, right?

00:55:26.000 It's very important because they might tell you a secret that you may not know about the girl or even have info that you may not know at all.

00:55:31.000 So have spies in your local area.

00:55:34.000 Just follow me here.

00:55:36.000 Number one.

00:55:37.000 Number two, you want to have as well Her actual social media.

00:55:42.000 Because people will either hide from your social media sometimes or give you a false one to hide who they really are.

00:55:48.000 But you know what you can't hide?

00:55:49.000 Tag photos.

00:55:51.000 You can't hide friends' pages, right?

00:55:54.000 So, what I'm saying is that, like, have her Instagram, have her social media, and see how she operates. 0.77

00:55:59.000 Because I'll tell you this, guys.

00:56:00.000 There's signs everywhere.

00:56:01.000 And yes, we ignore so many signs because we're guys.

00:56:04.000 She's hot. 1.00

00:56:05.000 Understandable.

00:56:05.000 But the vast majority of signs are going to be online online.

00:56:08.000 Or on our phone, right?

00:56:10.000 So keep that in mind.

00:56:10.000 But I don't recommend going through our phone because it's kind of weird.

00:56:12.000 That's kind of like a weird thing to do.

00:56:15.000 Number three, though.

00:56:17.000 Whatever language you know, she may know other languages.

00:56:21.000 I'll give you an apple.

00:56:23.000 Back in Colombia, when I used to go with my friends, girls would always talk in Spanish because obviously they're from Colombia.

00:56:28.000 But one of our boys knew Spanish.

00:56:31.000 So whenever they would talk, it's like, oh, yeah, well, this and that boy, this guy.

00:56:36.000 We're there in the same room. 0.99

00:56:38.000 But they're talking shit about some of these guys, right? 0.99

00:56:41.000 Or saying, oh, we're going to charge him, whatever. 0.99

00:56:42.000 Whatever that may be. 1.00

00:56:44.000 Having someone that speaks language is big because now they talk shit. 0.99

00:56:48.000 They don't know he knows the language. 0.99

00:56:49.000 They can tell you off rip, yo, bro, she's saying this and this and this about you.

00:56:52.000 The point is that, like, with reputation, you need to understand all factors that come into play.

00:56:57.000 Language, who she's around, what she's about, and as well her history.

00:57:01.000 And sometimes you don't get that up front because obviously you don't know her that well.

00:57:04.000 But being her family, your friends, it tells you a lot about her indirectly.

00:57:09.000 Here's the last part about this puzzle, right?

00:57:11.000 So with the whole facts, it's a clean sheet, clean memo for the most part.

00:57:16.000 But what happens when she meets a guy from your school?

00:57:18.000 A guy that goes to your soccer team.

00:57:21.000 A guy that's your friend back in the day.

00:57:24.000 You should know these things because if you don't know these things, guys, I'm telling you right now, Imagine you show up to a room with your friends and everyone in here smashed your girl.

00:57:31.000 How would you feel?

00:57:32.000 Would you be happy about that?

00:57:33.000 No, you wouldn't be. 1.00

00:57:34.000 What the fuck? 1.00

00:57:35.000 Jimmy too? 1.00

00:57:36.000 He's a retard! 1.00

00:57:37.000 He's a little bit slow, you know? 0.99

00:57:39.000 So, the point is that, like, you have to have a, I want to say, roundabout way to figure out where she's been at, who she's been around, because the worst thing you can do is marry a girl that we all had.

00:57:49.000 I'll tell you this, bro.

00:57:50.000 In Miami, that's a common thing.

00:57:52.000 Hey, bro.

00:57:54.000 I don't call names, but, like, future had her one day, then, This person had it one day.

00:57:59.000 Tory Lanez had it one day. 0.97

00:58:00.000 Listen, bro.

00:58:00.000 You don't want to be that guy with that girl.

00:58:01.000 I'm telling you right now.

00:58:02.000 So, what's important, guys, is her reputation.

00:58:05.000 But more important is the whole facts.

00:58:07.000 I gave you four things you can do to find ways about who she really is.

00:58:10.000 But again, there's more ways you can do, which we'll cover on the Zoom call.

00:58:13.000 But again, whole facts is very important.

00:58:15.000 And listen, it takes time.

00:58:16.000 This happens in one day, a week, or two weeks, maybe.

00:58:18.000 It may take a month or two.

00:58:19.000 Once you get it, don't buy the car.

00:58:23.000 Yeah, I mean, I'll be brief with this one.

00:58:26.000 When it comes to reputation, guys, whatever her reputation is, you're going to absorb that once you take her on, right?

00:58:31.000 Because girls are chasing a man's last name in a serious relationship. 1.00

00:58:35.000 So whatever she brings to the table from her past is going to absolutely affect your future.

00:58:40.000 And knowing this as a man, that your reputation is on the line, you need to be very strategic and smart with how you move when it comes to women.

00:58:49.000 Because as a guy...

00:58:53.000 Your legacy can absolutely be tarnished if you put the wrong girl by you, right?

00:58:57.000 I always use Will Smith as an example, but it's a good one because Will Smith, one of the best actors of our generation, Bunch of great movies, whether it's Men in Black, Seven Pounds, I Am Legend, iRobot, Ali, etc.

00:59:13.000 Fresh Prince of Bel-Air.

00:59:14.000 Legendary.

00:59:15.000 People aren't going to remember that portfolio of films and acting. 0.98

00:59:19.000 They're going to remember the fucking table talk with him and Jada Pinkett Smith. 0.98

00:59:24.000 Where she said, oh, we got into an entanglement. 0.99

00:59:26.000 And then him slapping Chris Rock.

00:59:26.000 Right?

00:59:27.000 And crying.

00:59:28.000 And crying.

00:59:29.000 That's what people remember.

00:59:30.000 They don't remember all the legendary movies that he was in.

00:59:33.000 Fortunately for me, I'm a bit older, so I remember when Smith was in his heyday doing a lot of these movies and the Fresh Prince of Bel-Air, etc.

00:59:39.000 But like, the newer generation, and then even some people from my generation, they're not going to remember that.

00:59:44.000 They just remember him being with a 304 and slapping Chris Rock at an award show.

00:59:50.000 Because of 304.

00:59:51.000 So, I say all that to say this.

00:59:54.000 Your reputation and your legacy can be tarnished by just a few bad decisions by your girl.

01:00:00.000 So, the more status you have, the more money you have, the more you have to lose, the more picky you need to be with which girl you bring next to you.

01:00:09.000 Alright guys? 1.00

01:00:10.000 Because you can absolutely have your legacy tarnished on some fuck shit. 1.00

01:00:15.000 Not worth it. 1.00

01:00:16.000 Yes.

