Fresh & Fit - A Fresh Match Ft. Jon From Modern Life Dating

00:11:26.000 Guys, welcome to Freshman Podcast.

00:11:28.000 Today we're doing the show today, Freshman Podcast with Freshman Fit.

00:11:31.000 Let's freaking go!

00:12:22.000 Alright guys, we are back.

00:12:24.000 MLD MK, tell them who you are and what you do for a living.

00:12:27.000 Go ahead, ladies first. 1.00

00:12:29.000 What's up everyone?

00:12:29.000 This is Mary Kate of Mary Kate's Matchmaking, your favorite matchmaker in Miami.

00:12:34.000 Helping people find the love of their life through up-leveling their communication style to lead overall more meaningful lives.

00:12:40.000 Very nice.

00:12:41.000 MLD? You guys know me.

00:12:42.000 It's me, MLD. I'm back in America doing my yearly trip here to Fresh and Fit.

00:12:47.000 Happy to see the new place.

00:12:49.000 Happy to finally meet Bills and all the squad.

00:12:51.000 You guys know me, Money Muscles Game Frame.

00:12:54.000 That's me.

00:12:54.000 And I'm a men's self-improvement coach.

00:12:57.000 I'm the leader of the only centralized Passport Bro community as well.

00:13:02.000 And we're just knocking them out of the park left and right over here.

00:13:05.000 So today we're doing a fresh match with Refresh& Fit, and obviously speaking, dating is hard nowadays.

00:13:09.000 How's dating for you guys, and what's the scope of it you would say for dating?

00:13:13.000 Well, let's start with that you can't approach dating as just checking the boxes, okay?

00:13:20.000 A lot of times when people approach it that way, it's just the laundry list of items, and it's a laundry list.

00:13:26.000 Like, it's long.

00:13:27.000 Rather, focus on those non-negotiables.

00:13:31.000 What are those non-negotiables?

00:13:32.000 And that really stems from your personality trait, like your interests, your hobbies, and your value systems.

00:13:38.000 But going beyond five to eight things on that list, you're setting yourself up for failure.

00:13:43.000 Emily?

00:13:44.000 So, what's the exact question?

00:13:46.000 How's dating nowadays, you think, for people, men and women in general?

00:13:49.000 Oh, it depends on where you are in the world.

00:13:51.000 In the West, it's kind of a nightmare, quite frankly.

00:13:56.000 I personally think, if you want to go to the root issue of it, I think that we have a family problem in the Western world.

00:14:04.000 Civilization, you know, and I think more and more people coming from single mother households, single households in general, typically don't have good models for relationships because their model is a broken relationship. 0.91

00:14:19.000 And I think that it's kind of a perpetuating thing.

00:14:22.000 So I'm doing my best to help turn that thing around and let's see what we have here today.

00:14:26.000 Doing a good job, man.

00:14:27.000 Well, we're going to start this off hot and ready.

00:14:29.000 We've got a couple here right now, two, a man and a woman.

00:14:32.000 And we're going to do a speed dating round of icebreakers.

00:14:35.000 So Mary-K, just give an intro real quick. 0.98

00:14:37.000 Let's do it.

00:14:38.000 All right, guys.

00:14:38.000 We've got couple number one.

00:14:40.000 Welcome, welcome.

00:14:41.000 Just say your name and where you're from.

00:14:42.000 What do you do for a living?

00:14:43.000 My name is Janelle.

00:14:44.000 I am from Miami, Florida.

00:14:46.000 I'm Cuban-Lebanese, and I was a news anchor.

00:14:49.000 Now I'm into wealth management.

00:14:50.000 Okay.

00:14:51.000 Marvel?

00:14:52.000 Marvel Bishop.

00:14:53.000 I go by as Bishop.

00:14:54.000 I'm originally from New York.

00:14:55.000 I'm a luxury concierge host there based in Miami.

00:14:58.000 Luxury concierge host?

00:14:59.000 A host, yes.

00:15:00.000 So I provide experiences for the 1%. 0.98

00:15:02.000 Nice.

00:15:03.000 Awesome, awesome, awesome, awesome.

00:15:04.000 Alright, so we have a three minute timer.

00:15:06.000 We're going to do an icebreaker challenge here.

00:15:07.000 The questions are on the actual table.

00:15:09.000 The first three are going to be yours and start.

00:15:12.000 Okay, Ms.

00:15:13.000 Janelle, how are you doing?

00:15:15.000 Good, how are you?

00:15:16.000 Doing good.

00:15:16.000 Thank you for asking.

00:15:17.000 Awesome.

00:15:19.000 Okay, so we already talked about this.

00:15:22.000 You like to cook, right?

00:15:23.000 I do.

00:15:24.000 I love to cook.

00:15:25.000 Yeah.

00:15:25.000 What's the most favorite thing that you like to cook?

00:15:28.000 I like Mediterranean food because I have a Lebanese background, and I really like Italian food also.

00:15:36.000 Okay, nice, nice, nice.

00:15:39.000 And let's see here.

00:15:42.000 By the way, you don't need questions.

00:15:43.000 If you have to use them, you can, but you don't have to use questions.

00:15:45.000 Oh, I don't?

00:15:46.000 Yeah, yeah.

00:15:46.000 Okay.

00:15:49.000 And do you like to go to sporting events as well?

00:15:52.000 I do.

00:15:54.000 What's your favorite sport?

00:15:55.000 I like tennis, I like polo, and I love boxing.

00:16:01.000 Basketball, too.

00:16:02.000 Basketball, too.

00:16:02.000 How is polo, though?

00:16:03.000 Because I've never really seen it.

00:16:05.000 Polo is, well, it's horses, and it's like golf, but on a horse.

00:16:10.000 And you're on the beach.

00:16:13.000 In Miami, they have it once a year.

00:16:16.000 It's great.

00:16:17.000 Good for networking, also.

00:16:19.000 Do you have like a favorite sports team?

00:16:21.000 I don't.

00:16:23.000 You know, I'm not really into sports like that, but when they come around and I'm invited, I like to go just because it's enthralling and it's just something else to do other than the regular Miami thing.

00:16:34.000 Okay.

00:16:35.000 And it's great for networking also.

00:16:37.000 Okay.

00:16:38.000 Yeah.

00:16:38.000 Okay.

00:16:39.000 I mean, sports is definitely, obviously, big here in Miami.

00:16:41.000 But other than that, like, what else do you like to do in this set?

00:16:44.000 Like, for fun or, like, you know, anything for, like, you know...

00:16:46.000 Miami.

00:16:47.000 Miami fun.

00:16:48.000 I mean, for me...

00:16:49.000 Well, for you.

00:16:49.000 For you.

00:16:49.000 Yeah.

00:16:49.000 Like, what did Janelle...

00:16:50.000 What do you like to do?

00:16:51.000 Shopping the beach.

00:16:53.000 Okay.

00:16:53.000 I love the beach.

00:16:54.000 I love to be with friends and family.

00:16:57.000 I love to dance.

00:16:58.000 I used to be a professional salsa instructor.

00:17:02.000 Really?

00:17:02.000 Yes.

00:17:03.000 And I love anything that's related to, like, theater.

00:17:08.000 Concerts, opera, plays.

00:17:12.000 Yeah.

00:17:13.000 So as far as you doing salsa, what's the best venue to go to to do salsa or merengue or bachata?

00:17:21.000 Well, Cuba Ocho is good.

00:17:22.000 There's also a place called Copper Blues in Doral.

00:17:26.000 That place is pretty good and it has amazing DJs.

00:17:29.000 Do you dance?

00:17:30.000 I do a little bit.

00:17:31.000 I do a little two-step here and there.

00:17:33.000 You know how to do the turns and...

00:17:35.000 The turn and the spinning and all that.

00:17:37.000 I can lead.

00:17:38.000 I can definitely lead.

00:17:38.000 That's good, because that dance is...

00:17:40.000 The man is the main leader.

00:17:41.000 Bachata, yes, but like merengue and salsa, that's...

00:17:44.000 Is that salsa?

00:17:45.000 Is that the fast one?

00:17:46.000 Salsa is pretty fast.

00:17:48.000 It's pretty fast, right?

00:17:48.000 The fast one, I'm not really too, too good at.

00:17:51.000 Bachata, yeah, that's a little, you know... 0.85

00:17:53.000 Do you have Latin in you?

00:17:55.000 Well, my, no, well, my mother's from Aruba and my father's from St.

00:18:00.000 Thomas.

00:18:00.000 Oh, okay.

00:18:01.000 So you have the Caribbean flavor.

00:18:03.000 Yes, yes.

00:18:03.000 And my grandparents on my father's side is from Dominican Republic.

00:18:06.000 Awesome.

00:18:07.000 Oh, yeah.

00:18:07.000 So you have the, you have it in you for sure.

00:18:09.000 Spanish, yeah.

00:18:10.000 Cool.

00:18:10.000 That's awesome.

00:18:11.000 So I can definitely do that.

00:18:12.000 And I'm sure you're into sports.

00:18:13.000 Yeah, I did.

00:18:14.000 Well, I did play sports back in the day.

00:18:16.000 Okay.

00:18:16.000 What did you play?

00:18:17.000 I played basketball.

00:18:18.000 Played D3 and I was playing semi-pro in New York.

00:18:20.000 Nice.

00:18:21.000 Yeah.

00:18:21.000 You have the hype for it.

00:18:22.000 Yeah, 6'11", so.

00:18:23.000 Yeah.

00:18:25.000 Okay.

00:18:26.000 So how old are you guys?

00:18:27.000 I'm 37.

00:18:28.000 37?

00:18:28.000 I'm 35.

00:18:29.000 35?

00:18:30.000 Okay, okay, okay.

00:18:31.000 And then you guys both reside here in Miami?

00:18:33.000 Yes, sir.

00:18:34.000 Yeah.

00:18:34.000 So let's just, this is kind of a little vanilla.

00:18:37.000 Let's spice this up.

00:18:37.000 Okay.

00:18:38.000 Okay.

00:18:38.000 What do you hate about dating in Miami?

00:18:40.000 Hmm.

00:18:42.000 What do I hate?

00:18:43.000 I'm going to be very transparent with you.

00:18:45.000 I have very good luck dating in Miami.

00:18:48.000 Okay.

00:18:48.000 I go on many dates.

00:18:52.000 They're not bad people.

00:18:54.000 I just have very, very high standards.

00:18:57.000 Do you have a laundry list like I was referring to before?

00:19:00.000 No.

00:19:01.000 It's not like an actual list, but...

00:19:06.000 What can you define laundry list?

00:19:08.000 Like just like a long list of things.

00:19:10.000 Like qualifications, parameters, expectations.

