In this episode of the Fresh Fit Podcast, we are joined by Jordan Sneeko aka the guy that has been canceled everywhere else on the internet. We talk about the new Chris is a bum t-shirt and much more! Fresh Fit is a hip hop and comedy podcast produced in Los Angeles, California. FreshFit is a production of Native Creative Commons and Native Creative Podcasts. All rights reserved. Used by permission. Please do not use this content without written permission from creator/producer/hosts. If you like what you hear, please HIT SUBSCRIBE on Apple Podcasts or wherever else you get your content. Also, if you like the show, please consider becoming a patron patron and leaving us a five star rating and review/subscription. We post 6 short videos per day on our YouTube channel, Fresh Fit Clips. As y'all know, we post six short videos a day on the FreshFit Clips channel. So if you are a fan of the show and want to support us, hit us up and let us know what you think of the content we post, we will make sure to give you a 5 star review and a review! We post them all the love they can do so! Thanks for all the support we can get! Cheers! FreshFit! -Tune in and tweet us and shout out! Timestamps: 0:00 - Who else is a loser? 5:30 - Is Chris a bum? 6:15 - Is Jordan a bum?? 7:20 - Is he a bum ? 8:00- Who else a loser ? 9:40 - Are you a loser?? 11:00 After Hours? 16:00 17:30 After Hours After Hours 18:00 Is he still a bum?! 19:30 22:00 Do you have a problem? 21:00 What do you like it? 26:00 Are you in a bum? 27:00 Can I talk about it or not? 32:00 Does he like it or don t he have a girl? 33:00? 35:30 Do you like his shirt? 36:00 Or do you think he s a bum 37:00 Don t I like it?! 39:00 I m sorry? 40:00 My thoughts?
00:01:49.000If y'all want to get the audio version of the podcast, go ahead and check us out over there.
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00:01:59.000All my Uber drivers and Lyft drivers, man.
00:04:36.000The last one I just dropped was Grant Amato, as you guys know, the guy that killed his family over a webcam chick in Bulgaria.
00:04:43.000W. Yeah, so yeah, if you guys don't want to be simps, man, make sure to check out FEDA and watch this type of content so you don't simper or kill your family over some webcam girl that doesn't like you.
00:04:52.000And then tomorrow, I'm dropping the Courtney Clenny What?
00:06:24.000So ladies on the panel, give us your name, your age, what we do for a living, dating status, and if you want to, of course, your body count.
00:08:08.000I mean, I'm on Instagram, Twitter, TikTok, OnlyFans, but yeah.
00:08:12.000That's where my main source of income comes from.
00:08:16.000And then what is your highest education level completed?
00:08:18.000I went to Illinois State University for two years, but it was a bachelor's program, so I didn't get my associates, but two years of college, basically.
00:08:26.000Okay, so high school is your highest completed.
00:11:58.000What's your highest education level completing?
00:12:00.000I have my associates in justice and legal studies and I did my first year of law but then dropped out because I figured out that the skill sets that I was applying to law could be equally applied to sales and I probably make more money and enjoy my life a little bit better.
00:12:14.000Okay, I'm assuming justice and legal studies is the US functional equivalent to criminal justice probably?
00:19:48.000This is interesting because I feel like it's become very convoluted.
00:19:51.000The whole thing about masculinity recently You know, there's the whole perception, you know, from the left that the family unit and a lot of the stuff that you're talking about, how it's actually quite toxic for a lot of men to be engaging with.
00:20:06.000And honestly, no hate to anyone who does OnlyFans.
00:21:52.000And like she was saying, we're losing the values of a family man and being a provider and being the, you know, carrying your family and like...
00:22:18.000Being weak, being promiscuous, not taking a stand in what you believe in, going with the flow, listening to your bros, just not having the values of having a family and caring for or wanting to care for a family and providing.
00:23:01.000I'm confused, because you sound like you agree with her, but it sounds different than her definition, because she didn't equate it to promiscuity.
00:27:55.000The idea of masculinity being bad is men who give away all their energy to girls like you who aren't making a lot of sense, who are just talking and you have your titties out, you're talking about cheating and whatever.
00:28:05.000That's toxically masculine because that's gonna be a detrimental part of a relationship.
00:28:11.000Hearing all of you say that you don't like, well, it's toxically masculine to cheat and to be possessive, to be jealous, to prioritize yourself is ironic when we're all here in Miami.
00:28:21.000Most of you are single except for you.
00:28:23.000Your definition was simp and your definition was a guy who cheats, but that's the guy that you're attracted to.
00:28:28.000So at the same time, you'll criticize a man for being mental cheaters or all this, but that's the guy that you're promoting because that's what you are attracted to.
00:28:59.000Maybe this is like a, like I'm not a hundred when you said that to me, like a simp.
00:29:03.000A sympathy man that gives a woman time, attention, and resources in an unreciprocated effort to get romance.
00:29:10.000So in other words, he's giving time, attention, money, resources to a woman that isn't necessarily doing her end of the bargain and reciprocating any type of attention or affection back to him.
00:29:40.000Would you, based on that definition, even he talked about the FEDA case, the guy, he ended up killing his family and giving all his money away to a random cam girl.
00:29:48.000That is a definition of a toxic sim, some guy who's not prioritizing his family.
00:29:52.000He's giving away all his attention and resources to a random girl he sees.
00:31:27.000Would you data symptoms I want to figure out?
