Fresh & Fit - October 08, 2025


After Hours w- Dom Lucre

Topics
dating slow kill approach friendship in relationships communication friend zone gentle masculinity polyamory honesty conversations OnlyFans vs. Porn Star dating in Miami and Jewish heritage
Hosted by
Myron Gaines Walter Weekes
Mentioned
Christy Latina Myron Damon Um Dabani Hip Hop Miami Benjamin Button Donald Trump Eric Mancius Dom Lucre Shin Fit Blah Dom Christney Hasanny Dunkin Selena Cedric Twitch Sepio Nigga Botox and 4 more
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1 hour and 38 minutes

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91

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279

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95

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In this episode, we introduce ourselves and talk about who we are, what we do for a living, and what we are looking for in a significant other. We also talk about what it means to be single, and why we are single.

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00:12:23.000 All right.
00:12:23.000 And fellas, we're live on a podcast for Shin Fit.
00:12:26.000 Let's go.
00:12:26.000 We got four lovely ladies, Prince, and Dom.
00:12:29.000 Let's get it.
00:12:30.000 Let's get it.
00:12:59.000 Let's get it.
00:13:15.000 But we're here today doing a show without Myron for now, so it's okay.
00:13:18.000 Um, but without further ado, welcome to the show for people, especially Dom and uh Prince Ladies.
00:13:24.000 We'll start with you.
00:13:25.000 Uh, name, age, we do for living.
00:13:27.000 Thanks, honest.
00:13:32.000 So name is we do living.
00:13:34.000 Okay, well, I'm gonna tell you where I'm from first.
00:13:36.000 So I'm from Dallas, Texas.
00:13:38.000 I live in Fort Lauderdale, Florida, and I'm a realtor in Fort Lauderdale.
00:13:42.000 And body count.
00:13:43.000 Well hold on.
00:13:44.000 That's that's the last one.
00:13:46.000 So you asked me what I did for a living.
00:13:47.000 You guys have a name.
00:13:48.000 What's your age?
00:13:49.000 31.
00:13:49.000 Okay, cool.
00:13:50.000 Um and then dating status.
00:13:54.000 I'm single, he's single, but we're together.
00:13:56.000 So complicated.
00:13:57.000 Yeah, exactly.
00:13:59.000 Okay, highest education level?
00:14:00.000 Uh bachelor's degree.
00:14:02.000 Okay.
00:14:02.000 And um parents together or no?
00:14:05.000 No, divorce.
00:14:06.000 All right.
00:14:06.000 Birth control?
00:14:08.000 Uh absolutely not.
00:14:09.000 All right, and then body count.
00:14:11.000 Um I'm more worried about my bank count and not my body count, baby.
00:14:15.000 Okay, well like I guess rough estimate you would say.
00:14:18.000 Um, I'm more worried about my bank account, not my body count.
00:14:21.000 I just said what I said.
00:14:22.000 There we go.
00:14:23.000 There we go.
00:14:23.000 Yeah.
00:14:24.000 Okay.
00:14:24.000 We'll move on.
00:14:25.000 What what about you?
00:14:26.000 Hi, I'm Jamie.
00:14:27.000 I'm 31.
00:14:28.000 I am a law student, I'm an entrepreneur, and I'm originally from Miami.
00:14:33.000 I'm single.
00:14:35.000 Okay.
00:14:35.000 And my body count, um I play the fifth.
00:14:40.000 Please the fifth?
00:14:41.000 Like a good lawyer.
00:14:42.000 So you're currently in school right now.
00:14:44.000 Um your parents together or no?
00:14:46.000 Yes.
00:14:46.000 Uh birth control?
00:14:47.000 Yes.
00:14:48.000 Okay, cool.
00:14:48.000 All right.
00:14:49.000 And we'll come back to you, Prince.
00:14:51.000 What about you?
00:14:52.000 Hi, I'm Ariel.
00:14:53.000 I am 28.
00:14:55.000 I am single.
00:14:57.000 I am not on birth control.
00:14:59.000 Okay.
00:15:00.000 I am on OnlyFans, and that's what I do.
00:15:03.000 And is that your main income source?
00:15:06.000 It is.
00:15:06.000 Cool.
00:15:06.000 All right.
00:15:07.000 It is.
00:15:08.000 And body count?
00:15:10.000 I I haven't been laid in months.
00:15:12.000 I Wow.
00:15:14.000 Yo, why are you lying, man?
00:15:16.000 I swear.
00:15:17.000 I'm how dare you? 0.94
00:15:18.000 I wish I could get laid. 0.99
00:15:20.000 Why can't you get laid? 1.00
00:15:22.000 I I'm picky.
00:15:25.000 Okay.
00:15:25.000 Uh you're picky.
00:15:27.000 I'm white.
00:15:29.000 Okay. 0.95
00:15:30.000 Um, let's troll.
00:15:35.000 Are my parents together?
00:15:36.000 No.
00:15:37.000 Okay.
00:15:37.000 Um, you said you're single?
00:15:39.000 I am.
00:15:41.000 Why okay, okay.
00:15:42.000 Your last literature.
00:15:43.000 Why did it end?
00:15:44.000 She cheated on me. 1.00
00:15:46.000 Oh, a girl? 1.00
00:15:47.000 Oh shit. 1.00
00:15:48.000 So you you don't like guys? 1.00
00:15:49.000 No, I date both.
00:15:51.000 Interesting.
00:15:52.000 Okay, good to know.
00:15:52.000 She belongs to the screen.
00:15:53.000 All right, great.
00:15:54.000 Moving on smartly.
00:15:55.000 What about you?
00:15:56.000 Hi, I'm Taylor.
00:15:57.000 I'm 34.
00:15:58.000 I'm a speech language pathologist, and I have my own private practice.
00:16:01.000 Amazing.
00:16:01.000 Christy's dad.
00:16:03.000 Christney's that.
00:16:04.000 Christy's that.
00:16:05.000 Please help him.
00:16:05.000 He's uh 37 years old.
00:16:07.000 Yeah.
00:16:08.000 I I love to help anybody who I could be of help to.
00:16:11.000 So we can talk about that later.
00:16:13.000 Good stuff.
00:16:14.000 Um you said uh what you do for work, and then how you said level of education?
00:16:18.000 I have a master's degree.
00:16:19.000 Okay, cool.
00:16:20.000 Uh dating status?
00:16:21.000 I'm single.
00:16:22.000 Parents together or no?
00:16:23.000 They're divorced.
00:16:24.000 Alright, birth control.
00:16:26.000 That is my own business.
00:16:28.000 Understandable.
00:16:29.000 Uh body count.
00:16:31.000 I don't kiss and tell.
00:16:33.000 All right, let's say about 10.
00:16:34.000 Just kidding.
00:16:35.000 Um, okay, cool.
00:16:36.000 And then Dom.
00:16:37.000 Oh, what um relationship status and all that?
00:16:40.000 Same thing.
00:16:41.000 Body count.
00:16:41.000 Oh, body count.
00:16:42.000 Hold on.
00:16:43.000 We know who you are, but they may not know who you are, so just tell him real quick.
00:16:45.000 Um I'm a journalist, also content creator, White House journalists.
00:16:48.000 Get invited to White House, do a lot of politics, help Donald Trump win the election, whatnot.
00:16:53.000 One of the biggest creators on X for news, by the way.
00:16:56.000 And then uh what what what's your background?
00:16:58.000 My background?
00:16:59.000 Yeah.
00:16:59.000 Like Hispanic, white.
00:17:01.000 Oh, ambiguous.
00:17:03.000 Look, like in the middle.
00:17:04.000 Everything's dude.
00:17:05.000 Um I'm Jewish, and that's my cultural identity.
00:17:08.000 You're Jewish. 0.75
00:17:09.000 I'm a mix of uh all sorts of I'm a pizza bagel, actually.
00:17:14.000 I found out my grandpa did a DNA test, and I'm really proud to be a pizza bagel.
00:17:17.000 He's it's Italian heritage.
00:17:20.000 There you go.
00:17:20.000 Interesting.
00:17:21.000 Chat's gonna love that one.
00:17:22.000 All right, uh what's your background?
00:17:24.000 Um half Puerto Rican, half Italian.
00:17:26.000 You have kids?
00:17:27.000 I do not.
00:17:28.000 Interesting.
00:17:28.000 Puerto Rican, no kids?
00:17:30.000 Go figure.
00:17:31.000 And then you?
00:17:32.000 Latina.
00:17:32.000 Latina?
00:17:33.000 Yes, Colombian.
00:17:34.000 Columbia?
00:17:34.000 And then just Caucasian.
00:17:36.000 Just white.
00:17:36.000 Caucasian.
00:17:37.000 Awesome.
00:17:38.000 And it prints, take it away.
00:17:39.000 Uh Prince, 36.
00:17:41.000 Um, I do have my bachelor's.
00:17:44.000 Um as far as work, I do a lot of things.
00:17:46.000 Basically like entrepreneur content creation, reality TV.
00:17:49.000 I'm a partner, some of the clubs in my life.
00:17:51.000 I'm boxing now.
00:17:53.000 So that's a new endeavor.
00:17:55.000 Yeah.
00:17:56.000 Yeah, body count.
00:17:58.000 It's just up there.
00:18:02.000 I guess.
00:18:04.000 Single name in Miami is up there.
00:18:06.000 Pretty high.
00:18:07.000 Um but either way, welcome to the show, uh, people.
00:18:09.000 Thank you for waiting.
00:18:10.000 So, real quick, uh, we'll start with the girls first, right? 0.95
00:18:12.000 So, dating, of course, is nowadays a bit crazy.
00:18:15.000 It's kind of like uh Russia.
00:18:17.000 Chaos.
00:18:19.000 But do you guys approach you, and if they do approach you, how do they approach you normally?
00:18:22.000 What do you mean how they approach you?
00:18:24.000 Like in person, online, um I mean both, all everything, every like every which way they do, you know what I mean?
00:18:31.000 It's just how they do it has to be the right way to do it, I guess, at the right time.
00:18:36.000 You know what I mean?
00:18:37.000 So, how how would you respond to somebody doing it the right way?
00:18:40.000 Would you give them your phone number?
00:18:41.000 Would you give them your Instagram?
00:18:42.000 Typically, it depends on the situation.
00:18:45.000 Depends on if I'm drinking, depends on if I'm sober, depends on how you catch me.
00:18:50.000 You can catch me at Publix, you can catch me at Dunkin' Donuts, you can catch me on the street, or you catch me at the club, you know what I mean?
00:18:55.000 Depends on how I feel.
00:18:56.000 So if I'm a guy walking up to you, how should I okay?
00:18:58.000 When is she the best thing to approach you?
00:18:59.000 Publix?
00:19:01.000 Club.
00:19:01.000 Listen, my ex approached me at public, so you know what I mean.
00:19:04.000 It doesn't matter, it just it's just the vibe you get with that person when they approach you.
00:19:09.000 Does that make sense?
00:19:10.000 Okay.
00:19:10.000 That's it.
00:19:11.000 What about you?
00:19:11.000 In person.
00:19:12.000 I love in person.
00:19:13.000 You know, I've done online and I still think it's better on person all the time.
00:19:17.000 So when they approach you, is it like um how do you pick to choose who you give your phone number too or Instagram too?
00:19:24.000 I do.
00:19:25.000 I I'm I I'm an open book, so until I see something that I feel that perhaps it's gonna be a doubt, or you know, I I'm pretty good at discerning in a sort of thing.
00:19:34.000 So you know when you know.
00:19:35.000 Yes.
00:19:36.000 Okay.
00:19:36.000 Intuition.
00:19:37.000 What about you?
00:19:38.000 I prefer in person, but a lot of my life is online, unfortunately.
00:19:43.000 So it just depends.
00:19:45.000 So you say you do only fans for c for uh your your job, right?
00:19:48.000 Yeah.
00:19:48.000 Are you mailing like home?
00:19:49.000 I'm sorry.
00:19:50.000 Are you mainly home?
00:19:51.000 Yes.
00:19:52.000 So how would you meet people if you don't really go out?
00:19:54.000 That's the thing.
00:19:55.000 I don't really go out anymore because I'm so focused on work and my work keeps me home.
00:20:02.000 Okay, okay.
00:20:02.000 Well, that does sound nothing.
00:20:04.000 Okay, gotcha.
00:20:06.000 What about you?
00:20:07.000 Um, I think that uh the online dating options provide up additional opportunities to meet people, and I'm very selective, so I need all the opportunities right now.
00:20:17.000 I'm interested in guys that are from New York, from different parts of the world potentially, because there's not enough in Miami.
00:20:25.000 There's not what I'm looking for here.
00:20:27.000 That's actually a very good point.
00:20:28.000 So would you say that dating in Miami is kind of like not not non-existent?
00:20:31.000 It's the worst.
00:20:31.000 I was living in Manhattan for eight years before I moved here.
00:20:34.000 And people say that dating in Manhattan is bad, but I found it to not I found it to be good.
00:20:40.000 There was a lot of good options.
00:20:42.000 Just I think Guys with money, you would say, real money.
00:20:46.000 Yeah, but but guys who are well educated who have who went to the best colleges, when I'm on a dating app down here, there's so much to filter through.
00:20:55.000 So many people who they just went to high school, they don't list their school.
00:20:59.000 Um I'm obviously I'm educated, so I'm looking for somebody who I can connect with on that level.
00:21:04.000 Masters.
00:21:05.000 Um they don't have to be have a master's degree, and I mean they don't even have to necessarily have a college degree, but they have to educate themselves and have a commitment to learning throughout their lives.
00:21:15.000 And so, I mean, if someone went to Yale or whatever school, like if my sister, she but both of my sisters are dentists and dentists in the making.
00:21:24.000 Like education in my family, yeah.
00:21:26.000 So yeah, and my sisters.
00:21:29.000 So um that's that's something that's important to me, and like I I need to be able to connect with someone a deep level level.
00:21:36.000 I need someone that can like I talk a lot and I talk about uh deep things and all sorts of things.
00:21:42.000 I need someone that can keep up with me in that respect.
00:21:45.000 And and lift me up.
00:21:46.000 So let's put it by this way again, right?
00:21:47.000 So let's say someone approaches you online or or I guess offline.
00:21:51.000 How would you reject them?
00:21:52.000 If they're not your type.
00:21:54.000 Well, um I'm always like confused with what to do to be honest.
00:22:01.000 This is like it's kinda hard, right?
00:22:03.000 You know, yeah.
00:22:04.000 Um I mean, uh, even walking in brickle, I had like teenagers.
00:22:08.000 People think I'm like really young.
00:22:10.000 I'm 30.
00:22:10.000 Oh, but like high schoolers tried to hit on me.
00:22:13.000 No way.
00:22:14.000 Yeah.
00:22:15.000 What'd you do?
00:22:15.000 And I'm like, I am like your mom's age.
00:22:18.000 Like this is and they were like, what?
00:22:21.000 And just like ran away.
00:22:23.000 Okay.
00:22:23.000 So I guess that works.
00:22:24.000 How would you reject somebody that you don't want to talk to?
00:22:27.000 Gently.
00:22:28.000 As gently as possible.
