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00:01:34.000Because at this point, who knows, man?
00:01:35.000We just did an episode on 9-11 where we talked about them boys and a bunch of other people being involved in one of the worst terrorist attacks in U.S. history.
00:01:41.000So go ahead and check us out over there on rumble.com slash pressure pit.
00:04:01.000Yes, girls, DM me the RC Pox on IG. Make sure your page is not private.
00:04:06.000And, ladies, stop sending me paragraphs, photos, and, you know, no photos, and stuff like that.
00:04:12.000Expect me to respond, because I'm not going to respond, ladies, because the girls, I say that every fucking night for about over, what, two and a half years?
00:04:19.000So, just make it happen, ladies, and chat.
00:04:21.000We have seven new girls on the panel, so let's make it happen.
00:04:26.000Ladies, if you don't mind, give us your name, your age, what you do for a living, dating status, and you want to, of course, we're going to start right here.
00:11:11.000Well, I was on another podcast and then basically people told me that I should come on this podcast.
00:11:18.000So I was just like, okay, maybe I'll give it a shot.
00:11:20.000But I looked into it a little bit and I honestly enjoy when people push other people to have uncomfortable conversations because I believe that it's really good for us to open our minds to other perspectives that people may have.
00:15:36.000I feel like more people need to have these kind of conversations because I feel like at the end of the day, y'all are very triggering, but y'all are trying to make sure relationships become more successful.
00:15:47.000Y'all are trying to wake up masculine and feminine energy in our age group, I guess, so to speak.
00:16:04.000I've heard it was pretty problematic, and I've been told not to come on it as well, but I thought this would be a pretty interesting life experience.
00:16:13.000Was it mostly males or females that told you not to come on?
00:16:17.000It was kind of both, but the guys were just worried that we might destroy us.
00:16:25.000I'm just curious, what did your boyfriend think?
00:16:28.000He thought it's pretty funny that I'm gonna be on it.
00:16:48.000A bunch of guys send their girlfriends over here and next thing you know, the girl treats them a lot better after that because we tell them the reality.
00:19:32.000I guess I still think women because if a woman does something that a man does, she might get looked at as dirty and he might get looked at as like, oh, he ain't do nothing wrong.
00:22:39.000And they are also held to higher standards in terms of, like, financial stability, income, status, how you're raising the family, stuff like that.
00:23:07.000Well, here in America, I think men, because they are always caring about having certain kind of things, for example, buy a house, build a family.
00:23:23.000I think women there, we have like certain kind of stuff that our checklist to do.
00:23:32.000And that's really, really, really confusing to me here because here, every guy, for example, when I date, they're always thinking about having a family or, I don't know, just do that checklist.
00:23:52.000Who do you think is held to a higher moral standard in the United States, men or women and why?
00:23:56.000I believe men are only because if a man does something wrong and the woman does equally or the same mistake, I guess, the man is more likely to get in more trouble.
00:24:09.000I think a lot of the time, a lot of people are more empathetic towards women.
00:24:26.000I think it's the men, because kind of going off what she said, men usually get a harsher penalty.
00:24:32.000But also just talking about morals, like when you go out with a guy, you're always looking at his little gestures that he's doing, and they're usually held higher, I feel like, than a woman.
00:25:28.000Do you think the reason why women are more willing to forgive is because the man had to work really hard to get attraction in the first place?
00:25:35.000I feel like some women tend to just be easily manipulated or let men get away with more things because they're so attached.
00:25:43.000But what does it take for a woman to be attached?
00:25:46.000I think long periods of time and being with a woman.
00:25:50.000What does it take for her to be attached to you for a long period of time?
00:25:55.000Just knowing you for a long period of time, building a connection with you.
00:25:59.000But what do you have to have in place before she will even build a connection with you?
00:26:57.000What they basically found when they look at female attraction versus male attraction, what women want in a guy is very narrow compared to what men are willing to accept from women, in other words.
00:27:06.000Because women are the pickier sex, right?
00:28:01.000No, the man has to be more attractive to get a woman into bed.
