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00:01:39.000If you guys want to see behind-the-scenes content, you can't get anywhere else, whether it's live streams, etc.
00:01:42.000What I might start doing also for you guys is, besides us doing double dates and dual live streams of lifestyle, whatever, I might actually go live while I'm in the gym, goddammit, to show you guys some of the workouts that I do.
00:01:52.000Because a lot of you guys are like, oh, Barb, you never post your gym stuff.
00:01:55.000The reason why I don't like doing it, guys, is because it's a pain in the ass to set up your camera and do a set and then got to reset it.
00:03:07.000On my YouTube channel, it's called Fed1811.
00:03:08.000As you guys know, I break down criminal cases on there.
00:03:10.000The most recent one I did was Blueface.
00:03:13.000You guys know he got hit with attempted murder.
00:03:14.000He was arrested in Las Vegas about a week ago.
00:03:16.000I went through, broke down the case, gave you guys the scenarios of what more than likely happened leading up to his arrest and the probabilities of him beating the case.
00:10:17.000Threw all of his shit in garbage bags, went and dropped it off at the front door of his job and banged on the front door and got in my car and just drove off and blocked his ass.
00:14:25.000I attended FIU and I graduated with my bachelor's in hospitality and I got a job working at a luxury property in downtown not too far from here.
00:18:19.000We were sleeping together, and he woke up screaming, like literally screaming, and I was like, what's wrong?
00:18:25.000And he was, no, no, no, you need to get the hell out of here.
00:18:27.000And then he blocked me, and he started, like, he unblocked me and sent me, like, these huge-ass, like, paragraphs saying, like, I don't know, it was like a Bible, and I was like, yo, you're crazy.
00:18:39.000How long were you all together before he came, he had this vision about you?
00:20:42.000Well, I also have a four-year-old son, so it's just allowed me more to focus my energy on better things, growing myself, my family, my son, instead of trying to worry about a man who's going to go off and do his own shit anyways.
00:21:51.000If you had money, would it have mattered though, realistically speaking?
00:21:54.000Would have you been okay with accepting him having multiple women if let's say he took care of you and he provided a certain lifestyle for you?
00:22:22.000Girls will pick a guy that doesn't deserve to have that level of trust and, I guess, companionship, and then a guy that would have been worth it, then he's to the cold side of the road.
00:26:07.000I don't know how to describe it, but it's pretty much when the girl's laying face down and the guy's, like, she's on her stomach and the guy's on top.
00:33:13.000Yeah, because dudes, for some reason, like to be like, oh, she better give me head, but then for some reason don't want to eat, you know, box.
00:35:57.000There's always someone that's more responsible for something, especially when it's within the confinement of a sexual relationship between man and woman.
00:38:03.000What if he's attractive and takes care of you and he's tall and he's handsome and he, you know, has you mentally stimulated, does everything?
00:40:08.000Like, I feel like, even though before I said it was mutual, which I still do kind of agree, because either one of us, me or him, could step out and just leave, you know?
00:40:16.000But also, like, as a woman, we do provide that, like, sensual, like, we should be that happy place for our man, whether that comes in any kind of forms, inside the bedroom and out.
00:43:10.000No, it's because men should be able to lead and take control and be in his masculine energy, but at the same time, he should be able to be vulnerable enough to be able to become his woman.
00:43:20.000Not necessarily boo-hoo baby crying all the time, but being able to be like, hey, babe, today fucking sucked.
00:44:00.000If you're doing it all the time, yeah, it's a pain in the ass, but a man's not going to necessarily like...
00:44:06.000Like hate you or resent you for crying versus on the other hand if you know because women are emotional guys understand this it's kind of we accept it but if a guy cries to you it's not gonna be met with the same reciprocity it's weird like when a guy cries it's it's strange but I feel like it obviously differs from person to person yeah generally speaking most women don't want to see their guy crying and being weak so you're saying like yo you could come to me and be vulnerable but just don't do this so why not just be why be
00:44:37.000vulnerable to you at all i disagree i don't even remember what the original question was fantastic honestly the question is who needs to be submissive and who needs to be dominant in the relationship oh yeah well mutual but i definitely like my man dominant more so that by definition means it's not mutual Domination means to overcome,
00:45:10.000So now I definitely would like a man to be able to let me be in my feminine energy.
