In this episode, we have a special guest, D.L. Dupree, a realtor from Denver, CO. We talk about her life growing up, how she got into real estate, and her thoughts on birth control.
00:05:36.000You don't got to put them on in here All right,
00:05:54.000we're alive what's up guys welcome to pressure podcast man, we got home math in the house, man So what we're gonna do is since we got a special guest here guys is I'm gonna go ahead and just go right into the intros Chris,
00:06:12.000get your chats in now yep because obviously as you guys know the show continues on it goes up so get them in now while you guys can and we'll read them after the first set of questions so I guess we can What do you got?
00:10:40.000Speaking of Texas, I will be in Texas tomorrow guys Tune in to Info Wars 1 p.m.
00:10:45.000And then again at I think 5 or 6 gonna be on Alex Jones That's gonna be a good time.
00:10:49.000So we're no debrief and no Well, there's a fresh for tomorrow anyway, but no no debrief tomorrow guys.
00:10:54.000So that's where I'll be tomorrow Okay, what do you do for work?
00:10:57.000You said you said so I was on a Netflix show reality TV I have a couple other things lined up and then you know I model a little bit, I'm getting into editorial, and then I have a business, Savage Seller, that is currently being developed right now.
00:11:11.000Okay, what's your predominant form of income then?
00:11:53.000It's not like a dating show, because I didn't want to go out and like...
00:11:57.000My grandma watches that so I I was like my first Netflix show I don't want it to be me like being like a thotty on TV So I needed to like mature a little bit before I got into the world.
00:12:07.000Interesting. Doin' big things, alright.
00:12:36.000All right, you know me originally from Detroit, Michigan and Tennessee two kids don't want more I'm divorcing and engaged I do real estate a little bit of modeling here and there body count is too much to count And, uh, yeah, that's pretty much about me.
00:13:43.000So not too far away Yeah, well just enough to like be cool calm and collected and come down 30 minutes just to party All right, and you said highest education was what?
00:13:56.000So I did one year at AIU for business management.
00:16:49.000No, they divorced after 30 years of marriage great damn And then let's just say you said five years and Ohio's education level completed a high school And then birth control for you, no, no, yes, no, all right, so you're black you're black you're Caucasian, right? Oh, I'm a third Greek to suck out Okay, you're white too or full Caucasian Hispanic?
00:18:28.000Uh, probably a year and a half Engaged and then I was single for about six to eight months and before that I was with the same man for eight years.
00:18:37.000Do you want me to have them tell you what it was like before they got into the relationship or just deal with the single girls?
00:18:42.000I guess just deal with the single ones.
00:18:44.000I'm kind of interested in how it's going like right now.
00:20:28.000Our show came out in September, so we've definitely gotten used to it a lot more now.
00:20:33.000It's taken some time and I think we're just gonna everyone's gonna learn so we're literally young 24, 25. Yeah that is pretty young.
00:20:41.000I guess I don't see a direct connection between like I understand that being in the public eye would be stressful like you know I'm not showing my face for a reason I don't want to deal with it but like does that it makes you not think the relationship is stable or you're waiting for something to solidify first?
00:20:57.000It's definitely stable but I don't think we want to Like hold each other back in the sense of career because like say one of us did get asked to go on Maybe not even something dating, but just something where you have to interact or be intimate with another girl Oh, so you don't want to get that?
00:21:14.000I would much rather us deal with that privately than have to announce to the whole world that oh, I'm jealous I don't want to see him kissing another girl on another Like even if it's a scripted show like I think we both just want to be able to like deal with it privately right now Okay, you have to appear available for your careers Not technically cuz I'm over here on this huge podcast basically spilling the beans But mainly just for the fans that keep up we don't want to it's a lot of pressure I don't want to and they're all like what's a 13 year olds or like 50 year old no in between like
00:21:44.000They're invested that is it is complicated.
00:21:51.000I do find interesting though that she said that like social media affects the men like you I think maybe that's the men that you deal with, because they're in the public limelight, but like, would you say like, or do you even look at regular guys anymore at this point?
00:22:06.000I mean, I give, honestly, I don't even know how I give, like, I look, I look at everybody, I guess, I don't really think it's like, looks, but I do say social media, it's not just, oh, it affects the men, I think subconsciously it's affecting everybody, we see, you, like, Girls and boys.
00:22:20.000I'll see a hot guy with the chiseled abs, feet after, like, scroll, scroll, scroll, scroll.
00:22:24.000You'll see hot girl, BBL, Facetune, edit.
00:22:26.000And so then whenever you meet somebody in real life, and they're not fitting that image, no matter what you think that you're doing, subconsciously...
00:22:33.000But your argument is that, like, social media, like, your stance.
00:22:38.000Your position is like, oh, Instagram is problematic for both genders.
00:22:45.000Yeah, I mean I think it's definitely problematic for both genders I'm not sure if what you're getting at Myron is that like?
00:22:51.000Women get a lot of benefits from it and most men don't yeah, I was saying what I'm trying to say is that It's only really I would argue It's more negative only for the women mostly and what I mean by that is like For the men like the promise she's saying like oh men are really into social media, and they have so many options We don't benefit from those options whatsoever on social media.
00:23:44.000I think that messes with your mind so bad.
00:23:46.000That's why there's, like, little scientific studies about the negative effects of porn.
00:23:51.000And you can find porn on normal social media sites now.
00:23:53.000So are the attractive guys not watching any, you think?
