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00:02:27.000And I also did the Trump indictment, guys.
00:02:29.000So I broke it down in detail, went over the charges, what happened with Stormy Daniels, what he's actually being charged with, falsifying business records.
00:02:35.000So if you guys want to go ahead and check that out, he just got indicted actually yesterday.
00:02:39.000So it is what it is, but I go into detail with timestamps and everything else like that.
00:02:43.000So yeah, they need to lock up Hillary instead, but that's a whole other thing.
00:11:47.000Wait, so what's the reason for the girl again?
00:11:49.000She's emotionally frustrated with a man at that point.
00:11:51.000So for the man, just to make sure I got this right, you think it's equal between a cheating, men do it to fill the spark, and then women do it for...
00:12:11.000Like, because as a girl, most of the time I think we know our value or something, and the man always needs confirmation.
00:12:33.000Just to be clear, the question is who cheats more and then why?
00:12:38.000Okay, so I agree with her with saying, like, I feel like they both equally cheat, but it's different type of cheating.
00:12:44.000So men will physically cheat on you, but women would emotionally cheat on you.
00:12:48.000So say, for instance, if a girl is mad at their partner or something, they would possibly, like, text somebody or entertain the idea of it, but not fully go, like, and, you know, hump on them or something like that, you know?
00:13:10.000Just any change and any emotion, if they're not getting that constant validation, I guess, from men, they're going to take that as, okay, he doesn't like me anymore, he doesn't love me, and so they're going to go cheat.
00:15:22.000I think women hide it better, but men for sure cheat more.
00:15:26.000Almost every man I've come across has presented himself as, like, insecure.
00:15:29.000I think a lot of men are insecure and just look for validation through women, whether it be because of their mothers or family or whatever.
00:15:37.000I think it definitely roots from, like, childhood.
00:15:40.000Who searches for validation more, men or women, from the opposite gender?
00:18:40.000I think, well, let's start with the vast majority of people don't cheat.
00:18:44.000So I believe the people who do cheat are just emotionally immature, they're insecure, they don't feel stable in the relationship, so they just look for somebody else to fill that void.
00:18:53.000So I think from the subsection of people who do cheat, it's because of that.
00:19:42.000Women cheat more because we typically have placeholder boyfriends, we don't respect them, and we seek validation from other men.
00:19:50.000Men, given the chance, if they were able to get women, yes, they would physically cheat more, but men don't necessarily have to entertain women, nor do they really have those chances most of the time.
00:19:58.000And for me, the threshold of cheating is not just physical.
00:20:02.000If you're entertaining another man, like the guys in DMs, oh, I'll take you out, block.
00:20:07.000Because even entertaining them, even responding to me like, oh, I'm talking to somebody, you're entertaining him.
00:20:40.000And if somebody strokes your emotion and your ego enough, and you're dealing with a guy, and in most cases, women aren't dealing with a guy that they truly respect anyway, so someone giving you more attention when he's not, they're going to go for it.
00:20:52.000Do you ladies agree that as a woman, the threshold for you to cheat is easier to breach just by simply accepting attention from the opposite gender?
00:21:24.000Because also, like, if also posting a picture on social media, you're totally like on the fact that maybe you're a side tree in the real life and you can post a better picture or something.
00:22:11.000But I was like, also you said that if you're going to answer to that man that's giving you a compliment, it's like for you, it's cheating, though?
00:22:18.000If you respect a man, whether you're in the relationship with him or not, and you respect him, you shouldn't be speaking to another man at all.
00:22:25.000But like if a man texts under my picture, hey, beautiful.
00:22:59.000Let me clarify for you ladies so you understand what he's saying.
00:23:04.000So if you post a picture not for your boyfriend, you're posting it to the public and you know other men follow you, you're making yourself accessible to other men.
00:23:13.000Do you not think women can take photos for themselves or for their friends in general?
00:24:52.000Regardless of that, when you're saying, oh no, like you're just like posting for other men, et cetera, et cetera, people like to share what they're doing on Instagram with their friends as well, right?
00:26:00.000No, probably you don't know most of the dates about Instagram.
00:26:06.000The person who's getting more money out of Instagram is the person who's sponsoring a continent for girls.
00:26:13.000The girls are the most buyers and everything.
00:26:16.000So I cannot tell you 100 names of influencers.
00:26:20.000They are not posting a picture, really like picture only for showing clothes and they're getting most of the money of it.
00:26:26.000Like not even like with all the fans, the girls are only fun.
00:26:32.000They're getting only a small percent of it.
00:26:33.000So Instagram nowadays, especially with the new limits that they're imposing to the influencer and everything, they're posting all the pictures about clothes and everything.
00:29:04.000If we're going to follow your logic to the end of everything, right, then it follows that women should not step outside the house without a burqa on because other men can be attracted and they can talk to you and you're making yourself accessible.
00:29:17.000So that is a logical conclusion of what you're saying.