01:00:17.000 So this is an example of going through the fire for you guys.

01:00:21.000 Learn from my mistakes.

01:00:22.000 So, You know your boy, some whole facts on that Chinese escort.

01:00:27.000 We got the facts.

01:00:29.000 But, you can learn this for yourself as well.

01:00:32.000 Because online, there's always what?

01:00:34.000 There's a footprint you can follow.

01:00:36.000 So, guys, if you're worried about a chick, if she does OnlyFans, does any type of porn online, you can find her by going to PimEyes.com.

01:00:44.000 If you don't know what this is, it's a website that tells you in detail about a girl's past history.

01:00:49.000 And all you need is a photo.

01:00:50.000 A screen photo, a photo from Snapchat, whatever you need, you just get the photo, put it in PimEyes, and it tells you their footprint of digital work, either on camera or behind the scenes.

01:01:02.000 And you'd be surprised, guys.

01:01:03.000 You can find a lot about a girl.

01:01:06.000 Type in her picture on the website.

01:01:07.000 It's called P-M-I dot coms. 1.00

01:01:09.000 P-I-M-E-Y-E-S dot com. 0.53

01:01:11.000 I'm telling you guys, this is magic because nowadays, oh yeah, I don't do OnlyFans or I don't do none of this.

01:01:17.000 You never know, bro.

01:01:17.000 Bro.

01:01:19.000 And here's the best part.

01:01:20.000 Sometimes they exchange currency for the box.

01:01:28.000 It tells you everything in that website.

01:01:30.000 So guys, pimeyes.com.

01:01:32.000 Check it out.

01:01:33.000 Secret sauce.

01:01:34.000 You heard it here first.

01:01:35.000 Yeah, and you guys need to be more cognizant about this, by the way, today now more than ever, because what the Internet and this globalized world has done is it's effectively allowed women because what the Internet and this globalized world has done is it's effectively allowed women to utilize the Internet What do I mean by this?

01:02:00.000 Girls are not able to earn a pretty decent living from marketing their sexuality on a grand scale. 1.00

01:02:10.000 Whether it's through OnlyFans, webcam sites, Sugar babying, being on these sites, right?

01:02:18.000 Women are able to almost sell themselves to a degree. 1.00

01:02:22.000 And depending on the girl, some girls do it surreptitiously, right? 1.00

01:02:26.000 Where they do it on the side and you don't know, they don't really put it out like that.

01:02:29.000 And then some girls do it more overtly. 1.00

01:02:31.000 The point is that whether they're doing it overtly or surreptitiously, you need to find out and make sure.

01:02:36.000 Because if she's done any of this, automatically disqualified from a relationship with you guys. 0.96

01:02:41.000 Because that stuff can always rear its ugly head.

01:02:43.000 It used to be a girl could be a stripper, and you would never know. 1.00

01:02:46.000 Because she did it in some random town years ago.

01:02:49.000 She comes in, sells you purity, you don't know. 0.90

01:02:51.000 But nowadays, with the ease of the internet and the ability to scale and globalize their sexuality...

01:02:58.000 A lot of girls do this stuff on the side, and you might not know about it. 1.00

01:03:02.000 Guys, it's funny.

01:03:03.000 This is crazy, but ask a girl. 1.00

01:03:06.000 I'm just curious.

01:03:07.000 You ever sold your body for some change, some dollars?

01:03:11.000 They're going to say to you, of course, no, I would never do that.

01:03:14.000 But guys, I'm telling you, that website, penmice.com, you can see Claire's Day, the website that they use, and as well, the pictures.

01:03:22.000 I'm telling you guys, it's simple, but accurate.

01:03:25.000 And as well, guys, Most girls will never admit to you what they do. 0.99

01:03:28.000 Because obviously it's bad.

01:03:29.000 Purity is number one to sell because obviously if they're pure, we'll take them on seriously.

01:03:33.000 But again, you need to know the whole facts.

01:03:35.000 If you don't know the whole facts, bro.

01:03:36.000 And the more attractive she is, the higher the likelihood that she's participated in it, by the way, guys.

01:03:41.000 Also, to me, guys, I like an honest hoe. 1.00

01:03:43.000 If I know what you do, you're honest about it, cool.

01:03:46.000 We can rock, have some fun, but that's it.

01:03:48.000 When you lie to me, I'll find out. 0.99

01:03:50.000 I'll cut you off. 0.99

01:03:52.000 Alright, next one is...

01:03:53.000 Number four!

01:03:55.000 On the list.

01:03:55.000 Yeah.

01:03:56.000 Number four.

01:03:57.000 It's going to be Tess.

01:03:58.000 Hey guys, Zoom call right after this.

01:03:59.000 Yes.

01:04:00.000 Literally going to turn it on over to a Zoom call.

01:04:02.000 We'll probably stay on the same stream.

01:04:03.000 So, join Castle Club right now, guys.

01:04:05.000 CastleClub.tv.

01:04:06.000 Alright.

01:04:07.000 Number four is going to be Tess.

01:04:08.000 So, again, we mentioned before things you can do to kind of test the girl that you're with in the vetting process over a year, six months to a year.

01:04:15.000 However, when it comes to testing, right guys?

01:04:17.000 It can't be an obvious test.

01:04:19.000 Like, you don't want to say, okay, I want to test you.

01:04:21.000 Here we go.

01:04:22.000 You want to be as discreet as possible and natural as possible.

01:04:25.000 Natural tests go the better way.

01:04:27.000 And I'll say this right now.

01:04:28.000 If you can test a girl correctly over a period of time, you're going to see who she really is. 0.97

01:04:32.000 We mentioned one earlier of having a friend that's a girl go over here alone, get to know her a little bit better.

01:04:38.000 That's one way you can do a test for your girl. 0.99

01:04:38.000 See where her head is at. 0.99

01:04:41.000 Also, there's another test you can do.

01:04:42.000 I wrote it down here.

01:04:44.000 It's going to be pretty simple as well.

01:04:47.000 So, something called question and answer behavior is what you call this technique.

01:04:52.000 It's where you ask a question to a girl, right, that you want her general response to.

01:04:57.000 So, you can ask her, for example, hey, I'm just curious, do you prefer to go out and party or do you prefer to stay home and, you know, watch movies or stuff like that?

01:05:07.000 She may tell you, oh yeah, I like to stay home and watch movies and that's what I like to do.

01:05:10.000 I don't like going out at all.

01:05:12.000 So she says one thing, I don't like to go out at all and watch movies.

01:05:15.000 Cool.

