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00:02:10.000We love you, It's been a long day, man, but the grind does not stop.
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00:04:21.000I would show you guys off air because I think there's like a streamer code of ethics where you're not going to dox me, but I'm not doxing myself.
00:04:50.000It's actually circulating because one of my friends works for a judge and the letter's so poorly written so it's circulating in a federal courthouse because it's so bad.
00:06:09.000He was working and we first met in January and then we didn't really like match so then I went back to his job not expecting to see him there and then we met again and then we just went on from there.
00:14:01.000Everybody, you know, I keep it a mystery, because it started out, people were guessing, and then it's like, there's like 30 blogs on my age.
00:14:39.000We got here, Dennis the Great goes, question to the ladies, would you let your daughter be a right, pure girl or her being experienced before she settles down with a man?
00:15:30.000Well, I think she needs to understand what she really needs and she needs to understand herself first because through other people we understand ourselves better.
00:15:40.000So I definitely say you need to get some experience before you decide whom to settle down with for sure.
00:17:27.000Because I think there's less likelihood she's going to be deluded into thinking the one man she's with is the only man on earth if she's had other men.
00:17:39.000Well, as somebody who does have a daughter, I would say that I wouldn't want her to get married super young.
00:17:48.000And also, I wouldn't want her to be like a 30-year-old virgin because I think there's issues that come with that.
00:17:56.000So, yeah, I would like her to have maybe at least like Let's say if she's going to get married by the time she's 25, 27, I think it would be ideal to have been in two serious relationships.
00:19:11.000So I wouldn't want her to be short-term minded.
00:19:14.000But if she ended up with somebody, she thought it was the one, she slept with them, turned out to be a whack job, I'd be like, get the fuck out of there.
00:19:41.000So I'll read the ones that came in from before.
00:19:43.000But from this point forward, guys, 20 and up, because we're a little bit tighter on time since we started later.
00:19:48.000Cam2Times goes, question ladies, do you have a bigger issue with men having an issue with women's body count or men wanting to have sex with multiple women?
00:21:34.000I mean, if you're in a relationship with someone and they just want to, like, keep fucking other people, that would probably be more disgusting.
00:21:40.000But, I mean, every man is probably at least disgusting to care about body count.
00:32:40.000Like, if to them they feel that way about me, if it's based on my appearance or, like, based about something that they don't know about, then that's...
00:32:51.000It depends what you mean if it's true.
00:32:54.000I mean, what if they give you a criticism like, I don't know, like, hey, well, you're wrong about this, or that's not how things really work.
00:33:03.000Like, I'm willing to hear them out and understand their point of view, not only, like, not putting a wall up and being like, no, but you're wrong.
00:33:10.000Like, I will go ahead and listen and be like, okay, I get what you're saying, and then add that to my life that, like, change whatever it is that they think.
00:33:19.000If it adds a valuable input, but if it's not, then it's totally irrelevant.
00:33:26.000I think the foundation of dealing with criticism should essentially be working your self-confidence.
00:33:32.000But I also think that criticism, if something really bothers you in those words, you should look at yourself and you should see what you do not accept in yourself.
00:33:42.000So in a way it can work like a mirror as long as you have the foundation going, as long as you have the basic self-confidence and you don't have issues with that.
00:35:37.000Sometimes it's like, you know you're doing something wrong, you don't want to realize that people point it out often, so you just work on it.
00:35:43.000Now, if it's your opinion over me, or how you feel about me, then there's nothing I can do about that.
00:36:23.000Like, if it's gonna benefit me, or like, hey, like, the respect thing, you say it nicely, like, don't do this, makes you look dumb, or you can always take it the right way.
00:36:35.000But for, like, the hater comments, like the troll comments, it's like, I can't see, I'm blind.
00:37:11.000But someone can say something that's objectively true and might not necessarily, you might not respect them, but they might say something that's true.
00:37:18.000Well, how do you figure out what's objectively true?
