In this episode of the Freshman Podcast, we re-go back to what we used to do with our dating content. We re covering 7 ways to know and/or tell and why we re good to go with crypto, real estate, Amazon, FBA, and much more! We re back in the dating game and we re bringing it back to its old roots. In this episode, we talk about how to deal with flaky women and how to get a girl to show up on a date. If you re a guy who s struggling with dating and want to improve your dating game, this episode is for you. We ve been flaked on before and we ve seen it happen to us, but the key is not to get mad at it and to move forward with a game plan to make sure you re not flaking again. Let s get into it, guys! We ll be back with more dating tips, tricks, and tips on how to be a better man in the modern dating world. Stay tuned for more episodes coming soon! - The Freshman PODCAST! Subscribe, Like, Share, and Subscribe to our new podcast, Freshman, and stay up to date with what s going on in the world of dating, bros! Timestamps: 7:00 - How to Know & Or Tell & Why We re Back? 8:30 - What to Know and Why We're Good To Go? 9:00: How to Deal with Flaky Women? 11: What's a Good Guy Podcast? 14:00- How to Get a Girl to Show Up on a Date? 15:00 16: How To Deal With Flakes? 17:00 How to Handle Flake On a Date With A Girl? 18:00 What to Avoid Flake? 19:00 Can I Talk About It? 22:00 Should I Know and Or Tell a Woman? 26:00 Do I Have a Girl I Can I Have More Than One? 27:00 My Thoughts on Dating? 28:00 Is There's a Girl Like That's a Bad Guy? 29:00 Will I'm Not Good? 30:00 Why I'm I Can Have A Girl Like This? 31:00 Are You Better Than That? 32:00 I Don t I Have A Good Idea? 33:00 If I Can't Have It All?
00:15:55.000Crypto, real estate, Amazon, FBA, all that stuff.
00:15:58.000And a part of the reason for that, guys, is because it all stemmed from the dating content that we did first, right?
00:16:03.000So when we started doing the dating content and giving you guys tips and tricks on how to, whether it's improve your sexual market value or navigate the current modern dating marketplace, which is very difficult for a lot of guys.
00:16:16.000We kind of came to a realization that the reason why some of you guys strike out and fail is because you just don't have other things in place.
00:16:24.000And that's what kind of stemmed the need for, okay, we need to have Money Mondays, get these guys on point so that when they're going out on dates, they're not freaking out over the bill.
00:16:31.000Or a lot of these guys aren't in shape or they're skinny like a twig or fat as hell and we need to get them in shape so that they have higher sexual market values so they're able to acquire more dates.
00:16:59.000It's to understand what's happening in real time, to be cool, calm, and collected, and move forward with a game plan.
00:17:05.000I would say flaking is by far the number one reason why so many guys...
00:17:09.000Struggle and or are frustrated with dating is because getting the dates isn't as hard as people think it is It's actually getting the girl to show up on these dates, which is like really difficult and annoying because This is a problem that everyone deals with guys whether you're a top-tier guy a celebrity or you're a dude Who's just a regular guy that makes you know 30 50k per year average guy like this is something that everyone deals with man Trust me.
00:17:32.000Nobody is immune to this stuff, man The only difference between A guy that's more average or a guy that's higher caliber is, well, number one, you're going to be dealing with flakes anyway, but you might be able to mitigate the risk of flaking a bit, you know,
00:17:47.000the higher your sexual market value is.
00:17:49.000But regardless, everyone has to deal with this, which is why we talk about this all the time.
00:17:55.000You always have to have girls that you're talking to because if you're not, then you're going to be suffering because one is none, two is one, one is none, and obviously none is none, right?
00:18:04.000So, So yeah, I guess I could read some of these chats real quick.
00:18:07.000And then, oh, also quick announcements.
00:18:11.000A portion of this show is going to be on Castle Club because, just to be very candid with you guys, a big part of the reason why we've, like, gotten in trouble with YouTube and stuff like that is because of these types of shows.