00:22:30.000 Thank you so much.
00:22:32.000 I'm just not interested at this current moment.
00:22:35.000 I agree.
00:22:36.000 That's pretty direct.
00:22:37.000 Okay.
00:22:37.000 I would do the same.
00:22:38.000 How about you?
00:22:39.000 I like that.
00:22:40.000 That's the same way I do.
00:22:41.000 Is that what you do?
00:22:41.000 Diplomatic.
00:22:42.000 Yeah.
00:22:44.000 I'm sure not the same way.
00:22:45.000 I put a little Vaseline around it and make the you know the pain a little bit more easy.
00:22:51.000 How would you do it?
00:22:52.000 All right.
00:22:52.000 I'm a little autistic, you know what I mean?
00:22:55.000 Okay.
00:22:56.000 No, I'm just kidding.
00:22:57.000 No.
00:22:57.000 No, she's right.
00:22:58.000 I would just respectfully decline them.
00:23:00.000 Yeah.
00:23:00.000 In their face.
00:23:01.000 I'm a real person.
00:23:02.000 I'm gonna really tell you.
00:23:04.000 I'm good.
00:23:05.000 One more time.
00:23:05.000 Let's say someone approaches you.
00:23:07.000 What worked last time someone posted where you get them your phone number?
00:23:10.000 What worked?
00:23:13.000 I mean, like I said before, it's a connection you have with somebody when they approach you.
00:23:19.000 As a female, you can already read someone when they walk up to you, you know. 1.00
00:23:22.000 The first two minutes, you know, right?
00:23:24.000 Off rip.
00:23:25.000 Okay, so what what was that?
00:23:26.000 I made you say, you know what?
00:23:27.000 He deserves my phone number.
00:23:28.000 Passion they have for themselves.
00:23:29.000 Yes.
00:23:30.000 The belief they have in themselves.
00:23:31.000 A man for themselves. 0.53
00:23:33.000 Exactly.
00:23:33.000 All right.
00:23:34.000 I'm just saying to that.
00:23:36.000 That's true.
00:23:36.000 Man, that got okay.
00:23:38.000 Okay.
00:23:39.000 Your last encounter, like it wasn't the same as hers, right?
00:23:42.000 So what was it?
00:23:43.000 No, no, in the sense of what?
00:23:44.000 Like, for example, let's say you were at Publix and someone approached you.
00:23:47.000 Yeah.
00:23:48.000 What worked for you to give them your phone number?
00:23:51.000 Confidence.
00:23:54.000 I know me. 1.00
00:23:55.000 It's I'm dead ass. 0.99
00:23:57.000 It's not complicated. 1.00
00:23:58.000 No, no, I I agree, Jew. 0.92
00:23:59.000 So you have overcome.
00:24:00.000 In your particular instance, what did they do?
00:24:03.000 Would they say, hey, you're beautiful, you're nice smile.
00:24:06.000 What was it?
00:24:08.000 Oh my gosh, that's kind of a little hard.
00:24:12.000 It just depends on if I'm ovulated or not.
00:24:19.000 All right, ovulation. 0.97
00:24:21.000 It's true.
00:24:21.000 It's true.
00:24:22.000 You date differently whenever you're on your period or not.
00:24:24.000 So right?
00:24:25.000 Nah.
00:24:26.000 That's a five.
00:24:27.000 I'll give you that.
00:24:28.000 What about you?
00:24:29.000 I'm very sapio-sexual.
00:24:30.000 Have you ever heard of that?
00:24:31.000 Yeah.
00:24:34.000 Yeah, I was really intelligent in school.
00:24:36.000 I was always really advanced, and just like you said, I like somebody who's on the same level and can stimulate me intellectually.
00:24:42.000 Sepio sexual.
00:24:43.000 Yeah. 0.95
00:24:44.000 So you see my brain.
00:24:45.000 Save the oversexual. 1.00
00:24:46.000 So you said uh it was been a while, but last time you were approached, how did they approach you to turn your, I guess.
00:24:53.000 I I couldn't tell you the last time somebody approached me that I said, yeah.
00:24:57.000 In her house.
00:24:58.000 Yeah.
00:24:59.000 In my house, like my dog licked my leg.
00:25:02.000 It was really nice.
00:25:03.000 Oh. 0.99
00:25:05.000 Oh shit. 1.00
00:25:06.000 What about you? 1.00
00:25:08.000 Um I definitely just kept walking on my way here while somebody hit on me.
00:25:13.000 That was the last time.
00:25:14.000 And I just pretended I didn't hear them.
00:25:16.000 How often do you get approached?
00:25:18.000 Like uh if I I I'm I I live in Brickle and I walk around Brickle, and every time I leave the park, every time I leave.
00:25:25.000 It could be my neighbor next door.
00:25:27.000 Okay.
00:25:27.000 Dom, real quick.
00:25:28.000 Um, so you heard the responses, right?
00:25:30.000 Yeah.
00:25:31.000 Obviously, you know, we're guys in Miami.
00:25:33.000 We uh approach girls all the time.
00:25:35.000 Uh what would you say is best for you?
00:25:37.000 On person uh in in person, online what works for you in person, definitely.
00:25:42.000 And then how would you do it?
00:25:44.000 Let's say for example, it was her next to you.
00:25:47.000 I'll walk up and just get her Instagram, give her my phone, say put your Instagram in. 0.96
00:25:53.000 Is that too direct, you think?
00:25:55.000 A little bit.
00:25:56.000 It's worked so far.
00:25:57.000 It worked four times last night.
00:25:58.000 Yeah, let it work.
00:26:00.000 But okay, is that too too direct for you?
00:26:02.000 You would say I feel like I'm what uh the way I'm gonna feel inside is I'm gonna feel like uncomfortable not doing it.
00:26:08.000 So I'm gonna do it to be nice, uh, to be polite and just move forward with that.
00:26:13.000 But I would I do prefer, like everybody else said, like I like a confident.
00:26:18.000 We all we all like confidence, you know.
00:26:20.000 If you love yourself, that comes across to other people.
00:26:23.000 It makes other people love you.
00:26:25.000 Right.
00:26:25.000 Um so hold on, Prince.
00:26:28.000 How would you approach somebody?
00:26:29.000 Uh online in person.
00:26:31.000 So what works for you?
00:26:32.000 I'm not really that's not really my vibe.
00:26:34.000 I'm a slow kill.
00:26:35.000 You know what I'm saying?
00:26:35.000 So I'll play the friend role first.
00:26:37.000 Make you fuck with me, like genuinely, you know what I'm saying? 0.99
00:26:40.000 Because like for me, like having like a promoter background, there's a lot of women that I've come across that you know, a lot of them are just you know, they're trying to get what's best for them. 1.00
00:26:48.000 Yeah, so I've I've learned that being a friend first, they love you as a friend, they won't try you in certain ways, they won't do certain things to you, and then after they just get to know me and I'm around me a certain amount of time, then it kind of develops into something.
00:27:01.000 So that that's me.
00:27:02.000 Um, you know, I'm I'm a slow kill.
00:27:03.000 I'm not really a sniper.
00:27:04.000 Like I don't really the first time I meet a girl, I think she's beautiful.
00:27:06.000 I'm not trying to like get on her like that.
00:27:08.000 I just get to know you, which is vibe, kick it.
00:27:10.000 Maybe she has on all honestly.
00:27:12.000 Anytime you meet someone, they have something going on in Miami.
00:27:14.000 Yeah.
00:27:14.000 So it takes, you know, about like three to six months to shake the trees, and then afterwards is when I start going in.
00:27:19.000 But that's that's me.
00:27:20.000 It's always worked for me.
00:27:20.000 We know a couple snipers uh here in Miami.
00:27:23.000 We gotta couple snipers.
00:27:24.000 That's a bit slow for me, but I I get it, I get it.
00:27:26.000 So ladies, real quick. 1.00
00:27:28.000 Um you heard the two responses, uh, more direct and then more like time and friendship.
00:27:32.000 What do you think is better for man to poach you with?
00:27:34.000 We'll start here.
00:27:36.000 I would say he's right, a friendship because listen, I was in a relationship where it wasn't a friendship, it didn't work.
00:27:44.000 Then we came back together and became friends.
00:27:46.000 That worked.
00:27:47.000 It's a friendship before you actually have a relationship because if they don't like you for who you are, it's never gonna work out.
00:27:52.000 Does that make sense?
00:27:53.000 A friend a friend is gonna like you for when no matter what you do and who you are.
00:27:57.000 Interesting.
00:27:57.000 Okay.
00:27:58.000 Perfect.
00:27:58.000 For you, it's all about common like commonalities.
00:28:02.000 Like, what do we have in common?
00:28:04.000 You know, like are we moving up or are we staying stagnant or what's going on?
00:28:09.000 Because based on that is where we measure people and see like if this person is gonna be a weight or it's gonna be a blessing, you know, someone that's gonna take you on to the next level or someone's gonna pull you back.
00:28:20.000 So I'm very it I it just you know, I play with the lovers for sure.
00:28:24.000 Okay, for you?
00:28:25.000 Yeah, yeah.
00:28:26.000 I think that if I g okay, if I give somebody my phone number with my phone number and five dollars, you can find out all of my information online.
00:28:34.000 So that's not internet safety, but if somebody were to walk up to me direct and be like, hey, put your Instagram in my phone, then that's something different.
00:28:42.000 Then okay, yeah, I'll give you my Instagram because I like that confidence.
00:28:46.000 But if we're talking a long-term relationship, I do like to date my friends.
00:28:50.000 Okay.
00:28:51.000 And for you?
00:28:52.000 I really liked what Prince said about um I what I what came across to me with in his words was safety, feelings of safety.
00:28:59.000 And as a woman, I told you I get hit on when I leave my apartment.
00:29:06.000 And for for me, that comes with feelings of like not feeling safe, a lot of that, unfortunately.
00:29:13.000 Yeah.
00:29:13.000 And so if and it doesn't I I don't know what three to six months, that might be a little bit more.
00:29:18.000 Well, I'm saying to shake the tree because like people have things going on.
00:29:20.000 Obviously, you seem a little bit different, you know what I'm saying?
00:29:22.000 Than most people I come across on the day to day, but people usually have you know, little situationships or things going on.
00:29:28.000 So sorry.
00:29:29.000 So it usually takes a little bit of time, you know, to get through that.
00:29:32.000 So real quick, you don't feel safe in Brickle.
00:29:35.000 Um I can't I don't feel I'm five foot almost one.
00:29:39.000 Like it just realistically, I'm not really safe by myself.
00:29:44.000 I'm just it's statistics, unfortunately.
00:29:47.000 Okay.
00:29:48.000 Um so you know, and getting like hit on people there's a lot of people that aren't good people out there, unfortunately.
00:29:54.000 Right.
00:29:55.000 Um yeah, but uh he what he said like if somebody makes me feel safe at first, there's no pressure in the beginning, then I might take interest in them.
00:30:05.000 So you're all saying basically in a nutshell, friendship first is better.
00:30:09.000 But let me ask a question though.
00:30:10.000 Most people that start in a friend zone stay in the friend zone.
00:30:14.000 Yeah, right.
00:30:15.000 So okay, you're different, right?
00:30:17.000 But let's be honest, most men that do that, you're gonna stay in a friend zone.
00:30:20.000 So how would you differentiate between friend forever or upgrade to man?
00:30:25.000 Because that that's kind of difficult to do.
00:30:27.000 I don't think that's actually difficult to do.
00:30:30.000 I don't think it's such a strict black and white friend zone thing.
00:30:33.000 Like it's one thing if you call if it's it's like you know, you're like my brother, and then that's more of like I'm friend zoning you.
00:30:40.000 But um I think that if you're just genuinely trying to see what you have in common and I feel it's a safe space, it could be within the same night that we take it to a next the next level.
00:30:52.000 It doesn't have to be three months, could be the next that night that we flirt a little bit after I feel safe for a five minutes with this person.
00:30:59.000 So comfort is very important for sure.
00:31:01.000 But okay, friend the friend zone itself is difficult.
00:31:05.000 And I'll spend what because let's say for example, right?
00:31:08.000 I like you, and I'm a bit nervous about getting to know you better because I feel like you might reject me.
00:31:12.000 I'll be your friend and say, okay, I'm your friend.
00:31:14.000 But eat down, I do want to smash.
00:31:16.000 I want to be with you, right?
00:31:17.000 So I'm pretending to be your friend.
00:31:19.000 Is that really your friend?
00:31:20.000 No.
00:31:22.000 I don't think that anyone should pretend ever.
00:31:25.000 Like I don't I I'm authentic from the start.
00:31:28.000 And uh, I mean, I guess in the past, I used I'm 34 now, and in the past I used to uh try to go by the rules a little bit, but now I just I I don't want to fall for somebody who's pretending to this happened in my past relationship one of my past relationships where the first year I thought that my ex was somebody who it turned out not to be because he was doing little things to win me over and then that was just to win me over and
00:31:57.000 and so i'm like especially the safety thing it's like i if someone's authentic that's really i can tell authenticity good point okay that's it what about you is that really your friend because i'm pretending to be your friend to smash no i think that if you want to smash you should say that okay so so but no most guys do that because they'll be like i like her but like i'm gonna be your friend first it's different but like most guys yeah so
00:32:27.000 he's he's capping to kind of try to like get you yeah i don't agree with that i mean don't get me wrong it's definitely fucked me up sometimes like it's not every single time i'm i'm the homeboy there's times i've definitely been stuck like damn she's so bad you know what i'm saying but yeah it's i've mastered my game i don't i'm not i'm not i'm not i'm not i'm not a you know what i'm saying i don't i don't have the quick draw like that like i know who i am and and you know how i come off what i'm about so i just you know i just keep it cool and chill and i'm not ugly you know i got personality so yeah how many of them are willing 0.69
00:32:57.000 to put the niggas that already smashed and in rotation aside during those three months you're talking to me no i'm actually i i see what you so he's in in a nutshell so let's say you're talking to the guy right and you're kind of like in a friend zone pretty much trying to figure him out starting off his friend how many guys that you're smashing currently would you put off to the while you're talking to the guy as a friend? 0.95
00:33:16.000 For what?
00:33:18.000 That's not about shaking the tree.
00:33:19.000 Yeah.
00:33:20.000 He's not gonna be able to experience that so yeah.
00:33:22.000 I mean you gotta play them all, you know what I mean?
00:33:24.000 You made the best man to win. 0.94
00:33:25.000 So that nigga lose? 1.00
00:33:26.000 No, no, no. 0.99
00:33:27.000 a man you should elevate a woman that's hard differentiate as a man you should elevate a woman if you can't elevate a woman get the fuck out of my face like you know what I mean period okay no no no that's a good answer put me in a better position she's saying basically she's gonna play all the cards yeah yeah I'm gonna play the game like you baby problem why should a dude wait three months try to be your friend but friend you do it that way if other niggas are being able to then just say that off the rip so you at the same time recommended for dudes to come with a friendship they're losing in the end. 0.95
00:33:57.000 I don't want to then just say that what you want to do for you say that if then we're supposed to give you what you want but you don't know what she wants and you but you said you want the friendship.