00:23:56.000I don't think it matters if you're attractive or not.
00:23:58.000I think it just matters, like, what you believe.
00:24:00.000That's why I really try not to just, like, look at somebody by their face.
00:24:03.000Like, I also am a Christian, so one thing that I will not negotiate on in a relationship is somebody that does not know God, because if you don't know God, you don't know love.
00:24:11.000And you can't love me if you don't know what love is, which is God.
00:24:14.000Which is kind of crazy, because, like, I am party and crazy and fun, but, like, you can still have morals.
00:25:06.000I have literally struggled, starved, been dead broke at my lowest.
00:25:11.000I have nothing to turn to except for God.
00:25:14.000It is the only thing that has gotten me sitting in this chair right here, and I will proudly speak that.
00:25:19.000Amen. Do you think that God has stuff that he wants you to do, though?
00:25:24.000I don't know what you think God is, but when you say you have a relationship with God, it sounds to me like you're saying it's kind of like all benefits.
00:25:35.000Okay, well, I don't think there's stuff you have to do.
00:25:37.000It's definitely relationship versus religion.
00:25:39.000I don't look at it It's like oh you have to check off all the boxes to do it.
00:25:42.000It's like your faith in God, but honestly I feel like accepting God like yes, there's benefits, but if anything it comes with a lot more Negatives because you're having to completely give it give up everything that you've known your whole life sent everything that feels fun That feels good and so it's like what's like I wouldn't be following God if I was just trying to have fun and trying to benefit.
00:26:02.000If I was trying to benefit, I would go start an OnlyFans, make a fuck ton of money, and just live drinking and partying and doing what I want.
00:26:08.000But I decided to choose the hard route, the good route, and I feel like that's going to pay off way more in the end.
00:26:13.000And even if it doesn't, at least I lived a life of honesty.
00:26:55.000I feel like right now, I'm past that age where I wanna, like you guys said, goddamn, I'm 29, so I feel like right now I wanna, I do wanna settle down, so I'm working on me and my career, and just becoming the person I wanna be for my future kids and future husband.
00:27:13.000So, like, dating seems not really as fun as it used to be, because it used to be fun.
00:28:24.000All right, yeah, that's that's yeah The the kind of the meme going around, you know having fun young and then wanting to settle down, but I mean you're 29. It's not Yeah, are you married me no My my life history is all all written Are you trying to be funny nigga?
00:28:50.000Yeah, it's like it's like the movie hitch, you know, I get it but it doesn't work for me I know what women want.
00:29:16.000Yeah good All right, so as far as the dating scene goes I do see what the other two girls have said But I also feel like there's definitely good guys still out there I'm the problem Yeah,
00:29:34.000what are you doing wrong you're a queen what the fuck Like there's good guys out there that will do okay There's guys out there that'll treat you really well and do this is that and the other but it's like if you don't feel it The connection right?
00:29:59.000Yeah, you don't want to waste each other's time.
00:30:02.000So would you say that you you're You're never feeling it for the guys who treat you that way and you do you ever feel it for guys who don't?
00:30:12.000No, like I think I'm just traumatized from my How long were you married for?
00:30:23.000Um, we never technically got divorced.
00:33:06.000Yeah, I was just kind of curious, like how many younger women out there are living that kind of lifestyle?
00:33:11.000It seems really popular online, but of course it seems popular online because that's where it's all happening.
00:33:16.000Do you have like a lot of friends who do it?
00:33:18.000No, I would say I'm definitely a lone wolf because there's people that do it and there's people that actually are good at it Everybody don't say they do it if they're getting money from somewhere else and you can kind of do whatever you want But when you're like depending on that as your source of income, it's like a way different game And I think you take it a lot more serious.
00:33:33.000She probably understands that I'm just acting for fun or modeling for fun.
00:33:39.000Like you're paying your bills with that face.
00:33:41.000Yeah All right Alright, so I mean it sounds like, this is just like it's not at all different from what I'm seeing, you know, because it's been a while since I've been on the market.
00:33:52.000It's not different at all from what people are saying on TikTok and all the social media and everything.
00:33:59.000It just sounds kind of, I don't know, it's sad.
00:34:02.000Is that, would that be a good descriptor?
00:34:46.000Like, people aren't gonna be able to tell their kids what they look like.
00:34:49.000I was thinking if somebody's gonna Photoshop themselves AI with a celebrity when they're older and tell their kids they married Justin Bieber, and everybody's gonna believe them.
00:36:41.000So from the time I started, I have 12. From the time that I started, three months from my 18th birthday, I met my kid's dad and I was with him.
00:36:54.000And then I left him and I was single for like two years before I met my husband.
00:36:58.000So in between that time, it was a few.
00:37:00.000And then I got married and was with him forever.
00:37:03.000And then when I got single, it was like the first time actually like being around other people.
00:37:09.000So I guess it was like a little while.
00:37:11.000And then after him, I got into a relationship.
00:39:48.000Anywho, yeah, so my first baby daddy, I was engaged to him and he was black and then two years I was single and I dated and then I met my husband that was white and then I dated again and now my fiance is black.
00:40:43.000I just want to hear your perspectives on, like, what do you think is coming in the future based on what you've seen in the dating market in specific and society in general in the last few years?
00:41:30.000I was saying, my position is that The negatives that come from online dating and social media don't affect men as profoundly as women.
00:41:38.000Because we don't get as many options as you guys do.