00:18:21.000These dating shows is a big part of the reason why whenever we get flagged or whatever, these shows almost always get flagged for yellow checkmark or getting demonetized or whatever.
00:18:30.000When we try to reapply for monetization, these episodes end up getting us in trouble.
00:18:35.000To be safe, we're going to do the cleaner stuff in the beginning, and then as we progress a little bit more, we'll obviously go over to Castle Club.
00:18:45.000And then also during the real show, we'll be toggling between YouTube and Rumble just to make sure that we're extra safe, guys, because...
00:20:42.000Wasn't there someone else coming or no?
00:20:43.000I don't want to say who yet because it's up to them.
00:20:47.000So keep in mind, YouTube is going to be having issues because they're going to pretty much, I want to say, copyright strike people that try to post a debate on YouTube.
00:20:56.000So everyone or your mom is coming to Rumble, so it's going to be high traffic on Rumble.
00:21:00.000So keep in mind, it may be a bit laggy sometimes because it's high traffic, but I think probably Rumble is going to pull through on this because they're going to have people working on it, but keep in mind it's going to be high traffic on Rumble.
00:21:10.000It's going to be a little bit kind of hectic there on Rumble with that stream, just so you guys know.
00:21:15.000Yeah, so that's kind of what it is with that.
00:21:18.000So we will definitely be live tomorrow, 9 p.m.
00:21:22.000Eastern Standard Time for the debate, and then 11 p.m.
00:21:26.000Eastern Standard Time for the After Hours.
00:21:29.000So we'll have a show for you guys on Thursday.
00:21:31.000I don't think we'll have anything on Friday.
00:21:47.000So they went ahead and threatened everybody ahead of time.
00:21:48.000Well, I mean, CNN don't get views like that.
00:21:51.000And another thing too with CNN is, you know, the last time they had a lot of views that I can remember was when they had the town hall meeting with Trump.
00:21:58.000That was the last time they had a bunch of views, so I'm not surprised, man.
00:22:03.000But yeah, and then, as you guys know, we're banned on Instagram.
00:22:07.000So I see someone in the chat saying that we're banned on Instagram.
00:22:12.000It's crazy, bro, that we got banned, and then you got people like Diddy and all these other people that do a bunch of bullshit, and they're still on there.
00:25:06.000And honestly, guys, in today's day and age, with the way censorship is going, especially in an election year where they're targeting certain voices on the internet...
00:25:18.000It's more important than ever before to support platforms like Rumble and X. And we appreciate everyone that supported us from the very beginning, that had our back.
00:25:25.000And honestly as well, today's episode is going to be more because we're going to do more detail.
00:25:29.000Yeah, actually you guys on Castle Club requested this.
00:25:31.000Fresh did a poll on Castle Club and this is what they wanted.
00:25:34.000So with this episode, for all the people that talk shit and say Castle Club is filled with simps or whatever the fuck you guys want to say.
00:25:40.000They're the reasons why you guys are getting this episode.
00:25:43.000And also, they're the reason that you guys are getting a yacht party at a way more discounted price.
00:25:47.000We asked them, guys, what do you guys want to do as far as you guys are okay with pushing the yacht party back and we're able to get you a boat with $350,000?
00:25:54.000Or do you want to keep it exclusive with only $120,000?
00:25:57.000And they said, no, you know what, dude?
00:25:58.000Let's go ahead and do the $350,000, better price point, get more guys on, etc.
00:26:20.000But we've got to rock with the people that support us because we've got to give the people that actually support us what they want.
00:26:25.000And to be honest, a lot of times they vote on your guys' benefit anyway, even the guys that don't support and that hate watch because we have a lot of hate watchers, surprisingly.
00:26:59.000So first we gotta discuss, what is flaking?
00:27:01.000If you're not into dating, into this terminology, what it is, what is flaking?
