Join us as we discuss the Johnny Depp and Amber Heard case, the Me Too movement, and why women should care about the way men treat women in the workplace. We also talk about how women are able to take advantage of powerful men and exploit them for their own gain.
00:02:30.000When those messages came out originally, and the allegations came out originally, it made Johnny Depp look terrible.
00:02:35.000I mean, he lost a deal with Pirates of the Caribbean, lost a lot of money, lost a lot of support, both financially and in his career, lost roles.
00:02:45.000And, you know, everyone believed Amber Heard, a.k.a.
00:03:06.000And for those that don't know, in California, if I'm not mistaken, it's a one-party state, so it's actually illegal to surreptitiously record someone.
00:03:13.000But he did it, and it was able to protect himself, because if he didn't have those recordings, who knows where his crew would be now.
00:03:20.000And to this day, I don't even think he's been paid fullback all the way.
00:03:23.000He just basically wanted to clear his name, but the damage was done.
00:03:25.000And I think that Johnny Depp case shed light on a very big societal problem we have, where women are able to exploit...
00:03:33.000Rich and powerful men for their own gain if they don't like the cards they were dealt after the relationship ends.
00:03:39.000I suspect that's what happened with Shannon Sharp.
00:03:41.000That's what happened with Andrew Tate recently with this girl.
00:03:47.000She hired the same exact lawyer that Shannon Sharp's accuser did.
00:05:30.000Because here's the thing with sexism and equality and egalitarianism that we...
00:05:35.000Kind of have right now in our progressive society.
00:05:38.000So the way it benefits women is because it basically evens the playing field, right?
00:05:44.000So what ends up happening with sexism is women are able to kind of double dip.
00:05:49.000They're able to enjoy the shivery, the gentleman-type treatment and, you know, be a lady when it suits them, but they're also able to go ahead and enter the workforce and behave like a man and pursue that.
00:06:01.000So they're basically able to double dip.
00:06:03.000And a big part of that is from the sexism, right?
00:06:06.000Because they're able to kind of get the best of both worlds.
00:06:08.000So sexism in itself inherently benefits women.
00:06:12.000Because if they actually have to compete with men, they lose.
00:06:16.000You literally see them, like professional athletes that are females, losing to high school boys in competition.
00:06:24.000So if we had to go ahead and just go off of straight meritocracy, we would have one sports league and women would never be able to participate.
00:07:00.000When I say women deserve less, it's for a multitude of different reasons.
00:07:04.000But I'll just focus on, like, let's say dating for now, right?
00:07:07.000So guys have this, you know, warped ideology that being a gentleman and being super nice and, you know, being caring makes you more attractive to women.
00:07:19.000But the reality is, you know, attraction and arousal are two different things.
00:07:23.000And by being a nice guy, what ends up happening a lot of times is you get stuck in the friend zone.
00:07:28.000And what I tell guys, and I talk about this in my book, guys got to give women less.
00:07:32.000If you look at the cover, you know, I have money there, relationships, social media, and time.
00:07:38.000And the reason for that is because we live in a deregulated sexual marketplace.
00:07:42.000And what that basically means is, assuming two parties have the age of consent, anyone can hook up.
00:07:47.000Now, we thought this would be a good idea in the 60s with the explosion of feminism and birth control, etc.
00:07:56.000When you leave women to their own devices, they date the best guys that they can get.
00:07:59.000And that problem's been exacerbated as they become more educated and made more money.
00:08:02.000So it's left a lot of normal guys out of the realm.
00:08:05.000So what I tell guys is you need a woman that's going to reciprocate that attention because we're in a position now where they have all the leverage and a lot of guys are over here courting and dealing with women that, quite frankly, don't deserve it.
00:08:18.000So when I say women deserve less, you know, there's other...
00:08:24.000Yeah. Isn't that just like a generalization, though?
00:08:32.000Because I feel like it's case-specific with every person.
00:08:35.000Like, when you say that, it's like you matching one archetype of men with another archetype of women, and then you making that the case for everybody.
00:08:42.000Well, I think the world operates on generalities, right?
00:08:45.000There's a reason why Braille isn't everywhere, because there's not that many blind people, right?
00:08:52.000Being a nice guy is going to set you back.
00:08:54.000Now, are there some girls out there that will reward you and give you sex and a blowjob for being a nice guy?
00:08:59.000Sure. But the reality is being a nice guy typically always puts you on your back foot.
00:09:05.000And I think in today's day and age where women have an enormous amount of leverage in a dating marketplace, guys need to kind of go in there with their eyes wide open so they don't put themselves in a bad situation.
00:09:13.000So generalizations are typically how the world works.
