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00:07:25.000I don't want to say the word masculine, but I think that it does something to your hormones to where it fucks you up.
00:07:29.000And I think it does something to you mentally.
00:07:31.000Well, there's a study that says when girls start using birth control with their partner, they dump them right away because either they were first in love because of the birth control.
00:07:39.000I don't know what it is, but, like, someone with the pill turns them off.
00:12:23.000So, in my first episode, I break it down, but basically, sex with success is about what are you doing to put yourself in a position to win every day.
00:12:29.000So, I say in my first episode, I'm having more sex with success than I am men because I'm super focused on where I want to go in life, right?
00:12:36.000So, I also wanted to create a name that didn't limit my podcast.
00:12:41.000Success in the bedroom, success in relationships, success talking to a porn star, success talking to a lawyer, success talking to a realtor.
00:12:47.000So, it kind of didn't limit me, and it was a nice play on words, and it makes people's mind go right where I want it to because of marketing.
00:13:20.000What is your podcast about, by the way?
00:13:23.000So my podcast is pretty much about like healing conversations.
00:13:26.000So I just want people to come on and say like true stories, things that basically helps them out, you know, just to give people advice and just how they do their stories pretty much.
00:21:10.000I vaguely remember this because you said NCIS. Yes.
00:21:14.000Yeah, for the audience, it's Naval Criminal Investigation Service.
00:21:17.000Anytime like something, a crime or any type of bullshit misconduct is happening, the military has its own agency that investigates it, whether it's Army CID for Army, NCIS for Marines or the Navy or Air Force OSI. So, wait,
00:24:27.000I've got a YouTube channel, a couple of them, the George Gammon channel and the Rebel Capitalist channel where we talk about freedom, liberty, free market capitalism, macroeconomics.
00:24:44.000So I'll start with the first question here.
00:24:47.000If you had to take a rough estimate, what percentage of women, because this could be women that you know personally, girls that you've met throughout the course of your life, just in your own personal experience, and this is going to vary from all of you guys, what percentage of women would you say are financially literate?
00:25:02.000We can start right here, and then work our way around.
00:25:05.000Yeah, audience, we're switching it up for you motherfuckers.
00:25:08.000What percentage of women would you say are financially literate?
00:25:16.000Like women that you know, that you've been friends with, could be your parents, relatives, whatever it may be.
00:25:21.000What percentage would you say are financially literate?
00:27:57.000It could be anything that you could think of.
00:27:59.000In general, what do you think contributes to women having issues with finances?
00:28:05.000Definitely like the shopping and you know if you like to eat a lot out I know I'm one of them so I feel like if a lot of women you know kind of like budget that smart you know obviously you wouldn't be spending a lot of money outside and you know it's just things like that like you know impulsive actions that you just like to go do and spend money on wait you don't cook?
00:28:28.000I mean I do but sometimes you know I get lazy like on Sundays I don't like to cook it's like you know I'll do like I'll go eat or something but during the week I like to cook yeah okay okay yeah all right what about you what about you I would say being too influenced by their peers and also mismanaging their money.
00:28:46.000Because from my background, I used to be in the entertainment industry, so I used to see a lot of people lose the value of money.
00:28:52.000So they would be able to make fast money and then blow it the same way they made it or not know how to manage it.
00:28:57.000So they were making money, they just weren't properly allocating it.
00:29:07.000Okay, can you expand on it a little bit?
00:29:09.000Okay, so me coming from a relationship, like I'm coming from like my perspective and like my mom's perspectives as well.
00:29:15.000Like I feel like when you get into a relationship with a broke guy, like it's really difficult for you to like, let's say you're keeping up with money, but then you have that person also that you have to keep up with, like you have a dependent.
00:29:26.000So providing for a man, you're saying?
00:30:28.000Like, right now, having school, work, your own time for your friends, everything else kind of just depends on where you are, depending on how old you are, where you're at in life.
00:30:35.000Like, for me, school takes, like, a lot of time.
00:30:39.000Like, some of my friends still don't have jobs, so it's, like...
00:30:43.000Not me, but that's what takes most of my money for the general population of women.