00:27:04.000Bring it up real quick, if you don't mind, Bills?
00:27:06.000So flaking is a term used to describe someone that's unreliable.
00:27:09.000Someone that says they're gonna make a promise with you, either to do a date, a meetup, or even like a occasion, and they don't ever show up.
00:27:16.000So it says, flaky dating behavior first people- You got that definition.
00:27:19.000Who are unliable when making and keeping plans.
00:27:21.000This includes canceling dates at the last minute, being late or completely standing updates, or saying they will call, text, but never do.
00:27:28.000And we all have been in that scenario as guys because we hit up girls.
00:28:06.000And that's just the current dating market.
00:28:09.000And the reason why people flake so much, guys, or let me be honest, the reason why girls flake so much is you've got to understand that we live in a deregulated sexual marketplace.
00:28:20.000What is a deregulated sexual marketplace?
00:28:22.000A deregulated sexual marketplace, guys, is a marketplace or a dating marketplace where there are no rules anymore, okay?
00:28:57.000And what it's effectively done is it's given all the leverage and power to women when it comes to the dating and mating and courting process.
00:29:06.000And when you give the power to the female side, well, hypergamy can show its true colors, okay?
00:29:15.000For centuries, for human centuries, hypergamy has been contained by all the things I mentioned before, the social training wheels I mentioned prior.
00:29:22.000But now, you live in a world where hypergamy is completely Unchecked.
00:29:28.000And on top of that, you have infrastructures that not only allow hypergamy to flourish, but it allows it to thrive.
00:29:39.000I mean apps like Instagram, apps like Snapchat, dating applications like Tinder, Bumble, Hinge.
00:29:46.000Sugar sites like SA or Sugar Daddy Meat.
00:29:51.000All of these different avenues allow women to have more options than ever before.
00:29:58.000It used to be, hell, even a mere 20 to 30 years ago, a woman was contained to her own geographic area of the men that she could date.
00:30:07.000If she grew up in Dubuque, Iowa, If she was the hottest girl in town, she would typically go ahead and associate with herself with one of the higher status men in that small little community.
00:30:20.000But now, fast forward to 2024 versus 1994, Now, that girl has access to not just the men in Dubuque, Iowa, but she has access to men in Los Angeles, California, in New York City, in Miami, Florida, in Dallas or Houston,
00:30:36.000Because Instagram and dating apps have completely changed the game.
00:30:39.000And I don't think regular men understand this.
00:30:41.000And the reason why I know regular men don't understand this is because if you guys truly knew the power of social media, the power of the internet, and how...
00:30:48.000Dating apps and Instagram and all these social media applications in general have changed the courting process.
00:30:54.000You guys would all have professional photos on your Instagrams.
00:30:57.000You guys would all have a footprint on social media.
00:30:59.000And you guys would all take way better pictures.
00:31:09.000Your Instagram looks like shit, you have awkward pictures of yourself in a bathroom, and you have strange selfies with bad lighting.
00:31:14.000That's how I know most men are unaware of how the sexual marketplace has completely changed.
00:31:19.000Now, I know some of you guys say, well, you know what, Myron?
00:31:21.000I can go ahead and combat this by going out and doing day game or night game, etc.
00:31:25.000And to that, I would respond, yes, you absolutely can.
00:31:28.000If you're a charismatic guy, somewhat good-looking, and you're able to go ahead and go out there and you've got the balls to do cold approach, yes, you can absolutely do some damage.
00:31:35.000However, Cold approach is not going to save you from the deregulated sexual marketplace that weren't because though you're meeting that girl in person and you're able to create an impact, it does not change the fact that that woman still has hundreds of leads in her phone.
00:31:48.000She still has hundreds of men talking to her that are offering her all types of shit, whether she acknowledges them or not.
00:31:56.000So, whether you decide to cold approach or utilize the internet does not change the fact that she's still Is able to leverage herself in a dating marketplace where you have little to no advantage.