00:31:30.000But you would you consider your boyfriend you have a good relationship going on you met him in Hawaii you're on a that's like a romantic really happy relationship yeah we were best friends for a year before we started dating that's friends yeah because I was I was actually in a relationship when we first met so and it wasn't until like a year about six seven months after we broke up that we actually started started officially dating you know you weren't really best friends right We had a little secret crush on each other.
00:34:57.000Like right now, you're getting so much attention.
00:34:58.000It doesn't even cross your mind to have kids, which is insane how many girls in their 20s think this way because they're getting some money and attention from Sims Online.
00:36:40.000I'm talking about OnlyFans and pretty much how social media has changed the perception of what females are prioritizing in their early 20s.
00:37:35.000Yeah, there's a lot of crooks in there because there's a very strong nexus between San Antonio and the Mexican border and drug trafficking and human smuggling and a lot of other illicit activities.
00:38:06.000If I get married to a girl and she puts on this mask and I get married to her and then she finesses me, cheats on me and leaves me, whose fault is it?
00:38:14.000Technically, it was yours because you didn't see the signs.
00:38:29.000Do I need to rewind the thing real quick?
00:38:33.000Just like you have the ability and the authority to pick the man that impregnates you, you also have the authority and the responsibility of vetting the man.
00:38:41.000Same thing with me as a man getting with a girl that's a scumbag who uses me.
00:38:45.000It's my fault for getting finesse because finesse is a two-part process.
00:38:49.000And also, if you were to get pregnant, just use birth control or no sex at all.
00:38:53.000A lot of people lack the resources to get those kinds of things, though.
00:38:57.000So therefore, you must pick the best man that has the ability to procure those resources.
00:39:56.000I lost it at 16, but what I'm saying is when I was in...
00:40:00.000When I was in seventh grade and everybody was sitting around talking about sex stories and I looked at them and I'm like, ew, y'all are gross.
00:42:31.000Would it be fair to say that dancing, earning a high amount of money, because, I mean, you can easily make six figures dancing, would you say that maybe played a role?
00:42:39.000Not the dancing in itself, but the money that you were acquiring and the connections you were making in the nightlife, would you say that played a role?
00:42:45.000I think me seeing the difference between me having a 9 to 5 versus me dancing, what opportunities I had, I guess it did open me to a whole new world that I guess I didn't have before dancing.
00:43:55.000I mean, maybe if you're in a super happy relationship and you waited, but for most people, that ideal losing the virginity thing is only if you're like religious, if you're waiting until marriage and then it happens.
00:44:04.000I mean, nobody, I feel like it's very rare to have a story where you're like, yeah, that happened under the totally ideal circumstances.
00:44:11.000So you don't regret it because having it within, I guess, in a religious context just isn't, doesn't make sense for you.
00:45:04.000For sure, because I mean, especially, I mean, what is a friend, right?
00:45:09.000Living in a city like Miami, like, yeah, you got friends, right?
00:45:12.000But I mean, there's a difference between real genuine friendships, like people that you've known, people you're comfortable with, people who don't look at you that way.
00:45:49.000This might be a controversial take, but I genuinely think that women don't offer much in friendships.
00:45:53.000I think men offer way more utility because as a woman, when you have a guy friend, he can offer you boyfriend energy, whether you guys are intimate or not, protection, rational advice.
00:46:03.000You can be yourself and not have to worry about feelings and emotions and say what's on your mind because you don't have to worry about some passive-aggressive retribution from him later on.
00:46:11.000But women don't offer necessarily I agree.
00:47:11.000I agree that for the generalization and the stereotype of a woman, yes, you're absolutely correct.
00:47:16.000But I don't think that everyone fits into perfect little boxes like that.
00:47:19.000There are some women who more so have more maybe masculine traits or maybe they provide utility in a way that other women don't.
00:47:25.000And vice versa, when it comes to guys as well, usually guys aren't able to be emotionally supportive to a female friend, for example.
00:47:33.000Oftentimes, but then, you know, give a guy like my boyfriend who literally raised his youngest sisters and was in that situation, he's able to provide that.
00:47:41.000So I think it comes down to life experience.
00:47:43.000But generally speaking, I do agree with you.
00:47:45.000Yeah, bottom line is that it's not a man's best interest to be friends with a woman.
00:47:48.000For you, it's great because you get utility from it.
00:47:50.000What I'm saying for a man, it's a waste of time.
00:47:52.000I feel like I benefit my male friends.
00:47:55.000What do you provide that another guy couldn't provide?
00:47:58.000Real genuine advice about women that are in their life that isn't based on, I guess, It's a sexist stereotype.
00:48:05.000So the usual rhetoric that most people go by, it's like I'm able to tell a guy like, hey, you're being played right now or you're being a simp.
00:48:11.000I didn't actually know that word until tonight, but in so many words, I can say that.
00:48:16.000So realistically speaking, do you think you have what it takes to attract a woman as a man?
00:50:17.000The only reason a man will sit there and be friends with a woman is for some type of hope holding out that they can get sexual access at some point.
00:50:24.000Women don't offer much benefit or utility to a man to sit there and tolerate the fuckery that comes with being a friend of a female.
00:50:29.000You can get all those same benefits being with a guy who understands your struggles more, understands your perils better, and can actually identify with those situations.
00:50:37.000Men and women live different existences.
00:50:39.000There are certain privileges that you have that I will never, ever experience, and vice versa.