01:05:16.000 She said this to you, Claire's day, not drunk, sober as hell, right?

01:05:20.000 Awesome.

01:05:21.000 You got the answer.

01:05:22.000 Now, behavior is the second part.

01:05:24.000 So, let's say you're with this girl for 2-3 months, but it just so happens every week, at least 4 times a week, she's out at the club. 0.53

01:05:33.000 So wait, she told you she doesn't go out at all, and she just stays home and watches movies.

01:05:37.000 Cool!

01:05:38.000 But her behavior says otherwise.

01:05:39.000 So see how it doesn't line up?

01:05:40.000 How she's telling you one thing, but it's opposite?

01:05:43.000 You can do this in multiple instances for multiple reactions.

01:05:46.000 And listen, guys, it's simple.

01:05:48.000 If you have a question, you're not being mischievous.

01:05:50.000 You're just saying, hey, listen, I'm just curious about this.

01:05:53.000 What's your stance on this?

01:05:54.000 Oh, I would never go outside like that.

01:05:56.000 Lo and behold, they're outside.

01:05:57.000 So it has to match up with the answer and the behavior to make sense.

01:06:02.000 That doesn't happen to you guys, bro.

01:06:03.000 What's she really doing to you? 1.00

01:06:05.000 She's lying to you.

01:06:05.000 All for it.

01:06:06.000 Now, Selling purity is number one.

01:06:08.000 That's her main goal to you, of course.

01:06:10.000 But, as question, multi-behavior, you can see in real time who she really is.

01:06:15.000 But yeah, Tess.

01:06:18.000 Are there any chats or...

01:06:20.000 Can I read some of these chats and I'll go into...

01:06:23.000 Think about this.

01:06:24.000 This thing.

01:06:25.000 Our boy said, fresh looking like Bodie Warrior, Felice Johnson, right?

01:06:29.000 We heard you, bruh!

01:06:31.000 Think about this.

01:06:32.000 All right.

01:06:35.000 Are Nova says, why fresh dress like Black Popeyes? 1.00

01:06:38.000 Nah, bro.

01:06:39.000 Name Blackback. 0.52

01:06:42.000 Blackest Panther says, I hear this rebuttal against men being sole providers and women staying home.

01:06:47.000 Statistically, stay-at-home wives have a high rate of divorce. 1.00

01:06:50.000 What they fail to state is that these men failed to leave their households and left her in charge of major decisions.

01:06:56.000 What you said is important. 0.98

01:06:57.000 She needs to be kept occupied, give her things to do, keep her busy, even if it's mundane shit. 0.99

01:07:02.000 If she's not working for you, she's working for another man, even if she's sitting in her ass at home. 1.00

01:07:06.000 Exactly. 1.00

01:07:06.000 She has to be doing something. 1.00

01:07:08.000 Yep.

01:07:08.000 Stanley says, question from Iron and Fresh, if my fiancé is an aspiring, I think he means aspiring, singer, but she keeps spending way too much time with her producer than with me, and I barely can't find time with her because she's always spending time with her producer.

01:07:22.000 Even now, see what time is that a red flag?

01:07:24.000 Yeah, big red flag, nigga. 1.00

01:07:25.000 Hold on, Bills. 0.83

01:07:27.000 Please tell them, because, see, they might not know the culture of producers and the music industry.

01:07:31.000 Tell them, Bills, what this actually means.

01:07:33.000 First of all, am I muted?

01:07:35.000 Please don't mute yourself, Bills.

01:07:36.000 Can you guys hear me?

01:07:37.000 Yes, because Bill understands the culture here.

01:07:39.000 Alright, hold on.

01:07:40.000 I'm good?

01:07:40.000 Alright, cool.

01:07:40.000 Thank you, man.

01:07:42.000 Don't do it, bro.

01:07:43.000 She for the streets. 0.89

01:07:45.000 Unless you making beats, bro, or...

01:07:49.000 Because usually guys in this scenario here, her main motive is to do what? 1.00

01:07:54.000 Be successful by any means possible.

01:07:56.000 Her producer is her golden ticket to success.

01:07:59.000 So you are a back-end response to this equation.

01:08:05.000 If it doesn't work out, I got my boyfriend, I'll take care of me.

01:08:08.000 Wink, wink.

01:08:09.000 But her main goal is to be what? 1.00

01:08:10.000 Successful in the industry.

01:08:12.000 So I tell y'all don't get with entertainers, man.

01:08:14.000 Bro, I'm telling y'all, man.

01:08:16.000 Yo, don't take girls serious that want to be entertainers, bro. 1.00

01:08:21.000 Like...

01:08:21.000 Don't do it.

01:08:22.000 It's like, do these niggas be listening, bro? 1.00

01:08:25.000 Bro, she want to be an influencer, she want to dance, or any of this shit? 1.00

01:08:28.000 Bro, no, man. 1.00

01:08:30.000 Fuck no. 1.00

01:08:30.000 Kick streamer? 1.00

01:08:33.000 Any of this shit, bro? 1.00

01:08:33.000 Nah, bro. 1.00

01:08:34.000 It's an elf.

01:08:36.000 Because what you guys don't understand is that when a girl wants to be an entertainer, right? 0.97

01:08:40.000 She wants to get into these professions. 1.00

01:08:43.000 What the fuck? 1.00

01:08:44.000 Niggas too ashy, bro. 1.00

01:08:46.000 This is terrible, nigga. 1.00

01:08:47.000 I was trying to be ashy, but this nigga is too ashy. 1.00

01:08:49.000 God damn, nigga. 1.00

01:08:50.000 Holy smokes. 1.00

01:08:52.000 Anyway.

01:08:52.000 Yeah, bro.

01:08:54.000 The problem is that when our girl wants to be an entertainer, guys, she has to put herself in certain situations where men have access to her that you don't necessarily, you can't Alright? 0.98

01:09:05.000 So, it's not about controlling your girl, it's about being in control of what the fuck is going on. 0.97

01:09:10.000 And you're not able to How do I say this? 0.99

01:09:15.000 Control certain environments, right?

01:09:18.000 And then on top of that, she's got to be in environments that typically aren't conducive to a good long-term relationship, right?

01:09:23.000 It's the same reason why you don't want a girl to be a stripper. 1.00

01:09:25.000 Why?

01:09:26.000 Because she's naked all the time in front of random strange men. 1.00

01:09:28.000 Same shit, being an entertainer. 1.00

01:09:31.000 And on her off days, she's working. 1.00

01:09:32.000 On her off days, she's working.

01:09:34.000 Yeah, bro.