00:30:47.000I think just on anything, responsibilities, priorities, whatever you decide to put that in, whether that's fashion, going out, traveling, everyone has their own thing.
00:30:58.000I would say access to information and knowledge and just the people that are around you.
00:31:02.000A lot of women don't grow up being taught these things on how to make generational wealth and just learning how to save, learning how to put your money into assets.
00:31:10.000So I think it's just a lack of knowledge, lack of information, and a lack of women that want to know.
00:39:00.000So you're paying more monthly bills, but you're not putting too much up front, too much capital up front where you could have used it to play in other places.
00:44:41.000I would say falling victim to losing the value of money and also not being able to control a lot of unfortunate situations that require savings.
00:44:50.000So it's like, you know how people say you save for a rainy day and then it rains every day?
00:45:00.000Or one or two even from being like on the streets or whatever case ended up somewhere more unfortunate due to whatever emergencies or whatever.
00:45:11.000George, what's the study you set American savings, $1,000?
00:45:15.000What's the percentage of people that have less than $1,000 in your account?
00:45:18.000So, 60% of Americans are living paycheck to paycheck.
00:45:22.000And what's crazy about that is 40% of the people that are making over $100,000 a year are living paycheck to paycheck.
00:47:50.000Like she said, like what we're going through right now, like the cost of living is going just crazy up and everything in general, like just everything in general.
00:48:00.000When the value of the U.S. dollar goes down and like she said, the cost of living is higher than what the minimum wage is, what people are making.
00:49:21.000Inflation is when the economy is overproducing the amount of money and there's not enough to go around, basically, is the best way I can put it.
00:53:14.000So from my knowledge, it's the Federal Reserve, but it's honestly being printed into thin air now because they used to do the currency with gold, and they no longer hold it against gold anymore, to my knowledge.
00:53:25.000And then also any of the numbers that you see in your bank account aren't actually physical money until you actually go to retrieve it.
00:59:07.000Because you're very naturally beautiful.
00:59:09.000And I like that you're really quiet because I'm really loud.
00:59:13.000And I would say the least attractive to me right now is the girl that's taking care of her man because, girl, you need to get yourself a man that's taking care of you.
00:59:20.000You're doing a little bit too much for this guy that's not really providing.
01:00:37.000When you're seeing the guy with the Gucci belts, the Gucci hat, all of this stuff, and the guy that wants to constantly buy you drinks, I feel like that guy is the one that doesn't have money.
01:02:02.000That's just like, for instance, you can have somebody do a club hosting or something like that at a strip club and you can say, hey, I want to have $500 for me to throw at the strip club and they can provide that for you.
01:03:58.000What shows you that a guy has some money?
01:04:03.000I think the point of, like, how they present themselves is very important.
01:04:06.000Like, someone who has money and knows it and doesn't need to show it to the whole world knows they have money because they have confidence and that's what matters.
01:04:12.000But I also think, like, yeah, it really just kind of depends on, like, I saw one of my favorite music artists is Bryson Tiller and he was wearing these expensive-ass shoes.
01:04:21.000I don't even know what they're called, but they're, like, you know, bands.
01:04:24.000So it's like before he even became famous, he was working at Papa John's, you know?
01:04:28.000So you never really know when someone actually has money or when they don't got money.
01:04:31.000But I think it's the way they present themselves that's pretty important.
01:05:48.000And so, like, this person tips you, like, the one that looks like has a lot of money and is flashing a lot, they probably won't even tip you.
01:07:03.000But often it's tough to tell by tipping alone.
01:07:06.000Because I know some of the richest guys out there and they're the tightest.
01:07:12.000But I feel like I have like I have had people sat at my table which like people that have a lot of money and they have like actually like if you give them good service and then something that I was told like when I was really little like was like oh yeah a lot of people that are rich and end up marrying people that are in the service industry because they like to be taken care of.
01:07:31.000So they tend to tip people more that take care of them, depending on how your service and how you serve them.
01:07:36.000I think that's just because it's a target-rich environment.
01:07:40.000I think that's where the guys are meeting the girls.