00:45:13.000But you have to be the right kind of man who's in his own masculine energy to be able to handle a woman who's in her full divine feminine energy.
00:51:25.000I feel like I would need context like this is a traumatic Or was I born without one?
00:51:34.000Like, because if I was with the dude and it was like a traumatic incident and all of a sudden I couldn't do nothing no more, that dude better feel bad for me and stay with me either way.
00:52:03.000And the reason why I'm asking this is because when I ask you guys, yo, if you don't have, if you didn't have box to give, how would you keep a guy?
00:52:08.000All of you guys are kind of struggling with an answer, and the reality is men would not deal with you if you didn't have vaginas.
00:52:12.000Versus if men didn't have dicks, women can still get utility from them.
00:52:15.000This is why so many women have men in the friend zone.
00:52:53.000We spoke earlier with the guys if you want to check out the episode prior where we spoke about the crypto market, how to make money in the crypto market.
00:53:50.000It's easy for me to friendzone guys, obviously, but I'm also a realist and realize that even the guy friends I do have, given the opportunity, would probably sleep with me.
00:54:20.000I guess like what do you consider friends like going out like with groups together that's you know friends like going to house parties like Halloween stuff that's friends but if I'm just hanging out the two of us no that's weird that's not friends that's too much that actually is a friend which was described before as more of an acquaintance yeah okay then I guess we could be acquaintances so no can't be besties okay yeah I agree that's a little bit of a question for you though so you wouldn't want your guy to have female friends either I don't really like it.
00:54:50.000What if those girls are like you and friends on him?
00:54:53.000Still don't like it because girls be bitches and they see girls that are cute with a man or whatever, whatever, and they'll just try and steal your man just to feel good about themselves.
00:55:14.000No, I'm not the tits, but I've done something with myself, and I've been somebody, and people think I'm nice and funny, and I am a good person.
00:55:22.000So people will be like, yeah, he's with somebody that has something, so he must have something to offer.
00:56:07.000No, generally speaking, can a man and a woman just be friends platonically with any type of like non-sexual sexual attention?
00:56:15.000I think a girl could be friends with a guy with nothing, but I don't know if a guy has that in him to just be the girl's friend without wanting anything.
00:56:23.000So only the man has that type of, I guess, level of life.
01:01:50.000What if I said that you didn't have any self-control for not sticking around with your guy that didn't support you or take care of you financially?
01:02:08.000I was just being dumb and in love and being a clown.
01:02:10.000Wouldn't it be fair to say that privilege is invisible to those that have it?
01:02:15.000And what I mean by that is that women get sexual access to men very easily, so therefore they have zero understanding of what it takes for a man to be attractive to get that same access.
01:02:23.000But if dudes are cheating on their girls left and right, clearly they got access too.
01:03:10.000So, I mean, would it be far-fetched to kind of like, you know, you could take that and put it into real world.
01:03:15.000Like, if guys want to look at new women all the time, it would make sense that they would probably want to have sex with new women all the time, too, right?
01:03:35.000So therefore, and women don't consume as much pornography and physical stimulation as men do.
01:03:40.000If guys were getting laid, your industry will go down in a day.
01:03:43.000Playboy, OnlyFans, pornography, etc., the nightlife, bottle girls, like that entire industry exists on the pretense that men are going to spend money for sexual access to women.
01:04:13.000But that's still a significant amount of men versus if I took 100 girls, there ain't no one in three girls that isn't having sex involuntarily.
01:04:34.000Lack of self-control because it's like a lot of people just use it as like a deterrent or like a distraction or just to make themselves feel good and to avoid whatever they got really dealing on in life, you know?