00:19:13.000 No, but you know what?

00:19:14.000 I will actually, I have, I do know something that I've uncovered.

00:19:17.000 Depth.

00:19:18.000 That is the main thing.

00:19:21.000 Because I've uncovered that most people, they do fulfill the materialistic aspects of it, of what I'm looking for.

00:19:30.000 But they lack a certain level of depth.

00:19:33.000 And what is intellect?

00:19:34.000 What does depth mean to you?

00:19:35.000 How do you define that?

00:19:36.000 Spiritual depth or just being able to have the ability to do introspection, to have self-awareness.

00:19:45.000 And to just be a well-rounded person when it comes to that.

00:19:50.000 So speaking about introspection, then why do you think you're single?

00:19:54.000 Be honest with yourself.

00:19:56.000 Because I... I have very high standards.

00:20:02.000 So, okay.

00:20:03.000 So, example.

00:20:04.000 Let's talk about your standards.

00:20:05.000 It's too much.

00:20:06.000 It's too much.

00:20:06.000 No, no, it's cool.

00:20:07.000 I'm not trying to, like, humiliate you or anything.

00:20:08.000 I'm just genuinely interested.

00:20:10.000 Yeah, yeah.

00:20:10.000 So, you obviously say you go on a lot of dates and you have a long list of things.

00:20:15.000 So, is it, like, one thing on the list and you're like, okay, this guy, you know, chews with his mouth open.

00:20:20.000 It's over.

00:20:21.000 No, it's not trivial.

00:20:24.000 It's not trivial things like that, no.

00:20:28.000 But like I said, it's more like, because it's Miami.

00:20:31.000 Miami is, it does have, I was born and raised here, so I've lived here my whole life.

00:20:36.000 So there's nobody that can tell me anything about Miami.

00:20:40.000 Actually, sorry, real quick, not to interrupt you, Janelle, someone told me the other day, who I think is around your age, yeah, 34, 35, 36, and he was saying, actually, people who are born and raised in this city have better luck in dating.

00:20:51.000 Really?

00:20:52.000 Yeah, because they know the ins and outs, they know where to go, not just recall.

00:20:56.000 Yes, and that's why I'm probably single, because I know it so well that I'm not easily tricked.

00:21:01.000 Okay, real quick, Marvel, what about you?

00:21:03.000 What's the problem dating for you?

00:21:04.000 Because time is up right now.

00:21:05.000 Number one thing you hate about dating Miami.

00:21:07.000 Number one thing.

00:21:07.000 There's a lack of transparency and a lack of communication that we have, honestly, from both sexes.

00:21:12.000 I had a date a while back, and everything actually went good.

00:21:17.000 Had the dinner and everything else, too.

00:21:19.000 She actually spent the night, and then the day after, when we were going down the elevator, she asked me if I'm going to send her some money.

00:21:27.000 What?

00:21:28.000 Yeah.

00:21:28.000 Come on.

00:21:28.000 Did you smash?

00:21:29.000 Come on.

00:21:32.000 Well, she spent the night, right?

00:21:33.000 You told me you wanted transparency.

00:21:35.000 She said you wanted transparency.

00:21:37.000 She spent the night, too.

00:21:39.000 There you go.

00:21:40.000 Yeah, she asked for money. 0.99

00:21:43.000 Jesus, yeah.

00:21:45.000 You know, and honestly, too, I think that if she was a person where she was very, very honest from the beginning, as far as, like, hey, this is what it is, you gotta pay for this, then, like, I will actually be able to have the choice in order to do that, but you perceived yourself as, or you presented yourself as a person that you wanted to get to know me, but then you're asking for a cash app afterwards.

00:22:02.000 But, just as a context here as well, that is a common occurrence here in Miami.

00:22:06.000 You meet a girl, cool vibes, whatever, and then it's like, oh, wait, uh, I gotta pay my phone bill or something.

00:22:11.000 I was like, wait, what?

00:22:12.000 Yeah.

00:22:12.000 Like, We just met.

00:22:14.000 Go pick up a shift.

00:22:16.000 But I think that's why it's important to take your time to get to know.

00:22:20.000 Slow burn.

00:22:21.000 I believe totally in the slow burn.

00:22:22.000 100%.

00:22:22.000 Okay, guys.

00:22:23.000 Where did you meet this girl?

00:22:24.000 Sorry.

00:22:24.000 Where did you meet her from?

00:22:25.000 Where did you source her from?

00:22:26.000 Dating apps?

00:22:27.000 No, I hate dating apps.

00:22:30.000 Probably about a year ago, honestly, at a gym.

00:22:32.000 Yeah, give or take.

00:22:33.000 Then we knew each other, but then we rekindled again.

00:22:37.000 It was a mess.

00:22:39.000 That's foul, man.

00:22:40.000 That's foul.

00:22:40.000 That is foul.

00:22:41.000 Okay, real quick.

00:22:42.000 How did it go so far with the actual icebreaker date?

00:22:45.000 Yes or no second date?

00:22:46.000 Vice versa?

00:22:47.000 Yeah.

00:22:48.000 Yeah?

00:22:48.000 Yeah, I'm down.

00:22:49.000 Alright, thank you guys.

00:22:50.000 That's the first round.

00:22:51.000 Good work, guys.

00:22:52.000 Good work.

00:22:54.000 Next, people coming up.

00:22:55.000 We have red and black.

00:22:57.000 Favorite colors, by the way.

00:22:58.000 Alright.

00:23:01.000 Welcome, welcome, welcome.

00:23:03.000 What up, what up, what up?

00:23:04.000 Welcome to the table.

00:23:05.000 This is the icebreaker round, so you see your list of questions.

00:23:08.000 We are on the second row, so you don't have to worry about the one, two, three.

00:23:12.000 Just worry about the second one, two, three.

00:23:14.000 And, yeah, start off.

00:23:16.000 Whoever would like to go first.

00:23:17.000 Yes, exactly.

00:23:18.000 Just put your headphones in, if you don't mind.

00:23:20.000 Oh, next.

00:23:21.000 The headphones.

00:23:22.000 Okay, there you go.

00:23:23.000 We want to be able to hear you.

00:23:25.000 There you go.

00:23:26.000 What's going on, Axis? 1.00

00:23:27.000 Hello.

00:23:28.000 So, I know I got these prompt questions, but I want to ask you, what have you thought about me when you first saw me?

00:23:35.000 Love it.

00:23:36.000 Ah!

00:23:37.000 I think you have a lot of presence.

00:23:39.000 Okay.

00:23:40.000 So you have a lot of, like, confidence.

00:23:41.000 Energy.

00:23:42.000 With energy.

00:23:43.000 Yeah.

00:23:45.000 That's it.

00:23:47.000 No, answer it.

00:23:48.000 You look very confident.

00:23:50.000 Okay, let me think about the question.

00:23:52.000 Let me see.

00:23:53.000 Okay.

00:23:57.000 You have to give an educational or inspirational tech talk five minutes from now.

00:24:02.000 What topic would it be on? 1.00

00:24:05.000 Shit. 1.00

00:24:07.000 TED Talk. 1.00

00:24:07.000 Okay. 1.00

00:24:08.000 I'll be talking about self-improvement, bettering yourself, learn how to respect yourself, love yourself, shit like that. 0.96

00:24:17.000 What about you? 0.93

00:24:17.000 Well, you have more time, so... 0.93

00:24:19.000 Oh, I'm going to do my fucking TED talk right now! 0.97

00:24:22.000 No, no, no, no, no, no, just a topic. 0.98

00:24:26.000 You're good, you're good.

00:24:26.000 You wake up in the morning at 5 a.m.

00:24:30.000 This was your time to practice.

00:24:33.000 You should take it.

00:24:36.000 So, if I ask you, like, what's your ethnicity?

00:24:40.000 I'm from Venezuela.

00:24:42.000 To be honest, I kind of have some doubts because...

00:24:45.000 If you're from Venezuela?

00:24:47.000 No, I don't have doubts about being in Venezuela.

00:24:50.000 But sometimes I have, like, what ethnicity exactly means.

00:24:54.000 Because sometimes, when I check, for example, you fill up a form, they ask you more things like, oh, like race, ethnicity.

00:25:00.000 And I'm like, I'm not white.

00:25:01.000 I'm not black.

00:25:02.000 I don't know.

00:25:02.000 I'm just who I am.

00:25:03.000 So I'm like...

00:25:03.000 A little crazy comedy.

00:25:06.000 They never asked me these questions before in any other country that I live.

00:25:10.000 I think it's more like a U.S. thing.

00:25:13.000 I like that.

00:25:13.000 Oh, thank you.

00:25:14.000 You say my Barry White voice?

00:25:15.000 I like it.

00:25:16.000 I don't think she knows who Barry White is.

00:25:23.000 You'll Google him after that.

00:25:26.000 How do you spell it?

00:25:32.000 I'm learning already for the tech talk.

00:25:34.000 Alright, so listen.

00:25:35.000 I got my prompt question.

00:25:37.000 What is the worst date you've been on before?

00:25:41.000 Bumped up.

00:25:43.000 He's just like, I cannot have that again.

00:25:45.000 How many?

00:25:46.000 No, I'm kidding.

00:25:49.000 Okay, um...

00:25:53.000 I haven't had, like, that many terrible dates.

00:25:56.000 Okay.

00:25:56.000 But I think I had one where the vibe was so off.

00:26:03.000 Like, that was so off.

00:26:04.000 Like, I felt the person was so uncomfortable, and I didn't understand why.

00:26:09.000 It just made me uncomfortable.

00:26:10.000 So I think all the dinner was, like, so, like...

00:26:14.000 So it was awkward.

00:26:15.000 It was awkward.

00:26:15.000 And later, I think he was, you know, trying to say bye and give a kiss, but I felt like...

00:26:20.000 Yeah, I just don't give kisses a person.

00:26:24.000 But he was a nice person.

00:26:27.000 And after that, I just text him like, hey, thank you for the dinner and whatever.

00:26:31.000 And he never replied again.

00:26:33.000 Oh, no.

00:26:35.000 He also calls me.

00:26:37.000 A stutter?

00:26:39.000 No stutter?

00:26:40.000 Oh my god.

00:26:41.000 It was not that terrible.

00:26:42.000 I think, yeah, I haven't had any crazy, that crazy story, but yeah, it was all the dinner was just awkward and the things that it doesn't have sense with things that he was saying.

00:26:52.000 It was just weird.

00:26:54.000 He seemed a good person anyways, yeah.

00:26:56.000 I can tell you, you got good energy though.

00:26:58.000 You got a good vibe.

00:26:59.000 Thank you, you too.

00:27:01.000 Smiley and stuff like that.