01:09:35.000 Yo. 1.00

01:09:35.000 Fuck that, man. 1.00

01:09:36.000 That's a huge red flag, bro. 1.00

01:09:38.000 Fuck that. 1.00

01:09:38.000 Okay. 1.00

01:09:39.000 Last one on the list is going to be the very simple one.

01:09:44.000 Does she follow your lead?

01:09:46.000 Take this one away?

01:09:47.000 No, you go first.

01:09:48.000 All right.

01:09:49.000 Guys.

01:09:50.000 As you know, man, I am a prolific ho-whisperer.

01:09:55.000 A.K.A. I like Honest O's.

01:09:59.000 Honest O's.

01:10:00.000 So, when it comes to actually following your lead man, it's not really my...

01:10:06.000 I want to say strong point because I don't really care.

01:10:09.000 But if you want to have a girlfriend long-term, then you should care because, again, she's following your lead all the way.

01:10:14.000 Now, granted, though, they do follow my lead, but it's more like a secondary talk for me.

01:10:18.000 I deserve your experience.

01:10:19.000 But for you, though, if you want a girlfriend for a long period of time, she needs to follow your lead.

01:10:24.000 And it's simple.

01:10:26.000 You give her tasks to do, and she shouldn't ask you, but why?

01:10:30.000 Or like, wait, why do I have to do this?

01:10:33.000 It's like, no.

01:10:34.000 Babe, can you get me some coffee?

01:10:36.000 She shouldn't say, not right now, later.

01:10:38.000 Or she shouldn't say, wait, what?

01:10:41.000 This should be a common theme where she respects you, she likes you.

01:10:45.000 Sure, babe, I got you.

01:10:47.000 Please do the coffee.

01:10:48.000 Now, if she asks after an action request, like, why are you making me do this?

01:10:53.000 That can happen sometimes, but generally speaking, she should just do it right away.

01:10:58.000 But how do you garner this respect for a woman off-rip? 0.99

01:11:00.000 How do you gain the respect of a woman to want to help you and lead you, sorry, help your leadership or help you with tasks off-rip? 1.00

01:11:08.000 Well, you gotta be that guy.

01:11:09.000 You have your money on point, your frame on point, mindset on point, and as well, be someone that she wants to follow. 0.67

01:11:16.000 Because if you're not, she'll look at you and laugh and say, nigga, no.

01:11:19.000 Like, why am I gonna help you?

01:11:20.000 So again, You have to become that guy, which we say on the show all the time.

01:11:24.000 Money, fitness, frame, mindset, health as well.

01:11:27.000 And if you're that guy and you have leadership roles in play, she will follow your lead.

01:11:32.000 Now granted though, if you're not there yet, it is fine.

01:11:35.000 You can still work on yourself to become better.

01:11:36.000 But at the very beginning, at the very beginning of your journey, of course you're not going to be there.

01:11:40.000 But over time, once you work on yourself, like you said before, fitness, mindset, money, and status, you'll be fine.

01:11:45.000 But again, why don't you follow your lead?

01:11:47.000 Look in the mirror.

01:11:48.000 Is she going to follow you?

01:11:49.000 If not, rethink and regroup.

01:11:51.000 Good.

01:11:54.000 So this is the most important one, but interestingly enough, this one actually puts the most accountability on you because, look guys, cooperation from a woman is required.

01:12:06.000 It's literally like oxygen to live, right?

01:12:09.000 Like, in a relationship, you're not going to live without oxygen.

01:12:13.000 In a relationship, you're not going to last without cooperation, right?

01:12:16.000 Right?

01:12:18.000 Can you, you know, go underwater and sit there and hold your breath for a bit?

01:12:22.000 Yeah.

01:12:22.000 Maybe a minute, two minutes if you're really good, right?

01:12:25.000 But at some point, you got to come back up for air.

01:12:27.000 And that's what ends up happening if you're in a relationship with a girl that doesn't follow your lead. 0.74

01:12:30.000 Like, you can go ahead and tolerate being with a girl like that, but the relationship is never going to last long.

01:12:36.000 So, the goal here is to be in a position where she's always following your lead. 0.98

01:12:40.000 But, see, women are kind of like Pokemon, right? 1.00

01:12:43.000 I've given you guys the example of Pokemon badges.

01:12:46.000 If you don't have enough Pokemon badges and you tell a Pokemon, hey, do X, Y, Z, the Pokemon's gonna look at you and not do it.

01:12:53.000 Women operate the same way. 1.00

01:12:55.000 If she doesn't see you as a superior, as the leader, she's not gonna listen to you.

01:12:59.000 If she doesn't listen to you, well, you're in for a very dysfunctional, frustrating, and painful relationship, my friend.

01:13:07.000 There's a reason why...

01:13:08.000 You look at whether it's the Torah, the Bible, the Quran, almost every single religion tells you that women are supposed to follow men, right?

01:13:18.000 And they even tell you you're better off sleeping on the roof than sharing a home with a quarrelsome woman. 1.00

01:13:22.000 Like, where do you think a quarrelsome woman comes from? 1.00

01:13:25.000 She comes from you not being able to lead. 0.99

01:13:27.000 She also comes from her questioning you about your fucking co-workers, like this guy Wallace is making the mistake of realizing, right? 0.99

01:13:36.000 If the girl doesn't cooperate, guys, the relationship is over. 0.99

01:13:39.000 That's the thing.

01:13:40.000 But, at the same time, you need to understand that the work for her to be cooperative is done without her there.

01:13:49.000 When you meet your girl, right, and she ends up being soft and sweet and great to you and everything else like that, understand that she's behaving that way a lot of the times.

01:13:59.000 Some of it is natural because she might come from a good family.

01:14:02.000 She understands that she needs to be a lady and you need to be a man, etc. 1.00

01:14:05.000 But you've already done the work where she's behaving that way, okay?

01:14:09.000 So if you don't do the work up front, you're going to pay for it later on.

01:14:13.000 This is why it's imperative, guys, to be in a situation where...

01:14:17.000 You need to be the provider.

01:14:19.000 You need to be the protector.

01:14:20.000 You need to be the more interesting, intelligent individual.

01:14:23.000 You need to be self-improving and everything.

01:14:25.000 The reason why we do the podcast the way we do, guys, is you guys notice we've expanded into other things.

01:14:29.000 We've expanded into making money.

01:14:30.000 We've expanded into dating and mindset.

01:14:32.000 We've expanded into geopolitics.

01:14:34.000 We've expanded into history.

01:14:36.000 We've expanded into a bunch of different things.

01:14:37.000 Why?

01:14:38.000 Because we want you guys to be well-rounded individuals.

01:14:41.000 We want you to be...