00:34:07.000 Listen no that nigga loses so the one that you want is the one that's gonna lose it. 1.00
00:34:12.000 I'm just saying if you want to if you want to push you that way the way that you won't you want to be approached as a friend.
00:34:16.000 No he does that he loses because other niggas is hitting while he's waiting for his opportunity three months later. 0.99
00:34:21.000 I never said I want you to approach me as a friend I want you to approach me with confidence.
00:34:24.000 I haven't been laid in months I would just I guarantee you after this show we're gonna change that for you okay we'll change that for you I'm willing and able okay awesome I need a I need a co-star.
00:34:45.000 Trust me I need a I need a content co-star well just so you know I I was a creator back in my in my day you know um okay allegedly so okay real quick what about you made a very a very good question if the guy you're talking to is in the preliminary friend zone right what you start talking to other guys you're smashing during that period.
00:35:04.000 You know the funny thing is that you don't approach dating like a zero zone game.
00:35:08.000 You know you approach it based on the instinct you you approach it based on what you know it could be mutually mutually beneficial for both parts you know I know that men have their urges to get things done and that's fine.
00:35:20.000 You know that's why we're here for it.
00:35:22.000 But at the same time it has to be mutual and it has to be consensus I feel like there's just levels right because okay there's some people that you just skip the line just some people that can just skip the line if you're in Europe if you know what I'm saying just somebody that can skip the line whether it's them tricking or paying bills or like if you come out the gate like that you skip the line.
00:35:42.000 Me, I'm kind of like it's a little bit different. 0.98
00:35:45.000 I'm waiting in line for my turn essentially but I'm I'm saving so much things like for example the person that the the guy that skips the line that's tricking on short and getting it because he's tricking yeah she he she's giving it up because he's tricking her he's doing every case is me she's fucking with me because she fuck with me genuinely. 0.98
00:36:01.000 She's not gonna try me like that. 1.00
00:36:02.000 We're gonna lay up on the couch and talk about how this nigga's gonna go by her this snowbag. 1.00
00:36:06.000 You know what I'm saying? 0.83
00:36:06.000 And I'm I'm cool with that. 0.83
00:36:07.000 I can wait.
00:36:07.000 I could chill because person, I have a question for you.
00:36:10.000 Let's say, right?
00:36:11.000 You're the guy that's waiting.
00:36:13.000 Let's say I'm just big baller.
00:36:15.000 Yeah. 0.93
00:36:15.000 I'm just out there kicking you in the river. 0.93
00:36:17.000 I'm out here doing the big ball and shit like that. 0.99
00:36:19.000 I'm smashing. 0.99
00:36:20.000 Yeah.
00:36:20.000 You don't want seconds, do you?
00:36:21.000 I think it is other people out there that's I'm doing me while she's doing her.
00:36:25.000 This is the current project, but I got another going on.
00:36:30.000 This is another thing that's a problem.
00:36:32.000 You give them exactly what they want and you lose.
00:36:35.000 Yeah.
00:36:36.000 You shouldn't give them what you want.
00:36:37.000 You should just be a man and tell them what they need. 0.62
00:36:39.000 Bro, you can't give them women what they want. 1.00
00:36:41.000 They don't know what the fuck they want. 1.00
00:36:42.000 They're telling us to be a friend. 1.00
00:36:43.000 But if someone chooses to enter that in a dominant space, that nigga not only getting past the condom level, after two months, he's hitting row and nutting in the bitch. 1.00
00:36:52.000 That bitch is gonna be having none of her by the time that other nigga get a chance. 1.00
00:36:56.000 Yeah, bro. 1.00
00:36:56.000 That nigga has one. 1.00
00:36:58.000 So this one has a better opportunity to wife her and give her kids than I'm gonna do. 1.00
00:37:04.000 I disagree.
00:37:05.000 To dog's point.
00:37:06.000 But it is kind of true.
00:37:07.000 To Dom's point, the man is waiting in the cut, not your prince, just in general.
00:37:11.000 He loses because you know what's happening?
00:37:13.000 In the same instance, someone else is winning by smashing, and then two, he's waiting to hopefully one day become in that spot.
00:37:20.000 You're right.
00:37:20.000 But so he loses everything, but you gain.
00:37:22.000 So I think for a guy, if you're in a friend zone for the most part, you're losing.
00:37:24.000 Now, uh, you want a statement?
00:37:26.000 Yeah, because you know, what if in the case you know you're a nice guy and everything, but it just doesn't add up, and you we can go on many dates, but at the same time, perhaps it's not connecting.
00:37:38.000 He's paying, he's paying the whole time.
00:37:39.000 Yeah, he's paying the whole time, by the way.
00:37:41.000 I can understand it, but just about 10 minutes ago, it was recommended to be that guy.
00:37:47.000 Look at nature.
00:37:48.000 It wasn't like that.
00:37:50.000 I know, but we understand nature, but look at that.
00:37:53.000 Everyone was here speaking against their nature.
00:37:55.000 So look at the peacocks, for instance.
00:37:57.000 Peacock's they have to do the most important thing.
00:38:00.000 Every woman ever said they wanted the peacock instead of the lion. 0.99
00:38:02.000 You are all speaking in delusions.
00:38:04.000 No, it's not real.
00:38:05.000 It's actually nature.
00:38:06.000 You can see it in, you know, it's natural law, honey.
00:38:08.000 That's what I'm saying.
00:38:09.000 Sorry, go now.
00:38:10.000 No, the reality is the peacock can't rule the jungle.
00:38:13.000 Let's let's put off.
00:38:15.000 Let's put all the lists.
00:38:19.000 Can I say something?
00:38:20.000 Yeah, but I I have a hard time waiting, and I was waiting a long time.
00:38:24.000 Um, that's some niggas finding it. 1.00
00:38:26.000 I know exactly.
00:38:28.000 I know exactly what I want.
00:38:29.000 Yeah, and I'm focused on finding the man that's gonna be my husband.
00:38:34.000 And um, if somebody I I don't want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with me, and I think it's silly to go after somebody who doesn't like there's so many people out there.
00:38:46.000 I agree.
00:38:47.000 There's gonna be somebody who's gonna be receptive, obsessed with you, who's going to want you as much as you want them.
00:38:53.000 And if you're wasting your time chasing these people that are willing to find somebody at the club, and you know that that that's they're willing to put you last, then that's not your person, and like just move on faster, make yourself available.
00:39:08.000 Like I'm actually acting kind of what I think like most men do right now, because I am focused on on finding the one, and I don't want to get stuck with the wrong person.
00:39:20.000 So I'd rather be not even not going on, I'm not going on dates, I'm matching with some people, but I'm like going on a few dates because my time, I'm a business owner, and I'm building my practice, and I wanna I don't want to waste times on time on the wrong ones where I could be finding the right one.
00:39:39.000 Think about this.
00:39:40.000 What if I told you there's no one?
00:39:41.000 There's just many people.
00:39:43.000 I know, I agree.
00:39:44.000 So so so the one argument, I I I get that point, but it's kinda a waste of time.
00:39:49.000 But I will say this.
00:39:50.000 Be quite a waste of time.
00:39:52.000 Waiting for the one.
00:39:53.000 No, I'm not waiting.
00:39:54.000 I'm I'm actively seeking the one.
00:39:56.000 I know what I want.
00:39:57.000 But you won't chase you attract.
00:40:00.000 I'm not chasing, but I'm saying like I know what what I'm looking for when it comes, my I'm walking outside.
00:40:07.000 People are hitting on me here and there.
00:40:09.000 I'm not gonna go on a date with someone who might, I might be interested in no.
00:40:13.000 I'm not I don't have time for that one.
00:40:14.000 Got it.
00:40:15.000 Like I'm being choosy, and I'm like, I'm I'm looking at my list of things that bot, like they need to be a good communicator of the list, okay?
00:40:23.000 Real quick.
00:40:24.000 If you can give me like a quick one to two minute synopsis of this guy, what if he he's watching right now?
00:40:29.000 What you say to him, he needs to have a few to approach you.
00:40:32.000 Maybe six foot tall, six figures in the bank.
00:40:35.000 I don't know.
00:40:36.000 Um, whatever it is, the degree, tell them right now what you want to do.
00:40:40.000 I want somebody who's kind and authentic and um and who wants to build a future together, wants to I want to have a kid or two, um, and I want them to prioritize me.
00:40:54.000 How how old are you again?
00:40:55.000 34.
00:40:56.000 So there's many men out there that are kind.
00:40:58.000 Yeah, I want to have kids as well.
00:41:00.000 But they're single right now, you're single too.
00:41:02.000 So what else does he have to have?
00:41:04.000 Just saying.
00:41:04.000 Well, I okay that I have to I'm very I'm an emotional person, but I'm emotionally deep, you know, and I need I've had difficulty some sometimes with communication.
00:41:16.000 There's levels of communication.
00:41:17.000 It's not like you're a good communicator or bad.
00:41:21.000 There's I for my job I help people to communicate, and I'm happy to do that in my relationship to a degree, but like it has to uh there has to be equal effort put in, or not you know, there has to be somebody who wants to be my teammate, my partner.
00:41:38.000 I I feel like honestly, I just think that men and women are just at war right now, especially Miami.
00:41:43.000 Because if you really if you really think about it, honestly, it's true.
00:41:46.000 I I genuinely feel even the hoes in Miami, I genuinely feel they all want that. 1.00
00:41:50.000 They all want a kind guy, a sweet guy, someone that's gonna give them security.
00:41:53.000 The problem is this is what what happens.
00:41:55.000 Good guy comes to Miami, he meets this girl, he's doing everything for her, paying her rent, doing this, that and a third, finds out that she's got six other niggas. 1.00
00:42:02.000 Now that good guy turns into a dickhead. 0.98
00:42:04.000 Dickhead comes across a good girl who really wants to be the one for him, care for him, do this and the third. 0.99
00:42:09.000 She finds out he's got six other girls that he's doing this for now. 1.00
00:42:11.000 She turns into that cold bitch, and it's just a perpetuating cycle. 1.00
00:42:14.000 And it's just like who's gonna I don't know who started it. 1.00
00:42:16.000 I I say it was women because it's Eve, you know what I'm saying? 0.99
00:42:18.000 But it's a perpetuating cycle.
00:42:22.000 Like, even me, I'm not the same person that I was when I when I first, but when I first came like to Edgewater to South Beach, da da da da, I was the sweetest, kindest, nicest guy ever. 0.99
00:42:31.000 Oh, I'm still kinda nice, I'm still kind of sweet, but I definitely have an asshole in me. 0.99
00:42:34.000 I can definitely be a dick kid, I can be abrasive, and it's just it's just because of the things, the the drama, this Miami trauma, it's a perpetuating cycle of fuck shit that people. 1.00
00:42:41.000 Prince, you know that on the head. 1.00
00:42:42.000 You know what's funny, uh Blah Dom? 1.00
00:42:43.000 You've been here for how long.
00:42:44.000 Uh since March.
00:42:45.000 You can see it, right?
00:42:46.000 Yeah.
00:42:46.000 What are you talking about?
00:42:47.000 So you're gonna Miami.
00:42:48.000 You're like, oh, okay, everyone's cool, I'm amazing.
00:42:51.000 Um she's a good person.
00:42:52.000 She got three dudes. 1.00
00:42:53.000 One pays the rent, one pays for the car, one pay is just for t take her out. 0.99
00:42:57.000 You're like, okay, she's gonna be the one.
00:42:58.000 But you don't know low-key what's happening behind the scenes.
00:43:00.000 Vice versa, she's like, oh, he's the one, he's so nice.
00:43:03.000 But he got the same thing.
00:43:04.000 So And then on top of that, right?
00:43:06.000 Every day you step outside, it's someone new that you've never seen before.
00:43:09.000 A girl, I'm cool, I think I'm good looking, right?
00:43:12.000 A girl might see a nigga that look just like me with green eyes, bigger muscles, more money.
00:43:16.000 Yeah, every single day you go outside, there's so much you know what I'm saying?
00:43:20.000 Like, and maybe you don't even look for something, but maybe this person just does something to you.
00:43:23.000 Like, like you know what I'm saying, maybe this girl doesn't you're not even trying.
00:43:26.000 It's it's it's it's hard.
00:43:28.000 Everyone in the world comes to Miami.
00:43:29.000 Everyone doesn't go to LA, everyone doesn't go to New York, everyone does go to Chicago.
00:43:32.000 Everyone in the world comes to Miami. 0.99
00:43:34.000 So it's just like that that's just another added level to the bullshit. 0.99
00:43:38.000 And then just real quick, right? 0.99
00:43:40.000 So just a response to you real quick.
00:43:42.000 You're 34, right?
00:43:43.000 Yeah.
00:43:43.000 Just imagine this.
00:43:44.000 I'm a guy with money, status, and I want a girl. 0.81
00:43:49.000 Come to Miami.
00:43:50.000 There's you.
00:43:51.000 There's 28.
00:43:52.000 Maybe like 25, 22.
00:43:54.000 Why they pick you over the 22?
00:43:57.000 Just uh honestly the question.
00:43:59.000 Because I um I have a her I have a purpose in life.
00:44:05.000 Um what I I'm extremely passionate about what I do.
00:44:09.000 I add um fun and excitement to everyone's lives.
00:44:14.000 Anyone who's, you know, my friend, I'm a very loyal friend and loving and affectionate, and I'll always be there for you.
00:44:21.000 And uh people who appreciate the sweetness that I have to offer.
00:44:28.000 We have wonderful relationships for long time friends friendships, you know.
00:44:33.000 Uh I don't know, I I mean I've had two, I had two long-term relationships, five years and three years.
00:44:39.000 I broke up with both of them.
00:44:41.000 Oh, you and did it proposed to me.
00:44:42.000 Yeah.
00:44:43.000 Like I was single for a couple years here and there.
00:44:45.000 Uh right now I'm in one of my one and a half year periods of being single.
00:44:50.000 Uh, but um Yeah, I had the opportunity to to marry guys if I wanted to.
00:44:56.000 Can I be honest with you?
00:44:57.000 Real quick.
00:44:58.000 Can I really be honest with you?
00:44:59.000 You know you're cooked, right?
00:45:00.000 Oh my god.
00:45:02.000 No, no, no.
00:45:03.000 Hold on, hold on, hold on.
00:45:04.000 Hold on, hold on, hold on.
00:45:06.000 Hold up.
00:45:07.000 I'm being real here.
00:45:08.000 Because because we're a Miami, right?
00:45:10.000 This is a high-paced society and fast moving culture.
00:45:13.000 If you want to find a man, trust me, there's many men out there that would definitely want to date you.
00:45:18.000 But the problem is, at your current age, what you're offering, you should offer at 22 as well.
00:45:23.000 No, you, I mean at 22.
00:45:25.000 I mean, I'm not having a problem.
00:45:26.000 Well, hold on, it's a piggyback off that.
00:45:28.000 But you're picky, right?
00:45:29.000 Yeah, but I'm I'm I'm being particular, but it's serving me well.
00:45:34.000 Any guy that I want to match with on a dating app matches with me.
00:45:36.000 Any guy I want to go out with, he's taking me on a date.
00:45:39.000 But you just said the guys that proposed to you, you didn't want to marry.