00:27:02.000 I like the temple. 0.99

00:27:03.000 It's that fucking right one right there. 0.99

00:27:04.000 It's popping. 0.99

00:27:05.000 I like it.

00:27:06.000 Alright, tell me a question.

00:27:07.000 Okay, we go to the next one.

00:27:10.000 Okay, this is a nice question.

00:27:13.000 Okay.

00:27:14.000 Describe something you have done that you're really proud of.

00:27:18.000 What is your greatest accomplishment?

00:27:21.000 Come on. 1.00

00:27:22.000 Fuck, man. 1.00

00:27:23.000 Dick deep. 1.00

00:27:24.000 I accomplished so much shit. 1.00

00:27:25.000 I gotta dig deep. 1.00

00:27:25.000 I know. 1.00

00:27:26.000 Nah, I'm just playing.

00:27:28.000 I don't know.

00:27:29.000 Having a kid, my son, is a good accomplishment.

00:27:32.000 You know what I mean? 0.95

00:27:33.000 Seeing his face, you know, raising him, teaching him discipline and shit like that. 0.82

00:27:38.000 I really embrace that. 0.80

00:27:40.000 You know, a lot of accomplishments, it comes and goes, but, you know, having a kid and teaching him things is very important to me.

00:27:47.000 Maxis, would you date somebody with a kid?

00:27:51.000 I haven't dated anyone with a kid, but it's not that I close.

00:27:54.000 It's just like most of the people that I met, they don't have kids, so I don't know.

00:27:58.000 I'm not close about it.

00:28:00.000 I'm not specifically looking either, so I don't know.

00:28:04.000 Do you know how to cook?

00:28:06.000 Yes.

00:28:07.000 Yes, I cook a lot.

00:28:09.000 I cook Venezuelan arepas.

00:28:10.000 This is my specialty.

00:28:14.000 So listen, if I came to your house and I said, baby, I need you to cook me something, what are you going to cook me?

00:28:19.000 Yeah, you don't need to ask.

00:28:22.000 To be honest, most of my friends, they go, because I do a lot of meal prep, so my fridge is always, like, full.

00:28:34.000 So every time someone goes home, I'm like, help me, help me, just eat, because it's always so fun.

00:28:38.000 I have so much food, I can eat it.

00:28:40.000 Do you eat a lot, or do you be nitpicking, and you be saving your meal for all day?

00:28:43.000 No, I eat a lot.

00:28:44.000 People get surprised about how much can I eat.

00:28:47.000 But it's tortures because I need to be eating, like, very frequently.

00:28:51.000 So it's kind of annoying.

00:28:51.000 I need to be always, like, every two or three hours, like, eating something.

00:28:55.000 Yeah, because my energy go low after it.

00:28:58.000 Okay, time!

00:28:59.000 That is time for this.

00:29:00.000 Okay.

00:29:02.000 We have a question here for you guys.

00:29:04.000 Second date, yes or no?

00:29:05.000 Would you go on a second date with him?

00:29:06.000 Yeah, sure.

00:29:08.000 Thumbs up?

00:29:09.000 Alright, perfect.

00:29:13.000 Good job, guys.

00:29:15.000 Thank you.

00:29:16.000 Okay, I'm going to stay here next to us.

00:29:17.000 Okay, cool.

00:29:21.000 As you know, come on, come on.

00:29:23.000 Okay.

00:29:24.000 Yeah.

00:29:24.000 We're gonna spice it up a little bit here with extra guests.

00:29:29.000 Thanks, guys.

00:29:30.000 Alright.

00:29:31.000 Come on over, guys.

00:29:34.000 Surprise guests on the panel.

00:29:36.000 Sit over there. 0.98

00:29:37.000 What the hell? 0.92

00:29:40.000 What's going on right now? 0.88

00:29:42.000 Ain't no way. 1.00

00:29:43.000 What the fuck? 1.00

00:29:44.000 Is that Audrey? 1.00

00:29:46.000 Hello?

00:29:47.000 Hey! 0.99

00:29:51.000 So three minute timer.

00:29:53.000 Icebreaker challenge.

00:29:53.000 You're just going to get to know each other better.

00:29:55.000 And let's start.

00:29:56.000 Questions on the table if you need questions, but you don't need them at all.

00:29:58.000 That's perfectly fine.

00:29:59.000 Let's go.

00:30:00.000 Let's see.

00:30:01.000 I don't know if you believe in reincarnation, but I guess I would like to know if you were to be reincarnated tomorrow, what kind of animal would you pick?

00:30:11.000 Does a frog count as an animal?

00:30:13.000 Could I be a frog?

00:30:13.000 I want to be a frog.

00:30:14.000 I'm curious to know.

00:30:15.000 Why would you pick frog?

00:30:17.000 What is it about a frog?

00:30:19.000 I feel like they live life freely.

00:30:22.000 They just hop around.

00:30:23.000 They're just frogs.

00:30:24.000 I like them.

00:30:27.000 Speaking, I like frogs.

00:30:29.000 You do?

00:30:32.000 Sorry, go ahead.

00:30:36.000 So do I ask a question now?

00:30:38.000 Yeah, yeah, go for it.

00:30:39.000 The third row.

00:30:41.000 There you go.

00:30:41.000 One, two, three.

00:30:43.000 There you go.

00:30:45.000 Alright.

00:30:48.000 If you have to give an educational or inspirational TED talk five minutes from now, what topic would it be on?

00:30:55.000 I think that was the last...

00:30:56.000 Oh, okay, okay.

00:30:59.000 I could probably give my own.

00:31:00.000 A different one.

00:31:01.000 That was the last batch.

00:31:03.000 The third set of them down right there.

00:31:04.000 Okay, okay.

00:31:05.000 There you go.

00:31:07.000 Describe an argument you had with a previous boyfriend slash girlfriend.

00:31:11.000 Who was at fault and who won?

00:31:15.000 Okay.

00:31:16.000 I would say the last argument I had with a girlfriend was the amount of money I was probably spending on some of our dates. 0.83

00:31:25.000 Over the time of the relationship, I was starting to invest my money into a couple other things.

00:31:29.000 I wasn't cheating or nothing.

00:31:30.000 It was just things with the family.

00:31:32.000 I bought a house at that time, so I was kind of investing more money into my house.

00:31:35.000 Oh, so she was just being selfish?

00:31:36.000 Yeah, a little bit.

00:31:37.000 I mean, that was kind of the argument.

00:31:39.000 She was just like, you're not spending as much money on me.

00:31:41.000 I'm just like, I thought it was a little bit more than that, and that kind of broke us up. 0.98

00:31:44.000 Yeah, that sucks. 0.99

00:31:45.000 I hate a gold digger. 0.99

00:31:46.000 Sorry about that.

00:31:47.000 No one likes a gold digger.

00:31:48.000 Did you ever ask her, what are your expectations?

00:31:50.000 How much money are you expecting that I spend on you? 0.90

00:31:53.000 I mean, at that point, I was just like, I didn't really care.

00:31:56.000 You're over it.

00:31:57.000 I'd be over it, too.

00:31:58.000 If you look at me as a dollar sign, then I'm going to skedaddle.

00:32:01.000 How long did you date her?

00:32:02.000 How long did you date her?

00:32:03.000 A little over a year.

00:32:04.000 And then what?

00:32:05.000 When dates started going under $100 or something, she's like, what's going on?

00:32:08.000 Yeah.

00:32:08.000 Yeah, something like that.

00:32:10.000 I mean, like, I feel like the frequency was still there.

00:32:12.000 Like, I was still taking her out at least once or twice a week.

00:32:15.000 Or if not, do a little bit more than that.

00:32:17.000 But, yeah, it was just kind of some of the things that we were doing.

00:32:20.000 I would pay for a little bit more, like, adventurous things to do.

00:32:23.000 And I guess over time, I was kind of paying for a little bit less or wanting to do kind of more basic things that didn't require a lot of money.

00:32:31.000 That's annoying.

00:32:32.000 Yeah, yeah.

00:32:34.000 Yeah.

00:32:35.000 Go for it.

00:32:37.000 Let's see here.

00:32:40.000 Let's see what your worst dating experience is.

00:32:45.000 My worst dating experience?

00:32:49.000 Shoosh! 0.99

00:32:51.000 There's a lot of really bad ones.

00:32:53.000 So many!

00:32:55.000 What's the best story?

00:32:57.000 I get kind of icked out really easily.

00:32:59.000 There was this one time that this guy had some leftover conditioner in his ear.

00:33:04.000 I kind of like...

00:33:05.000 That was really bad.

00:33:07.000 On a date, yeah.

00:33:08.000 I don't know. 0.99

00:33:09.000 It's like some of the small shit. 0.98

00:33:11.000 I just kind of look at it and I'm like... 0.99

00:33:13.000 I really can't go through with it.

00:33:15.000 I can't just get up and leave at the moment.

00:33:17.000 I have to go through with it, but I can't.

00:33:21.000 That's wild.

00:33:22.000 I don't know. 1.00

00:33:23.000 It's like the smallest shit. 0.99

00:33:24.000 So it's almost superficial stuff? 0.99

00:33:28.000 Yeah.

00:33:29.000 I think it's more physical at first, and then it gets into the personality and stuff, you know?

00:33:38.000 And how did you meet this guy with the conditioner on his ear?

00:33:42.000 Yeah, I don't know. 0.94

00:33:46.000 I just met him from my friends of friends and shit, you know? 0.91

00:33:50.000 So, out of all the dates that you've been on, that was like the worst experience was a guy that had conditioner in his hair. 0.98

00:33:55.000 There was another one where he kind of had like a burger hanging out.

00:34:01.000 It's really bad.

00:34:02.000 I don't want to get into it.

00:34:03.000 I really don't.

00:34:04.000 Easily icked out.

00:34:05.000 Yeah, I get really easily icked out.

00:34:06.000 That's why I don't date.

00:34:08.000 Yeah, I'm sorry.

00:34:09.000 You're too young to give.

00:34:10.000 How old are you?

00:34:10.000 I'm 19, yeah.

00:34:11.000 Oh my God. 1.00

00:34:12.000 Jesus, you're like fucking, you can't even drink. 1.00

00:34:15.000 Yeah, baby. 1.00

00:34:18.000 So question, if the girl that you're dating doesn't work out, is that an issue for you?

00:34:23.000 No, I mean, I would just let her know, like, hey, we have her differences.

00:34:26.000 It's not going to work out.

00:34:27.000 And, you know, we part ways and try to keep, you know, good energy if we did run into each other again.

00:34:33.000 So then it is a deal breaker if she doesn't exercise. 1.00

00:34:36.000 Oh, if she doesn't exercise? 0.99

00:34:38.000 No, no, no.