00:30:00.000You were saying that by his logic, women should wear burqas.
00:30:04.000Continue to finish your point, then he can answer.
00:30:06.000What I'm trying to explain here is that, oh, you get to choose, you get to create your following.
00:30:11.000There's a certain point where that's not true anymore, right?
00:30:13.000Where if you're trying to be an influencer, if you're trying to grow, et cetera, et cetera, you're going to get vast amounts of people, some with fake accounts, some with real accounts following you.
00:30:21.000Now, let's say, okay, you know, oh, women shouldn't become influencers because that's making themselves accessible.
00:30:28.000Well, either way, At the end of the day, like, if somebody's following me and I don't know them, etc., etc., their attraction to me is not necessarily me making myself accessible.
00:30:38.000Now, if I start flirting with them back, if I start texting them back, etc., etc., that's a different story.
00:30:43.000But it's the same logic of, oh, meeting people in real life.
00:30:49.000The same logic would be going out to a nightclub, dressed sexy, knowing men who will be attracted to you will be there, but you're still dressed sexy, making yourself available.
00:31:00.000I think that logic applies more to Instagram versus just stepping outside your house.
00:31:06.000Okay, I have a legitimate question for you guys.
00:31:09.000Do you think that when a woman is being attractive, it can only be on the basis of other men?
00:31:15.000Do you think a woman can never dress up for just herself, just to feel good about herself, just because she likes what she looks in the mirror?
00:33:27.000The clothes that you wear are a very distinct category from the clothes that you go outside in.
00:33:31.000It doesn't mean that the clothes that you go outside in, you don't like them, or you're only dressing for a certain person, et cetera, et cetera.
00:33:37.000Then why would you need to post it online then?
00:34:14.000So we don't have to have this conversation about, do I sleep in my tuxedo?
00:34:16.000I've admitted that I do it for bitches.
00:34:18.000Wait, I have an honest question, just because I... So, you guys have never had an article or piece of clothing that you really like, that's like, regardless if women are all over you or not, you're like, I look good in this, or I like this color, so I'm going to wear it.
00:35:09.000And then you claim that it's because you like it.
00:35:11.000But no, you really like the attention.
00:35:13.000So you mask the I like it for you really want attention.
00:35:18.000Have you never posted a picture for your homies?
00:35:22.000No, not because you're gay, but because you're doing something cool, like you're in a foreign country or some shit, and you're like, hey, I think it'd be cool if my friends saw that I'm in this foreign country,
00:36:01.000Do you take your makeup off before you go to sleep with him or do you wear your makeup and then wake up with your makeup on so you don't look crazy?
00:36:13.000Y'all know y'all be leaving that makeup on.
00:36:18.000Eyelash hanging off that motherfucker.
00:36:20.000How many one night stands have you had for you to know this?
00:38:34.000The answer to Fresh's question, I believe it's anything emotional, cheating as we stated, and validation seeking behavior.
00:38:41.000So, dressing sexy on Instagram, going out to nightclubs, presenting yourself as single, acting single, anything like that to me is cheating.
00:40:09.000It's gonna protect you when somebody comes and break in.
00:40:13.000He's asking that you just not having fucked a hundred dudes.
00:40:17.000In short, ladies, women want success, men want purity.
00:40:25.000Logically speaking, if you're talking about provision, providing, the more people you fuck, the more people you might make pregnant, the less you're able to provide for me.
00:41:10.000The more people you fuck, the more people you might make pregnant, the less you can provide for a single individual other person.
00:41:15.000You have to divide that between as many people as you're fucking.
00:41:18.000Second of all, you're saying kings, but historically speaking, throughout Europe, it was one king, one queen, maybe the divorce had chopped off or whatever, but still, during a period of time, it's just one and one.
00:42:07.000I'll just use King Henry, for example.
00:42:10.000You know, he had, like, he had plenty of concubines.
00:42:13.000I mean, Anne Boleyn became a queen by kicking Catherine off the throne because she was one of his whores, and he ended up falling in love with her and chose Anne Boleyn, got rid of Queen Catherine, and yeah.
00:42:22.000And then through Anne Boleyn, he had another whore, and then she became the next queen after he chopped off Anne's head.
00:42:27.000Yeah, but the point is, he didn't have Anne Boleyn and the other queen.
00:42:30.000He had to get rid of one to get the other one inside.
00:42:33.000He said king, queen, and then the hoes, and that's what we're talking about.
00:42:36.000You can be the main girl, and he's still gonna fuck other bitches.
00:43:34.000But the majority, we can't talk about this little tiny bit and forget about the rest of the majority.
00:43:41.000So let me ask you guys a quick question because you mentioned him having sex with girls, him having to potentially share resources, whatever.
00:43:52.000So that means that the woman has to have some agency to make sure that the guy that she's having sex with is high value enough where, okay, if this guy was to fuck other bitches, which he probably is prone to do biologically and what he wants to do, let me make sure that he's high value enough to not just fuck me, but if he did fuck other girls, I'm willing to accept it.