00:50:43.000But for the most part, I would say women have more rights and privileges than men do, so therefore, I'm not going to befriend someone that lives life on easy mode when I live life on hard mode because they can't identify all my problems, unfortunately.
00:51:07.000There's always exceptions to the rule.
00:51:08.000The one time I've seen men and women be platonic friends to some degree, which I would argue it's more along the lines of associate because they're not hanging out without their counterpart being involved, is where...
00:51:18.000The guy is associates with the woman or friends, but they're doing that and they have to stay in that relationship because there's dire social consequences should they step out.
00:51:26.000For example, you are friends with your guy, with your boyfriend's best friend because he's his best friend.
00:51:32.000You would never do anything and he would never do anything because both of you would deal with serious social consequences if you guys were to hook up.
00:51:38.000That can be an example where there's a check and balance.
00:51:40.000But in general, when there's nothing in place to check y'all's social situation, most of the time, the guy wants to have sex is what I'm trying to say.
00:51:47.000Because women inherently benefit when they hang out with men, even from a friendship status, because you can still get the attention, the validation, the emotional stoicism to a degree, the male energy.
00:51:57.000Women yearn for that, which is why girls love male attention.
00:53:22.000I just had this teacher in 8th grade that just told us from the get There's no such thing as male and female friends like you can't be friends with guys like they always one one party always wants to fuck the other and ever since then and I grew up Muslim and my dad did not let me have male friends for a reason.
00:54:06.000I think social media ruins good women though.
00:54:10.000I mean, girls get mad at me for saying this, but realistically speaking, the reason why men and women can't be friends is because women don't offer much value to men really outside of sex.
00:54:19.000You don't get the best treatment from a girl unless she's your woman and she respects and admires you.
00:54:24.000That's when you get the best treatment from a girl.
00:54:26.000Otherwise, why would you be friends with a woman when you could be friends with a guy?
00:54:40.000And you know what I realized as well as we're like talking about this?
00:54:43.000My first close male friend was actually gay.
00:54:47.000And so, I don't know, maybe that did something in my brain where I'm like, yeah, guys are safe.
00:54:52.000They're close friends, you know, but it was a totally different dynamic with that first close friend, which is still is my best friend to this day.
00:56:54.000Like, more men come up to me, more men approach me, which is insane because I never in my life expected that, especially, like, I'm not huge, but I'm seven months right now and, like, It's just crazy to me how much more attention I get and love I get now versus before.
01:00:54.000for a successful marriage and or relationship the 29 year old with a child and divorced the 21 is immature the 29 you know has a kid has a kid so i rather the kid and she was divorced the 21 i mean if the 29 girl she's like humble noble and you know I will date her.
01:01:19.000Let's assume they have the same personality.
01:02:37.000You guys asked, last time you guys asked that question, you asked because if the 29-year-old had money, she had a multi-million dollar and she was single, a single mom.
01:02:46.000I would probably lean towards that because she's already established and then they can build together versus a 21-year-old that who knows what her real intentions are.
01:02:55.000If my son, because the other question was, the son was successful already.
01:08:06.000Like, your mom built up to be able to claim that she was independent and not need a man, versus men built up to have people be dependent upon them.
01:08:14.000We have different goals with money, which is why I say women can never be leaders, because they're not designed to share their resources with men, period.
01:08:20.000But men are designed to share their resources with women.
01:10:11.000Yeah, because here's the thing, what you're saying, like, that sounds great on paper, but when a man just gives a woman money, she doesn't respect him.
01:10:26.000Okay, so why not take that money and donate it to a charity versus a woman that made a mistake and had a child of a man she doesn't really like like that?
01:11:41.000He is what you guys tell guys to strive to be.
01:11:43.000Even the soft things he gets made fun of can be correlated to selling the dream.
01:11:48.000Alright, the reason why I don't like personally Drake, I think that he is sizably responsible for the generation we have of soy boys that are soft and wear their heart on their sleeve, which I disagree that men should not be emotional around women and be all in their feelings and all this other pussy shit that he's saying.
01:12:05.000I sit on the balcony and think about my feelings.
01:12:11.000I acknowledge he's a musical genius and he will go down in history.
01:12:13.000However, I don't think that's music that is productive for a majority of men.
01:12:17.000Being vulnerable and in your feelings and shit, that's great and what girls want to hear, but you shouldn't be necessarily following that advice.
01:12:47.000What was the worst way he tried to make a move?
01:13:11.000No, they're saying like what was the worst way a guy has made a move to try to get sex like it could be something like he didn't kiss you the whole night then all of a sudden he just tries to Stick his tongue down your throat.
01:13:20.000It could be something like that as an example I don't know.
01:13:24.000Honestly, nothing like that happened to me.
01:13:29.000No, I mean, no guy ever disrespected me like that.
01:14:35.000And that's why I'm saying, like, for a woman, there's so much more benefit to being friends with a guy because you can get what you need out of a man without fucking him.
01:14:42.000But men in general don't get value from a woman unless he's fucking her.
01:16:26.000I mean, yeah, that's happened all the time where it's like I'll be in a room and dude pulls out his dick or like tries to like instantly pull me onto him and I get to leave because no refunds.
01:16:35.000Like I've had that happen to me, but I just leave.
01:22:14.000Like, it's shocking that I'm even at your house right now, but I really had to use the bathroom.
01:22:18.000Alright, so if he had, like, showed you a good time, and then, like, y'all kind of, like, maybe he escalated a little bit, and then eventually you could have been open to it.
