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00:02:20.000I'm talking about Fresh Rent with Fresh about doing an episode on John F. Kennedy, the assassination, doing a full-on...
00:02:26.000Because as you guys know, about a month ago, thousands of documents were declassified.
00:02:31.000And at this point, it's pretty much been established that there were some other nefarious acts involved with JFK. But we'll do a whole episode with that.
00:04:26.000So guys, definitely I've been showing my lifestyle a little bit more on the vlogs, as well as blind dates, double dates, all that in between.
00:04:32.000And I set up one of our subscribers on a blind date with a chick.
00:04:53.000Truth and I, conspiracy theorists, geopolitics, how to get girls, how to get in shape, how to not be a slob, how to make money, how to become a millionaire, how to entrepreneur, all that stuff.
00:05:13.000We went into detail here, breaking down this interaction with the police.
00:05:17.000I talk about her manipulation tactics, etc.
00:05:19.000Time stamps are in there, very detailed.
00:05:21.000I go through the entire investigation, you know, How she stabbed her boyfriend, what she said that she did, the likelihood of her being convicted for murder too.
00:05:29.000And yeah, man, we go through everything there.
00:05:31.000So if you guys like true crime type stuff, check me out over here.
00:05:35.000I cover contemporary cases like Courtney Clenney, but I also cover serial killers as well.
00:05:38.000Can you scroll back to the playlist there, Chris?
00:15:04.000It could be something as little as like maybe you saw her kiss another guy at a bar all the way to she kicked that guy out and then her boyfriend came five minutes later after he left.
00:17:09.000Because I had another homegirl there, so then I kind of just instigated it where it was just like, didn't you say that Wes's face is going to come over and see me?
00:17:18.000And then it was just her face reaction.
00:17:20.000I'm like, oh wait, no, he was supposed to come see you.
00:31:48.000So I'd say mine matters more only because I feel like with women, like I feel like once you make me satisfied as a woman, I'm going to do even more to make you satisfied.
00:31:58.000Like I've had time to have sex with like a guy and like back in college when like they just were trying to go in and out.
00:32:25.000So if he's fulfilling maybe the look standard, the money standard, the charisma and charm standard, and all these other things that women typically want in a guy, wouldn't it be fair that you just, what he wants is, he wants less, but it has more value?
00:32:38.000So then I get a man who takes off less boxes but can please me sexually in that way, if that makes sense.
00:32:44.000What I'm saying is for him to even have sex with you, he's got to take a bunch of boxes.
00:33:18.000Whereas he might not necessarily even care about compromising about any of your faults.
00:33:22.000Yeah, but I think it goes back to my original point.
00:33:25.000If I'm good, I'm going to make sure you're even better.
00:33:27.000So I feel like I like when men prioritize, not prioritize me, but like prioritize certain things because they're going to get like a return on their investment.
00:33:34.000I know that sounds great on paper, but the whole reason why he was attractive in the first place is because he didn't prioritize you.
00:33:41.000Women are attracted to men that don't prioritize them.
00:33:43.000I think once I get to know you, I want you to prioritize me in the beginning.
00:34:58.000Like, I'm gonna, like, put out effort.
00:35:00.000So why is it that he has to go ahead and if he's attracted to you and you guys are having sex, then it's kind of on you to retain him, right?
00:35:07.000But you're trying to say that he should be retaining you when the reality is that he's the one that picks you.
00:35:53.000No, you make 100% sense, but what I'm saying is that that sounds great on paper, but in practicality, it just doesn't really work like that.
00:38:56.000Okay, I was gonna say, because at the end of the day, I'm gonna be loyal, and I'm gonna be home all the time, so it's none of my business, whatever happens outside, unless these people are gonna come to my house and try to...
00:39:06.000Well, they might, because now that he snitched on them, he put you and him in danger.
00:39:09.000Well, it's up to my mind to protect me then.
00:51:14.000I think women are useless to men as platonic friends.