00:34:39.000 Yeah, yeah.

00:34:39.000 If she doesn't exercise, hell no.

00:34:40.000 I've never gone over to a girl that doesn't exercise.

00:34:42.000 No, no, no.

00:34:44.000 Audrey, do you exercise?

00:34:46.000 I don't exercise.

00:34:47.000 No, I don't.

00:34:48.000 You're out!

00:34:49.000 Get out of here.

00:34:51.000 I was about to go.

00:34:53.000 So we're going to have to switch Audrey with one of our guests here again, Nexus.

00:34:57.000 Good job, Audrey. 1.00

00:34:59.000 Thanks, Audrey.

00:35:00.000 Good job.

00:35:02.000 Alright, we're going to reset the clock and go again.

00:35:04.000 And MLD, definitely tell them what you think is happening in real time, by the way.

00:35:08.000 Oh, yeah.

00:35:09.000 Well, I mean, okay, okay, okay.

00:35:10.000 I'm a little rusty.

00:35:11.000 I haven't been watching this year.

00:35:13.000 I'm trying to bite my tongue, you know, but...

00:35:15.000 I got you.

00:35:16.000 Okay.

00:35:16.000 We'll go to Rumble.

00:35:17.000 Same thing again?

00:35:19.000 No clock again?

00:35:19.000 Three minutes?

00:35:20.000 Yeah.

00:35:20.000 Okay.

00:35:21.000 Let's do it.

00:35:21.000 There you go.

00:35:22.000 Hi.

00:35:23.000 You guys can do the bottom row.

00:35:25.000 The bottom row.

00:35:26.000 Yeah.

00:35:26.000 For your own questions, too.

00:35:28.000 Yeah.

00:35:29.000 Whatever you fancy.

00:35:31.000 How would you describe yourself as a sexual person?

00:35:36.000 Ooh, spicy.

00:35:37.000 Yeah.

00:35:38.000 Well, I think the question is, would you describe yourself as a sexual person?

00:35:42.000 Would you?

00:35:43.000 Or, let me see.

00:35:43.000 No, I purposely changed that to how.

00:35:47.000 I purposely did that.

00:35:50.000 I want to know more details.

00:35:52.000 I want to know would you.

00:35:53.000 I want to know how would you.

00:35:54.000 Next question.

00:35:55.000 Next question.

00:35:56.000 Next question.

00:35:57.000 Yeah, we can do next question.

00:36:00.000 Would you learn about yourself from the last relationship that you were in?

00:36:05.000 Mm-hmm.

00:36:05.000 Oh, this is a good question.

00:36:09.000 Okay, yes.

00:36:11.000 I think what I've learned is that...

00:36:14.000 So the last person that I date with, I think we have very different personalities, which I think sometimes the opposite attracts.

00:36:23.000 Not all the time it feels like it was like a lot of...

00:36:27.000 It feels a little off sometimes.

00:36:30.000 And I think...

00:36:32.000 I guess what I learned about it is just, you know, I think it's good to give the opportunity to meet someone different.

00:36:40.000 Another thing that I discovered is that I generally value a lot like sense of humor.

00:36:47.000 And I think there is some things about culture sometimes that it doesn't connect that well.

00:36:52.000 So I think I have to be someone that is super open to learn about different cultures, about different, like, I would say slang, but different things about yourself.

00:37:01.000 I would say that's what I learned.

00:37:03.000 Like, I have to be someone open and interesting about learning more about my culture and, like, you know.

00:37:11.000 Except not sure if it has sense, but it will be, yeah, it will be that.

00:37:15.000 Especially because I'm from Venezuela.

00:37:17.000 I live in Chile for many years.

00:37:18.000 I moved here.

00:37:19.000 How long have you been in America?

00:37:21.000 Three years.

00:37:22.000 Three years?

00:37:22.000 And then how long does it usually take you to figure out, like, okay, this guy's not it?

00:37:25.000 Like we, you know, there's like a buffer period at the beginning where you're like, okay, I'm going to try to work things out.

00:37:31.000 I think a couple months.

00:37:32.000 Okay.

00:37:33.000 Okay.

00:37:33.000 Yes, because he was a good person.

00:37:35.000 It just felt like something was not going forward.

00:37:40.000 And I think maybe they're not necessarily that open to things to progress.

00:37:46.000 So I think, yeah, I would say that.

00:37:50.000 How old are you again?

00:37:51.000 How old are you?

00:37:51.000 33.

00:37:52.000 33?

00:37:53.000 Okay.

00:37:54.000 Cool.

00:37:55.000 How old are you, Darius?

00:37:55.000 28.

00:37:56.000 You can go for an older woman? 1.00

00:38:02.000 I think we're good here.

00:38:08.000 Good for how long?

00:38:10.000 I mean, we can do something.

00:38:13.000 We can work something out here.

00:38:15.000 Sounds like a finesser to me. 0.90

00:38:19.000 Sounds like you want to smash and dash.

00:38:23.000 What are you guys' longest relationships at 28 and 33?

00:38:27.000 I'd say two years.

00:38:29.000 For me it was three years and a half.

00:38:33.000 Here?

00:38:33.000 Not here.

00:38:35.000 In Chile?

00:38:36.000 In Venezuela.

00:38:37.000 We have some time that we're down distance as well.

00:38:41.000 And later in Chile I have two years relationship.

00:38:45.000 Real quick, is that a red flag for you guys, if you meet someone at 33, at 28, and they've never had a long-term relationship?

00:38:53.000 I guess, for me, I'd have to ask a little bit more questions.

00:38:56.000 I'd have to be like, who are the men that influence you in your life, and what have you learned from them?

00:39:01.000 If I can see that you got some good knowledge and I can take the chance, but if it's like I don't have that type of manly authority around to learn from, I don't know if I want to teach you.

00:39:12.000 Okay, okay.

00:39:13.000 How about you and Nexus?

00:39:15.000 No, I think it's not a ref.

00:39:17.000 It's not a ref?

00:39:17.000 No.

00:39:19.000 I always say because you...

00:39:20.000 You have to understand someone like Pat, right?

00:39:23.000 Sometimes, maybe depending on the job they have, maybe they were traveling a lot.

00:39:27.000 I don't know.

00:39:28.000 I don't like to judge that quickly.

00:39:30.000 I prefer to get to know them and maybe I'm like, oh, now I understand.

00:39:33.000 Yeah, absolutely.

00:39:34.000 I love that answer, by the way.

00:39:36.000 Don't judge.

00:39:36.000 Just ask questions.

00:39:37.000 Yeah, just see how things flow.

00:39:40.000 Okay, that is time.

00:39:43.000 So far, so good, I believe.

00:39:44.000 Second date with him?

00:39:45.000 Two or no?

00:39:47.000 Yeah.

00:39:48.000 I'll do second date.

00:39:49.000 Alright!

00:39:49.000 Thumbs up!

00:39:50.000 So now we're going to do part two.

00:39:52.000 It's going to be the actual drill date.

00:39:54.000 So you're going to plan a date where you want to go with the first person that you choose.

00:39:57.000 Whatever that may be.

00:39:57.000 Maybe Starbucks.

00:39:58.000 Maybe Pet Store.

00:39:59.000 Wink, wink.

00:40:00.000 And then once you're there, we're going to play in real time what's happening on our date.

00:40:03.000 But we'll do the first...

00:40:05.000 The next couple?

00:40:06.000 Yeah.

00:40:06.000 Okay.

00:40:07.000 Um...

00:40:09.000 Okay, we can start here actually with these two.

00:40:11.000 But before we begin, MLD and MK, tell us from these experiences here what you think so far with the good couples.

00:40:18.000 What do you think so far?

00:40:20.000 Go ahead.

00:40:21.000 So far, I like the chemistry.

00:40:24.000 I'm noticing a little bit more chemistry in some versus others.

00:40:29.000 But sometimes I freaking hate chemistry, man.

00:40:31.000 It doesn't always come down to chemistry.

00:40:33.000 Let's focus more on the compatibility, I think, first and foremost.

00:40:36.000 And so far, it's flowing.

00:40:37.000 It's flowing.

00:40:38.000 You guys are doing good.

00:40:40.000 Yeah, I think both the guys we've seen so far have swag.

00:40:44.000 We don't really need to jump in and hold your hand.

00:40:48.000 Some of these guys are a little too good.

00:40:50.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.

00:40:51.000 I feel like they're good watchers of the Fresh and Fit podcast.

00:40:55.000 I feel like they know what they're doing.

00:40:56.000 Okay, so we're going to have you plan a date, because obviously you're the man, so just choose location, time, where you want to be, and then we'll start there.

00:41:04.000 Yeah, I would usually like to have a date where we're going to be a little bit competitive, so I'd probably take you bowling.

00:41:10.000 Okay, so let's say we're at Strike 10 down the street.

00:41:14.000 Strike 10, what time is it?

00:41:16.000 It's like 9, 9 o'clock.

00:41:19.000 9 o'clock?

00:41:20.000 Yeah.

00:41:20.000 Alright, so, are you picking her up?

00:41:22.000 Are you going to Uber her?

00:41:23.000 What are you going to do?

00:41:23.000 I'm going to Uber her, just because I feel like some women don't feel comfortable with guys picking them up, so I feel like just Ubering them to the place is probably the best idea.

00:41:31.000 Yeah.

00:41:31.000 I mean, if I'm, like, getting someone and getting to know him, yeah.

00:41:34.000 Yeah.

00:41:35.000 Perfect.

00:41:35.000 Alright, so let's imagine you have your own lane.

00:41:38.000 You got some drinks for her.

00:41:39.000 You're at the bowling lane.

00:41:40.000 Let's start.

00:41:41.000 Three minutes on the clock.

00:41:41.000 Let's go.

00:41:42.000 Yeah.

00:41:43.000 What's that combo like?

00:41:44.000 I mean, honestly, part of it would be part of the game, so I'd just be flirting with you in terms of like, come on, can't you do a little bit better than that?

00:41:51.000 Because I actually am really good at bowling, so like...

00:41:57.000 So I would just tease you and be like, oh yeah, no, I'm not that good.

00:42:00.000 And then after a couple of rounds, I would definitely start picking up the game.

00:42:05.000 Okay, okay.

00:42:05.000 How will you take it, Alexis?

00:42:08.000 Like another date?

00:42:09.000 No, how will you take that interaction?

00:42:11.000 I'm very competitive.

00:42:12.000 Are you?

00:42:14.000 I probably will be like, let's bring it up.

00:42:16.000 I'm not good, but I will try my best.

00:42:20.000 Let's say you just started bowling.