01:24:38.000So, is a guy that has, let's say, 99 bodies, 99 girls he's had sex with, is he compatible with a girl that isn't as successful financially, that has a body count less than 5?
01:25:38.000Do you think that a guy with a 100 body count, probably a millionaire, successful, charismatic, do you think that he wants to settle down with an experienced woman?
01:26:29.000It's because, like, how come a guy can smash a ton of girls and he's not considered a hoe, but when a girl does it, she's considered, like, a busybody.
01:27:21.000So doesn't it make sense now why there's a double standard because it's hard for men to get laid versus it's easy for women to get laid based on your own analysis?
01:27:28.000What's not attainable, right, is more valued.
01:27:31.000Something that's less attainable is more valued.
01:27:33.000So wouldn't it be fair to say that a man that can have sex with a lot of women is respected versus a woman that has sex with a lot of dudes is not respected?
01:27:40.000Because the man has to actually become attractive and become what women want versus the woman already is what most men want anyway?
01:27:58.000If you had the choice, would you prefer to be an 18-year-old that gets an inheritance of $1 million or a 30-year-old that had to work to earn the $1 million?
01:28:13.000So since you inherit the money, wouldn't it be fair to say that people aren't going to respect you to the same degree because you got the money up front?
01:28:45.000Hopefully we change our mind a little bit.
01:28:46.000Yeah, I mean, hey, man, I just wanted you to kind of see, because, again, I think a lot of girls say that.
01:28:51.000They get mad at double standards that don't benefit them, but I would argue that there's more double standards and benefits that women enjoy that men will never enjoy.
01:28:58.000Like, a girl can be 18 years old, a bimbo, and be hanging out with future with no future, versus a guy, he's got to be a millionaire, successful, add a lot of value to be in the same room as future.
01:29:07.000Right, I'm not saying it's good that women sleep with a lot of men.
01:29:10.000I think women should value themselves and they should not sleep around, but I don't know.
01:29:16.000Women just want to be equal to men, but...
01:30:49.000Would it be fair to say that you replaced your boyfriend because the men that came in or you had more access to better men through, I guess, your employment and your social circle?
01:31:12.000And then I asked you specifically earlier...
01:31:14.000Was a part of it in due to the fact that you had more opportunities, you had made more connections, and you had certain situations come into your, I guess, into your grasp that you might not have had access to before by virtue of your profession.
01:31:28.000So, by definition, you were literally around higher status people which showed you that there's other doors out there and you decided to take those opportunities.
01:31:39.000Not that I acted on, like, the opportunities necessarily.
01:31:42.000Like, I didn't jump into another relationship, but seeing what's available and, like, seeing, like, a different level of, like, man or, like, status of man.
01:32:13.000Oh, but it's nothing to do with whether he's successful or not.
01:32:17.000Because there's a lot of guys who I know who have slept with a hundred women and they're not anywhere near successful or respectable or anything that a real woman would actually want to be with.
01:32:25.000But if he's successful, yeah, what you guys are saying totally Would it be fair to say that if he's had sex with 100 women, he's doing something right?
01:32:32.000I know some bums who either they're lying about their body count, but I know some guys who either because they got a big dick or maybe they can spin a fancy word salad or I don't know what it is, but they're able to get women regardless of whether they are successful or not.
01:38:40.000Girls will complain about toxic masculinity and then also go fuck that guy on the balcony two days into Miami and then the guy giving you a hundred roses.
01:38:47.000He's a good guy, but he doesn't get anything.
01:38:50.000Because there has never been the opportunity to do that.
01:40:16.000So what was this extravagant date that he took you on?
01:40:18.000I mean, we lived in Maui, Hawaii, so I mean, it's everywhere is expensive that you go to eat, but I mean, we go to the really high-end restaurants.
01:40:27.000She shouldn't even think that was a gift.
01:40:28.000Bro, this is why women deserve less, bro.
01:45:37.000If you know that guys are going to cheat anyway, does it make sense to get really mad and then beat up some chick and choke her out at a club?
01:45:42.000No, and that's something I've learned and I've grown and matured entirely from it.
01:48:18.000So at the end of the day, like we were talking about earlier, usually people with success would want to mess with other people with success.
01:48:26.000So why would he lower his standards for somebody that isn't?
01:48:29.000But is it really lowering his standards when the male standard is different?
01:49:04.000The point is that women will sit there and say that they don't get dressed up for men, but the reality is y'all do.
01:49:09.000Whether you want to admit it subconsciously or not, women know that they need to maximize their beauty to get the highest level man, and they compete with other women for men.
01:49:17.000Or maybe because I'm a makeup artist and I like to challenge myself with different things.
01:49:21.000What about the titties that have nothing to do with makeup?
01:50:02.000Like, to be honest, if I'm going to, like, a women-only event, I'm working way harder on my makeup than if I'm going out for a regular day to be around men.
01:50:11.000Okay, let's ask some critical questions here because you guys are lacking critical thought here.
01:50:17.000Why are you wearing the makeup with all the other females there?
01:50:39.000Here's the difference between men and women.
01:50:40.000Men will admit that they're put on earth and want to have sex with women and that we go ahead and acquire a currency, status, and confidence, ambition to attract the opposite gender.
01:50:50.000Women, on the other hand, say a bunch of bullshit.
01:51:32.000Okay, maybe you've just dealt with a lot of girls that have low confidence, but people who have high confidence love to feel great about themselves.
01:51:41.000If women had so much confidence, like you're saying, none of them would wear makeup, but the makeup industry would literally go bankrupt tomorrow.
