On this episode of the Freshman Podcast, we have a special guest, Myron. We also have a call in call in dating question and a Zoom call with Jabril. And of course, we talk about the latest in the NBA.
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00:23:30.000Apparently we've been in a lot of recent videos, especially someone for bigger size today.
00:23:37.000And Myron already responded to it, actually, so it's pretty funny.
00:23:40.000But we'll get into that a little bit later.
00:25:34.000It's funny, you would think after all those narratives being talked about, she would actually not add to it by saying, hey, I want to leave this place.
00:25:43.000I'd sit here and watch this photo shoot with you.
00:27:17.000But, you know, sometimes when you look back, Myron, and you kind of look at the camera like, this bitch, you know what I'm saying?
00:27:26.000That camera needs to be, like, pointed down a little bit more because it's funny to see when you look back at the camera like, this bitch, you know what I mean, when you look behind you?
00:27:34.000Because before it was like, it would like, you know, get your whole face, but you know, and that kind of thing.
00:27:42.000And that one, I don't know if I'm allowed to say Jewish on YouTube, but that one Jewish girl is hilarious.
00:29:59.000She said that she had plans or whatever afterwards.
00:30:02.000I guess if she thought I was weird, she could have a way out.
00:30:06.000But then we ended up having a bonfire afterwards.
00:30:09.000And to the fellas, hey, keep a load of wood in the back with some lighter fluid because I took her to the beach and That kind of sealed the deal.
00:30:16.000But anyways, so we're at this point now where she's like, kind of, what are we?
00:30:22.000And, you know, I've been through a marriage.
00:30:27.000You guys already know how that ended up.
00:31:08.000I'm just afraid I'm going to feel trapped if I get married.
00:31:12.000And I guess, I don't know, there's something that just terrifies me about getting married, but it's almost like we're so traditional in our relationship where, you know, I don't know if we get married, if we cohabitate.
00:31:25.000I'm just kind of in limbo with my next move, you know what I mean?
00:31:29.000Her parents, her friends, everybody's asking, like, what's the deal?
00:31:34.000And I'm just like, I'm just in limbo, you know what I'm saying?
00:31:38.000Yeah, I think the question here is, bro, what do you want to do?
00:31:41.000Because I think you're worried about what she might do, but what do you actually want to do?
00:33:03.000So, as a man that knows what he wants to do, and wants to be that guy that is living that lifestyle, you know from the show what we're going to tell you, right?
00:33:17.000And I guess it's just, I don't know if I've ever heard a caller in such limbo call in and just fully know the situation.
00:33:29.000But I do think that One thing we don't tap into enough is maybe there is an endgame because obviously I want kids and I do believe that I don't want to break trust and I wasn't up front with her at the beginning because I didn't want to scare her off.
00:33:48.000I have been loyal to her but you know obviously there's been opportunities that have passed up because of my conscience but at the same time It's just in limbo.
00:34:08.000So you told her that you are only going to smash her, right?
00:34:11.000Basically, you want to be with her only, you love her, all this good stuff, right?
00:35:13.000So would you rather end it now when it's not as, I want to say, deep?
00:35:17.000Or would you want to try to pretend and then...
00:35:22.000I'm all for, like, doing your thing, smashing chicks, bro, but when you're lying about it the entire time and then, like, you want it to last, bro, that's just not gonna last, bro.
00:36:27.000Because it's been ingrained to her head like some of these girls you interview where it doesn't matter because they've been indoctrinated to it never being okay and they're willing to go through 50 other you-know-whats in order to just end up with another guy who does the same thing.
00:36:42.000Even though they understand the truth, they're living in doodolululance.
00:37:51.000You know, you creep at night to other chicks, whatever, and she finds out, she gets butthurt, and all of a sudden it's like, yo, you guys are fighting because you lied to her from the very beginning.
00:38:00.000And listen, it sucks because obviously you care about the girl, you like her, you might even love her, and it's like, you're hurting her.