00:44:09.000So it's on the woman to assess the man's value.
00:44:11.000See how it comes back to you guys and you've got to have some agency here?
00:44:15.000You've got to find a man that is respectable.
00:44:16.000So you mentioned because he was making the argument, well, if he has sex with a bunch of girls, there's a chance that he might have to share the resources.
00:44:22.000Well, it's on you to make sure that you pick the right guy, right, to have sex with.
00:44:28.000But you were trying to take the agency away saying, oh, well, he's going to have sex with all these other girls and he might share resources with them.
00:44:33.000Well, that's why I'm saying that's why the vast majority of women and men as well, the vast majority of both of them are only okay with monogamous relationships because they know that, guess what?
00:44:42.000The more you start sleeping around, the more you're with other people, the less likely you are able to commit to one another.
00:45:02.000The reality is, what you're talking about, a nuclear family being monogamous, whatever, it was created to allow men that were normal or of lower status to have sexual access.
00:45:10.000Statistically speaking, monogamous societies tend to be more stable than areas where it's polygamous.
00:45:17.000Okay, with your logic then, every single billionaire, which this is not true, I'm going to just tell you straight up ahead of time, that's not true.
00:45:24.000Every single billionaire would have a million side hoes.
00:45:49.000That's why they do things behind the scenes.
00:45:51.000That's why they hire people like Epstein to do strange stuff in islands.
00:45:54.000Like, this is why the wealthy do the things that they do to protect their privacy, because the thing is that they understand that for me to get deals, to get business opportunities, etc., I need to present a nuclear family and present a certain image.
00:46:05.000But the reality is men that have power, that have status, have always had multiple women.
00:46:12.000Celebrities are all in open relationships.
00:46:14.000I think it's kind of, I don't want to say crazy, but a little bit, to believe that this is a giant secret kept by all the billionaires that somehow hasn't been, like, you know, published in a magazine.
00:47:06.000I'm not denying the fact that you have options.
00:47:08.000The point that I'm denying is this idea that, oh, you know, there's all these billionaires cheating on all these people, and we don't know because it's such a well-kept secret.
00:47:16.000When some of the richest men in the world have had their affairs easily, the second a news media tablet can get it, Express it to the entire world, okay?
00:47:24.000So if you have Jeff Bezos, if you have Bill Gates or whatever, having these affairs exposed, I strongly doubt that all the other fucking billionaires are able to somehow keep it more quiet.
00:48:23.000I have enough self-respect to say, like, holy fuck, this is not a healthy or stable relationship if I'm worrying all the fucking time about him cheating on me.
00:51:23.000The only way for your man of your dreams to not cheat on you is for you to wake him up with head every day and throw that booty on him every single day.
00:51:45.000But if you making sure that his nuts is busted every day in and day out, what if that's the only fail-proof plan to make sure he doesn't cheat?
00:52:00.000See, they don't even like giving men what they want.
00:52:03.000They don't like giving men what they truly want.
00:52:05.000Because I like how you look when I do it.
00:52:14.000Alongside with that, to give a direct answer, because I thought about this, is that you've got to get your man to a point where his emotions override his nature.
00:52:24.000To where, even though he still wants to act on cheating, He values you so much and you provide him, support him, not provide for him, but support him so much and just support You're not annoying.
00:52:39.000Do all the things that he doesn't even have the energy or desire to just see or do anything with any other girl.
00:53:00.000Go ahead and interject your point, then I'll ask the ladies a question.
00:53:02.000If a man gets to the point where his emotions override his nature as a man, which his nature is masculinity, I'm no longer respecting that man.
00:53:47.000And he will think, once again, like, for example, most guys that want to cheat, they can't because they're not the man that they want to be or they're not successful.
00:53:53.000But if they are successful, they're going to cheat eventually.
00:53:55.000Raise your hands if you want a man that's taller than you.
00:55:29.000Why is it that a man busts his ass to get to a certain point and he finally has the ability to attract multiple women and y'all want to reel it in and say, no, be monogamous to me even though I didn't earn my value and you earned your value.
00:56:07.000So we just forgot about integrity, right?
00:56:24.000Why is it that my preferences are always hit with some kind of moral bullshit gymnastics, but your standards and what you want never hit with morals?
00:56:32.000Why is it that it's okay for you to demand a man that's better you in every single regard?
00:56:35.000Money, height, income, competence, take care of you, provisioning for you.
00:56:39.000I just want to fuck some other bitch, are you telling me I can't do it?
01:01:48.000Then I come and I tell you at this high school graduation, and you know that I lost my wealth, but I'm, you know, trying to flex a little bit.
01:02:48.000Would you take my financial advice seriously?
01:02:50.000No, I would listen to what you're saying and find out for myself, write research online, et cetera, et cetera, before I make a final decision.