00:28:03.000Yeah, because what I've noticed when I talk with women a lot is you guys kind of just get to the conclusion, but you guys don't build up to how you got to that conclusion.
00:28:12.000For example, you said, oh no, it's easier for men.
00:28:14.000Just build a connection, be attractive.
00:28:16.000But what you don't get is that as a guy, you can't just exist and get a girl.
00:28:19.000You have to have all these things in place for the girl to even see you in the first place.
00:28:23.000You have to be charismatic, charming, be in shape, have money, etc.
00:28:26.000Girls have fairly high standards, I would say.
00:28:29.000I mean, there are girls that don't have high standards, but they are, like, not the type of a girl you might be looking for.
00:28:35.000Even girls that have regular standards still want a guy that's well above average.
00:28:40.000The average man is 5'8", 30 to 50k per year.
00:28:45.000If you take most regular females and ask them, what do you want?
00:29:05.000So Wyatt goes, minor fresh, you raise your daughter with it, and don't worry, guys, I'm going to read every single chat that came through before, and all the chats will be shown on screen.
00:29:11.000However, just for the purposes of today's show, since it's a...
00:36:08.000I would just be like, look, we're not going to sleep together, so if you still want to go out, if we are catching a vibe, then we'll do that.
00:36:14.000But we're not going to sleep together.
00:36:16.000So if you like him, you'll actually be honest and say, yo, I like you, but I'm not trying to...
00:38:09.000I would set expectations, and I would just let him know that, hey, like, I would like to continue talking, I would like to continue the communication, continue FaceTime, text messages, you know, hang up more, spend more time together.
00:38:39.000What would you do to keep him interested?
00:38:42.000Honestly, I tried that, and I don't know if it was all of you hypothetically speaking, but for me, I really can honestly say that I did sleep with one guy, and I'm only 19, so maybe that's normal.
00:38:59.000You're saying your body count's only one?
00:39:58.000Sorry, I did not go on a lot of dates or something like that because I think it's more typical actually to go on dates in America and not in Berlin or we don't have that dating phase.
00:40:09.000I don't know what's it called in Germany.
00:40:11.000You meet a guy or you We talk or go for coffee.
00:40:41.000If the guy is attractive and charming enough, a girl will definitely be very aroused the first time she meets him.
00:40:46.000Then I have to say, if I have to keep him really interested and put a lot of effort in, I think maybe he's not the right guy.
00:40:55.000If he's worth it, really, if he's a high-value guy, as you call it, then maybe I would put an effort in and I would do the same as you said, support him with his career and stuff like that.
00:46:57.000Yeah, see, I'm the kind of person that needs more insight.
00:47:00.000Like, if I like the girl and I know she's nice, I know, you know, their engagement was wonderful and they broke it off for a petty reason, she's keeping the ring.
00:47:08.000But if she, like, she shouldn't want to give it back.
00:51:43.000Yves Simonis goes, make no mistake, if you have a BBC even after paying for it, she's going to express a burning interest and throw that box at you for free in the future.
00:54:13.000Yeah, I think there's a really, really small minority of females that like to be dominant in the relationship and it actually works and they're happy.
00:54:20.000So for me, definitely feminine energy and submissive.
00:54:24.000So you think them being in their feminine role makes them more happy?
00:55:04.000So, like, what are your thoughts on these boss babes that try to cope and say, oh, no, I'm super happy even though I'm single and I got dogs and cats.
00:55:51.000Well, if you're going to be in your submissive and follow a man, more than likely you're not going to be a dominant, aggressive, non-agreeable, successful person.
00:55:59.000No, no, but you can't be successful without being dominant and aggressive, right?
00:56:24.000Like, if you look at anyone that's financially successful, unless they're a trust fund baby, they typically have very similar characteristics.
00:56:29.000I mean, even the top OnlyFans girls, they're very driven and focused because you got to be focused with content.
00:56:34.000So even still, when it's easy, you still got to be dominant and aggressive.
00:56:38.000Oh, but you think that because I do that and because I am successful with OnlyFans, you think, or not successful, I think my money...