00:32:25.000And that right there, guys, that whole little explanation I gave you guys about the deregulatory social marketplace, that is why we have the epidemic of flaking that we have now where a lot of you guys go ahead and set shit up with girls and they don't fucking show up.
00:33:22.000Yeah, but we got seven points that we're going to cover on this.
00:33:24.000But guys, give me ones in the chat if that makes sense to you guys about what a deregulated sexual marketplace is and how it's led to the current environment we have where flaking is so common.
00:33:35.000Give me ones in the chat, both on Rumble and on YouTube, if that makes sense.
00:33:38.000Because if you guys don't understand that, then you're not going to understand the root cause of the problem.
00:33:42.000But that, my friends, is the absolute...
00:34:20.000But if you're able to understand the why, then we can go ahead and start to figure out How to deal with it.
00:34:25.000But if you don't know the why, it puts you in a situation where you're just trying to bash your head into the wall like, why is this going on?
00:34:31.000So that's why we're trying to give you guys answers and then most importantly, solutions on it.
00:34:35.000But you gotta understand where you stand as far as today's day and age when it comes to modern dating.
00:36:06.000I think for most people here, especially in Miami, we've been through this so many times, going to club, going to yachts.
00:36:12.000The scene itself is dead, and not because of the people that live here, but tourists are not coming here as they would.
00:36:19.000And summertime is always usually like that gray area, but for the most part, the clubs here are dead.
00:36:24.000And if you want to talk about fun and being out and about meeting people, that's one thing, but the club scene here is almost like, pretty much like dead, so...
00:36:32.000Well, I think the pandemic, two to three years of being locked down, you know, kind of showed people that going out and partying isn't really, you know, and drinking, it's not really it.
00:37:15.000And as a man, I mean, I've told you guys this before, like, clubs aren't really where you want to be.
00:37:19.000Like, every now and then is fine, but going there all the time and spending money and shit like that, like, it's a big L, guys, because it's going to add up, right?
00:37:28.000And then there's no way that you're going to be productive if you're drinking every day.
00:40:03.000Yeah, so a lot of you guys shoot yourselves in the foot before you even get a chance, and it's because you guys have what's called low sexual market values, low SMV. It could be a multitude of different things.
00:43:39.000However, I promise you, I absolutely promise you, after it's done and you recover, you're going to be like, damn, this was the best thing I ever did.
00:43:46.000And a lot of this stuff is in your control.
00:43:48.000And then going to the gym and training.
00:43:50.000Guys, it is unacceptable if you're a grown man and you're out of shape in 2024 with all the free information out there.
00:43:55.000It used to be people didn't really know.
00:44:23.000Hell, on our channel, I did a couple of PowerPoint presentations where I talked about how to systematically lose fat and how to systematically build muscle.
00:44:32.000With how to track your calories, how to count your calories, how to figure out your total daily energy expenditures, what maintenance calories is, how to put yourself in a calorie deficit, how to put yourself in a surplus, how much to put yourself in a surplus.
00:44:42.000I explain all this crap in explicit detail on this stuff.
00:44:46.000So there's absolutely no excuse for you guys to not max yourself out.
00:44:51.000Let's say you're an average looking guy, you can absolutely get yourself to at least a fucking seven.
00:44:56.000You absolutely can by getting in shape and taking care of yourself, improving your skin, improving your teeth.
00:45:00.000If you don't have the best looking face, you can go ahead and grab some facial hair.
00:45:03.000You don't got to be a fucking Chad, guys, to be a decently good looking guy to improve your thing.
00:45:08.000But the problem is that a lot of you guys simply don't want to do the work.
00:45:19.000The beauty with being a man is that you can actually, if you're not the most naturally handsome guy, you can absolutely augment that by other traits, by getting in shape, getting...
00:45:28.000Fixing your hair, growing a beard, dressing better, take care of yourself with your skin, your teeth.