00:51:19.000That's a very touchy subject because I do say that men overall, if you're attractive, it's hard to be friends with a guy if they like you.
00:51:25.000They will pretend and try to be friends with you, but deep down, if you just say, what's up, they're going to sleep with you.
00:51:32.000So I guess you can say it's more of a one-sided relationship between men and women.
00:51:37.000So yeah, in that case, it's the man's benefit.
00:51:40.000And here's where my logic comes with this.
00:51:42.000Like, even in a relationship, women rarely bring tangible assets to the relationship, right?
00:51:47.000They bring, like, more emotional type stuff, right?
00:51:49.000Things that are intangible, like you said before.
00:51:51.000So I would argue, right, when you're in a relationship with a girl, you get the best treatment from a girl you're in a sexual relationship with.
00:51:57.000However, and they don't bring anything tangible there.
00:52:00.000So if you make it a platonic friendship, It's even less, which is why I tell guys don't be platonic friends with females because they derive all the benefits.
00:52:11.000They get the protection and provisioning to a degree.
00:52:14.000Maybe pseudo dates, the advice, the rational mindset, the ability to talk to someone and not have to worry about them holding a grudge because girls tend to be very covert and holding grudges, right?
00:52:24.000But for men, we don't really benefit, but I think a lot of guys are dumb and they sit there and be friends with girls hoping they'll get sex eventually.
00:52:30.000When the girl's like, nah, bro, you're such a friend zone forever.
00:52:32.000I would say it's only ever, like, it can only ever really work out, like, friendship between men and women if there's a situation where it's, like, equal value.
00:52:38.000Like, for example, if, hey, I do your taxes and, like, we, like, okay, maybe go to lunch sometimes or have, like, a common interest or, like, we, our kids are, like, soccer people, whatever.
00:52:50.000She actually has to bring something tangible.
00:52:52.000She's going to be a friend, like, like, like, one and one.
00:52:59.000I mean, I think if that's the case, right, where she's actually adding value, maybe she does your taxes for you or she does something, then it's maybe worth it.
00:53:06.000But yeah, I would argue that most girls benefit immensely from friendships with men versus men rarely benefit.
00:53:12.000Because even when I go to my guy, well, not guy friends, but like guys who say we're friends, like they treat me as if like I'm their girl.
00:53:18.000Like they open the door, like they're sometimes offering to pay.
00:53:36.000And I think women know this deep down, that, like, the guy wants to sleep with them, but that's why I kind of, like, going back to the point earlier, why I don't think, because my stance is I don't think a girl's ejaculation matters.
00:53:51.000You should, you know, aim to please her if she's your chick and you care about her.
00:53:55.000But in general, I don't think it matters.
00:53:56.000And the reason why is because men have to bring so much value to the table to even get a girl that even if he doesn't fulfill you sexually, and some of you guys already alluded to this, but even if he doesn't fulfill you sexually, he's able to fulfill you in other ways, emotionally, maybe supportive-wise, financially, etc.
00:54:09.000Because men have to bring value and utility to be with a girl versus women don't have to bring utility back.
00:54:14.000I'll give you a perfect example, not to pick on you, but the main reason men deal with women is sex.
00:54:36.000And I think a man's biggest strength is understanding his strength and knowing when a woman's value isn't as high or she's not adding value back.
00:54:43.000Because girls can only manipulate you if you don't understand your worth.
00:54:46.000But it's not like finessing because I actually care about him.
00:55:48.000What I've realized is that guys are so scared of rejection that they'll even be scared to be honest with a girl that they're friend-zoned by and they'd rather sit there and wait than let their intentions be known and get rejected by that girl.
00:56:20.000If most women can to the truth, it's probably not in my best interest to tell a woman the truth because I'll lose the girl and lose everything I already invested.
00:56:48.000Well, I mean, I definitely would take care of a guy, meaning, like, cook, clean, provide, like, care for him, but I don't consider that tangible.