00:41:41.000So, in other words, if we get a match, we're far more likely to meet up with that girl and go on a date with her.
00:41:47.000When you guys get a match, there's a very low likelihood you're going to go on a date with that guy.
00:41:52.000Because since you guys have more options, and you have an easier ability to attract the opposite gender, you guys can go ahead and be as selective as you want.
00:42:40.000That doesn't apply to dating because if you don't have confidence and if you see what other people you're gonna get jealous and you're gonna get crazy and you're gonna stalk everything that they do and they're following and they're likes.
00:42:48.000If you're seeing all these other girls, you're gonna like not trust your partner because you're scared that they're doing what you see all Don't you think that's connected to the validation though?
00:42:58.000If you're seeing all the hot girls online and you're comparing yourself to it, isn't the antidote to that getting more attention validation for yourself?
00:43:07.000Isn't that what makes those bad feelings go away?
00:43:10.000My guess, I feel like the main thing is just comparison.
00:43:13.000I'm not gonna lie, I mastered the art of comparison my whole Algorithm is memes and godly content.
00:43:18.000I can't look at other one, but I know everybody else.
00:43:20.000I know it's an epidemic I know so many girls that struggle with relationships because they compare themselves to everybody they see online relationships.
00:43:26.000They see online single people They see online.
00:43:29.000That's how I like one of them, but here's the thing like The reality is like though you might sit there and say oh, I'm not as pretty as this girl that doesn't I don't think that Okay, I'm not saying you in general.
00:43:40.000I'm saying in general Because you're saying that's a hiccup for a lot of women, is their inability to find peace with where they stand compared to other women, right?
00:43:59.000You can make a dating profile, men are going to send you a message and match with you.
00:44:03.000Like, that has absolutely no bearing whatsoever on your ability to attract a partner.
00:44:08.000Most hot girls are the least approached because people don't even see themselves.
00:44:13.000I mean, they're they're scared of getting rejected from it anyways Yes, like you're either really freaking ugly and two things true at once I think there are hard girls out there and there are men that are scared to approach them trust me I know that but I think if we're talking about Probability more than possibility.
00:44:29.000I think or what happens more is What Myron is saying is absolutely correct.
00:44:50.000I have no idea where home mouth is from.
00:44:51.000Okay, but where do y'all be hanging at that women always feel the need to put themselves against other women?
00:44:57.000Because if you're that girl, regardless of where you're at...
00:45:02.000That's just a natural yeah, that's something It's natural to feel insecure, but your guys are saying that people don't talk to y'all whether you're hot or you're not I'm saying not just guys are having it like girls are not just the ones that are like Having so having it so easy online.
00:45:17.000Yeah fine, man, but the thing is Y'all will man y'all will befriend a guy so quick without giving him a chance So you telling me ain't nobody in your DMS right now that you He's
00:46:24.000I think, if I've got this all right, that what we're saying here is that the effects of social media are, they make women feel a lot of negative things, they make them feel a lot of insecurity.
00:46:33.000That affects the way that you interact with men.
00:46:37.000When Myron said that it doesn't matter, what he's talking about is it doesn't affect your situation.
00:46:41.000It doesn't affect how men perceive you, it affects how you perceive yourself.
00:47:04.000No matter if it's a man at the gas station that's going to wipe his name.
00:47:10.000So what he's saying is that it's harder for men because he, as a man, they will try to reach out to y'all and y'all say nothing to them whereas a woman has a big pickin' and she choose to pick one out of the bundle.
00:47:38.000You decide to pick which one you want to talk to based off of what he look like, based off of what he drive and based off the money that he has.
00:49:08.000All right, man, so y'all just not it because a regular female I lived in three different states.
00:49:17.000I lived in Detroit, Michigan I lived in Tennessee and I lived in Miami if you're if you have that type of vibe and energy with bare face Hair-looking gay mess at the gas station.
00:49:54.000I think y'all cannot understand it from a man's perspective.
00:50:09.000If you actually sit down and listen to a man that is telling you these are the things that they go through, you don't even want to put yourself in their perspective to understand it.
00:50:31.000He's really trying to explain it to y'all in latent turns.
00:50:35.000In latent turns that he's saying it is harder for a man Not speaking on all men because he also did not say on all women that it's harder for him to go online Reach out to a woman.
00:50:48.000He may be interested in because women have so many men that 10 minutes doing this?
00:51:24.000And talking in general, really, with a low voice does not mean you made any sense from the beginning when we started the conversation before the five minutes that we've been here.
00:51:34.000You did, because I cannot believe that it's women that's this dense.
00:51:38.000This is why I don't have girls that's friends because y'all are very much dense.
00:51:43.000You're very much thinking whatever you're saying.
00:51:47.000If both of us are on the same level and she's sitting next to me, She's quiet she's been more quiet than y'all but she's Understanding what he's trying to say just because I'm being loud and I'm more of a verbal person I'm just like trying to get y'all to understand it like in a kindergarten Alright Queens, hold on Queens, hold on.
00:52:16.000I wasn't sure what you were arguing about just then.
00:53:10.000Maybe a visual representation will show them how drastic the difference is between the two.
00:53:17.000Basically, this is the first graph chart that I created, and it shows how people relate to each other when they know each other and when they don't.
00:53:27.000Um, women are very, very picky with men that they don't know.
00:53:30.000Maybe you've heard of proximity attraction.