01:51:46.000The entire makeup industry is built upon female lack of confidence and insecurity.
01:51:53.000Makeup is literally to make up for a lack of aesthetics.
01:51:56.000I mean, it's showmanship and guys do the same thing in different ways, not to the same degree, but with their chains and with, you know, whatever else.
01:52:07.000Imagine if I said some bumblecloth stuff like, I go to the gym every day so I can go get admiration from other men in a room.
01:53:23.000Women don't realize why they have those assertions.
01:53:26.000Oftentimes, they literally don't realize because it's so programmed into us that they don't even realize they're doing it for male attention because from the time that they grow up...
01:54:02.000Let me actually, I have one bar to drop that the original reason why makeup became created originally blush on the lips and on the eyes is to mimic the way a woman looks when she's aroused.
01:54:13.000When she's aroused, her lips are blushed, her eyes go deeper, and that's what makeup is meant to represent because that's what is more attractive to men.
01:54:48.000So I get what these women are saying, but you have to realize that when you're calling them out, you guys are so logical in the way that you break down your arguments.
01:54:56.000Most people have never done that for them.
01:54:59.000They have no idea because it comes back to cultural conditioning and how they were raising their home and the way society is.
01:55:04.000It also comes back to the fact that women in general can't handle the truth, especially when it hurts their feelings or reveals unflattering realities about how women actually behave and mate-select.
01:55:14.000The thing is, is that what women are attracted to, right, versus what they're aroused by are two different things, and the things that arouse women are politically incorrect.
01:55:22.000If I told a guy, be somewhat toxic, don't text her back all the time, have other girls, ignore her at times, don't give her all your attention, this would be considered toxic advice.
01:55:31.000However, this is arousing to a majority of women.
01:55:33.000There's a reason why they say nice guys finish last.
01:55:35.000And the reason why we don't tell women the truth is because we want to have sex with you guys.
01:55:38.000This is why men rarely, if ever, tell women the uncomfortable realities of what y'all really do.
01:55:43.000The makeup industry exists so that you guys can be more attractive and compete against each other for the best men.
01:55:49.000Whether you want to accept it consciously or subconsciously, it is the main reason why girls do surgery, get BBLs, keep their hair long, wear makeup, etc.
01:55:57.000Your entire industry is predicated on female beauty which is to attract men.
01:56:02.000Do you know why those lashes were invented?
01:56:11.000It was created by a prostitute who had a bunch of girls working for her, and they kept getting cum in their eyes, and so they made these cum umbrellas to block all the jizz from infecting them.
01:57:57.000In the chat, type of one of you, if you have this scenario.
01:57:59.000It's so common for girls to go to this immediately because they have nothing else to talk about that you just know what to say and how to navigate it, Bob and Weave.
01:58:40.000Like, I'm, like, more focused on myself.
01:58:42.000I've wasted so much of my time on men already that I'm more focused on becoming a better me so that when I am able to meet the man's of my dream, that Translate living your life.
02:00:10.000So wouldn't it be fair to say that at 24 years old, you're probably more attractive now than you will be at 28 because men look for youth and beauty in women?
02:00:18.000And I only say that because looking at both of my parents, my dad is 60, looks like he's 40, my mom is 50, and she looks like she's in her late 20s.
02:00:25.000That does not refute what I just said whatsoever.
02:00:28.000You just said because I was going to look older.
02:00:30.000I have great genes, so I'm not going to look older.
02:00:32.000But the key word is that your mom looked younger, correct?
02:01:05.000Do you think you're actually going to have more value to a man when you're 28 years old, been out in the clubs longer and networking with individuals and having friends and more experience?
02:03:35.000Do you understand that the world doesn't necessarily owe you understanding and sometimes you're going to get messages and not the best way.
02:03:39.000It's your job to, you know, take out the BS. No, that's fine.
02:04:23.000I'm just gonna keep this a thousand with you.
02:04:26.000At 28 years old, you will be less attractive than you are right now.
02:04:29.000Society might not tell you this, you might not think that, but the reality is you will be less attractive to the man that you want at 28 years old because you'll be older, you'll have had sex with more men, you'll have had more experience, you'll more than likely have more baggage to some degree, and men don't find that attractive.
02:05:14.000Okay, do you think you're going to get the same fulfillment from adopting a child versus having your own flesh and blood with a man by your side that you love, admire, and respect?
02:05:22.000I mean, not into what we were talking about earlier.
02:05:26.000It's just something you won't understand and I don't care to speak or to help you understand my viewpoint.
02:05:32.000Oh no, I understand which is why I'm able to have this uncomfortable conversation with you because I've spoken to 1900 different plus women and I know for a fact That's fine.
02:05:38.000And one of them got jumped at six months pregnant.
02:05:40.000But one of them got jumped at six months pregnant.
02:05:42.000I don't want to have a child because the experiences I've already went through when I was a child.
02:06:23.000Yeah, so you were going to have a kid before, but now that negative experience maybe kind of shaped you differently, but it still doesn't change which hardwired in you as a human being and a woman especially that you want to have children and a family at some point.
02:06:35.000Okay, but not everybody thinks like that.
02:06:37.000Maybe I don't want to have a family and children when I get older.
02:07:48.000If you care that much about, like, the morality aspect there that you're doing it based on religion, then ending a life, if you're really that moral, feels a little bit heavier versus sex before marriage.