01:02:59.000But based on what you said before, it doesn't seem like you are good with your own money.
01:03:46.000So how the fuck are you going to tell a self-made millionaire how to spend their money, i.e., how many bitches I can fuck, when you got your money up front?
01:05:25.000So here's the problem that you're not realizing here.
01:05:28.000Number one, men do care about a woman's past significantly.
01:05:32.000Just like women care about a man's future, men care about a woman's past, okay?
01:05:35.000So with that said, when a man wants to have sex with a girl versus commit to a girl are two completely different things.
01:05:41.000You're making the cardinal mistake that a lot of modern-day women do, and you're conflating sexual attraction with relationship attraction.
01:05:59.000It's not even the same league type shit.
01:06:01.000I can say one thing, based on my experience, because I was the one with the one you're calling King, because he was able to providing more and more than the normal things and everything.
01:06:15.000I did everything for him, like everything, and I got it done multiple times.
01:06:20.000Spending six months behind him trying to do everything.
01:06:52.000Do you understand the concept of what I'm trying to say here with, as a trust fund baby, which all of you are as women, you cannot tell a self-made millionaire, men, how to spend their currency.
01:11:10.000There's a third option I can stay by myself.
01:11:13.000You can say that now because you're 25 and men still attract you, but I promise you by the time you're 30, 31, 32, 33, when you don't get the same level of attention because we brought a bunch of girls here that were former feminists and they regret Going down that road and thinking I'm gonna be by myself.
01:12:31.000And they can confirm in the lobby while I was waiting to come here, a man with a dog asked to ask, oh, I have a dog food brand or something who has a dog.
01:12:42.000And I'm like, yeah, I have a little dog.
01:12:43.000So he gives it to me a pack of food for my dog.
01:18:19.000Why is it that you are okay with judging a book by its cover and disqualifying a man, but men can easily do that to you as well and you don't understand that?
01:18:26.000When did I say I was judging him by his cover?
01:21:34.000That brings me to my next point, which is like the reason why I think the red pill is so negative towards men is because they're valuing the value of a man based on how much fucking sex he can get, right?
01:21:44.000And I think the value of a man should not be reliant on how many women are thirsting over his dick.
01:21:49.000I think men have more worth than just the amount of sex they can have.
01:21:52.000For a man to get sex, what does he have to be?
01:21:54.000What do you mean, what does he have to be?
01:21:56.000For a man to be able to sleep with multiple women, what does he have to be?
01:22:00.000I mean, he has to be attracted to multiple women, meaning he has to be stable, he has to look good, dress well, have confidence to be able to lead.
01:22:10.000What does that have to do with my point from earlier?
01:22:44.000Do you guys not believe that men can build, that men can study, that men can do all these things, but do not fuck women at the end of the day?
01:24:37.000So for example, I was going to say as well, so a guy that's getting a lot of girls, right, that's poor, broke, whatever, he's getting bitches, but he's not very successful.
01:24:47.000Okay, okay, because I have a clarifying question, which I think you answered, but I just want to make sure.
01:24:52.000So if you have a man like Albert Einstein or whatever, who is not drowning in pussy, but he has made academic achievements that have changed the course of humanity, you would still consider him a high-value man.
01:25:09.000I'm sorry, but I have consumed a decent amount of red pill content, and I'm glad you guys don't agree with this, but there's plenty of men who would say no.
01:25:20.000If you're not attracting women, if you're not super buff and fit and whatever, then you might as well be a low value man.
01:28:30.000Every single girl is chasing the same guy.
01:28:32.000You think he's going to sit there and have sex with just you when all the other girls are chasing him and he has to bust his ass against that point?
01:32:02.000Men should be looking for biologically women who are just as ambitious, just as smart, similar social class, et cetera, et cetera, because otherwise your children are going to come off as smart.
01:32:18.000If you're dating somebody who is stupider than you and you believe genes are 50-50, then that means your child is going to come out dumber than you.
01:32:24.000You should be looking for somebody just for equal.
01:32:27.000Nowhere did I say that men look for a woman's competence when they're attracted to a woman.
01:32:54.000So if your children are coming out half as smart as you because you're only picking a good-looking bitch or whatever, you're not looking for intelligence, competence, or anything else, you are lowering their likelihood of survival.
01:33:06.000Incorrect, because you have a better chance of bringing a child to term with a young, attractive, fertile woman over a woman that's 30 years old and competent and smart.
01:33:15.000Well, you don't think that there is young, attractive, and competent women?
01:33:28.000You're better off bringing a child to term with a dumb bitch that's young and fertile over a woman that's 30 years old and intelligent and is trying to claim.
01:33:35.000But you just agreed with me earlier on.
01:35:25.000Her intelligence, her personal intelligence, has absolutely nothing to do with that child's intelligence.