00:45:41.000 So that's so that's because I learned because I was younger and I learned what I want for myself as I dated them.
00:45:47.000 I was the first one, the five-year relationship, I was 22 to 27.
00:45:50.000 I'm a different I'm always evolving.
00:45:52.000 Like I'm not gonna be the same person.
00:45:54.000 Some people say the same thing.
00:45:55.000 What is those men want that you want? 1.00
00:45:57.000 Do you know?
00:45:57.000 So for example, the man, the man that you want, what does he want?
00:46:01.000 The man so the man the man you want to end up marrying, right?
00:46:04.000 To have kids with, have family with, what does he want?
00:46:07.000 He wants to have a life partner.
00:46:09.000 Okay.
00:46:10.000 He wants to have somebody who he's gonna enjoy the rest of his life with that's gonna lift him up every day, and um that he can rely that he can rely on to be there and be the mother of his children. 0.98
00:46:22.000 Um, and that he knows is gonna take care of him, make him feel safe, and um we're just um Okay, real quick, dumb.
00:46:34.000 Dance and dance together and do fight like just love. 0.90
00:46:37.000 Does that sound like somebody you want to wipe up right now?
00:46:41.000 Be honest.
00:46:42.000 You're you're successful, no most millionaire.
00:46:45.000 No, I mean the main problem you say you have was like communication, it seems with men.
00:46:49.000 No, no, no, only this one guy.
00:46:50.000 Just one guy.
00:46:51.000 Well, so he didn't have good communication, so I'm I'm uh looking for communication.
00:46:55.000 So long-term relationship, did he not want any of those?
00:46:57.000 Well, did not want the things that you want that you're saying that the guy will want.
00:47:01.000 No, he he wanted that I didn't end up wanting him because well, this one particular guy like made me think he was somebody different than he was.
00:47:09.000 And I broke up with him at the end, he said, uh if you want someone to take you on dates the rest of your life, that's not gonna be me.
00:47:14.000 Like, oh my god.
00:47:16.000 I broke up with him and he said that, and like I want to I I want to keep the romance alive.
00:47:23.000 Like I want magic.
00:47:25.000 You know, fairy tale.
00:47:26.000 He was putting in more effort in the beginning than Yeah, he always had the chocolate I liked and the wine that I liked, and did he ever have any complaints before he stopped doing those things?
00:47:35.000 Or he just stopped cold turkey? 0.96
00:47:37.000 No, we were together for like a year and then like we were living together, and then like you know shit happened. 0.98
00:47:44.000 It faded, faded out.
00:47:47.000 But normally when God stopped doing stuff that they used to do, they have complaints normally.
00:47:51.000 He worked too much.
00:47:54.000 Maybe he got bored though, too.
00:47:56.000 No.
00:47:57.000 No.
00:47:58.000 No, I don't even want to talk about it too much.
00:48:00.000 I'm just it's like I don't need to focus on one person.
00:48:03.000 Like I'm just saying in general, like I've learned from my relationships.
00:48:06.000 I've learned a lot of things that I do want because especially like the first the guy I was in a five-year relationship with, there were a lot of things about him that made him like a wonderful person that I will look for in a man in the future.
00:48:16.000 So, what do you think that you provide that no other female does that would make a man want to be with you forever? 0.96
00:48:22.000 I'm I'm intelligent.
00:48:23.000 Well, no, no.
00:48:24.000 I said what do you provide that no other female can provide that like because there's a lot of intelligent women, you're not the only person with a masters, you know. 1.00
00:48:31.000 No, no, no, no, I know, but like I'm not you're asking.
00:48:34.000 I'm imaginative, I'm interested in a lot of things.
00:48:37.000 I'm taking voice lessons right now.
00:48:40.000 I was like, I I'm always gonna be interested in trying new things and doing doing fun things throughout life.
00:48:48.000 And I I lift, I'm I'm an optimistic person, and I'm gonna lift you up whenever you're feeling feeling low.
00:48:56.000 Like my that my exes, their moms always said to me that I was had a calming effect on them.
00:49:00.000 And I don't think of myself as a very calm person.
00:49:03.000 So you're just a niche woman, you gotta find a niche man. 1.00
00:49:06.000 I mean you have a certain kind of niche.
00:49:09.000 Yeah, I need someone to have like this really deep special connection.
00:49:12.000 That's not hard, that's not easy to find.
00:49:13.000 I don't expect that to be easy to find.
00:49:15.000 So we can all agree here that like when you come to like pushing women, giving them what they want up front, it doesn't serve you pretty much as a man.
00:49:21.000 So let's play a video real quick to kind of illustrate this in detail because I think answers today are hilarious, but some of them are actually good.
00:49:27.000 So we'll respond to this with a video here.
00:49:30.000 Um here we go.
00:49:32.000 Is that Star Wars?
00:49:35.000 The credits.
00:49:39.000 We're doing the uh video.
00:49:40.000 Yeah.
00:49:40.000 No, that one next one.
00:49:43.000 All right guys, just one second here, close as I bring it up.
00:49:46.000 Cool?
00:49:48.000 So this is this this isn't a full approach from a woman here in the streets.
00:49:51.000 Uh actually real, by the way.
00:49:53.000 And this is her reaction to uh his approach.
00:49:56.000 There we go.
00:49:57.000 If you want my number, you gotta pay me.
00:50:00.000 You give me in the vlog for $10.
00:50:03.000 Yeah.
00:50:03.000 I got it.
00:50:04.000 Okay.
00:50:05.000 How long?
00:50:06.000 For cash up.
00:50:07.000 Cash up.
00:50:08.000 Yeah.
00:50:08.000 Alright, I guess you're gonna talk to my phone.
00:50:10.000 Yeah, $10.
00:50:13.000 20.
00:50:15.000 $20.
00:50:16.000 I got cash.
00:50:17.000 Okay.
00:50:17.000 Yeah.
00:50:18.000 Yeah, beautiful, y'all know.
00:50:19.000 Thank you. 0.99
00:50:20.000 Oh shit in my car. 0.99
00:50:23.000 Okay. 1.00
00:50:24.000 Zero.
00:50:26.000 No.
00:50:29.000 I don't know.
00:50:31.000 I'll know it when I see it.
00:50:32.000 You know when you say I ain't different chat.
00:50:34.000 Not yet, no.
00:50:35.000 Not yet?
00:50:35.000 No.
00:50:36.000 What do you think?
00:50:38.000 I don't know.
00:50:39.000 What do you think?
00:50:40.000 What do you think?
00:50:41.000 Yeah.
00:50:42.000 I'll give you my Instagram.
00:50:44.000 I don't know what I'm saying, bro.
00:50:46.000 I can advance.
00:50:48.000 yeah If you want my number.
00:51:02.000 Okay, uh, you just saw a lot of video there.
00:51:05.000 Dom.
00:51:05.000 What do you think, bro?
00:51:07.000 Man, that nigga cut. 1.00
00:51:12.000 Yeah, I mean, they that woman will never have no respect for him, even if he uh takes it farther. 0.98
00:51:17.000 She don't have respect for herself. 1.00
00:51:19.000 20 dollars? 1.00
00:51:20.000 What the fuck is that? 0.99
00:51:21.000 I thought about that. 1.00
00:51:22.000 Right.
00:51:24.000 I think she just did that just as a joke to the case. 0.99
00:51:26.000 If he won't pay, if he walked in and gave her 10 bands, would she have respect then?
00:51:30.000 No.
00:51:30.000 So the the price don't.
00:51:32.000 I don't know.
00:51:32.000 So if she had respect for herself, it still won't change.
00:51:34.000 She wouldn't have no respect for him.
00:51:35.000 Right, because she's not even like willing and able to get to know him either way.
00:51:40.000 You know what I mean?
00:51:40.000 She's worried about the money, which is which is uh justifiable.
00:51:44.000 I get that.
00:51:45.000 Because if you have 10 bands, drop it.
00:51:47.000 Justifiable.
00:51:48.000 It's justifiable.
00:51:49.000 Hold on, but she she just took the money and laughed in his face and said, Ha, I got 20 minutes. 1.00
00:51:52.000 Well he gave it to her.
00:51:53.000 But that's the point.
00:51:54.000 She she gave her he gave her what she wanted, and he he ended up losing.
00:51:57.000 You don't know if he's he lost or not.
00:52:00.000 She lost away a lot of that.
00:52:03.000 She's not she's clearly right though, but listen, both both of those parties are wrong. 1.00
00:52:10.000 Both of those parties are stupid as fuck. 1.00
00:52:12.000 Okay. 1.00
00:52:12.000 When you're right to meet the right person, it's God's time, no matter what. 1.00
00:52:16.000 So remember what makes sense.
00:52:17.000 The pretense was if you give him what she wants to front, you end up losing.
00:52:20.000 What about you?
00:52:21.000 What do you think?
00:52:23.000 That's a loaded question.
00:52:24.000 You know, it depends because at the end of the day, you know, these situations you see, they're all for c clickbaits.
00:52:30.000 You know, they're not necessarily real life situations.
00:52:33.000 But if it is that case, I mean it's all based on the respect level that you know the person has for you.
00:52:38.000 Otherwise, then it's not yeah.
00:52:41.000 If I don't want to deal with someone, I'll probably do the same thing, you know.
00:52:43.000 Okay, like opening.
00:52:44.000 I think she wasn't as interested at all.
00:52:46.000 I think she just did it to see if he would do it.
00:52:48.000 He did it, and she just played along with it, but she wasn't I don't think she would think he would pay the ten dollars.
00:52:52.000 She just would I get from that video.
00:52:55.000 What do you think?
00:52:56.000 I think that he shouldn't have paid her the ten dollars or to the twenty dollars.
00:53:01.000 But I think she shouldn't have asked if she was never interested in the first place.
00:53:05.000 Okay.
00:53:05.000 So she was interested, she should ask.
00:53:08.000 If she was interested, no, she shouldn't have asked for money, just give me your Instagram.
00:53:11.000 I don't know.
00:53:11.000 I don't think if somebody was like, yo, I'll give you ten dollars for your Instagram, I'd be like, nah, just take it.
00:53:16.000 But like I said, I'm not gonna give you my phone number because with five dollars you can find a whole my address. 0.99
00:53:21.000 Shit. 0.99
00:53:21.000 Oh yeah, with the search. 0.99
00:53:23.000 Okay.
00:53:25.000 What about you?
00:53:26.000 I just laughed and thought that was so Miami.
00:53:29.000 And um Good point.
00:53:30.000 Yeah, that's not something that I saw dating in New York.
00:53:33.000 But I it makes me giggle.
00:53:35.000 So so that actual video, right?
00:53:37.000 Even if it's not real, show us how dynamics between men and women are.
00:53:41.000 So up front.
00:53:42.000 Transactional, but that's not I don't know, that doesn't work for me.
00:53:46.000 That's not how I I'm looking for that connection.
00:53:48.000 But that's good.
00:53:49.000 But a lot of women nowadays are looking for a monetary gain to possibly maybe give you a chance if they feel like it. 1.00
00:53:54.000 But in this scenario here, she just said literally, you know what?
00:53:57.000 Let me see if I can get $10 from this this guy.
00:53:58.000 She got $20, and then you dipped off.
00:54:01.000 So it could be 10k, 20k.
00:54:03.000 And this happens all the time in Miami.
00:54:04.000 You give a girl money up front. 0.99
00:54:06.000 She's she she's she she doesn't like you, she just moves on. 0.70
00:54:08.000 So Prince, what would you say is the best way to push woman in this case? 0.94
00:54:12.000 Because 10 bucks is nothing but she got it and then left. 1.00
00:54:15.000 Approach her like after she said that.
00:54:17.000 Yeah.
00:54:17.000 There's well, I don't even approach women, honestly.
00:54:19.000 I don't cold start.
00:54:21.000 I'm not a cold star kind of person.
00:54:23.000 But but let's say you were in that scenario.
00:54:25.000 Right?
00:54:25.000 What would you how would you react to that?
00:54:26.000 She said 10 bucks.
00:54:28.000 Get my Instagram.
00:54:29.000 What?
00:54:30.000 Okay, have a great day, my love.
00:54:31.000 And just keep it pushing.
00:54:32.000 $10 for your Instagram?
00:54:34.000 All right.
00:54:34.000 Love you.
00:54:35.000 Selena.
00:54:36.000 You're right.
00:54:37.000 Like some maybe something like that.
00:54:38.000 And honestly, it depends if I'm irritable, if I had to smoke weed or not.
00:54:41.000 If I was in a bad mood, maybe I'll say some 60 if not, I'd be like, alright. 0.98
00:54:45.000 Can be fucked up and just keep it pushing. 0.99
00:54:47.000 Dom. 0.99
00:54:47.000 If that was you, how would you approach that? 0.99
00:54:49.000 I'd tell her I charge up to $8,000 to follow people.
00:54:51.000 I'll give it to her for free.
00:54:54.000 Wait, what?
00:54:55.000 Huh?
00:54:55.000 That's my response.
00:54:56.000 I'll tell her I'll charge $8,000 to follow people.
00:54:58.000 I'll follow her for free.
00:54:59.000 She's gonna give me hers for free.
00:55:01.000 Ten dollars. 1.00
00:55:01.000 Shit, she gets of someone that's worth $8,000 per follow for free, bro. 1.00
00:55:05.000 It's a good investment. 0.99
00:55:06.000 See, in this scenario here, bro, um, it's just it's mad disrespect.
00:55:09.000 So I'll just walk away.
00:55:10.000 Yeah. 1.00
00:55:11.000 Because ten 10 bucks, bro, bitch, please. 1.00
00:55:13.000 But at the same time, it's like he gave it to me because he wants to get a chance. 0.99
00:55:16.000 If it's real.
00:55:17.000 If it's real.
00:55:17.000 And in Miami, I thought that's all the time.
00:55:19.000 You would take me out, you can buy me a bag, you're gonna take me shopping. 0.99
00:55:22.000 And then I'll smash you. 1.00
00:55:23.000 No, you're a fucking cock. 1.00
00:55:24.000 It looks crazy. 1.00
00:55:25.000 But um, I just think the dating that I'm now it's more transactional than anything else.
00:55:28.000 And it's not because that's a current uh dating market.
00:55:31.000 That's what I get tell told.
00:55:32.000 Sorry.
00:55:33.000 And that's why I try to be a friend first, because like even dinner, it's just like it happened to me before.
00:55:39.000 I took this girl out uh to Carbone, was not interested in me at all. 0.99
00:55:43.000 After dinner, I think she went and fucked some other nigga. 1.00
00:55:47.000 Yeah, like she said bye, okay, see you later. 0.99
00:55:49.000 And that was that, you know.
00:55:50.000 Uh that's why I like to be the friend first. 0.99
00:55:53.000 We actually get to know which one you fuck with me genuinely. 1.00
00:55:55.000 So you just you won't try certain shit. 0.99
00:55:56.000 So if we go to dinner, you're gonna appreciate that dinner because you genuinely enjoy spending time with me and hanging out with me wherever it's the situation may be. 0.99
00:56:02.000 You know, I that whole, like, hey, I think you're so beautiful.
00:56:05.000 Can we go to dinner tonight?