01:04:45.000Well, it's easy for women to say that because you guys don't earn your sexual market value.
01:04:49.000And you just said earlier, you felt stupid because, sorry, you felt like your scenario was because you felt like you were young, you were kind of stupid.
01:05:48.000Well, I guess it depends on the situation because sometimes men, you know, hit up the girl or follow the girl, DM the girl, try and plan it out.
01:06:30.000A guy can bust nuts until the day he dies.
01:06:32.000A woman can only bring one child to term per year.
01:06:33.000So we're literally designed to have sex with as many women as we can.
01:06:37.000The only difference between a poor guy or richer guy is the richer guy has the ability to tell a girl pound sand if you don't want to stay.
01:06:42.000Or I'm going to have sex with other girls a lot of time.
01:06:45.000But just because you're given choices doesn't mean you should act on them.
01:06:48.000I mean, that's easy for you to say because you have the privilege of being able to pick and consolidate on the best man that you can get, but most men never get that privilege.
01:06:56.000I've been shot down multiple times before, so it's not like...
01:07:00.000Yeah, but those guys that shot you down probably had a bunch of other options.
01:07:02.000That's a buster ass to get that position to be able to turn you down.
01:07:05.000Versus for women, y'all just can turn down anybody just because.
01:08:43.000How can I use it to my advantage to finesse?
01:08:45.000And from day one, he's like, alright, I'm going to spit some game, do some finesse here, tell I love her all that shit, and see what I can take.
01:08:53.000And he's usually broke for the most part.
01:08:55.000He'll dick you down good, they'll take it from you, and then just cheat on you anyway.
01:08:58.000So that's red flag from the very beginning.
01:10:19.000Because you guys are like Y'all know that females are emotional, so if we're emotional, why cheat on us if y'all know that's gonna cause us?
01:14:02.000It just comes back to what I was saying.
01:14:04.000Most of me can't handle the truth, because if I'm going to be all the way 100% with you guys, we've interviewed well over 1,700 women on this podcast, so one It's almost universal in most of the women that we talk to.
01:14:16.000Most women have an overly inflated sense of self-worth as to where they think they stand.
01:14:21.000A lot of girls think that they're special.
01:15:33.000I think I've had platonic friends, but from a man's point of view, I don't know how they feel about me, honestly.
01:15:41.000I've never ran into that issue where they've tried to fuck on me or anything, but that honestly could be going through their head at the end of the day.
01:16:44.000This was on standout TV, a migrant episode.
01:16:47.000Well, explain to the ladies, because they don't know what the fuck this is.
01:16:50.000So basically, we went to the UK about two months ago, and there's a show called Grilling, where a lady by the name of Cheyenne Reynolds, awesome woman, by the way, does a dating show where she dates a man on camera for a first time in 101.
01:17:04.000And I went on the show, you know, did my G-game shit, Top G, and And we had a pretty good date and a couple debates here and there.
01:17:11.000But Myron's episode is going to be out next month, I believe.
01:17:45.000No, but I think it's really weird that, like, you would expect, you know, like, half of a human race, like, population to just act like they don't exist.
01:18:30.000So I know that my male friends can give me the balance because if I'm going off talking to my female friends about this, oh, his depression is doing this, he's driving me nuts or whatever, they're going to give me what I want to hear.
01:18:39.000Whereas my male friend might be like, try and leave him alone.
01:18:42.000He will rationalize my way of thinking because he's going to give me a male perspective.
01:18:46.000What's the deep-rooted reason they give you advice?
01:22:55.000I mean, on your side, like we're ladies, we might think that, oh no, they're just a friend, but they're thinking something entirely different.
01:25:24.000Because you understand that what your looks are important for a woman, especially.
01:25:27.000So, what I am saying is that a woman's primary agency is her sexuality.
01:25:31.000That sexuality is heavily contingent upon her looks.
01:25:36.000Which is why the makeup industry and the hair industry and the nail industry is never going to go out of business.