00:45:35.000All these things indicate higher status and make you look better in the process.
00:46:07.000So that's one of their reasons why a guy with dad bod is attractive.
00:46:11.000Then two, it's like, if he has a dad bod, I know other girls might not like him.
00:46:15.000So by default is two objections that they have up front that are covered because, okay, he won't be with other bitches, one, and then two, he's gonna have money from me.
00:46:24.000So that's what they think when they say, I like dad bods.
00:48:17.000Unless you have some kind of status or money.
00:48:19.000If you're like a regular dude and you ain't a celebrity, you ain't a multi-millionaire and you're an average looking guy, you're going to fucking struggle, man.
00:48:27.000So you have to max out your SMV. You have to max out the things that you can control.
00:50:58.000Because what's going to happen is, the more you talk to her, you might turn her off.
00:51:01.000And listen, guys, I'm not much of a talk to myself, so I'm keeping it short on the questions, but the more you guys talk, if you say the wrong things, like, oh, I'm voting for Trump.
00:55:30.000So when you guys give these girls too much attention and too much value, it no longer has any respect or value.
00:55:37.000And then the girl's like, ah, this guy, he's too into me.
00:55:40.000I'm going to go for a guy that doesn't like me.
00:55:41.000And I hate to say this, but the prettier the girl...
00:55:45.000The less attention and validation you gotta give her because these bitches are constantly getting attention all the time.
00:55:49.000I told you guys earlier with the deregulated sexual marketplace that we're in with Instagram, social media, etc.
00:55:54.000I told you guys this so you guys understand what the fuck you're up against.
00:55:58.000If you're dealing with a girl that's like a six or seven, do you niggas understand that she has hundreds upon hundreds of messages from men that are higher status, better looking, taller, and have more money than you?
00:59:44.000So I would say what you have to do at that point is in some level, pique her interest, where like she's actually going to want to go out with you over that better offer.
00:59:57.000Now, it may not happen right away, like the first time you invite her out, and she may flick that time, but she may see your Instagram stories, see what you're doing, that's fun, exciting, and say, you know what?
01:00:12.000And you're doing it not for her to be specific, but you're doing it because you want to have that value out there as a DHV. And like I said before, she may get an offer for a yacht party, a magic party.
01:00:21.000That's cool and all, but I guess it's very boring on some level.
01:00:25.000But if you pick your interests, maybe your lifestyle, what you do for work, she might actually get into that.
01:00:31.000So off rip, guys, just because her offers, she may say no to you at the very beginning, but over a period of time through DHV or you just being who the man you are, she may just go for it.
01:00:41.000But again, offers are on the table for girls every single day through DMs, rappers, athletes, celebrities.
01:01:00.000You're going to lose most of the time.
01:01:02.000Even if you're a guy that has your shit together, you're attractive, you are going to lose most of the time because simply put, guys, again, the volume at which...
01:01:13.000Instead of me going ahead and telling you guys about all their options, let's go reverse it real fast so that you guys really understand this shit.
01:01:19.000Let's say you wake up in the morning, right?
01:01:22.000You wake up in the morning and then you get a text.
01:03:31.000You guys see where the fuck I'm going here?
01:03:33.000You literally would think you are God's gift to women if you got this type of attention and you got this type of love every single day for nothing more for the fact that you exist and you have a penis.
01:03:44.000You would become a piece of shit person, wouldn't you?
01:03:46.000You wouldn't care about going to the gym as much.
01:03:49.000You wouldn't care about developing yourself mentally.
01:03:51.000You wouldn't watch certain documentaries to understand what really happened in World War II. You wouldn't do any research to figure out who really runs this country.
01:03:57.000You wouldn't give a fuck about any of that shit, would you?
01:04:00.000You wouldn't just sit there and be a low IQ moron, not read, not better yourself, not go to the gym.