00:56:06.000 I can't do that.
00:56:07.000 Yeah.
00:56:08.000 Not that the woman doesn't deserve to be taken to dinner. 1.00
00:56:10.000 I just believe they get to know each other first, and and you know, you know what I got going on, and I know what you got going on, because you know, there there is a lot of shit going on. 0.98
00:56:17.000 And again, with my promoter background, I just know certain things. 0.92
00:56:21.000 So I just move a little bit more cautiously.
00:56:24.000 What do you think?
00:56:24.000 I think that I if I were on the street and somebody approached me and was like, hey, can I have your Instagram?
00:56:30.000 And I made a like a slick comment, like, yeah, $10, and they turned around and they said, I charge $8,000 to follow people.
00:56:37.000 I'll follow you for free.
00:56:38.000 I'd be like, absolutely.
00:56:39.000 Here's my Instagram.
00:56:40.000 That's clever though.
00:56:41.000 I would love that.
00:56:42.000 That's a clever rebuttal.
00:56:43.000 I would love that banter so much that it would connect with me.
00:56:46.000 But maybe a different tone because you sound like you're but if it was like a light hearted tone, yeah, that that's that's good.
00:56:51.000 That's good.
00:56:51.000 It was witty.
00:56:52.000 It was witty.
00:56:53.000 Yeah, isn't but if my response, my like, oh yeah, $10 to follow me, that should also be like a banter, not like serious.
00:57:00.000 Okay.
00:57:01.000 Uh shout out to uh I think this is Damon.
00:57:06.000 Damon for the one subshout to your brother for supporting the show.
00:57:09.000 Oh, you had three?
00:57:10.000 Shout out to Damon Um Dabani.
00:57:12.000 So uh, real quick.
00:57:14.000 Dom, just real quick.
00:57:15.000 Let's go back uh to what we said before.
00:57:17.000 Yeah.
00:57:18.000 Let's say um we're in the friend zone, right?
00:57:21.000 And we want to get past your friends on.
00:57:22.000 If you were that in that spot, how would you get past your friends off?
00:57:26.000 I don't know if you can, man.
00:57:27.000 Like that.
00:57:28.000 I mean, I there's nothing I could really say to really guarantee that that's for no man. 0.99
00:57:31.000 I mean, I mean, he has good success. 0.99
00:57:33.000 I mean, shit, but I don't know. 0.98
00:57:35.000 I don't really like doing the friend zone because a lot of women there, you can even see on this podcast, women, they're very influential creatures. 1.00
00:57:43.000 Like, you guys are social.
00:57:45.000 You one person said something and all of you agree, and then you start saying that's the same qualifications that you need.
00:57:50.000 Yeah.
00:57:50.000 You can set the standards on the first date, and you say, well, she won't do certain things to you because you're a friend.
00:57:56.000 You can make, well, not, I don't want to say the word make, but a woman can sense your energy for what you gonna fuck with and what you won't. 1.00
00:58:02.000 And on that first day, that standard is set, and she'll do shit for you that she won't do for other niggas, and she won't do shit to you that she'll do to other niggas just from the respect that you got from her on that first day. 0.99
00:58:12.000 So, I mean, having it through weeks, I think it can help. 0.98
00:58:15.000 But you can get that in the first day, just depending on how you lead with that woman, setting the standards. 0.52
00:58:20.000 I mean, and women like to be corrected. 1.00
00:58:22.000 You know, a lot of women, men are so afraid to correct women on the first day. 0.99
00:58:26.000 I take them out to the date, expensive restaurant, and they do shit I don't like. 1.00
00:58:29.000 I love them, I don't like that. 0.98
00:58:30.000 I tell them on the first date what I want to see them wearing, what time to be ready, what shoes they should wear. 1.00
00:58:36.000 They love that type of shit because they like, this nigga ain't gonna fuck around. 1.00
00:58:39.000 So I'm experiencing a version of her that she wanna be that little girl again, the other man can't see. 1.00
00:58:43.000 But it does work sometimes, you know, take care of your time. 0.98
00:58:46.000 Everything is like I said, even said that the friends don't shit like it, it's fucked me up a couple of times, you know. 0.99
00:58:50.000 But it does. 0.98
00:58:50.000 I mean, it's a I think it's better to find a woman to marry if you start off as a friend. 0.98
00:58:54.000 Can I say something real quick?
00:58:56.000 No, a a woman wants a guy to lead. 1.00
00:58:58.000 Yeah.
00:58:59.000 So a a woman wants a guy to be dominant. 1.00
00:59:01.000 Yeah, these guys out here are pussies. 1.00
00:59:04.000 Like, if you want me to take you to Dave and Bush so we can play games together, we can do that. 1.00
00:59:08.000 Does that make sense?
00:59:09.000 Like, I mean, I'm 30, I'm 31, so like I'm gonna let you know what's real because I've learned lying to people.
00:59:16.000 Maybe I'm a terrible liar, so I might as well just tell you we're playing.
00:59:19.000 We're we're playing the game together, then you know what I mean?
00:59:22.000 Yeah, but that's it.
00:59:23.000 Serious.
00:59:23.000 I've learned telling the truth is the only way to go in life.
00:59:27.000 Seriously.
00:59:27.000 So off your current answer, do you think most men mature up to be a real man nowadays, or no?
00:59:32.000 No, because the society made men bitches. 1.00
00:59:36.000 Men are more bitches than females, man. 1.00
00:59:38.000 I'm just being honest here. 1.00
00:59:40.000 I want a guy to be dominant.
00:59:41.000 I want a guy to be daddy. 1.00
00:59:42.000 That's your bitch. 1.00
00:59:43.000 It's just so it's true. 1.00
00:59:45.000 I I feel her on that. 0.57
00:59:46.000 The thing is the the the climate that we're in, sometimes it's you you gotta really be careful what you do, what you say and how you say it, like even with just being dominant, because that shit can be misconstrued for you being aggressive or the narcissist, or it's it's the just the climate everything, even with like movies, how you can't make certain jokes.
01:00:06.000 It's just that's why I play the friends so like so much, because I just like the world that I'm in, the life that I'm in, man.
01:00:13.000 I am not trying to get caught up in my show.
01:00:16.000 I don't want a guy that that if I feel controlled by them, it is a red flag and I run.
01:00:21.000 Like I do not I like when a man is like I want to take what is your ideal first date, and I made the reservation, and that's how they're taking the lead in that way, right?
01:00:31.000 They're making the what do you call controlling though?
01:00:33.000 If they're telling me what shoes to wear, then that would feel I would I feel like I feel a balance between the two of these guys here.
01:00:41.000 We're like, we're not gonna go on a date.
01:00:43.000 More leaning on to this side, that's why uh uh um you want a guy in the middle of these two. 1.00
01:00:52.000 I I mean yeah, I want someone to be real and be like really who they are, and if that's realness is not for me, that's okay.
01:00:58.000 We go different ways, you know what I mean?
01:00:59.000 Like, but I want I want someone who respects my and also and also like thinks it's sexy, my independence and like my own ability.
01:01:10.000 Like I have I'm I'm confident in the way that I dress myself and like my fashion my sense of style.
01:01:15.000 I would love it if a man wants to take me shopping or something.
01:01:18.000 Not that too.
01:01:19.000 But that's not that's just because he wants to, though.
01:01:21.000 That's not a transactional thing, and I'm not gonna go on a date on a dinner date with you if I'm not genuinely interested.
01:01:25.000 I'm not gonna use you for what you're bringing.
01:01:28.000 I'm only doing that for the You may not, but a lot of women do. 1.00
01:01:30.000 Um, okay, what about you?
01:01:32.000 So do you think most men measure up today to be a real man or no?
01:01:35.000 Most men measure up.
01:01:36.000 It all depends.
01:01:37.000 It all depends on the like how they were raised.
01:01:40.000 You know, they come from you know, broken families per se.
01:01:43.000 Or saying, like generally speaking, the men of 20.
01:01:46.000 The men I use one of these.
01:01:47.000 I think if anything, I'm I'm attracted to gentle masculinity.
01:01:51.000 You know, not the like I'm the man and I'm gonna do this.
01:01:54.000 Like, no, that isn't work with me because I'm an educated woman already, you know.
01:01:57.000 I do talk back.
01:01:58.000 So you talk back?
01:02:00.000 Absolutely.
01:02:01.000 A man like that.
01:02:02.000 Um, whoa, whoa.
01:02:05.000 There's ways to approach that, you know.
01:02:08.000 But I mean, like what he's I like what Dom said.
01:02:10.000 You know, you have to set the tone from the beginning, and this is the rules we're gonna be playing with, and then we take it from there.
01:02:16.000 Can you describe a gentle masculine man?
01:02:18.000 Oh, that's a good one.
01:02:19.000 So it's the opposite of toxic masculinity.
01:02:23.000 There we go.
01:02:24.000 But gentle masculinity is a blend of uh emotional availability and intelligence, and it you know, it's a play where you're you have an ability to be able to discern and read a room and know how to manage women essentially correctly.
01:02:38.000 Um, that's someone who's also per se uh understands the power of consent.
01:02:44.000 I think that's very important.
01:02:45.000 I'm in love.
01:02:46.000 I just I'm just missing emotional maturity because I snap.
01:02:49.000 So emotional you can show emotions, but you don't you don't know how to sometimes like with men, they do not, and this is something that women complain all the time is that he doesn't know, he doesn't tell me what he feels, and and at the end of the day, that's you know, very important to be able to, and it all comes down to mental health.
01:03:06.000 That's a that's a rabbit hole in itself, you know.
01:03:08.000 So is that considered emotional intelligence?
01:03:10.000 Absolutely.
01:03:11.000 Uh it's a very it's it's a very new word, you know.
01:03:14.000 There's so many things involved into that, and it comes down to even like surrendering yourself to that person.
01:03:20.000 All the things men have to men have to learn to even get into your psyche.
01:03:23.000 That's that that's a lot.
01:03:24.000 No, I'm not gonna learn it.
01:03:25.000 No, this is everything.
01:03:26.000 This is a mutual thing, even for women.
01:03:28.000 Women that come also from broken families tend to act like men, and you know, that's that you know, it's not a good thing. 1.00
01:03:35.000 See, they don't trust see we understand most guys watching don't understand all this going on, but I I get what you're saying.
01:03:40.000 Yeah, but that that that is a lot.
01:03:42.000 What do you think?
01:03:42.000 Most men measure up.
01:03:44.000 Oh, I I date both genders, right?
01:03:46.000 So I like very masculine men and I like very feminine.
01:03:50.000 I like very masculine men and very feminine women. 0.97
01:03:52.000 So I do like a man who's gonna lead me.
01:03:54.000 I like a man to be a little bossy, be a little bossy of me, put me in my place.
01:03:58.000 But then I want to go do that if I'm in a relationship with a girl. 1.00
01:04:02.000 So I guess for both genders, which one would you want to marry and have a family with? 0.97
01:04:09.000 Oh, uh honestly, I'm really 50-50.
01:04:13.000 Whoever I like more when I get there, uh, that I feel like I can build a comfy, happy life with, but I also am very into polyamory and potentially potentially being in more of like a I I believe that my I'm gonna love my partner.
01:04:29.000 Nigga, we been up that I want them to have all of the experiences that they possibly can.
01:04:34.000 Yeah, and I think that my partner at the end of the day should be my home-based partner.
01:04:38.000 Like, if you want to go sleep with somebody else, I think we should be able to have that conversation.
01:04:43.000 And if we're both comfortable with it, am I comfortable with you doing that without me?
01:04:47.000 Do I want to join?
01:04:48.000 Do I want to watch?
01:04:49.000 Do am I not?
01:04:50.000 All this shows is that there's no cookie cutter.
01:04:52.000 Like different strokes are different, folks.
01:04:54.000 You can't even really there's no palette, but hold on.
01:04:57.000 So you're telling me it has to be under your guidance.
01:05:00.000 Um, not guidance, communication.
01:05:02.000 But yeah, a lot of polyamorous couples have like Google calendars that they share and put all of their information in. 1.00
01:05:09.000 I think that's so beautiful.
01:05:10.000 It's about not lying.
01:05:11.000 It's about it's about knowing what you're what you're telling somebody else is what that you know that they can rely on you, that your word, you're gonna like hold yourself to your word, they're going to be able to trust you.
01:05:26.000 And so if they if that's not for them, they can leave, right?
01:05:30.000 It's like cheating is doing that with and like pretending that you're and I think nowadays everyone cheats.
01:05:38.000 Everyone knows so.
01:05:39.000 So how about we have this open dialogue and communication and trust to where like if you're gonna go do that, at least I want to know about it.
01:05:46.000 So I'm I'm off honesty, I'm all for letting people know what the honest truth up front. 0.94
01:05:50.000 That's fucking amazing. 0.94
01:05:51.000 Right. 0.97
01:05:52.000 The problem is I think you want to control a little bit what happens behind the scenes, which granted, you should know what's happening, but to say, if I allow, if I want you to do this, it's kind of like if I don't think if I allow, I think that's if both parties are comfortable.
01:06:08.000 I didn't mean to stay that way.
01:06:09.000 What if I want to do it and you don't want me to do it?
01:06:11.000 Now what?
01:06:11.000 Then there's a conversation.
01:06:12.000 Then you say that.
01:06:14.000 See, that's when they get cheap.
01:06:15.000 All right, what about you?
01:06:17.000 What about me?
01:06:18.000 Most men measure up to what you want or your standards, you would say.
01:06:21.000 Most men.
01:06:22.000 No, that's why I'm single.
01:06:23.000 Got it.
01:06:24.000 So I think we have a dilemma here because if you notice Prince and Dom and ladies, we all have different things that we want, and most of them don't align.
01:06:32.000 And the funny part is most men don't know what women want. 0.67
01:06:35.000 Women don't care what men want. 1.00
01:06:37.000 So it's kind of like that battle between sexes where we don't know what we each want.
01:06:41.000 So, real quick, I guess if you could describe to me, Prince, what you look what are you looking for in a in a woman?
01:06:47.000 Peace.
01:06:49.000 I'm obviously I want her to be beautiful, you know what I'm saying?
01:06:51.000 Like there's a level of superficialness, regardless.
01:06:55.000 Like, no one looks at someone's like, oh my God.
01:06:57.000 She looks, she has a great personality, made me laugh all day. 0.89
01:06:59.000 No, there has to be an attraction, but I'm looking for peace.
01:07:02.000 Someone that's gonna just give me peace and help up with you.
01:07:07.000 Yeah, help up with me, just build me up.
01:07:09.000 Like I have my days, like the world that we're in, the entertainment is crazy.
01:07:12.000 It's a lot, you know.
01:07:13.000 And just be there for me.
01:07:14.000 Let's just build, you know what I'm saying?
01:07:15.000 Like, I'm not even the time, I don't I don't care if you drive a grammary, I don't care. 1.00
01:07:19.000 Like, I'm I've never been the type of person to really care about what you do, what you've done, your past. 0.97
01:07:23.000 Like, I know Myron will probably like dig going on me for this, but I I can look past all that shit as long as you're for me. 0.90
01:07:30.000 You know what I'm saying? 0.97
01:07:30.000 Like I can look past almost almost almost anything, but as long as you're for me, we're we're here. 0.97
01:07:37.000 But I just I just want I just want peace.