01:07:45.000I would piggyback off of what Maddie said, like their subtle assets, so not too flashy, like a plain Jane watch, nice timepiece, like an asset, the type of car they drive, what their house looks like, someone who looks professional and clean,
01:08:02.000their position at their job, and I guess also who they know in their network, so their credibility also could be vouched for.
01:08:11.000This is like dead giveaways, if it is an example of a high-value man or a rich man.
01:08:17.000But for the most part, the men who have their large, subtle assets, they're not too flashy with it or bragging about it, and it's just a regular thing to them.
01:08:45.000If you do have it, a lot of the people that do are wealthy, you know, they don't really like to flash a lot of, like, you know, Fancy things because they know they have it at the end of the day.
01:08:58.000What's interesting is it's a combination here, I think is what it boils down to.
01:09:03.000For the people watching this, if they want some tips, it's not just aesthetically how you present yourself, but it's also your personality.
01:09:30.000But if he carries himself with a lot of confidence and walks in there and has all this social proof, like Mystery would say, now all of a sudden it makes a lot of sense.
01:09:38.000So if you saw a famous rapper or something like that, That was dressed over the top, you wouldn't assume that he's broke because there's congruency there.
01:09:47.000So however you're presenting yourself, if you're one of these guys watching and you want some of those tips, I think that's key.
01:10:09.000I was wondering if her answer would be quite a bit different from the other gals.
01:10:12.000Because I retired in 2012, but I've had thousands of people that have worked for me over the years.
01:10:20.000And the majority of the people that worked for me were actually women.
01:10:23.000And they were kind of professionals, upper 20s to probably mid-30s or so.
01:10:29.000And what they would always do, because back in the day when guys used to go out to clubs, you'd wear a suit.
01:10:35.000Or, you know, maybe not a full suit, but a sport jacket.
01:10:39.000The trends in fashion have changed quite a bit, significantly.
01:10:43.000But what the secret was, is they'd always look at the guy's shoes.
01:10:47.000Because he'd wear a nice sport jacket or something like that, or a nice shirt, but then he'd wear a very cheap, inexpensive pair of shoes, and that was always the dead giveaway.
01:10:56.000Where if the guy was wearing an expensive pair of shoes with everything else, then you had that congruency, then you're like, okay...
01:11:42.000I think that has a lot to do with it as well, because I would assume that a gal is going to want to go out with a guy that was able to make his own money.
01:11:50.000Because if it was given to you, then that really doesn't prove who you are.
01:12:01.000But if you've made that money, like you guys have, from scratch, you just came from nothing, that in and of itself proves that you're ambitious.
01:12:57.000A guy inherited it because his family's wealthy, so he's doing well and is probably going to stay there for maybe another generation or two.
01:13:03.000Versus a guy, he's the first one to make money in his family.
01:13:06.000He's throwing around crazy, don't know how to act.
01:13:08.000You know what happens when you can't give these niggas money, right?
01:13:10.000I would say a guy that inherited the money.
01:14:37.000Issues with handling money financially myself, seeing a man do that, it scares me because it's like, oh my god, I don't want to be put back into the same situation that I'm trying to get myself out of.
01:14:52.000I'm going to say old money, but then what you said about him throwing it around, that does scare me, but I'll say I'm going to say new money.
01:15:31.000Well, contrary to what I was going to say, I would say new money because I want a partner that's just as hungry and came from the bottom up, but I would like to be able to harness it into old money together, create an empire.
01:15:56.000I think if you're mature enough, I think you will attract someone just as mature and you can teach them the right way to get back into, you know, the good habits of saving it, creating it to be old money.
01:16:05.000I would say new money as well, like what she said, because you build an empire together and come from the bottom together.
01:17:05.000So, you know, try to find a 24-year-old guy out there that she would look at and say, oh, he's up here.
01:17:12.000You know, I want to aspire to be like that, which is what all girls at the end of the day are looking for.
01:17:18.000So if you just do and look at the probabilities, it's a numbers game.
01:17:22.000And so if you think about how many guys are in that age group that are in Miami, how many of them are single, how many of them are straight, how many of them have over 200 testosterone or whatever, your pool is very, very limited.
01:17:38.000So unfortunately, the more talent you have as a gal, it really limits your options.