00:53:32.000Uh, when you're around a man for a long enough time, you start thinking of him as a potential mate, but if he crosses you on the street, uh, you, you won't.
00:53:39.000The social media has, you know, we used to live in, like, farm towns, and everybody knew each other, and things made sense, and now everyone is on the phone, so it's just all that all the time.
00:53:49.000Um, that is, uh, What's creating that dynamic?
00:55:15.000If everyone's gonna scream at two people about the same opinion, of course everyone's gonna agree with the majority, right?
00:55:20.000'Cause you guys are just all in the one brain mentality right now.
00:55:22.000It makes sense because there's everyone's like, "What, what, what, what, what, what, what, what, what?" If y'all are like, "Why can't you understand "their own opinions?" I wish you guys would have more.
00:58:11.000That's where this led to, so that's where we're tying back to.
00:58:12.000Okay, well, this is the questions we're asking now.
00:58:15.000I've got a question that can go in a different direction.
00:58:21.000So my question is then, since we were talking about who has it harder based on social media, what What do you remember about how your self-image and your relationship to relationships changed because of social media?
00:58:47.000Like, it hasn't been around so long that you guys have been on it all your lives, right?
00:59:45.000Addiction or it was just too much too fast at the same time.
00:59:50.000Yeah, but DM's Well first when I started in middle school, it was Instagram not Instagram myspace So even then I will post a picture too many people commented too many people like I will log off for three four days at a time But that was for me personally because I was used to being a child that needs to be outside And to the streetlights, come on, when you come inside you eat dinner and you go to sleep.
01:00:17.000It wasn't waking up, being on social media, going to school, being on social media, going to sleep.
01:00:23.000It's probably just because it's a different time frame as well.
01:00:27.000I got a kind of like a decade over them.
01:00:29.000At my time we were still using pagers.
01:01:08.000Facebook is when it started getting bad.
01:01:10.000Yeah, but I didn't really have Facebook for a while because I was married at the time and me and my husband had agreed that, you know, we weren't going to do that.
01:01:19.000Eventually we did and then we had each other's logins and all that mess, so...
01:01:25.000Okay, so it didn't really change much for you because you were married then?
01:01:28.000Right. So then for everybody, you know regardless of when you adopted social media What do you what impact do you think it's had on your life?
01:01:36.000Like I guess what I'm trying to ask is what do you how do you think this the dating problem?
01:01:40.000That we all agree on would be different if it wasn't here if there was social media was just banned tomorrow People actually have to get to know each other Yeah Based off of his shoes.
01:01:52.000We see it all the time on a red balloon podcast.
01:01:55.000Yo sideburns is crazy swipe balloon Yeah.
01:01:58.000Baby, but if he's within five miles and single of you and you have no social media, guess who you're gonna like?
01:03:07.000I could demand the best man because I have a lot of men that want me.
01:03:11.000So that's why they behave the way that they do.
01:03:13.000So when you guys say the things that you say about, oh, well, social media affects both genders the same.
01:03:18.000That's not true whatsoever, because with men, We don't get nearly the same amount of attention on social media as you guys do.
01:03:25.000An average woman gets more DMs, more attention, more validation, and more opportunity on social media for dating than a top-tier guy in the 1%.
01:06:19.000There's women and men on social media giving props to women who are fours, posting their butt on social media, commenting on their posts, and girls thinking they want to marry them, and they don't.
01:06:30.000It still is a part of the man, because if they wouldn't gas everybody's head up, if they would not gas, they must sew up Par women, heads up.
01:06:40.000Everybody wanna believe they bad bitches.
01:06:42.000Right. Then the girl be like, oh, you trying to come talk to me?
01:07:25.000I don't know what escorts and prostitutes do, but I'm just saying when I was growing up, I had seen a lot of gorilla face looking women with nice bodies.
01:07:33.000That will go around saying they a bad bitch, and I'm like you're not though like even not you you can't What and they're like oh, but this nigga trick on me cuz he won't pussy, but if he didn't Bring back the old ways I wanted to ask Who's
01:08:05.000Because we're going back and forth talking about, well, men have this and women have that, and we're affected this way, you're affected that way.
01:08:34.000If men said, just because you showed your ass on Instagram, I ain't gonna give you $10, that bitch probably gonna look at herself twice in the mirror.
01:08:42.000You think every guy has that amount of opportunity?
01:08:46.000They don't have the mentality because they like women that sexualize.
01:09:59.000It's men's responsibility to stop simping and you know, I don't know how to get them to do that.
01:10:05.000Isn't it women's responsibility to stop exposing themselves to things that make them get the ick?
01:10:13.000I think it was you that brought that up earlier, right?
01:10:14.000Like everything gives you the ick now?
01:10:16.000If you stop looking at women and they would stop going for that attention, that next thing One girl will start, it may be a little jiggle, the next one gonna be her ass.
01:10:25.000She gonna see more views and she gonna go a little bit next because the man gonna be bored.
01:10:30.000He seen your ass, now he gonna be more excited if he see your chest too.
01:10:34.000If men stop, I'm gonna tell you right now, women gonna look at themselves differently.
01:11:17.000Like, is it really like men can just stop it by making a decision?
01:11:24.000For girls who show they selves on the internet, the girls will stop a little bit less.
01:11:28.000If they paid attention more to the women that's actually handling they selves correctly and uplifting the women that's keeping it closed and without revealing they selves, that's where everybody else.
01:11:39.000Women just try to be hip to the trend.