00:09:16.000Of course, there's always going to be anomalies.
00:09:17.000There's always going to be exceptions to the rule.
00:09:20.000But I think, in general, men need to operate from a position where they're mitigating risk and not investing too much up front.
00:09:26.000Because we have way more on the line than women do when we get in relationships.
00:09:51.000Like, if you don't go into a relationship just expecting to get that out of it, then there's really no leverage there if that's not something you really want out of that person.
00:09:59.000Well, a lot of the time that's cope, right?
00:10:00.000So, like, guys will sit there and they'll be taking a girl on her seventh date.
00:10:04.000They've been talking for, like, three, four, five months, six months.
00:10:06.000And they'll sit there and cope and be like, oh, no, like, I'm just building something up.
00:10:09.000But the reality is she's fucking some other guy, right?
00:10:13.000And the reality is that men need to understand that...
00:10:20.000They sell sugar and spice and everything nice.
00:10:22.000But what will happen is they'll open themselves up sexually to the men that they respect and are aroused by and then make the nice guy wait.
00:10:28.000Right? And they're able to kind of double dip doing that.
00:10:30.000So I think with guys, they got to basically push for sex fairly quickly in a relationship to ensure that they're not getting used.
00:11:05.000And it's been this way since the beginning of time.
00:11:07.000The only reason we're able to have this whole, you know, moral situation is because of modernity and the access to technology and how we've progressed.
00:12:55.000See, because I've interviewed maybe almost 4,000 girls on my show, and girls that say that they're lesbian or bisexual, I always like to ask them, well, if you had to pick one gender for the rest of your life, who are you going to pick?
00:13:05.000And 9 out of 10 times it's the men, and the reason why is because men have to provide value in a relationship.
00:15:13.000And the reason for that is because they're the weaker gender physically, right?
00:15:16.000So, since they can't make up for it with strength and brutality, if a dude's a little off, he's like ticking like this or he's a weirdo, women pick up on that immediately and like, okay, danger zone, danger zone, let me get out of here.
00:15:27.000So, that's why a lot of guys are kind of idiotic when it comes to stuff and they can't take the signs.
00:15:33.000So, correct me if I'm wrong, but is it that women deserve less or men need to know more?
00:15:41.000Men need to understand their value because that is actually...
00:15:44.000That's the biggest weapon when it comes to dating and intersexual dynamics is a lot of guys don't understand how much value they're bringing to the table versus the woman.
00:15:54.000A lot of the times, men chronically undervalue themselves while women simultaneously overvalue themselves.
00:16:00.000If you ask an average girl, hey, what kind of guy do you want?
00:16:03.000They're going to tell you six figures, six feet, six pack, good looking, good with dogs.
00:16:08.000Asshole that can put me in my place, but at the same time is a nice guy.
00:16:11.000Like, they're looking for the top 1% guy, but the reality is they're very average.
00:16:15.000So I think men need to understand that not only do you have to, the burden of performance is on you and you have to be attractive, but you also need to understand that you need to be superior to your girl in every way.
00:16:25.000Because women don't look for equals despite the fact that they say they do.
00:17:25.000So you say, let's say a guy, he goes into a day, he already knows what he wants, and...
00:17:31.000So in the scenario that you create, this guy, he courts her or whatever, they're dating, he's giving her everything that she wants, and she's giving it up to some other guy on the side or whatever.
00:17:40.000Yep. And so the problem is that she values herself more than this guy.
00:18:08.000Another guy will be saved as sugar daddy.
00:18:10.000And, you know, this is a very dark reality that a lot of guys don't understand.
00:18:14.000But we've gotten to a point now, thanks to social media and dating apps, etc., where women are able to basically have men in these certain roles where they can benefit them.
00:18:22.000And what I'm saying is, I don't want you being saved as Uber.
00:19:20.000But a lot of guys don't have that skill set, you know?
00:19:25.000Well, I mean, I think a lot of this, like, the dating philosophy in this time is really like spitting game and it's really technical, but...
00:19:36.000I think a lot of it is just connection.
00:19:38.000So when you actually look for that in somebody, then you can get rid of everything else.
00:19:42.000It doesn't become a competition or a thing of leverage or anything.
00:19:45.000Here's the thing you've got to remember.
00:19:46.000When it comes to connection, remember that 90% of guys can't even get the connection in the first place.
00:19:54.000But you're not going to have the conversation if she doesn't find you attractive up front.
00:19:57.000So whenever women talk about men that they like or whatever, or what they're looking for, or the personality traits he's supposed to have, they're talking from the frame of...