01:04:06.000You would just wake up, smoke weed, hang out, and take on free dates all day, wouldn't you?
01:04:15.000That is the life of a modern day girl that's super attractive.
01:04:23.000And you guys wonder why they behave the way that they do?
01:04:25.000It's because of everything I just listed.
01:04:26.000If you got messages like that for days, months, years on end, for nothing more that you exist, you wouldn't fucking feel the need to self-improve either.
01:04:37.000And you would literally pick the best options that came your way.
01:04:40.000You want to become right-pilled in 10 seconds?
01:04:44.000Hit up a bad chick, a beautiful girl, go to her Instagram, look at her DMs.
01:04:51.000She's getting offers on a daily, maybe 10 times every 30 minutes.
01:07:23.000He was definitely agreeing with me on a lot of the stuff.
01:07:26.000Obviously, you have to say it in a certain way.
01:07:27.000Fitness influencers guys are kind of restrained in how honest they can be with certain things, but he agreed with me on a lot of the stuff.
01:07:32.000The other people were being NPCs as usual.
01:07:34.000I'll probably see him in Vegas soon coming up.
01:08:09.000Because the thing is, is that yes, DHVing too much and showing pre-selection too much can come off as forced, and girls might not like that.
01:08:18.000So yes, you will lose some girls, but you will absolutely gain some as well.
01:08:21.000So it depends on what type of market you're trying to go towards.
01:08:25.000If you're over here talking to 35-year-old chicks that are trying to look for something more serious, then yeah, of course they're gonna fucking remove you because they're looking for something more serious.
01:08:33.000So it also depends on what demographic of women you're going after as well, which is how you gotta tailor your profile.
01:10:01.000This is why I tell y'all all the time, man, like, you always want to be buddies with guys that, like, get women, man, because guys that get women don't even think like that, bro.
01:11:52.000That's a good question because I used to work for the government and honestly, yeah bro, you're going to be restricted depending on your clearance.
01:11:57.000If you don't have like a high level clearance, then you can market yourself more.
01:12:02.000So I don't know what your clearance is, but assuming you have a super high clearance, just make sure you have a couple really good private pictures, sorry, good professional photos, and then you can make your profile private.
01:12:13.000And don't post anything that can be, what's the word I want to use here?
01:13:11.000So what you can do is you can start a side hustle or you could get another job and then use that money from that job to start a side hustle.
01:13:18.000I will say since you don't make that much right now, you could potentially get into ATMs.
01:16:15.000So you invite a girl out on a date and she actually is saying to you, oh you're cool, I'm gonna go out, but then she has an offer that she can't refuse.
01:16:25.000And we mentioned it before, but this one's a little bit more different because it involves money.
01:16:31.000Now, I don't think you guys know this, but a lot of girls nowadays are on sugar sites.
01:16:35.000They're definitely more in tune with getting money for their bodies and just for showing it to places.
01:16:41.000There's a multitude of things you can do as a girl to make money, but now more than ever, they may hit up on Instagram, Snapchat, sites, and the offers are including money nowadays.
01:16:52.000So she might even like you For how you look, but she gets an offer for money to go eat dinner, to go just stand at a club.
01:17:02.000Now, I like to think that she's a good person, but doing that, I think she's a bad person.
01:17:08.000But regardless of the facts, this is happening in real time.
01:17:11.000And if you don't know what's happening, it's literally the culture of women that want to be seen for attention and get paid.
01:17:18.000And this just means that Call it what it is.
01:18:09.000Yeah, this is kind of a dirty little secret that a lot of people don't talk about.
01:18:13.000So, if you're dealing with a girl that's extremely attractive, right, model-type chicks or whatever, you know, a lot of the times, guys, they'll flake on dates because they're able to make money elsewhere.
01:18:24.000Allegedly innocent as being an atmosphere model, which for those of you guys that are wondering what an atmosphere model is, as we talked about before, you guys know the nightlife is declining, right?