00:58:36.000So, to bring you guys to reality, the top 1% of earners in the United States, probably one of the richest countries in the world, is only about 500k a year.
01:01:22.000We're just letting you know that your standard of finding a guy making 100k a month is going to be very, very difficult.
01:01:28.000I don't say I have to lower my standard, but I have to reconsider my standards and not maybe be fine with the fact that he's just free because he's financially independent.
01:04:10.000Besides, like, the cooking and the cleaning and, like, the basics of that stuff, I just feel like whatever they need, I'd be able to, like, help them with.
01:07:01.000All the fans, maybe they watch, I don't know if they're watching, you know, but all the fans, they can say that it's true because I have a dildo, yeah, but I cannot give hat with them.
01:07:11.000Maybe I'll lick over it once, but I cannot give hat because I never did it before.
01:07:15.000And I started OnlyFans as a virgin, yeah, and I learned from porn.
01:08:50.000Be sure or no, but I just know that that would be my differentiations because I'm going to try to pack on that love language and speak that language as much as possible.
01:09:01.000I don't know what the other girl's talking about.
01:11:32.000Let's think of it from another perspective.
01:11:34.000Wouldn't it be fair to say that you didn't think about it or you got put on the spot because we don't really hold women to a standard in relationships?
01:12:04.000I understand that, but what I'm saying is that a lot of times women kind of inflate what they bring to the relationship and try to make it seem like it's special when other women can do that too.
01:12:13.000Because if you ask a girl, hey, what do you bring to the table?
01:16:07.000So the whole purpose of that little exercise there was to show that, like, when we ask you guys what you bring, a lot of you guys bring the same thing.
01:16:12.000So what I'm saying is that women aren't special in general.
01:16:14.000And then you take it from the girl that's bisexual.
01:20:49.000The thing is that women kind of go through life thinking, like, I'm special, I'm a princess, I need to be treated this way, blah, blah, blah.
01:20:57.000But the reality is that most women aren't that special.
01:21:00.000We've had 2,200 girls come on the show.
01:21:03.000They all typically have a very similar worldview, have the same interests, hobbies, etc.
01:21:08.000Maybe one girl might go to a different school or might do different activities in their free time.
01:21:12.000But in general, women are all very similar.
01:21:14.000Especially when it comes to what they're attracted to.
01:21:16.000I think for your question, you can become special to that person once you become what they need.
01:21:59.000I said that, okay, if you are planning a date for a woman, you're leading the relationship and all those things, you're actually making a woman feel special.
01:22:09.000It doesn't change when you deal, because again, because women are not special and they're all very similar, you have to assume the leadership role.
01:22:15.000You have the power to make her feel special.
01:22:17.000For example, let's say, right, I want to go to eat tacos.
01:22:20.000I take you, you, you, you, who's special?
01:23:37.000Just like you said, if a woman is helping him, cleaning for him, and doing all those things that are supportive, that makes her special for him.
01:23:47.000Yeah, but you just said before that on this list that Myron was like, okay, every girl is supportive.
01:23:58.000And what you just said, like making the laundry, blah, blah, blah, is being supportive as a woman.
01:24:02.000So, and you said that's special for a man, but he said it's not special for a man.
01:24:05.000No, I'm saying to that man specifically, whatever he needs, I'll just give an example.
01:24:09.000It could be anything in that room that works for him will make you special to him specifically.
01:24:13.000And also, you got to keep in mind, feeling special doesn't necessarily mean you're special, right?
01:24:18.000If I say, I feel like a woman and I try to identify as a woman, I'm not a woman.
01:24:23.000It doesn't matter what I feel like because the reality is I'm a dude.
01:27:23.000Muhammad Anshur goes, Marin, you're the shortest Sudani.
01:27:27.000It pains me to pay anything to another man besides charity, but I like watching The Delusional Woman to a point I watch more than Netflix, so this super chat is deserved.
01:29:22.000Can you bring on a guest that will be able to help people make money in the U.K.? We're actually going to bring on a pretty big guest this Monday, guys, to help you all make money.