01:19:24.000I want to say new money, but I'm going to go with old money because I feel like the probability of the longevity of that is higher than the new money.
01:19:33.000Even though I do want to enjoy the thrill and the fun of having new money and how they spend it, I think the old money can have a combination of that.
01:19:44.000So it's like, why can't we have a little bit of both?
01:19:46.000But, like, obviously, like, primarily the old money.
01:19:50.000Because, like I said, the probability of it lasting is higher, in my opinion.
01:19:56.000Because women make decisions just intuitively, right?
01:20:01.000Everyone likes to think that they rationalize decisions, but really it's kind of, you know, how you feel.
01:20:07.000And what I think a lot of times turns women on is that ambition, where the guy that didn't make it himself He's got everything just given to him.
01:20:53.000What you guys will realize when you get older and older and older, it's the guys that are super ambitious, those are usually the people that have made the fortune themselves.
01:21:09.000I would say all money because, like, let's say if you grew up, like, around your family and, you know, you were, like, very cultural, they're going to teach you to maintain that and obviously not lose the family's legacy, you know what I mean?
01:21:21.000So I think it's just like if they realize that their parents did hard work getting to where they are now, they're not just going to lose that and hold back.
01:21:28.000They're always going to have ambition by remembering that.
01:24:22.000Hope you're ready to go deep sea diving because I'm hitting the bottom of that motherfucker and don't tell me about your man friend that's your son.
01:25:40.000First of all, you spell Genevieve with a J. And I don't know, I'd have to see what you look like, but based off of how you're talking, probably not.
01:28:10.000What's your thoughts on 401Ks, George?
01:28:12.000I mean, I'd prefer to manage my own money because a 401K can be rather limiting.
01:28:16.000And especially with the composition of the stock market and passive investing, I won't go into details, but it's susceptible to a lot of volatility and a lot of tail risk on the downside.
01:28:29.000So I'd try to shy away from that if I had the...
01:28:32.000But then, you know, do you take it out and take a tax hit?
01:28:50.000But, you know, the way I made money when I was an entrepreneur, I never really focused on my tax hit.
01:28:58.000I would always just look for opportunities based on the risk-reward, and then at the end of the day, just pay the taxes.
01:29:03.000And I think it's the same thing with investing.
01:29:06.000But if I had a 9-to-5 job, and I knew that I was going to be in that job for the next 30 or 40 years, then I think it's something that could probably make sense.
01:30:58.000The only way I'll buy a new car is if I get allocation from Lamborghini directly, where a car is going to be brand new and it's the first of its kind.
01:31:14.000I mean, I was talking to Fresh about this after the show, and what I used to do is I'd say, okay, there's a car that I want that's a $2,500 payment.
01:31:23.000So I'd say, okay, let me go ahead and buy a rental property, and then I can have my renter pay the car note, and then I've got an asset that's appreciating as opposed to one that's depreciating.
01:31:32.000Someone gave me that advice a couple years ago.
01:31:34.000Yeah, that's the only way I'd go out and buy a new car.
01:31:35.000If I just had to pay cash for something, you just let someone else take the depreciation hit right off the bat.
01:33:37.000I have multiple properties down here in South Florida and I got some in Connecticut and I've studied the Florida market very heavily.
01:33:43.000To buy a 3-2 approximately three years ago You would have, assuming, let's say it's a turnkey or whatever, even if you wanted to get a rehab, you're spending at least $300,000 to $500,000.
01:33:54.000$300,000 and you've got to put some work in, $500,000 for it to be possibly turnkey in Boca Raton.
01:33:59.000You're telling me you paid half a million dollars cash for a home?
01:34:02.000But after working for three years, starting when you're 15.
01:37:31.000I paid that off, but at the beginning of college, that was really hard walking into college with no money because I had to instantly get a job right away.
01:37:56.000I have, I have, I got on a cord and it's very, I, I, my, my friends know I call it an old fart because that thing does not move whatsoever.
01:39:12.000One, with Airbnb, you're maximizing that because you're doing nightly prices versus the whole month, right?
01:39:18.000And then on top of it, Airbnb covers me.