01:13:07.000Yes. The biggest and strongest gonna smash?
01:13:09.000100%. So my thing is, you're saying it's on the men's onus to change completely.
01:13:14.000I would argue women make it easy because they come into the den, showing thirst traps, showing the body, and then men react to it naturally because they're hungry.
01:14:25.000Not for somebody coming shooting up my car because you over here been up there playing at the strip club and she think you, she in love with you.
01:20:17.000Have y'all heard of the phrase, pick me up, pick me girl?
01:20:20.000If so, define it, and what's your thoughts on it?
01:20:22.000Also, I've heard, I'm sure y'all haven't heard, but have y'all heard of the phrase, get me girl?
01:20:28.000It's basically a counter pick, counter to a pick me girl.
01:20:31.000Okay, so if you heard the phrase pick-me-girl it's so define it Pick me by itself not pick-me-girl.
01:20:38.000I'm pretty sure it's the same thing Pick-me-girl is somebody that's gonna do whatever he says no matter what even if it goes against our morals and character That's the reason for it being a pick-me-girl versus just being a pick-me-in-general if they said pick-me-in-general you can say Yeah, but it is non-gender fluid.
01:22:29.000Wait, how is he on my ass if he's not- Okay, blasphemous how, I'm sorry, but what I say about my relationship with God, you don't have to understand it, and I don't care.
01:22:38.000I literally don't care what anybody in the comments says about me disrespecting my religion.
01:22:42.000I came on here with good intentions, so literally, keep the comments coming, keep paying because- And I love you, so bye.
01:22:51.000Same positive like it gas God forgave prostitutes When it was time to decide a mother for his son he picked the virgin be like God Then I get spin My told me says that dirty pirate has nice tits.
01:23:11.000Oh she left Damn we should run a little sooner.
01:23:16.000All right, well this one Eric I Myron, I fell into alcoholism after my time in the army, but I'm back in the gym, and I sell aerospace parts, airplane and helicopter parts to the military.
01:25:00.000And I truly do, the more I do this podcast, the more I'm like, holy shit, thank God we got men in power.
01:25:07.000These people, ancient civilizations clearly saw this from before.
01:25:10.000Because some girls get it, but you guys still have Maybe you had a little bit of a grasp of it But you still don't understand certain things like you understood the concept of men have less options than women on social media But then you also said well You know big women are not gonna be tolerating infidelity or whatever which I kind of understand that but I Don't think you understand that like when men have money and power They just have women that's just what it is.
01:25:36.000Okay, but she has to be accepting of it.
01:25:39.000She has to be accepted She wants to stay in a relationship knowing that he is a massive cheater because her bills is paid That is a choice that she makes he can dump her anytime and find somebody else is willing to live with that lifestyle But it's ultimately what you want to put up with Understandable.
01:25:55.000Yeah, but what I'm trying to explain to you is that As women go up the social totem pole and get with a higher status man, they have less leverage.
01:26:25.000Yeah, that one's like hard because women are starting to come up on that but the who I was dealing with I would say he was scarcer Okay, but I also will say that he said this is what he wanted After we started to become intimate and I said I wasn't okay with it if he would have been up front with me at first I wouldn't have chosen him at all Okay, money ain't the main money ain't it?
01:26:49.000And the other thing too is that right like I'm just telling you what they're going to do.
01:26:53.000And the other thing also is that like women don't have the same leverage that they think they do.
01:26:57.000Like a guy that has money and status is going to do what he wants and then you got to choose if you want to accept it or not.
01:27:02.000But I would argue if you're with a guy that's super successful and he has other women and you leave, I don't think that's an intelligent decision because the next guy is going to cheat too.
01:27:48.000That's not truthful, that's not honest, that does not mean great character.
01:27:52.000Because if you really big like you say you is, you'll tell me the truth and I'll still stay.
01:27:56.000But you just- But you said earlier, yeah, if you told me the truth you wouldn't have gotten into a relationship.
01:27:59.000But what I'm saying is, if he would have told me the truth, he gave me the option to say that.
01:28:05.000He gave me the option, but lying to me up front and then me finding out about it later, for me to leave you, that's not being honest and truthful up front.
01:28:13.000I would still leave, whether he was a millionaire or not.
01:28:16.000Yeah, but he got sex, so he got what he wanted.
01:29:04.000So, I just find it funny because at each reset that you do, where you find a new guy, you try to find a new guy, you're getting older, I'm gonna say this and I don't want any interruption.
01:30:09.000Now, on the flip side, for a man, if you have your shit together, if you're attractive, if you have status, if you have money, we are the pickers.
01:30:17.000Feminism has made you guys think that you guys have the power when you really don't.
01:30:21.000It's the top tier men that have all the power.
01:30:23.000We're the ones that give out the rings.
01:30:24.000You guys think you have power because you have a lot of guys talking to you and giving you options, and you think, oh my god, this guy in Dubai wants me, oh my god, I got an opportunity over here, oh my god, my dating app is full, oh my god, right?
01:30:34.000But the reality is you guys don't have the leverage you guys think you do.
01:31:05.000So female selectivity is 100% contingent upon what else they have in the back burner.
01:31:11.000The reason why you guys are so insufferable and you're rude and you're dismissive to a majority of men is because you guys think that you have a lot of options, but the reality is you don't.
01:31:36.000You know what's gonna happen from here?
01:31:37.000You will never be able to go backwards.