00:20:31.000It's not, though, because I know a lot of women who go off of the way a man carries himself or the way he speaks or the things he believes.
00:23:56.000Now, I know this is offensive to the left to point out these biological realities, but women are not attracted to men that they're equal to.
00:24:04.000They'll sit there and say that, but how they behave is two different things.
00:26:11.000I personally believe that if we can, that the Bible is the center point of all life because it is God's divine word and that the shirt only Jesus, when you focus on Jesus and you have Jesus centered on everything,
00:26:31.000not necessarily Jesus first, But Jesus-centered, everything is going to change.
00:27:02.000But when he talks about creation, man and female, he says it is very good.
00:27:10.000He takes it to another level that humankind, that his creation of man and woman is much different than the rest of his creation and that they are created in God's image.
00:27:28.000Being that they're both created in God's image, both man and female, how do you say that women deserve less when they're both created in God's image?
00:27:41.000Well, when I say that, I mean as in the man needs to be the leader, right?
00:27:45.000And the Bible obviously talks about this too, right?
00:27:55.000Depending on the context that we're talking about here.
00:27:57.000But in this regard, when it comes to having a family, being married, etc., it means that the man needs to be the leader, right?
00:28:04.000Now, I think the problem is that a lot of guys go into relationships thinking that their woman is equal to them and they can split the check and all this other stuff.
00:28:12.000I'm a big proponent of the nuclear family.
00:28:15.000I think men should be bearing that burden.
00:28:17.000But the problem is that we have this egalitarian mindset where We're telling men to treat their women as equals, and that's just not how it goes.
00:28:29.000If you have the responsibility of taking care of her, you should also have the authority over her to tell her what to do.
00:28:36.000Because, let's be honest here, all the Abrahamic religions know that when you leave a woman to their own devices, they fuck up.
00:28:44.000So now, talking about Abrahamic religions, we're going to focus on the Old Testament and how the Old Testament is based on Yeah,
00:29:01.000that's all I'm getting at when I say that.
00:29:08.000And I may be quoting wrong, so forgive me if I am quoting wrong.
00:29:12.000But the New Testament says that the husband, the man, is supposed to love his family and his wife the same way that Jesus loved the church.
00:29:23.000Yes. But see, we're kind of at the finish line right now.
00:29:26.000Before we get to that point, you need to identify the women that are even worthy of being a wife.
00:29:32.000And I like what you're saying here, right?
00:29:35.000Again, I believe in a nuclear family, and I think that as a man, it's your job to protect, provide, and provision.
00:29:40.000But the problem is that most women simply don't deserve that nowadays, right?
00:29:44.000A lot of girls are promiscuous, bad habits, don't respect male authority, but they want you to wife them up.
00:29:52.000You've got to vet women out in the beginning very hard.
00:29:55.000Because thanks to modernity and feminism, what's happened basically is all the training wheels that society had to keep things in place and keep things in check are gone.
00:30:12.000So since we have removed these social training wheels, what's ended up happening is we have this deregulated sexual marketplace where a lot of women...
00:31:35.000One of the worst things a man can do And this is going to be taboo but I'm going to say it One of the worst things he can do is wife up a whore So Because
00:31:49.000Because wifing up promiscuous women will absolutely destroy your life as a man.
00:31:54.000So my thing is you could pray for them.
00:31:56.000Obviously you wish well upon them, but that doesn't mean you need to invite her into your life where she's in a position where she could utterly destroy you.
00:32:05.000Especially with the way the family courts are run and the way that child custody works and alimony and everything else like that.
00:32:13.000Like, guys have to be very cautious and careful with who they marry.
00:32:17.000They need to reserve it for the women that are worthy.
00:32:20.000Because, you know, unfortunately, you know, it's not 1955, it's 2025, and women have changed a lot.
00:32:31.000I think that just comes back to, once you have your family, once you have the wife that you have, that God has set aside for you, that's when you lay down the law and you say, As for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.
00:36:14.000Anecdotal. Talking with almost 4,000 women now at this point.
00:36:17.000So, you know, and I think every guy here, right, though they might not admit it, would love to have a setup where they have a girlfriend that loves and admires them and respects them, obeys them, and he could go ahead and get other women and she's close on her end.
00:36:31.000Once you reach a certain level of status and you have your stuff together, you'd be amazed at what women will tolerate when you're that guy.
00:36:36.000So I want every guy to be at a point where if you want to be monogamous to your woman, you can.
00:36:40.000But if you also want to have other women, you can.
00:36:42.000And that's what I think keeps you attractive.
00:36:44.000Because women only get in line when you have other women in line.
00:38:39.000And this is how we've been able to build up the society we enjoy now.