01:29:28.000We'll reveal at the end, actually, for y'all.
01:38:18.000One of the controversial things we say is we say guys shouldn't open up to their girl, and everyone gets all mad at us for saying that shit, but I genuinely don't think that a woman is going to sit there and accept you being all emotional and crying and being a bitch.
01:39:25.000If you're sad because of something you did to me and I'm not tolerating it, it's not sad to me.
01:39:32.000It's sad to you and I can't help you with that.
01:39:34.000Oh, so it's up to your discretion then, right?
01:39:37.000I see what you're trying to do there, but if somebody throws a rock in my face and I throw a rock back and they start crying, I'm not going to feel bad that they're crying because you just did something to me and now you're upset.
01:39:52.000We're saying in general crying is just a bad look.
01:40:57.000When a family member passes away, I feel like men need to be stronger so they can support the other family members, like their wives or mothers or sisters.
01:45:48.000Have you ever been called out for hygiene?
01:45:50.000It wasn't like a call out and it wasn't like a stink.
01:45:52.000I was dancing at a strip club and I was like giving the guy a lap dance and he just was like, you know, he was like, I like it when it's sweaty.
01:46:44.000I'm surprised no, but I got complimented on how I have the same scent for everything that I use, like my deodorant and shampoos and everything.
01:47:59.000So he's basically saying, why do women complain about men not communicating, but they're the first ones to go tell their problems to their friends, their family, co-workers, etc.
01:49:01.000They feel more able to go to their friends and family because they will give them validation rather than going to the man and then having the struggle of maybe taking accountability for something they actually did.
01:49:13.000So the friends are going to be like, yeah, you know what?
01:51:32.000Basically, it's why do women complain about men not communicating, but they turn around and tell all their friends and family, etc., about their problems with their relationship versus going to the man that they have a problem with.
01:52:14.000Talking to him about it that I'm like, okay, I gotta call my auntie who's been married 50 years to give me some advice that's relevant versus my homegirl who's never had a successful relationship in her life.
01:52:25.000So I think that a lot of times women just don't know who to talk to if they don't know how to talk to their man or an attempt has already been made and failed and they still need to get their point across.
01:52:38.000Do you think women give each other good advice?
01:52:46.000Well, personally, I also like to keep things private and I don't like to tell my friends all about the stuff that's going on in my relationship because I don't want them to have opinions on my relationship.
01:52:56.000I want to make my own opinions on my relationship.
01:52:59.000Do you think the reason why you don't want their opinions is because it might be bad?
01:53:32.000If you tell your friends about your boyfriend, right?
01:53:35.000Problems, all these things happening, they're going to form an opinion of him that they don't like him, right?
01:53:40.000So, what happens is, once that opinion is formed of him, whenever he comes to runners, he's talked about, oh, he's a bad person, this and that.
01:53:46.000And what happens is, that then destroys your relationship.
01:53:49.000So, by default, you're talking to your friends about your man, fucks it up from the very beginning.
01:53:54.000Do you think that single women keep each other single, in your opinion?
01:54:35.000I will add though, I've noticed nowadays, like most men are actually doing that instead of women.
01:54:40.000I've seen a lot of men actually going to their friends and doing what you are saying that women are doing.
01:54:46.000It's actually the opposite these days.
01:54:47.000Like most men are like trying to go to their single friends or like, you know, just trying to like get advice or, and their friends also sometimes don't give the right advice.
01:54:56.000So I think the best bet you can do is just keep it within the relationship.
01:55:00.000We'll send them here because we'll help them out.
01:55:04.000I would say for men, when they go for advice, it's typically for a better...
01:55:11.000Women have so many options that when they're going to their friends, they kind of want to get validated and be like, can you do better?
01:55:18.000For a guy, a lot of times, even if the girl's a piece of shit, the guy will probably stick around.
01:55:23.000Men aren't going to be as quick to break up with a girl as a girl will break up with a guy.