01:31:39.000Every guy that you deal with from this point forward will have to be in entertainment, in media, or have some type of status at least on your level or make more money than you.
01:33:11.000Like, what makes you think that any women that thinks like this is self-centered or selfish and desperate and attention-seeking and options like that's the only reason I come across self-centered because I'm giving a different point of view from maybe a woman that is not a Miami 304 thotty like I come on here to give a different perspective no I'm not a little thotty so I'm gonna come on here and give my POV that's what you ask everybody wants to hear the different perspectives you're asking so I'm gonna say that doesn't mean I'm self-centered you're asking yeah Have you ever met a guy,
01:33:40.000at least once, that you was like, you know what, that was like a good guy?
01:33:45.000Oh, I've had my heart broken before, yeah.
01:34:27.000Oh sure, you mean so like about the relationship?
01:34:30.000Yes. Um, just be really, really clear on what you want, and be really clear on also how it's affecting you.
01:34:36.000Like, be honest with yourself about that, because it's so easy to just be in a relationship because it feels good, and to tell yourself that it's gonna be good for you, or that at least it's not gonna damage you, but they do.
01:34:47.000They, you know, I don't know if you've ever heard the metaphor about tape, that every time you stick it and unstick it, it gets less sticky, but that's how it worked for me, so...
01:34:56.000I don't know how that world works, but just, I guess, be careful with yourself, is the advice I would give.
01:35:05.000Look, women in entertainment almost never can get in long-term satisfying relationships.
01:35:13.000And the reason why is once you get into entertainment, you get that social status, you get that money, very few men qualify.
01:35:20.000And the men that do qualify for you can have other women.
01:35:22.000So unless you're willing to be on a guy's roster, You're not gonna get the monogamy that you're looking for because women that are entertainment are chronically Unhappy and unsatisfied with the 99% of men and the guys that qualify don't just want you they want multiple women That's the cold hard reality Homath is being a lot nicer about it than I am.
01:36:23.000I think more of the problem when it comes to dating, there's definitely a problem, but I think too many women more so, men too, people are dating people they don't really like or are attracted to people that don't like them back.
01:37:38.00020 to 29. That's why the Somalian bitch is so angry, because we went ahead and hit some of the realities here.
01:37:43.000She's overweight, 29 years old, her mom's telling her to get married, but she has this liberal agenda because she lives in fucking Toronto, bunch of leftist retards over there, she thinks she can push the clock back, but she knows that she can't.
01:37:52.000Right? So this conversation obviously is very triggering.
01:37:55.000Because I know that part of the world and how they think.
01:37:57.000They probably roast her every single time she has a family meeting.
01:38:25.000Every guy she's dealing with now is going to have to make money, be famous, or have something really good going for them because their standards are going to go up.
01:38:31.000Because she's around top tier guys all the time.
01:38:42.000Like, so many women out here are pursuing jobs, making all this money, chasing the ladder, and it's just like, they can fire you in an instant.
01:39:18.000We're just saying it in a very different way.
01:39:20.000Myron's being much more aggressive about it, but it's just like, yeah, you know, just be aware that you're putting your pair-bonding ability in a piranha pit in that industry.
01:40:44.000I don't think they should be able to work.
01:40:46.000I think they should be staying at home and focusing on kids.
01:40:48.000I think a big problem, the reason why we have so many societal issues we have, is through feminism and through by letting women vote and be involved in the electoral process.
01:41:34.000You only would rather be home now that you've entered the workforce and you understand what it's like to, by a fraction by the way, what it's like to be a man.
01:41:41.000Now you guys want to be home, but too late.
01:41:44.000But I'm not saying, I'm not saying for me as an individual.
01:41:46.000I'm saying for people that Get wife up and getting engaged to we understand the importance of the woman.
01:41:52.000Everybody plays the role I play the role within the house.
01:41:55.000He goes outside and work right now I don't have to work like it's the option for me to go and work because he works so much But what I'm saying is it's not more men that's willing to just take care of one household So we don't want to be out.
01:42:10.000Well not saying for me because I don't have that option But women would rather not have to go to a daily struggle, go get yelled at by a manager for what they're not doing right, besides the man.
01:42:20.000Yeah, you're speaking from 20-20 hindsight because you're 32 years old.
01:42:26.000Young women are lied to and told feminism is great, work a job, make a bunch of money, and you can go ahead and find your husband at the end of the road.
01:42:34.000And the reality is that's not going to happen.
01:42:36.000If you pursue your career, you're going to have to be willing to forego a family and children.
01:43:40.000But I'm just saying, it's not us, it's not our generation that chose this.
01:43:45.000But we stuck with the leftovers, with people and unks that think it's okay to be a YN and you're 50. Well, the thing is, is that You guys want to be treated like ladies but at the same time you guys want to be treated like an equal and that's just not how it works.
01:43:59.000If you want me to open a door for you and give you chivalry, then you're gonna be beneath me and I'm gonna tell you what to do.
01:44:06.000But the problem is that women want to be bosses, but at the same time be pampered by a man.
01:44:13.000The whole purpose of chivalry and being a gentleman is because men were supposed to be the authority and the leaders.
01:44:18.000But what we've effectively done is we tell women, oh no, you're equal to a man, but at the same time you can also demand No, we're not equal.
01:44:38.000Like you see it now with that one Olympian transformer person who is not allowed to compete now.
01:44:45.000Yeah. Well, the problem is that a lot of women would argue with you if you said that.
01:44:51.000If you said men and women are not equal...