00:38:42.000And it's only with modernity and feminism that women have been able to kind of do the things that they do.
00:38:46.000But at the end of the day, I would argue most women want a traditional man who's going to be a provider, going to be a protector, and adhere to these traditional masculine traits.
00:38:55.000Okay, so let me ask you a question about this, sir, if you don't mind.
00:38:59.000Sure. Would you say that over time, generally speaking, with how society has come, how culture has come, to where we are at this current point, are you content with how the world is today?
00:39:12.000Are you happy with how society has turned out?
00:39:14.000Do you have any issues with modern society?
00:39:18.000Well, I mean, look, obviously there's pluses and negatives, but I do think that modernity has led to the overall degradation of society, and it's because we don't prioritize the family anymore.
00:39:29.000So is the issue less that women deserve less, or that we should put more of a focus on traditionalism within the family?
00:39:37.000Well, that's kind of the same thing from before.
00:39:40.000Again, Men need to be in a different position now where they need to be able to vet out women properly for them to be their wives.
00:39:47.000Because the thing that sucks for guys now is that most women want to be married, but they're not necessarily wife material.
00:39:54.000Everyone wants to get married, but no one wants to be a wife is basically what I mean.
00:40:01.000Anyway, so yeah, that's what I think it is.
00:40:07.000Guys need to really focus on the family, but...
00:40:09.000Before they can even do that, they need to be able to go in with their eyes wide open with how society is and how we're playing the dating game.
00:41:12.000So this is what I mean when I say modern feminism poisons women.
00:41:16.000Women want a guy who's going to be a protector and a provider and a good man, but if he asks, hey, I need you to obey me in return, she'll say, I don't like that word.
00:41:25.000Well, you need to obey me because I'm the one that's responsible for you.
00:41:28.000So if I'm responsible for you, that means I'm supposed to have authority over you as well.
00:41:32.000Well, if you would like to have a conversation without putting words in my mouth where I said that I had a problem with the term obeying people, I just said that if you want other people to agree with you, maybe find a different term that would kind of incline people to agree.
00:42:38.000I'm very familiar with the fact that women, if they hear a certain word, they get triggered and they can't listen to anything else.
00:42:43.000But again, that's an inherent flaw in women because they're so emotional.
00:42:46.000But the reality is, as a woman, if you're in a relationship with a guy and he's doing what he's supposed to do, protect and provide for you...
00:43:21.000I was just trying to give you some advice that maybe other people would be more inclined to listen if you didn't come off so authoritative.
00:43:28.000Well, I think that's important where we're at a crazy point right now where we just got to start being honest and not tone police and worry about certain phrases triggering people.
00:43:36.000You know, the truth hurts a lot of the times, but this is what we need to do.
00:44:03.000This is actually a phenomenon I've noticed only with women.
00:44:05.000Like, when I tell guys stuff and I speak very direct, they don't care.
00:44:08.000They just consume the information, okay, that makes sense, and move on.
00:44:12.000They're not really too concerned with how it's said or the terms that are used.
00:44:14.000But with women, a lot of the times, if I don't use certain terms or speak in a certain tone, they get offended and can't take in the information.
00:44:21.000And I think if women were a bit more receptive to the direct nature of the things I say...
00:44:26.000They'd be a lot better off because I'm very honest about it.
00:44:29.000It sounds like men tend to obey you more than women.
00:44:32.000Well, I mean, if they listen to what I say, they'll probably do pretty well in life, yeah.
00:44:36.000If you want someone to obey you, why don't you just go with guys?
00:45:11.000I understand that you might be in a privileged position where dating and getting men to court you isn't that hard, but for average guys, it's not that easy.
00:45:17.000Well, I don't need anyone to court me.
00:47:11.000Well, you're just kind of talking over me when I make my point or answer your questions or trying to, you know, instigate some type of reaction, which is cool.
00:47:19.000Aren't you instigating a reaction by being here on a campus with people who are more or less going to have...
00:47:23.000Well, I'm just telling the uncomfortable truth that a lot of people don't want to hear.
00:47:26.000So, it's okay for you to be instigative and combative whenever you want to share your truth, but when someone wants to give another side of the truth, you want them to be quiet and you think that they aren't obeying you.
00:47:36.000Yes, because a man's job is to be a leader and be assertive and convey information.
00:47:40.000Women, you guys must be quiet and make sandwiches.
00:48:38.000Good. Alright, so I have a couple of things.
00:48:40.000First off, throughout history we've noticed that Western society was a lot more less developed whenever women did not have rights compared to now that women do have rights they are inventing things such as Ada Lovelace and coding and computers.