00:42:21.000 He got a strike.

00:42:22.000 What's your response to that?

00:42:25.000 Yeah, we say yay!

00:42:29.000 You're going down.

00:42:31.000 Yeah, but I mean, it's a friendly game.

00:42:33.000 I'm not expecting to...

00:42:35.000 I have maybe other games that could be more competitive, but I'm bowling, I'm fine.

00:42:39.000 Okay.

00:42:40.000 And there's some questions on the table in the envelopes as well for the first date.

00:42:43.000 Oh, this one?

00:42:44.000 Yeah.

00:42:45.000 But let's say, for example, you're done with the bowling game.

00:42:47.000 What's that competition like in person on the first date?

00:42:50.000 I would say afterwards it's probably just more of like finding out more about kind of like your day-to-day life.

00:42:57.000 So let's do that right now then, on the spot.

00:42:59.000 I guess, I mean, it's a boring question, but it'll be, you know, what do you do for a living?

00:43:04.000 Yeah, no, for sure.

00:43:05.000 So I'm an engineer.

00:43:07.000 I work in technology, and I've been doing a lot of consulting as well.

00:43:12.000 I spend a lot of time as a speaker and mentor, especially for initiatives that care for me, they're diversity, inclusion, equity.

00:43:20.000 So basically trying to include more women in tech and more Latinas in tech. 1.00

00:43:24.000 So I spend a lot of my time there.

00:43:26.000 I have collaborated with more of 15 organizations on that.

00:43:29.000 Yeah, my day-to-day is product management, so I work a lot with developers developing the end-to-end process of Creating a product.

00:43:37.000 It could be a software or mobile application.

00:43:39.000 There was a career that I looked for it because I was a civil engineer, so more designing buildings.

00:43:46.000 But life, somehow, I was trying to find what I was passionate about.

00:43:51.000 I think it's something that I like, and I think I do it very good.

00:43:55.000 Nice.

00:43:56.000 Sounds like it keeps you busy.

00:43:58.000 When you get some time to relax and actually wind down, how do you usually do that?

00:44:06.000 Well, I like to go to the beach.

00:44:08.000 I like to exercise.

00:44:11.000 Being outside, I like to go for walks.

00:44:13.000 I like to go to the pool, to the jacuzzi.

00:44:15.000 I like to just go for dinners or brunch with my friends.

00:44:18.000 I have some cousins as well that I hang out with them a lot.

00:44:21.000 So, that would be...

00:44:22.000 I do spend a lot of time by myself.

00:44:24.000 I'm very comfortable as well.

00:44:25.000 I work most of the time remote.

00:44:28.000 So, yeah, I spend a lot of time there.

00:44:30.000 At home, this is why I cook more and do my own routines.

00:44:34.000 I think in Miami especially, it's very easy to keep busy.

00:44:38.000 There's a lot of activities and things to do.

00:44:40.000 Do you have a favorite beach that you like to go to?

00:44:43.000 Well, I normally go more to, like, South Beach.

00:44:46.000 I do like, but I do like to go for these, watch the sunset in South Point.

00:44:52.000 I like it there.

00:44:53.000 But I don't have a car, so probably this way I go closer.

00:44:56.000 Oh, gotcha, gotcha.

00:44:57.000 Don't judge me.

00:44:57.000 I've been to South Beach a couple times, and yeah, I'm just...

00:45:00.000 I don't go for the parties because it's easier.

00:45:04.000 And what do you do?

00:45:06.000 For me, I'm actually a software engineer.

00:45:08.000 Oh, really?

00:45:08.000 Okay.

00:45:09.000 So I work a lot with engineers.

00:45:11.000 So every day I'm in front of a computer.

00:45:18.000 Do you go from home or do you go to the office?

00:45:19.000 I do a mix, so I try to get out of the house.

00:45:22.000 It's true.

00:45:23.000 But yeah, I have days where I do stay at the house and just kind of type away.

00:45:27.000 That's nice.

00:45:27.000 Yeah.

00:45:28.000 That's good.

00:45:28.000 We share the tech industry aspect.

00:45:31.000 Yeah, I will say tech is pretty fun.

00:45:34.000 Once you actually get used to it and actually start building the knowledge behind it.

00:45:38.000 Yeah, it's a lot of opportunities.

00:45:39.000 I think not everyone knows, but yeah.

00:45:42.000 Was that your main thing that you wanted to get into?

00:45:45.000 Because you mentioned other passions.

00:45:47.000 What are you actually passionate about?

00:45:51.000 Well, this is my career, but I do a lot of other things.

00:45:54.000 I have some, like, second life in modeling as well.

00:45:58.000 She's a model. 1.00

00:46:00.000 Yeah, so I talk back this passion for saying when I came to Miami.

00:46:07.000 It has been really fun.

00:46:08.000 I don't see it doing it full-time at all, but for now it has been fun.

00:46:14.000 What kind of model are you?

00:46:15.000 Um, so I do sometimes fashion show or like photo shoots for like brands.

00:46:20.000 Okay.

00:46:20.000 Hobby or paid?

00:46:22.000 Hobby or paid?

00:46:23.000 Um, they're paid, but most of the beginning it was most free.

00:46:26.000 Yeah.

00:46:27.000 Yeah.

00:46:28.000 So, um, I think for me it's just like, it's fun.

00:46:31.000 So as long as it came in, um, I don't see it like full time for now.

00:46:35.000 I really like my career in technology.

00:46:37.000 I think I could grow a lot and I've been working many years on that.

00:46:40.000 How many followers do you have on Instagram?

00:46:42.000 I don't have that much, to be honest.

00:46:44.000 How many?

00:46:45.000 Two thousand, three hundred.

00:46:47.000 You okay with that?

00:46:48.000 Yeah, that's fine.

00:46:49.000 Why do you need more?

00:46:50.000 No, no, no, no, no, no, no.

00:46:52.000 I took a couple of hours.

00:46:53.000 You can buy more if you want.

00:46:55.000 More?

00:46:55.000 Yeah, yeah.

00:46:56.000 How often do you post them?

00:46:58.000 I put more stories.

00:47:00.000 I would say the post.

00:47:01.000 I think post maybe once a month or two a month.

00:47:05.000 Okay, that is time.

00:47:07.000 Listen, MLD, MK, thoughts so far?

00:47:10.000 Do you think it's energy or match here?

00:47:12.000 What do you think?

00:47:13.000 I think, yeah.

00:47:14.000 I think it's a good match.

00:47:16.000 I think already you guys have a lot in common.

00:47:18.000 And so when you have a lot in common with someone, that's something to go from.

00:47:22.000 Yeah.

00:47:22.000 And at the end of the day, like, yeah, do I think next month or next year you'll get married?

00:47:26.000 I don't know.

00:47:27.000 But you're starting from somewhere and you're on solid ground.

00:47:31.000 Well, this is Miami.

00:47:32.000 Competition is very fierce.

00:47:33.000 So let's see who ends up with who at the very end.

00:47:36.000 All right?

00:47:37.000 Thank you.

00:47:37.000 Thank you for coming through.

00:47:38.000 And we're going to have...

00:47:39.000 You stay here one more time.

00:47:41.000 We're going to have your next date that shows you specifically on this date.

00:47:44.000 Oh, wow.

00:47:45.000 Thank you, Darius.

00:47:49.000 He's back.

00:47:50.000 Back again.

00:47:51.000 Mr.

00:47:52.000 Charisma.

00:47:53.000 Mr.

00:47:55.000 Charisma, Mr.

00:47:55.000 Charisma.

00:47:57.000 She's natural, baby.

00:48:00.000 So this is your first date, taking her out, and you can choose the location, time, where it's going to be, and we'll start the ball rolling.

00:48:09.000 Okay, so if I'm going to take you out, I'll say, hey, I don't want to go in a restaurant with you.

00:48:13.000 I want to go to a beach.

00:48:14.000 We can talk, relax, have a conversation, make a nice little picnic.

00:48:19.000 That's nice.

00:48:20.000 And then we can really get to know each other.

00:48:21.000 Because I like, you know, I don't like doing surface level talking.

00:48:24.000 I like to really get to understand people.

00:48:26.000 Does that make sense?

00:48:27.000 Restaurants and going out like that is more like a second date.

00:48:30.000 Does that make sense?

00:48:32.000 Yeah, I like paintings.

00:48:33.000 Okay, so let's put the frame here.

00:48:35.000 Is it going to be South Beach?

00:48:37.000 Is it going to be mid-beach?

00:48:39.000 Where's it going to be?

00:48:40.000 It's even depending on the beefing issues.

00:48:43.000 You're going to set up for the kids.

00:48:45.000 You're going to set up for the kids to go to Hollywood.

00:48:47.000 Let's go to Hollywood.

00:48:49.000 I like that.

00:48:51.000 Check, check.

00:48:54.000 So we'll go there, and we'll go around, like, what's sunset?

00:48:58.000 What time is sunset?

00:49:00.000 7 a.m.

00:49:03.000 Nice blanket, little snacks, sandwich.

00:49:07.000 You like that?

00:49:08.000 Yeah.

00:49:08.000 And also, he ordered you a drink, by the way.

00:49:10.000 Here you go.

00:49:11.000 There we go.

00:49:12.000 Thank you, Fresh.

00:49:17.000 Hey, that's his wrist, bro.

00:49:19.000 That's his wrist.

00:49:19.000 That's not me, man.

00:49:20.000 There you go.

00:49:23.000 I like that touch.

00:49:25.000 Taking the lead initiative.

00:49:26.000 A man should be an initiative, right? 1.00

00:49:28.000 You should take the lead, right?

00:49:30.000 Every man can't guide you, right? 1.00

00:49:32.000 You gotta be the right person.

00:49:33.000 It's true.

00:49:34.000 I think you're saying a good point.

00:49:36.000 Okay, so run us through you guys' conversation while you're on this picnic on the beach.

00:49:42.000 How was your day?

00:49:45.000 Today?

00:49:46.000 It was good.

00:49:48.000 It was good.

00:49:50.000 Well, today I did my nails, so it's special.

00:49:54.000 I wanted to have a little, you know, boost.

00:49:58.000 I did some work today in the morning, my laptop, so it was more like, yeah, not too much, like some emails and things.

00:50:07.000 They pass very fast.

00:50:09.000 What about you?

00:50:09.000 I had a great day.

00:50:11.000 It's been real productive.

00:50:12.000 I really appreciate that you came on time and everything.

00:50:16.000 Yeah, you too.

00:50:18.000 Are you detail-oriented?

00:50:20.000 Um...

00:50:22.000 Yes, I am.

00:50:23.000 I am.

00:50:24.000 I think my job, I do this a lot.