01:55:28.000I feel like you guys are very self-aware, and you guys are intelligent, but most men are not at your level, and they don't actually do exactly what you're saying.
01:55:38.000I've actually seen a lot of men in Miami, like in the Western world, they're very, very feminine, and actually the traits of women, like, you know, talking to their friends and all that.
01:55:47.000I've seen men do that, like, I've just seen men, like, at the airport, like, I saw someone missed a flight and that guy was crying.
01:55:58.000Yeah, and I've seen, like, some of my friends and co-workers, like, they'll go gossip about their relationship with their guy friends, and it's just weird.
01:56:07.000Like, I feel like men need to really, like, man up.
01:56:11.000So you're describing men becoming women and women becoming men, which is happening rapidly.
01:57:35.000I mean, obviously, the two-parent household is the best.
01:57:37.000But yeah, if you had to pick one of the two evils, single mom or single dad, yeah, single fathers do way better as far as like kids not being degenerates.
01:57:45.000Because I think it's because the father is inherently kind of a masculine disciplinarian figure a lot of times.
01:59:02.000I would also listen to him and then with that, then make sure that she's learning important skills that she needs to do, self-reflect and all of that.
02:00:32.000Somebody who basically gets their passport so they can date outside of the U.S. because American women are, for lack of better words, trash.
02:02:35.000I saw a pretty girl that was cleaning the club.
02:02:36.000And I'm like, she shouldn't be cleaning this club.
02:02:38.000So you agree with the passport bros movement, I guess.
02:02:43.000I don't want to, but I mean, it's sad.
02:02:46.000I mean, I'm an American woman, so I kind of feel like, dang, it's like y'all should try a little harder with us, but at the same time, it's like I tried.
02:02:53.000So are you saying there's no good men and women in America?
02:03:11.000I guess because you hit the nail on the head, by the way, with that definition, ladies.
02:03:16.000It's basically guys that leave the United States because Western women in general tend to have bad habits, have certain behaviors that aren't conducive to a long-term relationship.
02:03:24.000In general, women don't respect men in the West.
02:03:27.000You know, in general, like the average guy has to fight tooth and nail to even get a date.
02:03:31.000So a lot of times guys say, fuck the shit.
02:03:33.000I'm going to go somewhere where the women are more feminine, more submissive.
02:03:36.000They're not as combative, not as annoying, not as ran through, whatever it may be, whatever personal reasons they might go.
02:03:41.000Women are more traditionally feminine in these countries.
02:03:43.000So would you say, would you agree with them that that's kind of the marketplace for dating here when it comes to females or...
02:03:52.000Yeah, but I do think it backfires because after being with my girl for a while, I mean, she's Latina.
02:04:07.000We're not a politically correct podcast.
02:04:08.000I feel like the effort that goes into finding a woman of value outside the country is a lot less than finding a woman of value in the country.
02:04:18.000Because you could just have a conversation with somebody outside the country.
02:04:36.000So it's kind of like going back in time to like the 50s where things weren't so jacked up where masculine and feminine could just be masculine and feminine.
02:04:43.000They're like behind in the times there, I guess.
02:04:46.000So it's still kind of interesting that way.
02:04:49.000And that's more desirable for a lot of people.
02:05:42.000Or do you even give a fuck, to be honest?
02:05:45.000I mean, I feel like it can go both ways.
02:05:47.000It can be complicated because if the woman is just marrying him or being with him, getting with him just for the passport, she may leave him later on once she gets her citizenship and stuff like that.
02:06:44.000I have heard of it before, but I kind of didn't know the full definition.
02:06:48.000And I do agree that some men might want to go out to the country to find a more feminine woman, but I think in some countries it's going to be as difficult as in America to find a good woman.
02:07:44.000Since you're aware of the movement and you kind of are aware of what's going on, the difference between Western women and women that are a bit more traditional outside the U.S., if you had a son, would you tell him, get the fuck out and go find a girl somewhere else?
02:07:55.000If something doesn't change in this country, absolutely.