01:35:32.000When you're fucking a girl, so once you're fucking a girl and you have a baby with her, you don't care about how that child's gonna turn out, like how she's gonna raise that kid.
01:36:20.000I'm saying that either way, you should care about intelligence, right?
01:36:23.000I'm saying that you, if you're a man and you want your child to survive, you want your child to be able to survive, you would still not just survive.
01:36:46.000I'm saying under your framework of how men are supposed to care about their children thriving, becoming the top, continuing the gene pool legacy, going.
01:36:55.000You would want smart children if you want that to happen.
01:42:23.000I understood that their value is not based on pussy.
01:42:26.000It's based on being able to pursue what you love, what you're able to contribute in general to society.
01:42:33.000And if that means you're a fucking virgin or you can't fuck, to me, you're still a valuable man if you're able to contribute to society in other ways.
01:43:45.000One thing you want to wish men instead of women, or vice versa.
01:43:53.000I wish I understood, like, kind of piggybacking off her, like, why they want to, like, fuck everything and, like, why they keep replying and replying and replying when they don't get a fucking response.
01:44:03.000And then I wish what they understood about women is that we're more emotional and, like, we don't get attracted to, like, them sending, like, certain pictures or them, like, just being like, hey, like, let's hook up or something.
01:44:15.000Like, we definitely want more emotional things.
01:46:43.000And I will say this, when women say, I'm single by choice, that's the equivalent to a guy that can't get laid that says, yeah, I'm a virgin or a hencel by choice.
01:46:53.000Women chase relationships, men chase sex.
01:47:22.000Women sit there and say, I want to be single, blah, blah, blah.
01:47:24.000There's a reason why it's called Hot Girl Summer and not Hot Girl Life.
01:47:27.000You guys are okay with being single short-term, but you typically want that security from a man that you love and mind and respect long-term.
01:47:42.000It's going to be hot when I get on there.
01:47:45.000Okay, so you said, okay, what about you?
01:47:49.000Well, I feel like what I would want men to know about women, when it comes to after we get married, if you are going to step out on our relationship, please hide it from the kids.
01:48:24.000From the men, they need to understand, like I was saying before, They need to recognize also when a woman wants to feel beautiful also for herself and not for other men.
01:49:44.000What I mean by this is you guys can sympathize, but you can't empathize because you aren't men and you don't understand what it takes to be a man and to be attractive as a man.
01:49:52.000You only know what you're attracted to and that's the only thing you care about.
01:51:13.000So he cheated on her for like two years with a younger score and at the end Shakira took the kids and she went away and left Piquet with the lover.
01:51:32.000He probably was cheating the whole time.
01:51:34.000You said that, right, but you said the whole time and he needs to keep providing.
01:51:39.000Here's the thing, because you're making the mistake and thinking that men care about Shakira's status, her money, that she's a Grammy award winning singer.
01:53:13.000So while you're arguing that they are marrying in their range bracket, women are unhappy because of that financial situation and they initiate divorce.
01:53:21.000Women want about 56% more income in their parents.
01:53:23.000Well, I don't know where you got that number from.
01:53:40.000Their animalistic nature would be like, okay, the second that they bump into a guy who might be more higher earning or higher status or whatever, to leave the man for that guy.
01:53:50.000That would be an animalistic nature example of a woman.
01:54:27.000In my take, and a lot of men feel this way, they won't admit it, if a woman makes herself accessible or open to the opposite gender, in other words, there's a for sale sign on her neck, okay?
01:54:37.000That is considered cheating to most men.
01:54:40.000It's just that guys can't be honest about this because they're going to get hit with the your insecure line.
01:56:55.000AJ81. Myron, since they dress for themselves, tell them to name one thing they got dressed up, put on makeup, heels, and didn't go outside and stayed in the house.
01:57:07.000I've done selfies to take pictures and make content to post online.
01:57:10.000Y'all have got dressed up and sat in the house and done nothing?
01:57:13.000I've done cosplays that I haven't published or anything because I like them for myself, but I don't want to share them with everybody or anybody, really.
02:02:07.000I would argue that he didn't want to argue with you.
02:02:13.000They said, what is the mistake that you made that you don't want to bring into your next relationship?
02:02:20.000I guess in terms of what I've made before, is that instead of having the person sit down and be like, let's talk about this, etc., etc., I was just waiting for them to bring it up themselves, which didn't work out, because they wouldn't bring it up themselves.
02:02:34.000They would just act passive-aggressively.
02:02:36.000So y'all were like doing the same thing, basically?
02:02:38.000Well, no, because I would be like, oh, let's talk about it.
02:02:42.000And then they would get upset and then I wouldn't bring it up until, you know, forever.
02:02:46.000But then they would keep acting passive-aggressively.
02:02:48.000I mean, you guys don't have to believe me, but like...
02:02:56.000I would say being argumentative, not allowing him to lead...
02:03:04.000Um, not respecting him, being available to other men, like, obviously, like, through social media and, like, going to the club, partying, all of that, and just, yeah, completely being dominant, being masculine, and leading the relationship.