00:57:13.000I've got gifts from girls where they've painted something for me or they gave me something like a small trinket or whatever but it had a meaning.
00:57:19.000It was something that I said months ago and she remembered.
00:58:19.000What tangible things do you bring for an exchange not smashing?
00:58:24.000I'm a really like big gift giver so like how you said like if like you say you want something and like I'll remember months later and I'll get you like that specific thing like I'm very thoughtful with my gifts.
01:02:06.000I consider myself a traditional woman, and I would say I deserve a traditional man because I bring all the values of a traditional woman, meaning I want a family, I stay in my role, I'm not independent.
01:02:43.000I don't think I'm traditional, only because I work in traditional women.
01:02:47.000I mean, you know, back then, you don't work, you stay home.
01:02:50.000I do, like, do domestic duties, but, like, I don't wake up every day and, like, let me go and cook and clean.
01:02:54.000So I feel like I just, by definition, I just can't be traditional.
01:02:57.000So I'd say I'm modern with some traditional flair.
01:02:59.000Like, if I'm there, of course, I'm going to take care of you.
01:03:01.000But I wouldn't say full traditional because it's like, if I'm gone, it doesn't mean that you can't cook or, like, you know, wash the dishes or whatever.
01:03:11.000What was your second part to the question?
01:03:13.000Do you deserve a traditional man in return that protects and provides food?
01:03:18.000So I don't want a fully traditional man because I feel like that's just too masculine in my opinion.
01:03:23.000Back to like there's some like older Jamaicans they won't like wash like wash your clothes like wash your panty because it's like oh like you're a man like you don't wash clothes but I'm like if I'm sick like I would want my man to at least like pay some money or do it you know what I'm saying?
01:04:00.000They're not going to sit there and be like, oh, I'm sensitive on Saturday, so catch me on this day.
01:04:04.000It's like, you can't really pick and choose.
01:04:06.000It's either you get a guy that has a shit together that's masculine, or you get a pussy.
01:04:10.000Well, it's overly masculine men, I would say.
01:04:12.000They're like, they can't, like, oh, I can't wear clear nail polish, like, super just, like, maybe it's the Jamaican thing, like, super, like, I don't want a man like that.
01:04:34.000I don't want you to be too masculine to the point where you don't take care of yourself or you can't be seen doing girl stuff.
01:04:40.000You think masculine men don't take care of themselves?
01:04:52.000But do you think that you're a modern woman, so you're saying you kind of want to be able to do half the chores and he does half the chores or whatever?
01:05:01.000I'm just saying if something happens, say if I'm away on business or work or I'm sick, it doesn't mean that you can't cook is what I'm saying.
01:05:09.000If I can't do it, Okay, but you should be doing it 95% of the time when you're not sick.
01:06:19.000Are you okay with just getting more of a pussy soy boy then?
01:06:24.000Are you okay with just getting a guy that's less masculine?
01:06:26.000Because I'll be honest, what you're saying that you provide back, a lot of dudes would be like, nah, I'm good.
01:06:33.000So what do you, maybe I'm misinterpreting, what do you think I provide back on your end based on what I said?
01:06:37.000Well, no, I mean, you're a typical traditional modern woman.
01:06:40.000Sorry, you're a typical modern woman where you kind of want to be able to enjoy some of the benefits and privileges of being a lady and being a woman while simultaneously being able to skirt yourself of certain responsibilities of being the same woman.
01:06:53.000I never said I wouldn't do anything, though.
01:06:55.000Yeah, but you don't even want to rear the kids.
01:06:58.000I don't want to rear the kids, but personally...
01:12:38.000Yeah, no, I mean, the studies do show that, you know, a girl that marries is a virgin, statistically speaking, is far more likely to not get divorced.
01:16:03.000Anyways, I would say in regards to keeping a man, I'd just say my biggest advice is just to whoever you're actively wanting to pursue, understand them and learn them.
01:16:14.000Find out what your man loves and do that.