01:18:33.000A lot of bars and clubs are struggling to get patrons to come in there, so what they do is they hire these girls a lot of times to be atmosphere models to create a certain vibe like, look, we got hot chicks that are in here, etc.
01:18:43.000It's very common, especially in major cities like Miami and Los Angeles and New York, etc., where they hire these girls to be atmosphere models.
01:18:49.000And a lot of girls do it as a side hustle.
01:18:52.000You might get a girl that's like an atmosphere model, right?
01:18:54.000She flicks on a date because she's an atmosphere model.
01:18:56.000All the way up to she's going on what's called a paid per meet date with a guy.
01:19:01.000And you guys would be shocked at how many girls do this shit.
01:19:04.000I would argue, in today's day and age, right now, better than 20% of girls Have either done or currently do some type of sugar babying where they're getting paid to go on dates or getting some type of benefit.
01:19:20.000Maybe it's a bag, a gift, whatever the fuck it is.
01:19:53.000Or it could be just them getting paid to show up for a dinner.
01:19:56.000There's literally promoters out there, guys, where what they do is it's their job to find girls, get them to show up to dinners with these dudes that are out-of-towners that are paying or whatever, and they'll go to some very luxurious, expensive restaurant, and the girls will just sit there and eat for free, and they'll just be paid to be there.
01:21:18.000And this just means that her ex-boyfriend that was actually there from the past, or even guy that she was just smashing in general, says, hey, I'll see you tonight.
01:21:26.000It's pretty simple here what could happen.
01:21:27.000We're like, it's history with that guy.
01:21:37.000They'd rather go back into the past, to the same body, not to bring their body count up, because they know this person, they're very familiar, it's not a new body, and they'll say, you know what, this guy I know pretty well, I already hit him raw, I'm going to go with him.
01:21:50.000Versus a new guy that they never met, it's like, oh, he might be a weirdo, I'm going to stay inside.
01:21:54.000So that alone will tell herself, you know what?
01:21:56.000This guy's cool, but I'm going to just go with my familiar guy that I know from the past.
01:22:01.000Ex-boyfriend, ex-lover, you know, smash or whatever.
01:22:04.000That's what she's going to go to naturally as a girl.
01:23:02.000But a lot of them would prefer not to do that.
01:23:05.000So, if a guy comes back into the fray that they liked already, and you're trying to set something up with her, and you guys are in the early stages and she's not attached to you yet, she'll go back to the familiar.
01:23:13.000She will go back to the familiar, right?
01:23:33.000Especially if that guy was like an ex or a guy that like maybe broke up with her or whatever it is.
01:23:38.000She's gonna want that validation from that guy.
01:23:40.000So you guys would be surprised at how many times like you'll get flaked on or whatever and she won't even give you a response because she don't want to tell you that someone else came into the picture.
01:23:49.000Or it could be an ex or whatever or she just found a better option.
01:23:54.000And that's just what it is and he was able to get to her faster than you did.
01:24:00.000Every girl you meet out and about that you're going to date with, it smashes somebody at the same time.
01:24:06.000Now, what Myron said earlier is that, like, when you meet the girl for the first time, she has people in her life from before, which means you have to outdo her current guy that she's dealing with so she can go to you.
01:24:16.000It's weird, but Have that mindset, but that's what's happening, guys.
01:24:19.000She knew guys before you that were smashing her before you.
01:24:21.000So she's meeting you, she's like, okay, is this guy at the par?
01:24:24.000Is this actually this guy you want to be with?
01:24:25.000Is this actually the guy you want to take serious?
01:24:27.000Once she confirms that, she'll go to you.
01:24:29.000But ultimately, somebody had her before you.
01:25:03.000So if they're feeling like young and wild and free, they'll hook up with a guy that they meet at a club or whatever, but then the next day they might regret and say, oh my god, I feel so bad, and then they'll go back to the guy that they had before.