00:38:06.000So, to make it all cool and square, bro, just do what you gotta do, and listen, hey shorty, this is what it is.
00:38:55.000You know, I'm going to take your advice to heart and I open up that screen while you guys were talking.
00:39:02.000The only other thing I think this would, I'm trying to add value to you guys as a thank you, is when you guys are reading chats and then the camera view goes to the lower left side, If you could just increase the size of the camera where you guys are sitting down at the table a little more because sometimes you guys are reading chats but then it doesn't slip back to the screen and we want to see kind of a bigger screen of everyone
00:39:32.000sitting at the table while they're reading chats.
00:40:16.000I feel like, you know, Myron sometimes gets lenient on these girls, and I feel like you kind of want to fuck them or something, and I'm like, fucking Myron, that bitch is stupid.
00:41:46.000And the one main concern I have in terms of dating is that the majority of these girls, they come in just wanting a long-term relationship.
00:41:57.000And I'm just not about that life because, you know, as strong as I am, there's no point of going into a long-term relationship.
00:42:04.000So how can you approach it in a way where...
00:42:07.000You can make sure that you're here to have a short time and a fun time with the girls.
00:42:14.000So you want to know how to prolong them leaving?
00:42:18.000Okay, so you want to have fun, have an experience with a girl.
00:42:57.000You're the guy taking her on a date or trying to smash, right?
00:43:00.000So she's going to follow your lead if you're that guy, which means you're going to have the actual direction.
00:43:05.000For example, how the date goes, how it's set up, how you touch her, all that's included in the date.
00:43:10.000So you say, oh, I'm going to be with her long term or her thinking that is because you're either giving her that relationship energy, which means you're like, oh my God, you're the one for me.
00:43:48.000What, would you suggest just saying it out front?
00:43:51.000Because usually, I just say that, me personally, I'm not really looking for anything serious.
00:43:57.000But then, from then on, they're not really as receptive as they were before, right?
00:44:02.000Because obviously they'll just know, oh, this guy's only here to smash, and then they won't really speak to you anymore, because then they basically know your true intentions, right?
00:44:10.000Well, you don't say, obviously, what you're about.
00:44:14.000So, this is what I would say you should do if you want to just keep it cordial and have fun and not make it seem too rushed, right?
00:44:21.000What you do is, bro, you don't play into that relationship vibe, which just means, when I say vibe, I mean, all it is is you're playing into you having a good time with her.
00:44:29.000You're not focused on if she's going to be having kids.
00:44:32.000All these questions about, oh, what's your plan for five years?
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00:55:16.000Now, when it comes to actually her responding, if she responds and she says, okay, I'm down, set a time and date, pick her up, take her out.
00:55:24.000And plan the date properly where you're going to actually end up at your house.
00:55:28.000So it's going to be either a lounge, a bar, and at your crib, or vice versa.
00:56:51.000Probably Andrew Tate when he popped up, and then I sort of watched you guys.
00:56:55.000Okay, I thought it was like a hater or some shit like that.
00:56:59.000It was interesting to see how people find us.
00:57:02.000Look, bro, you called in, you didn't hear what you wanted to hear, and now you're like, oh, let me backtrack and just do what I was doing, bro.
00:57:09.000Like, clearly, right, you kind of called in hoping that Fresh would give you advice that aligns with what you already kind of wanted to do, and it doesn't, and you don't like that?
00:57:30.000You guys have a scarcity mindset, bro.
00:57:32.000Like, a lot of you guys that call into the show, the dude that called in earlier with the Russian chick or whatever, like, you guys all have a scarcity fucking mindset that's pathetic.
00:57:40.000Like, you guys care way too much about what these women think, you guys care way too much about keeping these girls around, you guys care way too much about what they want versus what you want, like, the dude that's in college that called in.
00:57:50.000Like, you guys do what you want to do, and if she's not with it, then go find a girl that is.