01:39:20.000So if anything would ever happen, which I've only had things happen three times now and I've been hosting for seven months, you can either handle it with the guests themselves.
01:39:28.000They'll zell you because they don't want to go through Airbnb.
01:40:23.000So my question to you, though, would be if you had to put a long-term renter in there with that type of rent, but it still covered the mortgage and your expenses, or would you have negative cash flow?
01:40:32.000So if I were to have to go that route, let's say Airbnb drop dead tomorrow, I would go the route of like a creator house finding like, you know, let's just assume for a moment that you had to rent that out long term with like a year lease or a two year lease.
01:40:45.000I would say I would make 1500 on top of my mortgage.
01:40:54.000Because I know a lot of people are interested in Airbnbs, but what they'll do to make the numbers work is they'll say, okay, if I get Airbnb money, then I can cover the mortgage.
01:41:02.000I can cover the property taxes, the insurance.
01:41:05.000But what happens if the market gets saturated with Airbnbs, which is another good reason why she branded it so she sticks out.
01:41:11.000But if you get saturated, now all of a sudden, your only option, because we go into a recession, people aren't traveling, is to rent it out long term, but that amount of money that you're getting won't cover your mortgage.
01:41:51.000You know, when I first got into real estate, there were a lot of guys, you know, in 2012, there was a lot of guys where I was that I'd go to dinner with, and they'd, oh, George, you've got to do Section 8.
01:42:08.000And so I'm like, you know, if you want to do that, it's going to be a full-time job.
01:42:12.000The other thing, too, about Airbnb that worries me is there's places like New York City that pretty much banned it.
01:42:17.000And Airbnb is destroying the hotel industry.
01:42:20.000So for a lot of major cities, I'm like, okay, if New York sets the precedent where they're going to ban Airbnbs, what's going to happen to all the other major cities in the United States?
01:42:30.000So that's another thing, too, that I was kind of like, okay, I want to be...
01:42:33.000Yeah, that's why you gotta hedge your downside.
01:42:34.000Make sure the numbers work in the long term.
01:42:36.000Real quick, let's head over to Rumble.
01:43:04.000But no, I paid insurance points up front to get my interest rate down because I did buy in a really terrible time, but they always say it's a bad time to buy.
01:43:52.000Yeah, but if you're just getting a hard money loan from a private lender, they're not going to give you a 30-year fixed-rate mortgage, because that's going to lose money.
01:44:04.000It wouldn't be worth it on your end to pay that much money to compensate them for the loss and the purchasing power of the dollar because they're never going to be able to keep up with the rate of inflation by giving you a 4% or 5% interest rate.
01:44:16.000And there's no bank that would ever land on that over 30 years because who knows, we could turn into her country and all of a sudden the value of the loan or the payments that you're making It turns into nothing.
01:44:29.000What you have to understand is that we are the only country, one of the only countries that have 30-year fixed-rate loans.
01:44:35.000The UK doesn't have it, Australia doesn't have it.
01:44:39.000No, of course not, because it's a money-losing loan.
01:44:41.000So it has to be subsidized by the government.
01:44:42.000That has to go from the bank's balance sheet to straighter to Fannie and Freddie.
01:44:45.000So it's basically subsidized by the taxpayer.
01:44:49.000So there's no private lender that's going to keep that on their balance sheet.
01:44:52.000So I'm not saying that you didn't get it.
01:44:54.000I'm just saying that there's something...
01:46:05.000Yeah, but the interest rates are so low.
01:46:07.000I would just make the absolute minimum payment, just assuming within the next two or three years that it just gets written off.
01:46:15.000It depends on which loans, because I tried to do with Biden with the forgiveness, and if you just got your loans recently, he won't forgive them.
01:46:23.000And if it's a master's loan, depending on which master's, he won't forgive them.
01:57:28.000I don't really need a man to be making 500k.
01:57:30.000If anything, hopefully one day I'll be making that myself, so I would rather be with someone who will show me the love that I'll give them.
01:57:35.000Yeah, but if you're making 500 and your guy's making 40, there's just no way that's going to last.
01:59:26.000And one day, I went through his phone, and I seen, like, a bunch of the girls and stuff like that, and I had a conversation with my friend, and she told me, she said, every man cheats.