00:37:22.000Like, if someone says you're wearing a gray dress, that's objectively true.
00:37:25.000But if someone says you're stupid, or gives you a criticism, like what?
00:37:30.000Well, I mean, if someone were to say something like, well, you know, promiscuous women, you know, most guys don't like those types of girls for long-term relationships.
00:37:37.000It might be a guy that you might not look at, like, he's ugly, I don't care what he thinks, but objectively, that's really true that most men don't like those types of women for long-term relationships.
00:37:45.000Well, it doesn't matter what most men in the world do, it matters what your circle and the people you're around feel, so...
00:37:50.000Most women are liberal, but if you live in a conservative area and you go to church, you're around conservative women and that's all you know, who cares what most women in America are doing?
00:37:57.000What matters is the people you know in your circle and your tribe.
00:38:01.000So those comments are kind of pointless in my opinion.
00:38:04.000But wouldn't it be fair to say that you would want to adhere to what the opposite gender wants if you want to be attractive to that gender?
00:38:31.000Unless you're short of options, then you should.
00:38:33.000But if you have options, people like you, you feel like you can date and you find people that are attracted to you and what you think and what you believe, who cares by looking at the world population.
00:38:44.000Do you think most women like liberal guys though?
00:38:46.000That are super, you know, 50-50, hey, let's split this, oh, you can lead this, I lead that.
00:38:52.000Do you think women like that in general?
00:39:17.000Yeah, like, and it's very interesting.
00:39:19.000I mean, for instance, like OnlyFans, like it's like 0.2% of women globally have an OnlyFans, like 30% of women on your show have an OnlyFans.
00:39:44.000It's not their profession that defines what they like.
00:39:46.000It's their gender that defines what they like.
00:39:48.000And women typically tend to have traits that they want in men.
00:39:51.000And what I'm saying is that men that are liberal a lot of the times don't necessarily have these attractive traits to women that you're trying to say.
00:39:58.000Like, women don't want a guy that's going to go 50-50 and let them lead certain things and everything.
00:40:08.000Well, where are you getting the most from?
00:40:09.000I could say the same thing to you, just because most of the women you know don't like that doesn't mean that most women, unless you have stats for that, are conservative men having an easier time with men than liberal men?
00:40:19.000Men have run the world since the beginning of time, and women have liked that about men.
00:40:22.000Most women want a guy that earns more money than them, that's a leader, that's stronger than them, that's taller than them.
00:40:26.000The women want a guy who's superior in general.
00:40:29.000You don't need studies for common sense.
00:40:30.000Like, this is just what women are attracted to.
00:40:32.000I think that's what women are attracted to in general.
00:40:34.000But as we see, as times are changing, people are changing.
00:40:37.000So evolution didn't just malfunction in 2023.
00:40:39.000There's a reason there are less stringent gender roles in 2023, especially of people that have a higher socioeconomic status, are educated.
00:40:46.000They don't adhere to these kind of rigid gender roles.
00:40:48.000And you see in more advanced countries...
00:40:50.000No, in more advanced countries, they're less stringent because it's not as needed.
00:40:53.000No one needs to know how to yield a sword in 2023.
00:40:57.000You're not getting attacked by your neighboring village.
00:42:13.000I'm trying to say that your selection buys, let me explain it to you.
00:42:15.000If you're looking at couples who are already getting divorced and you're seeing who's more likely to initiate out of that crowd, that is not the same thing as looking at all married people in general because you're only looking at the couples that are already getting divorced.
00:42:28.000College-educated women are less likely to be in that group in the first place.
00:43:39.000Women in the most feminist country in the world, like Sweden, they actually still like men, care more that men make more money than them, than even like the Philippines.
00:43:51.000Bus has also gone back on a lot of what he said in the past couple of years.
00:43:53.000Like he's changed his mind on a lot of things.
00:44:06.000Now, I agree with you that every PhD in hindsight is going to make mistakes, but I can tell you, for example, just a classic one, you're right, it is a primitive thing that women like men taller than them.