01:14:42.000 Highly competent, inquisitive, have a thirst for knowledge, and become a better man overall.

01:14:48.000 Fitness, all this stuff.

01:14:49.000 Because you need to be the complete package in 2024.

01:14:52.000 You can't be a regular dude anymore.

01:14:53.000 I'm sorry, guys.

01:14:55.000 Being a regular guy is not going to work.

01:14:57.000 It's not going to work.

01:14:58.000 It's not 1954, it's 2024.

01:15:01.000 Right?

01:15:01.000 Used to be you could be a regular ass dude, don't go to the gym, work a union factory job, you know, Eight, ten hours a day.

01:15:09.000 Live on one paycheck. 0.96

01:15:11.000 Have a white house with a picket fence.

01:15:14.000 And have a family.

01:15:15.000 But those days are done, bro. 0.99

01:15:17.000 Those days are fucking done. 0.99

01:15:18.000 You need to be... 0.99

01:15:19.000 Head and shoulders above your girl in every regard for her to take you seriously and cooperate, right? 0.89

01:15:23.000 Because the bottom line is to get cooperation, but you can't get cooperation in a modern-day first world by just being an average guy anymore.

01:15:31.000 Sorry.

01:15:32.000 This is not gonna happen. 0.98

01:15:34.000 So half the work needs to be done before you even fucking meet her. 1.00

01:15:37.000 A lot of you guys are fat. 1.00

01:15:40.000 You look like shit. 1.00

01:15:41.000 Your vocabulary is a hundred words. 1.00

01:15:44.000 You don't know anything about history.

01:15:46.000 You've never traveled.

01:15:47.000 You don't have a passport. 1.00

01:15:49.000 You can barely speak the English fucking language properly. 1.00

01:15:52.000 Use slang when you convey your ideas. 1.00

01:15:56.000 You have no education. 1.00

01:15:58.000 You work a shitty fucking minimum wage job. 1.00

01:16:02.000 And then you wonder why women don't take you seriously. 1.00

01:16:04.000 Why they don't respect you.

01:16:04.000 Why it's so hard for you to have dates.

01:16:06.000 Well, quite frankly, you're not in a position. 0.99

01:16:09.000 You're not in a fucking position. 0.99

01:16:10.000 And I'll take it a step further. 0.99

01:16:12.000 I don't even think you guys should be bothering trying to find a girl unless you can support a family.

01:16:15.000 Facts. 0.99

01:16:18.000 Because if you don't even have the capability of taking care of a family, then why the fuck is she going to want to be with you? 1.00

01:16:28.000 Guys, I'm a firm believer that as a man, if you get into a serious relationship with a girl, like, she's going to be fucking working. 0.99

01:16:34.000 Or she does, like, maybe some job on the side or whatever. 0.91

01:16:36.000 But you need to have the capability, at least, of being the provider.

01:16:40.000 Right? 0.98

01:16:40.000 You guys think I'm going to sit here and tell you guys that you're a dictator and you're the boss and it's your way or the highway without necessarily giving you guys some fucking responsibility? 0.98

01:16:47.000 Mike, you guys want to go ahead and, you know, be a dictator and tell her what it is and be a boss. 0.99

01:16:54.000 But she makes more witty than you. 0.98

01:16:56.000 She's stronger than you.

01:16:57.000 She's more assertive than you.

01:16:58.000 She's more educated than you.

01:16:59.000 She's smarter than you. 1.00

01:17:02.000 So in that regard, you don't deserve to be in a fucking relationship. 1.00

01:17:06.000 It's earned, not given. 1.00

01:17:08.000 So don't even bother trying to get a chick if you're a fucking brokie. 1.00

01:17:14.000 Some of y'all niggas have a step foot in the gym in a year. 1.00

01:17:18.000 But then you complain that you don't get laid. 1.00

01:17:20.000 Some of you guys make no fucking money. 1.00

01:17:23.000 Live with your parents. 1.00

01:17:24.000 And they wonder, oh, why bitches don't want me? 1.00

01:17:27.000 You're a fucking loser. 1.00

01:17:28.000 Rightfully so. 1.00

01:17:29.000 You don't deserve a bitch. 1.00

01:17:31.000 It's earned. 1.00

01:17:33.000 You can't sit there and say, oh, I need a submissive woman, when you're a fucking bum. 1.00

01:17:37.000 You submit to your parents, nigga. 1.00

01:17:38.000 The fuck you talking about? 1.00

01:17:41.000 Incredible. 1.00

01:17:42.000 We need to have a little bit of accountability on the male side, too. 1.00

01:17:47.000 So guys, because a lot of you guys watching right now, I'll be honest with y'all, are fat fucking losers. 1.00

01:17:52.000 And you wonder why girls don't want to be around y'all. 1.00

01:17:54.000 You guys don't deserve to fucking have a chick. 1.00

01:17:57.000 Because when you get in the relationship, everything falls on you. 1.00

01:18:00.000 Can you handle the weight?

01:18:01.000 Can you handle taking care of a female and kids potentially?

01:18:05.000 If the answer is no, then you shouldn't even be in the dating marketplace. 0.99

01:18:08.000 You got other shit you got to focus on. 0.99

01:18:10.000 Yeah. 0.99

01:18:11.000 A lot of girls will see you, and if you can't even take care of yourself or even them, they want to give you a chance. 1.00

01:18:17.000 They're like, bye.

01:18:18.000 Yeah, you're gonna...

01:18:18.000 Or let's say they do give you a chance.

01:18:20.000 They're gonna respect you.

01:18:21.000 Yeah, at all. 1.00

01:18:22.000 I'd rather be single than be with a rambunctious fucking girl that's always questioning me and hassling me. 1.00

01:18:27.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:18:27.000 Some of you guys are so fucking thirsty for pussy that you guys will sit there and be with a chick that don't even like you like that. 1.00

01:18:33.000 She's disrespecting you, calling you out your name at Target, saying you're a bitch-ass nigga, you're a prokey, slapping you and shit. 1.00

01:18:40.000 And a lot of you motherfuckers will sit there and take it because you're so fucking thirsty for sex that you will sit there and be with an uncooperative, disrespectful, rambunctious woman that doesn't take you fucking seriously. 1.00

01:18:51.000 You guys will sit there and tolerate that shit because you guys are so fucking thirsty for sex. 1.00

01:18:56.000 You're better off being a fucking incel and building yourself up Than being with a girl that doesn't fucking respect you guys. 1.00

01:19:03.000 I'm telling y'all, bro. 1.00

01:19:05.000 There's nothing worse than being in a relationship with a fucking quarrelsome female that doesn't fucking respect your authority. 1.00

01:19:12.000 It's torture. 1.00

01:19:13.000 Hell on earth.