01:59:33.000So I felt like I was kind of just trying to stay in that, you know, like, oh, okay, like, all men do this, right?
01:59:39.000So in that, you know, luckily, this person ended up giving me something.
01:59:45.000Luckily, it was something that I was able to get rid of, but in that, it made me realize, like, wow, you can actually...
01:59:51.000And my doctor was the one that told me.
01:59:53.000She was like, you know, you can actually...
01:59:56.000Put yourself in a situation where you can't get rid of something.
02:00:00.000So that's what made me realize, like, damn, it's not worth it.
02:00:23.000But at the end of the day, listen, at the end of the day, it made me realize, wow, somebody can actually fuck you up to the point where you can literally lose your life over something.
02:00:35.000And I'm not saying you don't lose your life, but I'm saying...
02:00:55.000I've always said that women lie to themselves for the men that they like, but they're honest with themselves with the men that they don't like.
02:01:20.000Because, you know, granted, when I would catch him doing something that I didn't like and I would confront him about it, you know, he would come, let me tell you something, he was a great gifter.
02:01:28.000He would come with the flowers, he would come with the whole shebang.
02:01:31.000But then I realized that it just wasn't enough.
02:01:34.000No money is enough for your health, ladies.
02:02:27.000I see the worst drivers in Seattle, and every single time it's an old Chinese lady driving five inches from Seattle, and we're going 50 in the middle lane.
02:03:49.000Shout-out to Chris for, again, a smarter panel, because we knew that we were going to bring George on, so we're like, bro, we can't bring on some dumb hoes on this one.
02:03:56.000So, yeah, we bring some real retards, man, in the past.
02:04:38.000I think it's bullshit, and actually it's funny.
02:04:40.000There's a study that came out that people that believe in signs tend to be more narcissistic and lower IQ. But there's also a statistic that says a lot of wealthy people and billionaires base their investments and their money off of astrology.
02:07:14.000I don't think she should be required to accept anything.
02:07:17.000I think that she would probably go into the mode that you went into, where she's convincing herself that it's good because of everything else that comes along with it.
02:07:27.000But I don't think any man or woman should be forced to...
02:08:05.000If the gal's 30 or something, then, you know, it's a different story.
02:08:09.000I would argue that when it comes to long-term relationships, the person's going to tell you by either words or actions what they want in bed.
02:08:20.000And if you can't fulfill that request, I would say it's only a matter of time until they find it somewhere else.
02:08:25.000So even with money and status, it can hold them for a little bit, but like long-term, the pool boy was very enticing after a certain while.
02:08:34.000So it's kind of like you want to make sure that you're on all points on point because if you're not on point on some areas, you're lacking.
02:09:13.000Don't you think it comes down to respecting, too?
02:09:15.000Because like what she was saying, you can catch something and you can give your wife something if you're doing it, like, not responsibly, right?
02:09:21.000So if you're a loving husband and you're going to step out, you're going to make sure it's not going to get back to her.
02:09:43.000It's possible is what I'm trying to say.
02:09:45.000You're talking about a micro situation where I'm talking about the macro, like men are absolutely capable of doing it versus women are really not.
02:09:51.000I think men and women can, but the probability of women doing it is lower.
02:11:16.000No, because I feel like if another man's catching your attention, you're already dwindling down on the love that you've had for the man at home.
02:12:30.000It's hardwiring because, look, 300 years ago, that's a death sentence for a gal.
02:12:37.000So that's the way it's been for literally thousands or, you know, depending on what you believe, millions of years.
02:12:42.000So we've only been out of that stage for, let's say, 200 years, where, you know, prior to that, a gal, unfortunately, or fortunate, whatever, you know, was pregnant half her life.
02:13:32.000Dudes that have money, make the money to not tolerate your bullshit, and they make it to have options of women.
02:13:38.000And as long as you're the main girl, you have the last name, you have the title, you have the ring, shut the fuck up and don't make his life hard.
02:14:23.000But that's what I tell my daughter if she wanted a guy that was successful.
02:14:26.000And then I would also warn her, you can get with a broker, he's probably gonna cheat with you too.