01:25:40.000And hair and nails, which is exactly what I specified, is what women want to enhance to increase their own sexual market value, which goes back to sexuality.
01:25:48.000I agree with that, but I don't think it's sexual appeal.
01:25:53.000I just don't think that that's the definition of sexual appeal.
01:25:57.000I don't think us doing all that is for us to look good and attractive.
01:29:24.000If you believe that a high-value man will pick you for your unique personality, then why bother becoming more beautiful than your competition?
01:38:10.000So she over here, you know, trying to throw the guy some, you know, symbols, and then her over here casted spells so they wouldn't answer the phone.
01:43:28.000He went back up to his place and then we were just like making out and I was just like, nah, like I don't really want to like sleep with you.
01:43:34.000And he was just like, okay, well, can you like suck my dick?
01:43:37.000Let me just suck your dick and give you all the pleasure.
01:43:40.000Was it because you didn't want to seem like a hole at the beginning or you just felt like, you know, he wasn't worth it?
01:50:44.000So your guy probably makes more than that.
01:50:46.000So you think with him being six foot one, making that kind of money, being in Miami Beach all the time, that he's only having sex with you when there's plenty of other girls that are just as attractive?
01:53:38.000Yeah, no, but it's not like a relationship.
01:53:41.000Like, we're not boyfriends, but I like to just fuck the same person because I already like how he fucks and we already know each other, so...
01:56:31.000Yeah, I would say there's a lot of girls, I mean, some girls even at this table that are capping lying just significantly about their body count.
01:56:37.000I would say, if you take an average 21-year-old that's somewhat attractive, bro, Easily 50.
02:00:29.000Ice513 says, I ask girls that they think the equivalent of a girl cheating on a guy is a guy letting his girl get attacked in front of him.
02:01:02.000So what he's saying is that a woman cheating on a man, right, is the equivalent to your man being out in public with you and allowing another man to assault you and not protect you.
02:12:37.000We haven't got to talk about the situation yet, but I already apologized to her, and I had a friend come over to help me talk to her, like a mutual friend.
02:12:48.000And I let her say everything, and she called me every name in the book, and honestly, I just had to take it, because I would feel the same way.
02:17:17.000Like, yo, dudes that got money and they have options and girls are going to throw themselves like, bro, He might get his dick sucked here and there and fuck another girl.
02:17:25.000But I'm just saying, like, for you to think, like, seriously, like, oh, I'm the only one, and I'm special, and he's never gonna want to have sex with another girl.
02:18:29.000You have no leverage with men like that.
02:18:30.000And that's why I don't date men that have hella money because I would rather be with somebody that I can grow with that can be honest with me.
02:19:08.000And I ask each and every single one of them, listen, bro, would you prefer to have four girls or one girl?
02:19:14.00099 of them, actually probably 101 of them, even though there's only 100 of them because someone's going to answer twice, is going to say, I'll prefer the four girls.
02:19:22.000The thing is, though, most girls can't handle the truth.
02:19:24.000So they just lie and say, oh, no, you're the only one.
02:19:26.000But the only difference between a dude that has money and a guy that doesn't is the dude that has money could be more honest if you wanted to be.
02:19:32.000But most guys aren't because girls can't take the truth.
02:19:34.000If broke guys are out here cheating, you think a dude that has money is going to be faithful?
02:20:55.000Okay, again, this is not talking about you.
02:20:58.000I need you to understand that there's a greater world than just yourself.
02:21:01.000So, what I'm saying is that, in general, women derive more pleasure from being around people, aka family, children, and being around loved ones, than a career.
02:21:10.000The thing is that you're still young and attractive, so you can go ahead and be in this facade of like, I'm going to chase my bag, blah, blah, blah.
02:21:17.000And your value goes down, and you're not as sexually appealing to a majority of men, you're gonna start to realize, holy shit, I need to find a guy now.
02:21:24.000Now, for you, it's like, I'm still young, and I can do whatever I want, but what I'm telling you is that we've had girls come on this podcast, late 20s, 30s, don't have a guy making $100,000 plus a year, and they're like, I don't give a fuck about a career.