02:03:21.000But it's justifiable, though, because I was dating, like, a soy boy, so.
02:03:50.000As a man, if you are holding it down, your woman will know her place and she will never challenge you, especially if you treat her with respect.
02:05:08.000I don't want every argument I have with him to have, like, a million people be like, oh, he's going easy on her because they smashed or whatever.
02:10:47.000So your mom's not going to teach you, oh, this is what you do to your man in order for him to impregnate you and then teach you how to raise a child.
02:10:53.000That's just absolutely asinine and stupid.
02:13:02.000Um, Brett Osika says, um, shout out to TopG ladies, if you're flying into the eye of a hurricane with a 50% chance of a crash, would you want a male or female pilot?
02:15:22.000Wait, I'm going to explain in one second.
02:15:23.000First of all, if you're flying in that condition, it's because most of the time, so 99% of the time, it's because you have the airplane made to do that.
02:15:32.000We have, there's existing airplanes, especially the United States is full of that airplane.
02:15:37.000They're flying through hurricanes and everything.
02:17:35.000The highest rates of, like, survival, or being able to, like, properly maneuver, like, a vehicle, such as an airplane, is largely determined by height.
02:17:42.000I don't know why the exact details of that are.
02:17:45.000So I would pick whoever's shorter, whether it be male or female, because the chances of them to be able to maneuver that airplane in tougher circumstances, for some reason, is correlated to height.
02:17:55.000Did you pull your phone out and Google this shit?
02:19:10.000They are heavy and stuff like that, autopilot or not.
02:19:12.000So I'm gonna go with a man because if we're going through the eye of a hurricane, there's gonna be hella turbulence and just a lot of shit going on.
02:19:20.000I know I would be freaking out, but I think a man would be I think he'd just be more mentally inclined to handle that situation as well as strength if he needs.
02:20:35.000Or I will answer, or whatever is there, it's fine.
02:20:39.000Because when you reach the point, you have skills to do it.
02:20:42.000Well, with that logic, because you're a pilot and you're a woman, you're siding with choosing women.
02:20:48.000Well, I do Jeet Kune Do, and I'm actually a little bit trained with that.
02:20:51.000But if someone breaks in the house, you think, because I'm a woman and I know that I can handle myself, that I'm going to fight the man, I'm going to make the man do it.
02:23:02.000Realistically speaking, who do you think, if you had to pick one gender, which gender do you think has been more negatively impacted by social media?
02:26:48.000Because most women think that just by posting a cute picture and being pretty on Instagram, that's just what they think that it takes to attract a man.
02:26:57.000It takes a lot more to attract and retain that man than just being pretty.
02:27:01.000You have to do a lot more behind the scenes than just simply posting a picture.
02:29:00.000Yeah, getting out of a marriage and looking at my DMs and looking at my requests, I'm like, oh, wow, I could get this, like, blah, blah, blah type of guy, you know, but...
02:29:28.000Would you say that Instagram kind of, I don't want to say led to your divorce, I'm not going to say that, but did it kind of open the door for you to say, you know what, maybe I could do better?
02:29:38.000I think women would probably be in healthier relationships, and men, like if we just didn't have Instagram and social media and stuff like that.
02:29:46.000I think our relationship and our marriage race would be way higher.
02:29:50.000If Instagram didn't exist, do you think you'd still be with your man right now?
02:31:27.000I 100% believe that Instagram has shade perspectives.
02:31:50.000For me, like, for a lot of women, I don't want to say for me that sounds too cocky, but it does just take a DM. And, like, with people you don't even believe that you could, like, pull, I guess.
02:33:12.000It wasn't because he wasn't an influencer, though.
02:33:15.000No, but did the fact that you're an influencer and you're around higher-status men, right, because by virtue of your profession, did that kind of make you say, you know what, I can give you the ammunition to kind of say, I'm going to leave this guy?
02:33:36.000It doesn't have to be the direct reason, but what I'm saying is that the fact that you had these other options that make it easier for you, kind of similar to her.
02:33:42.000She had already initiated the divorce, but she was able to stay 10 toes down during the divorce because she was like, oh, I could do better.
02:34:37.000I feel like there's like so many ideas of like what it means to be a successful guy is to have like the most expensive watch or the Lamborghini or all that stuff and I honestly feel like there's a lot more to life than just like you know the most expensive thing ever and I feel like a lot of guys feel pressured to just like Make a lot of money,
02:34:57.000but then not focus on intellectual pursuits or not focus on all these other aspects of life.
02:35:02.000So then I feel really bad for men because it's like, oh, I just don't have enough money.
02:35:09.000Who do you think gets more attention on Instagram, an average man or an average woman?
02:35:12.000I think the average woman, and that's also negative.
02:35:15.000I think social media in general is really bad.