00:50:27.000 Practice a lot.

00:50:29.000 I would say with people, it depends.

00:50:32.000 Okay.

00:50:32.000 So listen, I pack these sandwiches right here.

00:50:35.000 Okay.

00:50:36.000 Do you like turkey?

00:50:37.000 Do you cook?

00:50:37.000 Turkey and ham.

00:50:38.000 I do.

00:50:38.000 You know what?

00:50:39.000 I make a good turkey burger.

00:50:40.000 Okay, that's nice.

00:50:42.000 I put the sage, green pepper. 1.00

00:50:46.000 What the fuck you talking about? 1.00

00:50:48.000 Splash it on the motherfucking grill with the grease. 1.00

00:50:51.000 Potato chips. 0.99

00:50:53.000 You like stuff like that?

00:50:55.000 I like it.

00:50:55.000 I don't eat it that often, though.

00:50:57.000 But I like it.

00:50:58.000 Okay, cool.

00:50:59.000 But listen.

00:51:00.000 Everything that is made with care and love is good.

00:51:03.000 Especially with food, yeah.

00:51:04.000 This is what came from the heart, right?

00:51:05.000 Yeah.

00:51:05.000 But I got the ham and I got the turkey sandwiches.

00:51:08.000 Which one do you like?

00:51:10.000 Turkey.

00:51:11.000 You like turkey?

00:51:12.000 Okay, cool.

00:51:12.000 Yeah.

00:51:14.000 Eat that turkey sandwich. 1.00

00:51:17.000 Eat that fucking turkey sandwich. 1.00

00:51:25.000 So the sunset is going, right? 1.00

00:51:27.000 You want to go in the water?

00:51:29.000 You want to go in the water with me?

00:51:30.000 Would you like that?

00:51:31.000 Yeah, that would be fun.

00:51:32.000 Okay, cool.

00:51:33.000 Let's do that.

00:51:40.000 I really like your bathing suit, too.

00:51:42.000 It looks very nice to me.

00:51:43.000 Oh, wow.

00:51:44.000 You haven't seen it.

00:51:45.000 You already know.

00:51:46.000 I'm a role-playing. 1.00

00:51:47.000 I'm a fucking role-playing. 0.99

00:51:51.000 I'm not sure if you're being authentic, because how do you assume that you're going to like it if you haven't seen it? 0.99

00:51:57.000 I don't know.

00:51:58.000 Seems like you're lying here.

00:51:59.000 It's like imagination.

00:52:00.000 I thought we were role-playing. 0.98

00:52:01.000 Maybe we're on a fucking two different pages. 1.00

00:52:03.000 Fuck the script and then tell me. 1.00

00:52:06.000 Oh my god. 1.00

00:52:08.000 Okay, time is up.

00:52:10.000 MLD, MLK, how did that go?

00:52:13.000 Up until the last, like, 15 seconds, it went well.

00:52:16.000 It went well.

00:52:17.000 Yeah, I like that you were thoughtful.

00:52:19.000 You know, you put in an intention.

00:52:21.000 Okay.

00:52:22.000 Like, the banter was good.

00:52:24.000 Like, I like you were just being genuine, being authentic.

00:52:27.000 Like, yeah, I just didn't do that much, did I? Like, whatever, you weren't just like, it was fine.

00:52:30.000 Like, you actually just said exactly what you did.

00:52:32.000 Like, you know, more depth, you know?

00:52:34.000 So...

00:52:35.000 It's good.

00:52:36.000 It's good, guys.

00:52:37.000 It's good.

00:52:37.000 Overall, I love that idea.

00:52:40.000 Miami guys, are you listening?

00:52:42.000 Are you listening?

00:52:42.000 You don't need the flashy wine and dine, sexy fish, whatever.

00:52:48.000 Just be yourself.

00:52:49.000 A beach and a picnic.

00:52:50.000 The girl's like, oh my gosh, she was actually thinking.

00:52:52.000 She was actually putting thought to that.

00:52:53.000 That actually takes more thought than making reservations at sexy fish.

00:52:58.000 Yeah.

00:52:58.000 Alright.

00:52:59.000 10 out of 10.

00:53:00.000 I think this guy's a natural leader.

00:53:01.000 I think this guy, it's not his first rodeo.

00:53:04.000 Definitely not his last.

00:53:05.000 I mean, great stuff, great presence.

00:53:08.000 You know, I mean, you got the fitness, you have the leadership, you have the confidence, you know how to carry a conversation, you know how to lead and guide.

00:53:15.000 She followed well during that conversation as well.

00:53:17.000 She kind of went into his frame. 0.97

00:53:19.000 She submitted a lot during some of the things. 0.99

00:53:21.000 She could have had multiple opportunities where she'd be like, nah, I don't like turkey, motherfucker, or something like that, but... 1.00

00:53:26.000 Give me that turkey sandwich. 0.99

00:53:27.000 It was good.

00:53:28.000 Really, 10 out of 10.

00:53:29.000 Great work.

00:53:30.000 Good stuff.

00:53:32.000 Thanks, guys.

00:53:33.000 Thank you.

00:53:33.000 And then the last few here, you can come through.

00:53:40.000 We're good?

00:53:41.000 Yeah.

00:53:42.000 Thank you.

00:53:43.000 Thanks, folks.

00:53:44.000 Good job on that.

00:53:45.000 There you go.

00:53:46.000 All right, we got the famous, the infamous Audrey back again.

00:53:50.000 And Marvel, let's go.

00:53:53.000 So the scenario is going to be whatever you choose, Marvel.

00:53:56.000 It's going to be your first date.

00:53:57.000 It could be location-wise, and then time-wise, you just choose that, and then we'll start it off.

00:54:02.000 And if you get stuck, there's some cards there you can choose from for questions, and let's roll.

00:54:09.000 Hello.

00:54:10.000 What's going on?

00:54:11.000 What's your...

00:54:12.000 What's your name tag?

00:54:14.000 Oh, it fell off.

00:54:15.000 What's your name?

00:54:16.000 Bishop.

00:54:17.000 Bishop?

00:54:18.000 Yes.

00:54:18.000 Okay.

00:54:19.000 Nah, I was just confused.

00:54:20.000 You didn't have your name tag.

00:54:21.000 I'm sorry.

00:54:21.000 Oh, yeah.

00:54:21.000 It kind of came off...

00:54:22.000 Okay, so location-wise and then time.

00:54:26.000 Okay, so the time is going to be about 2.30 p.m.

00:54:31.000 on a Saturday, and we're going to go to the Art Perez Museum firsthand.

00:54:37.000 We're going to see some art, we're going to walk around, have a little tour as well too, find out what kind of art do you like?

00:54:45.000 What kind of art do you like?

00:54:47.000 I don't really like...

00:54:48.000 I don't really look at it, but okay.

00:54:51.000 Yeah, that sounds nice.

00:54:53.000 Okay.

00:54:53.000 We're gonna do that.

00:54:55.000 Then after that...

00:54:57.000 Oh, are we gonna be like in the mix?

00:54:59.000 Yeah, like in the date.

00:54:59.000 Like you act as if you're in the date.

00:55:01.000 Okay, okay.

00:55:02.000 Walking around.

00:55:02.000 How short are you?

00:55:03.000 How what?

00:55:04.000 How short are you?

00:55:05.000 How short am I? You just instantly assume.

00:55:07.000 I'm 5'2".

00:55:09.000 That's short.

00:55:10.000 That's very short.

00:55:11.000 Hold on, can you guys...

00:55:12.000 Can you do a standing test here?

00:55:17.000 We want to measure our heights together right now?

00:55:20.000 Just to see how...

00:55:21.000 Can we go back here?

00:55:22.000 Yeah, right there.

00:55:23.000 This is kind of crazy.

00:55:24.000 I'm not going to lie, Marlon. 1.00

00:55:25.000 You're tall as hell, motherfucker. 1.00

00:55:26.000 Goddamn. 1.00

00:55:27.000 6'11". 0.99

00:55:28.000 Is he 6'11"?

00:55:29.000 Yeah. 1.00

00:55:30.000 Damn! 1.00

00:55:32.000 It's like the Addams Family. 1.00

00:55:34.000 Wow.

00:55:35.000 Okay.

00:55:35.000 Match made in heaven right there.

00:55:37.000 There you go.

00:55:40.000 Okay.

00:55:41.000 What's the tallest you ever dated?

00:55:44.000 Like 6'2".

00:55:45.000 6'2".

00:55:46.000 Okay.

00:55:46.000 That's not tall at all.

00:55:49.000 You said David and Goliath?

00:55:53.000 Wow.

00:55:54.000 Okay.

00:55:56.000 Alright, let's run back real quick.

00:55:58.000 So you're at a museum.

00:55:59.000 What's the combo looking like?

00:56:00.000 It's a conversation.

00:56:01.000 Okay.

00:56:05.000 So, what are your likes?

00:56:08.000 What do you like to do?

00:56:09.000 What do you like to do for fun?

00:56:10.000 What do I like to do?

00:56:11.000 Yes.

00:56:12.000 I like to film my ukulele.

00:56:13.000 I like to sing.

00:56:15.000 You like to sing?

00:56:16.000 Yeah.

00:56:16.000 Okay.

00:56:17.000 What kind of genre do you like to sing?

00:56:20.000 Oh, like R&B. R&B? Okay.

00:56:22.000 Can you sing right now?

00:56:23.000 Can you sing right now?

00:56:24.000 I'm not doing that for the audience.

00:56:26.000 I'm sorry.

00:56:27.000 I know how y'all are.

00:56:29.000 Your R&B ukulele?

00:56:31.000 Uh, yeah.

00:56:31.000 No, no.

00:56:32.000 It's just like, it's like a mixture.

00:56:33.000 You know, like, it ranges.

00:56:35.000 Okay.

00:56:36.000 Depends on the day.

00:56:37.000 Do you sing R&B and play the ukulele at the same time?

00:56:39.000 I mean, I can.

00:56:40.000 I've never tried it.

00:56:41.000 No.

00:56:41.000 But I can, yeah.

00:56:42.000 Okay.

00:56:42.000 Probably.

00:56:43.000 What's, like, the most challenging thing when it comes to, like, making music?

00:56:46.000 The most talented?

00:56:47.000 Like, challenging thing.

00:56:48.000 Like, do you think, do you have, like, do you partake in, I should say, when it comes to, you know, making music?

00:56:53.000 I don't really make music, but, um, probably, like, Just playing it, you know?

00:57:01.000 I can't really play it like that.

00:57:03.000 It's like, just like learning it and kind of like, are you saying like the ukulele specifically?

00:57:07.000 Yeah, the ukulele.

00:57:08.000 I can't even really say that.