01:19:13.000 It's torture, bro.

01:19:14.000 It's literally fucking the worst. 1.00

01:19:18.000 Alright? 1.00

01:19:19.000 Guys, a lot of y'all don't qualify for a woman. 0.99

01:19:21.000 A lot of you guys deservedly so are fucking incels. 1.00

01:19:23.000 Because you're fucking losers. 1.00

01:19:27.000 And that's a very tough talk that like... 1.00

01:19:29.000 Because the other thing too is like...

01:19:31.000 A lot of you guys right now are watching the show.

01:19:34.000 We've got like what?

01:19:35.000 4,000?

01:19:36.000 5,000 y'all ninjas in here?

01:19:38.000 Right?

01:19:39.000 A lot of y'all ninjas...

01:19:41.000 Look in the mirror and you don't even like what you see.

01:19:44.000 You're ashamed of it.

01:19:47.000 So...

01:19:47.000 If you can't even look yourself in the mirror...

01:19:49.000 And be happy... 1.00

01:19:51.000 How the fuck... 1.00

01:19:52.000 Can a woman look at you every day and be happy? 1.00

01:19:59.000 A lot of you guys can't even look yourself in the fucking mirror and be happy at what's looking back at you. 1.00

01:20:04.000 How the fuck do you think a woman is gonna be looking at your dumb ass every day if you're not even happy with it? 1.00

01:20:10.000 And that's why some of you guys are in miserable, terrible relationships. 1.00

01:20:16.000 You did it to yourself. 0.66

01:20:18.000 Bro, guys, when it comes to dealing with cooperative women, half the fight is done before you even meet her. 1.00

01:20:31.000 One more time. 0.99

01:20:32.000 When it comes to being with a cooperative submissive woman, half the fight is complete before you even fucking meet her. 1.00

01:20:39.000 Whether it's known to you or not. 0.98

01:20:41.000 The smart guys know this up front. 1.00

01:20:45.000 The idiots, you guys don't realize until you're in a relationship with her for a year, when she starts disrespecting you, like, damn, maybe I didn't do the work up front. 1.00

01:20:51.000 This bitch is really tough to deal with. 1.00

01:20:53.000 God damn, she questioning me and hassling me on everything. 1.00

01:20:55.000 And now you want to change it. 1.00

01:20:55.000 And now you want to try to change it. 1.00

01:20:57.000 Started wrong.

01:20:58.000 Too late, bro.

01:20:59.000 Started wrong.

01:21:00.000 You started off on the wrong foot? 1.00

01:21:01.000 The whole walk is fucked now. 1.00

01:21:03.000 Good job, stupid. 1.00

01:21:05.000 Real talk, man. 1.00

01:21:06.000 I'll tell you this.

01:21:07.000 You guys literally start on the wrong foot and the entire walk is now null and void.

01:21:11.000 It's harder to date a girl long-term than just to smash different holes. 0.53

01:21:16.000 It's way harder.

01:21:17.000 Because you need real frame and you need real active work on yourself before you get into that.

01:21:23.000 Because remember, at the very beginning, how you start is how you've got to end.

01:21:26.000 If you're not that guy from the very beginning...

01:21:28.000 It's going to happen eventually.

01:21:29.000 Yeah.

01:21:29.000 A bunch of guys can keep the facade up for like a week or two or a month or two.

01:21:33.000 That's how half the city of Miami runs game. 0.96

01:21:37.000 Niggas are scammers. 1.00

01:21:38.000 They're really brokies. 1.00

01:21:39.000 You know what I mean?

01:21:40.000 And they show this cool, extravagant lifestyle up front.

01:21:43.000 The girl thinks they're somebody. 1.00

01:21:44.000 Then they find out later on, oh shit, this dude's a fucking scammer. 1.00

01:21:47.000 This nigga works at Walmart. 1.00

01:21:48.000 He's like, yeah. 0.82

01:21:50.000 So, guys, your job is to be authentic up front.

01:21:54.000 So there's no nasty surprises later on.

01:21:57.000 And you're able to go ahead and start on the right foot and end on the right foot. 1.00

01:22:01.000 And half the work is done before you even introduce yourself to the fucking bitch. 1.00

01:22:06.000 You guys understand that? 1.00

01:22:08.000 Like, half the work is complete before you even introduce yourself to the girl.

01:22:14.000 So you gotta build yourselves up, guys.

01:22:16.000 There's no way around it.

01:22:17.000 Sorry.

01:22:17.000 Self-improvement is a requirement in 2024.

01:22:22.000 Yeah.

01:22:22.000 It's a requirement.

01:22:24.000 The standards are too high.

01:22:26.000 So what are you gonna do?

01:22:27.000 Are you gonna bitch about it and complain? 0.97

01:22:30.000 Right? 1.00

01:22:30.000 About hypergamy and women? 1.00

01:22:32.000 There's a bunch of YouTube channels that do that.

01:22:34.000 We talk about the problems on this channel, but we also want to give you guys a solution. 1.00

01:22:37.000 The solution is, you must be that fucking dude. 0.99

01:22:42.000 Also a competition. 1.00

01:22:44.000 Matter of fact, Rich Cooper shared this earlier today.

01:22:47.000 Something like 67 to 70% of men identify single versus only about 30% of women identify single.

01:22:54.000 I wonder why.

01:22:55.000 I wonder why.

01:22:57.000 Tells you a lot.

01:22:59.000 They share it.

01:23:00.000 About 70% of women identify...

01:23:04.000 Right?

01:23:06.000 Sorry, excuse me.

01:23:07.000 About 70% of men identify single, whereas only about 30% of women identify single.

01:23:11.000 I wonder why.

01:23:13.000 The math, if you have any common sense, tells you that means, inevitably, that the women are with a small portion of men.

01:23:20.000 Ta-da! 1.00

01:23:23.000 You guys think this shit's a game? 1.00

01:23:25.000 I'm telling y'all, man. 1.00

01:23:26.000 The winners are taking everything.

01:23:29.000 Feminism is here, and it's unintentionally put the higher-status guys in a position of power. 1.00

01:23:37.000 So what are you gonna do? 0.93

01:23:38.000 You gonna bitch about the situation? 1.00

01:23:40.000 Or you're going to adapt to the situation off the solutions we gave.

01:23:43.000 That's why we do this podcast.

01:23:45.000 We teach you guys all the different facets of becoming the best version of yourself.

01:23:48.000 Which we're going to do also on the Zoom call right now.

01:23:51.000 Yes.

01:23:51.000 Because it is time.