01:16:52.000Would it be fair to say that you growing up in a household with your dad and two other brothers kind of familiarize yourself with the male mindset?
01:17:49.000What advice would you give to your daughter about attracting and retaining a guy for a long-term relationship?
01:17:53.000Okay, so first off, I would tell her, I would teach her from a very young age to try to put her logical thinking before she acts on emotions.
01:18:05.000I would also teach her how to be her own person and think her own way instead of following, because a lot of girls nowadays are just followers.
01:18:12.000They see their friends doing something and they want to do it.
01:23:01.000So I feel like, for example, if I'm out and the guys are having a cigar or something, I don't need to interject in the convo, but I want my man to value Me enough to know, hey, like, babe, what do you think?
01:24:44.000Why do you think women are to be seen and not be heard?
01:24:46.000I think like let's say you're like there's an event and you're walking with your man like I feel like it holds more weight like you being seen and like it makes him look good amongst like his peers rather than like being heard like who really cares what you have to say yeah like not to be mean but like who really cares like that's not gonna add value to him like how you look and how you present yourself that adds value but I have an opinion I'm a queen Who
01:28:40.000Yes, I think that we're, excuse my phrasing, but kind of like an accessory for men, and I think that they should shine more, and at the end of the day, they're breadwinners, so you go do what you gotta do, and I'm gonna make sure you look good doing it.
01:28:54.000Goddamn, y'all are having a lot of internalized misogyny.
01:29:15.000No, if you're mean, yeah, status, like social status, if you're like...
01:29:18.000Yeah, I meant, like, yeah, does, like, a woman's social status matter, like, as far as, like, oh, I got clout, like, do men care about that?
01:29:52.000So I feel like by, in return, you both end up shining.
01:29:56.000Because I feel like me being feminine, attractive, and just also someone who can hold a conversation makes you look good as a man.
01:30:02.000And then I feel like other men want what, like, I've been places where guys will see your girl and be like, damn, give you more respect because that girl's pretty and she...
01:30:10.000Well, you can be pretty and have brains.
01:30:13.000We're not saying that, but does it matter to a guy about social status and if they're clout?
01:30:20.000So do you agree with, because Red was saying don't speak unspoken to, would you say that this intelligence that you're speaking about conveying, it's only conveyed if you're allowed the opportunity, but if it's not, you just still be quiet?
01:31:03.000Knowing that men don't care about education or anything, what was your main reasoning for going ahead and pursuing a master's degree and getting into the corporate world?
01:31:13.000So, for me, growing up, especially, like, in the islands, like, education is a really big thing.
01:31:18.000So, number one, education has always been just an important thing in my family.
01:31:40.000Would you agree with, I mean, it's almost damn near a fact, but let's just say in general that the more educated a woman is, the more her dating pool dwindles?
01:32:00.000It's more like if you know me, then you don't have a degree or whatever.
01:32:03.000So I'd say a lot of women who are having difficulty dating, who have higher paying jobs or degrees, is because they have to make that the forefront.
01:32:11.000Men, you don't know I have a degree unless I say I have a degree.
01:32:15.000But wouldn't it be fair to say that, let's say you never talk about your degree.
01:32:18.000Let's say you never talk about your education or your income.
01:32:21.000But wouldn't it be fair to say that your wants and your requirements of a man have went up substantially since you're educated and make a higher earner yourself?
01:32:31.000So therefore, let's say you had just a bachelor's degree, you were earning $50,000 per year, but now with your increased education, you're now able to command $100,000 a year plus in income and salary.
01:32:41.000And even though you might not outwardly say I'm educated or whatever, your standards have quietly went up alongside your education and income increase.
01:32:48.000Yeah, but not disproportionately, if that makes sense.
01:33:27.000You can live 70, 80k or whatever, but I don't want to be thinking of me and you are in a partnership and it's hard for us to do certain things.
01:33:35.000Yeah, but you do realize that wanting $100,000 a year puts you in a very small pool, dating pool of men.