00:57:55.000But you guys don't have an abundance mindset.
00:57:56.000A lot of you guys have a scarcity mindset.
00:57:58.000And that's the issue where a lot of you guys do the stupid shit that you do because you're so scared about losing these chicks.
01:00:52.000Okay, Noble, could you get him into the chat for networking in a premium?
01:00:56.000Because if you join that chat, bro, you can also network with us in there, and as well, we'll give you options to network outside of that as well.
01:02:44.000My girlfriend broke up with me about, like, two months ago.
01:02:48.000And I'm just wondering, like, I don't know what the fuck to do to, like, I guess get over her, but it's like, not even get over her because I've already fucked two other bitches after her and I can't stop thinking about this girl.
01:03:05.000I work out twice a fucking day now because I genuinely try to just, you know, stay busy because I've been watching videos on how to get over like breakups and shit.
01:03:36.000And her mom was like, hey, she doesn't want to talk to you no more, da-da-da-da-da, and she basically said, like, You're too controlling or whatever.
01:03:44.000But the thing is, when I asked her, what do you mean, how am I controlling?
01:03:46.000She ended up saying all these things like, you have her location, you have her IG, and all this other stuff.
01:03:52.000But the thing is, she gave me her IG willingly.
01:04:00.000So I don't know how it could be controlling.
01:04:02.000And then she said that I overheard a conversation with you guys and you told her not to wear something because she was going out with her friends.
01:04:59.000And her family had to get involved because more than likely you might have exhibited some characteristics that made her feel unsafe or whatever it may be.
01:05:06.000But the reality, bro, is that you're not that nigga yet.
01:05:08.000So you can't be telling her what to do.
01:06:24.000It's very simple Brother I want you to imagine Niggas cream pieing And your girl And you sitting there watching Okay That's what's happening right now If you want to get by with her Yeah Dead eyes bro Imagine BBC like me nigga And your bitch Coming 10 times Back to back And the fact that her parents Are even intervening The fact that her parents Are intervening Is an even bigger red flag I don't even know why we're having this conversation right now.
01:06:50.000When I tell you guys the shit that I tell you guys, you guys need to internalize this shit.
01:06:53.000A lot of you guys are blue pill simps in the back.
01:06:55.000You guys watch us like, yeah, that sounds good.
01:06:57.000And then when it's time for you guys to apply it to your fucking life, y'all niggas are simps.
01:07:01.000Her own family intervened for her to be a whore, and your dumb ass is still sitting here saying, well, I don't know how I'm going to get over her.
01:07:10.000Nigga, this is the easiest bitch to get over.
01:08:03.000You guys want to sit there and make excuses for why your bitch doesn't obey you?
01:08:07.000You want to make excuses for why your bitch doesn't want to have sex with you?
01:08:10.000You want to make excuses for why you want to get with her or marry her when in reality you want to have other women?
01:08:19.000You guys, a lot of you guys are fucking cowards.
01:08:22.000You guys are cowards and you're scared to stand up to a fucking chick that can't even decide what the fuck she wants to eat, is physically inferior to you, stupid, and a bimbo nine out of ten times.
01:08:32.000You guys are scared to fucking tell these girls what it is.
01:08:34.000Or, like you, thinking about some bitch for 60 days that just wants to live her life and be a whore.
01:10:42.000And the fact that she's in the boonies, it takes her so long to be a slut, tells you already that she'd rather do that shit than fuck with you, man.
01:11:21.000You don't even take her back at this point.
01:11:23.000Because I hope you know that what's going to more than likely happen is she's going to be a whore for a few months and then she's going to try to come back to you.
01:11:36.000She's gonna literally be a slut for a few months, realize that this shit sucks, wow, what the fuck, and then she's gonna come running back to you and you don't take her back.
01:12:14.000You know, Fresh, this is pretty much to encourage you and to commend you on your effort, on your courage to even, like, be on TV and, you know, be taking the platform and talking to young men that really need help out here.