01:23:52.000 Chats real quick. 1.00

01:23:53.000 What a great segue.

01:23:58.000 Freshest dog.

01:24:00.000 Fresh looking like a street magician on Bourbon Street.

01:24:02.000 Talking about, big man, big man, come here for a second. 0.99

01:24:05.000 Screw you, bro. 0.99

01:24:06.000 Yo, big man, big man, come here for a second. 1.00

01:24:08.000 Big man.

01:24:12.000 GJNYC7 says, What's up, FNF? Met his girl and her friend doing an Uber all weekend.

01:24:16.000 Her friend asked for my Instagram and found me attractive.

01:24:19.000 But I was more into her friend, which I got her Instagram as well.

01:24:22.000 I've been questioning on her a whole month since.

01:24:25.000 She's my type exactly how I like it.

01:24:27.000 I decided to ask her out in DMs.

01:24:29.000 She replied disregarding my ask out and asked me if I can be her personal Uber forever.

01:24:34.000 Think she doesn't respect me enough because I'm driving?

01:24:37.000 She's only 20. 0.70

01:24:38.000 I'm 25.

01:24:38.000 Thoughts on this?

01:24:39.000 Is it possible to still get her?

01:24:41.000 Bro, she just told you she wants to be her Uber personally forever.

01:24:45.000 Dude, like...

01:24:46.000 I mean, dude...

01:24:47.000 Yo, bro.

01:24:48.000 You just answered your own question, bro.

01:24:50.000 She just told you what you... 0.70

01:24:51.000 Hold on, hold on.

01:24:52.000 You know what you should do, bro?

01:24:53.000 I ain't never been asked that in my life, bro.

01:24:55.000 Bro, bro, you know what you should do?

01:24:56.000 You should be like, yes, please.

01:24:58.000 I'm on my knees.

01:25:00.000 I'll be your Uber forever. 0.99

01:25:01.000 Because obviously, bro, it's obviously she don't want you, nigga. 1.00

01:25:03.000 She wants to use you for your car to take her around like a taxi. 1.00

01:25:06.000 Nigga, what are you? 1.00

01:25:07.000 A taxi driver? 0.99

01:25:08.000 I mean, you kind of are, but like, the point is like, bro, no, that's an L. She don't want you, nigga. 1.00

01:25:12.000 Clear as day. 0.95

01:25:13.000 She said it.

01:25:14.000 She said it to you, bro.

01:25:15.000 Clear as day. 1.00

01:25:15.000 Goddamn, bro. 1.00

01:25:16.000 Get out of there, bro. 0.99

01:25:18.000 See, we need to do more of these episodes, bro, of dating.

01:25:20.000 I'm telling you, bro.

01:25:21.000 Yeah, y'all niggas need help, bro. 1.00

01:25:22.000 Yeah, because...

01:25:23.000 Bro, see you right now, bro.

01:25:25.000 Uber driver...

01:25:27.000 Yeah, bro.

01:25:28.000 It's...

01:25:28.000 Yeah.

01:25:29.000 How you meet her, especially, could determine how it ends.

01:25:32.000 So, that's not a good look, per se.

01:25:34.000 It could still work, though, but generally speaking, it's not going to be a good look from the very beginning.

01:25:40.000 So...

01:25:40.000 It talks to you, bro.

01:25:41.000 Period.

01:25:41.000 Interview her mom.

01:25:43.000 Look into her mom's history.

01:25:44.000 Nine out of ten, she's going to end up like her attitude and all. 1.00

01:25:47.000 If her father's around interviewing him, if he's a wimp, you are too. 0.96

01:25:49.000 That's not a bad idea.

01:25:51.000 Not a bad idea at all.

01:25:51.000 Hunt says, my friend's girl won't ever come out to say hello to me, and my other friend, when we go to his house, what does this mean?

01:25:58.000 She lives at his house.

01:26:01.000 He might tell her that. 0.99

01:26:03.000 He might tell her, don't leave that, don't fucking go say hi to my friend's. 1.00

01:26:06.000 Might be telling her that shit, bro. 1.00

01:26:07.000 Yo, what the fuck? 1.00

01:26:09.000 Okay. 1.00

01:26:11.000 Nick.

01:26:12.000 Nick says, my girl has location on, texts me all the time, listens to me, only red flag.

01:26:16.000 She hit me multiple times after argument. 1.00

01:26:18.000 Oh, no.

01:26:19.000 Made her talk to her parents after, and she apologized.

01:26:22.000 Had her on scene for three days.

01:26:24.000 Do I leave?

01:26:24.000 She hit you, bro?

01:26:25.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:26:25.000 Yo, what the fuck? 1.00

01:26:27.000 What? 1.00

01:26:28.000 Yo, yo, yo, okay.

01:26:30.000 There's a perfect example of him seeing low-colored glasses like he thinks like, oh yeah, it's okay because of X, Y, Z. I can save her.

01:26:38.000 I can save her. 1.00

01:26:41.000 Bro, look, you're just one fucking... 1.00

01:26:44.000 Like, one vodka shot away from getting it popped in your fucking face again, bro. 1.00

01:26:48.000 See, I had a friend that was similar to this. 1.00

01:26:53.000 She was a good girl on paper, but she would hit him. 1.00

01:26:56.000 Eventually, though, he kept with her.

01:26:58.000 Actually, you know who I'm talking about.

01:27:00.000 I'll show you after the show.

01:27:01.000 And what happened was, is she got really mad one day. 1.00

01:27:05.000 She said, fuck you, nigga. 1.00

01:27:06.000 I'm calling the police. 1.00

01:27:08.000 She calls the police.

01:27:09.000 Now, obviously speaking, once you call somebody for DV, someone has to be arrested.

01:27:14.000 But again, this started months prior.

01:27:17.000 She's hitting you.

01:27:18.000 You let it happen.

01:27:20.000 You play around or whatever.

01:27:21.000 You laugh it off.

01:27:22.000 She's hitting you.

01:27:23.000 You get really mad.

01:27:24.000 She says, okay, this isn't working?

01:27:25.000 Bet.

01:27:26.000 I'm asking this even higher.

01:27:28.000 Call the police.

01:27:28.000 Bro, it starts small, bro.

01:27:30.000 You give them an inch, it takes a fucking mile, bro. 0.99

01:27:32.000 If girls say to you, bro, it's a dub. 1.00

01:27:34.000 Because at that point, respect is gone, and next time it's calling the police, or even doing worse, you even stabbing you.

01:27:39.000 You never know, bro.

01:27:40.000 You never know.

01:27:41.000 Yeah, bro.