01:44:05.000When starting a YouTube channel, should I immediately get an EIN slash business account credit card or until there's some progress on the channel to get that put together?
01:45:50.000You're going to walk by and you're going to accidentally bump him and then drop a bunch of shit and have him help and then strike up a conversation.
01:45:56.000You need to be in his environment and make it so...
01:46:01.000Make it so where, like, that interaction is kind of like you talking to him about either, for example, a mistake, like you said earlier, you bump into him, you drop something, or, for example, hey, I need your help, can you help me with this?
01:46:20.000And the reason why I say that, it's cliche, like you walk into him and drop your books, is because it's going to put him in a position where, oh, let me help you.
01:46:27.000And guys like to feel like they're needed.
01:46:29.000And then you strike up a conversation, give him a small compliment, like, oh, I like your shirt or some shit like that.
01:47:15.000We did talk about Bill Gates on the episode yesterday, though, with Gonzalo Lira, and we talked about them boys, if you know what I'm saying.
01:47:30.000Dio, dominating goes, ladies, if your man is okay with you showing your body online for random, since you aren't smashing, then you're also okay with him paying random girls' bills as long as he doesn't smash them either?
01:47:47.000Yeah, he's asking, would you be okay with your man saying, okay, you could put your body online as long as I could pay random girls' bills.
01:49:34.000If your man whom you love and a woman who is a complete stranger are on board a crashing plane where there is only one parachute available, what should you do?
01:49:42.000Take it for himself or be a gentleman?
01:49:45.000I think I know what they're going to say.
01:49:48.000Should you give the parachute to the random girl and be a gentleman or say, fuck that bitch or come home to you?
01:50:11.000This podcast has helped me feel that I was not incorrect on how I treat my fiancee once I started telling her more of why I was always ready to break up with her and help our relationship getting married on the 12th year.
01:51:47.000Like, I don't really, like, I don't really know too much about it, but, like, I don't know my experience.
01:51:51.000What do you mean you don't know about it?
01:51:52.000And my experience with, like, people that are Geminis, like, I always ask because it's, like, I don't believe in it, but there's some stuff that are kind of true.
01:54:05.000You send a DM, you add some value, you network, and hopefully we respond, or you come to one of our events, meet us in person, say, hey, here's what I do, bro, and then we talk from there.
01:54:15.000But that's how you would do it for the most part.
01:54:42.000And then my new York broker says, ladies, how long do you think it would typically take for a man to become bored sleeping with just one woman when in a relationship?
01:56:42.000So, pull that question back up one more time, Chris.
01:56:44.000Listen, guys, if a guy is highly, like, if he has a big body count, for an example, because we don't necessarily ask our guys, do you have a body count?
01:56:52.000We just know that they have experience because of how they fuck us.
02:01:12.000At some point, he's either going to A, cheat on you, or B, you can get ahead of the curve and accept the fact that he's going to want to have other women and you can get involved.
02:01:18.000Maybe set up a threesome here or there.
02:01:20.000Maybe you say, hey, you know, explore your options, but just wear a condom, be safe.
02:01:24.000But I think it's best for women to kind of understand that it's going to come at some point where he's going to get tired of just you because men want variety and sex.
02:01:31.000And if you don't believe me, even the most faithful guy watches porn.
02:02:28.000I can see the gears in your brain turning because it's very difficult for you to understand.
02:02:33.000Because you wouldn't have sex with another guy because you love your man and you look at it like that's betrayal.
02:02:37.000But for men, it's not the same way because we're not emotionally tied to a woman when we have sex with her.
02:02:41.000You have your girl that you care about and then there's other girls that just help you bust a nut.
02:02:46.000I promise you, your boyfriend watches porn.
02:02:48.000I promise you, he either watches porn or he looks at other girls or whatever it is because men want variety.
02:02:53.000He just won't tell you this because it'll probably hurt your feelings.
02:02:55.000I mean, your reaction right now kind of selling.