00:57:09.000 I'm sorry.

00:57:10.000 The ukulele, yeah.

00:57:11.000 Is it hard to play with your nails as well too?

00:57:13.000 Yeah, I tried playing it the other day. 0.60

00:57:15.000 It was just like kind of fucked it up.

00:57:16.000 So can you play or can you not play? 0.94

00:57:18.000 I can play, but it's just kind of the nails.

00:57:20.000 Play notes or songs?

00:57:22.000 Songs, notes.

00:57:24.000 I try making my own song, you know.

00:57:26.000 But, you know, it's like, it's whatever.

00:57:29.000 Okay.

00:57:29.000 Yeah, so then, I guess after that, then we'll go to Prez Art Museum, probably for like maybe a couple hours.

00:57:36.000 And after that, go to the Prez Art Museum. 0.85

00:57:39.000 I'm going to be there.

00:57:39.000 And then after that, Prez Art Museum.

00:57:42.000 Prez Art Museum.

00:57:44.000 Okay, I'm sorry.

00:57:45.000 Slow down, you're doing great.

00:57:46.000 Oh, sorry.

00:57:47.000 My bad.

00:57:47.000 The Perez Art Museum.

00:57:49.000 They're going to be there for a tour for about a couple hours.

00:57:51.000 Then after that, they're going to go to Gyaku and Brickell.

00:57:55.000 I have no idea what any of those things are, but they sound cool.

00:57:58.000 Korean barbecue?

00:57:59.000 Have you ever had it?

00:58:00.000 Gyukaku, right?

00:58:01.000 I don't think I've ever had it, no.

00:58:02.000 Gyukaku.

00:58:03.000 Okay.

00:58:03.000 So, yeah.

00:58:03.000 Yeah, I've never had it.

00:58:05.000 It's Japanese.

00:58:05.000 Yeah, it's Japanese, yeah.

00:58:06.000 That's right, that's right.

00:58:07.000 You live in Japan. 0.99

00:58:07.000 That's right. 0.99

00:58:08.000 There's a big chain over there.

00:58:09.000 Yeah, yeah.

00:58:09.000 Yeah, definitely.

00:58:11.000 So what you do is actually, it's like a little, like a...

00:58:14.000 Grill?

00:58:14.000 Grill right there, and we actually cook and everything else too.

00:58:17.000 Okay, so they cook right in front of you?

00:58:18.000 You cook your own meat.

00:58:20.000 Oh, I cook it myself.

00:58:22.000 That's nice.

00:58:22.000 You're not like a pescetarian or anything, right?

00:58:24.000 A pescetarian?

00:58:25.000 You're not a pescetarian.

00:58:26.000 I'm asking.

00:58:27.000 No.

00:58:27.000 Okay, perfect.

00:58:27.000 I'm good.

00:58:28.000 Okay, perfect.

00:58:29.000 That's fine.

00:58:29.000 Do you know what a pescetarian is?

00:58:31.000 Isn't it like when you don't like when other people...

00:58:34.000 No way!

00:58:37.000 Go ahead.

00:58:38.000 Hold on, wait.

00:58:39.000 Audrey.

00:58:41.000 When you only eat seafood.

00:58:42.000 Bruh.

00:58:43.000 Yeah.

00:58:44.000 Oh.

00:58:45.000 Seafood only.

00:58:47.000 Pesca means...

00:58:48.000 Seafood only.

00:58:48.000 Yeah, I'm trying to find out what kind of food do you like.

00:58:50.000 Do you like pescatin?

00:58:51.000 Yeah, I range.

00:58:52.000 Do you like meat? 0.99

00:58:52.000 I don't give a fuck. 0.99

00:58:53.000 That's probably why I don't know that word, because I don't really give a fuck. 0.99

00:58:55.000 Okay. 0.99

00:58:55.000 So you eat anything? 0.99

00:58:56.000 Yeah.

00:58:57.000 That's good.

00:58:58.000 Eat it all.

00:58:59.000 I don't like onions, though.

00:59:01.000 Or like peppers, or like green peppers.

00:59:03.000 I don't like peppers.

00:59:04.000 I don't like the way they taste.

00:59:04.000 Do you like vegetables?

00:59:06.000 I like carrots.

00:59:08.000 Carrots.

00:59:08.000 And broccoli.

00:59:09.000 Okay.

00:59:10.000 I just don't like the way peppers taste.

00:59:12.000 And onions.

00:59:12.000 They just taste weird.

00:59:14.000 So you don't necessarily maybe like spicy food then?

00:59:17.000 I love spicy food.

00:59:18.000 You like spicy food?

00:59:19.000 Yeah.

00:59:19.000 Okay.

00:59:19.000 I do.

00:59:20.000 Alright.

00:59:20.000 What's the best place do you like to go to as far as getting spicy food here in Miami?

00:59:27.000 I don't really go out for spicy food.

00:59:28.000 I usually just have, like, this little, like, you know, the instant ramen packs?

00:59:32.000 Oh, okay, yeah. 0.98

00:59:33.000 You know, with, like, you know, the spiciness and shit. 1.00

00:59:35.000 That's basically what I do. 0.95

00:59:36.000 So I just do that, maybe just, like, you know, watch a movie, some Netflix, and do that?

00:59:39.000 Yeah, I like vibing.

00:59:41.000 I'm a homebody.

00:59:42.000 Homebody.

00:59:43.000 So you don't like to go out?

00:59:45.000 Not usually, no.

00:59:46.000 No.

00:59:47.000 What's the thing about going out that you don't necessarily like?

00:59:51.000 I feel like you don't like people.

00:59:53.000 Yeah.

00:59:54.000 I see.

00:59:54.000 I just said that.

00:59:55.000 I knew it.

00:59:56.000 Huh.

00:59:57.000 Yeah.

00:59:57.000 He's a very perceptive man.

00:59:59.000 He's reading me.

00:59:59.000 He's reading me right now.

01:00:00.000 He's reading me very well.

01:00:02.000 Yeah.

01:00:02.000 Yeah, I don't like people.

01:00:04.000 All of them?

01:00:04.000 He's trying to read me even more.

01:00:06.000 He's like giving me that intense gaze.

01:00:08.000 I'm analyzing.

01:00:08.000 When you say you don't like people, dating usually involves people.

01:00:12.000 So how do you plan to get over that hurdle?

01:00:14.000 I don't know.

01:00:15.000 It's a joke.

01:00:15.000 I don't really like it.

01:00:18.000 Freudian slip a little bit?

01:00:19.000 Huh?

01:00:20.000 Freudian slip a little bit?

01:00:21.000 Freudian.

01:00:23.000 Freudian slip?

01:00:24.000 Freudian.

01:00:25.000 Freudian.

01:00:26.000 She's 19.

01:00:27.000 I don't think she knows her name.

01:00:29.000 Slow down a little bit with me, okay?

01:00:32.000 I don't know a lot of things.

01:00:33.000 Speak Zoomer to her. 0.96

01:00:34.000 Okay, so what I do believe is that you necessarily...

01:00:38.000 It's not like you don't like people.

01:00:39.000 You just maybe...

01:00:40.000 You like more intimate one-on-one conversations versus, like, groups.

01:00:44.000 Is that what it is?

01:00:45.000 Very well.

01:00:46.000 Yeah.

01:00:46.000 Right on point.

01:00:47.000 Okay.

01:00:48.000 All right.

01:00:48.000 That's good.

01:00:49.000 That's good.

01:00:49.000 So I think the tour is actually going to be really, really good for us.

01:00:51.000 And then after that, we'll probably just go on after Gyukaku.

01:00:55.000 Gyukaku.

01:00:56.000 After that, then we'll go to a nice walk on Brickle Bay.

01:01:01.000 Is it Brickle Ave?

01:01:02.000 What are the timings?

01:01:03.000 Like, are we going to watch the sunset or is it going to be dark by then?

01:01:06.000 Nah, well, it's going to be 2.30.

01:01:08.000 It's going to be two hours after that and then 4.30.

01:01:09.000 Then after that, we'll get to Gyukaku around 4.30, 4.45.

01:01:16.000 And then we'll probably be there from 4.45 to maybe about 6.00.

01:01:19.000 Then from 6 to 7, I think sunset is 651, then we'll be able to actually change this net to actually watch the sunset.

01:01:26.000 Okay, you're good with your time.

01:01:28.000 Yeah, no, I'm very diligent when it comes to timing for what I do for a living.

01:01:31.000 You're good with math?

01:01:32.000 I'm terrible with math, but I'm really good at...

01:01:34.000 But you're really good at time.

01:01:36.000 I'm really good at time.

01:01:37.000 Speaking of time, that is time.

01:01:39.000 Okay, so hold on, real quick, real quick.

01:01:41.000 Audrey, would you go on a second date with Marvel, with Shipper?

01:01:48.000 I'm kind of scared.

01:01:49.000 He's a really big person.

01:01:56.000 He's really tall.

01:01:58.000 I don't know if that's gonna work.

01:02:00.000 Bishop.

01:02:01.000 Tell us real quick, is that an issue with dating for you?

01:02:03.000 Like, girls think you're too tall, like you might be too big? 1.00

01:02:05.000 I've been told before that I'm too big, honestly.

01:02:09.000 Like, no, like, you're too scared of me.

01:02:11.000 That's really scary.

01:02:11.000 We haven't gone to the bedroom yet.

01:02:12.000 Wow.

01:02:13.000 I'm too big.

01:02:13.000 That's crazy.

01:02:14.000 Joke.

01:02:15.000 How do you deal with that, bro?

01:02:17.000 Um...

01:02:22.000 You don't deal with that.

01:02:23.000 No, I don't.

01:02:23.000 I mean, caught me there.

01:02:26.000 Okay.

01:02:26.000 Yeah.

01:02:27.000 All right.

01:02:27.000 Thank you, guys.

01:02:28.000 Appreciate it.

01:02:28.000 Thank you, Fresh.

01:02:30.000 Good one.

01:02:31.000 Good job.

01:02:31.000 Good date.

01:02:32.000 Good date.

01:02:33.000 Good date.

01:02:34.000 So I'm going to have her come back.

01:02:38.000 Have you two guys come?

01:02:41.000 I'm going to have you sit over there again.

01:02:44.000 Oh, we're back.

01:02:45.000 We're back.

01:02:46.000 Hey, hey.

01:02:47.000 You know what?

01:02:48.000 Like taxis.

01:02:50.000 Yes.

01:02:52.000 I was thinking of another N-word. 0.99

01:02:54.000 What?

01:02:59.000 It's spelled N-A-X-I-S. Like taxis.

01:03:02.000 Oh, whoa.

01:03:07.000 Okay.