01:25:14.000It's very unpredictable, right, a lot of times.
01:26:07.000Number six is, she just enjoys intention from guys.
01:26:11.000So, as you guys know, girls love attention.
01:26:13.000Social media, Instagram, Twitter, Snapchat, TikTok, whatever that may be, they want to cry on camera, take their feelings to get your comments and likes on their posts.
01:26:25.000Now, bigger, I want to say, orgasm of, like, attention is when you make a guy get mad at you for flaking or, for example, be invested in this date and then flake.
01:26:36.000Because you can say, oh, this guy's mad at me.
01:26:48.000They want attention so bad to show their friends that, oh, I made this guy flake, whatever.
01:26:52.000And what happens is, You as a guy is like, damn, I set up the date, made a reservation or whatever, I miss work, whatever you did to make this day happen.
01:27:01.000She's laughing because, oh, just for attention or maybe for her friends to laugh.
01:27:04.000The point, guys, is that sometimes they're just bad people.
01:27:08.000And even though they want to say, oh, I'm a good girl, whatever, bro, she's flicking on you because she wants attention.
01:27:28.000Yeah, go to Rumble so that Fresh can finish his thought and what he wanted to say.
01:27:33.000So yeah, guys, we're going to come on over to Rumble if you guys are watching on YouTube.
01:27:36.000Yeah, guys, like I told y'all, these types of videos always get us in trouble on YouTube, so we gotta be careful with what we say on there.
01:27:44.000I'll tell you this straight off the bat, bro.
01:27:46.000What happens to these girls, bro, is that they get so bad, and those literally sit there and be like, oh yeah, this guy right here wants to take me on a date.
01:27:53.000Go chat with their friends, and they'll be like, yeah, so he does this and that, but I'm gonna stand them up.
01:29:01.000When you guys see these delusional girls come on the podcast, right?
01:29:03.000On After Hours, and they behave the way that they do and say the stupid shit that they say, do you guys know why they talk like that or why they have this worldview?
01:29:10.000It's because men, for fucking years, have pedestalized them.
01:29:14.000So then they come on this pod and say the dumb shit like, well I can have any man that I want, like that 31 or 32 year old bitch that was on here earlier, right?
01:29:21.000That's another nigga's name tattooed on her back.
01:29:25.000Girls literally come in and think this way and behave this way because there's been years of programming where guys have sent on them, guys have done this to them, so then they think every guy is below them.
01:29:36.000If you take an average girl, she does not respect the average man, guys.
01:29:39.000I need you guys to really get this through your fucking skulls.
01:29:42.000Average women no longer respect average men, okay?
01:29:46.000If you take an average chick, she still thinks she deserves an above average man.
01:30:06.000You guys would be shocked at how many girls have group chats and they play games with each other and say, oh yeah, let's piss this guy off.
01:30:11.000Especially if you're a guy known in your city or whatever.
01:31:08.000No, you're like compromised because now they got your info, you send them money whatever, screenshot, put in a group chat, now you're a big ass trick.
01:31:14.000And now all their friends are like, oh yeah, he's a trick?
01:34:07.000I need you to memorize that, all the guys in the chat here, because you guys probably have been with a girl before that rejected you or whatever, and then she comes back later.
01:34:15.000That's how women feel all the time when they reject niggas.
01:35:35.000I think what you should do, bro, is just tell him the fucking truth, be prepared for him to punch you in the face, or not be friends with you anymore.
01:36:22.000The only way to end this stability is a worldwide crisis must occur where women have to revert back to their normal nature of dependency on men.
01:36:47.000We're gonna give the last point and then do a Q&A with the people.
01:36:49.000And we're gonna get raw with this last one because I'm just gonna say what the fuck I want to say because I'm tired of fucking censoring myself on this shit.
01:36:57.000And we're going to interact with some of you guys over there on Castle Club.
01:36:59.000And we got Chester, we got a read over there too, that are not.