01:07:38.000 I get the peace part.
01:07:39.000 Well, she got like 200 bodies. 0.97
01:07:42.000 Okay, so I'm gonna keep it 100 with you.
01:07:43.000 I don't I've I've dealt with a woman who I don't know if she had 200, but you know, she's known to kind of have done her thing. 0.97
01:07:49.000 That coochie was amazing. 1.00
01:07:51.000 What that shit grit Like it was amazing. 1.00
01:07:55.000 You know what I'm saying? 1.00
01:07:56.000 And I've I've dealt with women who who have not had so many bodies, and maybe there's a scent or the shit don't grip like how it no when I say set, like it doesn't stink, but you know, vagina vagina, you know what I'm saying? 1.00
01:08:07.000 Like, or maybe it doesn't grip as much, or you know, maybe she can't suck that good or something like that. 1.00
01:08:11.000 So that shit don't necessarily bother me. 1.00
01:08:14.000 Now it depends on who you fucked. 1.00
01:08:16.000 Right. 1.00
01:08:16.000 You know what I'm saying? 1.00
01:08:17.000 And where you fucked. 1.00
01:08:18.000 If you if you when you had a time in Wisconsin, which I don't give a fuck, I don't like nobody from Wisconsin. 1.00
01:08:23.000 You know what I'm saying? 0.95
01:08:23.000 So for me, I know this is like going against everything y'all stand for personally. 0.95
01:08:28.000 I don't really give a fuck as long as like everything is how it's supposed to be. 0.99
01:08:31.000 So out of sight of the mine type shit. 1.00
01:08:32.000 All right. 1.00
01:08:33.000 Dom, what do you look for in a woman? 1.00
01:08:35.000 Man, that's crazy answer.
01:08:36.000 Uh one, you know what I'm saying? 0.99
01:08:39.000 But I've been I've been to a lot of dated a stripper and I was fucking with her. 1.00
01:08:43.000 I've dated a OnlyFans girl, I've dated a bottle girl, I've dated a nurse. 0.99
01:08:48.000 You know what I'm saying?
01:08:48.000 And I think being in Miami, it's a little different because you're exposed as a guy, especially in the uh in the streets, everything.
01:08:54.000 Like young, old stripper. 1.00
01:08:56.000 I wouldn't date a porn star. 0.98
01:08:58.000 That I wouldn't do. 0.89
01:08:58.000 Really? 0.89
01:08:59.000 That nah I wouldn't do that.
01:09:00.000 That I that's probably that's where I draw the line. 0.65
01:09:01.000 I wouldn't do a porn star.
01:09:02.000 Wait, what's the difference? 0.95
01:09:03.000 Wait, wait, wait.
01:09:04.000 But where do you draw the line in the difference between porn star and only fans girl?
01:09:07.000 Ooh.
01:09:08.000 Um, so only I'll tell you why. 0.71
01:09:11.000 OnlyFans girl is the c the world that we live in now, everyone's making videos with their nigga and their girl. 0.94
01:09:16.000 You know what I'm saying? 0.92
01:09:16.000 So if you want OnlyFans and you're selling videos of you and your nigga, whatever. 0.92
01:09:19.000 It is what it is.
01:09:20.000 You know what I'm saying?
01:09:22.000 Like that were her niggas or just randomly. 1.00
01:09:27.000 It's honestly.
01:09:29.000 It would be it would really be case by case. 0.96
01:09:31.000 Again, because you can be a porn star on OnlyFans.
01:09:33.000 That's because they're not they're not necessarily super different, but they're not necessarily exactly the same.
01:09:37.000 Two things can be true at the same time.
01:09:39.000 So it really depends on what you got going on in your OnlyFans. 1.00
01:09:42.000 If you fucking a bunch of different niggas, like a porn star, yeah, I'm not fucking with that. 1.00
01:09:45.000 But if you OnlyFans and you did some shit with your boyfriend for two years, oh whatever. 1.00
01:09:49.000 I don't give a fuck. 1.00
01:09:50.000 I'm not gonna go subscribe and look at it. 0.99
01:09:51.000 You know what I'm saying?
01:09:52.000 I I don't think my friends are gonna screen record and send it to me, but I'm strong.
01:09:58.000 Well, see, it's our boy, I don't know.
01:10:01.000 But um I'm strong enough that you know I'm saying I could take like I I'll take it.
01:10:04.000 If you keep playing with me, I'll just fight you. 1.00
01:10:06.000 Stop talking about my bitch. 1.00
01:10:07.000 Stop talking about my bitch. 1.00
01:10:08.000 There's my bitch. 1.00
01:10:09.000 Okay, okay. 1.00
01:10:10.000 Dom, how would you look what you look for in the girl?
01:10:13.000 I guess I could say, I mean, you know, peace is a good answer, but I would say I'll to look for a woman when I'm looking for a woman, it's to be like clay, more so because women, it doesn't matter how they start off, they're never really perfect for you. 1.00
01:10:25.000 And I noticed the older they get, the less they're willing to listen. 0.91
01:10:28.000 So I would say submission, but I'm not asking for a girl to be completely like dumb, submissive, and waiting on my answer on everything. 0.86
01:10:34.000 I want her to want ambition, have ambitions, but at the same time allow me to play my role to help evolve and elevate them to be like clay.
01:10:41.000 Because none of us are perfect, but the man, my job is to make you better.
01:10:44.000 You got some colloquialism, my boy. 1.00
01:10:46.000 You got some shit. 1.00
01:10:46.000 You got some. 1.00
01:10:47.000 So yeah.
01:10:48.000 That's just the goal, just to play my role to make them better.
01:10:50.000 But a lot of women, they're resistant because they've met man after man that disappoint them, they're not willing to be that clay anymore.
01:10:57.000 And so they're less attractive to us because we're here to give you something to soak up.
01:11:01.000 If I can't teach you anything, I don't even want to sleep with you.
01:11:04.000 It's pointless.
01:11:05.000 So I'm looking for a woman willing to evolve. 1.00
01:11:07.000 I want to learn from my partner.
01:11:09.000 I get that.
01:11:09.000 And I am always evolving, like I said before.
01:11:11.000 And I evolve from the people I surround myself with and the people I choose to surround myself with.
01:11:16.000 Um, like I I think that we can lift each other up and we should grow together.
01:11:21.000 Um in a relationship, you can grow together, you can grow apart, and you can build each other up, you can tear each other down.
01:11:27.000 And like I think that I like even though I have an evolved sense of self at this point in my life compared to who I was before, like I never want to stop growing and changing.
01:11:38.000 Like, even my grandmother is currently growing and changing in ways that you'd never expect a grandmother.
01:11:42.000 I want to ask you a question.
01:11:44.000 You don't, if you say if I told you to put the shoes on or what shoes to wear, that was that would we'll be the wrong way.
01:11:49.000 If we went, if we went out on a date, not necessarily and we sat down to eat, where would you sit?
01:11:55.000 Do you put any thought in where you sit?
01:11:57.000 I appreciate when the man is gonna see is gonna you know pull out the chair for me and want me to sit in uh the better seat where I have a better uh view of the restaurant or something. 0.93
01:12:09.000 How damn you see like I appreciate those things.
01:12:12.000 I do appreciate those chivalrous and like family gestures and stuff. 0.98
01:12:16.000 See, that answer is why you should listen to me when I tell you what shoes to wear.
01:12:19.000 Because when we go to a restaurant and sit down, I'm looking at the door, so if there's an active shooter coming in, I can tell you to get down.
01:12:25.000 That's my job as a man to protect you.
01:12:27.000 We take it on a whole different level. 0.99
01:12:29.000 So since I can see shit. 1.00
01:12:31.000 Well you don't, so that's it. 0.99
01:12:32.000 But that's why I lead that way because I know that I'm qualified to tell you that.
01:12:35.000 But but see, he's saying from a safety standpoint.
01:12:38.000 Remember, comfort and safety was your main objective.
01:12:40.000 He's saying, I got you.
01:12:41.000 I'm the man, don't worry.
01:12:43.000 I appreciate that.
01:12:44.000 Uh but in the beginning, that's not where this this is not how this came across when we first when you missed that opportunity with that man because he told you to put shoes on.
01:12:54.000 Men like that tell you what shoes to wear. 0.71
01:12:56.000 The men that's going to protect you, the men that's looking out for you.
01:12:59.000 But communication, and that communication was lacking.
01:13:01.000 He did it.
01:13:02.000 But hold on, hold on.
01:13:02.000 If there's an active shooter, right?
01:13:04.000 And he told you to sit over here.
01:13:05.000 I really hope there's no active shooter.
01:13:08.000 But he said to sit here.
01:13:09.000 You think it's time to say, oh, well, babe, just so you know, so it is because X, Y, Z. No, you gotta get down.
01:13:14.000 No, no, no.
01:13:15.000 You tell me that in advance.
01:13:16.000 Or I get to know you, and we're we know each other already.
01:13:19.000 And I know he's looking out for me, and it's coming from a place of safety.
01:13:22.000 I'll never bring that up.
01:13:24.000 I don't ever bring that up.
01:13:24.000 I'm never bringing that up to women.
01:13:25.000 That's not my job. 1.00
01:13:26.000 We're here to eat and hopefully fuck after we done. 0.99
01:13:28.000 I'm not trying to take that down. 1.00
01:13:31.000 I'm just talking about it.
01:13:33.000 Let's go!
01:13:33.000 It's just my job to make sure you say you know, you gotta love that.
01:13:36.000 I think it's my job. 0.98
01:13:37.000 I just think I think I think at the root at the court, you fuck with what he's saying, is his delivery. 0.96
01:13:43.000 I think that's a good thing. 0.96
01:13:43.000 That's what I'm saying. 0.96
01:13:44.000 It's the communication.
01:13:45.000 That's why that's what's rubbing her the wrong way.
01:13:47.000 You're not saying it's wrong, is it that's a good for being a energy is?
01:13:50.000 So it's not what he's saying is how you're saying it.
01:13:52.000 No, it's it's that there's there was some context missing.
01:13:55.000 It's it's we can't.
01:13:57.000 I'm a communication expert here, okay?
01:13:59.000 So I'm saying speech pathologists.
01:14:04.000 But what I'm saying is is the based on the context that I had and what we were talking about and dominance and all these other pieces to the puzzle of what we were talking about.
01:14:12.000 It sounded like your perspective on that was like I'm gonna be controlling, I'm gonna tell my woman what to wear, I'm gonna tell my women, and I want to elevate her, and that's gonna be that's my job as a man.
01:14:23.000 And I I think that it's a it's uh we elevate each other, and I I think I love to be with somebody who also wants to learn and grow, and I can be a source of that too, and I want them to respect me in that way.
01:14:34.000 But without the context, I didn't belittle the woman in no way.
01:14:36.000 I just told her set the standards what she was where.
01:14:39.000 It shouldn't have really gave off any red flags from you unless you had some type of experiences to make you feel like a man that talked that way.
01:14:44.000 It's negative.
01:14:45.000 But like you say it's trauma.
01:14:47.000 But you should identify a man that talks like that and say, That is the potential husband.
01:14:51.000 That's the type of guy I should be running towards, not away from it.
01:14:53.000 Well, it you know, they're gonna say other things to me too.
01:14:56.000 So it's the whole package, right?
01:14:57.000 I don't I don't immediately walk away from somebody based on one thing that they say to me ever.
01:15:01.000 Like I I'm listening, I'm always listening as much as I'm talking.
01:15:05.000 And the context is the thing that stops you from actually talking about a person.
01:15:09.000 I know I talk a lot, but I also listen.
01:15:11.000 I just can't imagine how many guys you might have met that need to get the full context.
01:15:15.000 There could be possible husbands you could have had that you didn't get the full context on.
01:15:18.000 No, no, no, I don't walk away from people right away.
01:15:21.000 Okay.
01:15:21.000 So what you say about the restaurant and shootings, so sitting so you can see the door.
01:15:26.000 I think that's a beautiful thing that yes, a man should do.
01:15:29.000 That's how my dad would sit with my mom. 0.99
01:15:31.000 However, a lot of men, going back to the question before that men are pussies these days, a lot of men don't think like that. 0.99
01:15:38.000 Yeah, exactly. 0.98
01:15:39.000 That's not my experience with men looking out for my safety to that regard.
01:15:42.000 Like in New York, there were some guys that would walk on the side of the sidewalk to protect me.
01:15:46.000 And I and that was like it, and I appreciate that gesture, but I haven't even had that down here in so long.
01:15:51.000 But but hold on, hold on.
01:15:53.000 I get what you're saying.
01:15:54.000 Most men are not like that.
01:15:55.000 But to his point, when you meet a guy like that, and you dismouth because of things he's saying a certain way, you just lost him.
01:16:00.000 Yeah.
01:16:00.000 Right.
01:16:01.000 But I don't let go of them from one thing that they said.
01:16:04.000 I'm open to hearing the whole all the context, but uh all I had initially was the first part.
01:16:12.000 That's it.
01:16:12.000 Okay, so real quick, ladies.
01:16:13.000 Let's say we just discuss how men are currently.
01:16:16.000 How should man measure up for you to be your man?
01:16:18.000 How how do the man measure up for you?
01:16:20.000 I think they need to heal first.
01:16:23.000 I think they need to heal first.
01:16:24.000 Okay, it's not.
01:16:26.000 Let's say let's say they're healed.
01:16:28.000 What do they need to measure up to be your man?
01:16:30.000 Let's say he's watching right now.
01:16:32.000 If 10 kids walk right now, 10K and watch it.
01:16:34.000 I can't I can't.
01:16:35.000 I don't know.
01:16:36.000 I don't know exactly like that answer.
01:16:38.000 You know what I mean?
01:16:39.000 Because that's scary though.
01:16:40.000 It's hold on.
01:16:42.000 Imagine, right?
01:16:43.000 Imagine.
01:16:43.000 He's in front of you.
01:16:44.000 You can't even see him.
01:16:45.000 Okay, yeah.
01:16:45.000 Well then he doesn't he's not trying to be seen then.
01:16:48.000 You know what I mean?
01:16:48.000 Like it's that's not the case.
01:16:50.000 I'm telling you, and when it's your time to find that right person, it's gonna it's gonna correlate.
01:16:54.000 Everything the stars are gonna align.
01:16:56.000 You don't know that.
01:16:57.000 Does that make sense?
01:16:58.000 What if he was in front of you the whole time you didn't see him?
01:17:00.000 What if he was in your past and you just you just dissed him off?
01:17:02.000 Now you're single forever.
01:17:03.000 Maybe listen, listen, no, no, no.
01:17:04.000 Maybe it wasn't meant to be back then, but it could be now.
01:17:07.000 It isn't.
01:17:08.000 How old do you know?
01:17:09.000 I'm 30 I'm about to be 31.
01:17:10.000 So I'm not sure.
01:17:11.000 Are you getting older and prettier?
01:17:13.000 Okay, well, I'm getting older.
01:17:14.000 No, I'm not gonna I'm not Benjamin Button, but but the point is you're going upward.