02:08:40.000So, yeah, it's a lot that It's a lot of labels, and a lot of people understand these labels in a jacked-up way, and I feel like more people need therapy, more people need education, more people need to read, more people need to have better conversations.
02:08:54.000They'll probably be watching this podcast, and then maybe it will just be better, but something seriously needs to change the way people are learning and thinking and behaving and treating each other in the country.
02:09:02.000So you're saying the culture is basically a problem, the culture?
02:10:31.000Okay, for example, like, if you have OnlyFans and there is a guy who wants to be married or get married and he does not want an OnlyFan woman, so...
02:12:16.000I think if we're going to just address the elephant in the room, I think the reason why she doesn't care that that's on her OnlyFans, her having sex with another guy, is because she's not necessarily looking for another guy at this point.
02:12:26.000It's like, I got a guy there that's kind of there for me, so I'll play the field, get a girl, make money.
02:14:11.000Another part of the reason why I decided like, okay, let me try the OnlyFans thing out is because you're getting dick pictures and things all the time in your inbox.
02:18:48.000I said this because I have a couple friends and they are mentioning to me that of course they're looking for the men in the West but they prefer now the man to be from those cultures because they have the traditional values because they're tired of working and they don't want to split the bills.
02:19:05.000But is it a fair trade for the guy to be traditional but the woman isn't traditional herself?
02:20:00.000Do you want to know one of the saddest realizations I recently had?
02:20:04.000Was that as a liberal woman, it is really hard to find a man who is willing to play the more traditional masculine role in the relationship in today's day and age.
02:20:26.000And obviously, as a liberal woman, I do want to be respected for my independence.
02:20:30.000And I do want to have my own autonomy in the relationship and not be confined or conformed to the traditional female homemaker childbearing role.
02:20:41.000And most of the men that I've dated who do have that more natural provider masculinity about them are normally conservative.
02:20:48.000So I don't really know what to do because I don't want to compromise my morals and values just to find a man.
02:20:54.000But am I asking to have my cake and eat it too?
02:20:59.000What are your guys' thoughts on that video?
02:21:15.000I mean, like, they just have different values in the end.
02:21:17.000Just like what she said, probably just something happened to her.
02:21:23.000Do you think it's fair for her to want a guy who's going to be conservative and be traditional and be chivalrous while she's still being a modern woman?
02:21:30.000If she thinks it's okay with getting slapped if she's running her mouth too much, because back then it was okay to hit women and stuff like that.
02:21:42.000I think she's right because you can't just expect to have a traditional man with a provider mindset but then not expect him to not be conservative.
02:21:53.000Like, he is definitely going to be conservative.
02:21:55.000Okay, so you agree with her that men that are more traditional typically tend to be conservative?
02:22:38.000Do you think a woman should conform and change herself if she wants to find the man and attract the man that she wants, which a lot of girls want this type of guy, a man that's chivalrous, that's going to be a gentleman, etc.
02:24:56.000Yeah, she butts heads with him a lot, and I tell him, I'm just like, listen, you gotta get her in her feminine energy.
02:25:01.000She's not in it, she's in her masculine, constantly butting heads with you, and she thinks you're sexist, she thinks you're all these things, just because you're, yeah, I know, it's a mess.
02:25:10.000How do you think you should deal with that?
02:25:14.000He wants to make it work, but she's obviously, you know, she's not changing.
02:25:19.000She's like, I'm not going to change for you.
02:25:48.000I know he needs to, but he doesn't want to.
02:25:50.000No, but he needs to stop being a bitch and leave.
02:25:52.000Because, again, once again, this is what I mean when I say women get comfortable and then they disrespect you and treat you like shit.
02:25:58.000Now, my thing is this, because this video I find very hilarious.
02:26:01.000A lot of women have very similar viewpoints to her, where they're liberal and they want to be treated as equal and I want to have my autonomy and they say all this bullshit.
02:26:08.000But the reality is women don't really want that.
02:26:10.000They say they want it, but they really don't.
02:26:12.000Because as soon as you give them that equality, as soon as you give them that, oh yeah, we're equal partners and shit, they're going to treat you like shit.