02:35:18.000So if the average woman gets more attention than the average man and that changes her perception of the opposite gender, wouldn't it be fair to say that since more average women experience more attention, they're the ones that are actually being affected by social media, whereas most average guys get zero attention on social media?
02:35:32.000Well, you're asking me negative effects.
02:35:34.000So there is multiple ways that the different genders can be affected.
02:35:37.000So for example, women might get like unrealistic standards of the perfect relationship or their body or whatever.
02:35:44.000And men can also get unrealistic standards of what the perfect relationship is or what they need to have to be a good person.
02:35:51.000So I feel like everywhere around, it's just bad.
02:36:03.000Men are affected more in the sense that they see these people who are constantly touting these things of success, which are all superficial in my opinion, and then they neglect themselves and focus on the superficial because they think that might attract pussy.
02:36:18.000Now, women are more negatively affected in the sense of attention.
02:36:22.000That they get more attention and that can cloud their idea of what a good relationship should be focused on.
02:36:28.000These are different metrics to decide.
02:37:29.000I don't think it's necessarily a free will choice of men.
02:37:33.000I think these apps are fucking designed to keep you in the system.
02:37:37.000If girls think, hey, I can get better out here and all these guys are in my DM and I can have this and I can have that, How does that affect...
02:37:47.000How is a guy supposed to be affected by it?
02:37:49.000Does he just sit there and adapt to that?
02:37:52.000Or does he have to be like, you know what?
02:38:21.000Yeah, so when you look at it at the surface point of it, I would say men only because women are busy, you know, with their hot girl summers.
02:38:31.000But if you think about it and the longevity of it, women are hurt more because while they get over that and as we get older, we realize, okay, we wasted all our time doing this, partying, hanging out with friends, whatever, whatever, and being recreational use instead of finding that one man and being with him.
02:38:44.000So by the time you're older now, because of the social media and the options we have when we're young and all these people inviting us to yachts and Lil Pump in your DMs and this, that, that, and the third, you're not focused on finding yourself a husband or a man.
02:38:54.000You're focused on, oh my God, I'm living life.
02:38:56.000So when you get older, you start regretting those decisions.
02:38:59.000So I would say it really affects the women the most.
02:39:20.000Because of that, when you're on social media and you get people like that in your DMs, Dominic Fike, Lil Pump, you got these high status men, blue checks, actual people hitting you up.
02:39:32.000You think you can always find a better option.
02:39:34.000And then by the time you're my age, and you don't respect none of these men, and they weren't the better option, and you were recreational youth, now you're looking at someone you can't necessarily be with because of your past.
02:40:01.000But that comes because, and I don't mean to use you as an example, but the reality is most women have an over-inflated sense of self-worth, and that comes from social media.
02:40:10.000Average women think that they are above average in reality because above average men hit them up, and they think, this is a man I qualify for.
02:40:16.000No, that's the man that you qualify to potentially have sex with, but not necessarily a relationship.
02:40:21.000I think average women, right, think that they're above what they really are.
02:40:25.000Women chronically overvalue themselves while men simultaneously undervalue themselves.
02:40:30.000And I mean, social media, this is why girls fight tooth and nail to keep their profile private, to put sexy pictures of themselves, because women understand that if my social media profile is open and available, a higher status guy can always hit me up.
02:40:42.000And women always want to be able to reserve the right to replace you with a better man.
02:40:46.000I don't know if y'all agree, disagree.
02:40:47.000But I mean, a lot of your own answers answered what I said.
02:40:50.000An average man has no chance on Instagram.
02:40:52.000An average woman has all the chances on Instagram.
02:40:54.000And it has to be exceptional to get a chance.
02:40:57.000What you say, I totally agree with you this time.
02:41:00.000Because if now I need to explain you why I answered like this before, it's because it's more my opinion and it's an emotional thing that you as a man will never understand.
02:41:58.000What I'm saying is that the man is higher value than yourself.
02:42:02.000But you thought that you were higher value than him.
02:42:04.000And that literally proves my point that women have an over-inflated sense of self-worth where they think, I'm with a millionaire and I'm rarer than him.
02:42:10.000I'm trying to say, statistically speaking, he's superior to you in every way, which is why he's rarer.
02:42:46.000Her, on the other hand, her youth, her beauty, etc., there's plenty of women that fit her mold.
02:42:49.000Okay, okay, maybe I explained myself wrong.
02:42:52.000So, I will say to you, yes, I'm agree with you, as I said before, but, like, the answer I gave before is because I'm thinking emotionally and about my opinion.
02:44:12.000And also the social media are influencing us to look more good and everything, and I agree with that.
02:44:19.000But the things I'm more proud to think about, at this point, it's better to look good and work better and work in a better field, study more, than reaching for that man.
02:47:21.000We didn't really talk about posts, but like, when I got with my friends whenever I wanted, without any problem or something, and he knew what it was going for.
02:47:30.000And I was okay, and it was okay with that.