02:07:59.000That's how I... In her defense, it shouldn't be done in the first place if it was that bad.
02:08:03.000I completely agree, but what I'm saying is it's very different.
02:08:06.000If you're really taking the morality perspective, like, it feels a lot worse to be like, this is against my religion to kill...
02:08:13.000Abort a child versus fucking, which is very consensual in society.
02:08:17.000We went on a random tangent there and deflecting.
02:08:20.000The point I'm trying to make is that you're going to be more attractive now to get the guy that you want versus that 28.
02:08:25.000Because by the time you're ready to settle down and had your life experiences, you probably more than likely might not qualify for the guy that you want.
02:08:33.000Because men want girls that are younger, more firm, and less bodies or less baggage.
02:11:28.000Only women have that privilege to say something so nonsensical.
02:11:31.000Men, on the other hand, have to understand and be attractive to get women.
02:11:33.000Women don't have to do the other side, which is why women are able to say ridiculous things.
02:11:37.000No offense to what you said, but that's what a lot of girls say is I'm for me and blah, blah, blah and those other stuff.
02:11:41.000And they can say a bunch of things that men aren't necessarily attracted to and still attract men.
02:11:45.000That's like me saying, I'm going to go ahead and buy some heels and I'm going to do my thing and get a bunch of Gucci wallets.
02:11:50.000That doesn't benefit women, but I have the gall to think, I'm going to do this, I'm going to be more attractive to women when it doesn't help.
02:11:57.000Women focus on things that are insignificant to their sexual market value to attract men and think that I'm going to do what I want regardless because men are going to come to me.
02:12:05.000But men don't have that privilege because we actually have to become attractive to get you guys.
02:12:08.000You don't have to be attractive to get us though because we come up to you.
02:13:13.000Mental stability, like when he's having a rough day, come home to a clean house, no stress, just ease, like comfort.
02:13:22.000Really comfort is what I believe men want.
02:13:25.000Did you provide that to your baby daddy?
02:13:27.000I believe that I did, but he also caused me a lot of stress, which when there's not balance between two people, it caused me to act out, which again, I take accountability for.
02:13:39.000I'm not going to sit here and say I was an angel, but yeah.
02:13:43.000Did he cause you stress, or did you look for stress by looking through his phone and trying to catch him cheating?
02:13:48.000Was he actually providing stress to your face?
02:13:50.000Was he giving you problems face-to-face in the relationship?
02:13:54.000Yeah, no, I mean, girls would, like, come to me, so that kind of was just, like, A, embarrassing, and B, just, like, it's just annoying to have to deal with that.
02:14:02.000You know, females constantly coming to me.
02:14:57.000They caused a rift in your relationship because you couldn't control your emotions versus you should have told them, okay, thanks, that's less work for me.
02:15:57.000See, and now looking back at it, it's like, I kind of wish I, again, did react in a different mannerism, and I do regret that I let my emotions override my intelligence, but it is what it is.
02:16:09.000I've learned from it, and I've grown from it, and hopefully now I can, you know...
02:16:13.000So what are you going to do next time when a girl calls you and says, I'm fucking your man?
02:16:15.000Well, I don't have a man currently, but...
02:16:17.000Well, if you were to have one, hypothetically.
02:17:57.000When you're getting into the relationship and you agree upon, like, no cheating, blah, blah, blah, then that's blatant disrespect if that happens.
02:18:05.000But if I'm going into a relationship with a man that is taking care of me, his shit, he's taking care of his people, I feel like if you reach a certain status in life, you should be able to have what you want.
02:18:15.000So you want a guy that can take care of you?
02:19:39.000I'm saying like, say I get into a marriage, I get into a relationship, he wants me to stop dancing, he wants me to not entertain other guys, completely loyal, sexually exclusive to him only.
02:21:05.000And honestly, you're a pretty articulate girl.
02:21:06.000Just the brief conversations I've had with you, I'm telling you, just based off the conversations we've had, you can make more money than what you're making right now without selling your body.
02:21:14.000I understand that, but to get to that position...
02:21:41.000Or why would this prestigious law firm hire you when there's a bunch of other applicants that are just as qualified, that know how to dress for the position, and might have the similar or a better resume than you?
02:21:51.000What I'm saying is that you might not even get the opportunity to meet this guy because of your profession.
02:21:55.000Or I have more opportunities to meet guys like that because of my profession.
02:22:49.000You don't show up to the job interview in pajamas, hence you don't be a stripper.
02:22:53.000So, go back to my 9 to 5, make not even enough to live in my yard.
02:22:58.000If you want that caliber of man that's making that kind of money, that has that kind of status, that you actually admire and respect and has options, he's looking for a girl that isn't on a pole showing her vagina to random dudes.
02:23:30.000Honey, I'm telling you, there are so many things that you could do that you would make way more money than what you're doing right now if you applied yourself.
02:23:37.000But I do apply myself, and I've gotten myself to the position where I am right now.
02:23:40.000But you're applying yourself to the wrong things, and it's because you haven't met the right people.
02:23:44.000Maybe you've had different opportunities than me.
02:24:48.000I'm putting myself in better situations than I was.
02:24:50.000Two years ago today, I was making like $8 an hour.
02:24:53.000But what they're saying is you putting yourself in this situation might not ultimately be leading to the beautiful future that you're hurting for.
02:25:01.000I completely understand that, but you're not giving me any idea of what I should be doing.
02:25:06.000You're just saying I'm doing this wrong.
02:25:23.000When they view men as a commodity, you see that the question was...