02:26:17.000The only way that he's going to reclaim power is he needs to break up with that girl and let her know that she's not special.
02:26:42.000And if he wants her back, he can, but I would just say move on at that point.
02:26:45.000I think if you're a guy, for all the guys watching out here that might have conservative viewpoints or whatever, if you're dating a chick that's a feminist or a girl that believes in all this equality or whatever, just fuck her and toss her to the side of the road, bro.
02:29:54.000Lance Moore says, acts of the woman can name a single female woman's right activist, if not a single female CEO. So do you know any women activists or CEOs there?
02:31:18.000Neo says, today's society lacks spiritual guidance.
02:31:21.000The problem is most women have been taught by other women that these behaviors are normal, which are usually scorn women with a cry-in-a-bucket mentality, along with the agenda.
02:35:22.000We're going to go ahead and we're going to roleplay.
02:35:25.000We're going to pretend, one of us is going to pretend to be the girl, you're going to be the guy, and we want you guys to pick us up at the club since you think it's so easy.
02:35:33.000So I'm going to go ahead real quick and set this up.
02:35:37.000Fresh, can you read some of these chats while I do this?
02:36:13.000I actually do, like, sessions where I just, like, help people.
02:36:17.000They come into my chat and they talk about their relationship problems or their life problems or their family problems and I give them advice and I'm there for them to support them.
02:50:58.000And then you coming up behind me while I'm tofu shopping and saying, I want to take you on a date without properly introducing yourself, without building any type of attraction.
02:51:07.000So, I mean, do you guys still think it's easy to get a girl as a guy?
02:51:36.000Because it's loud, it's dark, the girls are there to just drink, it's hard to build rapport, you can't even talk to them, so it's even harder.
02:52:18.000The reason why I like this experiment is it proves perfectly how girls don't understand what it takes to be attractive as a man whatsoever.
02:52:26.000That's why I say girls can't give advice because you don't ask the fish how to fish, you ask the fishermen.
02:53:21.000I asked you earlier in the show, I said, if he had made a move on you at the beginning of your friendship, would have you given him a chance?
02:53:40.000Especially the first time in the club and how they get you to sleep with you and it's proving the point that it's hard and it is hard and it's not comedic.
02:53:48.000Even the guy that you're with right now, if he had come up to you man to woman from the beginning, you wouldn't have given him a chance.
02:53:55.000I met him in a friend group and I got to know him and I obviously gave him a chance.
02:53:59.000I would never give a guy at a club a chance in the first place because I wouldn't want a guy that is at a club.
02:54:51.000If I were to meet somebody for the first time, All right, ladies, let me break this down for y'all because you guys don't get what we're trying to show here.
02:55:00.000Even if you're an attractive man, you have all your shit together and you go up to a girl, she's going to behave as if she's disinterested most of the time.
02:55:07.000You only have some subtle cues here and there to see if she actually is interested.
02:55:12.000Most girls are always going to act disinterested.
02:57:26.000He has to overcome the stigma of meeting you at a club and build attraction to be able to get you.
02:57:32.000I mean, hell, and I used your boyfriend as an example.
02:57:34.000If he was straight up with you from the beginning, hey, I like you, you probably wouldn't have given him a chance.
02:57:39.000It wasn't until you got to know him a little bit more, you had the comfort of friends, you had the comfort of social circle, that you gave him a chance.
02:58:01.000I never see them get rejected by anybody.
02:58:03.000Can you be honest and admit that most guys that you see don't have that same option as those guys you're talking about?
02:58:10.000The guys you're talking about are either tall, good looking, have money, or some status has some game, and they get girls.
02:58:16.000The guy Trader Joe's or CVS, what does he get?
02:58:21.000Right, we're talking about the majority of men that have, they just have a harder time getting girls.
02:58:32.000It's not what you see often because what you see often might not be reality of the majority of men.
02:58:40.000It may just be what you are surrounded by.
02:58:43.000But somehow, there are guys that are extremely mediocre, that have no money, that don't have the riz, that still have body counts of 50 to 60.