02:22:29.000They polled men universally from all different walks of life.
02:22:32.000Men between 18 years old to 60 years old and they found women between the age ranges of 18 to 24 is the most attractive.
02:22:38.000Because that is when a woman is at her peak physically.
02:22:40.000They might not necessarily know her age, but she might have been 21, she might have been 22, whatever, but in that age range is typically when a woman is the most attractive.
02:22:50.000Because that's when she's the most fertile.
02:25:33.000Your money doesn't really matter to him.
02:25:34.000And all the hyper-competitive, successful guys, these dominant alpha males, masculine guys, whatever that women want that make that kind of money, we don't want to date ourselves.
02:25:42.000We don't want some hyper-masculine woman that's a go-getter.
02:25:44.000If a woman's a millionaire, I already know.
02:25:50.000And you want to take from the woman that has the nice things.
02:25:58.000So what about like the majority of households that are usually like two income households making you know you know below poverty levels to maybe a couple hundred thousand dollars a year right normal hot Mary got kids trying to live the American dream or whatever So you're saying like it's okay for them to like go out and step out and cheat or...
02:28:29.000So you only wanted to talk to interrupt?
02:28:31.000No, it's just, what are you going to do when your daughter comes to you and she says, and she's crying and she says, Dad, I'm in love with this guy, but he cheated on me.
02:29:00.000But you think there's something wrong with, obviously, a woman wanting to be independent and not having to rely on a man to take care of her the rest of her life?
02:29:18.000Like, if my son wanted to start a Jordan collection and get into getting designer wallets, I would tell him, son, this is a cool hobby of yours or whatever, but just understand, no girl's gonna give a fuck about this.
02:29:28.000Just like my daughter, go ahead and chase your career and make money.
02:29:31.000Daddy's here, but just understand, it's not gonna make you more attractive to the man that you want.
02:29:34.000Just like, I don't give a fuck if I'm attractive to a man or not because I'm successful.
02:29:38.000Like, at the end of the day, I want to be successful for myself.
02:29:40.000If a man finds that unattractive, I don't give a fuck.
02:29:44.000I'm not gonna be with you at the end of the day.
02:30:52.000No one puts makeup on and lashes and heels and wearing these uncomfortable clothing and going through all the hell of getting your hair done, sitting in a salon for six, seven hours for themselves.
02:31:00.000You do it to be more appealing to the opposite gender because it's intrinsically tied in you biologically to want to have sex with the opposite gender and procreate.
02:31:06.000The difference is that men want to fuck anything.
02:32:06.000Because they want you to look attractive.
02:32:08.000But if I literally could get into a club wearing my Jordans or my sneakers and some jeans, like some baggy jeans and a t-shirt, I would do it because I would be comfortable.
02:32:35.000So your actions and changing in itself means you accept the reality that you are competing and you are changing how you look to attract opposite gender and compete with other women for same set attention from opposite gender.
02:32:45.000Women need to stop lying to themselves, bro.
02:32:48.000You don't go through all this pain for yourself.
02:32:50.000You do it to compete with other women for the best man.
02:32:54.000And we go ahead and get cars and all this other bullshit to get the most girls.
02:33:38.000And I moved here and I wanted to use the opportunity of moving here to meet people that can help me with my business and what I want to do outside of being in school for nursing.
02:36:55.000No, it's not like offended, it just kind of like gives me the ick.
02:36:58.000You have reasonable, I get it, reasonable standards, boundaries, but the problem is that, like, for example, It can be something as small as, for example, you might stroke her better than I stroke you.
02:37:11.000And then be like, damn, I feel a type of way about that.
02:37:14.000And it hurts our relationship because you're feeling fucked up about it.
02:37:18.000So my thing is, if you were a girl that wants to do three songs with you, because you never know what might happen in that situation.
02:37:24.000So my thing is, It's just tough because your standards might actually mess me up with you.