01:44:54.000A lot of women will have a problem with you saying that.
01:46:32.000I know this is an uncomfortable conversation to have, but the reality is if we had to rely on female innovation we'd still be living in caves and rubbing sticks together for fire.
01:47:05.000Because he not gonna always get it right, but at the same time women are very important because if it wasn't for us you and I This is why she went ahead and interpreted some crazy sinner mind that I didn't even say I said Women
01:47:36.000really can't do anything better than men, that we can both actually do.
01:47:39.000Yeah, you guys can have kids, but if we can both actually compete in the thing, we are better than y'all in virtually everything.
01:47:45.000We sit here and make you guys feel better.
01:47:47.000Oh, well, women could do this, women could do that.
01:47:50.000It doesn't matter because men are better at it anyway.
01:47:52.000So, look, I don't want to sound like an asshole, but the truth is the truth.
01:47:55.000Men are better than women in almost every way.
01:48:28.000I also had something I wanted to, you guys are kind of noisy, but I guess that's the fun of it.
01:48:34.000I wanted to add that we were talking about voting.
01:48:37.000I think that like the way that we structure voting right now is a huge part of the problem because it appeals to the individual rather than I think things would be a lot better if voting was done by the father of an intact biological family with property because that selects for people who basically just have their shit together and that you don't want anyone else voting anyway.
01:48:55.000Who's gonna protect the people that, like, don't have a voice?
01:48:58.000That's, like, the only concern I have.
01:48:59.000Well, what protects them is that the people who actually care about society functioning are the ones doing the voting, and so society functions.
01:49:08.000And when people vote for their own personal interests, it falls apart and no one's protected.
01:49:12.000We gotta like try that out in like a high school voting system for student council or something first.
01:49:17.000In layman's terms, if you have skin in the game, you can vote, which women almost never have skin in the game because you guys don't contribute shit to society.
01:49:23.000Men have to go in to select their service.
01:49:24.000Men have to potentially fight in wars.
01:49:27.000We could potentially get sent to wars by the commander-in-chief who you vote in.
01:49:31.000I find it's ridiculous that women could Put a president in that will send us to war and the men have to go fight it and you guys don't.
01:51:01.000Like, this is the other thing too, like, is it my fault that you're dumb?
01:51:04.000Like, if you can't have a conversation about basic intersexual dynamics when it comes to men versus women, like, because you're saying, well you're prepared!
01:51:55.000For example, where we're talking about how social media negatively affects women more because of X, Y, Z. We articulate it based on numbers.
01:52:50.000Yeah, I disagree to disagree because we're never gonna leave if I keep going.
01:52:56.000I mean, dude, it's very, like, and this is what I'm trying to say, like, the fact that you can't even grasp that and you're saying, I disagree?
01:53:03.000Well, no, I'm confused because your whole argument, this whole podcast was that women are not as affected as men by social media.
01:53:10.000That was the whole argument of the whole podcast, the whole thing you flamed me for.
01:53:13.000And then you're going back right now and agreeing with everything I said, everything that you called me stupid for is literally what you just worded.
01:53:19.000You literally just said everything that I've been saying the whole time and agreed with it right then and there.
01:53:43.000Cause you were trying to say that the problem is equal on both ends where men have a lot of options too, and they don't want to settle down.
02:00:04.000But here's the thing, it's a foregone conclusion by the time the guy actually gets down on one knee and, well, he shouldn't do that, but it's a foregone conclusion that she's gonna say yes when he proposes.
02:00:13.000Because here's the thing, I don't take your last name, you take my last name.
02:00:22.000Women want to get married for a reason.
02:00:24.000There's a reason why you guys grew up as little girls and you want to walk down an aisle in a white dress with your father and the guy of your dreams waiting there.
02:01:38.000So when she asked you the question, because there was some other stuff that was before then, that he said some stuff and I was like, you can't be for real.
02:01:46.000This all gotta be like for acting type stuff.
02:03:15.000Certain stuff, because if you really have a mom that's inside the house, you'll sit there and, first off, your daddy, I don't know if your mom and dad was in the same house while you were being raised, but your dad would not, or your mom wouldn't, piss slap you for saying women are virtually like not anything besides just raising babies?
02:03:37.000You could say that to your mom right now.
02:03:39.000Your only duty is to just have babies and she would agree with you.
02:03:43.000Yeah. Like I'm trying to really figure out what's so bad Other uses besides, okay, so than baby Like what do you think you're gonna like you later in life that's gonna be so I'm gonna bring people to church and do that on their own like I really don't It's
02:05:26.000It is a reason that more men are by themselves when they die inside those little hell holes and mama and grandma die inside the house surrounded by family.
02:05:55.000I want her to date a guy that understands how the world works, will take care of her unequivocally, isn't going to be sitting here thinking about egalitarianism and half and half or this other shit.
02:06:04.000I want my daughter to be with a guy that's very strong in his belief system.
02:07:42.000And I've got a link, uh, link tree that's got all my stuff on it.
02:07:46.000Um, Slash how math there you go and last thoughts for the panel are thanks for the confirmation.
02:07:52.000I guess everything Everything is going as planned and good luck to you all Yeah, bro, now you see what we do in pretty much every week yeah, yeah me too I just do it with the videos they make on purpose All right, man. Yeah, nice seeing you.
02:10:07.000You want to sit there and tell your boyfriend what it is, you want to be a leader, you want to be a boss, you want to be a feminist, You want to walk off podcasts because you're getting exposed for being retarded?