00:44:18.000But in every country in the world, no chick likes Danny DeVito.
00:44:36.000That's why if you look up hypergamy in Europe, you can look up hypergamy decline, you're going to see published papers that have looked at countries, especially in Europe and the U.S. where women are entering the workforce.
00:44:48.000They're looking for these things less and less.
00:44:50.000It takes a long time to change, like you said, so it's not 100% yet, but it is changing.
00:51:04.000I would definitely pick Bezos because the initial excitement and the hormones are going to die out after approximately eight months to one year.
00:52:21.000Probably neither, but if I had to choose and I couldn't have a conversation with either of them, probably Jeff because I find some of Leo's behavior bemusing.
00:58:01.000He calls them maximizers or satisficers.
00:58:05.000Maximizers are always looking for better, and they're not gonna settle till they find the best.
00:58:09.000Satisficers realize time is short, and so it's like, you gotta marry something, especially for giving birth to babies.
00:58:16.000Like, for men and women, you gotta pop them out, because nature don't give a shit about culture.
00:58:21.000They did something like this with ice cream flavors, right?
00:58:23.000When they had like 40 flavors, it was harder for the people to make a choice, but when they only had like 3 or 4 flavors, it was much easier for them to make a selection, so they limited the flavors to make more sales.
00:58:32.000Dude, In-N-Out is more profitable per store in California than McDonald's, because they put like 6 things on the damn thing.
00:58:40.000It's like way smarter, so people come in there and they're just like, I know what I want, and I want it.
00:59:01.000So I think for love and dating, it's easy for men, too.
00:59:06.000I can't speak to the woman experience, but as a man, you start to get some fame, you start to get money, and there's women everywhere, and you think, and if you're not careful, You don't stay in the bounded rationality, so you gotta be like, look, I want somebody, I've learned, like...
00:59:22.000The reason, by the way, I ask this question, this is a good question to ask on a first date.
00:59:26.000You ask a girl this question, you can switch out DiCaprio or whoever you want, but then you gotta follow up.
01:02:53.000I register with a producer in Switzerland and when I'm children I sing and after I discover the trap with Shivki and I like that and I make it nasty.
01:04:19.000Okay guys, so I love your new studio and thank you for the invitation, but my English is not good for tonight and you talked so fast for me.
01:10:14.000I was like, I feel like they don't know what this podcast is about and I feel like they're just going to be targeted and that's what it is.
01:10:19.000You said you put the panel together for a reason.
01:10:22.000I was like, what was the reason when I got in there?
01:16:35.000So I do believe in the paradox of choice, but I also think it's good that people are no longer constrained to the men in their neighborhood or their village or their neighborhood or their school.
01:16:46.000I think it's good that we can meet people from all over the world to share our values and have what we're looking for.
01:16:51.000But I do also believe in the paradox of choice.
01:16:53.000I think there's some pros and some cons.
01:17:02.000Yeah, I think it makes it difficult to narrow it down because there is so many ways to meet guys, all these different apps.
01:17:10.000But I do agree with the Russian girl that it's an illusion because if you narrow it down, a lot of these guys won't even want you because they have just as many options supposedly as you have.
01:21:40.000And I think most people would probably agree with that to some degree because a woman's value is not determined by how much money she earns and her status.
01:22:12.000Yes, I think it's good to have standards, but she said the unachievable ones, where if you're getting up there, you're 28, you're 30, and you've never had a boyfriend, you've never been in a serious relationship, you might need to lower your standards a tiny bit.
01:22:33.000I think most women are too picky for their own good.
01:22:35.000I think most women don't qualify for the men that they think that they qualify for.
01:22:38.000I think most women are stupid, fat, obnoxious, and hoes, and they don't qualify for the man that they think they deserve.
01:22:44.000Most girls want a guy that's over six feet tall, attractive, in good shape, makes a lot of money, successful, charismatic, charming, funny, witty, nerdy at the same time, all these things.