01:12:30.000And, you know, Folks don't also understand how difficult it is to have a speech anxiety or speech impediment and still put yourself out there and speak publicly and all that.
01:12:51.000I don't know what you do to work on your speech, but I do have a suggestion.
01:13:03.000And it's created by an organization called WSSA. So they pretty much give people with speech anxiety and speech impediment techniques to improve their speech and speak in pretty much any situation.
01:13:25.000So if you're ever interested, you can Check this app how.
01:13:29.000It's called, again, Stop Stutter App, and the name of the organization is WSFA. Thank you guys for doing God's work, and see you later.
01:19:55.000And I feel like things are coming back around, and I don't want to mess it up.
01:20:01.000So I want to know from you, if you were in my situation, let's say right now you have the podcast, Myron, you're successful, Fresh is successful, Fish is successful.
01:20:11.000Let's say you lost all that, and somehow you went into debt.
01:20:17.000Because I see the people I see in my situation, like they face Like a midlife crisis, and then they never come back from that.
01:20:25.000They, like, just stay broke the rest of their life.
01:20:29.000And, you know, I'm used to living much better than I'm living now.
01:20:34.000And I want to know, what suggestions can you give me, a middle-aged guy who was successful before but lost it and wants to make a comeback?
01:20:46.000Number one, don't call it a midlife crisis, not a midlife crisis, a midlife comeback is what it is, because it seems like you lost everything and you already got everything back and you're working towards it.
01:20:53.000So why the fuck are you framing it negatively saying it's a midlife crisis?
01:21:09.000So, I mean, just keep doing what you've been doing, bro.
01:21:12.000Like, if you, clearly, you had the money at one point, lost it, put yourself in the hole, now you're digging yourself out of the hole, I wouldn't consider that a fucking crisis whatsoever.
01:21:22.000The crisis is if you stood in the hole and just stood there and said, oh my god, I don't know what to do.
01:21:25.000Clearly, you already took action, and you're climbing out, and right now we're in the process of almost having the crisis averted, so I don't think it's a midlife crisis whatsoever.
01:21:33.000You gotta frame things appropriately, my friend.
01:21:36.000Like, you gotta look at the glass always as half full, not half empty.
01:21:39.000Look at this as an opportunity to make yourself stronger, which you're already doing right now as we speak.
01:21:44.000Also, you're not trying, it's already done.
01:28:59.000Hi, can you please one day show an average girl's Instagram messages, expensive offer that they get, money, designer bags, flying out, paying vacations, etc.
01:29:09.000Something to see it before I believe it.
01:34:41.000You know, so I gave her a shot and then everything I taught her and trained her of why I don't do relationships, she's literally doing to my life right now.
01:35:41.000You don't even want to be convicted of any of this shit, man.
01:35:43.000Like, even if they give you a plea deal, oh yeah, just plead to this and you won't do no jail time, well, a felony conviction is going to fuck your life up.
01:35:49.000So, you need to fight this tooth and nail, and you need to make sure that you have a good lawyer, bro.
01:35:55.000Public defendant ain't going to do it.
01:38:54.0008700 Asalaamu Alaikum Myron Uh Fuck you fresh Uh I don't wanna waste My time Or you guys time But uh I don't wanna hear fresh I didn't call for his advice I want Myron's advice Uh So if you go mute him That'd be pretty nice Nigga nigga Hold on hold on hold on hold on Who the fuck are you?
01:39:17.000Here comes Myron putting on his little save a nigga cape on.
01:43:29.000But, I mean, okay, I guess I have a question.
01:43:32.000Like, in the dating field, like, I mean, I don't even know if I really date.
01:43:36.000I just kind of like play to like just kind of smash, you know, I mean But if you're really looking for wifey materials, I don't even know if I ever really want to get married but like what would be characteristics like day one Or like even into the future that you would be like this could be potentially my wife Honestly, bro You're very nonchalant.