02:14:29.000So you might as well get with a guy that has money.
02:14:31.000So why wouldn't you want to sit your daughter down and say, hey, instead of having to rely on a man out of necessity, you're with a man because you want to be with him.
02:14:38.000Like I say this, I get what you're saying and I always see the truth in some of the points that you guys point out, but wouldn't you rather want a female want to be with you because they want to, because they love you and they don't need you.
02:14:49.000They can get up and Well, your question is flawed and I'll tell you why.
02:14:52.000The problem is that whenever women only want you, they're not going to do what's required to keep you.
02:14:59.000I think that you can be, you can fulfill their necessities in other ways, but I'm just saying a lot of what you're saying, oh, he has the money, he has this.
02:15:05.000Well, what if I come to the table with just as much?
02:15:07.000Women need to, like, for a relationship to work, the woman needs the man.
02:15:14.000Like, whenever girls have this boss mentality that you kind of have where it's like, I just want a man, but it's not a necessity, what ends up happening is, you think the grass is greener on the other side, you think you can find a better guy, you think I can do better, etc.
02:15:25.000And what ends up happening when women have options is they turn out to make really bad decisions, and they'll go ahead and get with a guy that's very attractive, they'll go ahead and get with a guy that has money, or they'll go ahead and get with a guy that they think is a better deal or whatever, because they're like, I deserve more, because they make their own money and they base their value off their money.
02:15:41.000And what they don't realize is, He's gonna do the same shit the other guy did.
02:15:45.000And women really don't behave and they're not in line when they only want you.
02:15:49.000They need to need you for it to actually work.
02:15:51.000But I think more so, too, what you have to realize is that guys and girls look for completely separate things.
02:15:58.000So you are everything that you look for in a guy, but you have to understand that that guy is probably looking for something completely different.
02:16:18.000I get that it's harder to date when you're in a position of wanting to have power and wanting to be independent, but I do think that it's important as a dad eventually one day, don't you want to tell your daughter that she doesn't need to be there?
02:16:31.000No, I'm going to warn her and I'm going to tell her to go to school, go ahead and pursue your education, etc.
02:16:58.000You better fucking find a guy now, when you're still in your 20s, because I promise you, when you hit your 30s, you're not going to be able to pull the same guy, and you're going to make money, and it's just going to be worse for you.
02:17:04.000So pull a guy now while you fucking can.
02:17:05.000You better start looking around your med school, whatever, because your value isn't finite.
02:17:09.000And she found a guy, I think he's an anesthesiologist, and they worked it out.
02:17:12.000But had I not had that really tough conversation with her and told her, stop being a dumb bitch and find a man now, because she's hard-headed like these other...
02:18:32.000But if you accept that, I'd rather take the cons of having a smaller pool than taking the cons of having to go throughout life relying on men.
02:18:40.000But then what I'd also say is that you have to realize that what you want right now is going to be completely different than what you want at 30 and 35.
02:18:51.000For guys, that usually doesn't change.
02:18:53.000When we're 15 years old, we've got the poster of the Lamborghini on the wall, and that's pretty much what we strive for for the rest of our lives.
02:19:02.000But with women, what they want at, let's say, 25, like I said, I've had thousands of people work for me, most of them women.
02:19:10.000And I cannot tell you how many women...
02:19:41.000So I'd try to be as honest with her as I possibly could on the realities of life, the realities of human hardwiring, and then just let her make her own decisions.
02:20:04.000No, I mean, obviously I know the delivery might be a little offensive to you guys, but you have to...
02:20:10.000And obviously it's my sister, so I could be a little bit more direct and blunt with her.
02:20:13.000But a lot of times when you're polarizing and you give it in a very direct, concise, even rude manner, they'll at least remember and they'll stick with them.
02:20:28.000Girls, for a woman to truly love her and respect you, she must feel like she needs you versus only wants.
02:20:33.000Because if you only want something, you're not going to do everything required to get it, right?
02:20:36.000If I know, if I need oxygen, right, I'm going to make sure that I'm fucking not underwater and putting myself in a situation where I can't breathe, right?