01:22:53.000What the hell do they bring to the table?
01:22:55.000Maybe a bunch of college debt, maybe a degree here or there, a slut, you know, promiscuous past, and they want a guy that's in the top 1%.
01:23:01.000And I just find it funny because most women don't even deserve a guy that's average, but they want a guy that's superior in every way.
01:23:08.000So I think more women need to live in reality and understand that the choice that you have is sexual options.
01:23:15.000Are any of these guys going to get down on one knee and marry you?
01:23:17.000And I would argue for most women it's a no because they don't bring the things that men typically want, which is being attractive, not being fat, not being argumentative, not being annoying, not being an embarrassment, not having a shitty past.
01:23:30.000Men value these things even though girls tend to sit there and say, no, they don't.
01:23:33.000Oh, guys are totally okay with doing this and that.
01:23:36.000It's like, no, most guys have a point of contention with girls that are hoes.
01:25:55.000You're going to be somewhat attached to whoever you have kids with, even if you're not married, until the day you die, because it's healthy for kids.
01:26:01.000You don't want to be fighting all the time.
01:26:03.000So a man, as a man's perspective, men are looking for clues.
01:26:40.000It's lower on the totem pole than other things.
01:26:43.000Oh, so you don't think that, like, you would prefer, if also the same, an intelligent woman versus a non-intelligent?
01:26:48.000It depended if she was intelligent enough to shut the fuck up when I told her to be quiet or not embarrass me in front of friends or not be annoying.
01:26:55.000Because it's one thing to be intelligent, but it's another thing to, like, be annoying and speak when...
01:27:17.000I don't have a problem with intelligent women, but it's not as important to me as other things.
01:27:22.000For example, if a girl's a hoe but she's really smart, but then I got a girl that's dumb but she's not a hoe, I'm going to take the dumb girl that's not a hoe because she's actually the smart one.
01:27:31.000But for children, like what you were saying, because you passed that on and because stats show that kids that have parents that are higher IQ, more educated, end up doing way better, and they end up...
01:28:06.000Stability is important, but the two biggest factors to childhood cognitive development are socioeconomic status and maternal education.
01:28:14.000Well, socioeconomic status, I mean, a big part of that is the father being in the house and being there with a woman that he can tolerate.
01:28:19.000Yeah, so father quality time does matter, but it doesn't...
01:28:23.000The stats also show that with single motherhood and all those stats, when you actually measure and adjust for those things, a lot of those disparities dissipate.
01:28:52.000I was saying that when you adjust for socioeconomic sex, the problem is single motherhood does create all of these terrible outcomes, but also those are people that are far more likely to live in poverty, be far less educated, so those things also add on to it.
01:30:28.000I'm like, because he brings so much to the table.
01:30:31.000So a super high IQ or a higher IQ dude oftentimes will not care quite as much about IQ. So you don't believe in assortative mating or the similarity of attraction?
01:30:41.000So assortative mating is an interesting one.
01:31:18.000In fact, the sciences in general, and you could say this is good or bad, men tend to date slightly lower IQ. But overall in the same bracket is what we're saying.
01:31:29.000Yes, if you're 145 IQ, if you're Stephen Hawking, 155, you can't be dating a 100 IQ. You have nothing to talk about.
01:33:22.000They also found that the higher IQ for a man, the more ability he has to be married, but the higher IQ points for women, the lower the probability of finding a mate and getting married.
01:33:30.000So, like, it tells you that men don't care about that shit in general.
01:33:33.000Like, yeah, is it cool to be able to have a girl that's not a retard?
01:33:36.000But in general, like, if a girl's hot, eh, a guy's gonna be like, you know what?
01:33:40.000I'm willing to tolerate her being less intelligent.
01:33:43.000They're gonna get more arguments though because she's not gonna understand and comprehend.
01:33:51.000And I'm sure you know about proximity.