01:03:08.000 So this is the last segment here.

01:03:10.000 A triple deck.

01:03:11.000 Okay.

01:03:12.000 We're going to be doing basically...

01:03:13.000 A triple deck.

01:03:14.000 Your choice of your next date between these two guys right now.

01:03:18.000 No pressure.

01:03:19.000 Okay, no pressure, by the way.

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01:03:49.000 Okay, back to the show.

01:03:50.000 MLD and MK, just real quick, do you think finding somebody to actually match your standards is harder nowadays or easier?

01:03:59.000 As a woman and as a man.

01:04:01.000 So the objective, do not have too high of standards that are unrealistic.

01:04:06.000 Yes, it's gonna be very hard.

01:04:08.000 Abso-friggin-lutely.

01:04:09.000 And I hate to say that, because I'm not an entrepreneur at Spirit, and as an entrepreneur, you have to be a dreamer, you have to be a go-getter, so I hate to be like, stop being unrealistic.

01:04:18.000 But the truth is, you have to look at the stats.

01:04:20.000 You have to look at what you're looking for.

01:04:22.000 If you're looking for a man or a woman in a certain five, ten year age demographic, and then you put on the stipulation that they can only be six foot plus, and then they can never have had kids, and they can never have been married, but yet they're between the ages 40 and 45.

01:04:38.000 You have to look at all that you're looking for and really, truly be logical, because falling in love is 50% emotional and 50% logical.

01:04:45.000 When you look at it, you're like, well, that brings me to about.05% of the population.

01:04:49.000 That's just not smart.

01:04:51.000 You have to be open-minded.

01:04:53.000 Does that answer your question?

01:04:54.000 It does.

01:04:55.000 I just think men and women across the board need to lower their standards.

01:04:59.000 I think everybody is just so out of touch with reality, men and women. 1.00

01:05:04.000 I obviously deal with the majority of coaching men, male clients, but when I deal with women on the fucking podcast, How you guys made your fortune. 0.98

01:05:12.000 The delusions of the average modern woman is just too out of control. 1.00

01:05:16.000 I think that, you know, everybody just needs to chill out and give the other person a little bit more leeway.

01:05:21.000 Because, you know, I think men and women are so quick to next each other. 0.96

01:05:24.000 And everybody thinks they're so fucking amazing. 0.51

01:05:27.000 Everybody thinks they have no red flags. 0.86

01:05:29.000 Everybody thinks, like, I deserve this perfect person.

01:05:32.000 It's like, no.

01:05:33.000 Because you're not even perfect.

01:05:35.000 And you have red flags, too.

01:05:37.000 So I just think everybody needs to fucking chill out, sit down, and really just have a kind of objective look at what they want and lower their standards to get that.

01:05:48.000 And another thing related to what you just said is just that if you're dating someone and there's a clear no-go... 0.92

01:05:58.000 Like for me, if I'm dating a girl and she drinks alcohol... 0.99

01:06:02.000 No.

01:06:03.000 It's just no.

01:06:04.000 So if I know I'm dating a girl and she's like consistently slamming back booze, I'm like, this girl, you know, she's got a couple months at best, you know. 0.96

01:06:13.000 But you've got to walk away from what you don't want so you can find what you do want.

01:06:18.000 And that goes for men and women. 0.93

01:06:19.000 Well said.

01:06:20.000 Nexus, do you have high standards, you would say?

01:06:24.000 Yes.

01:06:25.000 Okay, so all these two guys here, who would you choose for a second date and who matches your standards and why?

01:06:33.000 I'll put you in the spot here, but trust me, it's worth it.

01:06:36.000 Time to be a strong independent woman.

01:06:38.000 To be honest, I think both of them were great.

01:06:40.000 This is why I put Tom up to both of them.

01:06:43.000 But if I have to choose one guy...

01:06:44.000 If I have to choose one, I would say probably it would be more Darius.

01:06:50.000 But not because I think I buy so well with like you as well.

01:06:54.000 You're so fine.

01:06:55.000 It was so cool.

01:06:56.000 But I think lifestyle seems like we have this part of like technology, like career thing that I realized that for me is kind of important and someone to kind of understand a little bit more of that.

01:07:07.000 So, that would be more for that, not for, like, it doesn't...

01:07:11.000 Because I think I could talk with, you know, in this short period of time, I could have good conversation with both.

01:07:17.000 I think, like, De Juan seems so cool, like, very charismatic, you know?

01:07:20.000 So, I felt like...

01:07:21.000 But I would say that, mainly just for that.

01:07:24.000 Do you know what I'm hearing here?

01:07:25.000 Because it seems like lifestyle could be more similar, but not...

01:07:28.000 I get what you're saying.

01:07:28.000 You know what I'm hearing here, MLD and NMK? I'm hearing short-term and long-term.

01:07:32.000 Yeah.

01:07:33.000 If you know what I mean.

01:07:35.000 So that one right there was very well said.

01:07:38.000 One guy's a fun, cool vibe, and one guy's like, okay, more serious, more long-term.

01:07:43.000 So we're seeing both sides of the same coin here, pretty much.

01:07:46.000 Really?

01:07:46.000 I don't know.

01:07:47.000 Because they're both engineers.

01:07:48.000 They're both engineers, so they kind of got that left-brain thing.

01:07:52.000 Within the field of work that they do, it will match their setup.

01:07:55.000 Compatibility. 0.99

01:07:55.000 The whole opposites attract thing is actually bullshit, in my opinion. 0.99

01:07:59.000 I think you've got to find somebody who is more... 0.95

01:08:02.000 On the same page as you for things to progress, for something to be long term.

01:08:07.000 You know?

01:08:08.000 That's what I personally believe.

01:08:09.000 Okay.

01:08:10.000 And then, Dwan, anything you want to say?

01:08:12.000 Last thoughts here for this?

01:08:13.000 Oh, nah, man.

01:08:14.000 Forgive me.

01:08:15.000 You're so cool.

01:08:16.000 I know, but it's just like...

01:08:18.000 I enjoy myself.

01:08:19.000 I had a good time, man.

01:08:21.000 You know, that's what it is.

01:08:22.000 I enjoy myself.

01:08:24.000 That's a good guy.

01:08:25.000 Oh, yeah.

01:08:25.000 This is fun.

01:08:26.000 I'm not going to lie.

01:08:27.000 This is a great experience.

01:08:28.000 And glad that you guys all came onto the show.

01:08:31.000 And thank you for letting me ask you some questions.

01:08:33.000 Thank you for coming, bro.

01:08:34.000 What about you?

01:08:34.000 How was the experience?

01:08:36.000 It was great.

01:08:36.000 It was great to like hearing from you.

01:08:39.000 I think there's such a very good vibe for everyone.

01:08:42.000 So it's been a very like fun experience to do.

01:08:44.000 So I'm glad to be here.

01:08:46.000 Glad to have you here.

01:08:47.000 And MK and MLD, where can they find you guys?

01:08:49.000 And what's up next for you guys?

01:08:50.000 Project wise or content wise?

01:08:52.000 What's up next?

01:08:53.000 You can find me on MKMatchmaking Instagram, MKMatchmaking YouTube, MKMatchmaking TikTok, MKMatchmaking.

01:09:00.000 And yeah, guys, the 31st, May 31st, I have a singles event here in Brickell for all the Miami singles.

01:09:05.000 Ages 25 to 45.

01:09:07.000 Successful singles, it's called, at DUA here just down the street.

01:09:10.000 This really is for the person who is not looking for the games, really wants to get behind, not get behind the screens, be in real time, and meet people who are looking for the goals that you're looking for, which is long-term relationships.

01:09:20.000 So see you there, DUA. May 31st and get at mkmatchmaking.com your tickets.

01:09:25.000 Alright.

01:09:26.000 There you go.

01:09:27.000 Modern Life Dating on YouTube.

01:09:28.000 Follow me if you want to be better as a man.

01:09:32.000 Alright, we got some chats here.

01:09:34.000 Yeah.

01:09:34.000 You gotta unmute me.

01:09:38.000 What's up, guys?

01:09:39.000 I've been in the back on this one.

01:09:40.000 I'll read the chats, and then, guys, we're going to have a Zoom call right after this one.

01:09:43.000 So go on CastleClub.tv, man, jump on in, and we're going to have a Zoom call with John.

01:09:47.000 My life, Danny, answer some of y'all questions.

01:09:49.000 So we got here, FunkThat says, MLD, welcome back.

01:09:52.000 Love the Passport Bros vid.

01:09:53.000 Help me find hot spots in Tokyo.

01:09:55.000 I'm out there, and now I got two Japanese girlfriends, one Chinese-Japanese milstress. 1.00

01:10:00.000 I'm also doing some time back in America.

01:10:03.000 Can't wait to return to a real first world country.

01:10:06.000 Yo! 1.00

01:10:07.000 Yeah, that's what they say.

01:10:08.000 You go to Asia, you don't want to come back. 1.00

01:10:09.000 W Japan. 0.66

01:10:10.000 And then we got some Castle Clubs. 1.00

01:10:12.000 Jabril says, can we get behind the scenes on Castle Club during the after-hour show because I'm trying to see FNF girls' reaction when the girls saying some dumb shit, okay? 0.99

01:10:19.000 One stream at a time. 0.99

01:10:20.000 Yeah, one stream at a time, my friend.

01:10:21.000 And then how I feel about niggas that pay for OF, warning niggas straight. 1.00

01:10:26.000 Yo, what the fuck, man. 0.99

01:10:27.000 Guys, on Castle Club, you can actually send memes like this in the chats. 1.00

01:10:32.000 And it's funny because if you guys look in the last show we did, it's hilarious with some of the shit you guys sent. 0.98

01:10:36.000 Anything else? 0.99

01:10:37.000 No, that's it.

01:10:37.000 Alright, so guys, CastleClub.tv, join in right now.

01:10:40.000 We're going to go ahead and have a Zoom call right now with John from Modern Life Danning.

01:10:43.000 And then we're going to go ahead and give you guys an after hours right after that.

01:10:45.000 The grind don't end.

01:10:46.000 We'll catch you guys back here in about, if you're not going to join Castle Club, in about like an hour.

01:10:51.000 Right?

01:10:51.000 Yeah.

01:10:52.000 Yeah.

01:10:52.000 So yeah, guys.

01:10:53.000 CastleClub.tv right now.

01:10:54.000 Zoom call.

01:10:54.000 We're going to go ahead and answer questions.

01:10:56.000 Open Q&A. You're going to have me, John, and Fresh answer your questions.

01:10:59.000 Peace.

Fresh & Fit - May 22, 2024

A Fresh Match Ft. Jon From Modern Life Dating

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