02:37:30.000But I feel like those boundaries kind of help to like keep it to where maybe you like don't feel so.
02:37:35.000It's honestly just more like we don't set those boundaries.
02:37:37.000I mean, I don't know for me except I don't set those boundaries because I feel like insecure.
02:37:41.000It's more because like Honestly, I don't even know where I'm going with this.
02:37:45.000To be honest with you, by definition, you're actually being insecure.
02:37:52.000As I was saying that, I was like, I don't even know where I'm going with this.
02:37:54.000Because by saying him kissing her, him finishing her, these are all security mechanisms where you want to be able to maintain the real deep intimacy with you and your man.
02:38:02.000You don't want another woman to experience that.
02:38:45.000And it's crazy because I'm saying I'm selfish because I know that a guy I'm probably going to be with is going to end up cheating anyways and still get it.
02:38:58.000I've always said, generally speaking, most girls are not capable of doing a threesome.
02:39:02.000They'll say they can, but once they actually see you stick your dick in another chick and get pleasure, they're like, what the fuck is this?
02:40:00.000When we're in Romania, girls from, you know, where the women are more traditionally feminine and the men are more traditionally masculine, women understand that men have that innate need to have sex, versus here in the United States, women tend to be more, I'm equal, we can do the same thing, and they think that their man should behave the way they do.
02:40:15.000And what I'm saying is that, no, like, monogamy is what you're supposed to do as a woman.
02:41:01.000I know it would make me uncomfortable and I know I would not be okay with it.
02:41:05.000So, like, I would not even put myself in that situation to do that, honestly.
02:41:09.000Like, Yeah, but did you not try polygamy with your ex?
02:41:13.000No, I actually so like the situation was was that he wanted He wanted me to have a threesome with him and I said, you know, I can't do that with you I don't I'm not interested in girls and like I just can't like really do that for you So we went to therapy so he could go have sex with other women Every once in a while and I would be okay with it So it was really for me to have like a good mental state and for him to learn the boundaries That I required.
02:41:56.000What was the boundary that he crossed?
02:41:58.000What was the boundary that he crossed?
02:41:59.000Um, so like for me in the situation, I felt like, you know, if you're gonna do that with somebody else, you shouldn't you have a main girl at home that you should be paying attention to you should be putting your energy into her.
02:42:12.000So if you're fucking somebody every once in a blue moon, okay, but you cannot be communicating with them 24 seven like this is not your side piece.
02:42:21.000This is somebody that you fuck every once in a while and it's not the same person either.
02:42:48.000Are you aware that to keep a woman around sexually you have to entertain her to a degree because women don't want to feel like sluts and used?
02:42:54.000But that was the thing like if he if he wanted to do that and he wanted to entertain multiple different women be single be single exactly But you agree that he can hook up with other girls and a component.
02:43:29.000If you want different pussy, that's cool, but don't do this.
02:43:32.000She wants no emotional connection, but the problem is you're putting that standard on him when, like, that's what guys have to do to even maintain...
02:43:37.000Yeah, like, you can't, like, this is what I'm trying to say.
02:44:47.000That's literally what he would fucking do.
02:44:49.000I mean, that's easy for you to say when you're not paying for a date or spending your own time and effort and resources and planning it, but guys typically want to get something back on their investment.
02:44:57.000I mean, but he didn't even have money to spend on another bitch.
02:45:00.000Like, But he's still spending his time.
02:47:01.000Y'all are saying these things, but when I actually put your feet to the fire and say, okay, let's challenge the logic on this, it doesn't make sense.
02:50:22.000So, if guys feel like they still want to, like, have, like, sex relations with more than one person, why do you think that they choose to be in a relationship with?
02:52:17.000If I tell you that you're going to die, right, on a certain day and year, right, versus it happens suddenly, well, you'll probably be able to accept it and live a better life knowing that you're going to die on a certain day, correct?
02:52:29.000So I think that's what I try to prepare women for, like, it's going to come, so just be ready for it so when it does happen, right, you're not, it is in much pain.