02:02:58.000And then I know you guys said you came from two parent households and you saw your dad and you never saw him cheat or whatever, but what you see versus what happens are two different things.
02:04:49.000What I've come to realize and what I've noticed is that most men are monogamous by necessity.
02:04:54.000What I mean by this is that they have a girl and they won't cheat on her because, or they'll just do their best to not get caught because they don't have the value or the ability or the frame to be able to dictate terms on that level.
02:05:21.000And I talk about this in my book in detail.
02:05:23.000I know, it's different for men and women.
02:05:25.000The male sex drive is so incredibly strong that women would never be able to fathom it.
02:05:30.000And that's why women have such a difficult time when I tell them Guys want to have sex with other girls because the male sex drive is that powerful.
02:05:36.000I mean, everything you guys see that's built, it was built by men, right?
02:05:40.000For the pursuit of creating comfort, creating society.
02:05:44.000But it was all built on the backs of sex.
02:05:47.000Men have always traded resources for sex.
02:06:32.000But this is why I tell girls, instead of sitting there in delusion, like, la, la, la, la, la, no guy's gonna cheat on me, except the fact that most men are monogamous by necessity, and it's better for you to get out in front of it, and just know, at some point, he's gonna fuck another bitch, whether he does it overtly or covertly.
02:08:18.000Which is why guys that have status and money go out and fuck girls.
02:08:24.000Yeah, but if you want to have a family with a guy and have children, you want there to be stability and not, like, get embarrassed by, or, like, hear about...
02:09:24.000Besides the funny title or whatever, I go into detail why guys shouldn't be simps, etc.
02:09:28.000and why they should only give women more that deserve it, that reciprocate that same value.
02:09:34.000But what I'm saying is that why so many women can't fathom cheating or infidelity or whatever is because we live in a society that props women up no matter how they behave.
02:09:41.000If a girl's fat, I don't think women should be propped up if they don't have the value that you said.
02:09:47.000You know how few women think like you?
02:09:49.000We've interviewed 1900 plus women at this point.
02:09:51.000You know how many times we've had a conversation this civil?
02:09:53.000I can count on maybe one or two hands where we've had a conversation this civil.
02:11:12.000Kudos to you ladies for being fairly based and understanding our perspective.
02:11:16.000But I think the reason why so many girls can't take the cheating, like I said before, is because we really elevate women to a point where it's almost damn near delusion.
02:11:23.000And I'm not saying that men are special either.
02:11:39.000I think you need to be told you're a loser.
02:11:40.000I think the whole participation trophy society that we live in is extremely destructive.
02:11:45.000And I think that's why we have so many guys that don't produce, that aren't out there working, that are leaving college, not becoming successful, not making money.
02:11:51.000Women are out-earning, men are in a lot of major cities.
02:11:54.000I'm not saying college is the main thing that guys need to strive for, but it is a pretty good predicator on if you're going to be able to be a higher earner later on in life.
02:12:00.000And I think a big part of that is because guys are getting soft.
02:12:34.000As a self-acclaimed traditional woman, would you stay with your man if he fell short of his traditional duties at some point in the marriage?
02:15:42.000Do you think as an entertainer that has an extremely large audience that it's a little bit of their duty to take some responsibility knowing that they have an enormous amount of influence to tailor their content in a way where it's more positive towards women that might look up to them?
02:18:53.000There's other things that follow into their revenue, but when I'm talking about hype, hype artists, especially as a female, they're mainly out there with their titties out, with their ass out, they twerk on stage.
02:19:15.000Women aren't supposed to do that, period.
02:19:18.000I mean, you're supposed to do that in the bedroom for your man at the end of the day.
02:19:21.000You're not supposed to be a slut anywhere outside but the bedroom, so...
02:19:25.000Yeah, I mean, I see the perspectives here.
02:19:26.000You know, you're saying, hey, the onus is on the parents, which I could see, but then she's saying, well, hey, at the same time, it's being played everywhere.
02:19:31.000So, you know, at some point, how much can you parent, right?