02:25:27.000You're about a dream man and you just brought up 20k a month.
02:25:31.000When you start stripping, when you start viewing men as money bags, you're not going to be able to start viewing them as a person that could love you anymore.
02:25:39.000You're thinking about what you can get from them.
02:25:52.000I'm just saying, like, I need to be taken care of financially, physically, emotionally, in every single way for me to take care of you as a woman, for me to get in my full, like, feminine state and allow you to be your true self.
02:26:04.000I need to be taken care of, so that's not something I need to worry about.
02:26:08.000I won't have to dance if I'm being taken care of.
02:26:11.000She's just saying, for example, her lifestyle, what she wants to achieve, if you want her to start making money on her own, here's her price tag.
02:26:18.000I get that, but the price tag is a problem.
02:26:44.000Statistically speaking, women initiate 80% of the divorces.
02:26:46.000Men rarely, if ever, initiate divorce or breakup with women.
02:26:49.000Okay, well, let's just say from my experiences and my friends that have experienced stuff like that, if you don't have a backup, if you don't have a plan B, I want shit in my name.
02:27:05.000Okay, because are you aware that with marriage, you get 50% of the assets, you get alimony, you get all these different benefits, especially if you have a child, child support.
02:27:12.000This is where the woman has to be smart and lock down the guy and get married.
02:27:17.000Also, if he can buy you, he can buy another girl.
02:27:20.000I'm fine with him buying another girl.
02:27:22.000I don't care as long as I'm getting more.
02:27:24.000That's why you got to be the main girl.
02:27:25.000Yeah, I'm fine with being the main girl.
02:27:29.000But the problem is that for you to be a main girl of this caliber, a guy that you actually love, admire, and respect, he doesn't want you in return because of your profession.
02:28:05.000This job has presented me with so many opportunities that I did not have before, and you don't have to respect it, but there's men out there that will see that I'm just trying to make a living for myself, get myself out of the position that I was in, and it will be a part of my past.
02:28:35.000There's consequences for your actions.
02:28:37.000Fast money typically comes with slow problems.
02:28:39.000Whether I'm a drug dealer, a stripper, a porn star, whatever it may be, there's typically a reaction to your action.
02:28:46.000So though you're getting quick money and opportunities, these opportunities are fleeting because you're not meeting the men under the correct pretense.
02:28:53.000If I meet a girl on an online dating app like Tinder or at a busy nightclub that's loud, she's not going to respect me as if I had a yacht and she was a guest on my yacht because I met her under a different pretense.
02:29:05.000So I'm not telling you what you're doing is wrong or it's terrible, but what I am saying is that the caliber of man that you're trying to attract to take you seriously, to give you that kind of money, is not going to want you in return because you're meeting them under the wrong pretense.
02:29:18.000Just like me meeting a girl in a nightclub in general admission loud as hell when she's around her friends.
02:29:22.000If I met her on a yacht, She might take me seriously.
02:29:24.000How am I supposed to get to the yacht if I'm working a 9 to 5 in Port St.
02:29:39.000And that's why I don't take your excuse of I want to dance and get these opportunities because there's girls that don't do any of that stuff and still get the world given to them on the internet.
02:29:47.000You have Instagram, online dating apps, etc.
02:29:48.000Women have more opportunity with the opposite gender now than ever before.
02:30:00.000I'm just saying I'm doing what I need to do.
02:30:03.000You're basically trying to get into Harvard Law School right now, and you have maybe the resume for it, but you're showing up at the job interview in like a thong, expecting to get the job.
02:31:04.000So we made a list of the actual qualities that we would want in a partner and the things that we really wouldn't want.
02:31:10.000And for me, I did not think that he was entrepreneurial enough for me in the sense that he had a really high-paying job, but it was working for a high-caliber resort.
02:31:19.000I wanted someone who was more dynamic, somebody who was their own boss.
02:31:22.000And for me, he didn't think that I could be a mother.
02:31:24.000He didn't think that I was capable of rearing and helping to support a family.
02:31:31.000Because I am very, I guess, I wouldn't say masculine, but I've always been very businessman.
02:31:38.000And so one thing that I'll say is people can change.
02:31:40.000A lot of people say people can't change, but if you're actually focused on personal development and growth, you can.
02:31:45.000And that's one thing we've both been really focused on.
02:31:47.000So to be honest, we've both grown into each other's dream person.
02:31:50.000We've both developed in those areas that we thought the other person was lacking.
02:31:54.000I've grown in those more maternal areas and he's grown in his entrepreneurship.
02:31:57.000And so I feel like you never, like, you shouldn't judge someone in face value for sure.
02:32:01.000You should have those expectations and standards.
02:32:03.000But if you have someone who's really wanting to be a partner in a relationship, someone who's really willing to work with you on that, then you can get through those things.
02:32:11.000And that's something that we did together.
02:32:12.000I agree, but they have to want to change too.
02:33:06.000And that's one of the reasons why I'm scared.
02:33:08.000Like, I want to procreate because I feel like people who have our type of mindset should be.
02:33:13.000Putting children into the earth to help change the paradigm.
02:33:17.000But at the same time, looking at the current state of the world and everything that's going on, I'm like, do I want to bring kids into this world?
02:33:24.000You don't want to bring kids into this world anymore?
02:40:18.000If you were to wear a baggy sweater and baggy pants versus showing your boobs in a short dress, what's going to get you more attention from men?