01:33:53.000If you're intelligent, you're around a lot of other intelligent people.
01:33:56.000If you're a lawyer like I am, I'm an exception, but you're around usually a lot of other lawyers and lawyers tend to marry other lawyers, doctors tend to marry other doctors.
01:34:05.000Intelligent women are highly college-educated women.
01:34:07.000Again, we're the only ones who our divorce rates aren't going down.
01:34:09.000They don't seem to have trouble finding husbands.
01:34:20.000You think you're going to argue more...
01:34:22.000Have you been in relationships where you argue a lot when you're a 40-year-old couple?
01:34:28.000Or you think you're going to have more arguments in a relationship with a 21-year-old couple?
01:34:34.000The 21-year-old couple is going to fight way more than the older couple.
01:34:38.000Well, that's why men prefer women that are younger than them.
01:34:43.000But if you marry a woman under 25, you're divorced.
01:34:46.000Statistically, you're going to be way more likely to get divorced.
01:34:48.000And that depends on their age too because there's just...
01:34:52.000I don't know how many men you guys talk to besides in Miami, but people just want to be able to relate to the person that they're around all the time.
01:35:01.000And you can't relate that well to someone who's that much younger.
01:36:29.000Like, you came in here last time, and you said a bunch of BS, and I got a million DMs, like, this is a lie, this is a link, blah, blah, blah, she made this ass return, it's a lie.
01:36:38.000Yeah, but you don't get, that's how you don't look at, you do actual research, you don't look at your illiterate chat or DMs.
01:36:43.000No, they gave me, they literally gave me the data, and they're like, yo, don't bring this girl back.
01:36:47.000So, I'll be honest, I am amazed that you're here again.
01:37:57.000You got somebody breaking in your house?
01:37:59.000You want 10 Navy SEAL-like police dudes showing up, ripping somebody to shreds.
01:38:05.000You don't want, in general, women are going to be much less aggressive.
01:38:11.000And so when you were talking about raising kids, One of the things that science shows is that a man is, for like a son, a father and a son, there's certain times in life, it's good to always have a father around, but a father's extra important at certain times.
01:38:26.000You brought up, you actually brought up teenagers.
01:38:28.000Like a son, only a son, only a father can stop a son who's big and strong from getting out of hand.
01:38:35.000I remember I had a big stepdad, six foot seven guy, like I was kind of a strong-willed kid.
01:38:42.000So, the single family thing, I don't...
01:38:44.000Just going back, I'm bringing up some past stuff.
01:38:48.000Sometimes, there's a reason nature created...
01:39:24.000And whenever you don't have two, you have a problem.
01:39:26.000Now, as I said, my personal belief, I don't know if I'm red pill, blue pill, whatever, marriage is man-made.
01:39:33.000A lot of times, if you believe in the Bible, these motherfuckers weren't getting married.
01:39:37.000Marriage is a new thing, but long-term mating, man, women being together, raising a kid, that shit has been there forever and it's important.
01:39:46.000And I do think men in general are meaner, grumpier, and so a lot of dudes don't want to have a kid with their exact equal mean grumpy.
01:40:45.000You're taught, like in agribusiness school, like the top school, you look for like a cow that has bigger eyes because it's a healthier female.
01:40:54.000So a lot of this shit we argue about, nature already figured this out.
01:40:58.000So, obviously humans are complex and there needs to be some variation and there's little leeway, but the general, their patterns are here, man.
01:42:08.000Well, okay, so then when age comes into play and you're like a 35-year-old man...
01:42:13.000Well, now we're getting into it while we start to bring up age.
01:42:16.000Well, no, because you're saying you don't want to date a dumb woman.
01:42:19.000And then age doesn't mean you're dumb.
01:42:21.000If you're 21 years old, you could have a high IQ or be intelligent, but you just don't have the life experience and the knowledge that comes with all those years.
01:42:33.000So there's still going to be a huge gap.