02:20:45.000If you need it, you're going to do everything required to get it.
02:20:48.000But when you only want it, eh, I don't feel like it today.
02:20:52.000I only want you as my man, so I don't feel like cooking and cleaning today.
02:20:58.000It's like, when you breathe air, you need it, versus you want it.
02:21:01.000And then you also gotta ask yourself, why do girls only want a relationship 9 out of 10 times?
02:21:05.000Typically it's for social proof, to have a boyfriend come with them on the parties or whatever, but they're not doing everything required to actually keep that guy.
02:21:11.000We're constantly living under that guideline, though, of you don't need us, you just want us.
02:21:37.000Yeah, I don't need a man that needs me.
02:21:38.000The only thing that throws me is I just would think that you would want for your daughter to be able to provide for herself regardless of who is in the situation or not.
02:22:32.000Wherever you're living, assuming that you wanted to date a guy within 5, 10 miles or something like that, you have to say, okay, how many guys in this area...
02:22:50.000But I'm saying I'd rather those cons of struggling than not building this lifestyle for myself.
02:22:56.000Yeah, and as long as you understand that going into it, more power to you.
02:22:59.000The problem with the educational system right now is they tell the girls that they can have everything, and they don't tell them that they are limiting their pool, and they tell them that, yes, you're going to be making a million dollars a year, and you'll be totally happy dating a guy that's making 50 grand a year.
02:23:26.000I always say, you want to go to school, you want to make money, you want to be successful, cool, but are you prepared to deal with the consequences?
02:23:31.000And those consequences are more than likely, extremely high likelihood, you're going to stay single.
02:23:36.000Because the very men that meet your requirements don't want you back in return.
02:25:43.000Yeah, I think if I had to answer that question as honestly as I could, it's very difficult to find a combination of the two main things that you're looking for, right?
02:26:49.000There's always a lot of variety, and there's always new women coming into your life that are fun and exciting, and that's just something that you don't want to give up.
02:27:05.000George, are you an ass man or a tip man?
02:27:40.000There's a reason why little girls play house from the time they're babies and children versus boys who are outside playing sports, competing with each other.
02:27:48.000It actually perfectly personifies the male experience versus the female experience.
02:27:52.000The female experience, since you were a kid, has been typically centered around family, children, people around you.
02:27:58.000This is why women are more social than men are in general.
02:28:28.000I remember growing up as a kid, even at maybe four or five years old, if my mom was walking ahead of me, going into the grocery store or something like that, she would literally sit and wait at the door.
02:29:28.000Because she realizes that you have other options and you've got a life.
02:29:33.000And that she is not your number one priority.
02:29:35.000Your number one priority is going out there and being successful as you possibly can.
02:29:39.000And that's something, if you can figure out that combination, then you're going to be very successful with women long-term.
02:29:49.000Each point of trigger that gets their emotions going.
02:29:53.000I look at a 51-year-old guy, no kids, no family, and a bunch of money, that's a W. I look at a woman that, if I took a female and had those same statistics, or those same stats, I'd be like, you failed.
02:30:07.000Men and women are very different as what we define as life success.
02:30:11.000I look at it as a woman is successful and she's able to find a man that she loves and admires and respects that she wants to be with.
02:30:18.000I look at a man as successful if he's dominated the world, he's created some respect, he has peers that respect him, etc.
02:30:25.000And then a byproduct of that could be a woman or not.
02:34:40.000But I definitely would say I appreciate you, George, for being here because there was a lot of information that I've learned that I was kind of just a little bit...
02:36:44.000Omani goes, open a Google tab and type in, why is my wife allowing me read the first paragraph and get the lady's thoughts, then open another tab.
02:36:50.000Not today's episode, my friend, but we can do it on another one.
02:37:06.000Big Pimpin' HeyFNF, most of these girls have found their perfect guy, but the door in them still wants to explore.
02:37:11.000Question, ladies, are you going 50-50 with a guy or other?
02:37:13.000No, bro, you already know girls don't want to go 50-50.
02:37:15.000As more men stay losers with addictions to corn and video games and as women's hypergamy grows from social media, will high-five men refuse to be monogamous because of the severe supply and demand?