01:43:59.000You don't give a fuck about any of this stuff, so it doesn't matter what we say, man.
01:44:01.000How about you call back in when you actually are looking to settle down and be serious?
01:44:05.000Because right now, you're just playing the field.
01:44:07.000It doesn't matter what we tell you, because you don't give a shit about it, and it's not going to matter.
01:45:13.000We'll wait for them to get the 2,000 up.
01:45:15.000I find it interesting that that guy called into the show and did that stupid shit, bro.
01:45:18.000Like, this just goes to show, like, just...
01:45:20.000Nigga, how you gotta call into a show, be disrespectful to 50% of the party, and then expect, like, oh, yeah, I'm just gonna go ahead and, uh, whatever.
01:45:28.000Because, like, he made it very blatantly obvious that he was trying to be a dickhead for no reason.
01:55:42.000Hey, I know you guys have been following the CU Heisman Trophy winner, Travis Hunter, and his girlfriend, which I find the most value out of when you guys talk about how she acts towards his fame.
01:56:04.000And probably one of the largest awards he may ever see in his lifetime and how she kind of like kicks back and tries to take the attention away with TikTok videos and other content videos saying that, you know, she's not a stripper.
01:56:26.000She didn't want to stand up because her mom didn't stand up and crap like that.
01:56:32.000So how long do you guys think the relationship will last?
01:57:41.000And this happens a lot because maybe he can't see it because he's inside, but like at the third party looking in, you can see clearly that there's some issues here going on.
01:57:49.000So he's going to write it out as long as possible, see what happens.
01:57:53.000And then from there, everyone's going to say, I told you so.
01:57:56.000But again, with that type of pressure on your relationship, that's, I want to say, more of a spectacle more than an actual, like, relationship itself, you become a butt of the joke.
01:58:05.000So whatever she does, no matter what it is, is going to be geared towards her and him ending.
01:58:09.000So I think he's going to stick it out as long as possible, and then when it ends, we're going to be like, we told you so, and then it's going to be a little bit harder for him to even move on, because now he's like, fuck, I tried, but she was a hoe, so.
01:59:51.000Here's the issue that you're going to run into.
01:59:53.000And this is actually a funny thing because in Burkle, it's common where you either date a girl that's in your apartment building or either someone that works there, which is kind of a harder thing to do, but you never know.
02:00:05.000So here's the things you have to look at if you want to date this woman that you said earlier.
02:00:11.000If you ever, which you probably will, start talking to her or you kind of want to see somebody else, she's going to know either from the cameras or just from seeing you in and out with another girl.
02:00:24.000Now, it may be awkward because you're seeing her and the girl that you're with.
02:00:29.000It could be awkward for things in that sense, especially if you're still talking to the first one and you need a new one.
02:03:27.000This is kind of going to be what you don't want to hear, but this is what I would do if I were you.
02:03:32.000I'll find a second thing I could do, either Uber or something I could do that doesn't take a lot of brain power to do, just make extra money to cover that for now.
02:03:40.000Because your savings you don't want to touch.
02:04:08.000If that happens to you, it may raise even more, so I will keep the savings untouched for now, get you a second job or a mileage job that doesn't take too much effort, use that money towards that difference from the mortgage, and that way you can sustain that for a longer period of time without touching your savings.
02:04:24.000Long term, may not last, but at least for now, they'll kind of placate it for a little bit.
02:04:29.000And then, again, with the girl, bro, keep it cordial.
02:04:32.000If you do want to, like, smash, smash, but let her know, hey, we're just having fun, and ain't that serious, because, bro, it could be ahead of you in the future for sure.
02:04:41.000Yeah, she gave me her number and everything, and she's definitely excited to do something.
02:04:47.000She thinks I'm rich, she will not, but I'm trying to get ahead, because the rent in the area, it's pretty much the same as the mortgage.
02:04:57.000Let me guess, you told her that you bought a condo?
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