02:47:33.000Okay, we had other problems, and for him, he wanted to marry...
02:47:40.000He wanted to marry me and having kids and at the moment I realized I can't have that because I will be so unhappy then I will die inside.
02:48:03.000When a man doesn't put boundaries on you and he's not territorial with you, he doesn't give a fuck about you.
02:48:09.000If he lets you go and put yourself in situations where other men can talk to you, if he lets you go ahead and go out with your girlfriends to the club, if he lets you talk to other men, if he says open relationship or whatever, one of two things.
02:48:20.000He's a simp or B, he doesn't care about you.
02:54:04.000I would only have sex with a girl like you.
02:54:06.000I would never take you seriously because you're very combative, you're very masculine, you're very dominant, you're very assertive, you're very competitive, you're not agreeable.
02:54:13.000Great traits for making money, but I don't want a girl that makes money and has these masculine traits.
02:54:17.000I want a feminine soft woman because I'm a masculine guy.
02:54:20.000And guys that make money that are successful don't tolerate masculine women in general.
02:54:23.000Shout out to Pearl and I'm gonna be on the fucking...
02:54:55.000Why are you trying to take girls that have dudes?
02:55:00.000Fellas, would you consider a 30-year-old woman that did not go through a 3 or 4 phase that focused on their career while they were young and is willing to submit?
02:55:07.000My mom told me I should wait to get married until 30.
02:55:10.000I wouldn't marry a 30-year-old chick, bro.
02:55:32.000Jaleel Studio says, as a short man, 5'3", who hooks up with tall women all the time, I'm living proof that women don't know what they want until it's right in front of them.
02:55:40.000We don't care about IQ, but we're here for the test of marriage.
02:56:16.000My girl just broke up with me and said she was tired of me telling her not to dress provocatively, not to wear makeup and not to show herself on social media.
02:56:23.000I was providing 70% of my income because she doesn't have her father and her mom doesn't have money.
02:56:52.000Ladies, with the looming financial crisis, bank systems falling left and right, potentially World War III. I hope you are all prepared to sell your box in that mouth for survival.
02:56:59.000Watch all the strong and independent BS go out the window.
03:01:02.000She's already sucked off to other guys.
03:01:05.000Well, since you're so good with numbers, are you aware that, like, after, like, six partners, a woman's ability to last in a long-lasting good marriage drops off precipitously?
03:02:28.000I would tell my son no, but I know that, you know, sons don't really listen to their mom's opinion, so I'd leave it to his father to actually intervene and put the foot down.
03:03:18.000I think a lot of females will sit here and put themselves in a situation and because it goes against the grain for them, They can't admit to it.
03:03:29.000You know if you had your son, you would not let him wife up that 300 body count ran through hope.
03:04:17.000I mean, she's probably banned, so who knows?
03:04:21.000You need a shirt that says in general, okay?
03:04:24.000If my grandmother had wheels, she would have been a bike.
03:04:29.000How you feel does not define how the world works.
03:04:31.000You can say you're all tens and the confidence is key, but honesty is better because it shows that you know that you have flaws, you can improve on.
03:04:39.000Also, please sign my copy of your book, okay?
03:09:14.000Definitely, like, the whole aspect of things, I'm not saying I was one, or that, like, I go home to Chicago, and I'm, like, popping pussy left and right, but, like, I see where you guys are coming from from a better point of view.
03:09:54.000So you want a man that makes more money than you, stronger than you, physically capable, and a leader, but you don't want him to tell you what to do?
03:12:25.000I'm going back to what I was saying before as far as like when I gave you the analogy, you had no issue with saying, no, I'm not taking advice from you because you fucked up with your money.
03:12:34.000What I'm saying is that the same exact thing when it comes to men and their sexuality.
03:12:37.000Women can't tell men how to exercise their sexuality when you guys don't earn your sexuality.
03:13:53.000He's gonna be looked at as a womanizing asshole and men can't be honest about these things.
03:13:58.000But if you put a guy in a locker room with his buddies and ask him, would you prefer to have one or two girlfriends and you don't have any type of penalization, they would take the two girlfriends every single time.
03:14:10.000What do you think happens when girls talk to each other?
03:14:36.000Would you prefer to be hooking up with one guy at a time that accomplishes everything you need or three guys that one has money, one's attractive, and then another one is charming?
03:14:52.000Can I ask a question quick before my last thoughts?
03:14:58.000I just want to ask, would you guys rather a man that basically can't pull females at all or would you rather a man that women are attracted to?
03:18:14.000I'll read these three and then our guests.
03:18:19.000Ladies, would you be happy with taking a guy...
03:18:23.000Ladies, would you be happy with a guy taking you to McDonald's on dates for the foreseeable future even when you know he has money and has splurged on his exes from the get-go?
03:18:38.000Women hate when we tell them what we actually want from them because they know that they can't meet those standards and then they shame us for it.