00:48:52.000And so how would you think life would be if we never got those rights and those things were never invented?
00:49:05.000We wouldn't have strange, progressive women that color their hair.
00:49:09.000We would just basically be better off as a society.
00:49:12.000So you would be better with no income?
00:49:14.000I find it interesting that women will name one or two inventions that they've made, but almost everything that we enjoy in modernity was made by men.
00:49:22.000Men are like 90% plus of the inventors.
00:49:24.000If we had to rely on female ingenuity, we'd probably still be rubbing sticks together.
00:49:31.000What about majority of education professionals being women?
00:49:34.000So, we are not only cultivating the young minds, but we are also fostering care and kindness in them.
00:49:39.000Well, that's precisely why college is a joke now.
00:49:41.000You know, as someone who graduated from college myself from a good school, the education system and academia in general has just become, you know, a libtard fest where people are operating not on reality and thinking that there's 99 genders.
00:49:56.000You know, this woke ideology, and it's kind of like the battlegrounds for that.
00:50:00.000So the universities have morphed from a place where you can get a higher education, become more intelligent, and get a job into the real world versus, you know, just pushing a political agenda.
00:50:08.000And this is why women are starting to dominate men in college attendance, because men are kind of catching on that college is a scam in most cases.
00:50:15.000Just to clarify, I wasn't speaking specifically of college educators.
00:50:19.000I meant more of your public school system educators, so your K-12 and things like that.
00:50:24.000Sure. So what's your particular question?
00:50:26.000Majority of those people that work in those education fields are women.
00:50:29.000So we are the ones that spend majority of the time with the children.
00:50:31.000And we are the ones cultivating their minds, making sure they're educated and they're kind people.
00:50:35.000So how do you think that would be if we didn't have rights to teach?
00:50:39.000Well, again, you guys are able to do that because men have stabilized and civilized the world for you to be able to do that.
00:51:07.000You? Well, because women can't lead anything.
00:51:10.000The only thing they can lead is to the end of the relationship.
00:51:12.000It simply doesn't work when women are in the power position in a relationship because women don't respect weak men that lead them, that they're leading.
00:51:20.000Okay, no, a woman's not going to respect a weak man, but if they're both equals, then there will be mutual respect between both of them.
00:52:39.000And you talk about how this is a good thing and it, you know...
00:52:44.000Benefits you and, I guess, women as well.
00:52:47.000And so on the patriarchy, I specifically wanted to ask you, how do you feel about the, like, negative implications and just, like, actual effects of it, both on men and, well, just mostly men?
00:53:13.000Yeah, and, well, I guess we could also visit, like, you talk about how, like, the nuclear family, and when that was at the height, was, like, I think, was it before World War?
00:53:22.000It was, like, before and, like, during, like, the World Wars, like, that kind of 1950s era.
00:53:28.000Yeah, yeah, I mean, okay, so what's your, I'm just trying to understand your question specifically.
00:53:34.000Yeah, so, you talk about valuing the nuclear family.
00:55:40.000So taking our society and the amount of people that it takes to run a fully functioning, well-endowed society, that takes people of all kinds of creed, right?
00:55:50.000Sure. So when you take away that matter of choice from both men and women and everyone in between, why do you then believe that that will be a better society?
00:56:03.000So you're mentioning this thing about choice, and I think that's an illusion, right?
00:56:07.000And we need to be honest here when it comes to women pursuing education and a career.
00:56:12.000What we tell them is, hey, look, go get a job, make money, enter the workforce, and then you can have a family at the end of that.
00:56:20.000And what ends up happening a lot of times is women follow this route, get an education, get money, get a job, get a good career, and then when they try to find a guy at the end of that, it becomes significantly harder.
00:56:30.000Because what's ended up happening is the woman has risen up in status, risen up in her income, and her standards are higher, so a lot of guys aren't going to qualify.
00:56:39.000And I think if we were honest with the women and told them, look, if you pursue a career, there's a very good chance that you might not get your first choice, I think that's a good starting point.
00:56:47.000Obviously, we can't just say, take all the jobs and that's it, but I think we need to start being more honest with women and letting them understand that you've got to pick one.
00:56:54.000You can't really have it all, and this is something that we've been lying to women about for decades, that they can have it all.
00:56:59.000And then they end up at 31 years old, unmarried, no kids, wondering why guys don't take them seriously, but it's because they didn't know the truth about this stuff.
00:57:08.000So then how do you feel about the same thing, but then happening towards men?
00:57:46.000So you're talking about how you have an open relationship.
00:57:49.000So you have you, well, the nuclear family.