02:14:05.000Respectfully, if that's the big dog, you should be asking that nigga, can I go to this podcast where I'm out like an idiot in public?
02:14:13.000Then he would say, no bitch, stay home because I know who you are.
02:14:16.000I did ask him, the only reason that we even looked y'all up earlier today, the only reason we looked y'all up earlier today is because he said I used to listen to them.
02:14:24.000He said this, he said I used to listen to them back in the day.
02:14:27.000So we actually just together, we watched some of the clips from y'all videos.
02:16:57.000Okay. Red Bull Putin says dirty Somalia pirate good riddance, and I'm sick and tired of these fake Christian retards like this fit Oh, bro.
02:17:06.000That's just crazy right now He killed her this fake blonde with wrinkles on her face at 24 who picks and chooses what to follow in the Bible, bro This is why I tell people listen, bro.
02:18:14.000Okay. Like, look, man, I respect the girl that's open-thought over a bitch that says, fact, I'm a hardcore Christian, and then, like, not adheres to that shit.
02:21:04.000Misogyny. I don't hate women, I just understand them.
02:21:07.000So I think and the thing is is that when you understood it's gonna sound fucked up No, because you're 30 and so single so he's trying to help you out Well, you know most of us like dick so you don't take it.
02:21:19.000No Like you can either understand women or respect them as an equal Mm-hmm.
02:23:18.000I wish the two girls that left were here a little bit more, but I wish I would have spoke a little bit more if I knew they were gonna leave.
02:23:25.000They were just talking so much that the points they were making didn't make any sense.
02:23:30.000I didn't even know how to attack it or respond.
02:24:01.000Awesome. Women that are beautiful are able to be in rooms with billionaires, but men have to become billionaires to be allowed to be able to be in those rooms.
02:24:09.000So, human beings always go the path of least resistance.
02:24:12.000If a woman could be around very successful men just by being attractive, she's gonna go towards that, versus, I gotta be a scientist and a whatever.
02:24:22.000Yeah, so men tend to be on the extreme ends more most retards are men, but most geniuses are also men Right.
02:24:28.000I say a lot of disparaging things about men.
02:24:30.000I I guess I hate men too a lot worse But I yeah, you just say you guys are here, but I say way worse things about men But the reality is is that um women have no need to be You know thought leaders or smart or be like an Elon Musk and be honest Elon Musk's a fraud anyway Yeah, I feel like a lot of a shit Yeah Okay, but do y'all think in your conversation that it helps fuel the incels or make men better?
02:24:57.000About how you talk to women in your podcast.
02:25:09.000A big reason why guys are incels It's because they bought the lie that they need to be nice to women.
02:25:15.000They bought the lie that they could be friends with women.
02:25:17.000They bought the lie to be a gentleman to women.
02:25:20.000And the reality is like conventional dating advice is very counterproductive to what women actually want.
02:25:26.000Like, I mean, hell, if I asked a girl, what do you want?
02:25:29.000She's going to tell me, oh, just be nice, be a gentleman, treat me well, whatever.
02:25:32.000But that's assuming she's attracted to him in the first place.
02:25:36.000But what they don't get is like, like, Because women always, when you ask a woman for advice, dating advice, they assume attraction.
02:25:42.000But they don't tell you, you also need to be an asshole a little bit, you need to put me in my place, you need to tell me shut up when I say dumb shit, you need to be better than me.
02:25:49.000You guys only say the things that are politically correct to say.
02:25:51.000You guys are going to say the unflattering things about being attractive to women, having other women that want you, being dismissive to their opinions to some degree, not taking their bullshit, standing your ground when they say dumb shit.
02:26:03.000If they show you disobedience, you let them know.
02:26:07.000Yeah, like women don't admit these things.
02:26:12.000So we have to tell guys what it really takes to be attractive because a big reason why so many guys are incest is to listen to what you guys say you want.
02:26:18.000Okay, so if we listen to exactly what y'all say, that the woman's only objective is to bear kids and we give you a kid and you divorce us and it dramatically dropped.
02:26:29.000On what we should be worth next or when we're younger in school if a boy hits us that mean he likes us So you can't say that the same just because this boy knows this and this is the law that he was told If you have young women that most men like to date because we are a lot Harder because we're a little bit older with a little bit more season and we went through more things Y'all gonna keep smashing and dashing because y'all cheating like younger women.
02:26:55.000So what we supposed to do when we get older?
02:26:57.000Yeah, but number one, but you But you still didn't answer the question.
02:28:14.000So if you find a guy that's actually a provider, like you got now, You should be happy because I'll tell you this, he is going to have more value in the marketplace than you.
02:28:23.000So I think it's very foolish when women leave men that quite frankly are still good guys.
02:29:16.000Yeah, you better stay with him, even if he fucks another bitch, because trust me, if you're the main girl, that's what you got to focus on.
02:31:05.000When they're gone, they're gone for good.
02:31:08.000And if that's not enough, every dollar you spend gets you entry to win a Cybertruck and $30K cash.
02:31:13.000But you've only got one month left to enter, go to, Yeah, get the coffee black or any other shots?
02:31:29.000Yeah, okay, DJ Jammin' Jim says Ladies, if the man of your dreams proposes to you, but he says he will only marry you if you birth him ten children, because he wants a large family, will you do it?
02:31:42.000To the mom, would you have eight more if your fiance says that?