02:19:35.000How much can you out-parent the toxic environment, right?
02:19:38.000And this is why places like Japan, etc.
02:19:40.000They go to great lengths to suppress certain things, right?
02:19:45.000But then you get into the, okay, well, are we impeding on people's freedom of speech?
02:19:48.000So there's many different variables here.
02:19:50.000And then, you know, actually saying, hey, well, you know, people want to...
02:19:53.000One of the easiest ways to monetize is using your sexuality.
02:19:56.000Then you guys are saying, well, there's ways to not do it, right?
02:19:58.000Taylor Swift and Adele are clean artists, which is true.
02:20:00.000But at the same time, it's like, okay, if you're not going to sexualize, your content's got to be banged up, like really good.
02:20:07.000And do most women have the talent to not sexualize and just utilize their God-given skills?
02:20:12.000Most can't, hence why they must sexualize.
02:20:14.000So there's many tricky points here where it just kind of sucks.
02:20:17.000And this is like a slippery slope type question.
02:20:20.000But yeah, I would say a lot of the women that have the most influence definitely mislead women.
02:20:24.000I would blame, I think Kim Kardashian has quite a bit of influence and she's probably corrupted a whole new generation to let them know that, hey, you know, you can make it by selling your sexuality given, you know, she would not make it in today's day and age, right?
02:20:39.000In 2006 when she released her sex tape, that was something novelty.
02:20:42.000That was like, whoa, what's going on here?
02:20:45.000Paris Hilton, you know, Pamela Anderson, all these women kind of blew up from sex tapes.
02:20:50.000But nowadays, if you have a sex tape as a celeb, no one cares.
02:23:31.000If you had to pick one thing that corrupted females and made them delusional, in general, not all, of course, but if you had to pick one, what would you say would be?
02:25:10.000CU. Santana Nice goes, man, I've been waiting for my fiance for 10 years now and I feel like she is almost worthy of carrying my last name.
02:25:17.000Please do a short video of how to get married without involving the government.
02:25:20.000I got two years to plan this out right.
02:26:33.000Do not involve the state, the county, the state, the U.S. government in your marital affairs at all.
02:26:39.000That's when you are going to get fucked, my friend.
02:26:41.000And also, it's like when you get into a relationship, do you need others' approvals or do you need to sign a paper that says, okay, we're dating, we're in a relationship?
02:26:49.000As long as you have that, like, agreement between each other that that's what we are, then that's all that should matter.
02:26:54.000Yeah, but you know, women, that's not enough for us, especially if you've been that long with a guy.
02:26:59.000So she will want something to make it feel like it's worth being with him.
02:28:38.000Hey, Marin, at least our generation had Wonder Woman.
02:28:41.000This generation is wondering who was a woman.
02:28:48.000Beach Bump Thoughts goes, it's always amazing to me watching these women who are just so blatantly delusional, reality is going to hit them so hard.
02:28:54.000Well, this panel here is fairly aware.
02:28:58.000Thoughts on a man that gives up living on his own to take care of his parents.
02:29:02.000My mom has been in and out of the hospital and my father becomes physically and mentally ill without her.
02:29:06.000Yeah, bro, do it because I'll tell you this, the regret, right, of you not doing it is going to hurt more than the current pain you're going through of being with them.
02:29:41.000It had everything to do with the image she was portraying.
02:29:43.000Even though she is a hoe, which we know that, what she's saying is that in her music, she doesn't overtly sexualize herself and use that as the main way to sell records, is what she's trying to say.
02:29:54.000But yeah, she's a whore on the outside.
02:29:55.000I mean, she uses that to make her music, no?
02:30:40.000So, I'm gonna be honest with you, it could be a number of things, but if he's not posting you, it could be because, one, he has other girls that he doesn't want to show you to, or it could be, for example, he's like, it's still new, he doesn't know what's up, he doesn't want to post it, then he looks dumb.