00:57:53.000Yep. The stereotypical nuclear family is a loyal working husband who goes to the office or whatever, makes money, comes home to his wife, provides for his wife, takes care of his wife.
00:58:04.000You value highly the nuclear family, but you yourself are not taking a part of it.
00:58:10.000Well, I have a certain goal that I want to hit financially before I go ahead and have a family.
00:58:15.000I have obviously some business aspirations, and I want to make sure I get that.
00:58:20.000Out of the way so that when it is time to be a father, I can focus 100% on that and not necessarily be as tied up with work.
00:58:27.000And that's kind of one of the good things about being a man is that though we are not born with value, if we work hard enough, we can create value and that gives us a bit more time on the time clock.
00:58:37.000Versus for women, they have a fairly finite amount of time to be able to build a family.
00:58:42.000For me, I'm focused on hitting a certain financial goal first so that when I do have my children, money never becomes a problem again.
00:58:48.000But you talk about how women are born with an inherent value.
00:58:52.000Yes. I would differ that men are as well.
00:58:55.000And what you are doing, so the nuclear family, part of men's value comes from being loyal and being hardworking.
00:59:03.000And I feel like when you miss half of that, like what you're doing, you are then degrading in, sorry, not degrading.
00:59:13.000Harming, degrading, thank you, whoever said that, the nuclear family and the idea of this, because you take this very almost shallow and kind of hollow, because every person has issues, and the nuclear family is by no means perfect,
00:59:29.000and you are then kind of showing the issues with it by your own actions and by your own...
01:00:27.000And then eventually, obviously work towards a family.
01:00:30.000But I think the other thing, too, that's important is that men have to understand how modern women work.
01:00:37.000My last question here is, what's your goal with coming out to this college campus where you have all of these people who very obviously are heckling you and do not want you to be here?
01:02:27.000Something to actually applaud you guys for.
01:02:30.000But nowadays, I think people are waking up slowly but surely.
01:02:34.000And I think the landslide victory that Trump had...
01:02:37.000It proves that a lot more guys are starting to look towards the conservatism and the right wing versus radical left wing beliefs because, you know, it just doesn't serve us to be liberal.
01:03:39.000So I would say 100K per year, six figures a year, six months to one year of savings, be in good shape, have at least 50 partners, right, sexual body count.
01:04:21.000Well, you told me to go sleep with a bunch of women and date multiple women at the same time, which I did, and it significantly damaged my life.
01:04:28.000And it wasn't until I actually turned around and started listening to Jesus Christ that I was saved.
01:04:35.000Now, now I'm happily married, happily married.
01:04:39.000I have one child now with another one on the way, and I've never felt happier.
01:05:52.000I texted him before I came here, and I know pretty much everyone on your crew.
01:05:55.000But I was a heavy follower, and you actually inspired me to start the podcast, and I realized what I was doing was wrong.
01:06:01.000Yeah, so would it be fair to say that when you went through that experience, you were able to identify characteristics that you probably found as unredeemable and you probably wouldn't want to commit to, right?
01:06:23.000Yeah, but the thing is, is that you were able, and again, you're probably not going to notice it, but when you dated and dealt with all these women, you probably were able to identify characteristics that you were not fond of, or characteristics that would make a woman...
01:06:36.000Not a good candidate for a long-term relationship.
01:06:38.000And I think half the game is figuring out which girls don't qualify for marriage versus which ones that do.
01:06:43.000And clearly you learn the skill set on how to become attractive and get women.
01:06:47.000And then you're able to identify the things that you like versus the things that you don't like.
01:06:51.000And that only comes a lot of times with experience.
01:06:53.000Now look, if a guy can go ahead and find a woman as a virgin and be attractive and be able to understand how to navigate that...
01:07:02.000That's great in modern times, but the reality is a lot of guys don't.
01:07:05.000And I mean, even in your success story, you had to go through a lot of bad women to be able to identify your current wife as the one.
01:08:23.000It's one thing to be attractive in the sense of gaining sexual partners, but it's a completely different thing to be attractive to someone that wants to marry you and spend their life with you and have kids with you.
01:08:30.000Those are two completely different sexual attractions.
01:08:33.000If I walk in here looking like Thor, I'm 6'2 and shredded, obviously I'm going to be attractive to women, but it doesn't mean that that's a relationship that produces value for me and my family.
01:08:42.000And again, everyone is different, right?
01:08:44.000For you, it took some time, and you found God, and now you shifted.
01:08:49.000But the reality is I gave you the skill set, and then you choose what you want to do.
01:08:52.000That's up to you, and you made that decision, not me.
01:08:55.000I just taught you what to do, how to do it.
01:17:59.000Let's actually peel the layer back, right?