02:40:28.000Showing the boobies, but I don't need the guy's attention.
02:43:39.000What about if we go to the pool and I'm showing my boobies and everybody seeing me and I'm in the pool but like he's gonna freak out because I'm in the pool showing my boobies?
02:46:24.000Yeah, because your answers before have kind of conflicted with that.
02:46:31.000I mean, I say it because at the end of the day, a woman is supposed to be a woman and a man is supposed to be a man.
02:46:36.000So if we're going to go by traditional, like, how it was back in the day, most of those relationships lasted a lot longer than most of these power couples nowadays.
02:46:47.000Do you consider yourself a traditional woman or one of these modern women?
02:46:51.000I would consider myself probably modern.
02:46:55.000What do you think will give you the best chances of landing a traditional guy?
02:46:58.000Being a modern woman or a traditional woman?
02:48:20.000And then the second relationship, I mean, I had to walk away again because, like, he murdered somebody, and I'm not going to sit there and hold you down.
02:48:28.000I would argue that those are not traditional relationships at all.
02:48:31.000No, but they took care of everything, literally.
02:50:31.000The Somali Nomad goes, Sisters, if a high-value man offered you two choices, be his second wife or his side chick, which one would you choose and why?
02:51:46.000I think he was looking for an escape because he already had his family and it was boring and she was focused on the kids and the artist's famous life and he wanted to have fun with a younger girl, immature, so he got caught.
02:52:03.000And that's what happened and he had no other option.
02:55:50.000If a man has two women, tells one the truth that he's out here having sex with other girls, and he tells the other one he sells sweet nothing, she's only one.
02:55:58.000So he lies to one and tells one the truth.
02:56:32.000That's like I'm at this position in my life, and I want this, and if you want to get into a relationship with me, you have to be okay with this.
02:57:04.000Wouldn't you be more hurt in the end if he said, yeah, I'm going to be sexually exclusive with you, and then you find out that he was cheating on you?
02:57:13.000Wouldn't you rather him tell you from the beginning?
02:57:14.000Of course you're going to be more hurt, but that wasn't the question.
02:57:57.000I feel like happiness can be a very selfish thing sometimes, but also when it's in the best interest for the family unit and people actually being the best versions of themselves and operating at a higher level of optimization or efficiency because they're not feeling held down or suppressed or they're not getting what they want, etc.
02:58:48.000So I always tell women become successful at your own peril because you're going to hurt your ability to attract the very man that you want because you've become the man that you want.
02:58:56.000Right, you become masculine when you're on that tier.
02:58:59.000So I tell guys personally, don't date a girl that makes more money than you.
02:59:04.000Don't date a girl that has more status than you.
02:59:05.000Don't date a girl that is more ambitious or confident or whatever than you because it's not even an insecure thing.
02:59:10.000It's going to be a pain in the ass thing.
03:04:52.000Aaron Angus goes, FNFW Fresh for giving shorty the hat.
03:04:56.000Sneeko, you are still my G. I confess someone is going to send her some money or support her OF because she has never gotten any gifts on Valentine's Day.
03:05:42.000TSK goes, rate the girl on your left, yes or no, if you're more attractive than her, one reason why, follow up around back, if you agree with that answer, no comments, if no, give two reasons why you're better.
03:10:45.000I have recurring investments set up in like every single, I have multiple apps going through a Fidelity account, crypto, like all of that shit.
03:10:53.000I have recurring investments set up and I also put in whenever like I have a really good night, I put like a portion of the profits into investments.
03:11:08.000But for me to get a house, which I've looked into, I've talked to lenders, it's going to have to be a bank statement loan as far as I've been told.
03:11:16.000And you need two years of bank statements for whatever they want you to make per month.
03:11:22.000I guess I can do more research, but that's my understanding.
03:15:18.000For the girls who have an OnlyFans, how would you feel if your future children or their friends found out you have an OF and discovered the content on it?
03:15:27.000Alright, so this is for the OnlyFans, girls.
03:15:28.000I would love to tap into this, because this is something that has been weighing super heavy on my mind.
03:15:33.000And you're about to have a son, too, so they're about to really roast him.
03:15:35.000Yeah, so I've been considering doing homeschooling and my overall goal in life is to invest in property all over the world and I want to be able to travel and live wherever I want while earning passive income from each of my properties.
03:15:51.000So I'm just going to be homeschooling my son whilst traveling, but obviously I'm not going to...
03:15:58.000But don't you have to be a teacher to homeschool your son or are you saying you're going to hire someone to homeschool him?
03:16:01.000No, you can homeschool without being a teacher.
03:16:04.000I mean, but I did go to school for two years for secondary education, so I could go back, essentially, if I really, truly wanted to.
03:16:13.000So how are they going to get social interaction with other boys and be able to, or how's he going to?
03:16:18.000Yeah, so through work, through sports, I really want my son to be immersed in sports and active in that mannerism.
03:16:25.000So that's how you're going to hedge against it.
03:16:28.000Yeah, it's something that's been weighing very heavily on my mind.
03:23:40.000Emorse goes, in 1882, London prostitute Gerda Peridil invented elongated eyelashes or cumbrellas to block semen from getting in working girls' eyes that are worn today as a common fashion.
03:24:12.000Gorilla Blanco says, would you girls rather have a marriage to a husband you are excited for to marry who will earn $2 million over 30 years or $1 million now?
03:28:48.000I think a lot of those guys are probably making $13 an hour and that's why they're saying that shit because they don't have the easy option.