02:30:54.000Or it could be, for a matter of fact, he's like, he doesn't want to post girls because that's, like, his thing.
02:30:59.000I'm gonna do what I want, but my girl, I'm gonna keep that private.
02:31:04.000Because, for example, when you put something on social media, it invites people to talk about you, go behind your back, figure out who you are, family and shit.
02:31:13.000Personally speaking, for me now, if I'm going to be in that position, I would kind of not want to post them all over the place because you never know what might happen.
02:31:21.000But once again, it could be a number of reasons.
02:31:24.000And a lot of people attach that person to you as well.
02:33:46.000If he's a professional athlete, traveling all over the place, yeah, like, the other reason, too, why, like I said, having other girls, and then also, you gotta keep in mind, a lot of guys won't post their main chick sometimes, because their main chick isn't hot enough for what they do as a profession.
02:34:02.000So I've said it before, I'm not saying that you're not hot enough, but, I mean, if he's a professional athlete, he has a certain image he's gotta keep up, and...
02:34:29.000The other thing too, when you're a professional athlete, you're held to a certain standard of you better be with like a bad chick that like slam waist, fitness model, like nice ass, big tits, all this other stuff, like damn near perfect.
02:34:39.000So like if you're not with a chick that's like super, super bad and they're a public figure, it'll make him look stupid if he posts it.
02:34:46.000And it's going to make, he's not getting laid.
02:34:48.000It's going to hurt him to get other girls.
02:35:16.000Some guys, like, they hit on their homie's friend, I mean, their homie's girl, like, on the low, just to feel that, yeah.
02:35:23.000I mean, there's some weirdos that do that, but, I mean, it's kind of a waste of time.
02:35:26.000Yeah, but that's, like, a waste of time.
02:35:29.000Like, hitting on a chick, like, if I see a girl, especially if she's with a dude of some kind of status or whatever, like, you're just wasting your fucking time, bro.
02:36:06.000Yo, Chris, pull up, just Google it real quick.
02:36:08.000Courtney Clenney without makeup, and then you'll see her in court versus what she put on Instagram.
02:36:14.000I was also going to say thank you for having me, and I think guys need to listen to you more.
02:36:18.000Also, I wanted to bring up something where I saw about modern feminism in the chat earlier, and it reminded me that I actually took a college class last semester where this podcast was brought up.
02:36:38.000A social context class for early childhood, meaning giving context to backgrounds that children would come from and how you can teach them.
02:36:45.000And they somehow twisted it to be about toxic masculinity and this podcast.
02:36:55.000Yeah, I mean, I think, and we had a whole debate with some feminists, like, two weeks ago, and they came on the show, and they kept trying to say that everything that we say is based on social constructs, and I'm like, no, it's not.
02:37:10.000Like, women may select, not based off of, like, social constructs, though they do play a role to a degree, but since the beginning of time, women have typically wanted the same archetype of man.
02:40:53.000Yeah, recipes and, you know, I don't like, but that's the cold hard truth is that simply put, from reading the messages I read as love notes, I read all that stuff, Did you do a case on that?
02:41:02.000I don't really have no questions, but thank you for having me.
02:46:47.000I think a father and a brother's love can't necessarily, or a cousin, you know, uncle, can't really be replaced because, well, in a healthy family, they're not trying to do anything to you.
02:46:56.000So they're going to give you unbiased advice that actually benefits you.
02:47:41.000You know, like I said, and I do take that seriously when y'all come to me for advice or ask me questions, you know, to be able to provide that for y'all.
02:50:06.000A lot of times what he'll do is he'll acquiesce to what that woman's wishes and dreams are.
02:50:10.000And if a girl says, I'm a career woman, I make this much money, or I do this, or I do that, what he'll do is he'll tailor his game based on what that woman's interests, ego investments are, etc.
02:51:54.000In regards to what Guns Out said yesterday about in the next decade, just sitting back and watching the empire burn, what is a country now associated with U.S., Russia, China that would be good to go to?