01:17:21.000 And and officers are going downward.
01:17:23.000 You get yeah, but a lot of older women look younger because of you know, Botox and you know everything out there, whatever. 1.00
01:17:31.000 But I mean, I mean, realistically, like when it's my time to find the right person, I'll find them.
01:17:35.000 I'm gonna be real honest with you.
01:17:37.000 Okay, we're gonna pray for you, okay?
01:17:38.000 Um please, thank God.
01:17:40.000 That's funny over spent all that nice.
01:17:42.000 Okay, what about you?
01:17:43.000 Okay.
01:17:44.000 So honestly, it's not even about looks, it's not about age.
01:17:47.000 It's more about really if I yeah.
01:17:50.000 What is what if it's Indian? 0.84
01:17:51.000 What if it's wait age?
01:17:53.000 Indian.
01:17:54.000 Oh, is he Indian? 0.98
01:17:54.000 Oh, I'm open to that too. 0.98
01:17:56.000 Chinese?
01:17:56.000 I'm open to everyone.
01:17:57.000 Let me nationality, yes.
01:17:59.000 Yes.
01:17:59.000 I don't care what race you probably don't see color.
01:18:02.000 I don't see color. 0.95
01:18:03.000 What if he's fat?
01:18:04.000 I also like I like that.
01:18:06.000 Yes, you got a chance to go.
01:18:09.000 I do, I do, I do.
01:18:11.000 But this is the caveat.
01:18:12.000 Well, come here.
01:18:15.000 I'm working, I'm working.
01:18:16.000 Uh we got a friend over here.
01:18:18.000 Sorry, go ahead.
01:18:19.000 No, so I think at the end of the day, my partner has to be savvy and smart enough to save me out of a third world prison.
01:18:26.000 So wow.
01:18:27.000 That's that's you can't.
01:18:29.000 Yeah, I'm trying to figure out what's it love and so. 0.98
01:18:32.000 Yeah, that is fucking specific as hell, bro. 0.97
01:18:37.000 So can you repeat that? 0.99
01:18:38.000 I mean, there's my high IQ here.
01:18:41.000 So that's true.
01:18:42.000 How how was somebody because you're in America right now, right?
01:18:44.000 Yes.
01:18:44.000 How would somebody save you from a third country if you're in America?
01:18:46.000 So, say for instance, we're like, I don't know, in Colombia.
01:18:49.000 Okay.
01:18:52.000 You know, say for instance, like, I don't know, we get moved over, we're trying to go see some. 0.93
01:18:57.000 Because that's the only nigga that's jacked up. 1.00
01:18:59.000 Yeah, he's a whole different country. 0.96
01:19:00.000 You want a Navy Seal for real? 1.00
01:19:01.000 You talk about some extra shit there. 1.00
01:19:05.000 No, no. 1.00
01:19:05.000 If the nigga's fat, how did he get you out of there? 1.00
01:19:07.000 Rolling, rolling, rolling, not rolling. 0.99
01:19:11.000 But that's the craziest part of the COT.
01:19:14.000 I love this.
01:19:15.000 I love this.
01:19:17.000 I you know, it it what I'm trying to test at is resourcefulness.
01:19:21.000 At the end of the day, like what if we're caught in a bind, whether it be in America or not, like how are we gonna solve this together?
01:19:28.000 I done heard a lot of qualifications.
01:19:30.000 That's a crazy hardest one.
01:19:31.000 I like that.
01:19:32.000 That's the hardest one.
01:19:33.000 This this nigga gotta be ready to reveal. 1.00
01:19:35.000 Look, see then he's like, what the fuck? 1.00
01:19:37.000 Oh yeah, come here. 0.99
01:19:40.000 You don't know what's happening right now.
01:19:41.000 Maybe it's him.
01:19:45.000 You're into dogs?
01:19:46.000 Okay, what about you?
01:19:48.000 Tim, I think I want a man who is emotionally intelligent, who has done some healing.
01:19:54.000 I used to work in an ayahuasca church.
01:19:56.000 Really?
01:19:57.000 Yeah.
01:19:57.000 Okay, question.
01:19:58.000 What have you taken ayahuasca?
01:20:00.000 I have.
01:20:00.000 I've sat seven times.
01:20:01.000 Oh well.
01:20:02.000 Okay, so are you like enlightened?
01:20:04.000 Are you like enlightened?
01:20:06.000 Uh I uh that's a big word.
01:20:09.000 I don't that's a big word.
01:20:10.000 I'm he I've got to be.
01:20:12.000 I am.
01:20:13.000 Oh, you oh you've done it?
01:20:15.000 No, no, no.
01:20:16.000 I just want to God, bro.
01:20:19.000 But no no.
01:20:19.000 Um so so okay, he he has to be enlightened.
01:20:22.000 I'm sorry, I'm I guess like uh on your same level.
01:20:24.000 Um I have emotional intelligence.
01:20:27.000 That's it.
01:20:28.000 Uh yeah.
01:20:29.000 What's your type like six foot black, white Asian, Hispanic?
01:20:32.000 Oh, I've dated all over.
01:20:33.000 I date both genders, every shape and size.
01:20:36.000 Okay, what else other than high EQ is?
01:20:40.000 I think that I also think that people there's a connection.
01:20:43.000 Like somebody can be completely your type on a piece of paper.
01:20:45.000 You could check all of the boxes I think I want, but we could hang out, and I s my body would still not want to sleep.
01:20:51.000 True, true.
01:20:52.000 So at that point there has to be that connection, and that's a feeling that you get it or not.
01:20:58.000 The chemistry.
01:20:59.000 Yeah.
01:20:59.000 That's a very good answer.
01:21:00.000 It's very tricky, but okay.
01:21:02.000 What about you?
01:21:03.000 To measure up to your standards.
01:21:04.000 I I said a lot about uh You did say that earlier.
01:21:08.000 Um I do one of the things one of the things that makes dating difficult for me in Miami is that I'm looking to date a Jewish guy.
01:21:16.000 I want to marry a Jewish guy too.
01:21:17.000 Right to raise my children Jewish. 0.98
01:21:20.000 I'm not super religious, it's a cultural thing, and especially with like everything going on in the world, like is it pressure from your parents too as well?
01:21:27.000 No.
01:21:27.000 My mom my mom recently gave me permission to date non-Jew.
01:21:31.000 To like marry someone who's not Jewish. 0.89
01:21:33.000 A black guy is funny. 0.91
01:21:34.000 So no negative. 0.82
01:21:37.000 Oh, sorry.
01:21:38.000 Yeah, she had like a glass of wine and she was like, I gotta tell you a secret, Taylor.
01:21:42.000 Really?
01:21:43.000 She's like, it's okay.
01:21:45.000 It's okay.
01:21:45.000 Cause she knew how hard it's been for me.
01:21:47.000 Yeah.
01:21:48.000 To you know, to find find what I'm looking for.
01:21:51.000 No, but dating in Miami is hard, but adding the Jewish factors. 0.99
01:21:54.000 It's limiting.
01:21:55.000 So um they all have money.
01:21:56.000 So they all are here tricking. 0.98
01:21:59.000 Yo, they're an eleven doing everything, nigga. 1.00
01:22:01.000 You feel what I'm saying? 0.68
01:22:02.000 Sorry, go ahead.
01:22:03.000 It's um but yeah, it's it's important to me.
01:22:06.000 I did date uh like one of my first boyfriends, he wasn't Jewish, and I realized that I want to I don't want to have a Christmas tree in my home. 0.94
01:22:16.000 I want to be like proud.
01:22:18.000 I want to raise my family to my to be proud of their Jewish heritage.
01:22:22.000 Yeah, yeah.
01:22:23.000 Um, and so yeah, I don't want to compromise on that, and I don't want to make anybody give up something that's important to them for me.
01:22:29.000 Like I just want it to be a match for both of us.
01:22:32.000 What do you think about um that yahoo?
01:22:37.000 I don't want to talk about this cool stuff.
01:22:41.000 Is it real?
01:22:41.000 Oh just all right, cool.
01:22:44.000 Um play here.
01:22:48.000 Yeah, this video actually shows um again what we're talking about right now in detail.
01:22:53.000 And it's funny because most women nowadays can't find their match because the standards are way too high, but we'll play it. 0.98
01:23:03.000 If a guy is coming into my space.
01:23:06.000 I'm about to be 25.
01:23:08.000 Do you have a man?
01:23:09.000 No, I've never had a man because my bar is up here, and all I'm receiving these days is uh bare minimum.
01:23:16.000 You're 25 and you've never had a man, you've never been in a relationship.
01:23:20.000 Uh I was plus size till I was 18.
01:23:22.000 But that was what, eight years ago?
01:23:25.000 I'm now come come c come close.
01:23:26.000 I'm about to be 25.
01:23:28.000 That's not that far away.
01:23:29.000 But like when I I got officially slimmer at 19, I was like, okay, everyone's I I'm gonna get a boyfriend. 0.99
01:23:36.000 Everyone just wants to fuck. 1.00
01:23:37.000 Guys like girls with no personality. 1.00
01:23:40.000 I intimidate half of the people I try to entertain.
01:23:45.000 Have you been watching Love Island I Am Amaya?
01:23:47.000 And I won't settle for less. 1.00
01:23:49.000 If I'm not if I'm not the book, you should be reading the don't motherfucking read it, bitch. 1.00
01:23:55.000 Okay, let me ask you. 1.00
01:23:56.000 Take me as you take me.
01:24:00.000 What would you bring to a man's life besides looks?
01:24:02.000 No, no, no, and this is this is the number one thing that people should hear.
01:24:06.000 I can offer myself everything.
01:24:09.000 When I want a man, I need you to be adding to my life because I could sit in my room by myself and enjoy my life.
01:24:16.000 That's not I I'm the prize, my guy.
01:24:19.000 And then I feel like no, hold on, and I feel like I'm not trying to add to anybody's life.
01:24:23.000 I'm a woman.
01:24:24.000 I'm not seeking a man, I'm not seeking that.
01:24:27.000 If a guy is coming into my space and he wants to be with me, I need you to be adding to my life.
01:24:33.000 Because if you're not, I enjoy sitting alone by myself, talking to myself, being alone with myself, and I enjoy it and I love it.
01:24:40.000 Like really men don't bring peace to your life, they bring uh trauma.
01:24:44.000 How old are you?
01:24:45.000 I'm about to think alone.
01:24:49.000 She has a lot of she she she has a lot of personality. 1.00
01:24:52.000 She seems fun.
01:24:53.000 That's why I was so cool.
01:24:54.000 So is she justified?
01:24:56.000 Is she is she actually acting right?
01:24:58.000 You think she can sit alone the rest of her life then, like she said. 1.00
01:25:02.000 I'm dead ass. 1.00
01:25:03.000 What do you think? 1.00
01:25:04.000 Well, luxury doesn't say that it's luxury, so that's just all right.
01:25:10.000 What do you think?
01:25:10.000 I think she's 24 and she's from Miami.
01:25:14.000 25.
01:25:15.000 25 in fact.
01:25:16.000 Get it right, 25.
01:25:16.000 Okay, excuse me.
01:25:17.000 Yeah, yeah.
01:25:19.000 But I do think that that yeah, see, thank you.
01:25:21.000 I do think that uh kind of like what you said, that it's just the perpetual battle, and that a lot of girls at that age that's kind of how they are now.
01:25:31.000 Yeah.
01:25:32.000 I do think that the hookup culture is kind of a problem, and I do think that dating apps are a contributor to that.
01:25:41.000 It's so easy to access, you know, if you are someone who's always looking for the greener grass, then you can do that in the way that the world works.
01:25:51.000 Um so I can understand it being hard and even harder than when I was her age, um, to be in a relationship with someone.
01:26:01.000 But at the same time, uh I I mean I do think that both people need to add to the to the relationship.
01:26:08.000 I don't think that I'm not like I'm princess over here and I'm waiting for you to make to make my life better.
01:26:14.000 But I do think that when it's right, we're elevating each other.
01:26:18.000 So uh this video just shows a lot of stuff where most women nowadays may be single forever. 1.00
01:26:23.000 And it's because standards are way too high.
01:26:25.000 And in her case, no offense.
01:26:26.000 She's men at best. 0.99
01:26:28.000 That's a fucking five or four. 1.00
01:26:30.000 If if you're lucky. 0.99
01:26:31.000 Now, mind you, she is bold and proud about her stance on finding a man.
01:26:37.000 But at the same time, I guarantee you, she's been smashed a couple of times.
01:26:40.000 Now, she didn't say that on camera, but from her actual responses, you can tell, I don't need no man, I'm not skinny man.
01:26:45.000 She'd be smashed a couple couple times. 0.77
01:26:47.000 So, Dom, and this is example here.
01:26:49.000 What do you think she can do to find her man? 1.00
01:26:51.000 She can't. 1.00
01:26:51.000 That bitch is loud, ghetto, insufferable, chopped, and built backwards. 1.00
01:26:57.000 He's setting sufferable. 1.00
01:26:58.000 Nothing that bitch can do, bro. 1.00
01:27:00.000 Bro, you cannot, you cannot be like you can't be louder than the bad bitches. 1.00
01:27:04.000 Yeah, like bro, none of these women are as loud or as annoying as her. 1.00
01:27:07.000 Yeah, and she has way more confidence in them.
01:27:10.000 Yeah, it's crazy.
01:27:11.000 And then she's stuck on her past. 1.00
01:27:12.000 Like the bitch can't even get into the present or even look at the future. 1.00
01:27:16.000 She's chopped. 1.00
01:27:17.000 Prince, what do you think?
01:27:19.000 All right, you know, I you know, I'll be going against the grain.
01:27:22.000 So I'm I'm a I'm a girls' guy, right?
01:27:24.000 I have five sisters.
01:27:26.000 I'll say this.
01:27:27.000 One, beauty's in the eye of the beholder, right? 0.99
01:27:29.000 Not all of our family members are bad bitches. 1.00
01:27:31.000 I know all of us got some not so great people in our chop people in our family, you know what I'm saying? 0.92
01:27:36.000 Um, with that being said, just because someone's not beautiful doesn't mean they don't deserve to be loved.
01:27:43.000 She can have all that personality, and there's gonna be somebody that loves her.
01:27:46.000 I do believe she's a little bit, I think she's exaggerating embellishing this a little bit because she's on camera.
01:27:51.000 Sorry, because she's on camera, this that and the third.
01:27:53.000 But beauty's in the eye of the beholder.
01:27:55.000 Someone's gonna love her for her personality, this that and a third. 1.00
01:27:57.000 She does have a lot going on. 0.99
01:27:58.000 I will say she's also right about everyone wants to fuck. 1.00
01:28:01.000 We all do want to fuck, but some people you'll fuck and you'll end up in a relationship with. 0.99
01:28:05.000 There's a girl that I I fucked with the first time we were together for five years, you know. 0.99
01:28:09.000 Um, but to to bring it all back together, she she is uh I do believe she's doing a lot, but there's someone that's gonna love her for who she is, that personality that she has. 0.96
01:28:16.000 Again, this is just what she's showing for for this camera in front of her homegirl. 1.00
01:28:20.000 But when she's with someone that makes her feel soft or makes her feel some, she might that might tone down a little bit, you know what I'm saying?