01:27:42.000 This is kind of like, this is a non-negotiable, bro.

01:27:44.000 Chicks are handing you, bro. 1.00

01:27:45.000 It's a wrap.

01:27:46.000 Yeah.

01:27:47.000 It's a wrap.

01:27:48.000 So, I don't think you should be associating with her no more.

01:27:54.000 They're making fun of Fresh's lotion thing?

01:27:57.000 Yeah. 1.00

01:27:58.000 When your pimp and strong, but your main bitch is main bitch, so you're going easy on her. 1.00

01:28:03.000 Okay. 1.00

01:28:04.000 Okay. 1.00

01:28:04.000 Oh shit. 1.00

01:28:05.000 Awesome. 0.99

01:28:06.000 I'm focused over there.

01:28:07.000 Rule 12909, even if you get a lesser woman, lawyers can still take you for all your worth. 1.00

01:28:13.000 Even the EBT girls are overly entitled. 1.00

01:28:15.000 Damn. 1.00

01:28:16.000 That's Poach. 0.99

01:28:17.000 Question from Iron or Fresh, what's the best nightclubs, venues for Halloween party that has a favorable women to men ratio where you don't have to deal with too many competition from other men because I hate going to nightclubs. 0.96

01:28:25.000 That's the sauce for us because damn, I get the biggest run on sentence ever.

01:28:29.000 In Miami, I guess that's what he means, right? 0.99

01:28:31.000 In Miami?

01:28:32.000 I'm assuming, but he didn't specify.

01:28:35.000 Maybe.

01:28:35.000 So, I'm going to give you some right now that should pop in in real time.

01:28:40.000 We have Van Dome.

01:28:42.000 It's going to be popping on Thursday for Halloween.

01:28:46.000 The guest artist is Young Miami.

01:28:48.000 Go figure.

01:28:50.000 Yeah, and then it's also going to be Eleven.

01:28:53.000 It's going to be popping.

01:28:54.000 You don't like Eleven.

01:28:55.000 There's also going to be Go Rush.

01:28:57.000 But the main party you want to be at, though...

01:29:03.000 Is, uh...

01:29:05.000 Gonna be...

01:29:06.000 An after party at a house.

01:29:09.000 Those are the best parties for Halloween.

01:29:11.000 The ones at the mansions in Star Island, Hibiscus Island, those are the best parties for Halloween.

01:29:15.000 Because it's hella women, really any men. 0.98

01:29:19.000 But you gotta be invited to those parties, so it's kind of a...

01:29:22.000 If you know, you don't.

01:29:22.000 Pretty much, bro.

01:29:23.000 Yeah.

01:29:24.000 But I'll tell you this, though. 1.00

01:29:25.000 They dress all as whores, bro. 1.00

01:29:27.000 They always do. 1.00

01:29:28.000 Just like a whore. 1.00

01:29:29.000 They always do. 1.00

01:29:29.000 I kid you not, bro. 1.00

01:29:30.000 It's crazy.

01:29:31.000 Literally, it's Halloween, man.

01:29:32.000 Halloween.

01:29:33.000 Halloween.

01:29:34.000 Ah.

01:29:34.000 Okay, what else do we got?

01:29:35.000 That's it.

01:29:36.000 All right, guys.

01:29:37.000 So we're going to go on to a Zoom call.

01:29:38.000 Calsiclub.tv, guys.

01:29:40.000 Join up.

01:29:40.000 We're going to do a Zoom call, Q&A, open Q&A, where we're going to answer a bunch of questions.

01:29:44.000 Somehow you need some goddamn help. 0.96

01:29:45.000 Tell us your personal stories, guys. 0.99

01:29:47.000 We got you.

01:29:47.000 Yeah.

01:29:48.000 So we are going to go ahead, guys.

01:29:49.000 Come on over.

01:29:50.000 Calsiclub.tv.

01:29:51.000 We're going to end the YouTube and Rumble stream.

01:29:53.000 We got you, guys.

01:29:53.000 And X, hope you guys enjoyed today's episode of...

01:29:57.000 We're going to keep the... 1.00

01:29:58.000 I'll tell you this, guys.

01:29:59.000 Yeah, we're going to keep...

01:30:00.000 How are we going to do it?

01:30:01.000 You want to keep the Castle Club?

01:30:02.000 That's what you want?

01:30:03.000 Just Castle Club, right?

01:30:04.000 You mean the...

01:30:04.000 Yeah, yeah, we're just going to switch Castle Club.

01:30:06.000 Yeah, yeah.

01:30:06.000 So, yeah, we'll keep rolling, right?

01:30:07.000 Yeah.

01:30:08.000 Okay.

01:30:08.000 So, guys, if you're watching on YouTube, I love you guys.

01:30:11.000 We're going to end the stream here.

01:30:11.000 We'll be back with some lovely ladies and some costumes.

01:30:13.000 Yeah. 0.98

01:30:14.000 But if you're a Castle Club member or you want to join Castle Club, guys, join Castle Club right fucking now, guys. 0.82

01:30:19.000 We do Zoom calls like this weekly. 0.92

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01:30:24.000 Networking, dating, and stocks.

01:30:26.000 And you get more content.

01:30:26.000 You get all of our videos.

01:30:28.000 All of our streams are there. 0.94

01:30:29.000 Me reacting to banned documentaries and shit like that. 0.67

01:30:32.000 All that stuff is on Catholic Club TV. Stuff that I can't do on YouTube for obvious reasons.

01:30:36.000 And we talk about the Mustache Man and them boys way more on Catholic Club since a lot of you guys love that shit. 0.95

01:30:41.000 And tomorrow we'll do a networking call on success, how to get there, how to network people higher than you. 0.99

01:30:45.000 So we got you guys.

01:30:46.000 So guys, come on over.

01:30:48.000 We're going to drop the Zoom link right now.

01:30:50.000 In Castle Club.

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01:30:52.000 Yeah.

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01:30:53.000 CastleClub.tv, man.

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01:30:56.000 Facts.

01:30:56.000 All right.

01:30:57.000 And some cool stories behind the scenes that you can't see online.

01:30:59.000 Facts. 0.99

01:30:59.000 By far, we give the most value on fucking internet, man. 0.99

01:31:02.000 How to really vet, because this is surface level. 0.99

01:31:04.000 Yeah.

01:31:06.000 Some more lotion.

01:31:07.000 Yeah.

01:31:09.000 Yeah, give him a piece.

01:31:11.000 Okay, guys.

01:31:12.000 Later.

01:31:14.000 I ran so far away.

01:31:17.000 I just ran.

Fresh & Fit - October 30, 2024

5 Ways To Properly Vet Women

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