01:18:01.000Okay. The reason why you don't want to disclose it, as well as women in general don't want to disclose that, because women understand that their sexuality defines their value in the dating marketplace.
01:18:11.000So, even though women sit there, even, oh look at this, she's literally losing her mind.
01:18:32.000So when people use a term like whore, which is a pejorative term, that's attributed to women because you guys care about your body count because that limits your ability to find a man.
01:18:41.000But for us, the more partners we have, typically the more value we have.
01:18:44.000Because as a man, for you to be able to get a lot of sex, you have to bring something to the table, right?
01:18:49.000Men, men that have sex with a lot of women, typically have some kind of money, some status, they're charming, they have something.
01:20:42.000But yeah, men can't be whores because it is difficult for a man to be a whore, and whore is a pejorative term that is only attributed to women.
01:20:48.000Because it's easy for you guys to get sex, not easy for us.
01:20:51.000Men have to bring something to the table to get sexual access.
01:22:28.000If we're able to stay here until 5 like they originally told us, I'd be totally down to answer that.
01:22:33.000So, do you believe in free market capitalism?
01:22:40.000The thing is, I'm an American nationalist, and once it starts to impede Americans' ability to get jobs and we're bringing in H-1B visas or foreigners for work, That an American can do, I'm opposed to that.
01:22:54.000I think we need to focus on America first, America only.
01:24:43.000I don't know how many women you've meet like that, but not all women are the same.
01:24:49.000Well, the reality is most women don't want to be in a relationship with a guy who isn't competent, leadership traits, attractive, tall, good shape, etc.
01:24:56.000Women want a guy that has a step together.
01:25:12.000Yeah, I mean, it's kind of been shown throughout time that, you know, women have a pretty narrow attraction trigger base of what they like in men.
01:25:19.000And you have a narrow attraction trigger base, too.
01:25:22.000You just want women with zero body count and all that.
01:25:54.000So when I say women deserve less, what I mean by that is guys need to kind of go into a relationship and make women earn their validation and resources and everything else that comes with being in a relationship.
01:26:06.000So... I'm confused how women needing to show their worth equals them deserving less.
01:26:14.000Well, the thing is that a lot of women are very entitled and they think, oh, I'm just here.
01:26:18.000I want you to do X, Y, Z. And I need guys to basically understand their value and make women earn that validation because the problem is thanks to social media and dating apps and everything else, women have an abundance of options.
01:26:30.000And if you're just another sucker that's going to be a nice guy and...
01:26:33.000Spend your time, resource, energy on her.
01:26:35.000You're not going to differentiate yourself.
01:26:37.000So guys need to kind of go into relationships with a little bit more self-respect and give them less, especially up front.
01:26:43.000Okay, so the statement women deserves less is to encourage men to make women believe they also deserve less?
01:26:54.000Well, I think it's pretty much instilling a...
01:26:59.000It's a relationship dynamic where the woman needs to work to get its validation.
01:27:03.000She's just not going to get it off for just existing and having a vagina.
01:27:07.000So they still deserve good things, but only if they are good themselves.
01:28:22.000So we live in this gynocentric society that's wired women to think a certain way that doesn't adhere to a good relationship dynamic, right?
01:28:30.000They're taught, you know, pursue a career, have sex with as many men as you want, be sexually liberated, behave like a man, be masculine, be obnoxious, challenge him.
01:28:39.000These are things that men are not attracted to, but most men are not honest with what they actually are attracted to because they get a lot of hate, as you guys can see right now, right?
01:28:47.000I'm saying these things that a lot of men think.
01:28:50.000But, you know, this is quite a bit of heckling here.
01:28:53.000So there's a reason why men don't speak up about this because if they speak up about it, they're going to be labeled a misogynist, a sexist, an asshole.
01:28:59.000And a lot of guys think the way that I do, but they never actually express it out verbally.
01:29:04.000I feel like a better strategy for supporting men to have better standards would be to ask, like, I don't know, not say women deserve less, but give them qualities to look out for.
01:29:16.000But you're going to inevitably have to give them less to find those qualities is my point.
01:29:21.000I thought you said, like, in order for...
01:29:24.000In the vetting phase, when you're first seeing her, you're going to have to give her less to be able to, you know...
01:29:29.000Say the woman shows up with all these qualities.
01:29:44.000She can be a feminist, but also just adhere to more societally feminine roles.
01:29:48.000Well, the problem with that is that if she's a feminist, that inherently means that she thinks she's equal to the man, and that's problematic.
01:29:56.000I would say that's not quite the definite...
01:29:58.000Well, honestly, feminism is pretty equal to the man.