03:04:21.000You have to have something on point as a guy to get girls.
03:04:24.000I think that's what you guys are missing because you see the people around you and you think, oh, it's easy because these guys are doing it somehow, but it's like I mean, hell, she didn't even know what to do when we gave her the mic.
03:08:25.000A lot of it is just energy exchange like a woman can tell if his energy isn't dominant and as soon as she tells that so if there's any bit of awkwardness or anything like that she's gonna be like yeah she's gonna get a little bit icked out and so in your example that's what happened with him and that's what he was displaying basically I feel like a normal girl would act in a grocery store yeah Yeah,
03:08:51.000I mean, kind of remember what it took for you.
03:08:54.000He probably made you laugh or made you feel different somehow, made you feel special, like how you said.
03:09:02.000So that's what it takes rather than just trying to get in and get close to her.
03:09:08.000If I got a chance to go up there, I always just try to do a pickup line.
03:09:12.000Anytime I try to even just make somebody, because I used to work at a bar, if I try to just make somebody get into a better mood, I'll say, hey, I think you dropped something right there.
03:09:29.000But it got you smiling and now I have a better chance to get you away from that tofu section than somebody who's just saying you need some help.
03:09:37.000She would definitely do better as a man.
03:11:22.000You guys helped me achieve 10k and a 780 credit score as well as a threesome with a girl I've wanted since moving school sophomore year and a three man.
03:11:30.000And I have just graduated high school.
03:18:44.000It was nice to see everyone's opinions.
03:18:47.000I will say that, I mean, if there's an advice that I could give to girls would be like, stay feminine.
03:18:53.000Like, even if you come across guys that are not masculine, you should still stay feminine because at the end of the day, like you will find a man who is masculine.
03:20:07.000Yeah, like, I mean, statistically speaking, if a woman has a bachelor's degree, the likelihood of divorce goes up.
03:20:12.000As a woman is more and more educated, the likelihood of her divorcing her man goes up with it.
03:20:16.000But if you do look up the stats, which I did, women that are, like, educated, I'm not saying, like, highly educated, they actually do better in relationships.
03:20:40.000The reason I say that is because if a female is not educated, she does not know how to raise children.
03:20:49.000And she's not very well aware of the standards of the society.
03:20:53.000I mean, you could make the argument back in the 50s, women were less educated back then, but children were better raised back then because it was a two-parent household.
03:21:03.000I don't think a woman's education impacts her ability to be a mom.
03:21:05.000But I feel like nowadays, if you're not educated, your children make fun of you.
03:22:57.000What I'm saying is that it's irrelevant.
03:22:59.000But in countries like Pakistan and like all, you know, I'm talking about very traditional countries, even in those countries, education is actually given a lot of importance, even for women and girls.
03:23:22.000Most guys I've encountered, they want their girls to not be dumb, but know a little less so they can be more impressionable and take on his ideas.
03:23:29.000When he wants to teach her something, her mind is more open to his ideas than the ideas she's already paid for at a college.
03:23:37.000I think women should seek education, but yes, they have to have a good balance.
03:23:43.000If it is interfering in the relationship, then yeah, that's a no.
03:23:46.000I think women overemphasize the importance of education when it comes to men.
03:24:01.000Like if he is shown or out with a woman who is not even a high school graduate, your status doesn't...
03:24:08.000If I have a girl and she's hot as fuck and I bring her to a party or she's my plus one, no one's going to care what her educational background is.
03:25:01.000Women take a man's last name, not the other way around.
03:25:04.000Men don't care about socioeconomic status at all.
03:25:07.000I mean, you know this in Pakistan, let's be honest.
03:25:09.000The first thing when you're looking for a girl, like when a guy's trying to get his daughter married off, is what does a guy do for a living?
03:27:18.000Half of women watch porn and the other half are lying about watching porn.
03:27:22.000I think the point is that if the majority of consumers of pornography are men, by far, like if we relied on females to keep the porn industry going, it would be bankrupt.