01:44:23.000College-educated women are more likely to initiate a divorce, but they're looking at couples who are getting divorced and then who's initiating a divorce.
01:44:30.000But you're looking just at couples who are getting divorced.
01:44:33.000But if you're looking at all couples who are married, the married college educated women are less likely to be in the group of people that are initiating divorce in the first place.
01:44:42.000Yes, and a lot of women who are not college educated actually don't even get married in the first place, so there's no need for divorce.
01:44:52.000Literally, look, even 2023, it's in Forbes, everything.
01:44:57.000The 2023 stats are out on divorce, too.
01:44:59.000If you guys want to look up Forbes 2023 divorce, and it'll go by age, it'll go by gender, I mean, not gender, race, it'll go by states, and it'll go by education.
01:45:20.000Well, just in general, Forbes published them, and I looked at the 2023 ones on Forbes, but that's also been, every year it's been saying kind of the same thing.
01:50:08.000I think this question has layers to it, but considering I like the person already and the small things are kind of discussed and, you know, we have the base, the deal breakers are the non-negotiable values.
01:50:26.000So for me, I think it would be with the person who wants or doesn't want kids, considering I already like them and everything is great about them.
01:50:34.000And also how they view their lifestyle.
01:50:37.000If we have completely different lifestyles, I don't think it's going to work out.
01:50:42.000Like, for example, if someone wants to travel all the time or someone is a party person and you're trying to live a healthy life, that's just not going to work out because these things are not really negotiable and you cannot make someone change for you.
01:51:15.000I mean, it goes back to, like I said before, this is why men typically want a girl that's just going to follow their lead and not, you know, oh, well, no, I can't travel with you because I got to go to this business meeting.
01:51:37.000I would say dishonesty is the first one, and then, I know everyone else said that too, but, and then consistency, like, if you're not being consistent, like, it's, I don't like wishy-washiness, like, it's either all or nothing, like, it's either talk or not.
01:52:52.000Jeff Bezos, speaking to him, he said he decided he would only marry a woman that if he got falsely thrown in a Mexican prison, she was innovative enough to come get his ass out.
01:53:03.000So, like, sometimes I meet women, they can't solve any problems.
01:53:11.000I'm like, people should be, all people, men and female, you need to be innovative.
01:53:15.000Life's gonna throw, life, like Charlie Munger says, life will throw tremendous blows at you for men and women and people that aren't resilient.
01:54:00.000PL, Rumble has claimed all content since Monday's stream, and that's across the board, and Cliff's channel is hitting me up, wondering if I know anything, but I'm...
01:55:29.000I get it, you're here to promote your OnlyFans and everything else like that, but if you're gonna make ridiculous, you know, stat claims or whatever...
01:55:38.000These are, like, just look up Forbes 2023 stats.
01:56:24.000And, like I said before, they've been throwing, and they've sent me this thing a million times, and it's just like, yo, they literally get frustrated, and you're like, I'm surprised that you're even here, to be honest.
02:04:41.000Honestly, we got so much complaints on the last show.
02:04:45.000They're sending me literally DMs like, this, that, she lied about this, she lied about that, yo, she's not really a lawyer, blah, blah, blah.
02:04:50.000I didn't want to say all that, but like, bro.
02:08:04.000I do like the podcast, but I was, like, I was, like, tired.
02:08:08.000Like, if you're gonna answer, like, short and, like, go straight to the point, I don't know, like, she was, like, getting, like, talking, talking, talking, and I was, like, getting tired.
02:10:30.000We're going to come with better questioning, we're going to come with a better panel of girls, and Chris is not going to do this again, right?
02:14:46.000W's all around with Tai Lopez, Steven Crowder's podcast earlier in the day, and FNF's cast holding it down.
02:14:51.000No one works harder than FNF and the crew.
02:14:52.000Chris, you have thought about filming a video to explain the rules to ladies and have them watch it so they don't lower your IQ every time you interact with them.