01:30:01.000Would it be fair to say that women want a man that's taller than them?
01:30:31.000And even the women that are the staunchest of feminists, Still want a man that's going to make more money than them, still be more competent than them.
01:30:37.000As a matter of fact, the more of a feminist she is and the more money she makes and the more status she has, the higher her demands actually go.
01:30:44.000So, you know, women will sit there and say, oh, I want an equal partner.
01:30:47.000But when you look at her partner, a lot of times he's actually superior to her.
01:30:51.000So, you're saying in order for women to deserve something, she must just have these traditional qualities and the man must also have these traditional qualities?
01:31:01.000Every man is different and looks for certain things.
01:31:04.000I think the thing is that he's got to kind of come in and understand this is how a lot of modern women are.
01:31:09.000If she has certain bad habits, you're going to have to deprogram that out and just go from there.
01:31:16.000Or some girls might not even be worth it.
01:31:17.000She has to obviously have potential, but if she doesn't have potential, then don't waste your time.
01:31:23.000A man, even if he's not these traditional masculine qualities, should still pursue a woman with all these traditional feminine qualities in order to fulfill his ego?
01:31:31.000No, I think men need to rise to the occasion.
01:31:34.000If you want a submissive traditional female, you need to be the dominant assertive male and you adhere to your duties.
01:40:52.000So when guys get attention or affection from women, we typically tend to remember that, right?
01:40:59.000Men might go through their entire life without getting a gift versus a woman.
01:41:02.000She's going to be courted, she's going to get simps on her all the time.
01:41:05.000Women don't really know how to appreciate male attention because you guys get so much of it, right?
01:41:09.000But us, on the other hand, men, especially when they've worked to be made themselves attractive, we know how to appreciate Women treating us well.
01:41:16.000But women typically don't know how to appreciate men treating them well.
01:41:19.000This is why guys get stuck in the friend zone, right?
01:43:55.000You've got to find a woman that's reciprocating with you.
01:43:58.000The problem is that a lot of guys put an enormous amount of skin in the game with women, and what ends up happening is the woman doesn't respect them, and she doesn't value that relationship.
01:44:07.000What I tell guys is they need to be in a position first where they're attractive in the prize, and then from there, you know, obviously make women work for the validation versus just simping on her.
01:44:17.000And then most of the time, like, you've, like, answered these questions, you've said, like, men like this, men do this, but, like, what men are, like, with you?
01:44:26.000Like, what other men have you met that, like, want the same things as you?
01:44:30.000Like, you're saying men think that women's careers don't matter.
01:44:33.000Like, what men are you talking to that think like this?
01:44:37.000Well, what I've realized is typically the more money and status a man has, the less he cares about these things.
01:44:43.000Now, are there some guys out there that want an egalitarian relationship?
01:44:47.000Sure. But I would argue that it just simply doesn't work.
01:44:51.000And we have the data to show that divorce rates are high.
01:44:53.000We have the lowest marriage rates ever.
01:44:56.000And it's come because of this whole equality thing.
01:45:01.000Because on paper, women say they want equality, but it doesn't really work in practice.
01:45:07.000But yeah, I mean, a lot of the guys that I know in my network, they want a woman that's going to, you know, do what she's supposed to do, which is be a homemaker, take care of their children, you know, be submissive and follow their lead.
01:45:19.000So when you get a wife, like whenever that is, like what would you want her to do like as like a career or whatever?
01:45:24.000You just want her to stay at home while you go and talk to people?
01:45:27.000Well, like, you know, being an aide, she can assist me with certain things, make things happen.
01:45:33.000My girl runs my real estate for me, so I don't have to worry about that.
01:45:37.000She runs my real estate portfolio, so that's something I don't have to worry about so much.
01:45:43.000So her doing all that for you, you're saying she deserves less than you?
01:45:48.000No. After a woman has earned that, that changes things.
01:45:51.000I'm saying up front when you're going through the courting slash vetting process.
01:45:55.000Alright, so what does she have to do to earn that for you?
01:45:59.000Again, every guy's going to have different things, but if you're asking me in particular, you know, be submissive, be pleasant, good cook, not a pain in the ass, assist me with things I got going on day to day.
01:49:21.000You guys are young, but as you age, right, and I'm giving you some real life stuff here.
01:49:27.000As you age, what's going to happen is she's going to put a greater necessity on security, and if you don't rise up to that occasion and become the protector, the provider, and everything else like that, there's going to be a high likelihood that the relationship will end.
01:49:41.000It's great that you guys met and are high school sweethearts and stuff, but there definitely is a brand of performance, and as you guys age, Her standards are going to lean more towards security.