01:28:25.000 I think she's just being extra for the camera, but I don't think her being me at mid doesn't mean that she doesn't deserve to get what it is she wants.
01:28:34.000 I think she's just being extra for the camera.
01:28:36.000 I personally think she's being extra for the camera. 0.89
01:28:38.000 So I have I have cousins, you know, they're a little bit like that, and they're they're big, but they're funny, you know, they're not saying they don't think they know they know themselves, they know they're big, they know they're not fucking Tyra Banks and this, that and the third, and they accept it, but they're who they are. 0.66
01:28:50.000 You know what I'm saying? 0.99
01:28:51.000 When they are in a presence of a man that they fuck with, they tone that shit down. 1.00
01:28:54.000 I think if she's goes in the presence of someone she actually fucks with, she'll turn it on. 1.00
01:28:57.000 So this is what you call, I think, wishful thinking. 0.96
01:29:00.000 Because let's be real here.
01:29:02.000 This lady right here, right, bro, um, is cooked. 1.00
01:29:05.000 I mean, I think worse than you.
01:29:07.000 Because in the case, is she drunk or she's sober?
01:29:10.000 I don't know.
01:29:10.000 I don't know what she is right now at the current standard.
01:29:12.000 Yeah, she doesn't seem sober.
01:29:13.000 But let's say she is drunk, what's coming up the truth?
01:29:16.000 So, in essence here, she's saying t telling the world, listen, I don't need no man.
01:29:20.000 I can do everything myself. 1.00
01:29:22.000 Fuck niggas. 1.00
01:29:23.000 I got this. 1.00
01:29:23.000 I'm the bad bitch. 1.00
01:29:24.000 And I get it. 1.00
01:29:25.000 The confidence is there, but to what avail.
01:29:28.000 This just means sick this tells me single old cats.
01:29:32.000 That's what it tells me, bro.
01:29:33.000 And it's crazy that if it would take the right man to tone her down, it's completely unfair to men because we're being told here that men supposed to heal first.
01:29:40.000 So she don't need to.
01:29:42.000 She needs to heal.
01:29:43.000 She has to do that, she has to do that shadow work herself. 0.91
01:29:45.000 She has to be able to heal before she is even approachable.
01:29:48.000 For me, uh, I'm just a little bit more empathetic when it comes to women because I I come from a single mother household where it was just her, you know what I'm saying, and having to raise me and then raise my little sister. 1.00
01:29:58.000 So I just have a little bit more grace for women like this. 1.00
01:30:01.000 I feel like she's just young, you know what I'm saying?
01:30:02.000 She's gonna grow and I I do I I I hear you, but I do feel like there's someone that's gonna soften her up.
01:30:06.000 You know what I'm saying?
01:30:07.000 Someone that's gonna make her that's gonna love her for her, make her feel like she's the only girl in the world, you know what I'm saying? 0.99
01:30:12.000 And all that shit will wash. 0.99
01:30:13.000 But here's the issue though. 1.00
01:30:14.000 Almost 25, right?
01:30:15.000 Going on 30s, if it's too late, who's gonna like for us?
01:30:18.000 It's not too late.
01:30:19.000 She's young.
01:30:20.000 Yeah, but past 30, you're you're getting to that age.
01:30:23.000 Uh no, people.
01:30:24.000 I I work with parents, okay, and these parents are in their 40s having kids right now, having their second child.
01:30:30.000 But that's that is a risky uh.
01:30:32.000 But that is so many parents in Miami that I'm working with.
01:30:36.000 Like it's not just one, it's not just it is the norm.
01:30:39.000 I I understand, but it's still very very risky.
01:30:41.000 They could die, they can't make it.
01:30:43.000 But they're not.
01:30:44.000 I like this is maybe yours, but I know others that work.
01:30:47.000 But that can happen at any that can happen in childbirth at any time. 0.52
01:30:50.000 But it's way higher when they're way older.
01:30:52.000 I'm I'm just saying, right now, she should be humble.
01:30:55.000 No, she actually's drunk, she's having fun, and she's probably in she has some insecurity.
01:31:01.000 Because she's just like, everybody does carry.
01:31:03.000 Yeah, and she's being asked these questions, and yeah, that she's still holding on.
01:31:06.000 She hasn't fully healed from that.
01:31:08.000 And she's trying to like look tough.
01:31:10.000 She's trying to like, she's trying to present herself in a certain way on camera.
01:31:15.000 She doesn't want to be like, oh, I'm desperate.
01:31:16.000 I'm not with somebody.
01:31:17.000 She's uh I've never been with somebody.
01:31:20.000 Poor me.
01:31:21.000 She's like saying that she doesn't need a man to cover for some of that insecurity. 0.77
01:31:26.000 But then even just a little bit.
01:31:28.000 I mean, again, she's she's kind of like OD, but some of the things where she was like, you know, I can do certain things for myself, right?
01:31:33.000 I like I said, I have five sisters. 1.00
01:31:35.000 I don't want none of my sisters fuck with no bum nigga. 1.00
01:31:37.000 I want them to fuck with someone who's gonna love them for them and treat them, give them that little fairy tale fan fantasy that they want. 1.00
01:31:43.000 You know what I'm saying? 1.00
01:31:43.000 But that that's because I have five sisters. 1.00
01:31:45.000 You know, so I I don't think it's wrong for women to be like, hey, if I can go to Saks and buy myself some heels, you know what I'm saying?
01:31:52.000 My nigga, you should be able to do that too.
01:31:53.000 You know, that's just because I'm biased. 0.89
01:31:55.000 I have five sisters. 0.99
01:31:56.000 Which established man that's successful that's worked his ass off to get to the top isn't tolerate that bullshit. 0.99
01:32:02.000 Yeah. 0.99
01:32:02.000 Please. 0.99
01:32:02.000 Oh nah. 0.99
01:32:04.000 But she's not gonna, but she's not gonna get that.
01:32:07.000 You gotta say you you you you you gotta bring she's not gonna get that person.
01:32:12.000 But she's gonna get a personal. 0.95
01:32:14.000 She don't want the nigga at the bottom in the middle. 1.00
01:32:16.000 She wants to get the top. 0.99
01:32:17.000 So dump.
01:32:18.000 Does that make sense?
01:32:19.000 And it doesn't.
01:32:19.000 No.
01:32:20.000 But wait, there's niggas at the top that aren't six four, great looking. 1.00
01:32:23.000 There's some nerdy looking niggas that got bred and they know that they're they're nerds and they gotta pay for pussy, or they don't they don't not everyone that's successful ha is a is a Caesar or a Cedric or you or me, you know what I'm saying? 1.00
01:32:34.000 There's there's there's there's niggas that aren't and they just leave normal lives. 1.00
01:32:37.000 I agree, but what what often she's gonna find out guy he's anywhere that now that's very slim is very slim, yeah.
01:32:44.000 So you know I I have uh three sisters, I don't have five, but at the same time, I have my little sister, and I never prepare her for failure.
01:32:51.000 I'll tell her what a man like me is looking for.
01:32:53.000 You just gotta give them reality.
01:32:55.000 She shouldn't live in a world of delusions.
01:32:57.000 Oh, best believe I get my sister's listen, you might want to go get in a treadmill. 0.90
01:33:00.000 You know what I'm saying?
01:33:01.000 I'll tell my sister.
01:33:02.000 But yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:33:04.000 Just she's not gonna be able to do it. 0.99
01:33:05.000 But if she does, if my sister does decide to say a big bitch, yeah, there's there's there's a nigga that's gonna love her for that. 1.00
01:33:11.000 You know what I'm saying? 0.98
01:33:12.000 But at the same time, we all know that nigga ain't gonna be as good as the one that Mata loved. 0.99
01:33:16.000 She was on the trip mill.
01:33:17.000 I'll tell my sister.
01:33:18.000 You're gonna find love, but you might not find the love that you deserve.
01:33:21.000 You're gonna give up on your dreams the same way that people men give up on their dreams and settle for less.
01:33:26.000 Women do the same thing in love the older they get. 1.00
01:33:29.000 She's got time, she's only 25.
01:33:31.000 You can find a man that loves you.
01:33:32.000 You can find a man that cherishes you, but at the same time, that might be a man that's desperate.
01:33:36.000 It's not a man that has many options, and no woman really wants that. 1.00
01:33:40.000 They want to feel special.
01:33:41.000 You don't feel special when you're talking to someone that's desperate.
01:33:45.000 I think that there's there isn't just I think that it's hard to find the right person for you if you're looking for the if you're looking for the best person for you.
01:33:54.000 I think it shouldn't be easy to find datings about finding all the wrong people until you find the right one.
01:33:59.000 Like, it's I I just don't think that I think that there is gonna be someone out there for her.
01:34:04.000 Maybe he's loud.
01:34:05.000 Maybe he's loud and obnoxious, and that's the person for her.
01:34:08.000 Don, let me ask you something.
01:34:09.000 What is the premise of having a relationship then?
01:34:12.000 Like, what do you what's your what's the central focus of having a good relationship?
01:34:18.000 Um focused on building the empire.
01:34:20.000 Does that include children as well?
01:34:22.000 Yes.
01:34:23.000 What if the what if one partner doesn't want children?
01:34:25.000 That's not a partner for me.
01:34:27.000 It's too easy.
01:34:28.000 I'm not about to force that on her.
01:34:29.000 She got the right to choose to believe how she wants to.
01:34:31.000 It's very important for me.
01:34:32.000 I've worked too hard to let this die with me.
01:34:34.000 Yeah.
01:34:35.000 So I gotta give it to someone.
01:34:36.000 Okay, like that.
01:34:37.000 That's fair.
01:34:41.000 Some sense latent conversation.
01:34:44.000 Yeah, uh sorry about that, guys. 0.87
01:34:45.000 Scream is black.
01:34:46.000 So um, yeah, I I just think, man, like if you want to have a man a certain caliber, you gotta be on uh realize what it really takes to have that man and know what he wants as well, but she's kinda like in her overall, so it's fine.
01:34:56.000 Alright, um chats here or no guys.
01:34:59.000 No.
01:34:59.000 Alright, so we'll do last thoughts on the show and give your comments about the show here.
01:35:03.000 Love it, and then we'll start here.
01:35:05.000 Sorry, what?
01:35:06.000 Thoughts on the show, comments?
01:35:07.000 Like the sh our show, yeah.
01:35:09.000 Okay.
01:35:09.000 Any last comments, any last thoughts, any last uh things you want to say?
01:35:13.000 I found it fun.
01:35:15.000 And I like to hear everybody's different thoughts and uh I don't know, I really I really enjoyed it the dog here that love getting a little bit tired, but having a good yeah, sorry, uh quick slap just made this uh meme says this that ain't Prince, this is Prince.
01:35:38.000 You forgot to bring the pancakes. 0.79
01:35:39.000 How you funny, nigga. 1.00
01:35:40.000 Screw your dog. 1.00
01:35:41.000 You know what's funny too. 1.00
01:35:42.000 I thought you said French Prince CEO the uh my nickname was Fresh Princess Salveach when I really damn.
01:35:48.000 I was a huge uh Fresh Prince of Bel Air fan.
01:35:50.000 Me too.
01:35:51.000 Until he got uh destroyed by J Picker Smith. 0.63
01:35:54.000 I actually I actually auditioned to to play uh Fresh Prince when they were doing the reboot on on Peacock, but I just didn't get picked.
01:36:00.000 Oh man you been in a bunch of shows, alright?
01:36:02.000 Yeah, I've been in a bunch of shows.
01:36:03.000 Which one's you been on?
01:36:04.000 Uh Love and Hip Hop Miami, Bad Boys, Eric Menis dating show.
01:36:08.000 I'm leaving uh I'm leaving again in January to film the third season of Bad Boys. 0.99
01:36:11.000 Oh shit. 0.98
01:36:13.000 Uh huh. 1.00
01:36:14.000 That's where I seen you in the movie.
01:36:15.000 Yeah, yeah, yeah.
01:36:20.000 See, huh?
01:36:21.000 At least our dogs, we don't shock. 1.00
01:36:23.000 Shock the hero man, Hasanny piece of shit, bro. 1.00
01:36:26.000 Shock your dog on camera, bro. 1.00
01:36:27.000 Fucking weirdo. 1.00
01:36:28.000 Uh hero's good though. 1.00
01:36:29.000 Okay, what about you?
01:36:30.000 Thoughts on the show.
01:36:31.000 Oh, I thought it was great.
01:36:32.000 I I think it's really interesting to hear all of the different opinions, and especially I'm not from Miami, I'm from a little bit more North Florida.
01:36:39.000 And I know that the culture down here is so different.
01:36:43.000 So it's just interesting.
01:36:44.000 Thank you for coming.
01:36:45.000 Thank you.
01:36:46.000 I might try wait, what's it called?
01:36:48.000 I wonder.
01:36:48.000 IOSC.
01:36:50.000 I'm just kidding, I won't try it.
01:36:51.000 Uh but I love you.
01:36:52.000 I actually, you know, was underestimating the show.
01:36:55.000 I actually overestimated the show because I was like, oh my god, they're gonna be aggressive, you know.
01:36:59.000 I'm a feminist, I'm a liberal, and they're gonna come for me, and then I guess not.
01:37:03.000 I mean, I think it was pretty nice.
01:37:04.000 Well no, you were saved this show.
01:37:06.000 Uh my my other half is is abroad right now.
01:37:11.000 So you were saved this show.
01:37:13.000 I love it.
01:37:14.000 I'm a nice guy.
01:37:15.000 He is too, but he's just very direct.
01:37:17.000 Uh what about you?
01:37:18.000 I liked it.
01:37:18.000 I liked hearing everyone's different perspective on uh relationship statuses and situations.
01:37:23.000 Yeah.
01:37:24.000 I'm glad you stayed.
01:37:25.000 Shout out to you.
01:37:25.000 Yeah.
01:37:26.000 Ladies, uh some history here, but uh we won't get into it.
01:37:30.000 We won't get into it.
01:37:31.000 Um so fellas, thank you for watching, man.
01:37:33.000 We'll be back on uh Monday uh for after hours and of course uh money Mondays.
01:37:38.000 And Dom, where can I find you, brother?
01:37:40.000 On Twitch, Dom Lucre, Twitter, uh YouTube, all other social.
01:37:44.000 Prince, where can I find you?
01:37:45.000 Prince has spoken um on Twitch on Poppy Rose, a two eyes.
01:37:48.000 Um hey, appreciate you for having me, bro.
01:37:50.000 Of course, bro.
01:37:50.000 I was I've looked so honestly I was looking forward to my review.
01:37:53.000 I thought we were gonna have a little, you know what I'm saying?
01:37:55.000 But he would have came back at you for sure.
01:37:56.000 I know for sure I was waiting for it.
01:37:58.000 So uh thank you for watching, fellas.
01:37:59.000 We're out of here, man.
01:38:00.000 And guys, once again, podcast on YouTube, 305 podcasts.
01:38:04.000 Look at it right there on screen.
01:38:05.000 Go sub to that channel, tank it on the way.
01:38:07.000 Let's go.
01:38:07.000 Peace, we're out of here.